Love After Lockup Season 2024: 6 Episode 13 Life After Lockup -
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00:00:00We have got to get some money together so we can make, like, a down payment on this house.
00:00:04Right.
00:00:05Joey and I are buying a house for my babies.
00:00:07Do you think you look like me?
00:00:08I could be Kacen's father.
00:00:10So, I actually bought a paternity test.
00:00:12This is honestly one of my life's biggest fears.
00:00:16I want to formally introduce Troy.
00:00:19Hi.
00:00:20We are co-partners in Project Heal.
00:00:22There was a problem with a contract, so we don't have no money.
00:00:26Troy!
00:00:27We're behind two months of rent.
00:00:29I mean, you should be able to tell me that.
00:00:31No hesitation.
00:00:33I don't know who you went and talked to.
00:00:35Having trust issues with my husband, it makes me very, very nervous.
00:00:40I don't want to go through financial troubles, bro.
00:00:42I don't want to deal with that.
00:00:43We can rob, we can scam, we can steal.
00:00:46Don't take yourself there.
00:00:48Why give up now?
00:00:50There's definitely some serious risk with this pregnancy.
00:00:52Do you have a will and do you have things in order?
00:00:55What is going on?
00:00:58I threw my phone because he keeps going and bullying me.
00:01:00Why would you throw your phone?
00:01:02You're f****** joking me.
00:01:05You drink every day.
00:01:07I don't know how I'm going to handle that.
00:01:09Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God.
00:01:10As a young child, I started smoking weed, drinking alcohol.
00:01:13Eventually, it led to heroin.
00:01:15And five years ago, I was arrested for driving under the influence.
00:01:20How did I do?
00:01:21Be honest.
00:01:22You were good.
00:01:23The sex wasn't, like, the best.
00:01:25We didn't use protection.
00:01:26I don't think it'd be responsible for us to get some pregnancy.
00:01:28I have baby fever.
00:01:29Really bad.
00:01:30Come on, baby.
00:01:31I mean, I kind of hope it happens.
00:01:41Hey.
00:01:42Hey, how you doing?
00:01:43Hey.
00:01:44Welcome to the apartment.
00:01:46Oh, it's cute, you guys.
00:01:53Oh, this is cute, guys.
00:01:54The bedroom.
00:01:55The magic room.
00:01:56That was good.
00:01:57There's some Daniel's art.
00:01:58He did that for me while he was in prison.
00:02:00That's different.
00:02:01My mom, she wants some time alone with me.
00:02:04My parents, they live in another state.
00:02:07They came all this way, and they deserve my attention also.
00:02:10Well, let's go.
00:02:11Okay, come on.
00:02:12Bye, Bianca.
00:02:13Bye.
00:02:14See you later.
00:02:15Lay out the whiskey, you two.
00:02:16Right, right.
00:02:18So while we're going shopping, my cousin Robert is going to hang out with Bianca.
00:02:23You want to go to a restaurant while we're waiting for them to come back?
00:02:26That's fine.
00:02:27All right.
00:02:28I'm fine with Daniel leaving me with his cousin Robert.
00:02:31We're around the same age.
00:02:33And since I moved out here to Arizona, I don't know anyone here besides Daniel, really.
00:02:40I haven't done much.
00:02:41I'm a little lonely.
00:02:42Not really hanging out with anyone or doing anything fun.
00:02:49Let's see what they got.
00:02:50I don't even know what to get.
00:02:51It's been so long since I went shopping, you know?
00:02:53What are you looking for?
00:02:54T-shirts?
00:02:55Pants?
00:02:56I'm looking for short summer stuff.
00:02:58Being in prison for five years, I know I need clothes.
00:03:02Oh, my God.
00:03:03These are the shoes that they would sell us in prison.
00:03:05It says $30.
00:03:06They were charging us $90 for these.
00:03:08Really?
00:03:09Yeah.
00:03:10That's insane.
00:03:11I haven't been shopping in a long time.
00:03:12I haven't been in a store in a long time.
00:03:14I forgot what size clothes I even wear.
00:03:16I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:03:19I wore orange for so long, and here I am.
00:03:22That's too polyester, right?
00:03:24Yeah, I'm not doing that.
00:03:25What do you think about Bianca?
00:03:29I like her a lot.
00:03:30As long as she quits drinking and she doesn't start up that or, you know, it's only been one day.
00:03:36Did she drink last night at all?
00:03:38No.
00:03:39What I'm worried about is she doesn't agree with birth control.
00:03:42She doesn't agree with condoms.
00:03:44So, we got to figure that out.
00:03:46Well, yeah.
00:03:47Because I did not use protection last night.
00:03:53That was kind of dumb on your part.
00:03:54Yeah.
00:03:55Why did you do that?
00:03:57You know, because if you break up, you're going to be paying child support.
00:03:59You're never going to have any money because you're going to be paying child support.
00:04:02We're not breaking up.
00:04:03We're not getting pregnant.
00:04:04You don't know that, though.
00:04:05She needs to get on the pill or something.
00:04:07Yeah, you're right.
00:04:09It's just too early.
00:04:10They haven't been together long enough to, you know, this is something that he should have known better.
00:04:14It's like, what are they thinking?
00:04:18What do you think about me proposing to Bianca?
00:04:21We're not getting married, but a ring is a promise, and I want to promise that to her.
00:04:30You probably want to wait a little bit, right?
00:04:31I know, but...
00:04:32A year to two years will be time enough.
00:04:34It'll be a lot different.
00:04:35Right, and then that'll give time to see how it plays out with her, see how she does.
00:04:40But I want to give her that promise.
00:04:43Good, yeah.
00:04:44Yeah.
00:04:45While I was in prison, Bianca and I got engaged.
00:04:48I want to get her a ring.
00:04:49I wanted to get her a ring back then.
00:04:50I still want to get her a ring today.
00:04:52Tell me where the rings are.
00:04:53Our jewelry's going to be in that case right there.
00:04:55I can open it.
00:04:56Financially, I am not independent, but when I am secure with a career,
00:05:03I will be able to lighten the burden with money, with security.
00:05:10And even though it would take that longer time that we've talked about with marriage,
00:05:15if she had that ring on her finger, she could look at it and know that I was serious.
00:05:20Because, you know, there's the ring right there.
00:05:22He must be real.
00:05:25You know, regardless of how much these cost, because they can't be that expensive,
00:05:29I just want to give her that promise to let her know that I'm serious.
00:05:32That's cute.
00:05:33I still have concerns.
00:05:35It's not over the hill yet.
00:05:37No.
00:05:38This one's, like, really pretty.
00:05:40Yeah, this one's better.
00:05:41She would like that.
00:05:42This one's better.
00:05:43Let's go see how much it costs.
00:05:44I'm still worried about Bianca wanting to drink and being a distraction for him.
00:05:49Your total's $71.68 for your wedding.
00:05:54And him giving in to that.
00:05:58Hey, how are you?
00:05:59Good.
00:06:00What are you drinking today?
00:06:01Can I get a vodka crayon?
00:06:02Vodka crayon?
00:06:03Yeah.
00:06:04Drinking is fun, huh?
00:06:06I mean, this is really serious.
00:06:08I'm really worried about it.
00:06:11What they don't know doesn't hurt them.
00:06:24You threw your phone.
00:06:25Your $1,500 iPhone.
00:06:27Why would you throw your phone?
00:06:30Because you wouldn't stop.
00:06:31Get out of my room, both of you.
00:06:33Let's talk, man.
00:06:34I need to go, yo.
00:06:35Excuse me.
00:06:43I worked too hard to buy the phone.
00:06:45He breaks his phone just because he's upset.
00:06:47That's ridiculous, man.
00:06:48I'm taking their TVs off their walls.
00:06:50Everything.
00:06:51I might just shut the break off so they have no power in their room.
00:06:56I felt like it was more than just the kids.
00:06:58I felt like I was just mad that I have to work,
00:07:02mad that I have to put my career on the back seat,
00:07:05mad that Justina is considered a high-risk pregnancy.
00:07:09It isn't as easy as I want it to be.
00:07:14That stress, that anxiety, that depression,
00:07:16everything just bottles up and it's just a recipe for disaster.
00:07:23Hey.
00:07:24Oh, excuse you.
00:07:25Excuse you.
00:07:26Excuse you.
00:07:27Don't voice past me like I get something.
00:07:29That's what we're not.
00:07:30I'm not. Listen.
00:07:31I know.
00:07:32I don't want to take my anger out on you.
00:07:34Then don't.
00:07:35Then make a better choice.
00:07:36Because I'm not the enemy here.
00:07:38We're both on the same side of this.
00:07:40This is ridiculous.
00:07:42It's taking him a long time to move on from his incarcerated mentality.
00:07:50It just shows me you have no control.
