Married at First Sight UK 2024- Series 9 Episode 20: The couples mark their final day at the retreat with
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00:00So, I can't even have banter and try and make friends while I'm here.
00:03Previously...
00:04She said to Orson, hold my hand, let's make him jealous.
00:07She's being super flirty with you.
00:09She's trying it on with all the other guys.
00:10It's not a swingers club.
00:12Rumours at the retreat put Hannah in the firing line.
00:15It looks f***ing shady.
00:16I'm not going to sit here and get every single person to tell me what they don't like about
00:20me.
00:21I'll tell you.
00:22No, I'm going to tell you.
00:23Oh, I'm not f***ing...
00:24You're speaking to me like shit.
00:25She's going about things like a dickhead.
00:26While a candid confession...
00:27Stick with your current partner or twist...
00:30Twist?
00:31Stephen?
00:32...threw Polly's marriage into turmoil.
00:35The fact that you've gone, I'll switch to Stephen...
00:37What's the difference?
00:38It's Morgan who's f***ed.
00:39I'm getting better every week and you're still not f***ing happy.
00:42That's just shit.
00:44I don't want to lose him.
00:46F***.
00:50Tonight...
00:51I'm waking up by myself.
00:52I haven't got a wife.
00:53There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Orson.
00:57As two marriages hit breaking point...
00:59She tries to talk to me at the dinner party.
01:01I'm just going to ignore her.
01:02...eyes begin to wander.
01:03I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
01:06I definitely could let my hair down tonight.
01:09So you find Sian unattractive?
01:11Oh, she's my type.
01:13Stephen said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight, I'm going to shoot myself.
01:17Leading to a clash of husbands.
01:19If I wasn't here, it'd crack on with her.
01:21Muppets.
01:23F*** me.
01:24This wasn't part of the plan.
01:26And Adam's hurt feelings.
01:27I'm sorry. I'm f***ing sorry, Adam.
01:29There you go.
01:30It's a fake sorry.
01:31I don't cut it.
01:32Spark renewed conflict with wife Polly.
01:35The stuff that he said about me...
01:37...is f***ing hurtful.
01:51You do look very handsome today, must I say?
01:53Thank you, darling.
01:56Don't you worry. I'll be looking handsome as well when I get all dressed up.
02:01The couples are waking up to their final day at the retreat.
02:08What are you making?
02:09Coffee.
02:10I need one.
02:11Knackered.
02:17Oh dear, Kasper.
02:18Funny.
02:19I got my way.
02:20I got my wicked way.
02:22You got a snug?
02:24Yes.
02:25With a yes to that.
02:27Yeah.
02:29There was mood lighting around the fireplace.
02:32A carafe of red on the side.
02:34I'd removed the pillows between us to snuggle on in.
02:38And then I finally said, close your eyes, Kasper.
02:43Oh dear.
02:45People are going to be very excited for us.
02:48Oh dear.
02:51Emma and I have been getting on really, really, really well.
02:54We got a little bit tipsy last night.
02:56I gave in after a few glasses of wine.
02:59It was a good kiss.
03:02You're getting your hair cut today?
03:04I'm getting my hair cut today.
03:06Finally. Let him loose.
03:14I have not seen Michelle for the whole of this retreat.
03:18I'm waking up in my bed by myself.
03:20I haven't got a wife.
03:24I can't see no way back from my marriage.
03:29I don't see any point in us staying together while on this retreat.
03:33After a dispute over the previous commitment ceremony.
03:36You sat on the couch and you said how, when I said about not being mentally stimulated,
03:40you said that caused you distress.
03:42We had ample opportunities to talk about it in private.
03:44You never mentioned that to me.
03:46It's fine for you to say you bore me.
03:48It's fine for you to say you don't mentally stimulate me.
03:52You could have addressed it at the time.
03:54It's fine for you to have arguments and then just walk out.
03:57Is it fine for you to lie as much as you have?
04:02Let me just say this.
04:03What about your lies?
04:04I'm not going to actually sit here and talk to you.
04:06Let's talk about your lies, Orson.
04:07I don't want to be in the same space as you.
04:08Didn't I ask you a certain question?
04:10You're a little liar.
04:11You're a fraud.
04:13Rochelle and Orson decided to spend the rest of the retreat apart.
04:17I am done.
04:22It's good to be in this setting alone.
04:24There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Orson.
04:28That's the reality of it.
04:30I don't have any intention of going into the dinner party with him tonight.
04:38Good morning.
04:39Good morning, how are you?
04:40Did you sleep well?
04:42Not really.
04:43Give us a spud.
04:44Yes.
04:45I'm tired today.
04:46I just feel like every day I'm walking into a lion's den
04:49and I'm just attacked and then I have to, like, get over it
04:52and then it's just like, whoa, it's a lot.
04:56At girls' day yesterday, I felt completely ambushed and it was horrible.
04:59I'm kind of getting a bit bored of having to justify every single thing I do and say.
05:03I feel like you cope with it very well.
05:05Do you think you'll be walking into the dinner party separate?
05:08100%.
05:10Waking up this morning, I feel like I've had a really shit week.
05:14I feel a bit drained of the whole thing and even my husband's pied me off.
05:18But I came on this retreat for this marriage, so I'm still here.
05:23We were actually matched really, really, really well
05:25and I've never felt the connection that me and him felt instantly in a long time.
05:29Like, I've not felt that with someone in a long time.
