My Mum Your Dad UK Season2 Episode13 2024
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00:00Previously on My Mum, Your Dad
00:04I've come into the retreat lacking a lot of self-confidence
00:08The time's right to see if anybody wants me
00:12Am I going to be me that speaks too much?
00:15Am I going to be me that goes into myself?
00:17I'm nervous
00:19There's been a lot of years as a single mum
00:22and I would love someone to be there and just share life with
00:28I'll be 100% honest with you
00:30I'm drawn to you, I find you very interesting
00:34I think I would know by now if there was going to be something there
00:38between Dad and Steph
00:43You're amazing
00:45Honestly, you bring out the best in me, I promise you
00:48Honestly
00:50The retreat is very different to real life
00:52There are going to be so many obstacles
00:55that my mum and Danny are going to have to face
00:58Tomorrow you are all going to go on an amazing date
01:03your last date outside of the retreat
01:06and then you'll be reunited with your kids
01:09They will be letting you know if they believe
01:13that this connection can make it in the outside world
01:19Maybe Harriet won't give her blessing
01:22Because she's worried that it's not the right thing for me
01:27Because then Harriet knows me better than anybody else would
01:31I love you
01:50Morning
01:51Morning
01:52How are you?
01:53I'm good
01:54Did you sleep well?
01:55I did
01:57Oh, good morning
02:02You're the one I'm dreaming of
02:05Good morning
02:07Final day
02:09So exciting
02:12It's a big day today and I know I've got some big decisions to make
02:16but I feel more excited to get to see my mum
02:19and see how she is with Danny
02:22Can I have a cup of tea, please?
02:24It's the last day, so you may
02:27Wow
02:30Me and Steph, I think we've both enjoyed each other's company
02:33So today is all about finding out exactly where both Steph and myself are
02:39in this journey that we've had together
02:44It is the last day and I do have a really important decision to make
02:47so I'm just hoping that I make the right one
02:50A bit of boots
02:52Good morning
02:55Are you keeping it all to yourself?
02:58Please invite Vicky in
03:00Can I just have a little group hug?
03:02No
03:05How are you this morning?
03:07I'm having a few doubts
03:09You're still having doubts from...
03:11From last night
03:13Can I be blunt and ask, what doubts?
03:15I genuinely came in here to meet a guy
03:19be completely open, how you feel, do you know what I mean?
03:22I don't feel I'm getting that
03:26For once in my life, I actually think I'm worth that
03:29Of course you are, of course you are
03:31I do really like David, I think he is a great guy
03:34People can be great and you can really like someone
03:37but that doesn't always mean that they're right for each other
03:40This whole scenario of being watched by the kids and guided by the kids
03:47is going to be a massive benefit to you
03:49Yeah
03:50They all would have seen everything
03:52to be able to form a judgement on that and help you then
03:57I just think at the moment, because they have been so up and down
04:00I don't kind of want to go on what their emotions are
04:04When Mam's happy, I'm happy, when she's sad, I'm sad
04:07I kind of just want to look at it at the moment from a level playing field
04:11see how things go today
04:13and then make my decision on whether I give the blessing or not
04:18You've reached the last day, have your date
04:21see what it's like on that date
04:23I am super excited about the date
04:26but I just did want to share with you both those doubts
04:30before I go on it
04:41All ready for my date with Jenny this morning
04:44I'm really excited, it's just been some more one-on-one time
04:46away from the retreat, out in the sunshine
04:49and I know we're going to have good fun
04:52Oh my god, you look absolutely incredible
04:56Thank you
04:57Absolutely stunning
04:58She does look amazing
04:59I was very clear what the hell she wears
05:02Are you ready?
05:03I think so
05:05Oh my
05:06Oh wow
05:07Look at that
05:11Fantastic
05:15Thank you so much
05:18I'm really excited because it's an opportunity for us to be outside of the retreat
05:24and the biggest excitement will be the fact that it will be the two of us
05:29I feel a bit like James Bond
05:33Slightly older one
05:36Ready?
05:37I think so, come on, let's go
05:45Do you know I'd be happy even if it was raining right now?
05:48I'm not sure about that
05:50You know, with a little scarf over your head
05:53Audrey Hepburn-like looks
05:56ET
05:57ET
06:08My final date, looking forward to it
06:11What to expect, I don't know
06:14Yeah?
06:15Come on
06:16What do you think we're going to do?