00:07:53I think he's trying to break out of the trauma and the pain
00:07:58that caused him to be in there for all those years.
00:08:01But this is not okay in my household.
00:08:06They need boot camp.
00:08:08They don't need boot camp.
00:08:09These kids have freaking issues with communicating how they feel.
00:08:14So they act out.
00:08:16And if we don't teach them how to effectively communicate with each other,
00:08:19then we're screwed.
00:08:20And so is everybody else that comes into contact with these kids.
00:08:24For you to reprimand him about breaking his own stuff
00:08:27and then you turn and break your stuff, it doesn't help the situation.
00:08:31You need to work on your anger as well.
00:08:35With the high-risk pregnancy,
00:08:37my doctor actually recommended having a will to ensure
00:08:41that all the kids are taken care of properly.
00:08:45You think I want to do this?
00:08:47The way he handled this situation,
00:08:49I'm not sure if he's fully ready to take on my children on top of his
00:08:55if, God forbid, something ever happens to me.
00:09:03You're probably going to be around $20,000 or $25,000.
00:09:05There ain't no way.
00:09:06I think I'm going to go outside.
00:09:07I think he's getting cold feet.
00:09:09I feel like I'm going to throw up.
00:09:11What's up, baby?
00:09:12I can't f***ing take this s*** no more, bro.
00:09:15Don't f***ing send this s***.
00:09:17I heard your phone going off.
00:09:18Who are you texting?
00:09:19The only woman that should be around Troy is me.
00:09:21I need to know one question.
00:09:24Are you cheating on me?
00:09:30Tonight, Tia Mori is putting herself out there.
00:09:33What are we doing?
00:09:34It's going to be great.
00:09:35Did I put on deodorant?
00:09:36I did.
00:09:37We're going to have a great night.
00:09:38What are we doing?
00:09:39It's going to be great.
00:09:40Did I put on deodorant?
00:09:41I did.
00:09:42But finding love won't come easy.
00:09:44It's hunting season.
00:09:45I love olives.
00:09:46I love you.
00:09:47Help!
00:09:48It's going to take self-taught.
00:09:49He looks mean or they look different.
00:09:51Doesn't mean they're bad people, right?
00:09:54Yeah.
00:10:00You know what you're doing in there?
00:10:02What are you doing?
00:10:03I'm making sausage.
00:10:04Sausage?
00:10:05Yeah.
00:10:06Just because you don't like real food.
00:10:08We ain't chasing you for sale, okay?
00:10:10I can't help with that.
00:10:11We eat chicken nuggets and fries and fast food.
00:10:14I know you're like a grown-up kid.
00:10:16I love you anyway.
00:10:17Am I grown up yet?
00:10:18No.
00:10:22Where's the DNA test?
00:10:23It didn't come back?
00:10:24I haven't seen it yet.
00:10:27How do you get it?
00:10:28Want to come to me?
00:10:29I think it's supposed to come to my email.
00:10:31Joey wants to know whether or not he's Kacen's biological father.
00:10:35I mean, I'm really not ready to find out
00:10:37because there is no best or worst case scenario with these DNA test results.
00:10:41Either way, somebody gets hurt.
00:10:43But I don't really have a choice.
00:10:45You don't even check your emails.
00:10:47If you get an email, you don't even know.
00:10:49Okay.
00:10:51No, I just have the thing in my email where it was...
00:10:53What are you doing, Kacen?
00:10:54You good?
00:10:55Don't worry.
00:10:56I'll be checking them.
00:10:57It should take a couple of weeks to get the results.
00:11:00It should take a couple of weeks to get the results back.
00:11:02And I know Joey's going to be making me check that email, like, every day.
00:11:07Judy texted me so we can go look at another house.
00:11:11I just really hope we get to a point where we find something that we really want in town
00:11:15because, I mean, I feel like everything we've looked at so far has been okay,
00:11:19but nothing has really been like, I want this.
00:11:22I'm trying to buy a house right now, but this is hard.
00:11:25I don't like when it's got that wood paneling.
00:11:30Oh, that's rad.
00:11:31That's insane.
00:11:34I think this is the one that Judy's showing us.
00:11:36How much is it?
00:11:37We're looking at probably $1,500 or $1,600 a month,
00:11:41plus, like, 3.5% down.
00:11:43Yeah.
00:11:44That's a lot for that house.
00:11:46Yeah.
00:11:47It's going to be a lot for any house.
00:11:49I think it's time to get a job.
00:11:53There's nothing I can do besides heating, ventilation, air conditioning.
00:11:58So, I mean, do you think that you're going to like this HVAC stuff?
00:12:01I mean, I don't know.
00:12:02It was kind of boring when I was in the class.
00:12:05I'm not going to like going to a house and crawling under the house when it's 98 degrees outside
00:12:12and hanging that ductwork and laying on your back on sand
00:12:15and there's snakes and spiders under there and stuff.
00:12:17Like, I'm not—I don't want to do that.
00:12:19I mean, are there other things that you can do?
00:12:21I don't know.
00:12:22That's the question I'm going to have to ask.
00:12:23You know, like, I need to be making $1,000 a week.
00:12:26It's just going to have to get by until we can get everything together like we're going to get it together.
00:12:32We'll do it. We'll get it done.
00:12:38This is kind of nerve-wracking.
00:12:40I don't want to get ripped off.
00:12:45What's up?
00:12:46It's the man of the hour.
00:12:47Joey.
00:12:48What's up, bro?
00:12:49How you doing?
00:12:50Good. How are you?
00:12:51What's up, Joe?
00:12:52Joe and Lou are probably the closest friends I have.
00:12:53Thank you for coming.
00:12:55I definitely got to look around because this is a big day.
00:12:59Expensive. Big day.
00:13:01When I was in prison, the first, I want to say, like, eight years,
00:13:05I was like, I'm going to get out and I'm going to try to sleep with as many women as possible.
00:13:08And then I finally met Melissa and something changed, you know?
00:13:11How you doing, sir?
00:13:14Cageman rank for heaven.
00:13:15Yeah.
00:13:16I don't need any more women.
00:13:17I love Melissa and I want to be with her.
00:13:19So I want to get the best diamond that I can possibly get.
00:13:23He wants to potentially ruin his life.
00:13:26I'm ready to get married.
00:13:27I'm looking for an engagement ring.
00:13:29How big of a stone are you looking for?
00:13:31She wants no less than two carats.
00:13:33How much do you want to spend?
00:13:34Ten to twelve.
00:13:35The fact that I'm working multiple jobs,
00:13:38I've been able to accomplish saving quite a bit of money.
00:13:42I figure ten to twelve thousand dollars is a sufficient budget for a two-carat diamond ring.
00:13:48I'll tell you.
00:13:49You're spending twenty thousand plus, no problem.
00:13:52Right?
00:13:55That's why you're going to go lab.
00:13:57You're going to get a lab-created diamond.
00:13:58Same characteristics, same everything.
00:14:00A natural stone?
00:14:01Thirty-five thousand?
00:14:03On the five.
00:14:04I don't think you could...
00:14:05It's not going to tell the difference.
00:14:06It's gorgeous.
00:14:07Three, four months ago, Melissa and I were just sitting there talking
00:14:10and she was basically just like,
00:14:15So you know, I don't want no fake-ass diamond.
00:14:19Which one's the lucky one?
00:14:20That's me, right here.
00:14:21Oh!
00:14:22Do you have an idea of what you're looking for?
00:14:23Oh, yeah.
00:14:24Oh, you've done your research.
00:14:25Your online research.
00:14:26I like that.
00:14:27I didn't have to do the research.
00:14:28And the reason I didn't have to do the research...
00:14:30She did it for you.
00:14:31Oh, she's getting a beautiful diamond.
00:14:32Two carats.
00:14:33Okay.
00:14:34No less than two, I was told.
00:14:35Okay.
00:14:36I have a budget.
00:14:37What's that budget?
00:14:38Ten to twelve.
00:14:39You definitely need to step that budget up a little bit.
00:14:43We have to drop that into under two carats.
00:14:47I'm starting to think, what happens if it's small?
00:14:49She's expecting a two.
00:14:50What happens if I get her a half?
00:14:52Like, does that change how much I love you or you love me?
00:14:55No.
00:14:56This is a really, really nice diamond, right?
00:14:58Okay.
00:14:59So, look at this.
00:15:04I mean...
00:15:05Yeah, that's gorgeous.
00:15:07So that stone basically is around 20 to 23,000,
00:15:10depending on the stone.
00:15:11That's just the stone.
00:15:12Just the stone?
00:15:13With the mounting?
00:15:14You're probably going to be around 20 to 25,000.
00:15:16There ain't no way.
00:15:18I mean, that's just crazy.
00:15:20I'm just a little blown away here.
