90 Day Fiancé - Before the 90 Days Season 7 Episode 7 Maybe in Another Life
90 Day Fiancé- Before the 90 Days Season 7 Episode 7 Maybe in Another Life
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days...
00:00:02Baby, I'm gonna take my shirt off
00:00:04since you have yours off.
00:00:05Okay, I'm going.
00:00:06I'm going to the swimming pool.
00:00:08He's, like, shirtless with Shay here.
00:00:10This is double standard.
00:00:12Are you ready?
00:00:16If this relationship may not last,
00:00:19it's still a badass wedding.
00:00:21♪♪
00:00:25I think we're boarding.
00:00:26Yeah, we're boarding, all right.
00:00:29Autism really can't be in social situations.
00:00:31I'm concerned about stepping into a new culture.
00:00:39Oh!
00:00:41People in Ghana doesn't understand autism.
00:00:44And some people believe it's a curse.
00:00:46I'm gonna see you.
00:00:47Yeah, I'm gonna see you.
00:00:49Okay, one more call, then.
00:00:51We have a very strong connection.
00:00:53I feel it.
00:00:54I have something for your son.
00:00:56It's just, I'm worried because I really don't know
00:00:59what she's thinking.
00:01:00Abrazo.
00:01:01Obrigada.
00:01:02Obrigado, usted.
00:01:03I just need her to see that I'm not the person
00:01:04that I used to be.
00:01:10What are you trying to buy for?
00:01:11Hey, what are you trying to get for?
00:01:12Victoria knows my chickens are, like, family members to me.
00:01:15What kind of person would just kill somebody's family
00:01:17right in front of them?
00:01:18You're going to sit here, then I'll go get it.
00:01:20I won't eat it.
00:01:21You're gonna have to shove it down your throat yourself.
00:01:23Ever since I was young, I've always had this feeling
00:01:27about some sort of drama with a man's sister.
00:01:29And most things I feel deep within
00:01:31end up coming to fruition.
00:01:34I have gonorrhea.
00:01:35It's a sexually transmitted disease.
00:01:37Do you have sex together?
00:01:39No.
00:01:40I thought you were serious about me,
00:01:42but you're cheating, lying.
00:01:44I want to say to you that I need some time now.
00:01:47I really messed up,
00:01:48and I don't know what I can do to make it right.
00:01:51I'm freaking out, because I meet my boyfriend
00:01:53for the first time,
00:01:54but I have my ex-boyfriend here with me.
00:01:56I wish I could see her right now.
00:01:58All right, come over here.
00:02:00Are you sure?
00:02:01Because I can literally see out the door.
00:02:03It's time to see her.
00:02:04I wish I could see her right now.
00:02:06All right, come over here.
00:02:07Are you sure?
00:02:08Because I can literally see out the door.
00:02:10It's time to see her.
00:02:35Maybe I need to get up.
00:02:42I don't even know how I'm going to walk to the car today.
00:02:48Last night, we have a wedding day, like a big party.
00:02:52We are feeling so good, but also so tired,
00:02:55because so much dancing there.
00:03:00Yeah.
00:03:02Yeah.
00:03:07Okay.
00:03:2330 minutes?
00:03:24No, baby.
00:03:28I have to have a bath.
00:03:30I have to do my makeup.
00:03:32Cruz is coming over to do my hair.
00:03:36Baby, we're sitting in the car for hours.
00:03:38Why you want to make your hair done?
00:03:40I always need my hair done.
00:03:41You can do it there.
00:03:42No, no, no.
00:03:44I think that this whole, you know, husband and wife thing
00:03:48is very new for Adnan,
00:03:50and there are things that he needs to get used to.
00:03:53Taking a long time to get ready is just a part of who I am.
00:03:58All right.
00:04:10Cruz and Jay, they're coming to Petra to help my wife.
00:04:13So my brother is going with me on this trip,
00:04:15because when I am tired, when I am driving, he's helping me.
00:04:18He can do anything I ask him.
00:04:20He loves me. This is my brother.
00:04:28Okay.
00:04:59Baby, this is so annoying.
00:05:01What, baby?
00:05:02Every time I am going to anywhere,
00:05:04I will have to wait with you for five hours.
00:05:07Baby, I have to get my hair done.
00:05:09Four hours to make your hair done?
00:05:11I can't. I can't wait every day.
00:05:13You have a wife now.
00:05:15Are you ready?
00:05:16I'm ready. I'm ready.
00:05:17Just five minutes, I'll get ready.
00:05:19And Cruz makes her hair, like, five hours, four hours,
00:05:23three hours every day.
00:05:24Baby, you're a guy. Listen, you're a guy.
00:05:26You can get ready in, like, five minutes.
00:05:28It's okay. You can find a way. You can do it.
00:05:30You want me to look ugly?
00:05:31You are always ugly. I know that.
00:05:33If you wanted someone that only takes five minutes...
00:05:36Are you ready?
00:05:37What?
00:05:38Hi. How are you?
00:05:40This clothes is not good in Jordan.
00:05:44But this is the next time...
00:05:46This is not your business. This is my business.
00:05:48Okay.
00:05:50Okay.
00:06:02I'm completely annoyed.
00:06:04I spent all this time getting ready for him,
00:06:07but Adnan's not being patient with me.
00:06:10You want to fix these things?
00:06:11No.
00:06:12Why?
00:06:13You'll have to get used to it, baby.
00:06:14Every time, four hours?
00:06:15On top of Adnan yelling at me,
00:06:17I have his brother, Thayer,
00:06:19complaining about my outfit,
00:06:20while Adnan has his shirt
00:06:23buttoned to his belly button.
00:06:25It is completely ridiculous.
00:06:28Ugh.
00:06:29Are you gonna be in this bad mood
00:06:30for the rest of this trip?
00:06:33I don't know.
00:06:36It makes me nervous
00:06:38that we have only been married for three days,
00:06:41and we are already arguing like this.
00:06:48Oh, my God.
00:07:13Ooh, the doctor's is over here.
00:07:15It's gonna be some steps.
00:07:16Come up. One, two, three.
00:07:19I've been in Nigeria almost a week now.
00:07:22Chidi and I have been so connected,
00:07:24so in love, so happy.
00:07:26But the other day at the nature walk,
00:07:27it was really hard to hear Chidi talk about losing his sight.
00:07:30It breaks my heart.
00:07:33These are inside voices.
00:07:35When we went home, we kind of talked more about it,
00:07:37and I found out that he hadn't been
00:07:39to an eye doctor in over 10 years.
00:07:41That's shocking, don't you think?
00:07:43So I made an appointment so that he could see a specialist
00:07:45in hopes that there's medical advancements
00:07:47that might help him.
00:07:48You can sit on the end, okay?
00:07:50Even though I'm attracted to him so much
00:07:52because he can't see,
00:07:54if I could help him, I would honestly help him
00:07:56restore his eyesight.
00:07:57That's how much I love him.
00:07:59Chidi.
00:08:00Male or female?
00:08:04I'm just kidding.
00:08:06Well, I haven't seen anything yet.
00:08:08I saw that one.
00:08:09I'm going by your voice and your looks.
00:08:14I'm just nervous.
00:08:16I don't know what the doctor is going to say.
00:08:18Yeah.
00:08:19I've heard of technology that has come out
00:08:21that actually can help people see.
00:08:23I'd love to do that for you, right?
00:08:26It is possible, but let's see how it goes.
00:08:32Is that Chidi?
00:08:33Yeah.
00:08:34This one, sir.
00:08:35If there's anything I pray for every day,
00:08:37it's for advancement in science
00:08:39that can cure this glaucoma.
00:08:43It will completely transform my life.
00:08:48It always seemed like a far-fetched reality for me.
00:08:52But with this optimism
00:08:54that something can still be done
00:08:56has renewed my hope.
00:08:58I'd like to examine your eyes.
00:09:07Can you see this?
00:09:09You can perceive this.
00:09:11Okay.
00:09:12Go back to your right eye.
00:09:15Can you perceive any light?
00:09:17Just relax.
00:09:19At this point, emotion is running high.
00:09:22Good.
00:09:24I keep imagining how it would feel
00:09:26to be able to see the awesome world again.
00:09:29Please come forward.
00:09:31Relax.
00:09:32Just relax.
00:09:33Good.
00:09:34I am deeply nervous to learn
00:09:36if my dream
00:09:38will finally come to fruition.
00:09:42Okay.
00:09:43Can you sit back, sir?