06:18I hope we're going to do something that's romantic
06:22and a bit of adventure
06:25No, I can't wait
06:26I can't wait
06:28You're looking good
06:30Thank you
06:44It's gorgeous, couldn't have a better day for a last date
06:54What's happening?
06:56Wow
07:00Stop it
07:01That's so good
07:02Oh my God
07:03Has your dad skied a hike or anything to you?
07:05No, no
07:08I'm a little bit scared
07:09You're a bit scared?
07:10Yeah
07:13I didn't think he was scared of heights
07:18You look peaceful though, he's there
07:44Hello
07:45Hello, there you are
07:46Thank you very much
07:50I thought gold dust is on
07:52That could be an issue
07:55Oh, how cute, they've got a whole cinema to themselves
07:59What do you think we're watching?
08:01I don't know
08:02Horror
08:03Oh no
08:04No, I hope not either, because I'll be on your lap
08:08I hope we watch a horror movie
08:12I hope we're watching anything with Ryan Gosling
08:18Fair enough, Jenny
08:29Stop
08:30So it's like Ryan Gosling
08:34Hi
08:35Hello
08:37Hi, I'm Danny
08:38Hi Danny, pleased to meet you
08:40Just a moment
08:41Thank you so much
08:42So, first impressions?
08:44Physically, I think probably Christian and Danny
08:52There is more of a pull towards Danny when I don't know him
08:57One, get to know him
08:59Yeah
09:01You get to choose who you date
09:04This is it, this is where we started
09:06I will choose Danny
09:07Really?
09:08Yeah
09:10Did you say best of three?
09:12Yeah, but I'm more intrigued as to what the winner gets
09:15Tomorrow, a cup of tea in bed
09:17Cup of tea in bed
09:19Shall I just tell you how I like my tea now?
09:25Today's been one of the best days I've had here
09:28I felt like there's a bit of a connection starting to grow anyway
09:32Yeah
09:34Thank you
09:35You so wanted to kiss me
09:39It's the end of the night and I didn't want it to finish quite so soon, to be honest
09:43Oh my God
09:45Oh no
09:49I can't watch it myself
09:58They did kiss in the snug
10:00I knew it
10:03I am feeling scared about letting myself go
10:08I feel more reassured about the distance between us
10:12than I would ever have thought
10:14I don't like seeing you crying
10:16And you look too pretty
10:18and you smell too good
10:20to have tears
10:22Aww
10:25You're amazing
10:27Honestly, you bring out the best in me
10:29I promise you, honestly
10:33How beautiful that they got to watch back their journey
10:36Yeah, that is nice
10:38Considering how shakily things started
10:40I could never have expected my mum to have found such a kind-hearted, funny person like Danny
10:49How the connection formed is obviously very different to how normal connections form between two people
10:55They've sort of been enclosed in a bubble
10:59So I just hope this isn't just a honeymoon phase
11:03and things really do work outside of the retreat
11:19You look very nice
11:20As do you
11:21Thank you
11:22Let's do this
11:23Let's go
11:27I'm not meant to get my door seen as we're on a date
11:29You're too excited by the car
11:31I'm too excited about the car
11:32Come on, let's go
11:33After you
11:34Thank you
11:37Dad's driving
11:38Good luck to you, Steph
11:47So this is lovely round here, isn't it?
11:49Yeah, it's really nice
11:50So picturesque
11:56After you
11:57This year, I'm seeing Dad date in a different way
12:00He's not just dating off that initial spark
12:02and he's getting to know someone on a deeper level to make that decision
12:06This pub looks absolutely beautiful
12:08Yeah, it's nice
12:09It's very quaint, very sweet
12:12Maybe the date will give us a bit more clarity
12:14but I still do have my concerns
12:17Really nice
12:20Look at that
12:22That's nice
12:26And a lovely day for it
12:27Cheers
12:31It's really quite nice that your mum carries your grandad's hat with her
12:35Oh, honestly, it warms my heart so much
12:38Yeah, it's really nice
12:41This has been lovely spending time with you
12:43It's been good, I've enjoyed it
12:45Yeah
12:46So what are you going to do with Maisie when you get home?
12:48Oh
12:49No luck
12:50I can't wait to see her, literally
12:52You must be the same, obviously
12:54Yeah, I'm looking forward to seeing you
12:55You know what it's going to be like on the drive home?