00:15:22I think I'm going to go outside.
00:15:23Just give me a second.
00:15:24You want to take a little air break?
00:15:25Yeah, yeah.
00:15:26All right.
00:15:27All right, we'll be here, Lou.
00:15:28All right.
00:15:29I think he's getting cold feet.
00:15:30I'm going to go talk to him, man.
00:15:31$25,000?
00:15:36For some odd reason, I'm always like, go with your gut.
00:15:39Like, right now, my gut is telling me, like,
00:15:41I don't know if I'm ready.
00:15:49They mentioned me having a will.
00:15:51When you die, if you knew,
00:15:53why would you have another kid so soon?
00:15:55It's just very selfish.
00:15:57What'd you just walk out like that for?
00:15:59I don't give a **** what you're talking about right now.
00:16:01I need to know one question.
00:16:03Are you cheating on me?
00:16:06I can drink if I **** want to drink.
00:16:08You failed.
00:16:09I didn't fail anything.
00:16:11I can't do this.
00:16:12I can't be around that.
00:16:19I don't even be wanting to go outside
00:16:21because it's too much going on out here.
00:16:24Do you know, when I went to the freaking vending machine,
00:16:27there was a **** crackhead asking another kid,
00:16:30a kid, for $5.
00:16:33I don't want to be in an environment like that.
00:16:35We don't need to be in an environment like that.
00:16:43You know, the hours that I was in here
00:16:46cleaning this place,
00:16:48so we don't have to be in no dirty-ass motel, like...
00:16:54When are we going to be able to go?
00:16:56It's been 30 days since we were denied
00:16:59our transfer to Texas.
00:17:01We've been staying at this motel,
00:17:03and honestly, I'm getting fed up.
00:17:07Because the government placed us in here,
00:17:09we can't go out past 11 o'clock.
00:17:12No visitors.
00:17:13No visitors.
00:17:14Or we get kicked out.
00:17:16At this point, I'm starting to feel like,
00:17:17what in the hell, you know?
00:17:19It's just bull****.
00:17:20We miss our family.
00:17:22It's crazy, man.
00:17:24The system is failing me.
00:17:27If you already have the job out there,
00:17:29like, what if you end up losing that opportunity
00:17:31because they're being like that?
00:17:33My mom and everyone in the family
00:17:36has moved to Texas.
00:17:38I'm now realizing, like, it's sinking in.
00:17:40Okay, this is it.
00:17:42You know, this is me and Bree against the world.
00:17:45There's nothing to fall back on.
00:17:49It's really stressful.
00:17:51We don't even have a kitchen to cook.
00:17:53My stomach hurts from eating fast food
00:17:55because we can't have any real food.
00:17:57Yeah.
00:17:58We can't do s***.
00:18:00You did time. So did I.
00:18:02So we only dealt with microwave.
00:18:05You didn't start cooking like you did in prison.
00:18:07Yeah, you make the bombers flip.
00:18:09You know what I'm talking about, the tuna flip?
00:18:11I don't think anybody wants to relive being in prison.
00:18:14We don't want to be in a f****** motel.
00:18:16We want to go. We're ready to go.
00:18:18I'm ready to go.
00:18:21The PTSD is setting in.
00:18:23I know that I'm strong
00:18:25and I can really get through this,
00:18:27but Bree, it's the uncertainty
00:18:30that kind of messes with her sanity.
00:18:33I'm about to get dressed, man.
00:18:35If this appeal is denied again,
00:18:38I don't know if she's going to be able to hold up.
00:18:44She said that when I come in or whatever,
00:18:46they're just going to talk to me pretty much about, you know,
00:18:49what do I need now to be able to go?
00:18:52I really don't see no reason for them to deny you.
00:18:55I cannot wait to get in an apartment.
00:18:59I know. I can't wait to see it.
00:19:01It's been really, really hard.
00:19:03On top of me paying $500 for the car note,
00:19:06$650 for the car insurance,
00:19:08$1,400 for the condo
00:19:10that I'm not even laying my head at right now.
00:19:12It's like I keep pulling out the savings.
00:19:14I keep pulling out the savings.
00:19:16But I'm positive. I feel like we're about to leave.
00:19:19Like, we thought you was going to have to get a probation transfer,
00:19:22and you got a whole release from probation.
00:19:24Yeah.
00:19:25So now it's just...
00:19:26I ain't got to report no more. Nothing.
00:19:28It's been one crazy journey,
00:19:31but your boy's got off probation.
00:19:34Yo!
00:19:35What's up, y'all? We just got the news.
00:19:37Kirok is finally off of probation.
00:19:40Free bed, free bed.
00:19:42My man is free.
00:19:44That means I can leave the state
00:19:47and go where I please.
00:19:49It's just that, you know, Brittany can't.
00:19:54He's so lucky, baby.
00:19:56I wish I could get off my damn probation.
00:19:58You are, baby.
00:19:59When I was 17, I was living a really dumbass life
00:20:03and decided to do some armed robbery.
00:20:06So I cannot be off of probation
00:20:08until all of my restitution is paid
00:20:10or we get to the year 2030.
00:20:14I don't know about y'all,
00:20:16but $10,000 is a good amount of money.
00:20:19I wish you could come in with me, babe.
00:20:22I'm just nervous.
00:20:24I'm in a waiting process
00:20:26to see if I can still get transferred over to Texas.
00:20:29Get in there, girl. You got this.
00:20:34It's really stressful.
00:20:36I've made sure that we...
00:20:40Hey, how are ya?
00:20:41Good. What are we drinking today?
00:20:43Can I get a vodka crayon?
00:20:44Vodka crayon?
00:20:46Drinking is fun, huh?
00:20:47Yeah.
00:20:48I'm a bad influence, aren't I?
00:20:50Yeah, a little bit.
00:21:01He would be so mad I'm drinking right now.
00:21:03Yeah.
00:21:06Text his mom to see, like, when they're leaving,
00:21:09we don't want to show signs of drinking, you know?
00:21:15You and Daniel, you, uh...
00:21:19He's strong?
00:21:20Yeah, he's a little strong, yeah.
00:21:21Got my mind all fuzzy for a minute.
00:21:23Robert and I decided to go out to a bar
00:21:26and have a couple drinks
00:21:27while we waited for him and his parents to go shopping.
00:21:30I think I drink a lot,
00:21:32and it's gonna be kind of hard to stop drinking
00:21:34for Daniel's sake.
00:21:36I think I can keep it under control
00:21:39to a certain extent.
00:21:41I'm gonna finish this.
00:21:43But sometimes I take it too far.
00:21:47I don't know, I'm just kind of worried about his mom.
00:21:50About mom?
00:21:51She's such a sweet lady, but he's such a mama's boy.
00:21:54I think it's kind of, it's kind of gross.
00:21:56Is it a turn-off?
00:21:58Kind of.
00:21:59They've been through a lot, right?
00:22:00His mom struggled, like, when they were younger.
00:22:02Like, when his dad left, you know, he had to step up
00:22:04and help take care of his, you know, the family, you know?
00:22:07It just makes me upset that she thinks
00:22:09I would cause him to relapse.
00:22:12Yeah.
00:22:13He should be mentally headstrong enough
00:22:15to know that he's with someone
00:22:17that's way younger than him,
00:22:19that likes to have fun.
00:22:21I am really worried that
00:22:23Daniel's not gonna want to be with me
00:22:25if his mom doesn't approve of our relationship.
00:22:27If she doesn't approve of me, she doesn't like me.
00:22:29She'll get into his head, and he might think it's true.
00:22:33But I think it's perfectly fine if I have a drink today,
00:22:36because Daniel's not here.
00:22:39It's just weird to see you, like, home now, you know?
00:22:42Like, not in jail anymore.
00:22:43Out in the world.
00:22:44Yeah.
00:22:45So proud of you.
00:22:47You just got out.
00:22:49She needs to get in sync with you not drinking up.
00:22:53I mean, we spent literally, like,
00:22:56nine months apart from each other,
00:22:58only having a relationship on the phone.
00:23:00This morning, like, it's our first morning together.
00:23:02Yes, he made me breakfast,
00:23:04but he couldn't even, like, pour me a cup of coffee
00:23:07when I asked.
00:23:08It turned into an argument.
00:23:09How much I've done for you,
00:23:10you can't even make me a cup of coffee?
00:23:12Don't throw that in my face, ever.
00:23:14I'm not hungry.
00:23:16Yeah.
00:23:17I just want to be, like, romanced a little bit.
00:23:19Like, I'm not happy about our sex right now.
00:23:22Oh.
00:23:24He's not doing any foreplay, Robert.
00:23:27Like, he's just trying to stick it in,
00:23:29and I'm not vibing with it.
00:23:31Yeah, I mean, it's only been one night, you know?
