Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 4
Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 4
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00:00I'm ready to meet the love of my life
00:04Previously my age means everything eight brave singles. This needs to work. It's got to made a life-changing commitment
00:13And married a complete stranger
00:20Tonight I'm ready to be someone's wife for more take the ultimate gamble on love
00:26I can't believe I'm getting married today while one bride's traditional values time for the kiss. Oh, yeah
00:35Squash her groom's hopes of a wedding night to remember. I'm actually celibate. We've got a share of room
00:43For the other hopeful couple
00:47Don't be scared to touch me. I'm just sweating
00:50It's a grilling from a best friend. Do you think you're attracted to one?
00:54I'm just settled for someone. I think okay compliment your new wife that prompts tears at the top table
01:00He openly said that you're not his time
01:03I just want him to like me
01:13Hello, what's up?
01:15Let's start this process
01:19In their search for true love
01:21It was good spear does it yeah, it does this year's singles have been carefully matched through extensive research
01:28I've kissed so many Queens, but not found my Queen
01:33including 29 year old Sasha
01:36What do you think has brought you here today? I think it's one in what my mom and dad have
01:41I do want that amazing relationship with someone
01:45If a partner asked me to move away with them
01:48Absolutely go as long as my cats can come get me a water
01:55I am an extreme girly girl. I
02:00Love all things pink all things Barbie. Oh, there's definitely more to me than meets the eye
02:08I love kickboxing. I love combat sport
02:12The whole of my family are really competitive my parents are
02:17Competitive bodybuilders the gym is the life. I took it to the gym for the night out
02:22I don't know ever does it in them shoes. You still go look good. Why you trying?
02:27Obviously you always hope I would follow in their footsteps you want to go all right, but I actually went down the pageantry route I
02:36Want miss Birmingham on my third attempt I am now officially retired
02:41But everyone still refers to me as miss Birmingham once you've been miss Birmingham once you're always miss Birmingham
02:48hungry mush
02:50Fabulous my family are very traditional. I feel like we mean a generation at the minute. That's not serious about relationships
02:57I'm doing your mom's 30 years. Yeah, I bet you mom. I got pregnant in a month, and that was yeah
03:05I'm very family orientated. I 100% a daddy's girl
03:09I literally don't think anyone could get more a daddy's girl if the truth. I need a dad replacement. Yeah, I
03:16Would describe my love life right now. It's completely
03:19non-existent I
03:20Had one long-term three-year relationship. He was definitely the person that I thought I was gonna marry. I even had my ring finger measured I
03:29Discovered that he'd been cheating on me being cheated on definitely affected my self-esteem
03:35Changed what I look like I had loads of work done to my face
03:39It kind of made me lose a lot of trust with people and I was in a therapy for like a year
03:45I was completely heartbroken
03:48I'd say I'm not like most of the girls in this generation. I
03:52Have traditional values so I have decided to go celibate until I meet the one
03:58I will not settle for anyone that isn't my husband
04:01It sounds like sex and intimacy are really quite important to you, and it's an emotional
04:06Connection with someone before you have sex or before you're intimate with them. Yeah, definitely
04:11It's something that I do when I'm actually ready to be serious about someone and don't just want to give them something that I
04:17Consider really precious and really intimate. I don't think it's something that should just be thrown around
04:23I love the concept of marriage. I think it's beautiful and I've always pictured myself getting married
04:29It's something that I've been ready for for a while now, and I'm ready to settle down I
04:34Think because my whole life I felt protected by my dad
04:37I've always wanted a husband that I get that same energy from I like the feel of someone being able to take care of me
04:42And look after me
04:47I
04:49Deal husband is someone who's quite tall quite big and hench
04:55Star signs are super important to me, so he's got to be a fire sign
05:00Kind of feel like it's my last shot at love got everything roading on this marriage
05:09Good to see you. Oh, we're really good. I'm really good. Are you feeling happy excited excited excited excited?
05:16Are you feeling happy excited? I'm proper excited me. I understand been but in the cabin sleep
05:25Are you scared about meeting your new wife I
05:29Want to stay scared of more nervous because I don't know what she looks like
05:33What does my life?