00:09:48All right.
00:09:52Is that Chidi?
00:09:54For the left eye,
00:09:56I'm seeing some signs of cataracts.
00:10:00Cataracts is not like glaucoma.
00:10:02Yes.
00:10:03It's something that has some levels of solution.
00:10:06I've seen people that had cataracts,
00:10:09and they were operated on,
00:10:11and their eye condition was remedied.
00:10:14So if it is established that it is cataracts,
00:10:17do you think it can be operated on,
00:10:19and do you think there could be
00:10:22restoration of the vision?
00:10:27Um, well...
00:10:32Just got back from the clinic,
00:10:34so seven straight days of fun pills.
00:10:37I never thought getting a ******
00:10:39was gonna give me gonorrhea,
00:10:41but here I am with an STD and a leaky penis.
00:10:43I reached out to Faith this morning,
00:10:45but nothing back yet.
00:10:47This could be the end of everything.
00:10:53When I sit in the house,
00:10:55I will run and hug him.
00:10:57I will say that,
00:10:58Daddy, welcome to Ghana.
00:11:00Now we're on to Matilda.
00:11:02I know I'm putting a lot into this.
00:11:04If this were to not work out,
00:11:06maybe it will hurt.
00:11:08Here I come, Matilda.
00:11:15Just got back from the clinic.
00:11:17I don't have gonorrhea.
00:11:19But you know, it's treatable.
00:11:21I'm gonna take those for the next week.
00:11:23Seven straight days of fun pills.
00:11:26What the hell?
00:11:28I never thought that
00:11:30getting a ****** from my friend
00:11:32was gonna give me gonorrhea.
00:11:34I really did not expect that to happen.
00:11:36I feel like I wasn't doing anything unsafe
00:11:38because she gets tested regularly
00:11:40and she seemed okay.
00:11:42But here I am with an STD and a leaky penis.
00:11:45I'm gonna take those for the next week.
00:11:47Seven straight days of fun pills.
00:11:49I know I'm putting a lot into this.
00:11:51If this were to not work out,
00:11:53maybe it will hurt.
00:11:55I really hope that after all this,
00:11:57you know, I get cleared up,
00:11:59we have some time to ******,
00:12:01some time to talk,
00:12:03and that me and Faith can go back
00:12:05to trying to have a future together.
00:12:07She's the one upset.
00:12:09So ultimately, she's in control of all of it.
00:12:12The last I left off with Faith,
00:12:14she said she wanted space,
00:12:16and I haven't seen her
00:12:18or spoken to her since yesterday.
00:12:20She's very upset,
00:12:22and I don't know if she'll ever
00:12:24even talk to me again.
00:12:26And so now I'm getting worried
00:12:28that I came all the way out here
00:12:30and this could be the end of everything.
00:12:39Hey, Esther.
00:12:41Hi, Mike.
00:12:43Hello.
00:12:45How's jet lag?
00:12:47It's fine. I expected to have a lot of jet lag,
00:12:49and I didn't.
00:12:52We're like best friends.
00:12:54So she knows how important
00:12:56this relationship is to me.
00:13:01First day was good.
00:13:03I started to get some sense of humor,
00:13:05a little back and forth,
00:13:07a little chit-chat.
00:13:09We're not really talking right now.
00:13:11Yeah.
00:13:13So yesterday, Faith planned
00:13:15this lovely day out,
00:13:17and then I decided
00:13:20which kind of just shot the whole day,
00:13:22the rest of the night.
00:13:24Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Rewind.
00:13:26How do you know you have gonorrhea?
00:13:28Well, I got the text message
00:13:30my Halloween date, and then I'm like,
00:13:32wow, I do have discharge coming out of my penis.
00:13:34Um...
00:13:36That's one way to start the morning.
00:13:38Wow.
00:13:40And it turns out
00:13:42when I told her I'm sleeping with people,
00:13:44she was under the impression that only meant sleeping.
00:13:46I guess that, like, didn't, like...
00:13:48That didn't translate properly.
00:13:50So she's a little pissed.
00:13:52She needs some space.
00:13:54She doesn't want to see me right now.
00:14:06I don't know.
00:14:08Well, I got to find a way to explain to her
00:14:10that she is my other half.
00:14:19And that's a deal-breaker.
00:14:21Are you gonna be okay
00:14:23not exploring other people
00:14:25and just being exclusive with her?
00:14:30Before I came to the Philippines,
00:14:32I was hoping I could convince Faith
00:14:34to have a non-monogamous relationship.
00:14:36I feel like if you love each other enough
00:14:38and your relationship is strong,
00:14:40then sleeping around shouldn't be an issue for each other.
00:14:43But at this point,
00:14:45I can tell that Faith sees monogamy
00:14:47as a very serious thing.
00:14:49And I don't want to lose her.
00:14:51This is everything you wanted,
00:14:53everything you dreamed of.
00:14:55Faith is perfect for you.
00:14:57Yeah.
00:14:59I can do it.
00:15:01It's gonna change my life a little bit.
00:15:03I know you can do it.
00:15:05But she also was really upset last night.
00:15:07You didn't see it.
00:15:09So it's gonna be a total battle.
00:15:11Not everything comes easy.
00:15:13Yeah.
00:15:15Now I just kind of have to hope that Faith
00:15:17gives me any kind of sign
00:15:19that it's okay to come back and talk to her about anything.
00:15:22I love Faith more than anything.
00:15:24So if I don't want to lose Faith,
00:15:26I have to give up the idea of non-monogamy.
00:15:28The only thing I care about now
00:15:30is getting to Faith and showing her
00:15:32that I'll do anything to make sure that I don't lose her.
00:15:34I just hope she gives me a second chance.
00:15:40One last flight.
00:15:42Oh, there it is.
00:15:44B-24. Last stop of all time.
00:15:51At the title of the board,
00:15:53I will write for Matilda the distance.
00:15:55Now, I bet she's a metric system kind of girl,
00:15:58so translate that for her, just in case.
00:16:01I'm just one very long flight away
00:16:04from meeting my girlfriend Matilda
00:16:06for the first time in Ghana.
00:16:08I'm probably gonna run to her arms, not walk.
00:16:12Imagine a child running to go get ice cream.
00:16:14That's what's gonna happen.
00:16:16I have butterflies in my stomach,
00:16:18but also I'm anxious about what is she gonna think of me.
00:16:21You know, Matilda has already told me
00:16:23that she has accepted my disability.
00:16:25However, it could be different once we're in person.
00:16:28To quote the great Mike Tyson,
00:16:30everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.
00:16:33Yeah, I'm on the exit road.
00:16:35In the event that I have to be a superhero, who knows?
00:16:38Why am I less nervous about that than when I'm with Matilda?
00:16:41The final stretch.
00:17:00I am very excited because my baby now
00:17:03is coming to Ghana to see me.
00:17:06Before coming back to Ofenso to get married,
00:17:10we are staying together in Accra for a few days.
00:17:23We want God to bless this relationship,
00:17:25so me and now says we are not going to have sex
00:17:28until we get married.
00:17:30But to be honest, I don't know I can resist
00:17:33because this guy is so cute.
00:17:45I'm happy.
00:17:47I can't wait to see your husband.
00:17:49I can't wait to see you.
00:17:51I'm coming with you.
00:17:53Yes.
00:17:55You're gonna be fine.
00:17:57I'm going with Matilda because I know Naz has autism,
00:18:00and I don't really know until I meet him in person
00:18:03that he can take care of Matilda.
00:18:05So I will check out.
00:18:07If he's a good guy, then I will leave Matilda
00:18:09for us to spend some time together.
00:18:21Finally, we are at Ofenso.
00:18:23I'm very happy to meet my baby.
00:18:26When I see Naz, I will run and hug him,
00:18:29and I'm going to kiss him.
00:18:31I will say that, Daddy, welcome to Ghana.
00:18:33And Naz will say, Babe, you look sexy.
00:18:35And it hurts.
00:18:41Finally here.
00:18:45We're moving.
00:18:47Slowly but surely, we are moving.
00:18:49Now we get to Matilda.
00:18:51We're gonna find her.
00:18:55I can't believe that I'm about to finally meet Matilda.
00:18:59I know I'm putting a lot into this.
00:19:02And if she doesn't turn out to be who I think she is,
00:19:06it will devastate me.
00:19:08It will hurt.
00:19:10But I can't sit here and worry about it anymore.
00:19:17Where is he?
