90 Day - The Last Resort S2 Episode 16 - The Last Frontier
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00:00Good morning! Bright and shiny!
00:05Previously on 90 Day The Last Resort.
00:08This is what it's like having kids.
00:10Yeah.
00:11I don't want kids anymore.
00:15So, I would like all you couples to pick one of your big issues.
00:20If your issue is trust, what's a bandage that we can do to work on trust?
00:24Stacey and Florian.
00:26He's cheated in the past and now I have new information
00:29and I just feel like the bandage just got ripped off me again.
00:32Everything which I work is going down. This is no trust anymore.
00:39Josh and Natalie, something's going on here.
00:41It's been three years and I have never ever seen where he lives.
00:47What's keeping us from just saying, come on over and see my place?
00:50Yeah, well, we've only been getting along for two hours.
00:54Although we're taking steps forward, you know,
00:57I'm still thinking about how bad I was treated for the majority of being here.
01:03Gino, Jasmine, where are you guys with things?
01:06I'd like to know Jasmine's location.
01:08If she was to share location services,
01:11would it be more likely that you would be in this open relationship?
01:14It's something I'm considering right now.
01:18An open marriage could work for some people.
01:21They're not those people.
01:52We need to get out of here.
01:54We need to get out of here.
02:18Gino, if she says, I'll give you location services,
02:21would that affect you saying, okay,
02:23I can move forward with an open marriage if I know where you are?
02:31Yeah, it would help. Certainly would help.
02:37I'm sharing it now with him.
02:41I'm coming around to the idea of an open marriage
02:45because I feel like I was put in a corner
02:48and I needed to make a decision now fast
02:51because otherwise Jasmine, you know,
02:54could leave me and cheat on me with someone else.
02:57As terrible as an open marriage sounds,
03:00this might be the only way to keep Jasmine in my life.
03:04Gino. Gino, God damn it.
03:07Look at me.
03:09What's the point of the GPS
03:12if she can have sex with other people anyways?
03:15Because I didn't agree to that yet.
03:17Like, I'm still considering it.
03:19You're rolling down that hill right now.
03:21I want to know, first of all,
03:23is she with, you know, is it one person?
03:26Is it the person that she's going to have an open marriage with
03:29or is it more than that?
03:31For all things you have to discuss,
03:34you have to have agreements or it doesn't work.
03:39That is f***ed up.
03:41Basically, somebody wants to f*** his wife.
03:47I don't know what kind of marriage is that.
03:51I just find it odd, the whole situation odd.
03:54You know, Gino wants to agree to an open marriage now.
03:57If Jasmine shares her location,
03:59like, it's just getting weirder and weirder.
04:01Location.
04:02Usually you share the location to not cheat.
04:05He wants to know where she's getting it on.
04:08This is weird.
04:09I don't know.
04:11Thank you guys so much.
04:12This is proof that you're doing the work.
04:14All of you.
04:16We only have a couple more days, so let's hit the floor running.
04:19You did great.
04:20I hope you have a wonderful evening.
04:22We're so happy we had this time.
04:24We look forward to seeing you more in the next few days
04:26before we wrap up.
04:28Have a good night, everybody.
04:29We'll talk to you soon.
04:32Hi.
04:45Hello, hello.
04:46Hello.
04:50Oh!
04:53Don't look!
04:54What is going on?
