Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 26
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00:00I would love to stay
00:03Previously forever grateful for him stay while the future looked bright for some stay stay stay
00:10It was a grueling commitment ceremony for Christina and Kieran
00:14I don't really know where me heads up, and I don't really want to be intimate with her and two couples
00:18You're trying to say that it's me pulling like you pulled away as well
00:21Yeah, I have bid a dramatic farewell to the experiment every man and woman deserves to be treated like a king or queen
00:28We just can't give that to each other. I really leave
00:33Nothing you share I deserve love to leave I'm leaving we haven't had to happy ever after I was hoping for
00:43Tonight Adam you'll be paired with Amy. It's partner swap week Lacey. You'll be paired with Luke
00:52Sparking conflict for some new pairings
00:54He was fine shade on me Luke has pissed me off, and I do one apology out of him and stirring insecurities in others
01:01What size panties are you I can't sleep in my ring all my clothes
01:08He's actually making me feel quite sick
01:10Sorry, oh, it's just not to be a bit, but it's a disastrous double date
01:15This is the worst golfing session of ever had in my life that sparks the biggest upset of the experiment you and me ex-partner
01:22It's actually scary. How similar you saw I am
01:26human
01:28I'm not his ex
01:41Catch
01:42Hey
01:44It's the morning after the commitment ceremony
01:47How you feeling this morning yeah, it's quite intense wasn't it and the couples are reflecting on yesterday's departures
01:53Holly was my closest friend in here, so I feel like selfishly there were reasons why I wanted her to stay
01:59However, I feel like it was dead in the water, and it wasn't gonna. Go anywhere I
02:05Think dinner parties will be a much nicer
02:08Experience now Alex has gone. Yeah
02:11monitor though
02:13Kieran and Christine ran in the best place
02:17So the experts gave you the advice of doing like a list
02:22Because obviously you are comparing me to your exes. I wouldn't say I'm comparing you
02:29It's hard when you have very similar traits
02:34When he entered the experiment Kieran opened up about his issues with trust I was with a girl for eight years
02:42It ended because she cheated on me when we best mate
02:46The maid is really lose faith in women so my trust levels now are on their ass
02:51Recently these past hurts have resurfaced and rocked his marriage to Christina
02:57Scared of giving someone me everything for it to not work out
03:00So maybe this is a good point to do a bit of a list on these are the ways Christina differs from previous partners
03:07And I would bet that if you delve a little bit deeper you're finding Christina
03:12Characteristics that show you that you can trust her and that she intends to be around for the long haul
03:20Yesterday's commitment ceremony was really difficult I
03:24Need to gather me emotions gather me thoughts, and what it is that I want from a partner
03:32Thinking about mine and Christina's relationship in me own head is one thing
03:36However writing these lists down about how Christina's different from the ex really helps to get some perspective
03:43I'm very aware that the balls in my court Christina has been very patient and I understand that patient is going to run out
03:50So it's very difficult
03:57Your favorite subjects intimacy
03:59As soon as it got up, I could just feel myself getting hot and flustered
04:03And I think I do feel the same way as you do like we do need to be having it more
04:07And I think we need to make more time for it
04:10Just feels like it's become complacent
04:12I mean, I feel like we're now how we should be after like five six years together, and that's what I don't want
04:17It's like we're a married couple. We're sat watching telly and then we're like both knackered
04:22Shock horror, but we are a married couple
04:30Very very old married couple. I
04:33Know how uncomfortable the topic of intimacy is for Adam. But yeah, it's been a while
04:38So I've just got to pick my timings and go about it the right way
04:42It's just little steps baby steps. Not a snail's pace at a tortoise's pace soon at a rabbit's pace
04:48Yeah, quite like you to be like a rabbit
04:55How do you feel after the commitment ceremony, okay, very good
04:59Yeah, I felt like it was the better one. We've had I
05:02Don't know why Lacey piped up
05:06Obviously you didn't mean to offend her but she's taking offense because he's saying I'm classy and she's not
05:17Oh my god a picture of Lacey and Adam dancing at a recent group salsa class
05:23Prompted Luke to praise wife Amy you always act with class and integrity, but it upset Lacey
05:29What was I not acting with class?
05:31That's not what I said. You're putting words in my mouth. You're saying that we'll use your words a bit wisely
05:41It was really nice to hear that Luke was really proud that I acted respectfully at salsa
05:46But I definitely feel like Luke needs to be the bigger person
05:49Hold his hands up and apologize to Lacey. Do you think you will have a conversation with Lacey or?