12:58It's just going to be like that
12:59We've got lots to catch up about
13:01Yeah
13:03Oh, that's so nice
13:07So how did you and Mia envisage your journey in the retreat?
13:10Just thought I'd try something different, get out of my comfort zone
13:14Being in the retreat, I've definitely learnt that
13:18not every attraction has to be a romantic attraction
13:23and I know that may sound counterproductive
13:25but I think moving forward
13:27that will really help me make better choices
13:30Yeah
13:33So I think having come into the house, I came in with a completely open mind
13:39I absolutely love the connection we've made
13:43We have fun
13:44I think for me right now, I really appreciate the fact that
13:49I've met you and I feel a real energy, a good chemistry
13:54Fun, and I'll definitely see you, I think
13:57but right now, I think it's on a friendship level, isn't it, at the moment?
14:01Oh, hmm
14:03I'm the same with you
14:04and it's almost like, you know, he's really nice
14:06but it's like, where's the rum, rum?
14:09Yeah, no, exactly
14:10It's really, really odd
14:11What I can take out of this is that I will have another really good friend
14:19Oh, that's so nice
14:22Do you feel a little bit more at ease now, mate?
14:24Yeah, so much better
14:26The older we get, the wiser we become
14:31So, I would like to make a little toast
14:35to maturity, honesty
14:39Learning from previous mistakes
14:42to great friendship
14:44Great friendship
14:46Cheers
14:47And to the retreat
14:48Exactly
14:52That was really nice
14:53That was so nice
14:54I'm really glad we've got clarity as well
14:56Yeah
14:57Because it's been quite up and down, so
14:59Quite up and down, yeah
15:01Yeah
15:02I think what's made this journey for me is just seeing Dad's growth
15:05and, like, how much he now speaks about his feelings
15:08and the fact that he just gets involved in all these conversations
15:11So, even though he's not coming out with, like, a romantic connection
15:14I'm just really happy that he feels that growth within himself
15:18Yeah, of course
15:19And he can use that in the future
15:20Yeah
15:29I didn't anticipate it
15:31If you'd have told me from day one
15:33that we'd be sitting here right at the very end
15:36I would have never have believed that, at all
15:38I wouldn't
15:39I'm 100% convinced that I wouldn't meet anybody
15:42You've made the experience amazing
15:44I know we've spoken, or you've touched on the subject of what happens after
15:49Yeah, yeah
15:50I'm not going to jump to a conclusion that it's going to be easy
15:54No
15:55But it's not impossible
15:57So let's just do it
16:00I'm excited for it
16:01I don't see it as being a chore
16:04or I don't want to see it as a problem, the distance between us
16:08It's an adventure to come up to Manchester on a motorbike and
16:12You've never been, have you?
16:13No
16:14We owe it to each other to make the effort
16:18I want to, and I will
16:22It's sweet
16:23Yeah, I'm happy for them
16:25They genuinely want this to work out
16:28My mum's found someone that she's willing to take a risk for and on
16:33And that's just like, because of your dad and how great he is
16:36and how much she likes him
16:39Well, maybe put another film on
16:41Make our way to the back row
16:43Make out like teenagers
16:51It was a special day
16:52Driving around the countryside together felt romantic
16:56But the cinema felt really special
16:58It was fabulous
16:59I'd do it all again in a heartbeat
17:14Back down to earth
17:17Beautiful setting
17:18It is beautiful
17:19Are you going to feed me?
17:20No
17:22So what do you want to get stuck into first?
17:25That's a question I can't say on camera
17:28Oh my god, that's disgusting
17:33So what do you think the children saw in us to put us on that first date together?
17:40When we first spoke, I think them seeing us laugh with each other
17:45That must have been the reason why they put us on a date
17:47Yeah, and they both did pick up
17:49Do you know what I mean?
