Married at First Sight UK S09E16 (2024)

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00:00It's in laws way

00:02Previously when we come to communicate it boom as loved ones scrutinized marriages

00:08It's me in the eyes and say I don't really want to work with racing for Polly and Adam. There were unexpected benefits

00:13I've never seen you grin that hard ever your girl got what she wanted

00:17But for Emma, I've never fancied curvy women. Oh, no, no Casper's honesty. That was poor delivery

00:23You can't say that prompted a brutal verdict. I don't think he's the man for you

00:30And a friend's questioning. Is this all a facade? Are you trying to be famous sparked conflict for Rochelle and Orson?

00:37You just catch so much shit. I'm too old for this nonsense

00:41the experiments newlyweds

00:45Embarked on the next stage of married life. This was a dream honeymoon, but a break-in trust

00:53Don't you dare go down that route caused Hannah and Stephen's marriage to implode

00:57I don't know whether we have to move on from this. I'm done with this shit

01:02Tonight

01:07The three new couples make their debut these two look freaking good got good energies from you for Holly

01:17Three's a crowd. I'm your wife. Give me the time of day

01:21What?

01:22Just want to

01:24But they aren't the only couple

01:29Suffering a communication breakdown

01:31See ya and the honesty box provokes judgment. You probably aren't the man. I mean and

01:38Frustration I struggle to relate to you as a person around your sister. There was more fragility there cried at the side of them

01:45I wouldn't say that that is me. Emma hasn't taken on board any changes. She has to make about so

01:52Running out of energy for it. Oh shit. I need to see some sort of sign. She might change

01:58Not just me

02:07It's nice to see you if the Hoover camera

02:12At the apartments it's kind of a car on it the couples are getting ready for the third dinner party. What do you think?

02:20That's nice

02:23Unaware that three more newlywed couples are moving in

02:31I'm glad my name's on top. Maybe it's a sign of things to come

02:37We've got microwave anyway, that's a good one. Yeah, it's a Bobby Dazzler that I bought a Bobby Dazzler

02:43This is where we sleep. We test it

02:45Oh

02:58Like a coffee or something and christened not christened like it starts with a coffee

03:16Feels like a lifetime ago

03:20Those two people are not who we are now it feels quite awkward and a bit forced

03:24He's so shut down like he's not giving me anything to work with. You're on the floor. I'm in the bed. I'll take the sofa

03:32We spent the last three nights apart there's just so much tension in there

03:36Hannah's got rottweiler energy anything. I say it just turns into a massive argument. So it's being difficult

03:46How

03:49Do you feel like everyone's gonna be tonight? I think that they'll be able to see that there's a difference

03:55I'll just be honest with them after that last commitment ceremony. I've realized that I need to give you a hundred percent

04:00So that's what I'm doing. Now. I'm letting you cuddle me and kiss me

04:05Let's just say the last time me and Adam were intimate was this morning

04:11So I had a great start to the day

04:15It is a good step in the right direction. I feel like you definitely got the kick up the arse that you needed

04:19Oh, yeah, I got what I wanted

04:30Waking up this morning after in-laws week, I'm feeling just a little bit like

04:36confused

04:38Confused

04:40This is a pressure cooker. I don't need the arguments. I don't need the drama. I'm not here for this

04:47Probably in the worst place that we've been

04:50throughout this whole like process I

04:53Don't want to be like how we are right now

04:57Like one of the things me and you spoke about was like having fun. This ain't fun

05:03this ain't fun at all, so

05:06I

05:08Don't know I'm kind of let's just get through the next couple of days and see where we're at

05:22So in law week my sister and my best friend came it made me question a lot about what's happening in our relationship

05:29And it's made me think that there's a real long road ahead for Casper and I do you feel like we've made progress?