00:19:19I don't know.
00:19:25I don't know.
00:19:34Here I come, Matilda.
00:19:37I love you.
00:19:41I love you.
00:19:46Where are you?
00:19:50Where are you?
00:19:56Welcome to Ghana.
00:19:58Sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:20:03Oh, my goodness.
00:20:05This is a fairytale story.
00:20:07I'm with the woman that I love.
00:20:09I can finally see her.
00:20:10I can finally feel her, be with her, talk to her.
00:20:14There's nothing like being able to see it for yourself.
00:20:17Wouldn't you say, Matilda?
00:20:21I know. I know you can't.
00:20:24How are you doing?
00:20:30Hey, hey, hey, don't pass out now.
00:20:32Don't pass out yet.
00:20:33Don't pass out yet.
00:20:34Let me hug you.
00:20:37Actually, you know, you can pass out.
00:20:38I can hear it.
00:20:40My heart is pumping.
00:20:43Oh, I'm very happy.
00:20:45Daddy.
00:20:47You want me to call you daddy?
00:20:51Hey, no one's shooting from the waist down, are they?
00:20:53We are in public, you know, that's right.
00:20:57Welcome to Ghana.
00:20:59I'm so happy to be here.
00:21:01This is what happiness feels like.
00:21:04All I can say is, wow.
00:21:10Oh, my God.
00:21:13It's great to be here with him.
00:21:15But at the same time, you have to be careful.
00:21:19My story is not only about trafficking.
00:21:21It's a story about...
00:21:27Mr. Chidi, for the left eye, I'm seeing some signs of cataract.
00:21:38I've seen people that had cataracts,
00:21:40and they were operated on,
00:21:42and their eye conditions was remedied.
00:21:46So if it is established that it is cataract,
00:21:48do you think there could be restoration of the vision?
00:21:56Well...
00:22:01Right now, we are not dealing with only cataract.
00:22:06There is glaucoma signs.
00:22:12The pressure in your eyes is very high.
00:22:16Your right eye is 59, and your left eye is 63,
00:22:19against the normal, which is 11 to 21.
00:22:23There's no light perception.
00:22:26When there's no light perception,
00:22:28it means that the nerves are not active.
00:22:32And the nerves don't regrow.
00:22:34Once they die off, there's nothing that can be done.
00:22:40Chances of seeing again is slim.
00:22:46And also, over time, if the pressure is high,
00:22:49without being managed,
00:22:51it could result to a complication that can make the eye to be removed.
00:22:59Hearing nothing could be done to restore my vision
00:23:04is indeed heartbreaking.
00:23:06And of course, the thought of losing my eye entirely,
00:23:09it is kind of scary.
00:23:12I never really imagined that such a thing could happen to me.
00:23:17I'm going to put him on medication.
00:23:19To reduce the pressure?
00:23:20Yes.
00:23:23But at the same time,
00:23:25I am, of course, thankful that Rene encouraged me to go to the doctor.
00:23:28And despite the negative report,
00:23:30I still believe that, by the grace of God,
00:23:32something positive could still happen someday.
00:23:38You'll never be able to see again.
00:23:40This life could be just as bright with me in it.
00:24:01Yesterday, Arthur had a lot of fun.
00:24:04Me too. I loved it.
00:24:06He had a lot of fun.
00:24:08The kids were also nervous, sometimes, with the wheelchair.
00:24:10The wheels...
00:24:11They just want to touch the wheels and look.
00:24:13But he wasn't...
00:24:14No, he wasn't.
00:24:15Like, curious fear, no?
00:24:16No.
00:24:29He's here!
00:24:31I'm hoping we can get back on track with romance
00:24:34and a little bit more physicality.
00:25:01It's beautiful, right?
00:25:02Wow.
00:25:03I've been to Brazil more than 30 times.
00:25:05And people wonder why.
00:25:06It's because places like this...
00:25:08This country is so beautiful.
00:25:09This resort is exactly what we need.
00:25:12Oh my God!
00:25:14It's going to rain!
00:25:19Let's go?
00:25:20Can we go?
00:25:21Yeah, let's go.
00:25:24This day here with Brian is really cool.
00:25:27Being here with him, enjoying nature.
00:25:31The sun is hot, Brian!
00:25:35The work he's doing...
00:25:37It's been really cool.
00:25:41And at the same time, I'm scared.
00:25:45I just found out that he's been a drug dealer,
00:25:48he's been a drug user.
00:25:50If I look after my kids,
00:25:52I have to be careful.
00:25:55Put your back on the massage mat.
00:25:59Do a massage.
00:26:02Oh, your finger!
00:26:05Leave your hand here!
00:26:23Is it good?
00:26:24It's good, right?
00:26:25It's always good.
00:26:26I love it.
00:26:27I brought it.
00:26:28It's really cool.
00:26:30You're welcome.
00:26:32The other day I told a story.
00:26:35But my story isn't about him selling drugs.
00:26:37He's a drug dealer.
00:26:39I told a good story.
00:26:42A comeback story, you know?
00:26:45After that accident,
00:26:47I went to the hospital for two months,
00:26:49lying down.
00:26:51Two months lying down.
00:26:54I got up,
00:26:55and I was like,
00:26:57what am I going to do when I get out of here?
00:27:01Leave me lying down.
00:27:05When I was in rehab hospital,
00:27:07I was super depressed.
00:27:09The bullet burned a spinal cord.
00:27:11And to know that
00:27:13I won't be getting back to normal,
00:27:15anything close to normal,
00:27:19kind of made me think about
00:27:21how I got into the situation.
00:27:23And maybe the trade-off I gave
00:27:25was my legs and my hands
00:27:27for selling drugs.
00:27:31But in a way, I was saved by that.
00:27:53I'm even showing them how to meditate,
00:27:55relax more, think more about life.
00:27:58I feel that it's my reason
00:28:00to help people, you know?
00:28:03It's a trade-off.
00:28:05It's a new trade-off.
00:28:07After six years,
00:28:09five or six years playing rugby,
00:28:11talking to people,
00:28:12dating, driving.
00:28:14It's good, right?
00:28:15Yes.
00:28:20It's bad.
00:28:21Drug dealers, blah blah blah.
00:28:22But afterwards,
00:28:23it's a beautiful story.
00:28:27I was very moved.
00:28:28I thought it was very beautiful,
00:28:30this part of him,
00:28:31of being redeemed, right?
00:28:35And still wanting to help people.
00:28:39It's been very difficult
00:28:40to deal with this story
00:28:41of his past.
00:28:43But now I see him differently.
00:28:45And maybe our relationship
00:28:47can survive.
00:28:50Let's meditate a little.
00:28:51Let's meditate a little.
00:28:52Let's meditate.
00:29:03I feel like we're soulmates.
00:29:04He feels me in his heart,
00:29:05his mind, his body.
00:29:07Something happened physically
00:29:08between the two of you.
00:29:10I can't believe that she even
00:29:11asked me if Chedi and I were
00:29:12physical at the dinner table
00:29:13in front of family.
00:29:15Honestly, I'm really sick of her
00:29:16getting into our business.
00:29:18This is crazy.
00:29:19I'm kind of freaking out
00:29:20because I don't know
00:29:21what I would do
00:29:22if Sonny saw Rory.
00:29:23I don't want a big,
00:29:24explosive situation right now.
00:29:27Wait till we exit.
00:29:28All right, I heard you.
00:29:29I heard you the first time.
00:29:30I will text you.
00:29:32What the f*** am I doing?
00:29:40Is that Chedi?
00:29:41No, no, no, no.
00:29:42Rory, are you sure
00:29:43you can't see him right here?
00:29:44It's gonna be a f***ing nightmare.
00:29:46It's gonna be a f***ing nightmare.
00:29:48He cannot see you right now.
00:29:49You're stressing me out.
00:29:50I'm stressing the f*** out.
00:29:58This is crazy.
00:29:59I'm here in Durban,
00:30:01South Africa.
00:30:02I just traveled for 36 hours
00:30:04to meet Sonny.
00:30:06And there's only
00:30:07a glass door right there,
00:30:08so I'm kind of freaking out
00:30:09because he has no idea
00:30:11that I have my ex-boyfriend
00:30:12here with me.
00:30:13And I don't want
00:30:14a big explosive situation.
00:30:17So if I text you 777,
00:30:19that means you're good
00:30:20to exit this building.
00:30:21Just wait till we exit.
00:30:23All right, I heard you.
