Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 6

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Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 6
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00:01Today is one of the biggest days of my life
00:03Previously, I'm ready to be someone's wife
00:06I can't believe I'm about to marry a guy that I have never met eight more courageous singles
00:12I've got everything rolling on this marriage
00:15Tied the knot with a complete stranger
00:19Yeah, I'm cool you are man leading to revelations being celibate it was a preference if they didn't have kids
00:28That's gonna be a big problem to me an interrogation. Have you been married before?
00:34What size shoes you
00:36Probably received 40 million questions in 30 seconds and devastation. He openly said that you're not his time
00:44Like I just want him to like me
00:48Tonight
00:50For newly wedded couples
00:54Take the next step in their married life. It was perfect
01:01But for some
01:02So we were intimate on the wedding night and now it hasn't happened all week. It has made me feel like shit today was breaking point
01:10But I did find it really difficult
01:12The honeymoon isn't all plain sailing. I'm getting the feels. I just don't know what to say. So, how do you feel about me?
01:21You're actually annoying me now what what the air you're in the
01:27Yeah, don't speak down
01:34Wow
01:42Morning over morning wifey. It's the morning after Holly and Alex's wedding day
01:48You feel like it felt right being in bed with me last night. Yeah. Yeah, so we're good cuddles. I
01:58Honestly believe I manifested Alex everything I wanted in a man not even just looks
02:03Personality he has got everything. Oh, you never guess what's in here. Come on a honeymoon envelope you are
02:11Show me that bring it
02:14Shit
02:18One two, please go we're going potting
02:25I'm going to the Maldives
02:30I'd like to looking forward to seeing Alex's swimwear, but if you have to see it looks a lot better
02:42Oh, this is beautiful
02:44Oh
02:47Wow Tony, I love Barbados as our newlyweds touched down at their honeymoon destinations
02:58They can now devote 100% of their time to each other
03:07And begin the exciting journey of getting to know one another properly
03:14Good morning, morning
03:17Morning, honey, Polly and Adam are waking up in their alpine hideaway
03:22Bring them. Yeah, did you take it off? No, I've been taking it off
03:28To sleep him. So on the wedding night it did get a bit intimate
03:34Thinking about it. I realized that maybe I shouldn't have done it just because I don't know where my head's at
03:39Maybe I shouldn't have done it just because I don't know where my head's at
03:53There has been intimacy with me and Adam it happened really naturally
03:58And it's been really nice because I feel like again that really helped us be where we are
04:03It's been nice. It's been really nice. Yeah, it feels quite natural show in a bed, doesn't it?
04:07Yeah, but I definitely want to talk to Adam about the whole type thing that I found out about at the wedding
04:12I need to know whether that's still the case now. We've slept together. I hope it's changed things a bit. Yeah, I don't know
04:18I
04:33I'm actually in a space where I like the visual that I've seen
04:39Michelle is looking amazing. She's so gorgeous at the wedding. I was getting 40 million questions from Michelle
04:46But now she seems very chill which I quite like
04:50There's so much more like I want to learn so much more to understand
04:55But it feels authentic
04:59It's probably too early to start, you know
05:03Getting ahead of ourselves
05:05Takes a little while for me to trust somebody. I generally don't tend to feel for people very quickly
05:11There's a lot I'd like to get to know about Orson
05:15Marrying once yeah, I'm done like this is it
05:33That's quite nice nice
05:36Nice over 5,000 miles away in Barbados Sasha and Ross are settling into their honeymoon
05:42How you feeling after the wedding? Well, they may have your buzzing. Yeah, cuz Sean's making the smiles wait for a seven