05:38My greatest achievement playing football England best team I
05:44I was spotted by
05:47Great Britain death football
05:49Couple years later, but that's not what England death football England. I made him
05:55I'm married
05:57The reason why I stopped playing football was because I've got into a new hobbit
06:03I love the gym a lot
06:06My future wife got cursed in a go to gym. I'm not my mom. I've been to put her
06:13bed
06:20No, I'm a poet and death in my whole family after this was took he was diagnosed in profoundly death really
06:28You had your hearing aids fitted and you went. Oh my mom and we're all right
06:34After I left school, I went to a Bolton College
06:39I'm not well my idea death community and they do sign number classes after
06:45The course you do one year later bang. I'm not a sign on which
06:50But me and my family can communicate with each other without sign on with because I can't be
06:56That's my favorite. This is the age where you used to switch them off if we was doing your head in
07:01I still do that though. Don't I all the time?
07:03Yeah
07:05No, I'm sure dad I'm Ross actually me my dog was very very close if it's a word of my if it's a code is
07:12number one
07:14Well, my dad find out your cancer we've been trying on a dream until it
07:23While my dad died I
07:27Was all over the place
07:30I'm so close. I don't want to let my best mate and I just feel I have lost half of myself
07:38I miss my dad every single day, but I'm in a better place. No, I
07:46Love you more. I am a father. Come on, baby. Don't believe I think it was like a gift from my dad
07:53Oh
08:02What you have
08:07Brilliant everything to me absolutely everything to my world
08:15What sort of husband do you think you will be I look after
08:21Respect
08:23I'll do anything for whether much or happy. I want you to be my only one. Mm-hmm. Stay with me forever. I
08:30Always wanted to get married
08:32My dear wife is
08:34funny
08:36Before my thighs good smile
08:39caring
08:40supportive
08:42easy to communicate with
08:44Means a lot to me to find a perfect partner
08:50Now Sasha and Ross are a couple I'm really excited about
08:54Both are driven individuals who've achieved really impressive goals
08:59And both have really strong relationships with their families
09:03Sasha is a self-confessed daddy's girl and given her past relationship traumas
09:08She wants a partner who's dependable loyal and protective
09:13Just like her dad
09:15Ross has a great connection to his mom and his sisters and as a father to young daughter blue
09:20Being dependable and protective will feel very natural to him
09:24Both are fun and have outgoing personalities and the physical attraction will be there
09:30But Ross will have to be patient on the physical side of things as Sasha holds traditional values close to her heart
09:36I think this is a great match Ross and
09:40Sasha
09:42Time to meet our next pair Holly and Adam I
09:47Thought everyone knows my type on paper
09:50slim brunette
09:52Little boobies big booty pretty fast nice smile the full show bang
10:00I've been barbering for 16 years now
10:04It's the only job I've ever had. I will put my hands up and admit that I'm probably the best barber in here
10:09It's a good vibe good banter with all the lads
10:13Always having a laugh never been lacking in confidence. Have you not just barbering either? I just think confidence is key
10:26Looking good is majorly important to me. I always like my beard to look good obviously like having a tan
10:32lovely gym
10:34I've obviously got my tattoos my arms chest thighs
10:38Palm cheeks, it would be nice to have a wife that likes to look good and look good together
10:45Think to the right person I'd like to be an 11 out of 10. You've got a one perfect
10:49Well, it's never gonna be perfect. I'm pretty I'm pretty close for I
10:56Feel like people definitely get the wrong impression of me a lot of women especially will see my image. They think I'm a player
11:03So it is hard to kind of meet someone
11:06But I always think you shouldn't judge a book by its cover and I do like to prove people wrong
11:11I've had a lot of women say to me like I thought he's gonna be a proper knob
11:15Turns out that you're actually a really nice person. Do you think you've ever been in a law?