04:56I think in all this time is this group make us be a family doesn't matter what happened between all of us
05:04We still big family. Yeah dysfunctional one
05:17Functional I think some people here definitely just you know
05:26I
05:36Cannot see my own
05:47Like a buoy
05:57I
05:59See all of you
06:01Yeah
06:03It's like you guys all had an amazing day. Everybody's cheering excited. How did it go? I know you guys have a second, right? Yeah
06:10I feel like everybody kept
06:12Some big points today everybody like work out today and I feel like everybody have progress today
06:18I want to say, you know, I've had a hard time
06:21I've had a hard time being anxious talking in front of groups and a lot of you guys have been you know
06:29On our side helping us and I want to say thank you to everyone because you guys have been really positive
06:35And supportive and I love having you guys here
06:41I could imagine having a better group of people here to support us and I really appreciate you guys
06:47I
06:50Thank you, thank you so much
07:16Oh
07:37You know just got back from a workout
07:40Trying to try not to waste the day. I feel you
07:44The is that a big
07:52Golly I think there's anything over here at once. Okay
07:58How you doing today man, honestly my head's like all over the place to be honest, yeah it is
08:05With the recommitment ceremony coming up I've been thinking a lot about you know, Natalie and I's relationship and
08:12You know, I feel like we're connected I feel like we have a special bond and we have good moments but more bad moments and
08:19so
08:21You know, I feel like I have to give this a lot of thought just to for the both of us
08:27honestly, dude
08:30I'm terrified of commitment with Natalie. Like I'm just gonna be real with you. Like I'm I'm worried
08:36No, like I've had really one good day here yesterday like one the entire time
08:40I've been here like I've emotionally exhausted at this point. I genuinely care for her and her well-being and like
08:48If I walked away, I don't know what would happen to her. I
08:54Think you really need to search internally and figure out if you're holding on to this for the right reasons
09:00There's the side of you that loves her and cares about her in a genuine sense
09:04But then that I feel like there's a side of you that's only holding on because you don't think she can make it without you
09:10yeah, I
09:12Think Josh has always been one foot in one foot out. You know, there's that like part of him where
09:18he wants to take care of her he feels like she's not gonna be okay without him and
09:24You know, we got a we got a saying for that where I'm from, you know, we call a guy like that, you know captain Sabo
09:31You've internalized feeling like you're her savior. He needs to let that go. She'll be I just figured it out this far
09:39We all got to be honest with ourselves on whether or not we should keep holding on
09:44I
10:05Use this today
10:06Get ready to leave go to the airport. I got a pack you need help. Yeah too many bags as usual
10:13Darcy's going home this morning. And even though our relationship isn't perfect
10:17I'm gonna miss having Darcy support and
10:20miss having her around and
10:23You know spending time together
10:26More glasses put the sunglasses in there
10:28But at the end of the day, you know, I'm here to focus on my marriage and myself
10:34I'm grateful that I got to come and you know
10:37thank you for inviting me because you know, I feel part of this and grateful for the experience because
10:43We're here to learn. We're here to listen and learn. That's right
10:47So at the end of the day like I want to change my ways Florian wants to change
10:51I know, you know, we want to change both together and be one big happy family. Yeah, it's all that really matters, you know
10:58Yeah
11:00It's when power ready to activate
11:03Got it, you know the reconvene ceremony is a
11:07Really big deal, so it's right around the corner your own feelings stay powerful of yourself
11:14and
11:17You'll be fine, you'll know what to do. Yeah, listen to your your heart and your gut you got this
11:21I mean it's a lot to me. Thank you. Yeah, I need it up
11:24Stacy has to come to this decision on her own whether she wants to recommit to foreign. It's a big deal and there's a lot of
11:32Questions still up in the air. So even if they do the recommitment, is it really gonna
11:39Make it better or is it just gonna just give them a quick fresh start and then things are gonna go back to the way
11:44They were
11:45So I'm gonna go ahead and do that. I'm gonna go ahead and do that
11:48I'm gonna go ahead and do that. I'm gonna go ahead and do that
11:50Give them a quick fresh start and then things are gonna go back to the way they were when she needs to go back to
11:55Miami
11:56Do it big do a big baby. All right. Love you. Love you. I'm a surprise
12:02That's right eyes on the prize. That's right
12:13It's like the perfect day out isn't it's release Oh here sister
12:19What is this boutique or something
12:36What do you think about it baby, are you twerking? Yeah, or is that your sexy dance I'm from
12:45It's a lack of practice
12:48The retreat is almost over and I've been thinking about whether I can agree to an open marriage or