05:48Oh, yeah, well, no, you're not it. Who is it the person I'm married to
05:52She says class
05:55I'm just a happy man. I'm smiling. She makes me smile. I'm attracted to touch her. Yeah, I mean she beautiful
06:03She's absolutely perfect
06:06So you got six sisters, right do you all get on another classroom assisted never
06:13God, I'm a gentleman
06:17It's lovely to finally get to know each other one-on-one with no one else around we've connected a lot
06:23Rossie's like really caring and really chivalrous. I'm one of them. I'm going Barbados with my wife
06:30amazing
06:32On their wedding day
06:35On the cheek
06:37After suffering heartbreak in the past
06:39Sasha made it clear to Ross that she's remaining abstinent until she finds the one. So I'm nine months celibate and
06:47I always go back to celibacy. So my longest time celibate was two years
06:53Yeah, so it's
06:55Takes a lot. I respect you. Don't worry about that. Yeah. Yeah, I
07:00Was very understaffed
07:03Yeah
07:05Ross saying that he doesn't mind to take this over. He's such a relief. Oh
07:11What's this meant to be another bed this is where y'all sleep
07:17I'm sick. Fuck you. I'm sleeping on that
07:20And now you can sleep it you can sleep in this one tonight
07:24Yeah
07:26Yeah
07:31It's been a big switch from only accepting a kiss on the cheek at the wedding to know like having Rossie my bed
07:37I've got to know I'm a little bit more at the pool today. Well, just feel really comfortable around you
07:46I'm sharing the bed with such a chill out
07:48I
07:55Respect sir, so take the lead. I'm going on now. We'll stay here forever
08:08You should probably go first
08:11Okay
08:13Thanks, no, oh I shouldn't have done that
08:19That's karma for you, I'm gonna get out of home stock. I need to talk to Adam about him saying that I'm not his usual type
08:26Find somewhere to perch. It'll be nice to know where I stand now with that now. We've had a little bit more time together
08:35At the wedding yesterday, I obviously got told from Alfie that I wasn't
08:40What you was expecting typewise
08:43Like because you go for like smaller
08:45stunning brunettes
08:53Well, yeah, like you're not my usual type like looks wise
08:59Tandem dark features like dark hair like that's like my normal type
09:04And you've got a ginger who's pale yeah
09:08That is the polar opposite I guess it is the polar opposite but
09:13You have got like things that I like, you know, I mean like you've got really nice eyes
09:18You have got a bomb. I can see why we've been matched because
09:23Our personalities are so alike about you are pretty much the female version of me. Yeah, that's good
09:28So do you think the attraction will then come from that then?
09:34Like
09:36I just want to have a good time get to know you on a deeper level and see what happens
09:42It's a bit of a tricky one at the minute
09:44I feel like I'm being very complimented with a personality, but it's like one of them
09:48I don't want to keep complimenting her if I don't
09:51Really really fancy because if I keep complimenting she's gonna think I'm really attracted to her and I just don't want to give her the wrong
09:56idea
09:58It's happening slowly. So that for me puts my mind at ease massively. I
10:03Feel reassured with what he's saying back to me
10:05But it would be nice to hear more about how he thinks I look rather than personality
10:11I know that there's sexual chemistry there on my side
10:15Not too sure that it's there on his side. So hopefully that part of reassurance comes when those feelings have developed
10:22I
10:32Feel so nice to actually like be out and like we could spend some time and have some food
10:38Things has been going really well
10:40So I just want to make tonight extra special for her
10:44This is important to me. Like how do you want to be loved?
10:48It's the actions
10:50Actions. Yeah and consistency and reliability
10:53Loyalty all about to me if I don't feel like I'm getting those things
10:58I just move on because why am I gonna open up myself again?
