How to Get Over Your Ex? || Acharya Prashant (2021)
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Wisdom Quote: “The arrow hits you only when you block the arrow; otherwise it goes past you.”
Acharya Prashant teaches how to get over a painful breakup and your ex. Watch this video to learn how to improve your love, relationships, and get over a painful breakup in your relationship.
00:00 I easily get hurt after breakups
01:40 No, you are lying
03:15 This is what is really hurting you
04:40 Do this one thing and everything will work out
06:05 This is the most important thing
07:00 The true test of a relationship
08:00 How to have a fairy tale relationship
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Wisdom Quote: “The arrow hits you only when you block the arrow; otherwise it goes past you.”
Acharya Prashant teaches how to get over a painful breakup and your ex. Watch this video to learn how to improve your love, relationships, and get over a painful breakup in your relationship.
00:00 I easily get hurt after breakups
01:40 No, you are lying
03:15 This is what is really hurting you
04:40 Do this one thing and everything will work out
06:05 This is the most important thing
07:00 The true test of a relationship
08:00 How to have a fairy tale relationship
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00:00I'm a person who is very sensitive and emotional and that's why I easily get hurt.
00:20It's been two months since I had a breakup with a guy and I'm just not able to move on.
00:28It's affecting me a lot.
00:32I didn't want this to happen.
00:36Even though I never expected this from him, it has broken me completely from the inside.
00:48I've lost myself, I've lost my mental peace and I feel so lonely and incomplete without
00:55him.
00:57And it's even more painful when I see that guy with some other girl.
01:03I still want him in my life, although now I know that it is not possible because he
01:09has completely moved on.
01:13What should I now do with all this harming me and my career and my future?
01:27You are saying it has broken you completely from the inside.
01:40No, you are lying.
01:44Had you been completely broken from the inside, then there would have been nobody left inside
01:51to experience the hurt.
01:57What you call as the inside is just the ego inside.
02:07And the ego is a very magical thing.
02:11It becomes stronger when it gets hurt.
02:17It is not as if it loses its power when it gets hurt.
02:22The more you hurt it, the more strength it gathers.
02:32So first of all, please understand that you have a lot inside, a lot that has only become
02:40more cemented, more solidified after this episode.
02:44Had you been really empty from inside, who would have received the hurt?
02:52The arrow hits you only when you block the arrow, right?
02:56Otherwise it goes past you.
03:00What is it within you that is blocking the happening?
03:07You are hurt because you do not like what is happening.
03:11Your resistance is hurting you.
03:15An arrow comes to you.
03:20You obstruct it with your hand.
03:22It is the obstruction that you offer that will pierce your hand, right?
03:26You do not offer any obstruction to the arrow.
03:30The arrow just passes you by.
03:34Why are you obstructing the happening?
03:38The fellow has moved on.
03:41And the population of the world is 800 crore.
03:45He is with another girl.
03:50So why are you begging after him?
03:52What will you get from him?
03:54Crumbs of love?
03:56You want love as donation, charity?
04:00And even if that is given to you, would that satisfy you?
04:04And if he was so dear to you, why was not there much compatibility?
04:10Why did the breakup happen?
04:14And if you are you, and he is what he is,
04:18then won't the breakup happen again?
04:26You insist on remaining who you are. That is why you are hurt.
04:30You insist on remaining who you are. That is why you want the guy back.
04:34But if you insist on remaining who you are, you won't be able to retain the guy.
04:40Are you prepared to really change?
04:45Are you prepared to not to be the one
04:49who experienced that attraction?
04:53No, that you do not want to do.
04:57Because probably you have some sweet and happy memories.
05:01But at least you do not want to be the one
05:05who is experiencing all the suffering,
05:09all the hard work. Right?
05:14And that is why you have asked this question.
05:18You don't want to be continuously and anymore in misery.
05:22If you do not want to be anymore in misery, stop being who you are.
05:26You have seen the consequence of who you are.
05:30And still you do not want to wake up. Do you know who you are?
05:34You are the one who will accept this guy back if he comes to your life.
05:38Do you know who you are? You are the one who will again have a quarrel with this guy.
05:43Do you know who you are? You are the one who will again have a breakup
05:47and who will again shed tears when the guy goes away.
05:59Do you want to remain part in this cycle?
06:03Please do not remain part in this cycle.
06:07Guys come and go. There is nobody more important
06:11than your own peace.
06:15You do not want a person so that he may cause you disturbance.
06:19When you want a person, you actually want
06:23peace and contentment through that person. Don't you?
06:27Or do you invite a person to your life
06:31so that he may harass you?
06:35Why do you open your doors to somebody?
06:40Because that person
06:44promises to be the vehicle of contentment.
06:48Peace. Right?
06:52You very well know what you
06:56open your doors to. Are you opening your doors
07:00to contentment? Contentment is
07:04more valuable than any relationship.
07:09Relationships are a medium. Contentment is the end.
07:17Relationships are mere mediums. They are like roads.
07:21They must lead to contentment.
07:25They must contain contentment.
07:29If there is no contentment in the relationship, why do you want that relationship?
07:33The quality
07:38of your love depends on the quality of your life.
07:46Your love affair cannot be a sublime thing
07:50if your life is mired in littleness.
07:54We all want our love affairs to be fairy tales.
07:58And we don't look at our lives.
08:02We are little people. Afraid.
08:06Desirous. Ambitious. Suspicious.
08:10That is how we live.
08:16Now how can you have a fairy tale love affair?
08:20Who is this lover that you will attract yourself to?
08:24What is the quality of your being? Who will be attracted
08:28to this being? Please, you look at
08:33these pictures. Who would be the women these men
08:37would attract to them? What would be the quality of their relationship?
08:41If they were married, would they be compatible with any woman on the road?
08:45Think of an Ashtavakra,
08:49Ranamakra, Kabir, a Buddha, a Mahavira.
08:53Some of them were married. Imagine the others are also married.
08:57Now think of their spouses. Think of their wives.
09:02What kind of a man would a Laleshwari take as husband?
09:06She indeed did have a husband. Would she go along with him?
09:14At the age of 20, she split.
09:18If you live as a petty one,
09:22you will only invite a petty being to your life.
09:26And then there will be more suffering and more suffering.
09:31What is the point in remaining caught in this cycle?
09:35Elevate yourself.
09:39Transform yourself.
09:43And then see who comes to you.
09:47Then you will know what love really is.
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