12:56Live my life without Jasmine
13:00And I and in the fact that you know, I might not be with Jasmine and we might break up
13:07That that makes me sad and and I sure hope that doesn't come to that
13:12And these ones are very cute. Oh, look at this pink one
13:16Maybe my boobs are too
13:19Big for this you're gonna come out. So I
13:24like those I
13:26Would like to let you know how much I appreciate and how much it means to me. You are open to consider
13:34you know the
13:36Ethical non-monogamous marriage like just the fact that you are open to consider it
13:41It means a lot to me and I would like to touch base on it because
13:46you know that at the end of this retreat the idea is to
13:50to compromise
13:52You know to change for better our relationship. Yeah, I did put some more thought into it
13:59and you know, I do
14:02You know, I want to go forward with it
14:05this open marriage idea
14:08I
14:11Said I yes
14:14Don't be so excited no, no, no, I need to know you know, because it means a lot. I really thought that we will
14:21Never figure it out
14:23I'm I'm being serious. Yeah, I mean I put a lot of thought into it last night and I decided that I'm
14:31Going to go forward with it
14:34You know, I I love you very much and I don't want to lose you and I feel like
14:39I'm on the verge of losing you because you're always getting angry about you know, it's like not having intimacy
14:47You're always mad at me about it. I
14:49Feel like I need to take action
14:53like now I
14:55Appreciate that. Yes
14:58Once you know told me that he agrees to an open marriage. I am in shock
15:02I cannot believe what I'm hearing and I can finally feel that you know is fighting for our marriage
15:09This is honestly a miracle
15:12So you said there's a guy named Matt that you
15:15Yes already said this is going to be the person you want to have this relationship with
15:20How do you know this is the person that?
15:23You want to be intimate with?
15:26You want to be intimate with like, okay number one is because it has been a very
15:31Like unconditional friend for the months that I have known him, you know, we have a lot of things in common
15:38Has he ever is he single? Yes
15:41he's single or
15:43I would say that he's single and not looking for anything serious just to have fun
15:49One of the most important things is like if you end up
15:54Getting too close to this person
15:56We have to stop this. What do you mean too close?
15:59Like if you start having feelings for this person suddenly like falling in love yet
16:04You have to tell me if you guys start getting feelings you have we have to stop this
16:10Okay, I that is very important and I don't want to hurt you. You know, I know that this is listen
16:17This is not traditional. This is very hard
16:20But I really want this to help us and
16:24If I have to stop seeing this person that's gonna happen
16:28Like we take this person out of our marriage because I want to protect our marriage
16:31You're sure you're gonna agree to that right? I a hundred percent and I in you too
16:36I believe that you will feel better. Like if you talk to Matt and you know who this person is, I
16:44Don't need to I don't want to really talk to Matt to be honest
16:47That's very strange
16:50Why is it strange? Why would I why would I want to know who you're or why would I it's not who I'm
16:57Was providing a need that you couldn't and that I wish it was you not him. But what other option do I have?
17:06Well
17:08Are you gonna want to meet the person that I might end up in an open relationship?
17:14Absolutely. Yes. Yes. Yes
17:20I'm worried about you know refusing to talk to Matt because I think that he is not
17:26Serious about having an open marriage as he is making me believe that he is
17:31my biggest fear is Jenna and I not agreeing on the rules for an open marriage or
17:37He not wanting it to be Matt the person I will have intimacy with
17:42Because I know that if that happens we will go back to scare one and we will be miserable again
17:55If you guys could each of you come up with one word to describe kind of where you're at at this moment in your
18:02Relationship and in your marriage. I think my word is confusion
18:06It doesn't make me feel very good that Sophie's this confused at this point I'm only confused about what the hell does she want
18:30This is it guys
18:35Hello ladies
18:47Fabulous doesn't feel like we're at
18:53You need give a like course like
18:58Everybody gets 20
19:00You
19:02Welcome back. This is our final group therapy session
19:08so
19:10We hope that everyone's gonna take this session
19:13Pretty serious, you know
19:15We're able to use this time to kind of process what we've gained and we're gonna talk about that what we need to move forward
19:22tomorrow and
19:23Make some decisions about what will happen at the recommitment ceremony
19:27We'll just start and open up the floor starting with Sophie Rob each of you come up with one word
19:34One symbolic word that you just think of automatically to describe kind of where you're at at this moment in your relationship and in your marriage
19:41What would that be because that will be kind of a segue to take you into?