11:04To get half broken when you say again, what happened? Did you have your heart broken? Yeah
11:11She cheated I
11:13Thought I was in love
11:15Well, I was in love that I'd be unfair to say I thought I was in love because you know
11:19I was with this person for like five years and I try not to go back to that place again because every time I do
11:26You know those feelings come back to me. I really like five years ago
11:35If you can't get over being cheated on five years ago like you
11:38What
11:40Five five five years. It's it's still lingering, right? Yeah. Yeah, and any of my previous
11:48Heartaches, it's so far gone
11:52So, do you think that right now that you have that you are sort of protecting yourself because of your previous
11:59Absolutely, right. I've been so
12:02Awesome around you, okay
12:05I
12:07Know that one or two layers have been peeled back. I feel even more like
12:14Attached I took it hard
12:16real hard
12:18Navigating relationships is so hard. Honestly, that's why I don't even bother most awesome opening up tonight
12:24Telling me about his previous heartbreak. I don't think it's appealing or sexy. I
12:30Know that he is a sensitive guy now, you know
12:34I'm probably a little bit hardened. I'm older as well. I've had just a little bit more experience
12:41You can dust off heartbreak, you know
12:53What time to be alive a what a time to be alive
12:56Like literally what time in the Maldives Holly and Alex have arrived at their beach villa
13:04And we get to the resort we're waiting to check in he literally kicks his feet up on a sofa and goes to sleep
13:14He doesn't seem that excited it's irritating it's really getting under my skin
13:20With a partner I want to embrace these things
13:24Jesus Christ that anyone who's just arrived here like you'd be you'd be so happy and excited like I'm grateful and
13:30Special is to be with the person that you've just married you was just lay there asleep you feel
13:38After such a long flight and
13:41Then another flight like I just wanted to chill
13:45I'm a bit taken back that Holly's mentioning me falling asleep. Sometimes. I like to just zone out. I like to have my me time
13:52It comes across a bit rude to me like
13:55How we're sat together and you just roll over on a couch and go asleep I
14:00Don't like that. It's rude to be tired
14:03So what you expect me to do so, right? So is there not such fingers communicate read the room? I'm tired
14:10I'm if I'm sleeping that means I'm tired. Yeah, actually annoying me now like
14:15Right, that's fine, but this is all down to your being inconsiderate. What what the F
14:20Well, you're in the fucking Maldives and you want a nap on the boat, yeah, it's wearing me don't yeah, don't swear me
14:25Yeah, just got my honeymoon. You'd rather not do not be disrespectful
14:30I'm not I'm telling you don't be disrespectful and I'm leaving it at that
14:36Wow
14:51I
14:55Am shocked he's reacting like this
14:58It got my back up. I
15:00Don't deal well with someone who just instantly fires back because of my past
15:08How do we even move forward from this right now
15:10I
15:19Completely respect the fact you're tired because I feel the exact thing
15:24I shouldn't have spoken back to you the way I did. I should have left it. You swore me
15:29Instantly that was my defense mechanism because I was fuming. I
15:33Have been in a very very toxic relationship
15:41And in terms of kind of past relationships, what has that look like for you not good at all, okay
15:49It's a bit of a sensitive subject a relationship I was in I
15:55Was told that I had to look a certain way and that made me feel like I didn't make the cut
15:59So I've always doubted how a man will look at me. I never thought I fit into the criteria of being a girlfriend
16:10I just need
16:11Somebody who's gonna when we're in an argument
16:15Instantly go right. Let's not do this because this is so silly. Yeah, I
16:19think I just need to
16:23You good man
16:28Come here
16:31All
16:34Your good girl, no, no, and I always said to my dad
16:38It take a special someone to heal me. Do you know I mean, yeah, I'm not the type of guy that runs away easy. So
16:45my fire
16:46At the start of any relationship
16:48You're gonna have to get to know each other and that might mean stepping on each other's toes to find out what triggers each other
16:54It's a test of both of our characters to see if we can move past this
16:58But I do apologize
17:02So do I
17:05I'm so relieved that Alex comforted me when he understood that I actually have got demons these next few days. I think
17:13We'll show whether we can come back from there and learn from it or whether it's gonna put a bit of a stem on
17:19the relationship
17:28Do you like boats?
17:35Things are going really well with Ross at the minute, but I am a little bit guarded
17:39My celibacy isn't something I give up easy
17:43Just still to be cautious with myself. I just don't want to get hurt again
17:48Have you got any toxic traits?
17:51You like the perfect human being?
17:53Charlotte
17:56I want me to become a celibate. I
17:59Don't like giving my energy and my or to someone that's not worth it. I
18:05Just think it's a very sacred thing
18:08Yeah
18:13My one long-term relationship I was cheated on
18:18Yeah, so that's probably why I hold back a lot must be fucking all aboard. It was the worst
18:23I was in therapy like for like a year
18:25Have you ever cheated? I haven't cheated Matt
18:28Can I brought with five good? Yeah, can you make me feel? Why do I do? Why should I do that to a girl?
