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00:00Oh yeah, that's cute.
00:24And Grounds for Divorce brought to you by our friends at the American Divorce Association for
00:28men facing divorce. Call the expert attorneys at Adam, 248-356-ADAM. So what happened last
00:36night with Heidi, Ryan? Man, I think I dropped the ball on this one. So last night we were
00:41laying in bed and she kept talking about a place she really wants to go to for our next
00:46date night. Okay. I want to know, is this her telling me I got, I better take her there
00:53real soon or am I overthinking this or? So when is your next date night? Not for a while?
01:01I don't know. We haven't went out like just us two in a while. So that's why I'm like,
01:06is this supposed to happen this weekend? I'm getting nervous about it. 248-398-9279 is their
01:14house phone. 248-398-WCSX. You can also join the conversation on Facebook, WCSX. Yep.
01:20We're Facebook live right now. Intern Jenny, resident young person. Is it a restaurant
01:26that she wants you to take her? It's a winery. Oh, you better take her. She obviously mentioned
01:31it. Even if she mentions it in passing, you're supposed to take it in your brain. You're
01:34supposed to store it and then do it. I get that. But is this like an instant? Like,
01:38does it have to happen this weekend? Whenever he feels appropriate. Yeah. Do it right now.
01:43Do it today. That's not happening.
01:45Yeah. So that's the question though. Is this a, by Heidi mentioned that last night.
01:51Yeah. Like over and over. Is this a, I want to go there now?
01:55Yeah. She said it like six times. Okay. Oh, look at what they got. Look at this. They got
02:01different flights and it's this cool little winery by where we live. So you're just, you're
02:07thinking you just want to tuck this away. And the next time you have a date night when it's,
02:10then maybe you'll go there. Yeah. But your concern is maybe Heidi's like, I want to go
02:14there now. Yeah. My concern is like, I need to make this happen this weekend. Like get
02:19the kid somewhere and us go out. Cause we haven't done that in a, in a while. Just us
02:24to go somewhere for a little bit. I think she was sending you a sign that she wants to go
02:29out this weekend. Yeah. The two, just the two of you go out and do this. Nope. Here
02:35we go. What? She already on there? No, this is a 248-398-9279 is her house phone. Be careful
02:43calling. I know the roads are weird. I just had to read through this one really quick
02:47to edit it a bit. All right. You're a grown ass man. You have a child. She needs to get
02:52the F away from the kid every now and again. You're a grown ass man capable of making reservations
02:59and plans. So do so quickly. Otherwise there will be no other children or even attempts at
03:06getting one. Good Lord. Yeah. That means you need to take her immediately. Six times. Yeah.
03:11Yeah. Take a hint. Fool. 313. You're fired up this morning. Have a day, baby. Stronger. Sex
03:19my ass. You guys can't even think straight. So we know the gender there too. Oh, five
03:25one. Saban gave you an ad on this one. Not good weather. Now pick another weekend. Just
03:28schedule the time. That's a good idea. You cannot play the weather card on a weekend on
03:33a date night. You can't do that. We live in Michigan. You kind of know that when you move
03:37here. Yeah. That's true. It's going to be in this place. We've never been here and it's
03:42one of those like local howl spots that we want to, she wants to check out. So Heidi keeps
03:48mentioned in this place over and over and over and over and over. Is this a, she wants
03:53to go now or just put this in your back pocket for the next time you have date night? 248-398-9279.