05:56Don't know I'm gonna apologize for an opinion
05:59Do you mean if anything I'll say it again because that's my opinion on and I'll stand by it
06:04It felt like he was insinuating that Amy's classy for not doing that. So what does that make me not classy, right?
06:11Yes, he's bigging up his wife
06:13But in the same breath, he's he's digging at me. Yeah, I mean how I come across anyone can see why you think that way a hundred percent
06:21I'm not one to just cause drama. That's not necessary
06:25But in this case Luke has pissed me off and I do want an apology out of him
06:29I'll be fine and civil. I think I'm not gonna get an apology
06:43Who's that? It's an envelope. Here we go. Oh, I'm a little sick. What on earth do you think this is gonna say?
06:54Dear Adam and Polly
06:56This week you'll be taking part in partner swap week
06:59Oh my god
07:02Partner swap week is a chance to get a taste of how the other couples are functioning day to day
07:07By spending time in the company of another spouse during this time
07:10You will immerse yourselves into each other's daily routines and experience what married life is like with them. Okay
07:17Glad alex has gone. Fuck. You don't imagine that
07:20The goal is to learn new skills from the new roommates that they can apply to their own
07:25Relationships when they return to their partners after the swap
07:30Kieran you will be paired with Sasha and you will move in with her
07:38Ross
07:39You will be paired with Christina
07:45Polly you'll be paired with Nathan. Yes. Oh my god. I'm buzzing. Lacey
07:53What
07:54Lacey
07:55You'll be paired with luke
07:57Fuck
07:58I'm, actually
08:00For fuck's sake. Oh, no, and you will move in with him. You're going from his house. Why?
08:10What do you reckon his reaction's going to be probably the same
08:14I got lacey time to salsa
08:21Adam you'll be paired with amy
08:27And she will move in with you
08:30My stomach has just naturally dropped
08:34I'm, not really a jealous person
08:36But amy is stunning absolutely gorgeous woman and I just don't want to go back to square one with feeling really insecure about myself
08:46It's nice to have a change into it
08:50I do definitely feel a bit overwhelmed. It is very strange having another woman come into our home. I feel like that's very
08:58Intimate so i've got this. What are you doing? That's going above the bed
09:02Because amy needs to walk in and see that we are
09:06Solid there could be a touch of jealousy, but i'm gonna try and keep a cool head
09:11If I find out that it's gone, then we're gonna have a problem. That's cringe, man
09:28Hello
09:32You and me you've bought three suitcases
09:37Hello. Hello. Lovely. My new husband. Me new girlfriend's wife
09:46Polly's done that
09:49Little picture
09:50I told her I was gonna take it down, but I thought I can't no polly can stay so
09:55sleeping arrangements
09:58I
10:01Am happy to share the bed if you are
10:03Yeah, I suppose we can yeah won't hurt. No one will it?
10:06Me and amy are comfortable with each other
10:08So i'm very pleased that amy's happy with me sleeping on the bed instead of the sofa
10:16Luke's got lacy has he yeah, I thought he might have
10:19Don't know how that's gonna go down
10:21I wouldn't like to be in that room right now. I know I would fly on the wall
10:28There is something I do want to talk to you about
10:32So i'd be fake if I didn't bring it up to you
10:37Okay, I haven't seen you since the last commitment ceremony
10:42I know he was praising amy
10:44But I felt like he was throwing shade on me
10:47I just didn't like the wording you used
10:50I'm, not sorry. I'm not sure if i'm having an opinion
10:53I
10:56Am a very classy girl
10:58Just people see a confident girl and they just automatically think not classy
11:03Just touch the nerve
11:09I am sorry if it caused offense
11:13And I could see now even just you relaying those feelings you could tell that it
11:17You know, it hurts you and I apologize for that because that's never my intention
11:20Okay
11:22Um, do you like um malt loaf
11:25What life i've never had that before
11:28Okay, what love
11:32Malt loaf. It's like I don't know banana bed
11:36And I think then maybe you'll understand exactly where my kind of position is on on this
11:41I've never had a malt loaf in my life
11:45Don't know if i'm saying it right but uh, i've got the apology I wanted
11:50to say
11:54So I am truly sorry
11:56I mean that you know, I want you to feel comfortable here. So yeah, i'm glad you've said that and
12:02In the future now i'll be more mindful
12:05He put i'm sorry in malt love and that means a lot to me because there's a lot of thought behind it
12:10I appreciate you doing this
12:12So
12:16How are you
12:17Obviously me and kieran are struggling at the moment. It's really difficult position to be in but because
12:24the ball's in
12:26His court so to speak and he needed to like write lists using his past experiences to
12:33Compare with our marriage. I am hoping that it just will make him
12:39Realize but how long am I supposed to wait for kieran to make up his mind?