11:19No, I've never been look you want it to be perfect day and I'm waiting for that one person
11:23The women I normally go for would always be like pretty girls
11:27But obviously it's normally the personality that kind of throws me off a little bit
11:32The person that is kind of don't match mine, which is obviously where I'm struggling
11:37How are you ready for marriage I want to love someone and I want to be loved and
11:43I just feel like I'm not looking in the right place to find that I couldn't think of anything better than having a wife and
11:51Children and making memories and doing stuff together
11:53You want a wife and kids? I want it all. Yeah
11:57Family is a really important to me. I've had a quite an old-fashioned upbringing
12:06So I've learned to respect women and I feel like that's made me into the man I am today
12:11Yeah
12:13I'm ready in life to do it all like children big big part in that
12:21Do you think uncle Adam should have some kids
12:26And I just need a wife now to make memories with
12:30my perfect wife
12:32would be
12:34naturally pretty
12:35nice hair nice eyes nice teeth and
12:39Then with personality wise it would be nice to have someone like me like a little bit bubbly funny
12:46Caring generous family orientated like the list goes on but I feel like you've got to be fussy when it's the one for the rest
12:53of your life
12:56I would describe myself as probably a walk in the hurricane
13:05I'm very
13:07Impatient see gone some would say dramatic. Come on
13:12Don't not play ball now. Peanut the list could go on
13:16You describe yourself as an introverted extrovert. Yeah, I break that down for me
13:22I do come across confident. My mum always says that you can hear me before you can see me
13:29So you're a fiery outgoing like person I think
13:35I do want someone that's got a bit of personality, but then also
13:39Not center of attention. Yeah. Yeah, that is me. Yeah, that's my job
13:45Find some lovely photos of you your first school shot my hair
13:50When I was five years old, I was diagnosed with ADHD
13:54Because my parents had my sister and then they had me three years later and they could definitely tell I was different
13:59It was just a case of I was this big ball of energy
14:02You were very active all the time. So I took you to the dance schools
14:06I took you to the performing arts schools and you loved it. I
14:11Think I see things a lot differently than other people
14:15It's quite hard for people to
14:17Understand school was really difficult. I'm gonna get really emotion. Um, yeah
14:26Sorry
14:29It was bad I was bullied at primary school and I moved secondary school twice I
14:35Changed my hair. I lost weight because obviously I was trying to make friends. I had to go through so many different friendship groups. I
14:43Worried about your emotions if you did get knocked back
14:46Yeah people because that was always the key at school
14:49Whereas as you've grown now that doesn't affect you anywhere near as much. You're a lot stronger. I
14:55Think with my upbringing and the kind of childhood that I had and the school life that I had
15:00It's made me realize that people are either gonna like you or they're not
15:05That's fine. You've just got to find that people that want to stick with you and ride for it with you, I guess
15:10Never would have thought that we would have been friends when I first met you you were like shy and quite well-spoken
15:16and then you just get me that walks in that's like
15:19Danny Dyer you are who you are and you are loud and you are vibrant, but the right man will go. Do you know?
15:24Yeah, I love that. It's not your personality. That's an issue
15:30What are you most fearful of I know that I do have a lot of fear
15:36What are you most fearful of I know that I do try and give and give and give to make sure that they then like
15:42Me like I I want them to like me. So I end up trying to overcompensate
15:47To make that person stay I've never learned
15:51When to stop I'm just like I'm in love with this person. Therefore, I will do whatever I need to do to make it work
15:58The
16:03Sort of men I find attractive they are hard-working work with their hands
16:10Teeth the first thing you see on someone's face. So I think teeth naturally are very important
16:13I do definitely find the beard and tattoos attractive. I
16:17Do like a beefcake
16:20It's very very important to me that someone does want a family I think a sense of humor from someone is so
16:27Important I genuinely think you can laugh someone in bed a
16:33Good sense of humor is so important to both of these guys
16:37Adam is a joker and loves to laugh
16:39Polly is looking for a partner who she could have a playful relationship with and plenty of banter
16:45Adam has confidence in spades and wants a partner who can match that
16:50Polly has exactly the big bubbly personality
16:54He's after and I think they'll really bounce off each other, but Polly's self-confidence does masks and insecurities
17:01Childhood experiences have really contributed to her feeling like she can't be herself
17:06So it'll be really important for Adam to accept Polly for who she is
17:11Really encourage her to shine bright
17:13Adam desperately wants to settle down and build a future with someone but hasn't yet found that
17:19Perfect person to do it with he says in the past
17:22He's going for people who are really attractive
17:25but they haven't had the personality to back it up and it never lasts if you can look beyond purely physical attraction and
17:32his idea of a type
17:34He and Polly could be on their way to building the lasting relationship that they've both been searching for
17:41Polly and Adam
17:55Did you get me earrings? Yeah, don't forget dad needs put 6p in my shirt. Yeah, forget that
18:00I'll be really upset. Have you got the love note?