05:36Since you've moved in

05:40Somewhat

05:42Rehashing the honeymoon is always gonna get in my head

05:46These feelings are all from there. I

05:49Think this should be the last time that what happened on the honeymoon is gonna be brought up in a major way

05:55Emma says she's forgiven me. I want to leave it in the past. I can't see it being a positive

06:00for us, but I think we still got a long way to go in terms of

06:06really feeling like

06:07Any sort of relationship the other things Emma could do I think to let some of her walls down that could make

06:14Getting to a deeper and stronger relationship

06:17Neither us are happy with where we're at

06:28Someone's at the door honey

06:32We're your new neighbors

06:35I

06:37Mean it is a massive surprise a new couple. So what's the vibes? What? How's everything going? What's it like great?

06:44Everyone's just dead friendly that bubbly dead welcoming. I'm so glad ours has been a bit of a roller coaster

06:49We've had a bit of a roller coaster. Our wedding was incredible. Yeah wedding day was class. Yeah, but we crashed hard

06:55And we're still not really back on track. No, I used to say dinner parties. Yeah. Yeah

06:59I think we're ready for people a bit of different

07:03Interaction

07:06Hmm, what'd you do for work? I own a gym. Okay. Okay. Yeah, you clearly go to the gym

07:13We should probably go get ready

07:24That was crazy

07:26Literally, she's nice and that but I don't know if there's gonna be clashes in the group what clashes with her and the other girls

07:34The new couple coming in might rock the boat a bit and turn a few heads, but who wants to live a boring life anyway

07:44What's the feeling going in tonight's dinner party then darling

07:51Yeah

07:57I

07:58Think we've got a bit more work to do to become what we're looking for. It's a we're in the bubble

08:04We're enjoying the bubble. That's just we've got to take it day by day Casper. I

08:10Feel like it's not it's gonna be fun taking your time on the wine. Mm-hmm girl. Yeah, it's what we need

08:15I

08:22Knows a pretty girl though Steven and I in the best place of it. Do you feel like they'll bring any drama to the group?

08:29I don't know. I really I really don't know

08:37I don't want to be in the same room as Hannah

08:40I

08:43Never ever felt more unsupported

08:53Here we are third dinner party, and of course this week we're introducing three new couples

08:59It's gonna have an interesting impact on the group

09:02Oh

09:08Holly and Adam, this is fun

09:10It's good to see the two of them looking quite at ease with each other physically a little bit more than they have been before

09:17It starts to change doesn't it when obviously people see friends and family because obviously your thoughts change

09:21It's different having your family's opinions. Yeah, they could see that there was something there

09:32Feel like very secure now Wow, I mean that's a big call from Polly isn't it? It's so clear that she's really really into Adam

09:45You're right, no sexy Lacey mm-hmm and Nathan and

09:53Well, it's great to see Lacey back at the dinner party again, of course, we missed her last week

09:58I wasn't very well for the last dinner party. So you got your girl back

10:03It

10:08Appears as though Alex and Holly are doing well

10:10They're entering in a positive way, but one of the things we know about this couple is it can turn on a dime

10:16We've actually got something to tell yes

10:19Go on

10:20There's a new couple coming tonight. Whoa, you're joking. They're really nice what their names

10:26So it's Hannah and Steven. What does she look like?

10:30She's she's nice. She's very big personality. Does she look like

10:36Brown hair slim small she owns a gym

10:42Why are you looking at me I don't need a small brunette coming in Oh

10:47Holly

10:49Polly is describing what Polly would perceive as Adams perfect woman

10:54But she's not even trying to hide the fact that she's feeling threatened by this new woman coming into the group

11:00They're on rocky grounds as well. This started bad. Yeah, but that's not good. If they're on rocky grounds like she's Adam's type

11:09Other new bear watch yourself

11:12I

11:18Mean Casper have come in looking quite happy. I think we've had a good week, but Casper

11:24He doesn't feel like we have. Oh, yeah

11:28No, I've moved back in you had and we we got three in-laws

11:31We you know, but we're struggling to build that that friendship you guys have yeah that that banter and that sort of thing