12:47I know i'm so unique. I'm so
12:51different to
12:52most people
12:54So kieran needs to wake up and realize I am steena. There's only one of me. I'm not his exes
13:02My mind's fried come on me mine's proper fried you got this
13:07um
13:08So I started with a positive list
13:10Um, right, which ones are different to your ex? The only one that is different there
13:16Is this one christina's outgoing outgoing?
13:20Apart from the outgoing christina and my ex i'm mega similar
13:27All right, okay
13:29All right, okay
13:32Um, did you do
13:34the negative I
13:36so
13:37from what i've seen
13:39I think there's no focus there
13:42So i'll make steps every day to get where I want to be when i'm 50
13:46Um, christina doesn't look that far
13:49And I don't want to have to like drag someone through it with us
13:52I want someone to be as passionate about where they want to be when they're 50 as I am, right?
13:56Anything else
13:59So I asked christina a question and it was what's more important to you doing something for the rest of your life
14:05That you're passionate about or finding a husband and she said finding a husband
14:11Do you think that's to do with how differently men and women can be raised though men have to
14:18have a career and
14:20Provide and the women take care of the home
14:23And the women take care of the home
14:26I would just expect my wife to be putting
14:28Her priorities above me like that's because I would put my priorities above her
14:33in certain in certain situations
14:36In past relationships i've put previous partners first
14:40In this relationship christina's putting me first
14:43And what I would want is for me to put me first and for christina to put herself first
14:49All of these was all the same as your ex
14:54I know
14:55It is coming towards the the latter half of the experiment now and things are getting really serious
15:01I'm, realizing christina and my ex are actually weirdly very similar
15:06like scarily
15:07So i'm just like what the fuck
15:09I've really got to start thinking is this going to work on the outside
15:23So
15:26Cheers to partner swap and becoming closer friends cheers to that babe
15:35What have I got in store tonight so I was thinking we could have a uh lasagna microwave meal
15:41i've cooked you lasagna from scratch, but like
15:44Can't actually be bothered
15:47So
15:50In the morning, yeah to your coffee girl coffee would be coffee 10 out of 10
15:55No sugar. What breakfast have you got?
15:57I'll make anything you want. I can do the perfect poached egg every time
16:04Adam's made me feel so welcome coming into the apartment. I feel like i'm going to be looked after like a queen
16:11So far so good so happy with my new husband
16:15What was your reaction when you got me I was buzzing I got you
16:17Yeah, I was quite happy to be fair. I thought me and you get along
16:20I know we're gonna have a laugh spending time with you learning about yours and polly's relationship a bit more
16:25I'll be able to take a lot away from this knowing what?
16:28Maybe I might be missing. Yeah. Yeah, I get that. I know our only problem at the minute is the intimacy side
16:34Yeah, so that's something that I don't really like talking about
16:37I know I thought that and I thought would you be comfortable speaking to me about it?
16:41Because I feel like there might be like pressure on you
16:44That's what that's what I said to polly. Maybe the intimacy side isn't there because we're stuck to each other 24 seven
16:50and
16:51Normally, i'd see a girlfriend twice a week and every time you meet them
16:54You're like i ain't seen you for four days like can't wait to rip your clothes off kind of thing
16:58Like I don't want someone to tell me what to do because as a lad growing up
17:01Like if the teachers tell me to do something I do the opposite. Yeah intimacy should be fun
17:06Just like naturally let it happen
17:09He'll get there
17:11a little bit of sexy lingerie, maybe
17:14I am really rooting for polly and adam. I'm hoping that advice from me
17:19Might give him a little push with regards to the bedroom activities
17:23So I feel like i'll be able to give adam some good tips
17:35Me and ross have planned a double date
17:39I'm, hoping the double date will bring kieran and christina closer together
17:43How are we you all right
17:48Despite the similarities with kieran's ex
17:52I think they can still make it work. They've just got to remember
17:56How good it actually is. I really hope that kieran will wake up
18:02Come to his senses and see that him and christina are a great match and they can make this work
18:07I'm gonna team ross and you up with me and kieran. Oh
18:11Oh
18:12I'm gonna try and be positive today. Obviously. I haven't got to spend too much time with christina because we've done wife and husband swap
18:20So i'm hoping i can just let loose take a breath and enjoy it for what it is
18:26Steena you're next. Come on
18:32Sorry, i've got a really bad funny that
18:34Fuck this is horrible
18:37Jesus
18:38This is mini golf. Not a driving range
18:41Jesus
18:43Yeah, I think kieran should show you where it's done. Uh, i'll try i'll try
18:48Look, i'll give you i'll give you tips. I'll give you tips. I don't think I need your help. I'm quite independent like that
18:53I don't know steena. I think you should give it a go
18:56I remember playing golf in pe. Yeah, and the most important thing was how to hold the shaft properly, right?