18:04You forgot my something old. Oh, yeah. Oh
18:07No, why don't you remind me so I've got everything but something I would know
18:13Well, that's it. My marriage. I'm gonna work out now
18:18I'm too superstitious for that mom
18:21Booking me
18:22You're gonna have to give me a charm. Oh, yeah, I can do that. Let me have a look what you got
18:27It's gotta be off dad though flowers off dad. Yeah, it is. Yeah, so as the flower God, you don't mean your way
18:34I know
18:36What don't you want him to be like an absolute? No, no would be any water sign
18:41Sasha's got a big thing for star signs because we're all fire signs obviously me and her dad have been together 30 years
18:48So it's got to be fire sign. That's imperative
18:58Shit brick in it. Why is my
19:00Wife just be you you'd be fine. I can't believe today's a big day co-worker this morning proper and murder
19:08But sometime I'm excited. I'm meeting my wife
19:13About three coffee this morning. What's your wife got to be like I'm all just gonna be banging
19:20I'm just hoping I get that Wow back to on the chair my own personality wise though. What are you looking for on banter?
19:27Communication, yeah
19:31Yeah, how do you feel do you want her to have kids or not have kids
19:37She had the kids fine by me, but you don't have to kick
19:44The most thing that I'm looking forward to very good get married meet my wife meet the family
19:51Have a good day
19:53shagging
19:57Sash are you gonna be asking him to sleep on the sofa tonight in an ideal world?
20:03He'll offer to take the sofa if he doesn't offer to take the sofa. That'll be an eek because he's obviously not a gentleman
20:08He's obviously not chivalrous. Yeah, I have traditional values
20:12It's definitely inappropriate to share a bed on the first night where the dead fancy more. I don't I've just met him
20:18So I'm hoping he offers to take the sofa if he doesn't I don't think I'd consider staying with them
20:27So
20:33What is it you're actually looking for I just want them to be similar to me funny outgoing spontaneous
20:39Outrageous. Yeah, and obviously unreal ID. I'd love a 1010 the full package the full package
20:45It still don't feel real that I'm getting married today. I don't think it's something
20:48I feel like if my perfect type walks down the aisle, I'm gonna be absolutely over the moon
20:53You think you're gonna struggle though to find a girl that's gonna fancy as much as you fancy yourself, I
20:59Don't think I'll struggle
21:01obviously if I'm what she's asked for
21:04She won't be fancy me more than I fancy myself to be honest possible
21:08I think I'd be over the moon if a Michelle Keegan lookalike walk down the aisle
21:12Maybe even like a Megan Fox or something. I just feel like I have bad luck
21:16I feel like the women I've been with or I go for
21:21It's like they're either attractive or the personality is there it's never both
21:26And that's where I'm struggling if my wife's got the personality in the locks
21:30It's gonna be fireworks
21:33Yeah, I
21:37Really just want him to think I'm fit
21:40I just
21:46There is a lot riding on today in a relationship I do really give my whole heart
21:51I just want someone to just want me and accept me for me as your friends
21:56We are protective over you and this is that like a vulnerable thing for you to be doing you deserve, you know to find
22:03your person
22:06You people are not and I know
22:08You're a pretty tough character. Actually, you've got humongous heart got a lot of love to give darling
22:13Yeah, I've got a lot of love to give and I've been giving it to the wrong people
22:17This is a really big deal for Polly to give herself to somebody
22:22She is so deserving of somebody who is just willing to give her the world because she will do that for the people that she
22:28Loves and I hope that somebody gives her that time and energy back
22:35Oh
22:45Yeah
22:53Think getting in the dress and showing my family and seeing their reaction
22:57He's just made everything really real now, and I'm actually scared and I got my 6p
23:02When do you want to put that in my shoe?