05:33I would love to get through to Stephen and just say,
05:35what do you want from me, like, what do you want me to do?
05:41How's things going?
05:42Could be better.
05:44Are you looking forward to sitting next to Hannah tonight?
05:47I won't talk to her.
05:49I'm so out of it.
05:50There's no words left to be said, in my opinion.
05:52Last week, I went into the commitment ceremony with the attitude of,
05:56I'll give it a go.
05:58I don't think I'm the person she needs.
06:00The next chat I have with Hannah will be in front of the experts.
06:04If she tries to talk to me at the dinner party, I'm just going to ignore her.
06:08If she tries arguing, she'll be arguing with herself.
06:10I'm just not here for it anymore.
06:11I've got no energy left for her.
06:13I seen Shannon on her own last night.
06:16She was with her suitcase going to her new apartment.
06:19Something must have been brewing for her to just end up in a room on her own.
06:22I saw Ryan last night, quite late.
06:24And Ryan was just like, oh, yeah, I'm just getting into bed now.
06:28Shannon is my type outside of here.
06:30Like, completely, yeah.
06:31Tats and...
06:32Everything.
06:33Right.
06:34Even without tats, just the face.
06:35She might be single now, bro.
06:37No.
06:38No.
06:44Ryan and I had our first little fallout last night.
06:47He kind of thought I was hiding things from the girls' day.
06:50So we just decided it was best to spend the night apart.
06:56I feel like the argument was totally blown out of proportion.
06:58Like, it was just minor things.
07:00I don't know what I'm supposed to do.
07:02Like, I've not done anything wrong.
07:08Last night, Shannon came in.
07:10Climbed on bed.
07:11She was like, so what questions did you lads get asked?
07:14So I said, what questions did the girls get asked?
07:18She's like, oh, I can't remember now.
07:20They sat at the other blah, blah, blah.
07:21Just, like, tried to bat it off.
07:22So I said, I'm not going to answer what's been said.
07:25What's been said to have used.
07:26Like, Lacey came in.
07:28She was like, hi, Ryan, you all right?
07:29Shannon gets up.
07:30She goes, no, we're not all right.
07:32And walks out.
07:33She's stalled elsewhere last night.
07:35Don't know where she is.
07:37Hopefully you sorted it today.
07:38Like, the dinner party.
07:39We'll see.
07:40We'll see.
07:43I'm feeling calm to go into a dinner party.
07:45I didn't really want to go in on my own.
07:47Because I knew it was nothing.
07:49But yeah, we need to work on communication.
07:51I'm not here for no other woman.
07:59I really needed this.
08:00But the wife's happy.
08:01You got free reign.
08:02Just go mad.
08:03Do whatever you think's going to make me look good, mate.
08:06I think I like the idea, as well, that we haven't got a mirror.
08:08So you can't see what I'm doing.
08:10I could be doing anything.
08:12How are you?
08:14Yeah, well, when I got back to my lodge last night with Alex,
08:18I found out that Polly had said she would switch to Stephen.
08:22That's got to hurt.
08:23Yeah, it was a bit of a kick in the teeth.
08:25Her reasons behind it was, is because Stephen's in touch with his
08:28emotional side.
08:29He talks about his feelings.
08:30And he's very open.
08:31Yeah.
08:32What I've just said to her, like, I think it's disrespectful.
08:35And I feel like you've kind of mugged me off in front of everyone.
08:38I got really pissed off when I walked out.
08:40I'm a little bit nervous going into the dinner party today.
08:43Me and Polly haven't really spoken this morning.
08:46So God knows what's going to happen.
08:51Good morning.
08:53You OK?
08:54Yeah.
08:55Waking up this morning, I still feel really upset because things
08:58between me and Adam still haven't been resolved.
09:02Adam left this morning.
09:03There was no kind of, bye, I'll see you in a bit.
09:05Like, there was no reassurance from him.
09:08I woke up really early, give him a spoon, give him a kiss on the back,
09:12but then not got anything.
09:15Yes, I shouldn't have said twist straight away.
09:19I should have said stick.
09:21However, there are tendencies in Stephen that I want from Adam.
09:26That was it.
09:27Adam has said a lot of stuff that I've had to take on the chin.
09:31He says things sometimes, in the moment,
09:33that he doesn't necessarily mean and then he has to explain himself.
09:36I've done exactly the same as he's done and I got what I got,
09:39which is really unfair.
09:41What on earth makes him think that that's acceptable?
09:45I agree.
09:46I don't deserve that.
09:47I do not deserve to go in there tonight to be made feel like shit.
09:50Woe betide Adam. I'm bored of it.
10:01Here we are, guys, the fourth dinner party,
10:04and of course this time all our couples are away on their luxury retreat.
10:08It's a very different environment, of course,
10:10because it's much more relaxed for our couples.
10:12Hopefully they can let their guards down a little bit
10:15and really deepen those connections.
10:17And recently we've had three new couples join the group.
10:20It'll be interesting to see how they've been integrating.
10:26Oh, it's looking fabulous.
10:28Isn't it? Should we grab a drink?
10:30And Casper's hat.
10:32What's going on there?
10:33Hopefully he's going to reveal something fabulous.
10:38Last time we saw this couple, Casper said leave,
10:41and we really asked Emma to lean into that more vulnerable,
10:44fragile side because that was really what Casper was wanting to see.
10:48I wonder if she's done that.
10:50Do you want to see it?
