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00:00Of course, it's a religion and we're sensitive.
00:03We don't want to make a mistake.
00:05We don't want anything bad to happen to the three of us.
00:08Who's going to take responsibility for their sins?
00:19Hello and welcome to another episode of Motif Trending
00:22where we're going to share with all of you
00:24an exclusive interview with those who are
00:26being praised by the netizens.
00:29As you can see, sitting next to me right now
00:31is Uncle Mike and his kids in the studio.
00:34Studio, give a round of applause to welcome them.
00:38Hi guys.
00:39Welcome to our studio.
00:41Yeah, no worries.
00:42Thank you so much for coming.
00:44Before we start, maybe we should get to know each other.
00:46I know Uncle Mike, but we don't know each other yet.
00:49Maybe you guys can introduce yourselves.
00:51Please.
00:52My name is Rafiq.
00:53Rafiq.
00:53You're the oldest?
00:54Yes.
00:55Okay, okay.
00:56Rafiq.
00:57I'm Rashid.
00:58Rashid.
00:59Rahman.
01:00Rahman.
01:00That's his son.
01:01Rafiq.
01:02Rashid.
01:03Rahman.
01:04Uncle Mike is Chinese.
01:05But he's able to express his love to his three siblings.
01:12Even though it's a different religion,
01:15but we can still be united.
01:16We know Uncle Mike's story is starting to go viral
01:19because he's taking care of three Malay kids.
01:22And everyone's talking about it.
01:24Maybe we want to talk about the beginning.
01:27We want to start from the beginning.
01:30From day one.
01:31This was about 16 years ago.
01:34About 16 years, plus or minus, before?
01:36Plus or minus.
01:37So how was it in the beginning?
01:39How did you come in?
01:41Because you found Rafiq first.
01:42You met Rafiq first, right?
01:44So...
01:45Before I met Rafiq,
01:47we...
01:48Yeah.
01:49As Bujang people, we're always involved in the car club.
01:52In the car club.
01:54So every week,
01:57with the members,
01:59we would do charity.
02:00From the elders' house to the orphans' house.
02:04So...
02:05There was this one event.
02:08When we went to Gomba,
02:09that is where everything started.
02:13From there,
02:14that changed my...
02:17life's story.
02:19So...
02:19At that time,
02:21when...
02:22we were doing a programme,
02:24so the men,
02:27we would call them fathers.
02:29So the mothers would take care of the children.
02:33So we would go to their hostels
02:36to clean up.
02:39That is where I saw one boy.
02:42That...
02:44was like...
02:45I don't know.
02:46When we looked at him,
02:47there was something that...
02:49Attracts you to him?
02:49Attracts me to him that...
02:52like...
02:53he needs some help from the adults.
02:56So when I found out from Umi,
03:00the caretaker,
03:02that...
03:04he lost his father and mother.
03:06And then also...
03:09his siblings also not with him.
03:11Okay.
03:12So that is where I started to learn more about Rafi'i.
03:17And then when I went to his school,
03:22to find out why he didn't want to go to school.
03:24So I found out that he was actually...
03:27like...
03:29left behind.
03:30Far from...
03:31For the studies?
03:32For the studies.
03:33So that is why even when he went to school,
03:35he didn't really understand.
03:36From there, I started to arrange his...
03:41daily life.
03:43So that he could go back to his studies,
03:47in terms of...
03:49we arranged for him to have one-to-one tuition.
03:53So that...
03:55he could catch up with his fellow students.
03:58So Rafi'i, what did you feel at that time?
04:00When you first met Uncle Mike?
04:02Or...
04:03who is he to bother me like this?
04:05Or...
04:06what was your first impression at that time?
04:09At that time, it was like...
04:10it was normal, right?
04:10From the beginning, there were not many people coming.
04:13Yes, yes.
04:13So like...
04:14Uncle Mike came like that.
04:16Like people came to visit.
04:18But every time people came,
04:19did you have hope that I would...
04:22that someone would pick me up or anything like that?
04:25No.
04:26It's just that people came to visit at that time.
04:28Okay, okay.
04:29So at that time, I want to know...