18:34I think that's the same with my dad. My dad grew up in a girl household as well. Yeah, and now he's really really loyal
18:42So it must be like a thing when you've like always had women to look after you maybe
18:49I
18:51Always find it so hard to
18:54Believe that a man has never cheated
18:56But then I look at my dad and my dad has literally been so low to my mom
19:00But I know that's rare and that means that Ross is rare
19:03You still have your water with me enough. I
19:06Think I'm very very comfortable
19:09Yeah
19:11I want you to be comfortable around me. Yeah
19:16Didn't go sweet
19:18That you think to like me
19:32Welcome guys to our Latin dance class return to each other
19:36over in Mauritius
19:38Orson has arranged a dancing class for him and Rishon one two sexy move and
19:44When we do intimate activities, it just brings me closer to her
19:49It makes me feel like that. She's definitely into me. I mean, I'm definitely into her. So
19:54Yes, it's it's good times
20:02So you did really well
20:07Well, I just wanted to make sure like obviously, you know last night we were talking and my ex came up
20:12So I just wanted to kind of like reassure you there's no connections in my ex
20:16So, you know, like I'm in a good headspace. Oh, okay
20:21I wasn't thinking that there was a connection there. I was just thinking that it's been a long time
20:26Yeah
20:27He mentioned that he'd been cheated on in the past and we spoke about it last night
20:30When it came up a second night, I was just like why he basically dug himself a deeper hole today
20:37These moments is like the moments that I really like, you know, I feel like we're getting closer
20:43I feel like I'm understanding you more
20:47I'm getting the feels
20:49I'm getting the feels. Oh, yeah
20:54I
20:56Think she actually didn't realize that I was getting the feels that quick. So it may be caught her off guard
21:02I don't know, but I know she's feeling the same thing that I'm feeling
21:09So, yeah
21:13I just don't know what to say
21:16for him to
21:17Declare he has feelings already. It's a little bit worrying for me. We don't really know each other that well
21:23So I have a little concern that he may not be genuine
21:33What a beautiful day in the Maldives
21:37Me and Alex have got to know each other so quickly, but there's still a lot in my bag that I need to unload
21:43He needs to know everything about me because it wouldn't be fair if he's only getting half of my story
21:49For me my routine at home is a lot different to the routine I'm doing now
21:56Not always fun and games like in the week. I am fixed as a mother
22:03I'm the type person that might want to do things midweek. You know, I mean and it's like
22:08Can I get you on a Wednesday night to go cinema or
22:12Them kind of things. The thing is
22:14If someone's worth being in my life, they will settle for them three days a week
22:19I am free on a weekend until I know that person is good enough to be around my children
22:25And then you will see me as well as them in the week
22:30It's something that I
22:33Didn't ever think about before. So it's something that I
22:36Ever think about before so it's something that I've got to think about now, you know
22:45The more I spend time with you the more I just I start liking you more and more and more
22:52Even though you fire you got a personality to it like yo
22:57Yeah, man. Thank you. I really appreciate that
23:02What you've just said then is what I've been waiting for
23:07for the last 10 years
23:10Someone can accept me for me. Yeah, and everything I come with then. Yeah, I'm told
23:16I'm a person who goes off vibes energy and his vibes and energy are enough to feel secure and protected speaking to him openly
23:24More time I spend with you the more care, but
23:28The more I get to know her
23:31The more she becomes more sexy to me and that is a rare thing and she is
23:37Yes, it's a beautiful adventure
23:40You say that again?
23:49For Sasha and Ross things are going from strength to strength
23:54There's been a lot more affection. There's a lot of cuddles lots of hogs
23:59Completely what I didn't expect to be honest you just could leave a lot quicker than I'd usually move
24:21Looks like we're doing massages back in Trentino. It's a new day and Polly is seeking a more intimate connection
24:28with Adam
24:35I
24:36Would like there to be more intimacy and there hasn't been any more since the wedding night
24:41And so I think a massage will be really nice. Are you ready for the best massage of your life? I'm gonna get over
24:48You know sit on me. Boom. Yeah, boom. Boom. Boom. Boom. I
24:53Definitely think it will help the physical and sexual attraction and hopefully kind of ignited something there because he said he was a bit of a
24:59Slow burn. I've seen you undressed more than fully closed
25:07Have you got into it yet? Yeah
25:12You can go a bit harder if you want I actually can't oh like my fingers I'm like really trying digging in
25:23You
25:25Said the best massage of my life
25:28The vibe in the massage is a bit rubbish. I'm gonna get off and do your shoulders. It just wasn't
25:34Where I would have liked it to be so I do really feel like reassurance is something I need from Adam at the moment
25:45So, how are you feeling now you've said that you're like a bit of a slow burn
25:50Like how do you feel like now is the candle has it been lit
26:02I've just gone all giddy
26:08My mind went blank
26:13I'm trying to wing it. I need to actually think don't I?