11:38I normally relate to him you need care love and attention. So that's something I've got too often

11:43I actually saw a more fragile side of Emma, you know, which I quite like

11:48Well ultra positivity all the time

11:50He's saying I want to get to know the softer side

11:53I want to see that vulnerability that he's craving and she hasn't been showing him that we've got to a place where

11:58If I've got to change massive things about myself, yeah, and Emma's gonna stay exactly the same and that's where we're gonna be

12:08Oh

12:13He's our first new couple of the night Steven and Hannah fresh meat

12:19walking in without

12:21Holding hands and Polly's face is a picture

12:28You look small

12:30I'm gonna go for a hug Adam. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you

12:34Polly's watching Hannah like a whore

12:37Yeah

12:38at first

12:40Okay

12:41Of course Polly wants to find out is there trouble in paradise?

12:45Because if there is then is Hannah a threat to my husband. That's right. Sorry great wedding was great and then it was

12:54Plummet

12:56It was a roller coaster, yeah

13:00Oh, wow, look at that both Hannah and Steven are saying to the group things are not going well

13:06Just make me wonder what's going on within this relationship, you know has something happened

13:11This is Adam

13:13This is my husband

13:15Very handsome Wow, not only is Polly marking her territory and saying this is my husband

13:21She's making it very clear to the group that he's very handsome. Yes. Yeah

13:26I'm annoyed that I let my walls drop really fast. Like I feel like I was like, oh my god

13:29This is it. Like I'm so happy. I'm so excited

13:31I feel really rejected and like even just today that walking in then I was dead nervous

13:36I'm not a nervous person

13:37I feel I feel like I can't be myself and I feel like I've got to like walk on eggshells a little bit

13:41This is really tough for Hannah. You know, she's saying to the girls. She's let her walls down

13:46She's shown some vulnerability to Steven. This is just gonna be chipping away at her self-esteem

13:51I

13:54Look at quite them two talking to one of them to you talking about

14:00I'm gonna tell you now. I don't mean that one bit of a spire. Oh, no, I know I know

14:07He actually isn't

14:09Yeah, I know you've had six minutes more affection. Absolutely. Oh

14:14Wow

14:15This is progress. Polly must be happy. I thought you had a spring in your fucking step

14:21I don't know if it with a red lipstick on the one show

14:30Kieran and Christina going from strength to strength. They really look comfortable with each other

14:44Steven Steven

14:52On he's Ross and Sasha looking really strong together. It's great to see

15:06You and Ross you ready to get a dog you'd be a fucking stepmom and get a mortgage

15:11I've already said I'll get to Manchester. See you around

15:14Yeah

15:17That's big Sasha's already said she would move for us Wow, all right, I am fine. Yeah

15:24Everyone here is such

15:27Yeah, honestly, you two do look like a very nice good-looking thanks. Yeah, you do much to you

15:32Thanks

15:37Hannah is literally reaching out to him. She's doing all of the right things, but he is giving nothing back not even eye contact

15:50Awesome Russia nice to see them holding hands and walking in quite confidently

15:54They

15:57Let go quite quickly too. So I wonder if that's a sign that maybe something isn't quite right here

16:03When we good

16:05Good. Yeah, but when it's bad, I'm bad

16:09Call the fucking riot police

16:15So, of course, I'm gonna have question

16:18Rochelle is so focused on the idea of awesome being an actor

16:21I think she's reading into that that it means perhaps his intentions are not pure. He's here for a different reason

16:26She's she's not trusting what he's saying

16:29Wilson isn't an actor as his main profession

16:33He's an engineer. I want a man who has an independent thinker and a leader

16:38So you want a strong man a very strong? I mean very very strong. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah Rochelle basically said

16:45Orson's not a strong man. Hmm. That's a bold statement

16:49It's difficult, yeah, really difficult

16:52Partly what's in my head actually something that happened on on the honeymoon. I told something like