00:23:35Daniel, he's lacking on foreplay.
00:23:37Honestly, I don't know how I'm supposed to help her
00:23:39because I lack myself.
00:23:41I just want to stick it in, but, um...
00:23:44Yeah.
00:23:46Foreplay means a lot to women.
00:23:48It's, uh...
00:23:49And Daniel will learn that one way or the other.
00:23:52You hoping to have a kid?
00:23:54Of course.
00:23:56I haven't taken Plan B yet,
00:23:58and I really don't want to.
00:23:59Oh, gross.
00:24:00I know you're his cousin.
00:24:01Are you going to tell him?
00:24:02What do you mean?
00:24:03Are you going to tell him that you didn't take the pill?
00:24:06I mean, it's, like, my body, my choice.
00:24:09Are you going to baby-trap him?
00:24:10I'm not going to baby-trap him.
00:24:12I want to.
00:24:13You want to?
00:24:14Oh, God.
00:24:15He's got baby fever.
00:24:16He's got baby fever.
00:24:18He's crazy.
00:24:19The ball's kind of in Bianca's court.
00:24:21He didn't use protection.
00:24:22He kind of lost the control.
00:24:25And if she decides not to, like, not respect his wishes
00:24:28and take the pill,
00:24:29then they're going to have a kid,
00:24:31and that would be unfortunate.
00:24:34He's not ready yet, you know?
00:24:36You guys should be around each other,
00:24:37test the waters out before having kids
00:24:40and possibly getting married.
00:24:45He doesn't even have a job, you know?
00:24:47I feel like...
00:24:48We have nine months.
00:24:49Nine months?
00:24:50We have nine months.
00:24:51I mean, it costs money.
00:24:52You have to go to the doctors,
00:24:53and things cost money before then.
00:24:55I have money.
00:24:56You have money?
00:24:57I have money.
00:24:58Okay.
00:24:59Oh, he's always had someone provide for him.
00:25:01He's never been on his own.
00:25:02Like, he's always lived with his mom.
00:25:04Aw, that's a good boy.
00:25:06Yeah, yeah.
00:25:10I want a green tea shot.
00:25:11What?
00:25:12I want a shot.
00:25:13I want a shot.
00:25:14Joey and I are about...
00:25:15That's so bad.
00:25:16Maybe I do have problems with alcohol.
00:25:24I really just want you to talk...
00:25:26Oh, God.
00:25:27Oh, God.
00:25:29Oh, sh**.
00:25:31Hey, guys.
00:25:32That's not good.
00:25:37Headed to a job interview
00:25:41for, like, heat and ventilation, air conditioning.
00:25:45I think 2015 is the last of my life.
00:25:50I think 2015 is the last of my legit job.
00:26:03Hey, how you doing?
00:26:04I'm good.
00:26:05How are you?
00:26:06I've got an interview with Oscar.
00:26:07Wonderful.
00:26:08Come on in.
00:26:09Right this way.
00:26:10All right.
00:26:11I'm looking for a job because, for one,
00:26:14I mean, I need my own money.
00:26:16Kimberly is pushing me
00:26:18because we want to get our dream home,
00:26:20and we can't do it unless I have a job.
00:26:23Hey, how you doing?
00:26:24Hey, what's up, Oscar?
00:26:25I'm Joey.
00:26:26Good, good.
00:26:27Nice to meet you.
00:26:28You doing all right today?
00:26:29Yeah, I'm doing good.
00:26:30How about you?
00:26:31Doing good, man.
00:26:32Have a seat.
00:26:33I just can't risk, you know,
00:26:34going back to selling dope
00:26:35or losing Kimberly and the kids
00:26:37and, you know, losing another seven to ten years
00:26:41because I want to go make some quick money.
00:26:43So from what I see on the application,
00:26:45it looks like you apply
00:26:46for a HVAC service type position.
00:26:48Yeah.
00:26:49Is that what you apply for?
00:26:50Yeah.
00:26:51Actually, to be honest with you,
00:26:52like, I don't really know
00:26:53a whole bunch about the HVAC systems.
00:26:55You know, I know the basic,
00:26:56but I've got my EPA certification.
00:26:58Oh, nice.
00:26:59So, you know, like,
00:27:00I thought maybe just by having that,
00:27:02I might be able to get my foot
00:27:03in the door somewhere
00:27:04and then learn as I go, you know,
00:27:06because I've got two kids.
00:27:08We're buying a house.
00:27:09You know, like, I need to, you know,
00:27:11get a job and, like,
00:27:12I'm serious about, you know, working.
00:27:14You got to start somewhere, though.
00:27:16So let's talk about HVAC.
00:27:19So on the residential side is
00:27:21the calls that we get is,
00:27:23hey, my AC's not working, right?
00:27:25So then we send a mechanic out there
00:27:27that goes and troubleshoots
00:27:29and figures out what's wrong.
00:27:30Those guys,
00:27:31they pretty much start at, like,
00:27:33$16 an hour, right,
00:27:35where you'll be out for the first six months.
00:27:37You know, now it's a grind.
00:27:38You're working in, you know,
00:27:40attics that are 190 million degrees
00:27:45or crawl spaces where you might run
00:27:47into a snake or 12, right?
00:27:49Yeah.
00:27:50It's definitely not for the faint of heart,
00:27:52but, you know, after a year,
00:27:53you can be on pace to make
00:27:55$70,000 to $130,000, right?
00:27:57So does that sound like something
00:27:59that you're willing to hang in there
00:28:01and put in the pun?
00:28:02Yeah, 100%.
00:28:03Like I said, like,
00:28:04I just want to get my foot in the door.
00:28:06I pick up stuff pretty easy, you know?
00:28:07Before we actually hire you,
00:28:09we'll do a background check.
00:28:11I do want to tell you, though,
00:28:12that, like, you know,
00:28:13I just did get out of prison.
00:28:15And, you know,
00:28:17my record is quite extensive.
00:28:19I've been on drugs for a long time.
00:28:21You know, I've been...
00:28:23I started off doing opiates,
00:28:24you know, and just by a doctor,
00:28:26and I just got, you know, on it bad,
00:28:29you know, and eventually,
00:28:31you break the law to get money,
00:28:32you know, and that's just...
00:28:34I just want to disclose that to you.
00:28:36Before employment,
00:28:37you know, we do drug tests for sure.
00:28:39Okay.
00:28:40Look, you know,
00:28:41you seem like a guy
00:28:43that's got a lot of potential.
00:28:44Yeah.
00:28:45Based on what you're telling me,
00:28:46I can almost guarantee you
00:28:47it's a no-go right now, right?
00:28:49But let my HR department make that call.
00:28:52Yeah.
00:28:53And when that comes back,
00:28:54you'll get a phone call from me
00:28:55that says,
00:28:56hey, man, listen,
00:28:57let's come back in here
00:28:58and let's have a conversation.
00:28:59Yeah.
00:29:00And it's either going to be,
00:29:01look, by some grace of God,
00:29:03it looks like we got something for you, right?
00:29:05Maybe not as a technician
00:29:06on the field right now,
00:29:07but we have other positions
00:29:08here in the office.
00:29:09Well, that's what I'm going to tell you, too.
00:29:10Like, you know,
00:29:11I'm good with doing whatever.
00:29:12You know, like,
00:29:13if I got to work my way up
00:29:14and prove, you know, my worth
00:29:15or whatever I need to do,
00:29:16like if it's digging ditches
00:29:17or whatever I have to do for a while,
00:29:19I can tell by his face
00:29:21that he's not going to be able
00:29:23to hire me here
00:29:24unless some miracle happens.
00:29:26And I just don't know
00:29:28how we're going to be able
00:29:29to buy a house
00:29:30if I don't get a job here.
00:29:32All right, brother.
00:29:33Yo, thanks for coming by, man.
00:29:34Appreciate it.
00:29:35Thank you, man.
00:29:37I feel like I'm supposed
00:29:38to be making enough money
00:29:39to take care of my family.
00:29:41So if I don't have a job,
00:29:42then I don't know, you know,
00:29:45what's going to happen
00:29:46with our relationship.
00:29:54The devil's going to try
00:29:55to come between you two.
00:29:57I think it's some dark energy around.
00:29:59It's witchcraft.
00:30:01This s*** is f***ed up.
00:30:03I want to f***ing go.
00:30:04I don't want to f***ing
00:30:05be here anymore.
00:30:10This December.
00:30:11I miss you.
00:30:12True love is calling.
00:30:13Love you, baby.
00:30:14Give me a kiss.
00:30:16Like, it's second guessing it.
00:30:17Like, dude, should I propose to her?
00:30:22This is really what's
00:30:23coming down to you.
00:30:24I used to never value money, right?
00:30:25Ever, ever, ever, ever.