17:50That we were both uncomfortable with dancing
17:52Yeah
17:53And putting us on that date was perfect
17:55Perfect, perfect, perfect
17:57And I mean, we've come this far
17:59I think that's what we've got to remember as well
18:01It has only been a couple of days
18:03It really has
18:04Because they haven't been together for the whole of the experience either
18:09So coming in to the retreat, my children wanted for me that I would find my forever person
18:17I look at being 50 as just the start
18:20This is like a new chapter in my life
18:22And I want to have it with somebody that I'm going to have fun with
18:25They're going to be my person
18:27But I do then wonder if I hadn't have made that move
18:32You wouldn't have made a move
18:35And I think that did make me feel a little bit insecure
18:38As to whether or not you were actually doing this because you wanted to
18:45Or if you were doing this because you felt I had instigated it
18:52I spoke to my kids last year
18:54I explained to them that I haven't been, I'm not me
18:58I think Tiana stepped in
19:00Her putting me into the retreat was to give me an opportunity
19:04To just be someone that could actually get that spark going
19:08Yeah
19:11You
19:12Aww
19:16I really like the fact that your mum felt so comfortable with my dad
19:21To ask all the questions that she wanted to ask
19:24I am looking forward to seeing you on the outside
19:27Me too
19:28And getting to know each other even more
19:30There's enough adventures, going up in balloons, getting on planes, just doing it all
19:33Yeah
19:34Yeah, we'll find a way to make it happen
19:36Good
19:37The whole experience of romance and adventure in the balloon
19:41And then the opportunity to kind of talk about the future in that beautiful setting
19:48Yeah, I couldn't have asked for anything more perfect
19:56With Steph and Paul deciding it's just friendship for them
20:00And with no more decisions for their kids to make
20:02It's time for Maisie and Mia to head to the retreat to collect their parents
20:07Hello, hello
20:08Oh yes, here she is
20:11Hi
20:12Hello, hello
20:13Aww
20:14Oh, I've missed you so much
20:16Missed you too
20:17I've missed you so much
20:18Oh my god
20:19Mwah
20:24Get outside
20:26Aww
20:29Yeah
20:31It's been a truly amazing experience
20:35Highs, lows, bits in the middle
20:38I'm glad that Mia and I came here together
20:42I don't have any regrets and
20:44Yeah, it's been a really special time
20:47Aww
20:48This is my baby
20:54Hi
20:56Aww, you're amazing
20:57Lovely to meet you
20:58I've heard so much about you
21:00Have you had a nice time?
21:02Yeah, it's been good, thank you
21:04Paul is an incredible guy
21:06We'll be friends
21:08But I'm confident with the choice that we both made within the retreat
21:14To be friends
21:16Did you see how many times I beat your dad at basketball?
21:19I don't
21:20No, actually, let's not go there
21:21You were so much better than him at it
21:23You're so much better than him
21:25As you would have seen, she's so competitive
21:28I am absolutely delighted to be back with Maisie
21:33We've got a lot to talk about
21:35And I am a very happy man
21:37This experience just never ceases to amaze
21:40It really is a fantastic time in my life
21:47And just like that, I'm heading to the bunker for the last time
21:50As the kids have one more big decision ahead of them
21:54Hi guys
21:55Hello
21:57Oh my goodness
21:59God, this is crazy, isn't it?
22:01What was it like watching your parents go out on these mega dates?
22:04They were mega
22:06They were amazing
22:07It was the perfect ending to the week, really
22:11It's just like they got all the questions they needed
22:13All the answers
22:15It was just so nice
22:17OK, you have got one big decision to make
22:24The next time you see your parents will be in person
22:27Oh, I can't wait
22:29And you're also going to get to spend some time with their potential new partners
22:34And give them a grilling
22:37Good
22:38And then you'll all come together with your parents in their couples
22:42And it will be you that's deciding whether to give them your blessing or not
22:50So there's just one thing left for me to do
22:58Oh my gosh
23:00I feel sad about that
23:02It's the end
23:03End of an era
23:05So I'm going to leave you guys
23:07And good luck, have a great evening
23:11The distance between my mum and Danny
23:14And the responsibilities Danny has
23:17Aren't really the main focus to me
23:19Because I know that these things can be worked through
23:23You've been absolutely fantastic, all of you
23:26It's been a joy to get to know you
23:29All I really want to ask Danny is if he's ready to give 100% of himself to my mum
23:35To make things work
23:36You are really, really brilliant, all of you
23:39Thank you
23:42Love you all
23:44Love you
23:46Bye, bye, bye
23:50I do think I've got a lot to think about
23:53I'm really protective of my mother
23:55And I think I've got some big questions to ask David
23:58I don't want to make a decision that I'm not fully confident in
24:02And I also don't want to make the wrong decision for my mother
24:16Here we are
24:18It's weird seeing it in person
24:20I know, definitely, I just can't wait to get inside
24:22Yeah, I know
24:37Oh god, it's so nice in here
24:39I know
24:40Anyway, good luck mate
24:42See you later, bud
24:45Mum!