16:57Probably the most special thing about what I've done in my life

17:02Told her in confidence because we've gone so well. Oh man, I'm massive argument. I

17:06Said something that she said off-camera about how to have in her own way

17:09But her response was or if you want to talk about things that was spoken off-camera

17:12She was about so we use it as ammunition

17:14Even though she says she wasn't gonna say it. Yeah, it's quite obvious that Stephen has chosen to confide in Hannah

17:20He's opened up and shared this deep secret and she's threatened to use it against him. So maybe this is where the trust is broken

17:33Very nervous

17:37Just a lot went into the group of people already know each other

17:40Just a lot went into the group of people already know each other not expecting us over

17:54Our next new couple Ryan and Shannon

18:00Holding hands looking super comfortable with one another. I cannot wait to see how their relationships progressed

18:10I

18:13Love this moment with the new couples realize that someone else's new as well

18:18Can I just like for one second, sorry, I

18:24Don't know how you guys feel but genuinely from the bottom of my heart like thank you so much for making us all feel so

18:28welcome

18:30Cuz I genuinely that I was walking in here like so nervous and I feel completely like I'm back to myself again

18:40Thanks carry on

18:44I'd see that Stephens making any real effort to be civil. It's just not very nice for Hannah

18:54Sorry if I'm a little bit like that's fine I've given you this yeah, I don't want to be too

19:03We're gonna go into the party with passion me and Amy feel really strong together

19:08We don't know if other couples have gone so well, but we are happy and we're not going to be apologetic about it

19:32For me Barbie and can have come through the dark

19:37Oh

19:54There's my wife Amy

19:59These two look freaking good, yeah

20:08Three couples today crazy you to a gorgeous couple

20:18I feel that way. That's who school boy

20:23Okay, boys put your tongues back in your mouth, come on, are you happy you good? Oh, I'm the lucky one

20:28Just have a look on me. No, I know you've done well

20:34You've got a look

20:38Looking like the news

20:40No, I mean, this is really telling about how Polly's feeling from a security perspective

20:45Yeah, I don't want to feel like I'm being rude. But this is like a lot. I'm just shaking like a leaf in the corner

20:52Girls, are we all okay? Yeah

20:56I'm very overwhelmed. So I feel like I'm gonna vomit. It's definitely gonna change the dynamic. I'm a free new couple

21:02I'm not ready for that

21:07Oh

21:12Look at this, where are we this sweet darling? Oh, there you are

21:21Hi guys

21:24Guys Sasha's just a little bit poorly. So Ross has taken her home, but she is okay

21:28So unfortunately, they won't be joining us tonight

21:30I

21:41Just want to say a few words on behalf of me and obviously my wife Amy

21:44But I don't know what to say in these occasions because frankly, I've never been married before

21:49I don't intend to do so again

21:53They say we all got married to strangers

21:56I never did like that turn because I think when you look at it every single best friend every single wife and husband

22:02Started off as a stranger. So I say we make a toast to our future because every future was a stranger

22:08Oh

22:23More of that, please

22:25Checking in reinforcing each other physical affection. We love it. We've not had like a single awkward moment. I have it no dramas

22:39I

22:41Why do you think you've been much both quite individual spirits

22:45We both have a great work ethic. So that means we want to try. Yeah, but

22:51Casper's found the whole process really challenging. Yeah doesn't necessarily find me attractive

22:58It's struggling with a certain type of woman that he usually goes for and that's not me

23:08I'm super positive

23:11I'm also quite quite independent and I can make my feelings be shown and I won't let anyone

23:17At the moment with customers face so many challenges we can meet in the middle

23:22But I can't seem to pull it back without me pulling him back. I

23:27don't think Emma currently has the ability to open up and

23:31Consider how she behaves and how she is is an issue in any relationship that she's in it can't all be my fault