23:05Yeah, you can help me. I'll listen. Yeah, I don't know
23:09Shaking go on for good. Look. Oh my god. You look absolutely beautiful
23:15I've never seen a bride look like that in my life
23:19Sasha looks amazing
23:21All beautiful even expected
23:23I
23:34Can't believe I'm getting married today
23:38So I don't know what she looks like
23:42Who's she is where she's from I
23:46Just want to meet my wife
23:49Oh
23:50My god, it's pink. I love me. I know it's beautiful sash man. It's amazing. That is much is my dress now suit
23:56She was so much. It does come up. Let's get it
24:01Okay
24:07The only only one if you get me to sit in a pink convertible car, yeah
24:15Anybody else
24:18I feel see
24:48You
25:01I'm nervous. I
25:03Hope my husband understand my celibacy
25:07It might sound old-fashioned some people but it's something that's very important to me
25:18Oh
25:40Hello
25:42And I don't yeah
25:46What's your name, Sasha
25:48What's your name?
25:50Ross
25:51He's tall covered in tattoos tanned and I can communicate a little bit in sign. So maybe it was meant to be Wow
26:01Sasha to look to my eating ship up poppin
26:06Oh
26:09My mom says what star sign I'm yeah, well, it's a number Sagittarius
26:22Ross is a full sign. So if it's him well with me and my all Sagittarius and all Aries family
26:31Oh
26:33God
26:41Today we will witness
26:43two
26:45Strangers coming together to mark their place in history
26:51Sasha
26:55Those are all about promises and I don't take them lightly
26:58I
27:00What I can promise you
27:02unquestionable loyalty I
27:04Don't give up easily on anything but least of all love
27:09Yes, the L word what we're here for
27:12What I truly hope that we found by the end of this
27:16No, I've got you and I can't wait for this journey to begin
27:28I can't believe I'm meeting my wife for the first time. I feel like a very lucky man already
27:35If this prove anything it's that we're stopping to have a crazy and brave in common, which is a perfect start I
27:45Promise you all feel safe and protected on whatever dreams you have. I support you in every way
27:51Oh
27:55One thing I think I might be deaf but I will always hear you
28:07Now Sasha and Ross it's time for the kiss. Oh, yeah
28:15You may kiss your bride
28:22This is so much
28:33Ross has just got very excited about sharing a kiss
28:37But his reaction kind of made me a little bit uncomfortable because I thought it's definitely inappropriate. My family are very traditional
28:44But I'm thinking I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt our fabulous newlyweds
28:49Sasha and Ross
28:56Ross I think physically lovely my only concerns at the moment. I'm nervous, you know
29:02We've got to share a room tonight, which is really panicky for me
29:06Wow
29:07Too nice. I like her. I would get a kiss later on. Don't worry about that
29:20I
29:22Am ready to be someone's wife I
29:25Do feel like I look really lovely
29:29And I hope he feels the same
29:40What you think she's gonna like my story I think she's gonna be beautiful she's got
29:49Never actually been in love with anybody
29:52So getting married is a big step for me and a big change
29:58Camera this beer husband. It's something that I've wanted for a long time. I want the happy family
30:10You look stunning
30:16Doing it this is it
30:19I
30:34I'm hoping to turn around at end of the aisle and just fancy the pants offer feel a connection instantly
30:42An
30:48Ideal world he'd look at me and just be like, oh my god
31:12All right, I'm Adam
31:20Thank you
31:26Oh, I'm just swaying
31:31How you feeling
31:33So nervous, I know it's crazy. No, I've got lovely set teeth. Thank you
31:39He is very attractive
31:41I just thought yeah, you're big. You're beefy. Got a nice haircut. I do fancy him. I'm so glad you're here
31:52I am a little bit disappointed that he hasn't complimented her
31:58Just awkwardness and silence
32:04The initial attractions not a hundred percent there
32:09Not my usual type
32:1210 out of 10 for me would be
32:14petite brunette dog features
32:17tan
32:19She's not what I expected
32:36Adam and Polly will share their vows that they have written for one another
32:42I
32:47Would always like to think I'm quite spontaneous I think you would agree with me that this will always be at the top of our
32:53lists
32:54But standing before you now the nerves have nearly gone and I feel instantly calm. I
33:02Hope you're as excited to me to ride this roller coaster of a journey and I can assure you it would be the best
33:07roller coaster you have ever been on
33:10I
33:13Actually don't I'm confused if you don't like roller coasters, why is that in your vows?