19:02I wouldn't know i haven't done it. Well mate
19:04Right
19:06So the way to hold the shaft properly is to have your thumb top thumb going down
19:12Steena
19:14Oh, well, thanks. Anyway, I don't need help holding the shaft
19:19I am not in the mood for this silly joke be romantic with me, but don't talk about bloody shafts and stuff
19:27Oh, okay
19:29It's just the wrong
19:31Vibe intimacy for me and kieran at the moment is non-existent. He hasn't been remotely near me
19:37How's that supposed to make me feel?
19:46Yes, well done
19:49Christina
19:50Thank you, darling
19:52Are you sure you don't need kieran's help? Nah, no
19:56It's a little bit awkward now since christina stormed off on a hoof
19:59It was naturally going to be some tension there
20:02I just thought maybe we could come in today as friends and you know, just just have fun, but clearly not
20:09Did you not want him to no, did you not?
20:18Well, hello and welcome
20:21Do you like it? I love it
20:24Now me and luke have made up
20:26Be doing a bit of dance today. I feel like it's a clean slate and we can have a nice time together
20:31We're gonna do a little bit of stretching first. Okay, so we start for the arms
20:36Luke misjudged me and adam at the salsa. I'm a dancer. I was in my element. I was having fun
20:42And just because i'm a confident girl doesn't mean i'm not classy
20:46So I want to educate him a bit and see if he gets into it
20:50Okay, well i'm glad you can move in them i'm gonna give it my all, you know, i'm here yolo they say so yeah i'm going all in
20:59So five six seven eight and right left right left and strut strut strut strut
21:08You're really getting the hang of this. We've got a few magic mic moves sit on the chair. I'll show you magic
21:13Oh really
21:15I love that luke's going for it, you know
21:17He's not worrying about how he's looking and he's letting go and that's the main thing. I wanted today
21:22You better do this on amy
21:23Me and lisa are getting on very well, you know, i'm just pleased that the way it panned out with the apology in the beginning
21:32I like the spontaneity
21:33I like the fact that she's come up with this idea
21:36And it is good for me to relax and have a really fun time with not a care in the world
21:40Oh
21:41Did you find that it was nice?
21:43Let you let go of it. Definitely. I felt like I needed that. So thank you
21:47It's actually nice just to be around like a a woman that doesn't like stiffen up when I dance with her move around her
21:54So, how are you and amy like?