26:20I lose a pressure on me now
26:24It's making me feel a bit worried because I think that he should have been able to answer straight away
26:34I
26:37Would like kind of like the physical and all the attraction to grow more
26:45It's just something that we've obviously got to take day by day
26:50It's
26:52Not really like it's a part of me being a slow burner
26:54It's more of probably not being my usual type and me being as fussy as I am as much as I don't want to be
27:01Fussy, I've always been fussy. So that's why the
27:05Affection hasn't continued and we haven't done it again because I want to know where my head's at. I
27:12Think
27:15Intimacy is huge like the sexual side of things
27:20We're not at that stage yet
27:23It feels a bit rubbish that he hasn't given me a definitive answer
27:28I'm gonna get upset. I
27:31Definitely think it's bringing up insecurities because of previous
27:35relationships where I've been kind of
27:37Torn down quite a lot and I'm then going into this with a very good-looking man who I do fancy
27:42Today was breaking point, but I did find it really difficult
27:50I
28:00Know it's the halfway point of the honeymoons
28:04Yeah, go on then to sugar the letter. Yeah, and while some of the couples grow closer
28:13It's actually nice I look good in the view
28:20I
28:23Do this in Trentino Polly is attempting to reignite a connection with Adam I
28:32Definitely have been feeling a bit crap with everything that's happened
28:36So I really hope that today we can get to know each other more in a much more relaxed setting
28:43This is very scary
28:46Fucking shitting yet. I don't really like horses
28:55Adam I've never seen him look so nervous. He looked like how he did on the wedding day. Whoa
29:05You're right
29:07You're right
29:09Fucking scary just don't show panic. I just feel like I just not in control. I'm literally shitting it
29:19Not stopping I actually don't like this. This is scary for me. I can't relax and just swing off
29:39I
29:44Can finally relax
29:47My horse was like
29:50Feisty. Yeah, I used to do it a lot when I was younger
29:52Yeah, you did look confident on it when I got diagnosed of ADHD so young it was hard
29:58I was put into like horse riding dancing acting singing
30:03Like always something active to burn the energy and does it affect you now in any way?
30:08I've got like I'd say a little bit of OCD and the anxiety that comes with it. I do
30:14Try to match my personality to other people's. Yeah, so people please or so I can stay with a partner for longer
30:20Mm-hmm, but that's what I have to try and get out of
30:23What makes you nervous about this?
30:25I know that I do try and give and give and give to make sure that they then like me so I end up trying
30:31To overcompensate to make that person stay and it has it just hasn't worked out in my favor
30:38I've never learned
30:40When to stop right? I've never learned when to stop. I'm just like I'm in love with this person
30:45Therefore I will do whatever I need to do
30:48To make it work. I
30:52Have to just remember that I am my own person and
30:56If people like me they have to make sure that they like me for me
31:00Patience is such a big thing for me because I need to make sure
31:04That a partner really takes time to understand who I am as a person because it does take quite a while for me to actually
31:10become myself
31:13It feels really nice to actually sit and be able to talk to Adam about having ADHD
31:18I do really think that it's helped being vulnerable today. It's just another wall. That's breaking down gently
31:24You should never change yourself for anybody and you've just got to be yourself and that's the main thing and you are being yourself
31:31We needed something like this to get to know each other better on a deeper level a
31:36Personality is shining and a personality can make someone more attractive
31:40And I would like to think that I will grow more and more attracted to her
31:54That
31:56Ross goes above and beyond for me. You literally can't do more
32:01It's a crazy thing that I've met this man less than a week ago
32:06No one our honeymoon and things are going really well. Look I could never predicted this. I think we're perfect
32:16I have a surprise for you
32:19I'm stressed
32:36Sasha this honeymoon has been amazing the way you've communicated with me has been amazing and I am grateful for your support
32:44You might be small and every single minute I spend with you you make me a happy man
32:49I won't change you for the world your boy
33:00You shouldn't have to thank me
33:02Don't know because it's just the way it should be
33:05It's not an effort for me. No, I don't know
33:09never I
33:11really
33:12Appreciate
33:14Everything you do for me and like these little things
33:17Mean a lot to me
33:19I've got all this love and all this care all this attention from Ross and it's just good. Yeah
33:26It's just quite overwhelming. I'm a princess treatment. Oh, I'm just doing it to make you happy, you know, I know
33:33In
33:40Mauritius Rochelle and Orson are spending the day hiking
33:44But revelations from Orson last night have caused tension between them
33:49Last night when Orson said that he has feelings for me. I felt it was maybe a little bit too soon
33:57And then after dancing Orson mentioned that he's also an actor and a model
34:03The acting is a little bit concerning for me because it does make me question
34:07Is he genuine or is he just telling me what he thinks I want to hear?