00:30:26I didn't give a s***
00:30:27from the paycheck to paycheck.
00:30:28I spent my money on drugs,
00:30:29whatever.
00:30:30And, like, I've saved my money up
00:30:31specifically for this moment.
00:30:33I want to get married.
00:30:34I want to propose to her.
00:30:35I just was not expecting
00:30:38that price.
00:30:39I mean,
00:30:40maybe I need to go somewhere else.
00:30:42He'll come now, bro.
00:30:43And plus,
00:30:44he has different options in there.
00:30:45I know, you know,
00:30:46you're in for, like,
00:30:47the 12 grand, but...
00:30:49I didn't even want to go 12.
00:30:51Like...
00:30:52I don't think we're getting
00:30:53under 12, man.
00:30:54I don't think I'm getting under 20.
00:30:55And believe me,
00:30:56it's not that she's not worth it.
00:30:57I mean, she's...
00:30:58It's just...
00:30:59what I was expecting
00:31:02at most to spend
00:31:05was maybe...
00:31:06You only got to do it one time, bro,
00:31:07in your life.
00:31:08No, s***.
00:31:09Yeah, yeah.
00:31:10I mean, you only got to do it once.
00:31:11You know?
00:31:12Let's get back in there.
00:31:13The biggest adjustment
00:31:14that I've had to make
00:31:16is the fact that
00:31:17there's really no structure
00:31:20in the real world
00:31:21unless you make it.
00:31:22So, for me to go to the next step,
00:31:24I have to do this.
00:31:25There's nothing else
00:31:26I have to do this.
00:31:27There's nothing holding me back.
00:31:29How did the powwow go?
00:31:31I'm back.
00:31:32Okay.
00:31:33My heart's in it totally.
00:31:35My pocket might be
00:31:36a little bit short now,
00:31:37but, like, my heart's still there.
00:31:39We want to help you out
00:31:40in your situation.
00:31:42This is what the number was
00:31:43with the mounting.
00:31:44That and everything.
00:31:45But for you,
00:31:46watch what we're going to do for you.
00:31:47Just because I want to help you out
00:31:49and I think that you really want
00:31:50to do the right thing for her.
00:31:51This is the President's Day special
00:31:53that was last week.
00:31:54And I can't see doing anything better
00:31:57than what I just did for you.
00:31:58So, we went from here
00:32:01to here.
00:32:02Did you know that I can't afford
00:32:04a two-carat diamond ring?
00:32:06That would look good on her.
00:32:07That's a nice-looking ring.
00:32:08This is a gorgeous diamond.
00:32:10The size of the ring
00:32:11shouldn't matter
00:32:12because at the end of the day,
00:32:13I love Melissa
00:32:14and I want to be with her.
00:32:15That thing is freaking beautiful.
00:32:16Well, once it's set,
00:32:17it's a totally different ballgame.
00:32:18She's going to love that, dude.
00:32:19I mean, that's it.
00:32:20That's the one, huh?
00:32:22Congrats, man.
00:32:23Congrats, man.
00:32:25My bank account just took a major hit.
00:32:27I spent $18,500,
00:32:30basically everything
00:32:31that I've ever saved,
00:32:33$6,500 over budget.
00:32:38Thanks, brother.
00:32:39I appreciate it.
00:32:40This is a huge accomplishment for me.
00:32:42But not just that,
00:32:43but it's like for a lifetime.
00:32:45That's the weight,
00:32:46that's the color,
00:32:47that's the clarity.
00:32:48I just hope the ring
00:32:50is good enough for Melissa.
00:32:52Thank you again.
00:32:53I appreciate it.
00:32:54You're welcome.
00:32:59I don't give a ****
00:33:00what you're talking about right now.
00:33:01I need to know one question.
00:33:04Are you cheating on me?
00:33:14I'm not cheating on you.
00:33:15Literally, since I've been home,
00:33:17I have not cheated on you at all.
00:33:19But you know what?
00:33:20We can't even say ****
00:33:21is my definition of cheating
00:33:22or your definition of cheating.
00:33:24Are you talking to other women?
00:33:26No.
00:33:27You know I'm not talking to nobody.
00:33:28I don't know what you're doing.
00:33:30Troy has been on the phone,
00:33:33texting constantly.
00:33:35Anybody can delete anything
00:33:36from their phone.
00:33:37You giving me your phone is weird.
00:33:42Troy!
00:33:44I need you to come
00:33:45and pick me up.
00:33:46I don't deserve that.
00:33:47If there's some type
00:33:48of female energy,
00:33:49that's a deal breaker for me.
00:33:50I'm not dealing with that.
00:33:52You could be doing anything.
00:33:53Full access to the phone.
00:33:54You can delete things.
00:33:55That means nothing.
00:33:56Your phone means nothing.
00:33:57**** your password.
00:33:59I barely know how to work
00:34:00the mother******.
00:34:01I want a normal relationship.
00:34:05I know that there's
00:34:06something else going on.
00:34:08And best believe
00:34:09I'm going to find out.
00:34:11Because the difference
00:34:12between me and you is
00:34:13I'm willing to **** admit
00:34:15when I've made a mistake.
00:34:16I'm not okay with
00:34:17stringing somebody along.
00:34:19So I strung you along.
00:34:20I'm 32 years old.
00:34:21I don't got time
00:34:22to be out here
00:34:23playing games with you.
00:34:24Because if you're not
00:34:25the person for me,
00:34:26let me go.
00:34:28This is just way too much.
00:34:30Like, I'm so, so tired of it.
00:34:33Zaria is getting upset with me
00:34:35about things that I'm not doing.
00:34:38And it's like,
00:34:39I'm not the one
00:34:40who's been cheating.
00:34:41While I was in prison,
00:34:43there was infidelity
00:34:44in our marriage.
00:34:45She had went out with someone
00:34:47and she slept with them.
00:34:49We were able to get through it.
00:34:51And now she keeps accusing me.
00:34:54I just feel like it's bull****.
00:34:56Whatever magic female
00:34:57you're talking about,
00:34:58where the **** is she at?
00:35:00Because I don't see her.
00:35:03Whatever, it's fine.
00:35:06We're going to move forward our day.
00:35:07We got to have dinner
00:35:08with your parents
00:35:09and I don't want to bring
00:35:10that type of energy in there.
00:35:12Think about that.
00:35:13That's what you really need
00:35:14to be worried about
00:35:15and not sitting here
00:35:16going back and forth with me.
00:35:17So, beautiful.
00:35:18I love you.
00:35:19I'm supporting you
00:35:20as your husband,
00:35:21as I always do.
00:35:22Don't act like that.
00:35:23You're a little attitude.
00:35:24That's fine.
00:35:25I don't have an attitude.
00:35:26Give me a kiss.
00:35:28I can have a kiss.
00:35:31I accept that.
00:35:32That's fine.
00:35:33Come on, let's go in here
00:35:34and finish
00:35:35and don't walk out
00:35:36because we're going to
00:35:37actually leave this time
00:35:38when we walk out.
00:35:41I'm sorry I walked out.
00:35:43So, let me,
00:35:44I'm going to go back
00:35:45onto this, right?
00:35:47Remember I said old, right?
00:35:48So, this is going to,
00:35:49these are going to be things
00:35:50that are going to be
00:35:51triggering you guys.
00:35:52Do I feel Troy
00:35:53cheating at this current moment?
00:35:55I'll be honest, no.
00:35:59That's why I feel like
00:36:00this person is old.
00:36:01It could be some past stuff
00:36:02she might bring up.
00:36:04You got to trust your intuition.
00:36:06I think Zaria is getting
00:36:07so upset about this
00:36:08because Zaria wants this to work.
00:36:10She wants to overcome
00:36:11everything that's fighting
00:36:12against them.
00:36:14But they do have
00:36:15a lot of chaotic stuff
00:36:16about to happen for them.
00:36:17A lot of lessons
00:36:18are about to happen.
00:36:19They're about to go through it.
00:36:21When things trigger you,
00:36:23you have to make a decision
00:36:24how you are going to react to it.
00:36:27Okay?
00:36:28When you try to hide something,
00:36:31it has to come out.
00:36:32The truth has to come out.
00:36:35I just need you to
00:36:37breathe.
00:36:38Mm-hmm.
00:36:49They mentioned me having a will.
00:36:52When you die,
00:36:53if you knew,
00:36:54why would you have
00:36:55another kid so soon?
00:36:56It's just selfish.
00:37:02All right, you ready?
00:37:09Kylie.
00:37:10Hello.
00:37:11Hi, say hi to Snitch.
00:37:13She's getting so big.
00:37:14I know it.
00:37:16Trying to experience happiness
00:37:19during this high-risk pregnancy
00:37:21while they're telling you
00:37:22about how your life is in danger
00:37:24is like an oxymoron.