21:57um
21:58At the moment we're still in that phase of the relationship where she's very stiff
22:02She she needs to kind of let go more. You know, I mean and
22:05And then I can really be myself and I can enjoy being myself because I don't have to think about oh i'm treading on eggshells
22:11here
22:13it is very nice and sad bittersweet at the same time because
22:16You know as much as lacy's relaxed around me and I can actually dance around her
22:21But it reminds me of what I can't do yet with my wife. I compliment her very directly and very sexually
22:27But as soon as I you know, put my arm across her she's like a as stiff as a scaffold board
22:34Yeah, she's like a plank of wood
22:38Maybe um
22:40Don't be so full-on with the I know you're only being cheeky with the comments, but just cut the cringy stuff
22:46Just dribble it right back get more relaxed
22:50and you know
22:51Just have patience because she is a good one
22:54I'm hoping that with time amy will loosen up enough for me to actually be able to relax and maybe inject more fun more
23:00Friendly stuff and then move on to romance
23:04So
23:07Oh god, this is the worst golfing session i've ever had in my life
23:12He has my drinks
23:14I think it's all good train kieran and christina. I thought encouraging them to have a little bit more physical contact
23:21might help but
23:24It's obviously a bad idea because it's made everything 10 times worse
23:28I think reminding yourself
23:31Of the fun in a relationship. Yeah is important
23:35That's what we tried to do today
23:37Yeah, and I completely completely respect that from obviously my point of view. I am getting nothing from kieran at the moment
23:48It's been a lot of frustration it's been a lot of waiting around for what
23:53The shelf situation joke annoyed me so much
23:57Yes, i'm here for fun and I wanted today to be fun, but it just got my back up
24:03Am I a friend? Well, he's not even really treating me as a friend. I don't know if i'm coming or going
24:09So we had a lot of deep talk and we discussed you two like, you know
24:16I feel like you've had like a really deep conversation. Is there anything you actually want to say to me? No
24:23I haven't had that deep of a conversation. Oh, we had a little convo about like, um, what our values are and stuff. Yeah. Yeah
24:31He was talking about what should come first your career or your partner
24:36Some people like a more traditional relationship and some people like a more modern relationship
24:42Kieran doesn't want a wife that I put him first
24:45I understand where you're coming from as in you would want a husband then your career
24:51What am I trying to say i'm fucking do you think i'm traditional
25:00I don't think they're traditional
25:02Just to ask you that question. What's more important to you?
25:04Finding a husband or doing something for the rest of your life that you're enjoying you said finding a husband
25:08Yeah at this moment in time
25:12I'm 31 kieran i'm not getting any younger
25:18I'm not saying you are
25:21Well for me at this moment in my life
25:24I'd really like a husband. So that's what i'm doing
25:32And I really want a wife which is what i'm doing yeah, so what's the issue
25:39That a wife to me is the cherry on the cake because i've got i've got my life at home
25:43What i'm really happy about i've got my business
25:46Right, it's it's not even necessarily to do with your business. It's
25:49No, it's you you put a husband at the top of the list of your priorities. Whereas
25:55A wife isn't at the top of the list of my priorities. So why have you come in here to find a wife?
26:01But like because of what i've been through in life, i'll never let me wife become me everything
26:07Because I know how easy it is to get shit on
26:09And i'm never gonna i'm never gonna put myself in that position again. I'm never gonna do that
26:13I've actually wrote down the differences between you and me ex-partner
26:17And it's actually scary how similar yous are. Okay
26:21There's one thing that's different. Um on the positive side and that is that you're outgoing and she wasn't
26:28And that is the only difference I am
26:32fuming
26:34How am I supposed to take that i'm gutted i'm frustrated?
26:38He's not fighting for me i'm fighting for him
26:43What the fuck all he's done is just relate me to his exes i'm not his ex
27:08So
27:14What the fuck there's only one difference between me and his ex
27:21That's not nice to hear sash
27:25I'm, just frustrated now sash like i've waited and i've waited and i've bent over fucking backwards for that boy to try and make this work
27:34And i've got nowhere
27:36I'm at my wit's end now. There's only so much that I can do
27:51It's a really shit position to be in but I have been asked to see how christina is different to me ex
27:58I feel like shit because of it, but i'm not gonna lie about it. There's no reason to lie about no reason to lie
28:04I'm realizing that we've got fundamental differences
28:09It's coming towards the end of the process now
28:12And I don't want to make it to final vows to say to christina
28:16No, I don't want to do that
28:18I want to get to final vows and be yes
28:22But if i'm seeing these differences now
28:25I've got to be true to myself and voice them
28:29We've had an amazing time the very beginning there was fireworks
28:33So I kind of feel like I owed it to christina myself to try
28:37This is more of a make or break week this week
28:41I don't want to hurt christina's feelings. But at the end of the day, i've got to do what's best for me
28:53Surprise
28:54This isn't a shop. I normally come into
28:57I do feel like there is a way out of this intimacy rut for adam and polly
29:01You need to inject a little bit of spice into the relationship
29:04I've planned a day out. We're gonna go to a sexy lingerie shop
29:08I feel like just doing a fun activity might make him open up a little bit more
29:12And ignite that flame in the bedroom from him and polly. What about these? Oh, no
29:18Hopefully we're gonna have some fun today. Very interesting. What about one of these?
29:23What so I haven't got to do it for her?
29:27I do think that polly might be a little jealous that i'm here today with amy
29:30What's that?