23:39I

23:51Ended it wasn't a very nice relationship

24:09I

24:11Steven and Hanukkah have not spoke a word to each other a word their characters already from what I can tell a very

24:19Tell he's he's more like she's more like me. She's more like you basically

24:30How was your wedding day was a good the wedding was unreal yeah amazing honeymoon all good two days of it bullshit

24:39He's okay, though

24:48You know what I can actually feel the ice I

24:54Feel like Hannah is trying to get Steven's attention by reminding him of how great the wedding was

25:00But he is not having any of that. He hears her clearly

25:05Yeah, but he is choosing to ignore her to make a statement

25:10What were you talking about that's Kim

25:15Hannah saying I'm not taking any responsibility you ask him because he is to blame. We're gonna go for dinner

25:23And then Hannah was like I don't want to go for dinner yet, hang on wait stop a minute, that's not what I said

25:28Said I'm not overly hungry to fancy getting a drink instead

25:35Feel both annex felt rejected from it, and it wasn't a rejection like it really wasn't a rejection

25:41Do you think you can be together, I hope so yeah

25:47If I get the guy back that I'm married

25:51You've never said any of this to me like you've even just sat here and said

25:54I do see how she's been rejected, and I don't want it to feel like that, but you've never actually said that to my face

26:01I have though you have 100% have

26:05I

26:08What's the fucking point of this shit, I'm not gonna sit here in front of someone that can't look at me

26:17But I'm banging my head against the brick wall fucking see you then

26:28Even when you sleep

26:32Keep your eyes

26:36The tricky thing is yesterday, we were just children

26:43Playing soldiers just

26:45Pretending dreaming dreams with happy endings

26:51in backyards

26:53winning battles with our wooden swords

26:57But now we've stepped into a cruel world where everybody stands and keeps score

27:05Keep your eyes

27:11Everybody's

27:13To break down everybody's watching to see the fallout even when you're sleeping

27:22Keep your eyes

27:25Keep your eyes

27:31What's the fucking point of this shit, I'm not gonna sit here in front of someone that can't look at me

27:40But I'm banging my head against the brick wall

27:44Fucking see you then

27:48You've literally just sat there and said I do see how she feels rejected and I do feel really bad about that

27:54You've never looked me in the eye and said I'm really sorry that you feel that way ever

27:58The hardest thing for me very early on we said to each other

28:02We need to just support each other and be like best friends and the second shit hit the fan

28:06It was like Ramstein. I'm earning you fuck yourself up

28:08Her

28:12Feelings are first always like when she goes I was struggling with it the whole thing like

28:18Say it was I so was I yeah

28:21Reckon there in the movie. No, I don't even if I want to go back in. I'm going to be like you okay?

28:24He won't watch

28:27You okay, yeah

28:30You're right Hannah, yeah. Yeah, we're good. Thank you

28:39Sorry, it's not having a good time, but I say

28:48Did you hear this no no go on I thought I wonder who who will wear the trousers in our house

28:53Oh, she was like me. I've already got them on

28:55Between us I like I like that look at my face my household. I'm like no in my household if there's music in the air

29:09I said I just want to have a good time tonight. It's not a good time. Is it cuz it's not what we can try

29:14We can try you're not trying

29:17I

29:19Bet it's not a good time is it

29:22You're not trying I

29:25Get it and I understand that we need to get help and stuff

29:28But I also don't feel like you can sit here and say you're trying really hard trying to have a good night

29:31You're not trying to have a good night with me because you're not talking to me

29:37Every time we spoke it's just been that

29:40You could see Steven feels as if he can't even get his points out and he can't defend his points either

29:45So I literally think he needs us to referee a

29:50conversation with his wife

29:51Why have you not been able to do this for five days because I've been in a hole with it of like just mental exhaustion

29:58It's been a fucking difficult five days

30:02To be honest you have kind of like

30:05Like shelled me and it makes me sound like I'm almost like controlling and manipulating something

30:11I don't think you've been manipulated, but I think you have made me feel like I need to be quiet and chilled and