33:20it's like
33:21Weird. I promise to give you my all no matter how hard it may be. All I ask in return is that you do the same
33:28for me
33:34I stand before you today a stranger no more with an open heart and a curious soul
33:39In this unpredictable and beautiful journey of life. I take you as my partner knowing that our love story is yet to be written. I
33:46Promise to approach each day with patience empathy and a willingness to discover the wonderful person that I'm sure you are
33:53May our journey as a married couple
33:57Be a testament to the power of love growth and the remarkable bond that can emerge even from the most unexpected beginnings
34:04So
34:08We will now come to the exchanging of the wedding rings, ah, don't be scared to touch me
34:18My hands are so wet. They are a bit wet
34:24You can remain holding hands if you want to
34:29It is time for you to share your very first kiss
34:33Congratulations
34:44First impressions are really good. Yeah, I'm really happy
34:48I'm just interested in getting to know more and getting to know more about him. I
34:55Wasn't instantly blown away when I see my bride
34:59I'm worried that I haven't got that initial wow factor
35:03I'm a little bit disappointed
35:13How does it feel to be married
35:18I'm still really like nervous. I don't know why yeah, I don't know
35:22We've got get to know each other which is scary and then we got to get in the hotel room like which will be awkward
35:28Just
35:31Us
35:34It's a big thing to say, yeah, I'm not sleeping with anyone. I feel a bit awkward around you because don't know him
35:49She's taking all the boxes. I mean I
35:53Smile look pretty far. Oh, so I've got a baby girl. You got a daughter
36:00She's three years old
36:03No, what no, that's cute. I
36:06Actually love dads and the daughters together. Maybe that's just cuz I'm so close to my dad and I'm a daddy's girl
36:11I've got him. I've got two kids as well. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I got a boy and a girl
36:16No way
36:18They were in the game. Yeah, they're
36:21Yeah
36:24Only a little yeah, I'm a student. I want to learn lots stick with me then. I
36:31Mean I'm shocked you can do a little bit Stein language. So you don't made it. It's like a dream come true
36:37Oh
36:49Chloe nice to meet you
36:55Honestly, I think he's really happy he likes it he doesn't and I either make a very hot couple together don't yes
37:03I
37:09Look beautiful together
37:15How do you feel
37:17I'm just yeah, just me because I've got a share of your mom's
37:27I'm really nervous just because the bed situation tonight is looming over me
37:32And I just keep thinking. Oh my god, please please offer to go on the sofa. I
37:40Just get you just to put your
37:44Hand, there you go. I'm just nice. There you go together and I'm just gonna take a few shots
37:51So, what did you ask for like what kind of person did you ask for
37:55I
38:01Feel like it was that longer I've got be redhead
38:08I
38:09Thought I knew you was gonna be good-looking just in the back of your head. That sounds so weird
38:14Yeah, I'm happy. I'm really happy. Yeah. Yeah. What about you? What was your first impressions?
38:19Obviously when you walked out no, obviously like I was really nervous I kind of froze a little bit, but yeah
38:25I just noticed you probably personality made me feel
38:28Calm to be fair. Yeah good
38:32Hold hands there together. That's it. I don't wanna drop you off. Yeah, you'll find it. You'll give it a go. Just fall
38:42Because I get a kiss from there if it's possible
38:45Lovely taking the photos with Polly and getting really close. I I don't want to say awkward, but it just feels a little bit weird
38:53Attraction is really important to me if that doesn't grow. I don't know what's going to happen
38:59Get nice and tight and close together nose to nose from here if that's okay
39:04And another kiss from there
39:08I
39:10Will you be able to kiss my child for me?