10:51Oh, yes. Yeah, let's see the hair.
10:53Whip it off.
10:56Oh, fabulous.
11:00Wow, a different looking Casper.
11:02I like it. I really like it.
11:04He hasn't got too drastic.
11:06No, no, no. Not at all.
11:08To a new Casper.
11:13Oh, yes, it is one of our beautiful friends.
11:16Hello, gorgeous people.
11:18Oh, look at his short fucking size.
11:20Welcome to you.
11:21Hello.
11:22You look amazing.
11:23Hello, hello, hello.
11:24I like the green.
11:25We've got some bubbles open.
11:26Here you are, darling.
11:27Costess of the millstaffs.
11:28Thank you so much.
11:30Cheers, Casper.
11:31Cheers.
11:32Do you want to sit together?
11:33Yeah, yeah.
11:36How are you feeling about Casper's new haircut?
11:38I really like it.
11:39I think it's way more subtle than I thought it would be.
11:42Are you planting a kiss?
11:43We did have a snog last night.
11:45I did plant a kiss.
11:46I thought I was going to, didn't I?
11:48Oh, wow.
11:50This is real progress from the last commitment ceremony.
11:53Casper was saying leave and now they're snogging.
11:56That's a good start.
11:58Once you break that ice,
11:59now it becomes a bit more less of an awkward thing.
12:01Because once you've opened the fridge,
12:03you might as well put your hand in and grab something.
12:07Have you heard about any sort of what's going on with the couples?
12:10The guys around, I think it was Alex, Adam and Orson.
12:15Alex asked, did Polly say twist?
12:18Like, is this true?
12:19And I was like, yeah.
12:20I had Adam round to mine this morning to cut my hair
12:23and he's really disappointed with Polly.
12:25Is he gutted?
12:26He was surprised.
12:28Because he said stick.
12:30Well, that's quite a shock
12:32because Polly and Adam have been getting on so well.
12:34So I wonder what's going on there.
12:41Oh, there they are.
12:42Hello.
12:43And here come Polly and Adam walking in together.
12:47So this is quite a surprise
12:49because we know that something has happened.
12:51Looking fire once again.
12:53Thank you, my love.
12:54And it looks like Adam doesn't want to be there.
12:58How are we, Kasper?
13:00Hello.
13:01How are you?
13:02You OK?
13:03Yeah, good, you?
13:04Yeah.
13:05Me and Polly are going into the mixer together.
13:07I think she just wanted to lean calm, so I just let her do it.
13:10But I'm still pissed off and I don't want to speak to her yet.
13:15I've heard he was getting a little bit...
13:21But do you not sometimes look at her?
13:23She's a gorgeous woman.
13:24Look at her.
13:25That's nice.
13:26Touching her a week ago was like, no fucking way.
13:28And now she's like, let's jump into bed together.
13:30And I'm like, whoa.
13:31It's like from here to there.
13:33Yeah.
13:34And the more she pushes like this, the more I'm going to withdraw.
13:37It's trying to find that balance.
13:39These two clearly feel very differently about intimacy.
13:42Kasper feels awkward about it all.
13:44And we know he's a guy with high privacy settings.
13:47But Emma feels that the floodgates have opened.
13:50She needs to be careful not to push too hard.
13:52Otherwise, she might well push him away.
13:56We had that big argument last night when everyone left.
13:59It's not that deep, is it?
14:00It's not.
14:01It isn't.
14:02And I feel like it's just bruised his ego a little bit.
14:04And I feel like if that's what it needed to take to get you to admit
14:06that you want more than you're letting on,
14:08then fucking show me that.
14:10He hasn't spoken to me all day.
14:13He said that he wants space and that he wants to sort his head out.
14:16I've respected that.
14:17He was like, I've never got so angry.
14:19This has never happened in a relationship before.
14:21And I thought, what, because I haven't had a fucking backbone?
14:23Sorry, are you forgetting some of the shit that you said about me?
14:26On the couch, in front of all of our friends,
14:28that you don't think has embarrassed me?
14:30Fuck off.
14:32Fuck off.
14:35Interestingly, over the last few weeks,
14:38Polly has tried different tactics to get Adam to see her
14:42and to be attracted to her.
14:44And I do wonder whether this is like another tactic
14:47so that Adam can be a bit jealous.
14:49And if that's the case,
14:51that is the worst way to get your partner's attention.
14:55Still pissed off, to be fair.
14:57If someone said someone's good-looking...
14:59So what?
15:01It's the idea of switching that's such a big thing.
15:04You've said this, you're lying, you're trying to get out of it,
15:07you're trying to turn it on me.
15:09It's like, just own it.
15:11At the last commitment ceremony,
15:13Adam gave permission for Polly to cheat.
15:15And here he is, upset,
15:17because she has now said, I want a twist.
15:20I suspect here Polly is wanting to punish Adam
15:23for some of the nasty things that he's said to her.
15:26But as we know, two wrongs don't make a right.
15:29This couple are in danger of slipping into that point-scoring dynamic
15:33and no-one's going to win.
15:37Oh, wow, Orson's alone.
15:46So where is Rochelle?
15:48Have you seen her? I'm guessing not.
15:51The last time I saw Rochelle is the day when we got here.
15:57I've been compromising, compromising.
16:01I'm doing, I'm doing, nothing's coming back.
16:03You're not even opening up to me emotionally,
16:06so I could maybe help you.