24:48How you doing?
24:49I'm alright, how are you?
25:05Oh man
25:06How you doing?
25:07How are you?
25:08God, I've missed you
25:11How are you?
25:13Yeah, I'm good, I've had fun
25:14You enjoyed it?
25:15Yeah, it's been fun for me
25:16I know it's been fun for you
25:17So I get to watch you
25:19I think I don't appreciate how much you've seen
25:24It's been amazing
25:26It's been lots of highs
25:28Lots of sadness, tears
25:31And who'd have thought that I would actually meet someone
25:36I know, who would have thought?
25:39And good luck with Mal
25:45Don't let him wind you up too much, okay?
25:52Ellis!
25:54How are you?
25:55I'm alright
25:57So lovely to meet you
26:00It's nice to see you in real life
26:02So you're just a TV character
26:04Yeah
26:06So you're just a TV character
26:14How you doing fella, you alright?
26:16How are you?
26:17Come here
26:18How you doing?
26:19God, you're a big lad
26:21You sit first
26:22I don't want to get launched
26:25Nice to meet you
26:26Nice to meet you
26:28It's been so weird and nice watching you and my dad
26:32It was one of those things where it was just such a short date
26:38But I was like, oh my god, I know
26:40It just clicks
26:41And we could even see that through the screen
26:43Especially I could
26:45Because it was the first time that I was like, that is dad now
26:48He's himself properly
26:52I noticed that just from this short time in the retreat
26:55You do speak
26:57And that's what I appreciate so much
26:59If there is a problem, I know that it's not going to fester
27:02Or sort of grow into something worse
27:05You guys will just chat about it and fix it
27:08It's not an argument between the two of you
27:10It's the two of you against the problem
27:12Yeah
27:14That's very profound Ellis
27:19I mean, my mum's at the point in her life
27:22She's had so much uncertainty in the past with relationships and people
27:26That I wouldn't want her to be hurt again
27:30I want to know if you're willing to take that leap of faith
27:35And give her some sense of security
27:38That you're going to be there for her and things like that
27:43I think your mum is so special
27:45I can't give you any guarantees other than I want to give it my best
27:49Yeah
27:51I still feel nervous about the two of them
27:55Obviously I'd like to see my mum happy
27:57But I know that everything isn't plain sailing
28:01It's on a good trajectory
28:03But you don't know what's going to happen in the future
28:13I can't wait to give her a hug honestly
28:15I'm so excited to meet your dad as well
28:22Bye
28:23See you in five, girl
28:28Kate
28:29Yes, you OK?
28:30Yeah, I'm good
28:34How's it all been for you?
28:35It's been good
28:36Has it?
28:37It has, how's it all been for you?
28:39Yeah, it's been a bit of a rollercoaster as you most probably have seen
28:42Do you want to talk about the one rule that we came in here with?
28:45Oh my gosh, do you mean that?
28:46I was literally, I couldn't even look
28:49I turned my head
28:50Yeah, but it was just a little pecking kiss then
28:55Hello
28:56You're just looking tall all the time
28:57Aw, right, do you think I'm growing?
28:59You can hold her
29:02You can hold her
29:03Right
29:04Wiser
29:07How have you been feeling about you and David?
29:10David is fabulous, do you know what I mean?
29:13And we get on amazingly
29:15I like the kind of pace of it
29:18It wasn't too much for me
29:19Yeah
29:21But I feel like there has been points where you've kind of
29:23maybe wanted a little bit more
29:25and he hasn't really met you
29:27Yeah
29:28And I have seen him change a little bit over the last couple of days
29:31Yeah
29:32But I think I really need to speak to David
29:34How's it been for you anyway?
29:35How's your whole experience?
29:36It's been really good
29:37You've made a lot of friends
29:38Yeah
29:39I've formed such a special bond with everyone
29:41Yeah
29:42Because we're so emotionally vulnerable
29:43because we're watching you guys be emotionally vulnerable
29:45and it's like we bonded together
29:49Good luck meeting Anne-Harad
29:50She's going to give you a grilling
29:52That's cool
29:53Yeah
29:55I love you so much
29:56I've missed you so much
29:58I'm just as pleased you're here now
30:00Love you
30:01I love you
30:13Hi
30:16It's so funny to see you in person
30:19It's so lovely to see you
30:21You look so nice
30:22Thank you
30:23You're so beautiful
30:24Thank you
30:25So are you
30:27Hello
30:28Hello, hello, hello
30:29Are you okay?