39:25I
39:31Do feel like there's a chemistry
39:33We're bouncing off each other. I do definitely feel like there's a vibe there
39:36I genuinely think it couldn't have been matched any better with how we both are
39:47Nice to meet you anyway
39:49This is Alfie
39:51That is your best friend
39:53And what's your name?
39:55Rich
39:57Polly's bubbly, she's very confident
39:59She's funny, she seems lovely
40:01What have you been doing then?
40:03Went outside
40:06Took loads of pictures, made us kiss about 20 times
40:08She was absolutely buzzing
40:12I mean I didn't mind it but
40:15Adam's not really holding eye contact with Polly
40:17I haven't seen him compliment her yet
40:21So that's a bit of a no-go for me
40:27What do you think about him?
40:29What do you think about him?
40:32I'm not a fan of him
40:34At all? Why?
40:36I just didn't get good vibes
40:38Really?
40:40I have
40:42You have
40:44Why though?
40:46He didn't compliment you when you stood at the altar
40:50But I understand he was fucking pushing it
40:52Yeah, so were you
40:56When you did the kisses, he didn't touch you once
41:00Like he gave nothing
41:04And in my head I was like
41:06All Polly's ever had in all of her relationships
41:08Is taking the lead, making decisions
41:10And being the confident one
41:12She doesn't need that again
41:16So hopefully when you get to treat him a bit later
41:18Yeah, I'm going to go in
41:23It definitely makes me feel a bit anxious
41:25That Alfie has these concerns
41:27Because obviously he's my best friend
41:29And like a brother
41:31So it's definitely a bit of a worry
41:34Yeah
41:38So what do you think?
41:40Yeah, I think, obviously
41:42Do you know what, when I saw you come up
41:44Your energy just matched him
41:46Ross needs a strong girl
41:48And as soon as you came up
41:50I was like, okay
41:52How come you didn't kiss though?
41:54Just because my dad was there
41:56And I'd get really like
41:58I don't know, I just wouldn't want my dad to feel uncomfortable
42:00I am very much like traditional
42:03So what I'm stressed about right now
42:05At the minute is sharing a room
42:09I'm actually celibate
42:13So
42:15I feel like
42:17Just meeting someone and then you're going to share a room
42:19Yeah, it's pretty intense
42:21We're going to get in there and I'm going to be like, right
42:23Let me get ready for bed then
42:25So you want to take it slow
42:27Very slow
42:29So celibacy is always something I come to
42:31When I'm not in a relationship
42:37Don't worry
42:39I'll keep my eye on him
42:41Keep him behaved
42:43I'm going to have to break the news to Ross
42:45That Sasha is celibate
42:47I'm sure he won't mind
42:51So
42:53I've got some things to tell you
42:55What?
42:57She's celibate
43:00She's being celibate
43:02For a long time
43:04Not had sex
43:06Is she?
43:08Is she?
43:10No
43:12Shit
43:30Hello
43:32Hello again
43:34Thought I'd come over
43:36Little man to man
43:38Seeing as you're on your own
43:40I'll be honest
43:42When the ceremony happened
43:44I did have reservations
43:48In terms of
43:50Attraction level
43:52Do you think you're attracted to her?