16:08Nobody lives with us,
16:10so nobody knows what I have to deal with on a daily basis.
16:13Like, I've really tried.
16:16I genuinely tried.
16:19At the last commitment ceremony, Orson and Rochelle both said stay.
16:23I do wonder if some of Rochelle's feedback
16:25about him not being good enough for her
16:28has really played a part in him walking in today by himself.
16:34Ah, there's the team.
16:36Hello! Hello!
16:38Ah! Hi, guys!
16:40Oh, my God! Look at you beautiful girls!
16:43Kieran and Christina.
16:45All smiles, high energy.
16:47Here we are, the party can start.
16:49How was boys' day?
16:51Mint. Was it?
16:53Phil said you were the funniest.
16:55I think I said I'd avoid you as a husband,
16:58cos I think your energy's too much for me.
17:00Are you fucking joking?!
17:02Me?! I said you're too optimistic!
17:10Hello! Oh, hey!
17:13I love your hair. Oh, I love your hair!
17:16You look really well.
17:26Has anyone else had an argument over them questions?
17:28I don't know, but I know
17:30Shannon and Ryan spent the night apart last night.
17:33Really? Yeah. Why? Don't know.
17:38That's a big change.
17:40I mean, we need to understand what's happened
17:42between the last commitment ceremony and today.
17:45Hopefully, it's not too serious.
17:47Amy.
17:49Why did Shannon and Ryan spend the night apart last night?
17:51Do you know?
17:53Shannon and Ryan did, though. Yeah.
17:55Don't lie. No, they did.
17:59Hi, guys!
18:01You're looking amazing!
18:03Thanks, babe. Why should I look?
18:05You look gorgeous. Hello, my darling.
18:07You look so nice!
18:09Why is she like her, then?
18:11I don't know. Apparently, she stopped on her own last night.
18:14Are you OK, first of all?
18:16Yeah, I'm OK. Ryan was asking questions about girls, then,
18:18and he thought that I was hiding stuff from him.
18:20And then Lacey came in, and I was like,
18:22I was all right, and I was like, no.
18:24And that just totally set him off.
18:36Hello!
18:38I'm walking in. I feel pretty nervous.
18:40I don't really know who's mad at me,
18:42so I don't know really what I'm walking into.
18:44Hello, sunshine state.
18:46What were the cats dragged in?
18:48Oh, no, you didn't.
18:50Yeah, that wasn't very kind, Holly.
18:52I'm not even getting up.
18:54I'm not even acknowledging who's just walked in.
18:56So it sounds like Holly and Hannah
18:58have had a bit of a run-in.
19:00It makes you wonder what Hannah actually did
19:02to make Holly and Polly so angry.
19:04You look smuggy.
19:06You OK?
19:08You all right?
19:11Hello.
19:13Are you OK? Are you saying hi? No?
19:15No, not really. OK.
19:17Are you OK? Yeah.
19:23Polly.
19:25Why? Just say hello.
19:27Why the fuck should I say hello?
19:29Fuck her.
19:31Fuck her.
19:33You've rubbed me the fucking wrong way now.
19:41There he is.
19:43Hello.
19:45Hello.
19:47Oh, he looks really smart.
19:49You all right?
19:51Stephen's walked in. He actually annoyingly looks quite fit.
19:53You look very bright.
19:55Thank you so much.
19:57Yeah, you.
19:59Hopefully we can both enjoy the dinner party as a couple.
20:01Looking gorgeous.
20:03Hello, darling. How are you?
20:05Yeah, good.
20:07You actually not going to say hi to me?
20:10No, I'm done talking to you.
20:12Jesus Christ,
20:14that was fucking frosty.
20:18No matter what she has done,
20:20at least a hello.
20:22At least an acknowledgement.
20:24Disrespectful.
20:26Why don't you say hello?
20:28Say hello.
20:40Hello, darling.
20:42How are you?
20:44Yeah, good.
20:46You actually not going to say hi to me?
20:48No, I'm done talking to you.
20:50Jesus Christ,
20:52that was fucking frosty.
20:56No matter what she has done,
20:58at least a hello.
21:00At least an acknowledgement.
21:02Disrespectful.
21:04Why don't you say hello?
21:06Say hello.
21:10When we saw
21:12Hannah and Stephen
21:14at the commitment ceremony,
21:16things were rocky.
21:18Stephen felt betrayed by Hannah
21:20and Hannah was trying really hard
21:22to prove to him, I'm not like that.
21:24He's not able to get past that.
21:26She's a fucking idiot.
21:28She's a fucking idiot.
21:30Hannah.
21:32She was like, we're not saying hello.
21:34No, not really.
21:36I don't even want to breathe in your direction.
21:38What really annoys me is the fact
21:40that she actually looks really nice.
21:42What?
21:44She actually looks really nice
21:46and that's what's pissing me off the most.
21:48I really like that jumpsuit
21:50and it's annoying me
21:52because I want to be like,
21:54where's your jumpsuit from?
21:56I mean, in many ways,
21:58this is classic deflection,
22:00isn't it, on Polly's part?
22:02Things are not going well
22:04between her and Adam
22:07She's like me every day.
22:09No, you look really good.
22:11So do you.
22:13I like this.
22:15Here's her cute hair.
22:17No, we are good at the minute, aren't we?
22:19Yeah, we're good, man.