19:45These next moments and tomorrow the recommitment ceremony. I
19:51Think my word would be steady steady steady. Okay
19:56We're starting to actually be a little more steady a little less chaotic, yeah, okay, I
20:02Think my word is confusion
20:05Because all the things I thought that I thought but when I came here, I don't think anymore and there's only one day left
20:11So my first word is just confusion. I
20:17Think it kind of really puts you where you guys really are at I
20:21I
20:24Think sometimes when you forget about the past you still it doesn't mean your problems went away, right? They're still there
20:31It doesn't make me feel very good that Sophie's this confused at this point
20:36I've been very clear about what I want, which is to get my wife home work on things and have our life
20:42I'm only confused about what the hell does she want?
20:46Thank you guys so much for your open and honesty
20:50Brandon Julia, so close your eyes
20:53First word that comes up for you or where you are at in your relationship right now
21:01Momentous
21:02We have made big progress on the fact that we finally came together
21:06I think on the kids thing because you know, I'm also realized it was coming from a place of fear
21:12Not just if she didn't want it, you know, what about you Julia? It's first words to come to my brain is family
21:20Wow, not about only
21:23The second I'm talking about my family your family all encompassing. I love it. Thank you
21:34I
21:35Can see this therapy are working for us
21:38But they still doesn't hear answer from Brandon about my parents bring to us I'm did what I can I'm agree with his bandage
21:46Now it's his turn
21:47But it's make me worry because I think in more time brand take for make this decision less likely. He'll be agree
21:58Jasmine and Gino I want you guys to close your eyes for a second
22:01And I want you guys to think about one word that comes to mind when you think about where you are right now
22:07I have it
22:09Yeah
22:10Evolve evolve. I love it. I would say come back
22:17Wow, wow, wow. So where are we at right now?
22:23We made a decision to
22:28Move forward with an open marriage
22:37Like a new beginning for us
22:40I'm pretty shocked to be honest and pretty up situation for a Gino agreed. Somebody's going to swipe. Let's be honest
22:50Gina no need to watch no more porn just in watch Jasmine and Matt doing sex
22:57pretty simple I
23:01Never thought I would be in that situation. I was totally against it then I thought about it more and you know
23:07And I mean, I know Jasmine has needs right and I felt like I needed to take action now
23:15What one size doesn't fit all right? You're saying this is our relationship
23:18This is our marriage and we have to decide what's gonna work for us at the end of the day
23:23So what's something you can do in the next day before our recommitment ceremony today to keep this going we're gonna come up with like a
23:31Gosh, how can I say an agreement?
23:33Contract like agreement in writing, you know of
23:37Guidelines and everything for this open marriage idea. That's a big thing
23:42It's very very important that before you make this recommitment that you know
23:47Everybody who would be involved in this open marriage is on the same page as you guys are doing
23:53You know thinking about these boundaries and these guidelines. I think it's important to have a conversation with Matt
23:57Because it's not just you guys. We're bringing someone else in here
24:01If
24:03Gino and Jasmine are gonna go down this path of an open relationship in the interest of transparency
24:09I think it's imperative for Gino to have that conversation with Matt
24:13Because it gives him an opportunity to really create boundaries if there need to be some and I think when you don't know what's happening
24:20our mind often projects and so that might change his idea and his view of
24:26What an open marriage could look like for them both?
24:30I don't have any interest to see him or
24:34Know much about him. You don't want to see him. I
24:37Don't have any interest to see who he is or how rich he is
24:41What you know, and you might want to taste of that reality before you recommit
24:46So are you open to?
