Why Your Wife Asks 'Do You Love Me?' (The Painful Truth Husbands Ignore)

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"Brothers, your wife isn’t ‘needy’—she’s STARVING for these 3 things. Ignore them, and watch her love slowly die."  💔 The Crisis Most Men Miss:  She questions your love DAILY (while you assume "she just knows")  She compares herself to OTHER WOMEN (her deepest insecurity)  Your silence = "I don’t care" in HER language  🔥 Prophet’s ﷺ Solution (Even If It Feels ‘Awkward’): ✅ "I love you" – The 3-word Sunnah most husbands abandon after marriage ✅ "You’re beautiful" – Crushes her body-image fears instantly ✅ "I chose you" – The reassurance she actually needs (not your salary)  ⚡ Real Talk: "Allah gave you a tongue—not just to eat, but to nourish her heart."  📌 Subscribe for unfiltered Islamic marriage advice most men never hear!

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00:00You take your wife's love for granted.

00:02You don't need your wife to constantly reassure you

00:05that you love me, you love me.

00:06No, you take it for granted.

00:08The fact that she's still living with you

00:09shows you she loves you.

00:11Well, it doesn't work the other way around.

00:13It does not work the other way around.

00:17A woman is always double guessing.

00:19Does he still love me?

00:20Does he still think about me?

00:21Does he still care about me?

00:23Does he still put me number one?

00:24And therefore, a woman has to have

00:27constant reassurance.

00:28And not only this, but another issue

00:30that men need to be sensitive to and understand.

00:34Women are very conscious of their looks

00:36and they're comparing their looks

00:38with other women all the time.

00:40We guys don't do that.

00:42We don't care about other looks of men

00:44and we don't compare ourselves.

00:45But women are always thinking,

00:47am I still beautiful enough for him?

00:48Does he still think me attractive?

00:50Maybe I've gained a few pounds.

00:51Maybe after the third kid, this and that.

00:52She's always double guessing her looks, her figure.

00:55And so the husband always has to make her feel

00:59the most beautiful, the most cherished,

01:01the most loved, the most admired.

01:04She always wants these reassurances.

01:06How does he do this?

01:07I'll just point out a number of them.

01:09Number one, words, words, words.

01:12Never underestimate the power of speech.

01:15Simply saying, I love you.

01:17I know it's awkward for men after the courting phrase.

01:20I know it's awkward, right?

01:21But believe me, it never goes out of fashion.

01:25For women, it never goes out of fashion.

01:28They always love to hear this phrase.

01:30And in fact, there are da'if hadith of our Prophet.

01:32It's a bit da'if hadith,

01:33but it's still mentioned in our books

01:34that our Prophet ﷺ...

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