04:32all your siblings were in...
04:35another orphanage.
04:37Were you two together?
04:39Or were you separated?
04:40We were in the same place.
04:41We were in the same place.
04:43We just moved.
04:45Okay, okay.
04:45When he left, we stayed there again.
04:47We were still there.
04:49Oh, when you left,
04:50then you guys were still staying there at the same time.
04:52Okay, okay.
04:53What were you thinking at that time?
04:55When you were young,
04:57when you were younger at that time,
04:58what were you thinking at that time?
05:00Enjoy.
05:01We were just playing around.
05:04Just enjoy life.
05:04Just enjoy it.
05:05Don't think too much, just enjoy it.
05:07To take someone as an adopted child,
05:09what do you think?
05:10He...
05:11has a big responsibility.
05:12Yes, that's right.
05:13It's like he has his own child.
05:15Right?
05:16So,
05:17surely...
05:18there must be another reason...
05:20that you are open-minded to accept him...
05:23or want to take him in.
05:24Besides that you felt he's lonely,
05:26maybe...
05:27there's some parts of it that you feel like...
05:29you want to fill your own heart?
05:30You know, is there anything...
05:31stuff like that you can share with us?
05:32He's like this.
05:35At first, he...
05:36he's like this.
05:37He doesn't live with me anymore.
05:39He still lives at...
05:41the orphanage.
05:42So,
05:44this story is like...
05:45we're still...
05:47going back and forth.
05:49From my house...
05:50to the orphanage,
05:51and send him to school.
05:52And...
05:53when we got home,
05:54I asked my dispatch boy...
05:56to pick him up and send him to tuition.
05:58So,
05:59after taking some time,
06:01and...
06:01because...
06:02well,
06:02it's just the beginning, right?
06:03I'm afraid...
06:04he's still uncomfortable.
06:06And I'm also...
06:08like...
06:09afraid...
06:10not...
06:11not...
06:11able to...
06:12take care of him, right?
06:13Because we're also working at that time, right?
06:15So, when...
06:17I saw that...
06:18he can take care of himself, too.
06:21After the tuition,
06:22he can...
06:23he can take him home.
06:24After that, he just have...
06:26study at...
06:27home or something.
06:28And send him tomorrow.
06:29Then, I just...
06:31asked Umi.
06:32Umi said...
06:33with him.
06:33He said, okay.
06:34Then...
06:36he lives with me.
06:37After that,
06:39we went...
06:41with...
06:42his siblings.
06:56Congratulations.
06:57Because this film is going to be produced by Astroshore.
07:00They're going to be producing this movie about you guys.
07:04And...
07:04how did you guys feel at that time?
07:06When you got to know that...
07:08there's a movie about us, you know?
07:10Like...
07:11How did you feel at that time, Uncle Mike?
07:14At that time...
07:15first...
07:16when Astroshore...
07:18called,
07:19I felt like...
07:20is it true?
07:21Or in what...
07:23what Astroshore usually do,
07:24what's the motive?
07:25Motive trending.
07:26Trending, right?
07:27Yes.
07:27He said...
07:28So, they called Uncle Mike?
07:29Yes, they called.
07:31I went.
07:32I went to Astroshore.
07:32Went to a meeting with them.
07:33Meeting.
07:34And then, he said,
07:35okay, we'll do it.
07:37So,
07:37when it's done,
07:39we let it be.
07:41Let it be.
07:42So, like...
07:43we'll see what's going to happen, right?
07:47Because...
07:47we're just ordinary, right?
07:49Yes.
07:49There's no...
07:50what...
07:51Ordinary feeling.
07:52Ordinary feeling.
07:52Ordinary feeling.
07:52Ordinary feeling.
07:53Ordinary feeling.
07:53Ordinary feeling.
07:53Ordinary feeling.
07:54Ordinary feeling.
07:55Like we always watch other movies.
07:56Ordinary movies.
07:57Yes, yes.
07:58For me,
07:59with them,
08:00I feel like we're just ordinary, right?
08:02Like...
08:03ordinary family, right?
08:05Suddenly...