00:37:25Like, it doesn't make sense.
00:37:27Here you go.
00:37:29It really makes me
00:37:30think about things.
00:37:32How's the grades coming?
00:37:34Good. I have all As.
00:37:36This looks like sorority work.
00:37:37So is it sorority or homework?
00:37:39No, I'm doing...
00:37:40I have to do two things at once.
00:37:42I'm busy, but...
00:37:43Multitasking,
00:37:44it's always a good thing.
00:37:45Yeah.
00:37:46I am a freshman in college
00:37:47at UNLV.
00:37:48I'm loving it here.
00:37:50I love Vegas.
00:37:51I've made so many friends,
00:37:53and I just love the college life.
00:37:56I'm proud of you.
00:37:58I'm proud of you.
00:37:59You're doing everything
00:38:00that I wish I could have done.
00:38:02High school, you were there.
00:38:04You were there.
00:38:05There was always stuff
00:38:07that was in my way
00:38:09of trying to fulfill something.
00:38:13You know, you just gotta stay
00:38:14on the right track.
00:38:16Nothing has thrown me
00:38:17off track so far.
00:38:18I'm always watching.
00:38:19Oh, I know.
00:38:21Listen, I wanna talk to you.
00:38:27Be aggressive.
00:38:28Push through.
00:38:29I'm gonna do this.
00:38:30See?
00:38:31There you go.
00:38:32Push.
00:38:33You gotta push through it.
00:38:34Good.
00:38:35You know we went
00:38:36to the doctors, right?
00:38:37Yeah.
00:38:38Listen, I understand
00:38:39you feel some type of way
00:38:40about the new baby.
00:38:41It's not that.
00:38:42A baby's a blessing,
00:38:43but it's just,
00:38:44there's already so much of us.
00:38:45You know, Mason and Nova
00:38:46still aren't over here,
00:38:47so a new sibling is great,
00:38:49but I still have other siblings.
00:38:51I feel like a neglectful parent.
00:38:53Yeah, but you're not a parent.
00:38:55I know.
00:38:57We're all missing Mason and Nova,
00:38:59but at the end of the day,
00:39:00there's nothing I can really do.
00:39:01You know, their mothers
00:39:02made it clear they don't want
00:39:03the babies to move out here.
00:39:04We miss you guys.
00:39:07School break is gonna be here
00:39:08really, really soon,
00:39:09and you know we're gonna see you
00:39:10for school break.
00:39:11We love you guys,
00:39:12and we miss you guys a lot.
00:39:16It's pretty difficult,
00:39:17but there's no way
00:39:18I'm gonna leave them behind.
00:39:20We are a family.
00:39:21I just really hope
00:39:22that they don't grow up
00:39:23and have any resentment
00:39:25towards you or me,
00:39:27because I'm so used to, like,
00:39:28being there.
00:39:29It's weird.
00:39:33Whoa.
00:39:35So, um,
00:39:37I went to the doctors,
00:39:38and they told me that
00:39:40I kind of shouldn't even be
00:39:42having another child right now.
00:39:44What I'm doing is dangerous.
00:39:46So, um,
00:39:47I'm kind of in a position now.
00:39:50They mentioned me having,
00:39:52like, a will.
00:39:53When you die?
00:39:54Yeah.
00:39:55If anything happened to me,
00:39:56I think that maybe in Mike's head
00:39:57he would think that he would
00:39:58take the boys,
00:39:59but Mike's not their
00:40:00biological father.
00:40:01God forbid anything
00:40:02happens to me.
00:40:03God forbid.
00:40:04Santana, Bentley, their dad,
00:40:06is on the other side
00:40:07of the country,
00:40:08and personally,
00:40:09I don't think that he would
00:40:10want to take them.
00:40:12And then,
00:40:13despite Mike being
00:40:15an amazing father,
00:40:17you would be better for them
00:40:19than him.
00:40:22When it comes to Santana,
00:40:23he is on the spectrum,
00:40:25and, you know,
00:40:27Kylie is accommodating
00:40:28to her brother.
00:40:29I do not think that Mike
00:40:30understands Santana,
00:40:32how his brain works,
00:40:34Michael's lack of patience.
00:40:36I don't like that kind of
00:40:37s*** at all, to be honest.
00:40:39The reaction,
00:40:40when they take over
00:40:41Santana's broken phone
00:40:43was a little much
00:40:44for the conversation.
00:40:45I think he really needs
00:40:46to cool down,
00:40:47educate himself a little bit,
00:40:48and relax.
00:40:50And then, you know,
00:40:51Maddie and the new baby,
00:40:53maybe you and Mike
00:40:54could share custody, kind of.
00:40:56You knew how it was last time.
00:40:59You're pregnant again,
00:41:00and you're even more high-risk,
00:41:01so it's just scary.
00:41:05Knowing that she's high-risk
00:41:06and trying to have another baby
00:41:07is irresponsible,
00:41:09and that's on you,
00:41:10like, God forbid anything happen.
00:41:13I know.
00:41:14I had mixed emotions,
00:41:16but I regret the timing
00:41:17of this pregnancy.
00:41:19I don't regret
00:41:20the pregnancy itself.
00:41:22I don't want to seem like
00:41:23selfish,
00:41:24but, like,
00:41:25I'm really enjoying myself.
00:41:26Like, I don't really want
00:41:27all that, like,
00:41:28just stripped away
00:41:29at any second,
00:41:30like, because I'm, like,
00:41:31finally, like,
00:41:32getting that independence.
00:41:34It's just very, very scary
00:41:35because her health
00:41:36is very important to me.
00:41:38I wish that she would have
00:41:39thought through the risks more
00:41:40because it puts a lot
00:41:41on my shoulders.
00:41:43I would do anything
00:41:44for my family,
00:41:45but also, like,
00:41:46I'm enjoying all these
00:41:47new things as well.
00:41:49If you knew
00:41:50the complications of it,
00:41:51why would you have
00:41:52another kid so soon?
00:41:55Good question.
00:41:59I just feel like
00:42:00it was something
00:42:01that we really wanted.
00:42:10Three, two, one.
00:42:16Oh, God, oh, God.
00:42:20That's not good.
00:42:21What are you drinking?
00:42:24I don't know.
00:42:29Rob, really?
00:42:31You've been drinking, baby?
00:42:32Stop.
00:42:33Don't put me on the spot here.
00:42:35Part of the reason
00:42:36he got incarcerated
00:42:38was from drinking.
00:42:40Sorry.
00:42:41That's bullsh**.
00:42:43Water only.
00:42:44I mean, you guys knew
00:42:45we were coming.
00:42:46I feel bad for drinking.
00:42:47Usually when I drink,
00:42:48I can't even finish my beer
00:42:49usually when I drink.
00:42:51But, you know,
00:42:52Bianca, there's,
00:42:53I don't know,
00:42:54it's easier to drink, you know?
00:42:55I end up drinking
00:42:56more and more glasses.
00:42:58I'm sorry, bro.
00:42:59I shouldn't have
00:43:00brought us here,
00:43:01you know what I'm saying?
00:43:02I'm not mad at you
00:43:03because you didn't tell me
00:43:04you weren't going to drink,
00:43:05but she told me
00:43:06she wasn't going to drink.
00:43:07And I can drink
00:43:08if I want to drink.
00:43:11Clearly.
00:43:12Clearly.
00:43:14It's not a good look
00:43:15for myself,
00:43:16and I feel bad,
00:43:17but I don't think
00:43:18that was entirely my fault
00:43:19because why should that
00:43:20even be a problem?
00:43:24What's that look?
00:43:25What is that?
00:43:27It's just annoying.
00:43:29Well, I'm triggered.
00:43:30I want a shot.
00:43:31How do you feel about that?
00:43:35Take a shot.
00:43:36Yeah.
00:43:38I was seeing
00:43:39how supportive you were
00:43:40going to be,
00:43:41and you failed.
00:43:42You failed that.
00:43:43I didn't fail anything.
00:43:44That's your own problem
00:43:45that you have to deal with.
00:43:46Good job.
00:43:47Thank you for the support.
00:43:49That's literally
00:43:50your own problem, though.
00:43:51I can't do this.
00:43:52I can't be around that.
00:43:56You want me to
00:43:57throw away my sobriety
00:43:58for what?
00:43:59To enjoy
00:44:00alcohol with you?
00:44:02What happens next?
00:44:03Are we just going to be
00:44:04taking heads off the foil?
00:44:06That's what that
00:44:07looks like to me.
00:44:08That's where alcohol
00:44:09leads me.
00:44:10I want you to
00:44:11control it
00:44:13for a while.
00:44:14At least.
00:44:15The drinking?
00:44:16Yeah.
00:44:17Okay.