22:21These arguments that happen,
22:23as long as you're both willing to stay
22:25and fight for what you've got,
22:27you always come back stronger
22:29because every time me and Harley butt heads,
22:31when we resolve it, I learn something about her.
22:33We've come such a long way
22:36but it's how you deal with them
22:38and how you come back together
22:40is what will make you progress.
22:42They sound like they know what they're talking about.
22:44I think the two of them have been listening to us.
22:46So this is progress.
22:54Is Ryan coming today?
22:56She moved out last night.
22:58And I said, is it done?
23:00And she's like, we'll see if it turns up.
23:02So if it turns up, it's not done?
23:04Better be quick.
23:12This is awful news for Ryan and Shannon.
23:14It is. It's sad.
23:16Would you pull over and chat now
23:18if he don't turn up?
23:22You've got to be fast, bro.
23:26It's an easy question.
23:28Only if I knew he wasn't turning up full stop.
23:30I think you take your time, take a deep breath
23:33Go.
23:39So this here is a definition of cut and run.
23:41I don't know what he's playing at.
23:43He's new to the experiment.
23:45They've come up against one hurdle
23:47and he's already thinking about
23:49looking outside of his own relationship.
23:53Holly.
23:57Hello.
23:59Need to find out the grub between those two.
24:02Between who two?
24:04Basically,
24:06Ryan doesn't believe she had his back
24:08on Girls' Day.
24:10She stayed apart from him.
24:12So is he coming today?
24:14She's been here a while.
24:16If he doesn't come in,
24:18would she stay with Stephen?
24:20What? Who?
24:22Oh, shit.
24:24What did he say?
24:26She just said it.
24:28If he doesn't come in, would he stay with Stephen?
24:30If he doesn't turn up.
24:32You find Sian unattractive.
24:34Oh, she's my type.
24:36The sexiest, straight up.
24:38Do something to tell him.
24:40Okay.
24:44Here they are.
24:46Hello.
24:48Oh, yeah, I was poshing Beck.
24:50Hello.
24:52How you doing?
24:54How are you?
24:56Sian, I need to talk to you.
24:59Hello.
25:01This is something that needs to be a bit DL.
25:03Okay.
25:05You look beautiful.
25:07Oh, God, Sian.
25:09Okay.
25:11So, basically, you've just seen
25:13that Stephen called me over.
25:15He said, what's going on with Sian and Ryan?
25:17Do you think they're done?
25:19And I said, I don't think they are.
25:21And he said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
25:23I'm going to shoot my shot.
25:25Because she's just my type.
25:28He went, so does that mean Sian and I
25:30are the same with Stephen?
25:32And I went, you've misworded that.
25:34He went, do you think she'll be the same with Stephen?
25:36And I was like, woo-woo.
25:38No, no.
25:40I just wanted to give you the heads up, though.
25:42He's not my type.
25:44I don't want anyone else but Ryan here.
25:46I know you don't.
25:48Like, I literally don't want anyone else.
25:50Hello.
25:52Hello, guys.
25:54How are you, mate?
25:56You good? You good?
25:58Yeah, you?
26:00Oh, it's my girl!
26:02It's my girl!
26:06Here he is.
26:08Talking to devil.
26:10Here's Ryan now.
26:17All quiet.
26:23Stephen looks disappointed.
26:26Well, Stephen looks a bit uncomfortable.
26:32Fuck me.
26:34This wasn't part of the plan.
26:36It's Ryan!
26:56I love you.
26:58I love you.
27:00I love you.
27:02I love you.
27:04I love you.
27:06I love you.
27:08I love you.
27:10I love you.
27:12I love you.
27:14I love you.
27:16I love you.
27:18I love you.
27:20I love you.
27:22I love you.
27:25Through the shadows
27:27Through the light
27:29Marry the night
27:31Hold me tight
27:33In your love
27:35I found my way
27:37With you, love
27:39I'll never stray
27:41Marry the night
27:43In your embrace
27:45With you, love
27:47I find my place
27:49In the quiet
27:55Love
27:56Is
27:58Spring
28:00Love
28:04I do
28:05I want
28:07You
28:09Oh
28:11First
28:16Lovers
28:18when
28:20Love
28:22I
28:24So here he is trying to control the narrative with Holly, essentially redesigning what he
28:36said because, of course, he didn't say it respectfully.
29:07I love this, guys.
29:14It's nice to hear both Ryan and Shannon saying they've missed each other.
29:17Hopefully, this is just a blip for the two of them.
29:20But what does this mean for Stephen?
29:27Double parts, mate.
29:28Very good.
29:29Double parts.
29:30Double parts, mate.
29:31You all right?
29:32I'm good, are you?
29:33Yeah, mate.
29:34How you doing, Ryan?
29:35I'm good.
29:44How are you?
29:45I'm all right.
29:50So...
29:53You know what, Hannah?
29:55I grabbed a tape for you.
29:57I like you.
29:59You're no-nonsense chick.
30:00She says what she feels, fiery.
30:02These are all the personalities I asked for when I wanted my wife, you know?
30:06I like that about me.
30:08Have you seen Zorica?
30:10No, no, no.
30:11I haven't seen her.
30:18What's Orson really saying here?
30:20Sounds a lot to me like you're the wife I wish I had.
30:24Listen, I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
30:29I like Hannah.
30:30I definitely could let my hair down tonight, knowing that Rochelle's not here.
30:34The boy band look is a look.
30:36It is serving.
30:38What is it serving?
30:39Fresh out of Backstreet Boys.