00:30:24I heard you the first time.
00:30:25I will text you.
00:30:27Oh my God.
00:30:28That's why I broke up with you.
00:30:29I broke up sexually?
00:30:30Yes, I did.
00:30:31Are you kidding me?
00:30:32That's not the point.
00:30:33I know right now
00:30:34is not the right time
00:30:35to introduce Rory and Sonny
00:30:36to each other.
00:30:37I want to meet him first.
00:30:38I don't want to run
00:30:39our first moments together.
00:30:40So me and Rory
00:30:41came up with a plan.
00:30:42When me and Sonny leave,
00:30:43I'm going to text Rory 777
00:30:45and then he can exit.
00:30:47So what's 777?
00:30:49777 is my lucky angel numbers.
00:30:52The universe will look out for me.
00:30:54Hopefully.
00:30:58All right, we're back
00:30:59to the hotel, right?
00:31:00See you in a couple days.
00:31:02I have to see what the vibe
00:31:03is like with Sonny
00:31:04and that will determine
00:31:05when I feel comfortable
00:31:06introducing him.
00:31:07Absolutely.
00:31:08Because I don't want
00:31:09to f*** anything up.
00:31:10All right, I will see you
00:31:11in a little bit.
00:31:12I'll see you.
00:31:13Adios.
00:31:15What is she getting herself into?
00:31:18There was a lot of chaos
00:31:19in my life growing up.
00:31:21So it's hard for me
00:31:22to allow someone
00:31:23to take care of me
00:31:24and to let my guard down.
00:31:25But I would say
00:31:26Sonny's different for sure
00:31:27and I want a future with him.
00:31:29I'm just really excited
00:31:30and nervous and anxious.
00:31:31I could go through
00:31:32those glass doors
00:31:33and my life could change forever.
00:31:43Hi.
00:31:53It's been a long time.
00:31:54I'm so proud of you.
00:31:56You smell so perfect.
00:31:57I know.
00:31:58I get candy.
00:31:59I'm not gonna lie.
00:32:00I know.
00:32:02Do you want a present?
00:32:03Yeah.
00:32:04My favorite present.
00:32:06You're so sweet.
00:32:08Instead of getting
00:32:09each other's lips,
00:32:10we got each other
00:32:11on the side of the mouth
00:32:12like maybe a little
00:32:13tiny bit on the lips.
00:32:14I don't know.
00:32:15It wasn't really a kiss.
00:32:16We're just a little awkward.
00:32:17But I think we just
00:32:18will build up
00:32:19to being more comfortable
00:32:20and less awkward
00:32:21with each other.
00:32:22You've been waiting
00:32:23for this brown chocolate.
00:32:25Finally you have
00:32:26the brown chocolate.
00:32:27I know.
00:32:28I can't believe
00:32:29I finally get to hug you.
00:32:30It feels so good.
00:32:31It looks like me.
00:32:32She looks so beautiful
00:32:33but in real life
00:32:34she's more beautiful.
00:32:37I have a surprise
00:32:38in the house.
00:32:39It's waiting for you.
00:32:41Shut up.
00:32:42You're lying.
00:32:44He's lying.
00:32:45Don't say that.
00:32:46So don't.
00:32:54Killing time.
00:32:57Fun, fun, fun.
00:33:01What am I doing?
00:33:04How did I get
00:33:05in this situation?
00:33:07I'm a grown ass man.
00:33:08I'm hiding in the airport
00:33:09from this kid.
00:33:10This is so weird.
00:33:13Come let me help you
00:33:14to open the door
00:33:15for you as well.
00:33:16Don't you have to
00:33:17go on this side?
00:33:18No, this side.
00:33:19This is South Africa, honey.
00:33:20It's not America.
00:33:21What?
00:33:22What the f***?
00:33:23Yeah, you're driving
00:33:24the car.
00:33:25Okay, stop.
00:33:26Okay, I get it.
00:33:27I'm so excited.
00:33:28I'm in this
00:33:29brand new country
00:33:30and it's really amazing
00:33:31to be with Sonny.
00:33:32He's being so sweet
00:33:33and so cute
00:33:34and I really want to
00:33:35build a relationship
00:33:36up with him
00:33:37before I tell him
00:33:38about being here.
00:33:48But I feel really bad
00:33:49and guilty
00:33:50about the situation.
00:33:52I feel like I'm starting
00:33:53this relationship in person
00:33:54with a lie
00:33:55and that was never
00:33:56my intentions.
00:34:08Come on.
00:34:27I really, really,
00:34:28really love chickens.
00:34:29Like I said,
00:34:30they really do
00:34:31have a wonderful personality.
00:34:32I've named all of them.
00:34:33They always pay attention
00:34:34and they follow me everywhere
00:34:35and they like
00:34:36actually talk to you.
00:34:39Wow.
00:34:40You have a personal
00:34:41deep connection
00:34:43with those chickens.
00:34:44It's quite amazing.
00:34:46Since our trip
00:34:47to the doctor yesterday,
00:34:49I feel more connected
00:34:50to Rene than ever.
00:34:52While the prognosis
00:34:53is not something
00:34:54I had hoped,
00:34:55Rene was there for me
00:34:56in the face of
00:34:57that tragic news
00:34:58and held my hand
00:34:59through it all.
00:35:01You?
00:35:02Yeah.
00:35:03Dinner is ready.
00:35:04All right.
00:35:05Let's see Rene.
00:35:06Hey.
00:35:07Let's go.
00:35:08Yeah.
00:35:09Yeah.
00:35:10I'll go now.
00:35:11I was just telling him
00:35:12about the chickens.
00:35:14Tonight,
00:35:15I asked my sister
00:35:16to prepare
00:35:17a special meal
00:35:18of our favorite
00:35:19Nigerian dish.
00:35:20Judy!
00:35:21I'm waiting.
00:35:23Yeah, we are coming.
00:35:25Rene has always
00:35:27had this fear
00:35:28of my family
00:35:29not loving her.
00:35:31Picture her.
00:35:32There you go.
00:35:34So I'm excited
00:35:35for the chance
00:35:36to bond together
00:35:37over this meal.
00:35:39How are you doing?
00:35:40Okay.
00:35:43Use your chair.
00:35:48Rene has to
00:35:49wash your hands.
00:35:51So just wash hands?
00:35:52Yeah, you need to
00:35:53dip your hand.
00:35:54Okay.
00:35:55So you can pass
00:35:56the water to him
00:35:57to wash his hands.
00:35:58There you go.
00:36:01Okay, and you would
00:36:02kindly guide
00:36:03his hand to the gutter.
00:36:04Okay, please come.
00:36:05Now or right now?
00:36:07I got it.
00:36:09And he will
00:36:10take it from there.
00:36:12Okay?
00:36:15Honestly,
00:36:16since that first day
00:36:17at the market,
00:36:18I've been getting
00:36:19some weird vibes
00:36:20off Victoria.
00:36:21It's kind of like
00:36:22a real dark energy
00:36:23that vibrates
00:36:24throughout my body.
00:36:25I don't think she
00:36:26really trusts me
00:36:27with Judy.
00:36:28Even though
00:36:29we're all hugging,
00:36:30I'm like,
00:36:31there's something there.
00:36:32Even when we look
00:36:33at each other,
00:36:34I'm like,
00:36:35there's something there.
00:36:53It looks like Play-Doh.
00:37:04So how is it?
00:37:06Hot.
00:37:08But it's good, right?
00:37:10It's different, yeah.
00:37:14The soup was very spicy.
00:37:15I don't know how
00:37:16that baby was eating it.
00:37:17And the gari was
00:37:18really bland
00:37:19and it was really
00:37:20hard to swallow.
00:37:21I got it up into
00:37:22a little pea-sized ball
00:37:23and it stuck to
00:37:24the back of your throat
00:37:25like a little dry
00:37:26Velcro pill in there.
00:37:27I mean, you had to be
00:37:28a snake to be able
00:37:29to swallow a golf ball
00:37:30size that big.
00:37:32I can serve you rice if you want.
00:37:33Oh no, I'm good.
00:37:34I'm good.
00:37:35You're good?
00:37:36Mm-hmm.
00:37:39So,
00:37:40what kind of soup
00:37:41do you cook?
00:37:42What kind of food
00:37:43do you eat?
00:37:44We don't really cook,
00:37:45especially in the U.S.
00:37:46Everything's mostly
00:37:47like prepackaged,
00:37:48warm-up.