29:32It's easier to be more open and fun with amy because we're friends
29:36Whereas if polly was here, I might feel a little bit more awkward
29:40Looks like luke's
29:42Which is like two naughty little school children
29:50Get that stress out
29:52I brought polly to the gym put for a little bit of a workout
29:56I thought it'd be nice to show how I cope with having adhd until I leave a little bit of stress
30:01That's what i'll be doing to adam if he doesn't put out soon, really
30:05You want to beat him up?
30:06Yeah
30:08Just left right. Good night. I like it. That's for you
30:11I'm, definitely thinking about adam and the sexual tension as i'm punching this punch bag
30:18Nathan is quite impressive in the gym. It's nice to have this glimpse
30:21Into nathan's life to see what he does as a relief from his adhd
30:26I've got a bit of a sweat on now
30:28so how does it like feel like when you're down here like when you get in like do you
30:34Shut off just straight away. This is my release just smash the weights out or I'll go boxing smash the boxing out
30:39So it's more therapy for you
30:41I think it's hard having adhd
30:44Yeah, when I was younger I was quite like
30:47Fidgety and bad and like I actually used to tick as well
30:50But then like i've just found a way to keep it in and then i'll release it in like the gym and stuff
30:54How does that work in especially relationship?
30:57He's very very patient. Yeah, she is but that only goes to show how much she wants to be with you
31:03How's adam found it with you with uh, living with someone who's neurodiverse?
31:07So you'd have to ask him that I haven't actually had a conversation with adam about my adhd
31:12Like he knows i've got it. Yeah, and we touched on it briefly on the honeymoon
31:15But adam does really need to understand that I need that sense of security and I need
31:21Openness of showing that he does care about me like you just want to hear it. You just want to verbally hear it. Yeah. Yeah
31:34What about this candy bar and knickers little nibble
31:37That's quite good. Actually. Yeah, it's fun as well
31:40What about if I put that on?
31:43Yes
31:46I think you look sexy in these
31:49No, I feel like we're missing the point here i've definitely seen a bit of a cheeky side to adam today
31:54What size panties are you?
31:56I think what we could do
31:58Is if we get your size you try it on then i'll see if it looks nice on a model
32:02It's a no from me. I will definitely not be trying this underwear sat on for you. That's polly's job
32:09sex vouchers
32:11Some of these being in depth never felt so good you need those
32:17I really appreciate amy's help. She's made me feel comfortable in the lingerie shop got me out of comfort zone and had a laugh
32:24I've realized that the intimacy side can be fun
32:30That's quite nice, I think she'll really like that I like the little chain little matching pants
32:34Yeah, I didn't get all the sizes though. Do you know what size she is?
32:39No
32:40Give her a text. I text her
32:44Adam said what's your bra size?
32:46um
32:48What the fuck might be buying you something
32:52It's just not a good thing that you've been asking for more. Um pda
32:56I just feel like I could actually cry really. Oh, sorry
33:04Um
33:06Just a bit overwhelming. Oh, no
33:09Adam absolutely hates talking about intimacy. We haven't even had a conversation of like what we both like in the bedroom let alone
33:16Find me underwear
33:18And now i'm hearing that he's out buying lingerie with amy. What the fuck?
33:22Like that's quite a big thing
33:24I feel like
33:26He is only doing this because he's with amy not off his own back
33:31So that's actually like i'm shaking. I'm like I actually don't
33:35The stuff that he's doing amy he's never done with me that is what's really throwing me the most
33:42It's just knocked me a bit
33:46So
33:57Let me make the sofa nice and cozy for you seeing as i'm taking your bed
34:02Ah, is it all right?
34:05Tuck you in
34:07Thank you. Fairly good mother
34:11Yeah, not too bad feet only just come over slightly
34:15What do you reckon now adam's doing for amy then do you reckon he's pushing the boat right out?
34:18She better not get a cup of tea or a bath in the morning because that is strictly for me
34:26I'm glad we've got polly looking down on us this evening. I think she'll be fuming if I take it down
34:32I don't feel like paul would be bothered that me and you were staying together. Yeah, she won't
34:35It does feel a little bit strange sharing a bed with another man
34:38However, I feel like we're on the same energy level like we both have the same banter
34:43Adam's definitely a massive flirt, but that's just part of his personality. It's literally harmless
34:48It's just philander
34:50So question for you. Do you sleep in your jewelry?
34:53No, I usually take my watch off. No, do you sleep in your wedding ring? Yeah, how do you adam?