00:44:18Control it.
00:44:19Show that you can
00:44:20live each day
00:44:21like in a nip.
00:44:22Okay.
00:44:23And I think that
00:44:24Daniel will feel
00:44:25a lot more comfortable
00:44:26going into this relationship.
00:44:27You guys have been
00:44:28talking on the phone.
00:44:29Now you're live.
00:44:31You are looking
00:44:32each other in the eye,
00:44:33and you're getting
00:44:34to know each other
00:44:35in person.
00:44:36Uh-huh.
00:44:37And I want that
00:44:38to last for decades
00:44:39and decades
00:44:40and decades.
00:44:41Really.
00:44:43Okay?
00:44:44Come talk to me.
00:44:45Are you mad at me?
00:44:46Come talk to me outside.
00:44:47Outside.
00:44:48Excuse me, guys.
00:44:49I need a minute with her.
00:44:50Yeah.
00:44:51All right.
00:44:52You should be
00:44:53a better example.
00:44:54Yeah, you're right.
00:44:55You're right.
00:44:56You look drunk,
00:44:57and that's a trigger to me.
00:44:58I didn't think
00:44:59it'd be a trigger,
00:45:00but that's a trigger to me.
00:45:01Are you serious?
00:45:02I see it now.
00:45:03Yeah, that's a trigger.
00:45:04It bothers you that much?
00:45:05That's gonna be
00:45:06something we gotta talk about.
00:45:07You're so dramatic.
00:45:08You don't even wanna call her.
00:45:09You don't wanna kiss me?
00:45:10I can taste...
00:45:11Kiss me.
00:45:12Babe, I can...
00:45:13You wanna kiss me?
00:45:14I don't wanna taste alcohol.
00:45:15Are you really being serious?
00:45:16Let's go back inside.
00:45:17Can you kiss me?
00:45:18I don't wanna...
00:45:19Why?
00:45:20Because that's a trigger.
00:45:21That's a problem for me.
00:45:22I need you to respect that.
00:45:23I'm not...
00:45:24You're not gonna respect it?
00:45:25I didn't say that.
00:45:26I'm just saying,
00:45:27can you kiss me?
00:45:28I don't wanna kiss you right now.
00:45:29You're lying.
00:45:30What are we doing?
00:45:31We're gonna take them home.
00:45:32I am leaving tomorrow
00:45:33with a really worried heart.
00:45:34I'll talk to you when he's sober up.
00:45:35I don't like to talk now
00:45:36because it's not gonna mean anything.
00:45:37I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:38when you're sober.
00:45:39I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:40when you're drunk.
00:45:41I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:42when you're drunk.
00:45:43I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:44when you're drunk.
00:45:45I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:46when you're drunk.
00:45:47I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:48when you're drunk.
00:45:49I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:50when you're drunk.
00:45:51I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:52when you're drunk.
00:45:53I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:54when you're drunk.
00:45:55I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:56when you're drunk.
00:45:57I don't wanna talk to you
00:45:58when you're drunk.
00:45:59I don't wanna talk to you
00:46:00when you're drunk.
00:46:01I don't wanna talk to you
00:46:02when you're drunk.
00:46:03I don't wanna talk to you
00:46:04when you're drunk.
00:46:05I don't wanna talk to you
00:46:06when you're drunk.
00:46:07I don't wanna talk to you
00:46:08when you're drunk.
00:46:09I don't wanna talk to you
00:46:10when you're drunk.
00:46:11I don't wanna talk to you
00:46:12when you're drunk.
00:46:13I was really surprised, yeah.
00:46:17Daniel picked out
00:46:18a really sweet ring,
00:46:19but I just feel like
00:46:21maybe he should wait
00:46:22a little bit after today.
00:46:23After, you know,
00:46:24he's all ready to commit
00:46:25and then we come back
00:46:26and here she's drinking
00:46:27in a bar, you know?
00:46:44Can you just do it, please?
00:47:00We need to have a conversation.
00:47:03This is all a joke, huh?
00:47:06No sorry, no I made a mistake,
00:47:09nothing?
00:47:10Nothing.
00:47:11I got triggered in there.
00:47:13Okay.
00:47:14What if I don't
00:47:15pull through next time?
00:47:16What then?
00:47:18It's your own problem, buddy.
00:47:22That's f***ing crazy.
00:47:25This conversation's
00:47:26going nowhere.
00:47:27Seeing her in this state of,
00:47:29you know,
00:47:30the tipsy, swervy,
00:47:31the I don't care
00:47:32what you have to say,
00:47:33it's my way
00:47:34or the highway
00:47:35kind of attitude.
00:47:36I'm gonna go to bed,
00:47:37I'm gonna sleep
00:47:38on the couch tonight.
00:47:39I just need to think
00:47:40about this more.
00:47:41Just sleep on the couch?
00:47:42I'm sleeping on the couch.
00:47:44These are very serious issues.
00:47:46Alright, good night.
00:47:48She doesn't seem to care.
00:47:53F***ing bulls***, dude.
00:47:55You know, Bianca's sister
00:47:56wants to be a mom,
00:47:57she wants to be a housewife,
00:47:59but I don't think
00:48:02she's mature enough
00:48:03for all that yet.
00:48:11The devil's gonna try
00:48:12to come between you two.
00:48:14I think it's some
00:48:15dark energy around.
00:48:17It's witchcraft.
00:48:18That is the end of the story.
00:48:25I miss you.
00:48:31What's up, baby?
00:48:32I can't f***ing
00:48:33take this s*** no more, bro.
00:48:34That s*** denied me.
00:48:36F***, y'all can't f***ing
00:48:37stand this s***.
00:48:38F***, y'all can't f***ing
00:48:39stand this s***.
00:48:40This s*** is f***ing pissing me off.
00:48:42I don't want to f***ing
00:48:43be here no f***ing more.
00:48:44Why the f*** are they
00:48:45doing this s*** to us?
00:48:51This s*** is f***ed up, bro.
00:48:53The system is literally
00:48:54f***ed up.
00:48:56I've done everything
00:48:57that I need to f***ing do.
00:48:58I've paid everything
00:48:59that I need to f***ing pay.
00:49:00I don't want to f***ing
00:49:01be here anymore.
00:49:03I can't even f***ing sleep.
00:49:05Like, I'm ready to f***ing go.
00:49:09I don't want to f***ing
00:49:10be here anymore.
00:49:11Just calm down.
00:49:12Calm down.
00:49:13I don't want to f***ing
00:49:14stand and do everything
00:49:16that I need to f***ing do.
00:49:18Stop.
00:49:20Look at me.
00:49:21Calm down.
00:49:22Okay?
00:49:23Calm down.
00:49:24You're not gonna do that here.
00:49:25Deep breaths in.
00:49:27Deep breaths out.
00:49:28Good.
00:49:31I guess Texas just don't
00:49:32allow two felons
00:49:33to live together.
00:49:36Come on.
00:49:37Calm.
00:49:38I don't want to f***ing go.
00:49:39Like, f*** this f***ing work.
00:49:41It's a bitch, man.
00:49:42F***.
00:49:44Me and Bri both
00:49:45are doing good.
00:49:47All we're just trying to do
00:49:48is live our life
00:49:49and just succeed.
00:49:50So, I don't see
00:49:51what the hell the problem is.
00:49:52So, what'd she just say, baby,
00:49:53that you just ain't feeling?
00:49:54Are you listening?
00:49:55I'm trying to.
00:49:56He rocks.
00:49:57She said that I cannot
00:49:58f***ing go.
00:49:59I'm f***ing denied again.
00:50:00I have to start
00:50:01all the f***ing over
00:50:02and it's gonna be
00:50:0345 f***ing days again.
00:50:04Another f***ing waiting period.
00:50:08Another f***ing waiting period.
00:50:15Being trapped
00:50:16and just being stuck here
00:50:17just makes me feel like
00:50:19being locked up
00:50:20all over again.
00:50:22It's like I can't
00:50:23get free of that.
00:50:26I'm really gonna have to live
00:50:27with my aunt
00:50:29while you're living
00:50:30in our apartment.
00:50:32Calm down.
00:50:33Tell me what she said
00:50:34the reason was.
00:50:35She said
00:50:36the first address
00:50:37was not approved.
00:50:38So, now that I'm
00:50:39resubmitting the application,
00:50:41I can't.
00:50:42They said that I need to live
00:50:43with a family member.
00:50:45She's like,
00:50:46but also your aunt
00:50:47has to put your name
00:50:48on the lease.
00:50:49What does that have
00:50:50anything to do?
00:50:51If she's letting me
00:50:52stay there,
00:50:53why does she have to
00:50:54put my name on the lease?
00:50:55So, now I gotta call my aunt
00:50:56and see if she'll even do that
00:50:57and then see if her apartment
00:50:58place will even take me.