30:16See, this is where we need to have a conversation with the experts. Okay, stop

30:21We'll get me get me going. Okay, but let's not ruin it. We've actually had a really good conversation. I

30:26See it as a bit of a cop-out actually Steven was saying wait until we get in front of the experts because he's saying

30:32I'm not prepared to put some emotional skin in the game here and try and resolve this situation

30:39I'm gonna put the responsibility on to someone outside the relationship exactly and Hannah's trying she's saying I want to have this conversation with you

30:47But he's not giving her that opportunity

30:51Don't let that one comment like we're in the conversation. I'm not I'm not more out of you in the last

30:54I'm not I'm just saying like I actually really appreciate everything you just said. Yeah, that's all I've wanted for the last five

31:00We'll draw the line there fine

31:09From

31:11When you got in I got good energies from you, yeah, no, thank you for like being so welcoming and you're welcome. Nice

31:18Nice to meet you guys to me like

31:21Couples are gonna really get on. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, most definitely

31:33Alex is spending a lot of time

31:36Speaking to Amy and is fully unaware that his wife is looking really uncomfortable

31:41It's clear that Holly does not trust Alex

31:47So your honeymoon was just plain sailing

31:50I

32:04Mean it's nice to see you mingling. It's nice to see you mingling

32:08You

32:16Could see that there's some humor in this

32:18But at the end of the day Holly is screaming out loud that I have low self-esteem. Yeah, and I'm scared

32:25So how have you been getting on?

32:27We get on well

32:29Be honest

32:32So we bumped heads a lot, but we're having a good week

32:45Slow the fuck down missy

32:48She first night on me man. It's out tonight. Now, you know, I'm really good. Yeah, I can drink a lot before I'm drunk. Really? Yeah

33:02I mean

33:09What the fuck just give me the time of day I'm your wife

33:13I

33:26Should go

33:28Honey, well this feeds into Holly's insecurities, isn't it?

33:31Because her worst fear is being played out right in front of her

33:34So hopefully her walking out is a real sign for him that actually she's not very happy

33:40It's literally set them to put 12 on I don't know even spoke to me

33:45Yeah

33:47Sucks I'll keep my next year, you know, it's yeah like I need backs turn as well

33:51I mean like it's not the only what you want to see is that

33:55She called Holly. Yeah, she got in there

34:02If that was Nathan what would you be yeah, I would be fucked off always

34:06So, um, yeah, I think I think I think maybe she's thinking she's thinking like

34:13He's just sitting trying to her hasn't spoke to me

34:17You know I'm saying what what the fuck would I be doing bro?

34:20You know, you know, I'm gonna chat up my wife. Oh, yeah her husband's there. Oh some people get very jealous

34:26I'm not used to this shit, man

34:28I'm really not used to this shit. I'm not it's draining boo. Yeah, we're coming back. Yeah

34:34I can just want it. Yeah fucking attention

34:37No point is Alex acknowledging that his behavior could have had a negative impact on her right? It's I've done nothing wrong

34:44What's her problem and the defense's go up?

34:47Yeah, I'm fine, yeah

35:01Kasper it's always your heads up

35:05Look I have a question why you know what I'm fighting for it, you know, I want to give everything you want to are you

35:14We have moved in but the problem is is I don't shine as myself when Emma and I are around each other

35:21Because he's scared to be himself. I don't know why

35:25Not sure scared is the word I'd use but there is definitely a part of me that holds back when I'm around Emma

35:29They need Charlene. I think has probably scared at that. Are you two gonna smash?