00:37:50We have a big selection.
00:37:52We've got tomato soup,
00:37:53cream of chicken,
00:37:54cream of mushroom.
00:37:55I mean,
00:37:56there's a huge selection.
00:37:57But no,
00:37:58when it comes to cooking,
00:37:59I'm just like
00:38:00pizza.
00:38:02I don't really cook.
00:38:06It's weird.
00:38:08Yeah, we be worried
00:38:09because
00:38:10Shidi's a black man.
00:38:11He eats
00:38:12African food.
00:38:15It's going to be
00:38:16difficult for Shidi
00:38:17because there's a limit
00:38:18to what Shidi can do
00:38:19for himself
00:38:20when it comes to cooking.
00:38:21So it's going to be
00:38:22very bad for him
00:38:23since Rene doesn't cook.
00:38:28I'd like to ask Rene
00:38:29why would you like
00:38:30your children
00:38:31to be close to Shidi?
00:38:32Oh, yeah.
00:38:33He already is.
00:38:34Like, they hear about him
00:38:35so much every day
00:38:36of their lives.
00:38:37Like, they've heard it
00:38:38for like the last
00:38:39five and a half years,
00:38:40every day, literally.
00:38:42What do you usually
00:38:43tell them?
00:38:44I tell them that I feel
00:38:45like we're soulmates.
00:38:46That he feels me
00:38:47in his heart,
00:38:48his mind, his body.
00:38:49Just so deep
00:38:50and spiritual.
00:38:52How do you mean, dear?
00:38:55Huh?
00:38:56What do you mean
00:38:57by spiritual?
00:38:58God ordained.
00:38:59God ordained.
00:39:00God ordained.
00:39:01Okay.
00:39:02Okay.
00:39:03Not something that happened
00:39:04physically between
00:39:05the two of you.
00:39:08Oh, no, never.
00:39:10Okay.
00:39:11Good.
00:39:14I can't believe that she
00:39:15even asked me if Shidi
00:39:16and I were physical
00:39:17at the dinner table
00:39:18in front of family.
00:39:19That's private.
00:39:20Honestly, I'm really sick
00:39:21of her getting
00:39:22into our business.
00:39:29Why do you look so angry?
00:39:32I'm not angry.
00:39:33No, but I see you
00:39:34all the time,
00:39:35and I'm just saying
00:39:36like throughout
00:39:37this whole time,
00:39:38you've been looking
00:39:39real angry.
00:39:40Honestly, okay?
00:39:41There's no reason
00:39:42to be angry.
00:39:43Even if you don't
00:39:44like something,
00:39:45I say there's no reason.
00:39:46I am not angry.
00:39:47I'm just stressed
00:39:48about my family, okay?
00:39:49No, I'm just making,
00:39:50that's why I asked you.
00:39:51I said, are you angry?
00:39:52No, no, she's not.
00:39:53She's not, 100%.
00:39:54You understand?
00:39:56No, no.
00:39:57We are excited
00:39:58that you're here.
00:39:59That's all I can tell you.
00:40:00Yeah.
00:40:03Since I can't see
00:40:04what is happening,
00:40:05I kind of find it difficult
00:40:06to know if Rene
00:40:08is overreacting.
00:40:09But my sister
00:40:10is never an angry person.
00:40:14Rene is deeply insecure,
00:40:15and she always feels
00:40:16everyone is up against her.
00:40:20I understand
00:40:21how vulnerable she is,
00:40:22but the way she talks
00:40:23to my sister
00:40:24is alarming to me.
00:40:27I am deeply worried.
00:40:29That's all right, Rene.
00:40:30We have one big family.
00:40:31You are part of the family.
00:40:33Whatever it is
00:40:34that's bugging your heart,
00:40:35bugging your emotion now...
00:40:36Nothing bugs me anymore.
00:40:38When I can get along
00:40:39with people, I move on.
00:40:40I don't linger.
00:40:46Excuse me.
00:40:55Is my outfit not okay?
00:40:57It's not good for Jordan.
00:40:59She has to dress
00:41:00the way that you want her to dress.
00:41:01It's not your business now.
00:41:03But I'm in the car,
00:41:04and you're creating
00:41:05a lot of tension.
00:41:06Jordan, man is the man.
00:41:08You're my wife now.
00:41:15Four hours
00:41:16to make Tiger leave here.
00:41:17Come on.
00:41:18Baby, stop.
00:41:19Let's just all settle down.
00:41:23Adnan is angry.
00:41:27Kourdi,
00:41:28are you okay?
00:41:30Are we fighting right now?
00:41:31Are we fighting?
00:41:32What are we talking about?
00:41:33It's not your business now.
00:41:34I'm in the car
00:41:35and you're creating
00:41:36a lot of tension.
00:41:37You're making me anxious.
00:41:39So I'm making it
00:41:40up here for you right now.
00:41:42So,
00:41:43how come
00:41:44my enough?
00:41:45How come my wife
00:41:46is not this evil?
00:41:47It's not your business.
00:41:48I'm not my wife.
00:41:49I'm telling you right now,
00:41:50we're going to have
00:41:51an argument,
00:41:52and she's not my wife.
00:41:53I know what you're saying,
00:41:54but she's not my wife.
00:41:55We're going to get
00:41:56So I'm making it my business because we're
00:41:58making it my business.
00:42:00We're in the car driving to Petra for our honeymoon.
00:42:04But Adnan is so angry about how long that it took to get ready.
00:42:09I have never seen him like this before, and I don't like it.
00:42:27That's when they'll protect you.
00:42:29You're trying to protect Tiger Lily?
00:42:30Yeah.
00:42:31Can you explain to me what is wrong
00:42:33with Tiger Lily's outfit?
00:42:34It's not in this.
00:42:36Oh, you don't need this.
00:42:37OK.
00:42:38Yeah, it's cover more.
00:42:39OK.
00:42:40In Islam, sexy dress just wife and husband in the house,
00:42:44not everybody.
00:42:46So do you think that is my outfit OK,
00:42:49or should I have worn something else?
00:42:51Maybe, you know, in the future, you will change.
00:43:00So it's not OK?
00:43:02It's not OK, yeah.
00:43:06She has to dress the way that you want her to dress.
00:43:09Yeah.
00:43:10No matter where she goes.
00:43:11Yeah.
00:43:15Jordan, man is the man.
00:43:16In Jordan.
00:43:17Everywhere.
00:43:18Everywhere.
00:43:19In the States, that's very conservative.
00:43:21Yeah.
00:43:25I feel that Adnan's rules are a lot to handle.
00:43:29Tiger Lily needs to dress a certain way.
00:43:31She can't be alone with other men or shake hands.
00:43:36I just really hope that Tiger Lily doesn't
00:43:38lose her voice in this marriage.
00:43:39She's being this passive Tiger Lily, which is not really her.
00:43:45Is this something that she'll be able to wear
00:43:46in the States, Adnan?
00:43:48Are you OK if I wear this in the US, or is it only Jordan?
00:43:59OK, so next time before I leave, like, next time before,
00:44:05like, when you see me wearing something, then just tell me.
00:44:08OK.
00:44:09It's just like it's going to be a learning process for me
00:44:13to know, baby.
00:44:18I don't really understand all the rules
00:44:20about the Muslim dress code.
00:44:22Here we are.
00:44:24The issue is I am learning these rules from Adnan,
00:44:27and they're not clear.
00:44:30I am not even showing anything.
00:44:32I have long sleeves on.
00:44:33Am I supposed to wear a trash bag?
00:44:35Big ol' sack?
00:44:37All right, we're all checked in.
00:44:39I'm excited about Petra.
00:44:41We'll see y'all early tomorrow.
00:44:43Y'all have a good night.
00:44:44OK.
00:44:44Of course, it is important that Adnan feels
00:44:47like I'm respecting him, but he can't just
00:44:51place all these rules on me and expect
00:44:53me to just go along with it.
00:44:57This is not going to be that kind of relationship.
00:45:01I'm so tired.
00:45:03I know.
00:45:03Me too, baby.
00:45:13I really want to tell Matilda tonight
00:45:15about postponing the marriage, but I'm not quite sure how
00:45:19I'm going to break it to her.
00:45:32Oh, oh, oh, yeah.
00:45:34This is our only party.
00:45:36You know I want you, girl.
00:45:39My money, my money.
00:45:39Can you turn off the AC a little bit?
00:45:43Oh, there's no air conditioning.
