“How much physical intimacy will you have?” Ayushmann Khurrana revealed how he embraced marriage and fatherhood at a young age.
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00:00Pyaar dosti hai. It's actually true.
00:02She started laughing.
00:03She was like, shakal dekhi hai apne.
00:05I'm a young father.
00:06Sab kuch itni jaldi hua, mujhe pata hi nahi chala.
00:08Aur jiski tum aad daal lete, usse pyaar ho jata hai.
00:20Bro, with, you know, your public image,
00:22everyone knows you're a great husband.
00:24My question to you is again for the young guys out there
00:26who are thinking about marriage.
00:27How do you become a great husband?
00:29Like what do you do?
00:31Nobody's a great husband.
00:36It's just that you have to be friends with your partner.
00:39Be it girlfriend or your wife.
00:40You know, Shah Rukh Khan once said,
00:42Pyaar dosti hai.
00:43And it's actually true.
00:44Kitna sex karoge tum?
00:46Kitna physical intimacy hogi?
00:47Kab tak attract karoge ek doosre ko?
00:49Ultimately, it's your companionship
00:51that you have to have the same sense of humor.
00:54Shahid aapko ek tarah ki filme pasand hai.
00:57You like your company.
00:58That's the most important thing.
00:59Is it true that love fades, but partnerships last?
01:02I know it sounds harsh, but if you just-
01:04You know, it's a habit.
01:05Matlab?
01:06Ek insaan ki aadat pad jati hai aapko.
01:10Aur wo pyaar hota hai.
01:11Aur jiski tum aad daal lete, usse pyaar ho jata hai.
01:14And aapko kiski aadat daal nahi hai,
01:16you have to make that correct choice.
01:18You know, you have to make that correct choice.
01:20You have to motivate yourself.
01:22Koi, aapka partner bhi aapko motivate nahi karta hai.
01:24When I told my wife, when she was my girlfriend,
01:28that I want to be an actor, she started laughing.
01:30She was like, chakal dekhi hai apne.
01:32I had to wear braces that time, wear glasses.
01:34I was preparing for my PMT, pre-medical exams that time.
01:38And we were doing theater together.
01:40And she was like, tum paise kaise kamaoge?
01:43How will you earn and make a living for yourself?
01:46So, it's not always true that your partner
01:48will be very supportive with your goals.
01:50You have to be self-motivated.
01:51Aur tumhara koi saath nahi dena.
01:52Aur tumhara koi saath nahi dena.
01:53Aur tum khud hi apna saath doge.
01:55I'm sure there have been moments where she's encouraged you.
01:57Yeah, yeah, of course.
01:58Of course, a lot of times, yeah.
02:00Like, of course, you know, you go through that phase.
02:02Like, we were teenagers that time
02:03when she told me this thing.
02:05You know, tab kuch pata hi nahi tha.
02:07And we've seen a lot over the years.
02:09Of course, now she's, we are both mature in our heads.
02:13And we handle our relationship like better than before.
02:17But eventually, it's you who has to motivate yourself.
02:22It's very difficult to strike that balance
02:24between your personal and professional life.
02:26Kaise, matlab, you know, I'm a young father.
02:28I became a father at 27.
02:30Second time at 29.
02:31I was 25 when I got married.
02:32Sab kuch itni jaldi hua.
02:33Mujhe pata hi nahi chala.
02:34Meri p***y thi jinn meri shaadi hone waali thi.
02:36I was so young.
02:37I had no friends jinn ki shaadi ho chukki thi.
02:40And when I became a father for the first time,
02:42mera koi dost nahi tha jinn ki shaadi hui thi.
02:43Mera kis se puchta ki, matlab,
02:45how do you feel when you become a father?
02:46Ask my father, papa kaise lagta hai?
02:48And he's like, you have to discover yourself.
02:51Hareko alag lagta hai.
02:53So, you know, I've seen a lot in these like 35 years.
02:56Actually, what does fatherhood change
02:57for a young guy like that?
02:59You see the world from the eyes of like a one-year-old
03:02or two-year-old, seven-year-old.
03:03You feel like hustling more in life because of that?
03:05Not really.
03:06Phir?
03:06It's different.
03:08You get more creative.
03:09Okay.
03:10You get more creative.
03:12In fact, you stay younger.
03:13Because your childlike innocence is back again.
03:19You know, you lose it at times.
03:21But it's very important for an artist to be a child.