00:51:00I'm trying to figure out why.
00:51:01I'm already off probation.
00:51:02What is the issue?
00:51:03This is your place.
00:51:04It doesn't matter.
00:51:05I don't know what happened,
00:51:06but that's what she said.
00:51:08We are not married.
00:51:09They do not give a crap.
00:51:11They don't want us,
00:51:13like, that's what they're
00:51:14trying to do pretty much
00:51:15is they don't want us
00:51:16to live together.
00:51:19I just need a minute, yo.
00:51:21You're just crazy, bro.
00:51:29I'm sorry I did blow up.
00:51:31We all got things
00:51:32we need to work on.
00:51:35I'm sorry.
00:51:42Patrice said that things,
00:51:44all these chaotic things
00:51:45are gonna happen.
00:51:46It's definitely a struggle,
00:51:48but I want to fight
00:51:49for our relationship, Troy.
00:51:51I truly do.
00:51:52Whatever's supposed to happen
00:51:53is gonna happen,
00:51:54and we just gotta figure out
00:51:56when the problems
00:51:57present themselves,
00:51:58do we have the solution
00:51:59to figure it out?
00:52:01It makes me feel upset
00:52:03that she doesn't trust me,
00:52:04but my priority right now
00:52:06is to focus on
00:52:08our financial issues
00:52:10and not bullsh**
00:52:12about more drama.
00:52:16Well, let's do this, bae.
00:52:20Hey.
00:52:22We're here.
00:52:25What are you ringing
00:52:26the doorbell?
00:52:27It's already open.
00:52:28Did you just ring the doorbell
00:52:29for you walking people's house?
00:52:30Nah, this is my parents' house.
00:52:31I walk right in.
00:52:32Hey, ma.
00:52:33Hi, baby.
00:52:34My parents have been married
00:52:35for 30-plus years,
00:52:38and I strive to have that marriage,
00:52:40and maybe I need to have
00:52:41a conversation with them
00:52:42because I feel like my parents
00:52:45always know what to say.
00:52:47This looks great.
00:52:48We fix it on the plate, right?
00:52:50Yeah.
00:52:51There you go.
00:52:52How's it going?
00:52:53It's been going all right.
00:52:55Y'all need to get up
00:52:56and come to church
00:52:57on Sunday morning.
00:52:58Absolutely.
00:52:59Uh-huh.
00:53:00Understood.
00:53:01Like I told her,
00:53:02I got my own things
00:53:03that I'm trying to do
00:53:04and not necessarily
00:53:05catch up with life,
00:53:06but, you know,
00:53:07just on my own path.
00:53:08I've always been that way.
00:53:09My hope is that you've seen in me
00:53:13I'm going to help you do
00:53:15everything I can to help you
00:53:19be the best you
00:53:21that you destined to be
00:53:23because I believe,
00:53:25as the scripture says,
00:53:26what I sow
00:53:27is what I'm going to reap.
00:53:29Zaria's father
00:53:30is a man of God,
00:53:31but I was not raised in church.
00:53:34At the same time,
00:53:35they're looking out for us
00:53:37and just want our best interests.
00:53:41Lord, thank you for the food
00:53:42we're about to receive.
00:53:43Sanctified by your word
00:53:44and by the Spirit in Jesus' name,
00:53:45we pray.
00:53:46Thanks be unto God.
00:53:47Give us a victory.
00:53:48In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.
00:53:49Amen.
00:53:50Amen.
00:53:51How are things going?
00:53:53Um, everything's going good.
00:53:55We've been working so much,
00:53:57so...
00:53:58Now, as far as your job,
00:54:00is it different for you
00:54:01from what you perceived it to be
00:54:03from conversations
00:54:04as opposed to being here physically?
00:54:06I just have to be patient.
00:54:07We have the therapist,
00:54:08we have the office,
00:54:09we have the conference rooms,
00:54:10we have everything set up,
00:54:12but we're not getting the children.
00:54:14We want to show the community
00:54:16that we're there for them.
00:54:17We want to help those
00:54:18who are formerly incarcerated,
00:54:20their families and kids
00:54:22that are at risk
00:54:24of becoming incarcerated.
00:54:26But I haven't told my parents
00:54:28about the finances at Project HEAL
00:54:31and not being able to pay the rent
00:54:32because my first instinct
00:54:34is to fix the problem
00:54:35and then tell them later.
00:54:37The minimum we're trying to get is 50.
00:54:39If we get those 50 kids,
00:54:40that data will show that
00:54:42there's a need in the community
00:54:43and we'll be able to use that
00:54:44to obtain grants
00:54:46so that we can fund Project HEAL
00:54:47and not have to worry
00:54:48about these financial problems.
00:54:50And if we don't,
00:54:52Troy and I are at risk
00:54:53to not only lose our business,
00:54:55but also our home.
00:54:57I'm so proud of you two
00:54:58that you're building something
00:54:59so amazing together.
00:55:01And that's why I want to say
00:55:02even as you're building this,
00:55:04you know the devil's going to try
00:55:05to come between you two
00:55:06and cause confusion
00:55:07so that what you're building
00:55:09is going to be torn down
00:55:10and so that it won't happen.
00:55:11So, I mean, how do you plan
00:55:12to deal with differences?
00:55:15So, for the past year,
00:55:18I've been seeing a psychic.
00:55:20Seeing a who?
00:55:22I've been seeing a psychic.
00:55:25So today,
00:55:27I decided to bring Troy with me
00:55:29to go see her.
00:55:31She said that there was
00:55:32going to be chaos,
00:55:33there was going to be drama.
00:55:35We weren't meant to be together.
00:55:37So, I kind of got triggered.
00:55:40I got very emotional
00:55:42because I'm like,
00:55:43up until this point,
00:55:44Patrice has not been wrong
00:55:46about anything.
00:55:47Like, anything she's told me
00:55:48is going to happen,
00:55:49like, actually has happened.
00:55:51Uh-uh.
00:55:53Her dad and I have been married
00:55:54for almost 38 years now.
00:55:56And it hasn't been easy,
00:55:57so, you know,
00:55:58and what has kept us
00:55:59is our faith in God
00:56:00and my faith in God
00:56:01kept me from murdering him
00:56:02because I would have been
00:56:03doing jail ministry with you.
00:56:04What?
00:56:05But seriously, though,
00:56:06it's witchcraft.
00:56:07I'm trying to listen
00:56:08to this witchcraft.
00:56:09As far as psychics go,
00:56:10I believe it's real
00:56:12because I believe
00:56:13just as my spirituality
00:56:14with the Lord Jesus Christ
00:56:15is real,
00:56:16I also believe the devil is real.
00:56:17And so, psychic witchcraft,
00:56:20to me, is the one and the same.
00:56:21I don't fool with it.
00:56:22I believe it's wicked.
00:56:23I believe it will do you harm.
00:56:25Man, I ain't losing over
00:56:26what those psychics say.
00:56:28I know that my times
00:56:30are in God's hand.
00:56:32I know that when I gave her
00:56:34her first bath,
00:56:36when she came home
00:56:37from the hospital,
00:56:38I spoke her destiny then.
00:56:41And ain't nobody
00:56:43and nothing gonna change that.
00:56:44And it is so.
00:56:45And that is the end of the story.
00:56:48I don't care what anybody says.
00:56:50All I can think of
00:56:51is what Patrice said,
00:56:53all this chaos and drama.
00:56:56Man, that gives me
00:56:57so much anxiety.
00:56:59I think it's some
00:57:00dark energy around.
00:57:02I just hope I'm wrong.
00:57:04I got time
00:57:05for that foolishness.
00:57:08Next Friday,
00:57:09on an all-new
00:57:10Life After Lockup.
00:57:11I wanna get married.
00:57:12Babe, I have to tell you
00:57:13something.
00:57:14What happens
00:57:15with your minor children?
00:57:16Let me explain to you.
00:57:17Hold on.
00:57:18Can I hold on a second?
00:57:19Stop.
00:57:20I'm still married.
00:57:21Get the f*** out.
00:57:24I've lost the peace in me.
00:57:25This is so overwhelming.
00:57:27The disrespect,
00:57:28that scares me.
00:57:29I'm done talking.
00:57:30I just didn't know why
00:57:31this is so hard for you.
00:57:32I don't know what I did.
00:57:33Don't miss an all-new
00:57:34Life After Lockup
00:57:35next Friday at 8,
00:57:36part of For Real Fridays
00:57:37on WE tv.
00:57:38Stream on All Black.
00:57:39If you or someone you know
00:57:41is in a new relationship
00:57:42with an inmate,
00:57:43or dating multiple inmates,
00:57:45please email your story
00:57:46to loveafterlockupcasting
00:57:48at gmail.com.
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