00:45:45Well, this is the first thing that's different from America.
00:45:48I finally landed in Ghana and met Matilda for the first time.
00:45:52It's just so amazing to be in her presence.
00:45:54It's indescribable.
00:45:55That's the only way I can say it.
00:46:03It's an experience.
00:46:05It's new for me.
00:46:06Trying to take it all in.
00:46:08I couldn't balance stuff on my head like that.
00:46:10I'm not coordinated enough to do that.
00:46:13I might need a day to really just let it sink in.
00:46:17Here I am with you.
00:46:21Right now, I'm just hyper-focused
00:46:23on taking in the environment and enjoying my time with Matilda.
00:46:27But I know that I'm going to have to come clean eventually
00:46:30to her, considering postponing the marriage.
00:46:32Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:46:39OK.
00:46:41You're very welcome.
00:46:43Also, let me know if you don't like me opening doors for you,
00:46:45OK?
00:46:45OK, good.
00:46:47I really want to tell Matilda tonight,
00:46:49but I'm not quite sure how I'm going to break it to her.
00:46:53I want to say I have a plan, but I don't.
00:46:59And you?
00:47:00It's difficult.
00:47:01I'll try that.
00:47:02I think I should try that.
00:47:04You have to try it.
00:47:14OK.
00:47:22OK.
00:47:25That's a snail?
00:47:26Mm-hmm.
00:47:28Pick it.
00:47:32OK.
00:47:58As far as I understand from my duties as a man,
00:48:00don't cheat, don't lie to her, don't mistreat her.
00:48:04Yeah, you're right.
00:48:14What do you mean by quick temper?
00:48:15I get angry or upset.
00:48:16Yeah, you get angry or you get mad.
00:48:18But don't hide anything from Matilda and make her happy.
00:48:21If you treat her good, you're not going to see anything.
00:48:25You understand?
00:48:27I think we can manage it.
00:48:32From our conversations, I could see that Matilda
00:48:35was pretty strong-willed.
00:48:36But temper issues, I never really got that from her.
00:48:40And when it comes to telling her that we
00:48:42have to postpone the wedding, right now,
00:48:44the courage is kind of leaving me here.
00:48:47I just don't want anything to ruin our first night together.
00:48:57Mm.
00:49:01I can't wait to spend some one-on-one time with Matilda.
00:49:04But even though we both have had sex before,
00:49:07we want to make sure that we do things the right way
00:49:10this time around and refrain from having sex
00:49:12until marriage.
00:49:13It's going to be hard to control our urges because, have I
00:49:16mentioned I'm heterosexual today?
00:49:19And that I have a very beautiful woman in my bed with me?
00:49:24Oh, god.
00:49:27Mm.
00:49:34Oh, but I will.
00:49:35But I will wait.
00:49:36Why?
00:49:37Oh, no, no reason.
00:49:38After all, nothing's going to happen tonight.
00:49:44Mm-hmm.
00:49:46To be honest, being with Niles in person,
00:49:48it's even better than what I imagined.
00:49:51This man is very handsome.
00:49:56Can I get some kiss?
00:50:02I don't think I can keep my hands off him.
00:50:05Oh, my goodness.
00:50:06I need you, babe.
00:50:07I've been waiting for you for so long.
00:50:18I mean, Lauren has broken my heart.
00:50:21And now, I don't know if I can ever forgive him.
00:50:36Hey.
00:50:37Hey.
00:50:37Hey.
00:50:38So you're allowed to shake girls' hands,
00:50:40but I can't shake Chris's hands?
00:50:42I am so angry.
00:50:44It's a complete double standard.
00:50:46So you have different rules than me?
00:50:48Not different rules.
00:50:49I told you before.
00:50:49Then what is it, then?
00:50:51You make me so angry.
00:50:52I'm so stressful.
00:50:52I can't.
00:51:05Hi, Mommy.
00:51:06Hi.
00:51:19I still haven't talked to Lauren since I found out
00:51:21he was sleeping with other women.
00:51:30My friends have no idea what's been going on.
00:51:33They had plans to come do my nails and meet Lauren today.
00:51:36And I didn't want to cancel because I need their support.
00:51:39But I don't know what to say.
00:51:41It's humiliating.
00:52:04I don't know what to say.
00:52:05I don't know what to say.
00:52:08You've been through a lot.
00:52:11Tell us.
00:52:12We're your friends.
00:52:20So, we left yesterday, and then...
00:52:26Don't cry. I'm crying.
00:52:27Hey.
00:52:30And then, he was like,
00:52:30he was like, looking at me.
00:52:34Why?
00:52:35Because he had a pimp.
00:52:38What?
00:52:40He had a pimp.
00:52:41A pimp?
00:52:42Really, he had an M.A.
00:52:44Is it a generator?
00:52:49Then he told me he got that from a girl last Halloween.
00:52:53Wasn't it you two last Halloween?
00:52:56♪
00:53:02Do you have any idea that he's cheating on you?
00:53:06Do you feel it?
00:53:07We're always up to date.
00:53:09We always talk.
00:53:10He always tells me who he's with.
00:53:13I thought they were having an affair.
00:53:16As long as I trust him, I trust him a lot.
00:53:20Later on, within six months,
00:53:25something else happened.
00:53:30It's just sad.
00:53:32♪
00:53:38I made the wrong decision.
00:53:42What did you do?
00:53:43♪
00:53:45I made the wrong decision.
00:53:48♪
00:53:53This is exactly what I was worried about
00:53:56with having a boyfriend.
00:53:58That I would end up heartbroken.
00:54:00And now, Loren has broken my heart.
00:54:04What are you going to do?
00:54:06Actually, he already sent me a message.
00:54:09Maybe we can talk.
00:54:13This is what I'm going to do.
00:54:16If you can't get rid of him, get rid of him.
00:54:19He can have sex with other women.
00:54:22I'm just getting mad.
00:54:24If I'm with him, I'll just run away.
00:54:28If I can't get rid of him, I'll just leave him.
00:54:31I won't get over him.
00:54:35That's why I'm nervous.
00:54:37I'm nervous.
00:54:39You said he has a badge to meet you.
00:54:44Maybe he really loves you.
00:54:46If he doesn't love you,
00:54:48he won't admit to you that he has an STD.
00:54:52Maybe I'm right.
00:54:54You know him.
00:54:56You can talk to him.
00:54:58You can give him a chance.
00:55:00We're just friends.
00:55:02I put too much into this relationship
00:55:04to walk away without a conversation.
00:55:06And I need Loren to understand
00:55:08how much he hurt me.
00:55:10But I'm not sure if Loren can fix this.
00:55:14I don't know if I can ever forgive him.
00:55:18Think about it.
00:55:20Think about it.
00:55:42How did you sleep?
00:55:44Horrible.
00:55:46Horrible sleep.
00:55:47Really?
00:55:48I'm doing...
00:55:50I have people here in the room.
00:55:52So creepy and so horrible and so weird.
00:55:55I slept like a baby.
00:55:56Here, you can wear this tonight.
00:55:59Thank you so much.
00:56:00Yes, yes.
00:56:01I always am sure whenever I go to different places
00:56:04that I protect myself.
00:56:06I wear crystals.
00:56:07Thank you so much.
00:56:08Yes.
00:56:09Here, Tiger Lily, this will protect you at night too.
00:56:11Perfect.
00:56:12I love it.
00:56:14Do you want me to help you put this on?
00:56:16Yeah.
00:56:16Oh, wait, wait.
00:56:17I don't know if you can.
00:56:19Maybe.
00:56:20Can I put this on?
00:56:21Do you want to do it?
00:56:23Out of respect for my husband, I've
00:56:25changed how I interact with men, especially Cruz.
00:56:29And it's hard because Cruz and I have known each other
00:56:32for a really long time.
00:56:34And before, we would hug when we saw each other.
00:56:38I just don't think you know how awkward it is in the US.
00:56:42Just tell them you have a Muslim husband.
00:56:44Of course they know.
00:56:46OK, guys, are you excited to see Pink City Petra?
00:56:50I am very excited.
00:56:51We're actually on time today.
00:56:53Before sunset.
00:56:54Let's go.
00:56:55All right, let's go.
00:56:56Let's do it.
00:56:56Let's do it.
00:56:57Thank you, God, for to make Tiger Lily in time,
00:57:01getting ready, because I planned very exciting day.
00:57:05We'll meet you guys outside by the car.
00:57:08OK.