35:35Not a moment Rochelle Charlene is gonna bring out the best of both of you

35:40For

35:42Me sex isn't something to see if makes things better sex is an act that you do when you feel affection for someone

35:48It's not where me and Emma are

35:50I'm not doing it

35:54I've never met a girl in me life. Who's like you Christina. You're a one-off. Thank you. Honestly

36:10I

36:16Sicker this shit

36:19No, I mean even just I know everyone's looking at us going in him

36:28I just feel like

36:30Certain things are annoying me and as a partner, I feel like I can't always

36:35Defend my argument with you. Why are you choosing to bring your now because it's only in a way

36:40I'm why you have to bring up a dinner party. We know Alex is a very private guy

36:45So for him the idea that Holly has exposed them like this is probably a bit embarrassing for him and he's probably feeling

36:52pretty uncomfortable

36:55Because I didn't want to jump in the mood like are you dumping in it now at the worst possible time?

36:59They didn't have to discuss it

37:03This is a problem that we see with Holly and Alex like the inability to resolve conflict in a healthy way

37:12I just want to speak to Alex like an adult and I've really thought he was expecting me enough to listen

37:29I

37:41Just want to communicate

37:45This was the whole plan that will end

37:47You already know what you're doing. I'm not doing what you're doing. You didn't bear things for the cameras

37:52Listen stop talk. I'm asking you

37:55I just let me finish my can you please stop talking to me? I'm asking you nicely. Please don't talk to me right now

38:01That's it. That's it. I need you to respect. I need you to respect

38:05There was an issue we talked between us acting off the cameras. Are you joking me?

38:10Why are you assuming that's the case?

38:13I've actually to start speaking to me

38:15I'm feeling like something's bothering me

38:21You notice with Alex he just repeats a phrase he shuts her down with his language

38:28Just wanted to explain that there's a reason I haven't addressed it because you want cameras. No

38:34It's not to do that. Okay, so if that's the case, we'll talk when there's no cameras

38:38Okay, so can we agree to have a conversation later?

38:40Yeah, I don't want any bad vibes I okay cool

38:46I'm not there yet. I mean honest

38:56I just want to be next to you by a fire pit. I mean man. This is a romantic guy

39:04He's got bars

39:11Ah

39:14We've got a box we've got a box

39:19Go Ryan

39:22What are your hopes for our marriage going forward

39:27Honestly, like it just keeps going how it's been

39:30Like I've not had any complaints so far apart from your snow in

39:34That's the only thing like I think if we just keep going at the pace we're going

39:39Getting on how we're getting on that I honestly don't think we're gonna have any worries

39:53Oh

39:58Jesus Christ

40:03Michelle

40:05Do you think I

40:08Am the man that you need I

40:18Think that you probably

40:22Aren't the man I need

40:29Purely because I need somebody who is grounded in integrity and honesty

40:38At times I question if you are that

40:43I also

40:45Really need a man who's a natural

40:49leader

40:51I want to look up to the man that I'm with and at times. I'm not sure if that's what I get

41:00Well

41:02Rochelle's not pulling any punches. I

41:05Mean ultimately what Rochelle is saying is that I don't respect you or trust you. I

41:10Mean, I wonder if part of the reason Rochelle has spoken with such passion about what he isn't

41:17It's because she wants awesome to come back with a bit of fight

41:22Okay, that's it over

41:29I

41:30Know my integrity is in the right place at the end of the day. I'm comfortable with who I am and why

41:38Orson may be a natural leader

41:41To a 25 year old but to a 48 year old. He's not sufficient

41:53Polly please ask Adam. Are we out of the friendzone?

42:00Yeah

42:20This is what Polly wanted to hear I'm just hopeful that Adam continues to make effort to make this relationship move forward

42:29Here we go. Oh, no, I ain't ready to both Kieran and Christina

42:36Not including yourselves name the strongest couple and the weakest couple at the table

42:42Wow, I

42:46Think the strongest couple at the table

42:50is

42:52Nathan and Lacey

42:54All day long

42:57Thank you and your turn, okay

43:01So at the table, I'm really sorry guys

43:04This is obviously face value and what I've personally seen this evening

43:16I'm afraid Hannah and Steven

43:20I'm really sorry

43:22To know that we're actually the worst couple like that is a bit shit

43:25But hopefully we can pull this back because I do want to pull it back

43:37What would make our communication more successful I

43:43Feel like because of how it started the arguments was like fiery wasn't there