24:48meeting Matt
25:01You
25:06Could you please at least compromise to talk to one
25:12I'm really in no hurry to talk to Matt. Honestly, but are you in a hurry to make this agreement with your wife?
25:20Yeah, I mean I want to get the agreement done yeah, I
25:25Don't have any interest to see him, okay
25:28But open to having a phone call with him, okay, would you be willing to do that before the recommitment ceremony?
25:42Yeah, like a phone call yeah
25:47She just wants Matt she was mad that's it. It's not an open relationship. It's none of that
25:52She don't want a threesome because that means Gino's involved
25:54She wants to have an open relationship so that she can be with Matt
25:58It's definitely very clear that literally everyone can see that this open marriage will not work out for them
26:06Except for them except for them
26:09Probably can be best friends. You never know. Well, they don't have to be best friends, right?
26:12Like you you and Matt don't have to be bestie. No, we know but yeah
26:16Yes, I mean exactly and you know, we have to have respect mutual respect. Exactly. I
26:22I
26:23agreed to meet Matt because I want to make sure that he's okay at the rules make sure that he's okay as a person to
26:30be
26:31Having this open marriage with Jasmine. This is a new beginning for us. We're starting
26:38fresh new and
26:41Love conquers all I guess I
26:45Got I gotta say I don't think either of you guys are being realistic
26:48Bro
26:50You really think that you're gonna be okay with it once when she tells ya cuz she's got a guy lined up
26:56So as soon as y'all go home, boom, she's out that night
27:00Like I care about you guys. I think you're both gonna be really unhappy at some point because of this
27:06Why I I appreciate that. I think that it's actually gonna bring us together over time because
27:13happier and I'm gonna be happier and
27:16Then we won't be fighting and all the time and we
27:19She'll start listening to me and we're gonna come together at some point and you know what?
27:24Here's the thing Rob you're keeping it real and I think we need to do that, right?
27:27Because we're gonna be hearing chatter and voices and judgment, but I bring it back to you guys, right?
27:33This is your relationship. This is your marriage and this is gonna be hard
27:38Stacey and Florian if I was to ask you guys to close your eyes and think of a word
27:44What is the first word that comes to your mind?
27:47He's doing better it's like me and her doing better basically one word one word one word just just better
27:55Okay, I like that okay, it's Lauren and then I have my own word. Mm-hmm. Yeah
28:01No, no, I just I know you're gonna say it's to be negative and you're not but you're conflicted
28:09conflicted
28:14He
28:16Tells me nothing happened when he walked that girl home
28:21Back in Miami. I have to just believe and trust that nothing else happened
28:25But that's hard to process because I feel like all those trust issues are still not quite resolved
28:34I just don't want to go back home and then nothing changes
28:38I
28:43Just know that I can't live the rest of my life in a marriage that I'm not happy in and I know he's not happy
28:50Because he wouldn't do the things that he does
28:52He would honor our vows
28:54And he would respect me more
28:57And I would respect him more
29:00I'm still unsure. I don't know
29:03I
29:05Need you to show me actions of love I need to see and feel the love from you
29:12Look at me in the eye when I talk to you. I
29:15Don't want to hear shut up. I don't want to hear you know, leave me alone
29:21Make me feel like the queen that I am. I'm your wife. I
29:25Want to feel loved and appreciated
29:28Appreciated
29:29Listen Florian. This is what I think in the next day. I want you to show and demonstrate
29:34Stacey how you're speaking from the heart
29:37Amen. Hallelujah. Hallelujah. Amen and Jesus Lord. I
29:45Would love to hear from Natalie and Josh
29:48Well, have you ever play squash?
29:51Squash when you hit in a ball to the wall, uh-huh
29:54So there is no real persons are correct but game going on
30:01Okay
30:02You you are there you're playing the game
30:06But in front of you
30:08It's not real person. It's a wall
30:12Is that him yes
30:15So Josh is a wall. Yes
30:18It's how is you?