44:00She's not my usual type
44:04Normally my ex-partners have been like
44:06Dark hair
44:08I normally go with girls
44:10That I think, oh my god, you're unreal
44:14Unreal brunettes
44:16Just think it's a little bit of an odd thing
44:18To say to the bride's best friend
44:24I feel like as you get to an age
44:26You don't want to settle for
44:29Everybody wants that perfect
44:31That perfect person
44:33Happily ever after
44:35Especially me, I've waited 33 years
44:37I won't just settle for someone I think is ok
44:39I want everything
44:41So
44:43Personalities are amazing
44:45No matter what happens
44:47I think we're definitely going to have a laugh
44:49And she does look stunning today
44:56Silence
44:58Silence
45:00I don't understand why it's so hard
45:02Just to compliment your new wife
45:08Silence
45:10I'm not sure what Alfie thinks of me right now
45:12But
45:14I had to be honest with him
45:16It's my job as her friend to support her
45:18But at the same time I wouldn't be her best friend
45:20If I wasn't honest with her
45:22Or if I was holding back on my thoughts and feelings
45:25This barber might get the chop
45:41I'm a protective friend
45:43And Polly means the world to me
45:47And we're only as close as we are
45:49Because we are so honest and truthful with one another
45:51Right
45:53Now you've had a chance to speak
45:55What
45:57What are the thoughts
46:01I still have reservations
46:09He openly said that you're not his type
46:13Like
46:15Yeah
46:17Fuck off
46:20He said that he'd normally go for like unreal brunettes
46:26You're not
46:28Straight up his type
46:32I don't want to fuck it
46:34I don't want to fuck it
46:38It's such a stupid thing to do
46:40It's so evil
46:43It's so evil
47:01My biggest thing was that I just want him to like me
47:13What the fuck
47:15It is a bit alarming
47:17That he said that his type is unreal brunettes
47:19I think it is shit
47:21That I'm not his usual type
47:27How you feeling there
47:31I've always put looks first
47:33Yeah
47:35I didn't get that
47:37Wow factor when she walked out in the aisle
47:39You know what I mean
47:43I couldn't look at her and think oh my god you're unreal
47:45I want to rip your clothes off
47:49What do you think like
47:51Do you think like
47:53She's the one for me
48:01She's an attractive girl
48:03And your personalities vibe
48:05That just makes one more and more attractive
48:07Oh yeah definitely
48:09Yeah
48:11My friends have said that personality wise
48:13She's perfect for me
48:15To be honest my usual type hasn't worked out
48:17In the past so I need to remember
48:19That we have been matched for a reason
48:21It's been a lot of tears
48:23But
48:25I do definitely think that
48:27I am in this for the long haul
48:29I do really hope
48:31That it works out in my favour
48:41Now I've spent more time with Ross
48:43I definitely feel a bit more relaxed
48:45As lovely as he is
48:47I'm still hoping he's going to offer to go on the sofa
48:49I'm actually dreading this situation
48:51It's been doing my head in all day
48:53Thinking of this
49:01Loving to see your family and friends
49:07Speaking of today
49:10Speaking of today
49:12You were telling me about
49:14Celebrate
49:16Celebrate?
49:18Oh yeah okay
49:20So I'm nine months celebrate
49:26And I always go back to celibacy
49:28So my longest time celibate was two years
49:32So it takes a lot
49:36I was worried
49:38That you would
49:40Think that I don't like you
49:42Not kissing you at the altar
49:44Did you?
49:46Oh no
49:48I respect you
49:50Don't worry about that
49:52I wasn't thinking about kissing you
49:54Literally
49:56I don't mind the street
49:58It's fine
50:00It's been one of the best days ever
50:02I was very understated
50:04Yeah
50:07Ross saying that he doesn't mind to take the sofa
50:09It is such a relief
50:11Just so glad to have it out of the way
50:13We've had a little bit of a chat
50:15Once she's ready
50:17She's ready
50:19So like I said I respect you
50:21So I'm not in the rush
50:23But yeah
50:25That's the kind of man I am
50:29Just can't wait to spend more time with her
50:31I'm happy though yeah
50:33Overall
50:36I don't want to die
50:38Now the nerves have settled
50:40I'm really looking forward to the journey ahead
50:52Today is one of the biggest days of my life
50:54I just want to meet him now
50:58Four more strangers meet and marry at the altar
51:00Damn
51:02But could an inquisitive bride
51:04Have you been married before?
51:06No
51:08When was your last single?
51:10Probably received 40 million questions in 30 seconds
51:12And a protective best friend
51:14We're children and stuff
51:16How does that make you feel?
51:18It was a preference if they didn't have kids
51:20Threaten their happy ever after
51:22I'm here on your wedding day holiday
51:24I'm going to tell you what I've heard
51:26My kids are my life
51:28That's going to be a big problem for me
51:34I love you
51:36I love you
51:38I love you
51:40I love you
51:42I love you
51:44I love you
51:46I love you
51:48I love you
51:50I love you
51:52I love you
51:54I love you
51:56I love you