34:12there is a
34:13What do we call it an elephant in the room?
34:18Like we had such an amazing time last night and then things just change
34:23You will need to understand
34:26Why you felt like something that is a hobby?
34:30It's something totally different so I guess you just explain to me like no, I just wondered
34:38How genuine you are, okay
34:43But you said certain things that for me I
34:48Would think really like you have feelings or you're catching feelings in such a short space of time. Okay now, right?
34:54We're still getting to know each other
34:59Like for me in that moment I say how I feel because that's the way how I feel because I am catching feelings
35:09If I didn't want you to know like I do acting in my spare time and stuff I
35:14Would have never told you I didn't want to not say anything and then what three four weeks in
35:21you find out and then you're like Orson you kept you kept that from me like I
35:26Am here for the right reasons
35:30So last night when you brought up again that you had been cheated on
35:35It did make me question how emotionally resilient you are
35:39If you can't get over
35:42Being cheated on five years ago
35:45People are cheated on all the time. I
35:49Wanted you to be sure that there's no X lingering in the background. I mean, I didn't even need to know
35:56Okay, I
35:58Don't want to hear sob stories. Okay, you know
36:05I've been nothing but genuine to Rochelle. I've been nothing but sincere. I felt a little bit blindsided. I
36:13Think I do have a tendency to be a bit paranoid at times, you know, okay
36:17I'm suspicious of people
36:20My intuition is telling me that he's disingenuous and my intuition is usually right
36:26Once I've got my back up, I don't even trust what I'm gonna do, okay
36:46It's the final day of the honeymoons honest
36:56How did you sleep I slept perfect you put me right sleep
37:02But Rochelle's concerns about Orson's integrity
37:07Has led to them spending their final day apart
37:11This morning. I woke up. We shall mention that she needs space. I
37:16feel like
37:17uncertain I
37:19Would really love for us to have a conversation
37:23Sort out our communication issues because I actually do genuinely like the girl
37:33In the last few years I've been fucked over quite a bit
37:36I don't like liars and I'm not saying Orson is an out-and-out liar, but I do question just how genuine he really is
37:44Things have moved so quickly
37:46I do feel that I haven't been given enough time to really process how I feel about this marriage right now
37:52It's just too early for me to know if I fully trust
37:56anything right now
38:15You
38:25What a journey we've had on this honeymoon, I know
38:29No relationships real until you've had your first argument, and I'm glad it happened when it did
38:35It's the way we dealt with the argument for me like for sure we sat we spoke
38:39Mm-hmm
38:42But are you looking flames tonight
38:45You've got all the other things you're taking all the other boxes that show that you are like a ride or die kind of
38:51smiling
38:53My face is just getting bigger
38:57It's cute carry on
38:59And I just one thing I love about you is how real you are
39:01You know to the bone you wear who you are on your sleeve, and that's me take it or leave it self loves cake
39:07Yeah, I
39:08don't always
39:10Feel like I look like everybody else, but as long as I love myself. Yeah, then that's all that matters
39:16I don't want you to look like everybody else, and you shouldn't want to look like everybody no
39:20I don't anymore. That's what makes you different. Yeah, and you should definitely be in love with yourself
39:25Yeah, every time I get to know more about you
39:28And see these qualities. I'm just like it's a good girl, man
39:32It's been a very successful honeymoon. It's been amazing
39:36Couldn't afford a better person to spend it with she's just a real girl, and that's what makes me gravitate towards her
39:41Got this
39:48This is honestly the most romantic day. I've ever been on in my life all you boys that was in my life before
39:55Ain't got share my husband
39:57Oh
40:04It's fresh
40:07It's been a bit of a frustrating
40:10Honeymoon, I do get on with Polly like a house on fire
40:13But there's that little bit something missing that I do want to find
40:18Finally here. I know
40:21I'm frustrated with how Adam's been considering that we were intimate on the wedding night
40:25We haven't been intimate while we've been on our honeymoon
40:28I would like a bit more from Adam in respects of maybe a kiss here and there so
40:33Hopefully that is something that will come tonight
40:38For me a big worry was the intimacy side of it hasn't been there
40:43So we were intimate on the wedding night, and now it hasn't happened all week
40:48It would obviously just be nice for me to hear from you
40:53Where your head's kind of at the moment
41:01It's nothing on your part, it's I know it's a bad saying, but it's not you it's me I
41:11Can't lie when I said that it like it has knocked me like it has made me feel like shit
41:17Apart from the affection and the intimacy, I feel like there's nothing else we need to work on
41:22But do you think that can develop in the future?