08:06there's...
08:07it's been...
08:07it's been celebrated, right?
08:09It's the most...
08:10the most touching, right?
08:12When...
08:14we received...
08:15the Mawlidul Rasul award by...
08:16Tuan Ku Agong, right?
08:18Yes.
08:19That's...
08:20when we were walking...
08:22there,
08:23it's true, right?
08:23I was dreaming.
08:25It's so...
08:26high,
08:27God gave it to me...
08:29to...
08:30receive the Mawlidul Rasul award.
08:33So, I've never thought about it.
08:35Right.
08:36So,
08:37you've...
08:38told your friends or family...
08:40that you want to adopt a child.
08:42Before adopting Rafi,
08:44you adopted Rafi first.
08:45Then, you told people that...
08:47you want to adopt a child now.
08:48I have close friends that...
08:51I've told them.
08:52If we...
08:53how we want to...
08:55help...
08:56this boy...
08:57so that he gains...
08:58confidence and...
09:00how we want to give him...
09:02the love of his family back, right?
09:03So, after that...
09:06my friends also supported me.
09:07Most of my friends are...
09:09Malays, right?
09:10They also supported me.
09:11They know my style of life.
09:13So, that is where I...
09:16opened the door of my house...
09:17to...
09:18accept them.
09:20And from there,
09:22I started to become...
09:24a mother and a father.
09:25I understand.
09:26You have to take two responsibilities.
09:27Yes.
09:28Two responsibilities.
09:29So, for you guys,
09:31how...
09:32how do you guys feel growing up in a house that...
09:36in one house, I believe...
09:38you have to have a leader.
09:40In that house, right?
09:41And in a way, your leader...
09:42is a different religion.
09:44You know, how do you guys feel...
09:46when you guys grow up,
09:47maybe you can share...
09:48anybody...
09:49anyone of you feel comfortable sharing...
09:52when you grow up?
09:54You're the first one, dear.
09:55You're the leader.
09:56You're the elder brother.
09:57You're the elder brother.
09:59But he's the most shy.
10:01Yes.
10:02He's usually the oldest.
10:03Yes.
10:04He usually tells a lot of stories.
10:07I was...
10:09how do I say this?
10:10His religion...
10:11doesn't seem like...
10:13a religion.
10:13It's the same.
10:14It's like an Islamic religion.
10:15I mean,
10:17it's comfortable.
10:18There's no...
10:19At that time,
10:20his religion...
10:21what is it?
10:22His religion...
10:23was taught to us by an Islamic religion.
10:25Right.
10:26There are...
10:27Ustaz came to the house.
10:30Okay, wait. So, to clarify.
10:31Are you a Muslim?
10:33No, no.
10:33You're not a Muslim, right?
10:35So, how did you...
10:37distinguish that, right?
10:38Because in a family,
10:40in a household, for example,
10:42do you treat them like your housemates?
10:45Like, how do you...
10:47Usually, if...
10:48young people...
10:50who are about to...
10:51get married,
10:52so,
10:53the better we treat them like...
10:56friends.
10:56Okay.
10:57And then, from the point of view of...
11:01they stay as a Muslim.
11:04So, what I do is...
11:06I take...
11:09approach...
11:10to learn more...
11:12more about how the lifestyle of...
11:15a Muslim would be.
11:17So, while learning,
11:18we learn the good things, right?
11:21So, we don't...
11:24make...
11:27mistakes that we don't realize.
11:29Because...
11:29I got a challenge...
11:31from this boy...
11:33when...
11:35time...
11:35like...
11:37yeah, like...
11:38the...
11:38the...
11:38the...
11:38the...
11:39the...
11:39the...
11:39the...
11:39So, when he feels...
11:41I'm Chinese, right?
11:42So, he...
11:43he feels that I don't...
11:45don't know much about religion, right?
11:47So, when we call him...
11:49for example, we call him to pray.
11:50Yeah, for example.
11:51At that time, he was still small.
11:53Small.
11:53Maybe he...
11:54he didn't know.
11:56When we call him to pray,
11:58he...
11:59he told us...
12:00when we go back,
12:01that...