30:40Is there a black guy in Backstreet Boys?
30:42There fucking is now.
30:47Ultimately, I suppose, of Orson and Hannah,
30:49both of them have been rejected by their partners.
30:51So they're looking to each other for the affection and affirmation
30:54they're not getting in their own marriages.
30:57Although, it sounds like Orson might want to take it a little bit further.
31:04FYI, I'm going to explain to Ryan when I can get him on his own.
31:14Just so... No, no, I respect...
31:16I don't want it to get out of proportion for what it is.
31:18Do you know what I mean?
31:20I'm just going to grab him now.
31:27Can I have a quick chat with you?
31:28Yeah, yeah, sure.
31:31Well, here we go. Phase two of damage control.
31:34This is fear, deer in the headlights.
31:42You good?
31:43Yeah, I'm good.
31:45Have you sat with Stephen?
31:47No.
31:48Oh, I'm fucking telling him I've exed.
31:54So, I'm putting it out with you now, while we're here.
31:57I was.
31:58And I was told me to let myself in.
32:00Everyone said,
32:02I shall become a woman, Ryan never became a king.
32:05But I was like, I said she was a sexist.
32:07Of course.
32:08I was like, I'm not going to make it a thing.
32:10If Ryan walks in, especially,
32:13and me walks in, but everyone's spoken about it.
32:16But that's all it was.
32:22I'm not that guy.
32:24I didn't want to make it into a big thing.
32:26I didn't want it to come across disrespectful
32:28that I'd done it behind your back.
32:31It looks like Ryan sees right through Stephen.
32:34I think the fact that Stephen is rewriting history,
32:37he knows what he said before was wrong.
32:40Holly's spoken to her.
32:41The fucking list must go around.
32:43But I'm not the type.
32:44Stephen's definitely broke all cold.
32:46He's here for the wrong reasons.
32:48I've got nothing to say to him.
33:02I've heard that. Oh, man.
33:04Oh, you're going to get two lot there.
33:06Shall we swap?
33:07Oh, that's cool.
33:08Casper and Emma!
33:10This is fun!
33:12Hello, hello, hello!
33:20Wow.
33:22You could still see the tension between Polly and Adam.
33:25They're still not talking to each other.
33:31You two have got some fucking faces on you, man.
33:34You can't sit there like that all night. Come on, man.
33:36I've given him his time and his space.
33:38It's not done for me to go to him.
33:40I've done enough.
33:41You say you've done enough, but you haven't tried to speak to me today.
33:44You haven't spoken to me.
33:45Why would I initiate a conversation with you?
33:48I think with Polly and Adam,
33:50we find that they find themselves in these types of conflicting situations
33:54and they can't seem to get their way out of it.
33:57They both want to be heard,
33:59but they're both not listening to one another.
34:02I've said one thing.
34:04I've said one thing.
34:05Do you not think the things that you've said in the past have hurt me?
34:08That makes it OK, does it? We're going back down that road.
34:10What do you mean, does it not make it OK?
34:12There's been a lot of things that you've said that you shouldn't have said.
34:15Yeah, I know, but mine was just wording it wrong.
34:17You didn't word this wrong.
34:18I said I want equality. Stephen has it in you.
34:20You just stick a horse with it. Use a twist.
34:22Listen, I've said that I was sorry.
34:24I said that I fucking worded it in a wrong way.
34:26What else do you want me to say apart from I'm sorry I should have worded it differently?
34:29I don't know, but do you expect me to just be like,
34:31yeah, cool, let's get on there and let's be happy?
34:33Do you think that I should have been like, oh, OK, yeah, cool,
34:35after you said the minimum attraction there?
34:37I thought it was over that, but let's keep bringing that up.
34:39We're not over it, though. This is why we're going in circles.
34:42In a nutshell, this is what you're doing.
34:44I shouldn't have said that. I worded it wrong.
34:46But you did this and you did that.
34:48Childish, man.
34:51I have to say Adam has a point here.
34:53Polly knows she needs to apologise, so she does so,
34:57but then backs it up with but, but, but, but, but.
35:00Yeah, an apology is worthless unless it is done in the proper manner.
35:06The fact that you're turning this on me is a fucking joke.
35:08I'm turning it on you?
35:09You are turning it on me because I've said sorry,
35:11I've apologised, I've owned it.
35:13I'm sorry, I'm fucking sorry, Adam.
35:15There you go.
35:31MUSIC PLAYS
35:39Right now, my worry is Polly is going to speak to Ryan
35:42about what I said about Shannon.
35:44I'm worried it's just going to escalate into something
35:46it doesn't need to be, it doesn't need to happen.
35:50Ryan, do you want to chat?
35:54I'll walk round.
36:01Right, guys.
36:05So, I will tell you what God said to me tonight.
36:09So, Stephen said,
36:10what's the crack going for Ryan and Shannon?
36:12Because she's coming on her own.
36:14And I said, I just know that they had an argument last night.
36:17So I said, if Ryan comes through that door,
36:19I think they're going to be absolutely fine.
36:21He said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
36:23I'm going to stick it on Shannon.
36:26Fuck me. He's lied to me tonight.
36:29And I don't respect that.
36:31Did he word it like that to you?
36:35I just remember him saying,
36:36I didn't want it to come from anyone else.
36:38I don't think he touched on that part.
36:41He was banging on yesterday.
36:44Broken. It's not a swingers club.
36:46It's not a swingers club.
