Peer Ajmal Raza Qadri sb
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00:00Ahmad bin Ambal was a great Imam.
00:02May Allah have mercy on him.
00:04And at this time, in Medina and Mecca,
00:07in our time, in Medina and Mecca,
00:09the person who is practised on Fiqh,
00:11is Imam Ahmad bin Ambal.
00:13So, even now, in Mecca and Medina,
00:15the person who is practised on Fatwa,
00:17is Imam Ahmad bin Ambal.
00:18He was a great Imam.
00:19Musnad Imam Ahmad bin Ambal.
00:21I have his book of Hadith in 14 volumes.
00:24What a great person he was!
00:26He was a great Imam.
00:28He had millions of verbal memories.
00:31And the whole of Baghdad used to take Fatwa from him.
00:34Someone asked Imam Sahib,
00:36Huzoor, have you ever been troubled by giving Fatwa?
00:38He said, a wife came to ask a question,
00:40she was very troubled.
00:43A wife came to ask a question,
00:45she was very troubled.
00:47People said, Huzoor, a wife?
00:49He said, I had made a place in the house,
00:52a curtain used to hang,
00:53I used to sit on this side,
00:54if a woman came to ask a question on that side,
00:56she used to sit on that side and talk.
00:59In routine, women used to ask questions
01:01on the issues of divorce,
01:02on the small issues of the house.
01:05My husband has said this to me,
01:07so what is the solution to this?
01:09So my son came and told me,
01:11an old woman has come to ask a question.
01:13Pay attention to the matter.
01:15And pay special attention to what I am saying.
01:18He said, my son told me,
01:21father, she is an old woman.
01:23She said, I want to ask a question to Imam Sahib.
01:28He said, I made a place behind the curtain,
01:30I also sat down,
01:31so a woman came,
01:32and in a matter of words,
01:34she started talking.
01:36A woman has an order,
01:37if she talks to a stranger,
01:38she should not talk in a sweet manner.
01:40In a sweet manner.
01:42It is also an order for a man,
01:43if he talks to a woman,
01:44he should not talk in such words,
01:46which will arouse attention.
01:48He should talk in a thick way.
01:50My brother, take care of all these things.
01:53A woman talking to a stranger in a sweet manner,
01:55should not arouse any tension in the heart.
01:57This is forbidden.
01:58Imam Sahib said,
01:59she was an old woman,
02:00but she made a place behind the curtain,
02:02so in a matter of words,
02:03she started talking.
02:05Imam Sahib, I want to ask a question.
02:08He said, ask.
02:10He said, I was very ready,
02:12and Allah had blessed him with a lot of knowledge.
02:15He said, I was never worried.
02:17But this woman made him worried.
02:20They were righteous people.
02:22He said, I said, ask.
02:24She said, Huzoor,
02:26I do not eat bread from my hard earned money.
02:30I have a charkha.
02:32I eat from my hard earned money.
02:36I work all day.
02:38Sometimes when I have work left,
02:40I sit on the roof in the light of the 14th moon.
02:43So I eat from my charkha.
02:46Sometimes the army of the king passes by me.
02:50They have big red tents.
02:53They have light arrangements.
02:56The army of the king passes by.
02:59So it is a very big army.
03:01It passes by for many kilometers.
03:04So many times,
03:06suddenly its light also falls on my charkha.
03:09The problem is to ask,
03:11in that light,
03:12the interest I am asking for,
03:14is it halal or haram for me?
03:17Imam Ahmed bin Amal said,
03:19I cried in agony.
03:21The wife,
03:23no one ever asked her.
03:25So delicate.
03:27She said, I am a widow.
03:29I have no children.
03:30I work and eat from my hard earned money.
03:32I had to ask.
03:34O brothers,
03:35he also spent his time here.
03:37He also used to read the same Quran that we read.
03:40He also used to read the Kalima of the same Prophet that we read.
03:43He was also a follower of the same religion
03:45that these people follow.
03:46Where did we go?
03:47We don't care.
03:49Halal or haram,
03:50we don't care.
03:51But the attributes of the saints of Allah,
03:53Hazrat Imam Ahmed bin Amal said,
03:56I got dizzy.
03:58And I asked him,
03:59first introduce yourself.
04:01Who are you?
04:03Who are you?
04:05He said,
04:06Huzoor, leave the introduction.
04:07Those who come to ask questions,
04:08they have to give their data also.
04:10I told him,
04:11so leave it.
04:12He said,
04:13first tell me,
04:14who are you?
04:15He said,
04:16I am a follower of Hazrat Bishr-e-Afeeq.
04:19In Baghdad,
04:20when a Baba walks barefoot,
04:21even an animal doesn't litter in the streets.
04:24That pious Baba,
04:26I am his sister.
04:28Imam Ahmed bin Amal said,
04:29I started crying.
04:31I said,
04:32Sister,
04:33she is my sister.
04:35If someone else had come,
04:36I would have given the fatwa
04:38that you don't take the light by snatching it.
04:41It is permissible for you.