30:20Josh, where are you with things?
30:23Scared
30:26Natalie needs somebody a hundred percent all the time
30:31and
30:35I'm scared to give that to her. I'm scared of commitment with her because I'm so unsure of
30:42What's gonna happen next?
30:46Maybe I'm the problem. Maybe I'm showing too many breadcrumbs or stringing her along or
30:52Maybe she needs something more than I can give her
30:59And maybe that's it
31:06Josh I feel like we're at a really sensitive important time right now
31:11I would love for you to look at her and just tell her directly where you are
31:15I
31:25Definitely feel like I'm put on the spot but
31:28Like I feel like you know, this is the time for me to make a decision. It's now or never
31:45You
31:59Can I touch you no, okay. I do love you and I do care for you
32:15But I do have to let you go
32:27I don't want to string her along anymore. If I'm the problem, I'm sorry
32:35I came from a place of like wanting to help but I think I may have hurt her more by doing that
32:46I
32:48Natalie you're smiling. What's going through your brain?
32:52Because I feel relieved
32:54That is the most honest and clean
32:57Moment with Josh during our three years and three months and some days of we know each other
33:04All my things that triggered me was he was not honest
33:10so
33:11Thank you. I
33:13Value honesty and I respect honesty and today maybe first time I could say I do respect you
33:22Because finally I hear something honest coming out of your lips
33:31I've decided to end things with Natalie now because I don't see a future with us
33:38You know, it took this retreat for me to like really reflect
33:44and have conversations and open up to people really just opened my eyes and
33:50Made me think that
33:52That you can love somebody without being right for them. I
33:57Want her to find somebody that can make her happy and I need that for myself, too
34:07So Josh and Natalie I want to ask a very clear question
34:13Do you need the recommitment ceremony tomorrow? Are we ending this right now?
34:31I don't I don't believe that we're there for a recommitment or commitment ceremony
34:36I just I don't want to drag this on any longer and I want Natalie to
34:42Heal from this if she needs to heal from it and find, you know true happiness and a partner that will suit her
34:52Do you agree Natalie yes
34:56I
35:10Know my relationship is also sober. I do feel pain a lot because I love him and
35:18It's kind of hurt my dignity a lot because like I wasn't enough for him to
35:24Commit to me to be with me. Why why I'm not enough for him
35:28Why why he doesn't want to be with me if he loves me
35:33But
35:34I'm not getting into the drama and scandal and showing ugly
35:39Ugliness of breakup to those people. I'm better than that. I'm higher than that
35:44You
35:49Know guys, this is difficult work and and I appreciate you know, the openness the vulnerability with sharing this stuff
35:57I think you guys are doing a great job with your communication right now. You should be proud. Yes. Absolutely
36:01Tomorrow is the recommitment ceremony everyone
36:06Let the remaining time here be really intentional for you and really sit with what you've experienced here what you've expressed here today and let
36:13Your next steps, whichever you're deciding to do whether we commit or go your separate ways
36:17Let that be intentional on what you plan to say because this is really at the beginning of the next chapter
36:28Thank you, thank you guys bye everyone
36:32Oh
36:39Oh, sorry to hear that you tried that
36:46Wow
36:50Feel really really emotional right now. I
36:54Really feel bad for Natalie because I know she wants more. She wants to be in a loving healthy committed relationship
37:02I
37:06Just feel sad for her, but she just wants love
37:14She's
37:24She deserves to be happy, I hope she finds her true love
37:31You
37:41Natalie
37:46Natalie
37:50Natalie
37:55Okay, no
38:01You
38:14Let's go to sit on the Sun
38:17You want to sit down don't have something to say
38:23Well, yeah, I'd like to talk to you. I want to make sure you're okay
38:31After I say what I needed to to Natalie and
38:35We end it and she laughs it off
38:37but I know that like this is her defense mechanism like sometimes she does weird things at odd moments and
38:45I know she's hurt