36:48That's what he said.
36:49He's making it a swingers club.
36:52I will keep my enemies very close to my chest.
36:55And he's my enemy.
36:58Shannon minding Bill Nian.
37:00So when I saw him walk in and then I saw everyone whispering,
37:03I was like, nah, I'm not letting this get out of hand.
37:06Someone said that if Shannon walks in by himself,
37:09that you're going to shoot him.
37:11I wouldn't do that.
37:12On the stick and twist question, I said, fucking stick?
37:15I'm loyal to my boys to that extent.
37:18His story to me is different to what he said to Holla.
37:21It weren't the truth.
37:23You can't say it's not a swingers club.
37:25You can't say it's not a swingers club and then the day after,
37:28if I don't come, I'm going to jump on to her
37:30because your relationship's peppered.
37:32What was he said to you?
37:34He lied.
37:37If I wasn't here, they'd crack on with her.
37:44He's a muppet.
37:46Muppet, muppet, muppet, muppet, muppet.
37:50He best not talk to me.
37:56MUSIC STOPS
38:03Cheers to doing a lot of growing this week at the retreat.
38:06I think we'll both grow a lot from this retreat.
38:09Aw!
38:11Who's growing? You can't grow no more.
38:13LAUGHTER
38:15I've hit me maximum.
38:17Still got your console?
38:19Oh, it's horrible, isn't it?
38:21God, it's been ages as well.
38:23It's been since the honeymoon.
38:25That's the only thing that's missing in our life at the moment,
38:28isn't it, darling?
38:33How are you?
38:35Are you OK? Tired.
38:38I feel a little bit gutted
38:40because Stephen hasn't spoke to me all day.
38:44But I'm really trying.
38:46What are you doing today?
38:48I'm done talking to you.
38:50What do you mean?
38:52Every time we talk, it just gets intense,
38:54and I can't be arsed with it.
38:56Why did you want to stay in driving?
38:58I've explained this to you.
39:00I can't be arsed with the arguments any more.
39:02I'm sorry it's worked out like this.
39:04Like, genuinely am, cos I came in with the right intentions.
39:07But I'm out.
39:09It's interesting that he's checked out,
39:12but yet he has so much animosity towards her.
39:15He doesn't even want to engage or talk to her.
39:17Why is that?
39:19It's sad because he is just quitting before our eyes.
39:23There's really nothing more Hannah can do with this situation.
39:26Can you not accept my apology and realise that I made a mistake?
39:29I can't accept that apology. Please, I'm just asking.
39:31It's frustrating. I get that.
39:33But please, let's just not go there again.
39:35Yeah, but I want to be friends with you.
39:37I don't want to leave her on this bad...
39:39You don't need to be a friend. I came here to marry you.
39:42She lost all my trust.
39:44You said you wanted to stay with me,
39:46but you're cracking on to all the other men.
39:48I don't want to lose my respect.
39:50Why would I want a friend like that in my life?
39:52Don't want her in my life, full stop.
39:54I know we've been through this experiment together,
39:57but that is what it is to me. I'm just being honest with you.
40:00I'm sorry I fucked up, I'm sorry.
40:05It's pathetic.
40:10I respect Stephen being honest, but it does feel a bit shit
40:13that he's basically said,
40:16I'm upset, but there's nothing I can do.
40:29Awesome.
40:31How are you, coach?
40:33You OK?
40:35I probably need to be honest with myself
40:37and say that my husband isn't willing to work with me,
40:40so I'm going to do what I want to do.
40:43I'm going to do what I want to do.
40:45She's going to the hot tub.
40:48I have always gotten on well with Orson.
40:50He's a really good guy, he's had my back in here since day one.
40:53Just make out right now in front of everyone.
40:58Wow.
41:00That is some pretty full-on flirting.
41:03Stop it. I haven't said anything.
41:06I feel undressed.
41:08You look at that and you say, OK, here's someone
41:11who's got to the point now where she feels
41:13she'll never be able to get through to Stephen.
41:16The marriage is a lost cause,
41:18and she's seeking attention from one of the few people in the room
41:21she's connected with.
41:24Cheers, Amy.
41:26Cheers.
41:28Cheers, Lacey.
41:30So how are you doing? Are you good?
41:32OK, yeah.
41:34I think after the ceremony, we had a big, like, a big night.
41:38Just getting a bit closer to Amy, just putting everything on the table.
41:41Yeah. And I think it was nice.
41:43Especially when you came up and you put your arms around me,
41:46she said, like, you'll be OK. It wasn't, like, a judgmental...
41:49Can you reach your arms all the way round him?
41:51No. The neck bit, yes.
41:54Do you have an impression of Luke?
41:56Er, later.
41:59It's a quick learn, isn't it?
42:01Do you prefer him with that accent?
42:03Yeah!
42:08MUSIC PLAYS
42:13Oh, the honesty box.
42:20Oh, my God!
42:22We had a bath together this week.
42:25Which part of my body did you enjoy washing the most?
42:30Part of your body that I enjoyed washing the most?
42:33I like your bum.
42:35LAUGHTER
42:38I really like your bum. Thanks.
42:40Really, really like your bum. Thanks.
42:45Christina, if I was an animal, what would I be and why?
42:49I would really like you to be a koala,
42:51so you just cling to me all the time.
42:53Aww!
43:00Aww.
43:01It is very cute, because essentially she's saying cute and cuddly.