00:57:09Petra is the one of the seven wonders in the world.
00:57:13The seven wonders in the world.
00:57:15It's ruins and old city.
00:57:17Carved in rock.
00:57:20It's amazing.
00:57:21I want to make sure every moment is so romantic time
00:57:24with Tiger Lily.
00:57:26Excited?
00:57:27I'm very excited.
00:57:28Excited, yeah.
00:57:29I'm going to Petra and three times.
00:57:31Ah.
00:57:32Vartima.
00:57:32Hey.
00:57:33Vartima.
00:57:34Hey.
00:57:35Hey.
00:57:36Hey.
00:57:36Hey.
00:57:37Hey.
00:57:38Hey.
00:57:39Hey.
00:57:40Hey.
00:57:40Hey.
00:57:41Hey.
00:57:43Wait, so you're allowed to shake girls' hands,
00:57:44but I can't shake Cruz's hand?
00:57:48Same thing that I do when I just say hi.
00:57:52I guess we can shake hands now, Cruz.
00:57:54And maybe we can even hug.
00:57:57I might get in trouble.
00:57:58Like all my hands.
00:58:00Like all my hands.
00:58:01No, no.
00:58:03I am feeling completely betrayed.
00:58:07Him shaking Shay's hand, it's a complete double standard.
00:58:11Adnan's having these rules for me, but at the same time,
00:58:16he just thinks that the rules don't apply to him.
00:58:18And I don't like that.
00:58:26It's a problem because it's disrespectful to me.
00:58:30If I did that, if I shook a guy's hand in front of him,
00:58:33he would be so angry.
00:58:34Yeah.
00:58:35Yeah.
00:58:36But Shay and Cruz are like my brother and my sister.
00:58:38Like, I met your family at the wedding, your uncles
00:58:42and your different people.
00:58:43They didn't shake my hand.
00:58:45So you have different rules than me?
00:58:49Then what is it then?
00:58:55She is your family.
00:58:56That's fine.
00:59:00These are your rules.
00:59:01These aren't even my rules.
00:59:02Why would I be making up my own whatever?
00:59:04This is your thing.
00:59:09Yeah, yeah.
00:59:11I can't.
00:59:12I can't do anything now.
00:59:13It's your fault that you put me like this.
00:59:14You can fix it, but without this face.
00:59:17I don't like this face.
00:59:18What's wrong with my face now?
00:59:19Now there's something wrong with my face.
00:59:21OK.
00:59:32Jordan, they don't do this, sharing a problem
00:59:35with her husband and with other people.
00:59:37That's so not respectful for me.
00:59:41I didn't mean to cause any drama.
00:59:43I just did it instinctively.
00:59:44No, I know you did it.
00:59:44I know.
00:59:45I know exactly.
00:59:46This is just what we do in the US.
00:59:47I get it.
00:59:49It should be different for him because this is his life.
00:59:54Based on this fight, there's some double standards
00:59:56that Tiger Lily probably wasn't seeing before, and now she is.
01:00:01But at the same time, they're already married,
01:00:04so it's a little too late.
01:00:06I have to deal with stuff.
01:00:07Yeah.
01:00:12I know he does.
01:00:13But I just think it's really hypocritical
01:00:15that he's telling me that I can't do things
01:00:18while he's doing them himself.
01:00:26Because I'm mad at you.
01:00:30It's OK.
01:00:32You are next to me.
01:00:33I am not alone.
01:00:34You are next to me.
01:00:38I am just feeling so angry.
01:00:42I said everything that I needed to say.
01:00:47I'm not going to be in a relationship with someone
01:00:49that doesn't respect me.
01:00:51There's no way I can do that.
01:00:55You met the Lily.
01:00:56Now this is the Tiger.
01:00:57Rawr.
01:01:02Oh, this is nice.
01:01:05I like these roses you put on the bed.
01:01:06The candles.
01:01:08You're really going all out.
01:01:10He's being so romantic.
01:01:11I don't want to continue to keep this secret from him
01:01:13without Rory being here.
01:01:15So, um.
01:01:23Make sure you're staying in your lane, OK?
01:01:25I don't like driving right now.
01:01:26Because I can't hold your hand.
01:01:29We're going to die.
01:01:30Who wants to try?
01:01:31Oh, my God.
01:01:39Just nervous because you are next to me.
01:01:40That is the reason.
01:01:43To finally be together with Sonny,
01:01:45it just feels so different.
01:01:48Even though I've talked to him and we've built a relationship
01:01:50for the past year, it's different in person.
01:01:53It's like, no, you're starting over with,
01:01:54like, your comfortability with him.
01:01:56How do we turn the AC on up in here?
01:01:58Do you feel hot?
01:01:59Yeah.
01:01:59This is the excitement, honey.
01:02:01I want to make your heart beat a little bit faster.
01:02:03Because it's four players.
01:02:08Four players.
01:02:09Let's play.
01:02:10Do you know what four players is?
01:02:12Yeah, just play.
01:02:13Wait, no, what's four players mean?
01:02:17I don't know.
01:02:18Four players means four people playing together.
01:02:22No, stop.
01:02:24No, stop.
01:02:26Are you lying?
01:02:27I don't know.
01:02:29So four players is like what you do before sex.
01:02:34Kissing, touching, hugging.
01:02:37Come on.
01:02:38I thought she's talking about she wanted to play four play,
01:02:41like four people going to play together or something
01:02:42like that, cards or something.
01:02:45Four play.
01:02:45That's what four play is.
01:02:46It's when four people play cards.
01:02:51OK.
01:02:53Let's get to the hotel.
01:02:56Ladies first.
01:02:58It'd be cute if he wasn't super experienced.
01:03:00Could teach him some things.
01:03:03But I don't think that we're going to do anything tonight.
01:03:05Even though we've done things on video chat,
01:03:07it's weird in person.
01:03:09I definitely need a little bit of time
01:03:10just to get more comfortable with him before we get freaky.
01:03:15Surprise.
01:03:16Do you like the place?
01:03:17Yeah, it's cute.
01:03:20Baby, are you hungry?
01:03:22Yes.
01:03:24Come sit here.
01:03:25It's my turn to treat you like a queen.
01:03:27OK.
01:03:30What is this?
01:03:31This is like kind of bread.
01:03:33We normally eat with the bread.
01:03:34There's a chicken curry for you.
01:03:36A lot of hard work I did on that.
01:03:45I appreciate it, but I don't want to eat it.
01:03:49Are you serious?
01:03:51I don't want to offend Sonny,
01:03:52but I've always been very particular
01:03:53what I will put in my body.
01:03:56Does this look bad?
01:03:57No, it's just I'm weird about what I eat.
01:03:58I'm really picky.
01:03:59I'd do this.
01:04:01Call me sheltered, but I've just never eaten curry before.
01:04:03I don't know what's even in curry.
01:04:05I'm tired.
01:04:06I'm jet lagged.
01:04:07And I just don't want to eat something
01:04:09I don't know what it is right now.
01:04:12I appreciate it, but I just don't want to eat it.
01:04:15Sorry.
01:04:15OK, that's cool.
01:04:16I'll eat it myself.
01:04:17I love my food.
01:04:19So I'll show you your bedroom in just a minute.
01:04:22I need a time.
01:04:23OK, I'll sit here and wait.
01:04:24OK, thank you.
01:04:31I feel like that's rude.
01:04:34Food is really important in my culture,
01:04:36like making a food with love.
01:04:38I wanted to introduce those things to Fiya
01:04:40so she can also love my culture.
01:04:42She refused to even try it.
01:04:44That makes me sad.
01:04:45But I don't want to put those things on my head
01:04:47because she's here now.
01:04:48I can't be sad.
01:04:49Let's go forward.
01:04:52Are you ready?
01:04:53Is there something else?
01:04:54I want to surprise you.
01:04:55Show me.
01:04:56But you have to close your eyes for that.
01:04:58I will hold it.
01:04:59I don't trust you.
01:05:00I will hold it myself.
01:05:01OK.
01:05:03Are you ready?
01:05:04Are you ready?
01:05:06You sure?
01:05:10This is going to be our bedroom.
01:05:13Oh, this is nice.
01:05:16I like these roses you put on the bed.
01:05:18You're trying to be all romantic.
01:05:20I am.
01:05:20The candles.
01:05:22You're really going all out.
01:05:28So, I'm going to take a shower, I think.
01:05:33Can I join with you?
01:05:35Not tonight.
01:05:36I'm really tired.