12:03we can pray in congregation.
12:04All the way.
12:05Until...
12:06after Isyak, we can pray.
12:08So, when...
12:10this happened,
12:11so...
12:12it's better, I said.
12:14I don't want to fight, right?
12:15So, it's better...
12:17we call the Ustaz to come.
12:19Ustaz come to the house...
12:21after Maghrib or Isyak.
12:23Yeah.
12:24Let them fight with...
12:26Ustaz.
12:28Yeah.
12:28Because...
12:29well...
12:30we don't dare, right?
12:32We don't dare like...
12:34Of course, it's a religion, right?
12:35It's a religion.
12:36We're afraid...
12:37we're afraid to teach wrong.
12:39That's right.
12:39Something else will happen.
12:40Among these three,
12:42who wants to bear his sin?
12:48So...
12:49for them...
12:50let...
12:52I let Ustaz...
12:53until then...
12:54listen a little.
12:56Right, right, right.
12:58It's good also because we learn...
12:59we live in Malaysia, right?
13:01So, if we understand that,
13:03then we can...
13:06we can understand...
13:08our friends who are...
13:10in the religion of Islam.
13:12To be in their shoes, to understand why they...
13:15need to do something like that.
13:17Then we will have compassion...
13:19between one and the other.
13:22That means, after that...
13:24when we go out,
13:26even if we're friends with people outside,
13:28we know how to respect...
13:29Right.
13:30everything.
13:30Right, right.
13:32Okay.
13:32I have a fun question now.
13:35Maybe...
13:36I want to know three things...
13:38about Uncle Mike...
13:40that people don't know.
13:42I think he's strong...
13:44strong...
13:45strong... what?
13:46I'm sorry.
13:48He eats a lot.
13:48He's a cheapskate.
13:50Okay, a cheapskate.
13:51One.
13:53I think he's strong when he's angry.
13:55Strong when he's angry?
13:56Okay, give us an example.
13:58When he's angry,
13:59when he's angry, you feel like...
14:01he's strong when he's angry, right?
14:03Uncle, uncle.
14:04Uncle, actually, it's not that we're strong when we're angry.
14:07But because we...
14:08don't want to make them angry, right?
14:10So, we make them angry...
14:12so that they...
14:14understand, understand, understand.
14:16Because we want...
14:18we want to make it big.
14:20We can't make it big, right?
14:23So, give us one situation...
14:25one situation where...
14:26Uncle Mike is sulking.
14:28In the car.
14:29There's a lot, actually.
14:29But what I remember is...
14:31when Uncle Mike asked...
14:32asked his friend to go out.
14:33Okay.
14:34Sometimes, I'm lazy.
14:35Okay.
14:36I'm lazy.
14:37It's up to you.
14:38After this, don't ask...
14:40ask for my help.
14:41That's it.
14:43So, you're like that on purpose, right?
14:46So, in the end...
14:47you didn't go out?
14:48I followed him.
14:49You followed him?
14:50It's up to you.
14:52This is your house, right?
14:53Yes, that's it.
14:54Okay, okay.
14:55So, you're a cheapskate?
14:56Yes, a cheapskate.
14:58Rafi?
15:00He's a lover, Uncle Mike.
15:02A lover?
15:03He's afraid that you'll come to his house.
15:06He's afraid that you won't be at home tonight.
15:08Why do you still call him Uncle Mike...
15:10but not Dad?
15:11Is this Uncle Mike's decision...
15:14or have you guys...
15:16discussed about this?
15:17And then, did you guys talk about this?
15:18Or like, why?
15:20Actually, from the start...
15:22I did ask...
15:24to call him Uncle Mike.
15:26Because...
15:27for me...
15:29if it's possible...
15:31I'm not a substitute...
15:33to his parents.
15:38Because...
15:40as a Muslim, they pray.
15:42So, when they pray...
15:44hopefully, when they pray...
15:46to their real father and real mother...
15:48who has passed away.
15:50So, for Uncle Mike...
15:51if he has extra time...
15:52he can pray for me.
15:54I understand.
15:55So...