04:43But since you are a follower of Hazrat Bishr-e-Afeeq,
04:45it is not permissible for you.
04:47You don't do this.
04:49For you,
04:50it is a decision of Taqwa.
04:52You don't do this.
04:54Imam Ahmed bin Amal said,
04:55My wife left,
04:56but I kept crying all night.
04:58These were pious people.
05:02O brother,
05:04the miracle of a Wali is not that
05:06ever since I left,
05:07my shop has been doing well.
05:09Is this a sign of being a Wali?
05:11Why did you become a Wali?
05:13A Wali is a sign of Allah
05:15that He puts in you the pleasure
05:17of the love of the Messenger of Allah.
05:19Wali Allah's sign,
05:21Iqbal says,
05:22He is the Imam-e-Barhaq of your time
05:25who makes you free from the present and the present
05:29and by showing you in the form of death,
05:31he makes you shine.
05:33He makes life more difficult for you.
05:36He makes it difficult for you.
05:38He makes you want to die.
05:40He makes you want to die
05:41so that you can see the glory of your beloved again.
05:44He is the Imam-e-Barhaq of your time.
05:47One is the effect of conversation.
05:49That is also big.
05:50And the other is the effect of tone.
05:52The effect of tone also has its own special quality.
05:57Islam teaches us that
05:59your speech should be correct
06:01and your tone should also be correct.
06:06People talk in such a way
06:08that if you look for the meaning of their sentences,
06:11then the meaning is correct.
06:13The sentence they said is correct,
06:16but their tone was not correct.
06:20The second meaning is that
06:22your speech is correct,
06:23but your tone is not correct.
06:27And this tone has its own effect.
06:29My tone had pride,
06:31it was your right,
06:32you complained.
06:34Your tone has its own effect.
06:38It has an effect.
06:40It has an effect.
06:42And this small child,
06:448 months old,
06:47if you are talking to him,
06:49if you are loving him,
06:51I am talking about a small child.
06:53He is a small child.
06:55He is less than a year old.
06:57You hit him lightly.
07:00Lightly.
07:02But when you hit him,
07:03you hit him with a smile.
07:06You were smiling when you hit him.
07:08Even a child smiles.
07:10But you hit him on his face.
07:12You hit him as hard as you can,
07:14but you hit him with anger.
07:16He starts crying.
07:18A little while ago,
07:20when I hit you with a smile,
07:22you were smiling.
07:24You are a year old.
07:27And you are less than a year old.
07:29You are still not able to walk.
07:31Even a small child tells us
07:33that your hit has no effect.
07:35My father, my brother, my mother,
07:37your hit has no effect.
07:39Your tone has an effect.
07:42Your tone has an effect.
07:44Your tone has entered your heart.
07:47What you are saying,
07:49there is no sweetness in it.
07:51We have tasted it in the cold.
07:54These people,
07:55don't be shy.
07:56Let's talk sweetly.
07:58Some things have an effect.
08:00Some people have a beautiful tone.
08:02Some people are such that
08:04they don't say long sentences,
08:08but they meet us so lovingly
08:10that it feels as if they were
08:12close to our heart.
08:13So they took away all our sorrows.
08:15They took away everything from us
08:17that was troubling us.
08:19They made us happy.
08:21They didn't feed us such delicious food.
08:24But they met us so lovingly.
08:27They had such a beautiful conversation.
08:29Their tone was so beautiful
08:31that I became a follower
08:33after seeing you.
08:35Their style was so beautiful.
08:38Our tone was so soft.
08:40For example,
08:41when some people talk,
08:43there is a sharpness in words.
08:45There is a sharpness.
08:47And when they say,
08:48what did I say?
08:50This is a very beautiful style.
08:53Daughter-in-law does this many times
08:55that when she gives food to her mother-in-law,
08:58she brings the food.
08:59But the way she brought it,
09:01the way she kept it,
09:02the way she brought water,
09:05the way she gave medicine,
09:07when her son came home in the evening,
09:09his mother was crying.
09:10Sick mother.
09:11He said,
09:12Son, your wife is troubling you a lot.
09:14What does your wife say?
09:15She says, ask her, what did I do?
09:17She didn't do anything.
09:19She made mistakes,
09:20but she is absolutely right.
09:22She says, ask your mother,
09:23what did I say?
09:24She didn't say anything.
09:26She is absolutely right.
09:27She said even one harsh sentence.
09:29God forbid,
09:30she didn't say anything bad.
09:32She didn't abuse her.
09:34But the way she brought your food
09:36was so sharp
09:38that the tears of that old and sick mother
09:40came out.
09:41What happened?
09:43Maybe if you had spoken sharply,
09:45that matter would have been acceptable to some extent.
09:48But the way your tone did this,
09:50the way you are giving to a beggar.
09:52My brother,
09:53your style is right.
09:55The way you talk is right.
09:57He says,
09:58you are dealing with fate.
10:00But the way you meet is right.
10:03Some people are such that
10:05if they meet for a moment,
10:06the memory of their meeting
10:08never comes back.
10:09So that memory also removes the pain of the person.
10:11It refreshes the nature.