01:05:38OK.
01:05:39OK.
01:05:40Bye.
01:05:41Enjoy your shower.
01:05:46I think it's really cute that Sunny has done all this.
01:05:49He's being so romantic.
01:05:50He's being so sweet.
01:05:52But I just keep thinking that I haven't told him
01:05:54about Rory being here.
01:05:56You ready for bed?
01:05:57Yeah.
01:05:58I don't want to continue to keep this secret from him.
01:06:00But I'm in a situation where it's like, where do I tell him?
01:06:04How do I tell him?
01:06:06I'm just really scared that Sunny will never forgive me.
01:06:08He could break up with me and send me home.
01:06:10I can mess up everything that I've
01:06:11had planned for the past year.
01:06:16Good night.
01:06:17Sweet nightmares.
01:06:18You too.
01:06:21I was just wondering if you would
01:06:22feel comfortable to, like, stay in a hotel room with me.
01:06:26Like, you even say yourself, we're soulmates.
01:06:27We're meant to be.
01:06:28So I don't see the issue with you being alone with me.
01:06:30I live in a society where there are norms,
01:06:33where there are principles.
01:06:34Hey, you care more about the world and your family
01:06:38thing versus us.
01:06:50I think I'm beside.
01:06:51I think I'm beside.
01:06:52Oh, baby, if you shine it.
01:06:55Don't know sit down it.
01:06:57Baby, if you shine it.
01:07:01Dinner with Chitty's family last night was really tense.
01:07:06Victoria is starting to show clues
01:07:07to maybe as to why I might have some deep down issue
01:07:10when it comes to sisters.
01:07:12Questioning me if Chitty and I were physical
01:07:14was the last straw.
01:07:15That's disrespectful.
01:07:17My gut is never wrong.
01:07:19Never wrong.
01:07:22So much negative energy here.
01:07:24So I'm going to talk to him about getting a hotel room.
01:07:30I think he would stay with me.
01:07:31It's just he would be really hesitant and scared
01:07:33over what his sister and the husband are thinking.
01:07:40Good morning, Chitty.
01:07:42Babe, good morning.
01:07:44You're reading your Bible?
01:07:45Yep.
01:07:46That's cool.
01:07:47Interesting, right?
01:07:48Yeah.
01:07:49That's a trip how you learned that.
01:07:50Yeah, but it's not that difficult.
01:07:54You know what I was thinking?
01:07:56You want to go for a walk?
01:07:58No, it's not a bad idea.
01:07:59Let me change my pants.
01:08:01OK, we'll see you in the living room.
01:08:03After last night dinner, I was very worried
01:08:06about Rene's state of mind regarding my sister.
01:08:10It's real nice outside and cloudy.
01:08:12And the water's running down the street.
01:08:14And the chickens are all over.
01:08:15And there's people all over.
01:08:16Yeah, there's a school nearby.
01:08:19I am very relieved that Rene seems
01:08:21to be in a better spirit.
01:08:22But I am just worried that she will not be able to get
01:08:26along with my family.
01:08:28Want to sit down?
01:08:29Right here, there's a place.
01:08:30Yeah, of course.
01:08:35Are you comfortable there?
01:08:36Yeah, this is nice.
01:08:40So about last night, I wanted to apologize because I did
01:08:44raise my voice a little bit.
01:08:46But it was only out of obvious frustration.
01:08:51Sometimes, yes, we have differences and we have issues.
01:08:55But unless we get over them, it will still
01:08:57be difficult to carry on.
01:09:00You understand?
01:09:04I appreciate your sister.
01:09:05But I don't know if our problem will be resolved
01:09:08in the end of all this.
01:09:10So I was just wondering if you would
01:09:12feel comfortable to, like, stay in a hotel room with me?
01:09:17You don't look enthused.
01:09:22It's not a bad thing.
01:09:23It's not a bad idea.
01:09:25So you'll do it?
01:09:29I just, I wish we can still have more time together at home.
01:09:40If the room is the problem, we can interchange at this club.
01:09:46I'm good.
01:09:46I get it, OK?
01:09:47It's not that I'm uncomfortable.
01:09:49I'm just uncomfortable with the situation
01:09:51because I came so freaking far to see my soulmate
01:09:54that I'm supposed to marry, that he
01:09:55wants to marry me so bad.
01:09:57I'm just looking for that little bit of quality
01:09:59time alone with you.
01:10:07Like, you even say yourself, we're soulmates.
01:10:09We're meant to be, like, you believe God has ordained us.
01:10:12So I don't see the issue with you being alone with me.
01:10:14Because I am a man.
01:10:15I have the Lord running all over me.
01:10:17You understand?
01:10:18No, you know what?
01:10:18No, I don't want to argue, OK?
01:10:19No, no, we're not arguing.
01:10:20Shut up.
01:10:21I'm trying to be nice to you.
01:10:23Since you might think that maybe I'm such an animal,
01:10:25I'm going to jump on you, I want to.
01:10:26Promise on your entire life, that the entire trip I'm here,
01:10:30I'm not going to touch you in any sexual way.
01:10:32I just want to hang out with you, OK?
01:10:38As a woman, I want to marry.
01:10:40I need privacy with her.
01:10:41That is real.
01:10:41That is reality.
01:10:43But I believe if we move into a more quiet and private place
01:10:48that I might capitulate.
01:10:51So in order to avoid breaking my vows,
01:10:54there are some things I need to just avoid.
01:10:59You know, I love you.
01:11:02And I would do anything to keep you and to have you.
01:11:05But I live in a society where there are norms,
01:11:09where there are principles.
01:11:10And you know what the sad part is?
01:11:11You care more about what people think?
01:11:13Hey!
01:11:15You care more about the world and what people and your family
01:11:19think versus us?
01:11:24I'm not going to come to your beliefs,
01:11:26because I'm far beyond your little beliefs.
01:11:30I'm on a different spiritual plane.
01:11:34And now that I know that you see me
01:11:35as too much of a temptation by staying with me in the room
01:11:37shows me that you're just not ready for me, right?
01:11:39Like, I know, like, I can sit here and I'll be like,
01:11:41oh, but you're my soulmate.
01:11:42Maybe I will just break it.
01:11:43I hate knowing she disturbs my brain.
01:11:45And I am extremely overwhelmed by Renee right now.
01:11:49The more louder she gets, the more disoriented I become.
01:11:52Never one time did you ever say, I'm in love with you.
01:11:56Why do you have me here?
01:11:57No.
01:11:58I'm just saying.
01:11:59No, I'm serious.
01:11:59I wasted a lot of money, a lot of time.
01:12:02Don't say no.
01:12:03I wasted a lot of money to come over here.
01:12:06So respect me.
01:12:07I am sorry.
01:12:08No, I'm serious.
01:12:09It hurts me greatly to hear her mean words, her aggression,
01:12:12her anger.
01:12:13But I still love Renee.
01:12:15And I don't want to lose her.
01:12:17I'm worried that if I don't go, we'll have to go to the hotel
01:12:20to end our relationship.
01:12:22So I don't know what to do.
01:12:29Next time on Before The Dark Days.
01:12:32I'm super confident in every aspect of my life.
01:12:35But when it comes to relationships,
01:12:36it's been a shout.
01:12:39Everything you do is so irrelevant.
01:12:42Now I am going to Croatia to meet Bojo.
01:12:45But I'm worried because of what happened in the past.
01:12:48Like, you don't even know anything
01:12:49about this other woman.
01:13:10I think we're past the point of snowballing here.
01:13:12At this point, it's turning into an avalanche.
01:13:15Um, Matilda, I have a confession to make.
01:13:20Baby, what are you crying?
01:13:22He is not used to having a woman call him out on his behavior.
01:13:26It's better guys don't know.
01:13:27I don't know.
01:13:28I don't know.
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01:13:38It's better guys don't know.
01:13:40Do you accept my apologies or not?
01:13:49I do love you.
01:13:50And I do care about you.
01:13:51I want to be in a relationship with you.
01:13:53Every time you text me, you having sex with them?
01:13:57Maybe like once a week.
01:14:00I can't do that again.
01:14:04Did I not always tell you that I always
01:14:06had a feeling about sisters?
01:14:07Like I said, even if it's family,
01:14:08you need to tell them when they're wrong.
01:14:10For you to say this, that is your delusion now.
01:14:12Kitty, you better stick up for me here.
01:14:14You better stick up for me here.
01:14:15You can't see me.
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