15:58I don't want them to forget their parents.
16:00The God sent me to them...
16:02is not to replace...
16:04their parents.
16:05But as a...
16:07You just feel like...
16:08you are their guardian angel for now?
16:10Yes.
16:11For the time being.
16:12Yes, for the time being.
16:13Now, Dad is old.
16:15When I was young.
16:17But I still call him Dad.
16:19When we want to ask for help...
16:20to buy things.
16:21Sometimes.
16:23That's it.
16:25That's important.
16:26If he calls me Uncle Mike...
16:28he will feel embarrassed to ask for things.
16:30I understand.
16:32Sometimes.
16:34Uncle...
16:35Dad.
16:36I got a shirt.
16:38A petition.
16:39Oh, a petition.
16:42A car petition.
16:44If his voice comes...
16:46Dad, where are you?
16:48That's it, right?
16:49That's it.
16:50I have to lock the door first.
16:52I know what he wants.
16:54Okay, okay.
16:55I feel a bit embarrassed.
16:57Embarrassed.
16:58Okay, okay.
16:59There are a lot of voices.
17:01There are a lot of voices.
17:03But it's okay.
17:04Relax.
17:05But if he's not at home...
17:08It's lonely.
17:09It's a bit lonely.
17:10You are the most important person in this house.
17:12If I'm not here, I won't be happy.
17:15If you want to kick me out...
17:17I have to kick you out first.
17:19You have to kick me out first.
17:20He's like a bird.
17:24I want to ask you guys a fun question.
17:27Have you ever had a situation...
17:29where Uncle Mike wants to eat something...
17:31that you don't allow him to eat?
17:35But he wants to eat the same thing at home.
17:39I don't know how to say this in a nice way.
17:41If he wants to eat something...
17:43that Islam doesn't allow him to eat.
17:45For example.
17:46Uncle Mike doesn't eat that.
17:47Uncle Mike doesn't eat that.
17:48He's allergic.
17:49He's allergic to alcohol.
17:51He's allergic to alcohol and pork.
17:53Because...
17:55I don't eat it.
17:57I don't know why.
17:58I haven't eaten it since I was a kid.
18:03I can't drink alcohol...
18:05because it causes rashes.
18:08Because this thing...
18:11I always believe that...
18:13it's not God's will.
18:15So when...
18:18Our body can't process it...
18:20we shouldn't force it.
18:22I agree because I don't drink alcohol.
18:24Just to get to know you a little bit better.
18:26I want to ask you a personal question.
18:27But I don't know how sensitive it is.
18:32Uncle Mike has never thought about getting married...
18:35and having his own child or anything.
18:38Is that not one of your...
18:40I don't know.
18:41Desires in life?
18:43Before I met him...
18:46I think...
18:49I was looking for it.
18:51My last date was...
18:55a few years ago.
18:57Before I broke up.
18:59So...
19:00People say...
19:04Dating is over.
19:07There are things that are not right.
19:09So...
19:10Then...
19:12After 30 years...
19:16I still can't find someone...
19:18who is comfortable with me.
19:21Someone who can...
19:23cope with...
19:25my character.
19:28Until...
19:29When I broke up...
19:35I don't know.
19:37I didn't think about it.
19:38But...
19:39After that...
19:41When I got involved with the club...
19:44That is when...
19:46We met.
19:47The three of us met.
19:49And...
19:50When I met them...
19:53When we became a mother...
19:55When we talked...
19:57It's like...
19:59It's the same as what I always see.
20:02So...
20:04Time flies so fast.
20:06I didn't realize it.
20:08But they grew up.
20:10Then, I got a grandchild.
20:12So...
20:14My life is okay.
20:15You think it's complete.
20:17Even though you don't have one.
20:18Even though...
20:20It's in God's hands.
20:21So...
20:22If I have one...
20:24It's okay.
20:25But...
20:26I didn't go...
20:28You just went to look for it.
20:30Yes.
20:31Thank you guys so much for watching.
20:33If you want to watch the full video...
20:36You can search there.
20:37Everything is there.
20:39Thank you guys so much once again.
20:40I appreciate it.