04:00What's that? Ann on Facebook. Good morning to everybody on Facebook. But Ann said, after
04:05all the conversations from last week, take her this weekend. Yeah, that's true. It's not
04:10wrong. 248-398-9279. Oh, geez. So if you, Jenny, like in a relationship or even when you're dating
04:21someone, are you more like, I want to go now or will you just drop hints? I'll just tell them. I'll
04:27just be straight up. I'll be like, we need to go. We're going to go this weekend. I'm making
04:30reservations because I want to go. I'll go alone if you don't want to go. You're a dream for most
04:35guys just from that alone. Yeah, but I don't fully believe that, man. There's a game that's
04:41played. Even on my end, I'll start watching more golf, showing her clips of golf, knowing
04:47full well that I want her to be like, you need to go golfing soon, don't you? You know,
04:51come on, there's a game. If you're, if you're equating date night and golf. Yeah, that's
04:57my, my, uh, this is her winery thing. That's mine. Foreplay is not something you yell
05:04out when you hit a ball. Just so you know. Okay. Hold on. Hi, Megan. Hey, big Jim. Hey,
05:11Ryan. Hey, what do you think? Just do it, Ryan. That wasn't a suggestion. That was, she
05:18was telling you that you need to take her out on a date. He got Nike. She just said, just
05:22do it. Okay. All right. We'll do it. Take her out this weekend. Yeah, maybe. Wow. Okay.
05:30We got to see. We got to get a babysitter now, man. She'll be mad at you. Can't just lock
05:35Finn in his room and say, we'll be back later. Sure you can. It worked with that one movie
05:39with the wire hangers. Yeah, you can do that. Absolutely. Okay. Come on. You're like the,
05:43you got babysitters all over the place. Oh, man. He really does. He really do. You're
05:49awesome. Hey, Megan, have a great day. See you, man. Thank you too. Bye. Bye. 248-398-9279.
05:55Hi, Aaron. Good morning. What do you think? I think you should do it now. Do it. Okay.
06:03Do it now. So he completely, he missed the sign, right? He hobby biased it last night.
06:09Yes, sir. Okay. Are you speaking from experience here, Aaron? Someone who like has missed the
06:14sign occasionally? You got to just, you got to just suck it up and do it. That's it, period.
06:21Okay. See? All right. Done. We can do it. Hey, Aaron, appreciate you listening, buddy. Have a good
06:26morning. Have a good one. All right. Later. 248-398-9279. It's a bigger issue. Not issue,
06:35but it's definitely something that, as a man, I can tell you over the years, I've missed
06:39thousands of signs. Yeah. Thousands of signs. We're not good at it. We're just not good at it.
06:46No. And I don't want to speak for everybody because I hate everyone who makes general
06:50statements. But yeah, I missed hints, clues constantly. Yeah. And I know I do because
07:00obviously you guys listen to this show, you know, I'm a little into what I'm thinking into my head. So
07:07I definitely miss him. Kelly lives in Howell near me. And she said, I know where you're talking about.
07:14They close early. It's a super nice place. Have great homemade wine. Go there and have a great
07:18time. And she said she'd watch Finn for us. Perfect. There you go. Look at that. We'll drop
07:25him off Friday. All right. 313 texted in and said, those were orders, not in a suggestion.
07:31You can leave the kid with a can of SpaghettiOs. He's on his, tell him he's on his own. Yeah,
07:35there you go. There you go. All right. Oh, so now Rick asked a question. Now, would it be wrong to
07:42ask her when she wants to go? I'd love to do this with you. When do you want to go? See, I think
07:47that's part of the, like, you take the sign and just do it yourself. Like, if I ask her, does it not
07:54become the thing she wanted it to be now? You know what I mean? That whole thing you got to do.
07:59Yeah, that's true. She does want you to plan it. You know what I'm saying? This has to be like a,
08:05hey, Saturday, don't do anything because we're, you know, Finn's going to my mom's and we're going
08:10out. I don't know if surprise or just do it. Okay. I've been hearing that a lot from her lately.
08:18Just make a decision. She's been telling me that a lot lately. You're telling me something I don't
08:25know. Okay. Huh. Shocking. What? Hi, Angela. Good morning. Good morning. What do you think?
08:37You've read four of my comments. Yes. And so, listen, order. He'll be just fine with SpaghettiOs.
08:43You got to be on the phone right now, Ryan. Right, right now. Get her done. Literally.