30:30I feel like I know you already
30:32Trust me, we feel the same
30:34First things first
30:35You've obviously seen more of me than I've seen of you
30:37So yeah
30:38We've seen everything
30:39Yeah
30:40So what have you found with the whole experience
30:42doing it with your dad?
30:43It's been amazing
30:44It's been really nice to see my dad kind of be
30:47like as emotionally vulnerable as I wanted him to
30:49Yeah
30:50We've opened up so much to each other here
30:52Yeah
30:53That we would never do on the outside world
30:55Yeah
30:56But the whole experience, like being with everyone
30:58I didn't realise we were all going to form such a bond
31:00I don't think any of us
31:01That's when Harad says like do you mean like it's only been days?
31:04And I'll be completely honest
31:05Yeah
31:06I made kind of like all the moves I think on your dad
31:08Your dad struggles in the same way as I do with his feelings
31:13These are all new connections for him as well
31:15It's like he doesn't know how to navigate the situation
31:17Yeah
31:18He was just kind of trying to find the middle ground
31:20where it was like making sure that you were comfortable
31:22but also making sure that he was comfortable
31:24That's like one of the things to me that I love so much about your dad
31:28Yeah
31:29He always makes sure that I feel comfortable
31:31He's more of an actions person rather than a words
31:34Yeah
31:35So anything that he's doing, if he's like giving you a hug
31:37or like if he's training with you in the morning
31:39My dad doesn't train with people
31:40He doesn't like training with people
31:42So when I saw him training with you I thought
31:44Aww
31:46Yeah, if he didn't like you
31:48Yeah
31:49He wouldn't be here now
31:50He wouldn't have put you into a situation
31:52that he knows that if he wasn't genuine
31:55he could end up hurting you
32:00I was actually kind of nervous meeting you
32:02Was you?
32:03Yeah
32:04Mum makes me out to be so bossy and scary I think
32:06but I'm not really
32:08You probably know I'm mum's oldest daughter
32:10I'm so protective over her
32:12and it has been probably difficult for me and T on some days
32:15So it did feel like at points
32:17we see you sometimes being really, you know, involved
32:20You know, seeming like you really like my mother
32:23and then on some days it's seeming like, you know
32:25it's not there anymore
32:27It's just blown hot and cold
32:28So I think for me it's, you know
32:30What David is the David that's coming out of the retreat?
32:33Is it the David that is really interested in my mum
32:37and, you know, going to give her everything she needs?
32:39Or is it this geezer, you know, David
32:41that feels he's a bit too cool to show emotion
32:43or a bit too cool to, you know, hold my mum's hand
32:46or put his arm around her?
32:48You've seen me over the last couple of days
32:50Oh, no, definitely
32:51Me and T have said, you know, we've definitely seen a change
32:53I think if it was that many years ago
32:56Yeah
32:57Yeah, it would have been a David
32:58that would have been too laid back or whatever
32:59I think where I am now
33:01the David that you've seen over the last couple of days
33:03will be the David
33:05Yeah, that's me now
33:10I think my worry is a little bit, David
33:12that on the outside world, you know
33:14T's not always going to be there to say
33:15Dad, you're to kick up the arse
33:17or you're not always going to have
33:19the other dads in here to be like David, you know
33:21Yeah
33:22Vicky really likes you
33:24For me, it's something that I'm willing to try
33:26I want somebody who's sure of my mother, you know
33:29So I think I just want to know
33:31how do you feel about my mother?
33:40MUSIC
33:48Are you going to be able to show my mother love
33:51in the way that she now wants to have affection?
33:56OK, if I'm honest
33:59when I'm looking deeper into her
34:01and I go near her
34:03I get a tingly
34:05MUSIC
34:08I'm feeling like a teenager, tingling
34:10and it's like, this is a nice feeling, I'm thinking
34:12I'm looking, I'm thinking
34:14I'm holding a woman who's attractive and intellectual
34:17and I'm tingling
34:19and I like that feeling
34:21I find that fascinating
34:23Yeah
34:24I want to get to know those other parts
34:26because there's something there
34:31I don't think there's any more questions to be asked
34:34I've seen everything that I can see
34:36I've spoke to my mum, I've spoke to David
34:38Do I still have my doubts?