43:04Yes.
43:08What do you foresee will be the biggest challenge in our marriage?
43:14I think the biggest challenge that I can see with you, Amy,
43:17is we're both very slow burners.
43:20You are!
43:22I think emotionally I am,
43:24so I think because things are going so well,
43:26we might be a slow burner,
43:28but we might end up in a big bonfire, baby.
43:31CHEERING
43:38Oh, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my!
43:40Are you song in my mouth?
43:43How would you sum up our time in the retreat?
43:49The retreat has been the most positive week we've ever had.
43:54I have leaned in.
43:56Ooh! What?
43:58Since the commitment ceremony, I had a job to do,
44:01and that was to show Casper that I can change and I can take feedback,
44:04cos he didn't think I could take it before.
44:06So I have taken on the feedback, I've changed, I've leaned in,
44:09I've relaxed into it, and we got a snog!
44:12CHEERING
44:19How do you feel about how far we've come since our first dinner party?
44:24I mean, we were not in a good place in our first dinner party, let's be honest.
44:27We put a lot of effort in this week.
44:29We've definitely grown as people. We've come a long, long way.
44:32We're so much more comfortable around each other.
44:34It's definitely moved in the right direction.
44:36CHEERING
44:38Go on, Casper! Go on, Casper!
44:41Well done, Casper!
44:43CHEERING
44:47It's great to see that Emma has really stepped up.
44:50I think there's hope for these two.
44:52This is progress.
44:54Ryan, how committed are you to our marriage?
44:58I'm very committed to this. I've only had eyes for you.
45:01I've got no eyes for nobody else.
45:04And if it wasn't you, I'd leave her.
45:07CHEERING
45:12Ryan, with the clever delivery there,
45:14talking, of course, to his wife, Shannon, but also to Stephen,
45:18making it clear that he's not down with the wife swap.
45:33Why do you think we've had such a difficult week?
45:38I think we've had such a difficult week
45:40because you haven't let your guard down, you haven't let me in,
45:43and I still don't know how you feel about me wholeheartedly,
45:47and that's why I feel like we've had a hard week.
45:50I thought we was having a good week until the girls and boys date.
45:53But I feel like you haven't shown me how you think and how you feel about me.
45:59I am getting better and better at doing that,
46:01and the fact that everyone else can see I'm putting the effort in.
46:04We was actually having a really good week until yesterday, with the question.
46:08OK, I'm not doing this now.
46:10I'll agree to disagree.
46:12God, I can't talk to you, honestly.
46:18What else do you want me to do?
46:21What the fuck else does he expect me to do?
46:25I will say, Adam, Adam,
46:28she did have some lovely things to say about you at the girls' night,
46:31I do promise you that.
46:33Yeah, but then she also said some shit things.
46:36One shit thing about the qualities that he's got that I wish that you had is...
46:40It was little comments like, oh, I wish she was more like Stephen, and...
46:43Because he can fucking talk about how he feels, and you don't.
46:47You can't compare me to someone else, especially when we're mates, man.
46:50OK, OK.
46:52You would have even given me a bit of reassurance before you left this morning,
46:55which was a cuddle.
46:56Do you not think that that would have made me feel a lot better?
46:58I needed that, and you didn't do that.
47:00That was in my own fucked-up headspace.
47:02No offence, I wasn't thinking about you, not going to lie.
47:04No, but you don't think about me. You don't.
47:06What did you need this morning?
47:08Space.
47:09Which is what I've given him all day.
47:11But it's still not good enough.
47:13What the fuck do you want me to do? Move to Timbuktu?
47:16Where the fuck do you expect me to go?
47:19Don't just say, sorry, I've told you how it is.
47:22It's a fake sorry. I don't cut it.
47:24Do you not think that I've given him enough time for everything else?
47:28Absolutely, Polly boy.
47:29Fuck that comment, Holly. That is bullshit.
47:32All I've given that boy is fucking time.
47:39You've made the mistake, own it.
47:41Don't keep saying, I've done this, man.
47:43So maybe you should have said that.
47:45I know that. I've said I should have done that.
47:48But he has said some shitty things on that couch.
47:51He has.
47:52The stuff that he's said about me,
47:54for me to then sit there and take how I am,
47:59it's fucking hurtful.
48:01Do you know what I mean? I'm sorry, no.
48:06It's fucking hurtful.
48:16Next time...
48:17I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
48:20She's finally seeing who I actually am.
48:23..the impact of the retreat hits home.
48:25I felt betrayed. My head's been scrambled.
48:28It almost felt like sex was a sales pitch.
48:30Pushing some marriages...
48:32This is going to be hard to hear.
48:33This is why I prepare myself for the worst.
48:36..to breaking point.
48:37At that moment, I knew I could not stand him.
48:41Just, like, squeezing blood from a stone.
48:44Were you trying to make Stephen jealous?
48:46You can't make a guy jealous of you
48:47that doesn't give a fuck about you.
48:48Why do I want to even speak to this girl?
48:50But it's a shocking revelation.
48:52Have they not been sneakily kissing?
48:54They've what?
48:56You consider what you did an act of infidelity.
48:59That delivers the biggest blow of the evening.
49:01She deserved to know.
49:03I think it's bullshit.
49:04Snakey.
49:05Hannah, zip it.
49:07Don't tell me to shut up.
49:08You're a sly guy.
49:09You're talking fucking shit.
49:10It is very clear that this relationship is done.