38:48and as well as I am I I
38:53Just want you to know where I'm coming from and I've been just
38:58Feeling anxious past few days. I
39:02Mean at the beginning of this like I felt open to try
39:07But therapy, you know, I was just really eye-opening and I just think it's unfair
39:14To keep it going if I know that
39:18Hearts not in it
39:20And
39:25I just want you to know that I care for you
39:28100% that's true
39:30you'll always be someone very special to me and
39:36I just hope that you you know can understand that and I hope that you don't hate me
39:41I
39:53Don't
39:55Thank you. I
39:57mean I live by feelings and I
40:01Don't feel like bringing you pain and I have some beautiful moments with you
40:08But my heart doesn't belong to you
40:11I probably miss you sometimes
40:14But it's the end of the day. Nothing matters unless you're happy and I honestly wish you happiness. I
40:21Mean this hurts to do this
40:25But I think it is best for both of us
40:32Well, I'm gonna give you some time and space here
40:41You
40:43You
41:06Even though the relationship didn't work out overall
41:09This has just been a really good eye-opening experience and I'm gonna miss Natalie, of course, I'm sad, you know, I mean Natalie's definitely
41:18Completely different than anybody I've ever met
41:22But I feel like I have to stay strong with the decision that I've made
41:27I
41:38Can't make you feel what he feels it's his choice and he's free. I
41:47Really want to meet someone to love me for you me exactly who I am. I
41:52What is it having a child and meet someone who gonna love me for you it might never happen
42:03It's scary it makes me shiver it makes me worry because I feel like
42:11Less I feel like if other women can achieve what they want. Why can't I I
42:17mean
42:18It's it
42:22It's
42:41You know, maybe that now seeing that
42:45Every Benny gone and now Natalie and Josh gone, too. I guess I'm a little surprised that Josh doesn't have
42:53Time enough time to give her Natalie because he says he loves her. Yeah, and if he loves her, why wouldn't he?
43:01Make the time
43:02What I can get from all this baby is because at the end of the story is you and me, you know
43:07As a couple is that we need to take every step
43:12Seriously as the therapy said and one of the main things is
43:18Transparency communication respect and part of it is you
43:23Talking to Matt I
43:27Feel good and comfortable about the plans that we so far made about our open marriage
43:34It's someone that we both have to agree. I want to reassure you know that I love him and this is just
43:41sex
43:42nothing else
43:46So I'm gonna call him
43:50He's not gonna see you
43:52You're not gonna see him. He's gonna see me. I'm gonna see him and I'm gonna see you. I'm gonna be in the middle
43:58Okay
43:59I'm very nervous and I can only imagine
44:03If the roles were reversed when it is my turn I can understand
44:08How you're gonna feel I just want you to know that I love you and you are my person nobody else's
44:16Okay. Okay
44:25Matt can you hear me? Yeah. Can you hear me?
44:38Let's drink it for half happy ends to a happy ending
44:43Next time on 90 day the last resort to Natalie and Josh, which they're here, but Josh can be a hell in place
44:52You said you're okay with her finding sex from somewhere else, okay find another guy
44:59Okay, let's put it this way
45:04I'd be married to this guy nine months. He hasn't touched me. You are big here
45:11If I can hold on to nine months without need somebody else I think you could too
45:22What you doing
45:24writing the bows
45:26Did you write bows I have in my heart
45:29Yes, we've had improvement, but we still have unresolved issues. I don't know like I just feel like
45:36overwhelmed
45:39I'm scared what our future holds
45:44I'm agreed to take a second opinion for baby. Yeah, but I didn't hear you agree to
45:51Compromise about my parents when it's not in the best interest of our family. I have a hard time supporting something
45:58If you decide to not gonna help me with my parents
46:02Don't come to this ceremony
46:08All of the work that you guys have been doing leads up to this moment tonight our recommitment ceremony
46:15This is really about a choice
46:17your decision
46:19to commit
46:20or not to commit
46:23No one is supposed to be happy