43:50Give me time to have a voice. Please. Just give me time like just listen to me. I

43:58Sometimes I feel like I can't speak to you because when I try speaking to you just do stuff like this

44:02I frown and pull in faces

44:06And I think oh god, he's gonna blow up I

44:10Think it's clear that Alex is completely unaware of his impact

44:14particularly of his nonverbal communication on Holly here

44:19I wonder if on some level he believes that because he's not verbally saying anything. He's not actually doing anything wrong

44:26Hear my voice whenever not that you have a voice

44:33When I go to have a voice you just like that like thrown in it's like I'm better not saying it

44:40Why is she talking about I don't know why she's coming here trying to play the victim

44:45She's getting in front of the group using all this language, that's just not paying a good narrative

44:58I know it's gonna be how close to you to falling for me

45:02Me

45:12It's going very well, yeah, I definitely have a lot of love for you already go on

45:19And yeah, it's growing

45:21What's great with Nathan is he doesn't say something unless he means it and you can see how much that meant to Lacey

45:30Casper what do I need to do to get our marriage back on track?

45:41I

45:43Don't know

45:45I

45:47Don't know

45:50Around your sister and your best friend

45:57You're a lot more a person that I found attractive than generally around the group

46:05Where always being

46:09The person that's having a great time and that sort of thing I

46:16Struggle to believe it's true

46:19And when you saw your sister and Heidi you were more

46:23Well, I cried leveled cried at the fucking side of them

46:27yeah, but there was more fragility there that I saw a new for the really the first time in the whole of our relationship and

46:35that for me was

46:38Something that I could really relate to a lot of the time I struggle to relate to you as a person

46:45Because we just are very different people I

46:51Get a sense that Casper feels he

46:54Sometimes sees the more performative side of Emma that she's wearing her mask her social mask and when they were with her sister and her friend

47:01He saw more of that authentic

47:02You know deeper side of Emma and I think what he's starting to realize is is he wants to see more of that himself

47:08He's missing out. I

47:10Think that was probably the most vulnerable and emotional day I've had

47:16But I wouldn't say that that is me generally I

47:22Think that's Emma really missing our friends and wanting advice from her best friends on the marriage like please help me

47:34So, sorry Casper if that's not the answer that is needed

47:41I'm gonna shut him down a little bit and they won't be in a real relationship until they can be emotionally intimate

47:48Yeah, and that requires vulnerability and the reception of that vulnerability on both parts

47:52Yeah, I don't want to shout down your that because that's what I'm up. I

48:00Said my truth. I said what I asked for and she said it's not happening. It's not possible. I

48:07I

48:09Feel like I'm the one who's been asked to make all the changes. I'm here to learn. I'm here to grow

48:14but Emma

48:16Hasn't taken on board any changes. She has to make about herself and I'm running out of energy for it

48:22I

48:31Was he doing he's just had enough, okay

48:38Bullshit

48:39How the fuck enough of it? I need to see some sort of fucking sign. You see my fucking change one mistake one fucking mistake

48:48The whole fucking breakfast, it's not just fucking me

48:54Next time

48:57The commitment ceremony marks a fresh chapter for some having the puddles in bed kisses and it feels like a relationship now

49:05But leads to disaster for others. You're letting it out at the most

49:09Embarrassing times at dinner parties. It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks. This is some bullshit

49:16I'm not convinced. We have a future. Yes, I can be more vulnerable. Well, that's not me

49:22Things are down to the wire now. It's make or break and despite an attempt to resolve past mistakes

49:29I'm so sorry. You don't believe me

49:33Hannah and Stephen's marriage hangs in the balance. I'm full of resentment. There were four

49:45And a new episode of Married at First Sight UK continue

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