08:48All right. All right. Angela, thank you for calling. You're welcome. Boot check. Oh,
08:54boot check. Bye. 248-398-9279 is our house phone. If you're joining us, last night, Heidi kept
09:01alluding to this place, not alluding, talking about this place that she wants to go for their
09:04next date night. Yeah. You guys have not picked a date for date night. Ryan wants to know,
09:08is this something they should do right now or just put it on the back burner and save that for the next
09:13time they do have a date night. And they do have a one-year-old, by the way. Do you want me to watch
09:18your kid this weekend? Yeah, sure. You wouldn't watch him. If you ever really need someone to watch him,
09:26in a minute. Oh, yeah. I know you would, for sure. For sure. Uncle Jim's a good babysitter. Yeah. And
09:31you haven't seen him in a little while. I kind of look at him as like my grandson. Stop. Okay.
09:36That joke's creepy. Okay. Anyway. Yeah. Just stick to the uncle thing. That works. You're just creepy
09:42uncle that we only bring around. Hi, Spring. How are you? Moving on. Okay. I guess after that.
09:51I know. So what do you think? Well, I think Heidi's saying yes, that she wants to go. If there's an
09:59outdoor patio, wait and take her. It's a nice inside. I mean, if you're smart, Ryan, you go and
10:07kind of check it out and see if it's a nice inside and take her right away and wait till
10:12the weather breaks again and take her again if she enjoys it. So that way she's surprised
10:17all over again. You know, one of my favorite things to these phone calls, and I've noticed
10:21this as a thread. How many times, and you listen, Jenny, you can actually keep, we can make a drinking
10:24game out of this. Ryan, if you're smart. I swear. We'd be hammered. We would. We would.
10:32They have to drag us out of this studio. Only Morning Show needs an Uber home. Spring, great
10:37advice, though. That's great advice. Zach does that to me a lot. I'll say, I want to go someplace,
10:43and he'll take me right away. It's like, oh, I wish I would have waited till the weather
10:46was nice. And later in the season, he'll take me, surprise me. I'm like, oh, I like this.
10:51Thank you, honey. I've been expected again. Yeah, I told my wife that about Culver's,
10:56and she got mad. Spring, have a good day. You too. Bye. Bye. Jenny, I think your, is
11:04this your dad's phone number? I think your dad's texting that. Oh, maybe, yeah. Yeah,
11:08he said, Jenny's dad says just agree with the wife, then forget about it. Yeah, my dad
11:13does listen. Hi, Dad. Every time I'm on. Hi, Dad. Yep, just agree with her. Quit burning
11:17down floats, Dad. Anyway, that's earlier. Hold on. Chilly Bob. How are you, bud? I'm
11:23all right. Hey, tell Ray Ray. A happy wife is a happy life. So go this weekend, right?
11:30I've done that before. Yeah, do it. Okay. You've been on the phone yesterday. What did
11:36you call me? Ray Ray. I love that one. We might steal that one from you, Chilly Bob. Oh,
11:41God. Ray Ray, to my left here, man. Okay, happy wife, happy life. So they should go this
11:46weekend. All right. Okay, we'll talk to you soon, Chilly Bob. Chilly Bob was listening
11:53to how cool he sounded. He's like, listen to me on the radio. I sound good. Okay, 248-398-9279.
12:01That's our house phone, 248-398-WCSX. Heidi keeps mentioning this place. No, keep Facebook
12:10live going. We'll talk during the song. All right. I know the roads are kind of sketchy
12:17this morning, but if you have a chance to call, we would love to hear from you. We'll
12:20get to your calls next. It's Big Jim's house, CSX. Morning. Hi, guys. So we're still on.
12:31I got to turn the music down so Facebook doesn't knock us off. So we're still on, Jenny. We
12:34can stay on during the song as long as we do this. Yeah, I was thinking about it like
12:39and for people who are trying to, we normally would, I would say we get a different variety
12:43of calls. I think the roads are really sketchy right now. Yeah. It's 33 degrees. Yeah. But
12:49the fact that people are taking time out to call. All right. What's the name of the, you
12:54can say the name of the winery. It's not like they're going to give you. It's Howell's Main
12:58Street Winery and Pizzeria. It's right downtown Howell, a couple minutes from us. So does this
13:03have to be a dinner thing or could it be a day trip? No, I think it can be a day trip.