34:58I can't sleep in my ring
34:59all my clothes
35:01The sausage barrier is staying
35:04I'm joking
35:06Right, it's been the morning
35:08I'll make us both a hot drink. I'll make us some nice breakfast come in for a drink
35:12It's gonna be like a little holiday home
35:14You're gonna go back and have to tell luke that he needs some advice from me on how to treat his wife
35:20Yeah deal
35:29Good morning, my ball of sunshine morning, honey. It's the final day of partner swap week. All right, let's go then. Let's go
35:36Let's go
35:41Wake up polly, come on
35:43In just two hours husbands and wives will be reunited. Good morning. Yeah, just in time for breakfast. Oh i'm starving. So thank you
35:52All right. That's what you think beige black
35:55I'd probably say beige. Here's your coffee by the way. Oh being trapped like an absolute queen
36:01Yeah
36:04You looking forward to seeing adam I am yeah i'm intrigued to see what the bra situation was about. Yeah
36:11I don't know. It still makes me feel like i'm getting like really sweaty like it makes me really nervous
36:19Look at us positive poll. We look forward to it
36:26Breakfast is ready
36:28I feel like I can get used to this treatment ads
36:31Cute, innit? Yeah
36:33Whoa, look at that. That is a good egg
36:37Pulling out all stops for me. Is this a bit of competition for luke?
36:42Did you not normally get this at home? No, this is like pure princess treatment
36:46I did say coming into this. I want someone to look after me like I look after them
36:50I do feel like luke's got it in him. Yeah, maybe he's holding back
36:54Adam is giving me pure princess treatment during partner swap
36:58I'm, definitely not used to this all week. So I need to be having a few words to say this is like basic for me
37:05It just shows you that
37:06You're getting the bare minimum
37:11I hope it really does work out. Thank you. You're a great guy. Amy's a great girl. So
37:17You're a very classy girl
37:19Every single word that I said back i'm glad that's nice to hear. You know what i've been thinking about it
37:26the reason why I reacted that way if i'm being honest with myself, there was probably a bit of jealousy that
37:32My girl wouldn't dance with me like that
37:37I felt almost envious
37:42Luke's saying that he was a little bit envious. He wanted you know that in his relationship with amy
37:47But he's been saying different to her that he was like proud it wasn't his wife because amy's got class
37:55It's taken me by surprise. You know, I just felt like it was a bit of a dig towards amy
38:00So
38:14Hello, there you are you miss me. Yeah. Yeah
38:20Welcome back
38:24Right
38:30Well yesterday was a pile of shit
38:33I'm, absolutely relieved that partner swap week finally over
38:37And i'll just get russell to myself again, but your double date with kieran and christina yesterday was a disaster
38:43Like honestly couldn't have gone any worse. Do you feel bad?
38:46Do I feel bad? Yeah
38:49We made everything 10 times worse when christina walked off. She was really upset
38:54I think she just really wants to make it work with kieran
38:57Hopefully they can get back onto good terms
39:01It was so good at the start and it would be a shame for all of that to go to waste
39:12I'm spending time away from christina and in my own apartment so I can get some clear head space
39:19because I need to get a clear understanding of
39:22What it is that I want
39:24This isn't christina's fault i'm basically saying you're similar to my ex and no one's here at all
39:30But I can't help but see the similarities of my ex and I don't want to be back where I used to be
39:35Right now my head's scrambled
39:40The potential's there with us kieran just can't see it
39:44I am frustrated. I am on the receiving end of this and
39:48I shouldn't have to wait around for something that might not happen
39:52I didn't think i'd be by myself at this stage in the experiment
39:58For kieran not to be with me. Yeah, it's shit. It's lonely
40:07What have you been doing, oh we've done loads really
40:11We went out to do dancing together. Oh, you wish was very fun freestyle or salsa
40:17Massive yeah, did you apologize?
40:20Yeah, so she came in and I did her a little cake with like i'm sorry written on it and she left one was best friends
40:26Oh, so it was very good. Yeah
40:28How was things with you and adam tell me what did you get up to?
40:31Oh, honestly, we've had so much fun. Adam literally looked after me like a princess
40:37I feel like adam's giving me 100 princess treatment. Holly is definitely one lucky girl, but I expect that treatment, too
40:45I'm usually the one in the morning that makes luke a coffee. I make his breakfast. I tidy up
40:50Why is he not doing it for me?