34:40Yeah, of course
34:42So I'm really going to have to go with my gut
34:44and do what I think is best for my mother
34:47It was lovely to meet you as well
34:49and I loved you so much
34:51I'll see you soon, OK?
34:53See you soon, bye, bye bye
34:55MUSIC
35:04MUSIC
35:10After meeting Dad and Jenny
35:12it's made me realise how much responsibility
35:14me and Malik I have
35:16MUSIC
35:28This looks nice
35:30MUSIC
35:33There is quite a lot of pressure to make the right decision
35:36but I think from what I've seen
35:38I think I'll make the right one
35:40I think I know what I'm going to say
35:42MUSIC
35:44I have loved my time in the retreat
35:46It's a once in a lifetime opportunity
35:48and the cherry on the cake is that
35:51David and I do work out
35:54and the relationship goes really well
35:56but then I don't know which way Angharad's going to go
36:00What do you think they're going to say?
36:02I don't know what they'll tell me
36:04MUSIC
36:13Hello
36:15Hello
36:17You guys look nice
36:19It's so weird to see you all
36:22All together as well
36:24You all look lit up at night, doesn't it?
36:26Cheers, boys
36:28Cheers
36:34Shall we make our way to the table?
36:36Yeah, let's go sit down
36:40Hello
36:42Danny, Jenny, we already know you guys
36:45I still can't get my head round that
36:49Well, over this experience
36:51it's been really nice because
36:53obviously we've got the privilege
36:55us four, to watch you four
36:57and everyone else kind of
36:59grow their own connections
37:01and seeing you guys form a special bond as well
37:03has been like a really emotional experience for us
37:06You've all been so vulnerable
37:08and you've let us in to your lives
37:10and I think that's something really special
37:12and something you should be proud of
37:14because I know it's not an easy thing to do
37:16but, yeah, on to you guys
37:19Watching you both come from absolutely nowhere
37:24Watching you every day
37:26spend more and more time with each other
37:28get to know each other
37:30and seeing you laugh and giggle
37:32and act more yourselves around each other
37:36the connection has just been so strong
37:40but
37:42we're in sort of a bubble
37:44in a rare situation
37:46and I know there are things
37:48on the outside world
37:50that you kind of don't have to face in here
37:52distance being one of them
37:54There's no real quick answer to any of that
37:58there's no right or wrong
38:00the only answer is that
38:04if it's something that we both want
38:06and it's worth working for
38:08then it's got to be worth
38:10putting that effort in
38:12and I want to put that effort in
38:14and I don't even think the distance thing
38:16is going to be an issue forever
38:18but at first
38:20we've got the great foundations
38:22for what could be a really good relationship
38:25The only thing that we can do
38:27is just take one day at a time
38:30and just keep the communication up
38:34None of this is problems
38:40So after watching your guys' conversations
38:42about the future
38:44of what might change
38:46how hard it might be
38:48we can see that
38:50you are both capable enough
38:52to get through it
38:54Jenny you're great at saying how you feel
38:56when you feel it
38:58and I think dad you're really good at reassuring Jenny
39:00so just from seeing that
39:02you both work together
39:06Well it's an obvious answer
39:08and you have my blessing
39:10and you have mine too
39:12Don't make me wait like that
39:14I felt uncomfortable for a minute then
39:16Thank you boys
39:18Thank you
39:20I'm so happy that my mum has had this experience
39:22She's gone through some amazing changes
39:24This is really the main thing
39:26I wanted from my mum
39:28but the cherry on top
39:30is Danny really
39:32that she's found someone
39:34that she has such a strong connection with
39:36It does mean a lot
39:38It really does
39:40You've been on that journey with us
39:42and we've seen too much as well
39:44We've seen too much
39:46I feel lucky to have
39:48had this opportunity
39:50and to have shared it with
39:52such an amazing man as Danny
39:54I'm extremely excited about the future
39:56and that self doubt
39:58is behind me
40:02I think that for you guys
40:04I think that there is a lot of different
40:06obstacles that are to be
40:08faced outside of here
40:10So I think we've both watched you
40:12go on your own journeys
40:14Dee, we've seen you change so much
40:16over the days that you've been here
40:18Even you mum, right at the start