41:28I feel like it can change I
41:31Do like you and I I've got to know you I've realized how amazing you are and and how good of a person you are
41:47I was really sweet
41:51So why is it that's made you so emotional I just haven't heard such positive praise from someone or a partner for so long
41:58And the fact that you are after such a short space of time
42:02Is it's huge don't I mean?
42:06Don't get too excited, but let's have a little last-night kiss
42:16The fact that Adams ended the night with a little kiss is really really lovely and it means a lot to me
42:22Considering that that's all I've asked for a week was just a little bit more of physical touch and a bit more affirmation
42:28But the fact that that's come from him
42:31Really means a lot I
42:33Mean, yeah, it would be lovely if me and Adam had sex tonight. I mean, I'm not gonna lie
42:36I'm not gonna beat around the bush. It would be really nice. I don't know how else to go about it
42:46I
42:51Waiting for Michelle to turn up I haven't seen her all day. I
42:57Hope tonight she does show up because I need to know where her head is up
43:01I
43:14Nice for you to turn up. What are you doing? Just chillin out, man
43:23Being on this honeymoon, I feel like I've learned stuff about you. Like do you think you've learned about me?
43:31The most important thing I've learned about you is that you love your space
43:36Okay, and that's why I try my endeavor best to make sure you get plenty of it
43:45Is there anything that pops out to you that was say maybe
43:51Important that we've missed or yeah, I mean there's there's loads. I mean you don't generally ask too many questions
43:59Okay, because I think that's what mate will make me question what you know when you say, oh, you know, I'm really liking you or
44:06Okay, I've got the feels or whatever. I'm thinking. Well, how are you? Don't know me. Maybe that was just
44:12Physical I think you need to start asking some questions. Okay. I know so much about you and
44:19I don't feel you know, even half
44:21About me. This is true. Yeah
44:25So, how do you feel about me
44:29It's very hard for me to be able to decipher this early on how I truly feel and
44:38My concern is that I'll never
44:41Fully let down my guard or relax. Okay
44:44That's my concern. Okay, I
44:47Will 100% take down board. Yeah
44:50100%
44:53100%
44:58This has been quite destabilizing, okay
45:03Can't even describe how intense like this whole process is
45:08You know you're under pressure to dissect
45:11What and why you may not like qualities about someone is it me? You know, is it him?
45:23I
45:27Just want to withdraw press the eject button I think I'm done here guys
45:41Next time
45:44The newlyweds are reunited at the first dinner party of the experiment
45:53It's gonna make a toast to everyone, please raise your glass as the couples discuss marriages
46:03You know
46:05A game of ranking one being hater got ten being I fucking love you. What was your number?
46:12Jesus Christ
46:15Leaves Polly reeling
46:17Actually
46:18But it's a revelation from the stag do he's made a comment that he would swap wives
46:23Ross told me that when I stopped seeing things I don't like times up that causes the biggest eruption of the night
46:30I'm not coping with someone who's so fucking disrespectful. Never would a man be around my kids who speaks like that
46:36Let me tell you let me fucking tell you
46:39Straight out the door me
46:47You
47:09You