40:51He does need to sort of pull his finger and look after me a little bit more
40:56Adam shows affirmations with his actions. Okay, rather than his words
41:02Couldn't even get out of bed. We've got coffee waiting for me
41:05Um, and he just said to me like i'm treating you exactly how I treat polly. I'm not doing anything different
41:11Yeah, like making a breakfast making a coffee running a bath, yeah
41:16So you didn't have your new usual breakfast you had something different because you usually have burn flakes, do you?
41:21Yeah, just because it's like quick though, but my favorite's poached egg on toast, isn't it of avocado? Yes
41:27Sour though. He made me that yeah with that crispy bacon. Oh nice. He treat me like a little princess
41:33I
41:36Think the way amy's delivering this news to me is a bit kind of rub it in your face a little bit
41:40Oh, look me and adam get along so well with all the stuff that yeah, you don't get with me. I'm getting with adam
41:45That makes me feel a little bit
41:48You know sad
41:50It hurts i'm not gonna lie
41:52How are your sleeping arrangements?
41:55Uh, very very easy. How about you? Did you get the bed me and adam shared a bed together? Yeah
42:04You're you're fired about me and adam sleeping in the same bed
42:08And I would have never let him sleep on the sofa it felt too bad that's good, but that's brilliant
42:16It's a bit of a butthurt feeling amy telling me me and adam shared the bed I don't know which way to turn to
42:23It's just confusing. I'm numb at the moment
42:34So
42:38Hello
42:41I am really nervous about going back into the apartment. Um, I don't know what to expect
42:46I want to find out what adam he's been doing with amy
42:49I feel
42:50Very mixed emotions right now
42:52Hello
42:55I'm in the bedroom. I'm excited to see polly. I'm hoping she'll be buzzing when she sees what i've got for her
43:04Hello guys
43:07Oh my god
43:11What do you think yeah, it's cute
43:16Sex voucher filled you a few out
43:20I promise to pay on demand sex in your favorite position to paul from adam and there's this one dinner and doggy
43:27So
43:29Because he has obviously spent partner swap week with amy
43:32I definitely think that she got into his head a little bit and had some input
43:36So I feel like it needs to be unpacked with him a little bit more
43:40I feel like it has done
43:42Me some good having like a couple of days apart
43:46I felt personally like we really needed that
43:51And amy obviously helped you
43:54I did most of it, but amy had my back
43:57And you picked this yeah, I did actually
44:01Yeah, you had a jolly old time
44:07When I got the text from you i'm not gonna lie I actually felt sick
44:11Really in my head. It was like you're buying lingerie with amy. I was just like
44:17Like I just didn't know how to feel
44:19I just had really mixed emotions about it and I was trying to see positives
44:22But then I feel like there's a lot of negatives that i've just been getting in my own head about
44:28I just couldn't understand why this is what you were doing. It's just it's so confusing like my head is i'm not gonna lie
44:34It's fucked
44:37This was to try and like
44:39Spice it up and show you that we can kind of make it fun and better
44:45I've come out of my comfort zone to go get these gifts for poly
44:48But it just feels like it's just not enough for a bit of a kick in the teeth to be honest
44:54I feel like I want to cry. Why?
44:59I feel like I haven't really known where i've stood with adam for the last couple of weeks
45:03The intimacy side of things isn't where I want it to be at the moment
45:06It would be nice for more deeper compliments a bit more physical touch and pda
45:12to then have
45:13Something like this buying lingerie and sex vouchers. It does feel like we've gone from naught to a hundred. It's confusing
45:21I don't know what he wants
45:24Sorry
45:29Like what the fuck I am a little bit shocked at that i've got poly some nice little underwear to wear for me
45:36It feels like it was a little bit of a waste of time
45:38It's all about what she wants what she needs and it's just getting too much for me
45:44So
45:49Next time here's the man treating my wife like a princess
45:53Revelations from partner swap week, you know that picture. He said that he was actually a little bit envious
45:59Him saying he wants me to be like you he's fucking
46:02Bullshit send amy and luke into a downward spiral. I just feel like a fucking idiot
46:09That only intensifies you care more about other people's business than your own marriage wait
46:15When a not so anonymous letter brings fresh accusations
46:19I feel like i'm a different person with different people. What do you mean about do you kiss whoever's ass?
46:24He's convenient at the time. This is a personal letter, but it's christina and kieran's marriage
46:29I'm risking losing one of the best women that I could ever wish for and that's one of the hardest things to admit to myself
46:35That deals the biggest blow of the evening. Is this a friendship?
46:40Is this more?
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47:05So