40:20I thought, oh she's staying in her ways
40:22She's not throwing herself into this
40:24But since
40:26being with Dee, I've seen you open up
40:28I've seen you being vulnerable
40:30and I've seen a side of you that I've probably never seen before
40:34But there obviously has been
40:36some concerns. We've seen you have some
40:38really rocky days where it feels like you haven't been connecting
40:42But then the last couple of days
40:44completely
40:46switched on mine
40:48I think the last couple of days have definitely given me
40:50more reassurance that
40:52there is a strong connection between you both
40:54and you have got a foundation to
40:56carry on building
40:58outside of the retreat
41:00Yeah
41:02On that note
41:04We're going to give you our blessing
41:08Thank you
41:10I want to see the kiss, not in person
41:16On that
41:20I just wanted to toast to everyone really
41:22that's gone through this
41:24really unique opportunity
41:26There's certainly been
41:28some really strong bonds
41:30some really strong friendships
41:32but we are continuing
41:34into exciting times
41:36and I think it's going to be
41:38a fantastic year ahead really
41:40I'm really excited and I want to thank everyone
41:42that's made this possible really
41:44To us anyway guys
41:46Cheers
41:48Cheers
41:50It's a lovely feeling actually that we're
41:52walking out of the retreat as a couple
41:54We met because we
41:56started to make each other smile
41:58and I think that's what's the important thing
42:00to me, that's what it's all about
42:02laughing and smiling
42:04I couldn't be happier
42:06about my dad's journey throughout the whole retreat
42:08He's been so much more than
42:10what I expected him to be
42:12and I'm super proud of him
42:18It feels like I've known you a lifetime
42:20You're coming to Manchester, yeah?
42:22Yeah, I thought I'd actually
42:24I can come to you, either next weekend or the weekend after
42:26Right
42:28Yeah?
42:32I think the future's rosy actually
42:34Oh yeah, 100%
42:36I can't wait
43:05How's your first time on the bike?
43:07Great, I loved it
43:09Want to have a go on the front now?
43:11Not quite ready for that
43:15Hi, come in
43:17Good news, salsa's a very easy dance to learn
43:19Don't be nervous
43:31I live just there
43:33I can see why you live there
43:36She wants so much to give you
43:38This love in my heart
43:40That I'm feeling for you
43:44Let them see we're crazy
43:46I don't care about that
43:48Put your hands in my hand baby
43:50Don't ever look back
43:54Let the world around us
43:56Just fall apart
43:58Maybe we can make it
44:00If we're heart and soul
44:02Are you ready to saddle up then, Dad?
44:05Yeah, I've kept it on
44:07I just hope I don't fall off again like on the bronco
44:09Nice
44:11Good boy
44:13I think I'm a natural, you know
44:25I'm glad that she's pushing Dad out of his comfort zone
44:27Even if he doesn't want to admit he's nervous
44:29Right, let's do this
44:31I'm not nervous
44:34Yay!
44:44Well done!
45:00I'm so glad you've got somebody to do these things with
45:02And we don't have to do them with you anymore
45:21All right, girl
45:23Looking good
45:25A bit overwhipped
45:27I'm actually horrified
45:33Nothing!
45:37There we go
45:39Beautiful, looking good
45:41A little starter all day
45:43It is really lovely to see that
45:45How lucky you guys are
45:47And how lucky we are that it's worked out for you two
45:49I know
45:51So when you get married
45:53You have to thank us
45:55I never ever thought I'd be living this life right now
45:57With all of you guys
46:03And we can build this dream together
46:05Standing strong forever
46:07Nothing's gonna stop us now
46:09And if this world runs out of lovers
46:11We'll still have each other
46:13Nothing's gonna stop us
46:15Nothing's gonna stop us now
46:29And maybe
46:32And maybe we can find the strength to love
46:34One last time
46:36One last time
46:38Let's take a chance
46:40On forever
46:42It's never too late
46:44To chase a dream
46:46Your heart knows what it feels, yeah
46:48Let's take a chance
46:50On each other
46:52I'll give you all that I am
46:54I'll do all that I can
46:56Take a chance
47:01I'll give you all that I am
47:03I'll do all that I can
47:05Take a chance
47:07I'll give you all that I am
47:09I'll do all that I can
47:11Take a chance
47:13I'll give you all that I am
47:15I'll do all that I can
47:17Take a chance
47:19I'll give you all that I am
47:21I'll do all that I can
47:23Take a chance
47:25I'll give you all that I am
47:27I'll do all that I can