13:07I think that's, that's me. We like to do stuff during the day anyways. Plus I was looking
13:12at their hours. They close earlier, like seven, eight o'clock, which is perfect for me because
13:16I can get home and go to bed. But, uh, so you need just a babysitter for Saturday then?
13:22Yeah. Okay. Why, what are you doing? No, what's going through your head on Saturday?
13:30No, he'll just go to my mom's. I'll do it. No, I don't feel like driving out to you to
13:33drop them off. That's too far. I'll come to you and babysit. And I am not letting you at
13:39my house alone while we go out. Wow. You see, Jenny, I offer a very nice thing on my part.
13:45I will come out there and babysit your kid for you. The warnings are the way you've talked
13:47about being at your friends' houses and stuff and snooping. I don't need you doing
13:52that. No. Okay, fine. So what we used to do was when we would go to somebody's house,
13:57I would take a food item out of their fridge or their pantry and then just see if they
14:01noticed. Yeah. One time I was driving around with the guy, we were going to a bar and I
14:05had a box of his macaroni and cheese in the center console and he just looked down. I said,
14:08I know I'm fat, but I don't drive around with Max and cheese boxes in my car. And it took
14:13him like a month. Oh, man. The only one he got mad on, it was Bob. He got mad because
14:17I ate a banana, these banana bars, some little like, oh, he was furious. So now what we do
14:22is when we have crap that we don't want, we leave that at people's houses. The KFC fire
14:27log. Right. I put that. Oh yeah, we bring it. They don't notice. My buddy called me going,
14:31did you leave a KFC fire log at a house? I'm like, why would I do that? Yeah. So I won't
14:35do any of that stuff, but I will totally watch Finn on Saturday. No, I don't know if you
14:41want to. Okay. Well, when you ask Heidi, she's going to give you a hell no. She'll go
14:47we'll just take him to your mom's or my mom's. Finn and I can hang out. Oh yeah. We're not
14:53worried about that. We'll crush it. I will not snoop around your house. I'll come watch
14:57you kid. Wait, I just thought of something. What's that? I can't do this Saturday. I'm
15:02off the hook already for Saturday. Why? What's the date Saturday? I don't know. The
15:0820th. This is Finn's first first one-year-old photos at wherever my mom and her are taking
15:15him. Nice. I'm off the hook. Saturday. Yeah. One-year-old photos. Yeah. You probably didn't
15:20want to say off the hook. You want to say, man, I don't have to. I'm not going to the photos
15:26though. I got to get boats in the water. So part of this is I'm not sure you really want
15:32to go out on a date night this weekend. No, I want to go. Trust me. I like going out
15:37and doing stuff with my wife, obviously. And we haven't had a night with just without
15:42Finn. Are you sure we're quick to find out? Or a day. Maybe Friday after she gets off of
15:49work. Friday night. Take her out Friday night. We can do it. Get over there. Yeah. Because
15:53Saturday, yep, we're busy. And it's only open until 7, so you can get out of it early.
15:58Right. That's the best part. Because I'm home by 710 with how close we live to this
16:04place. Yeah. Why wouldn't you want to go? What? Heidi just said, I would be so mad at
16:10you if you came to our house and did that to my food, talking about you going to your
16:14friends. That's what she took out of this. Yeah. Get mad at him, Heidi. Woohoo. Focus
16:20on your husband there, Heidi. I asked him about this one. Oh, man. Okay. Hold on. We
16:30got to go in the air in a second. You got to stay there. Hold on.
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17:08It was fun. What we do is we will continue the conversation on our Facebook page during
17:12Billy Idol. So if you're watching on WCSX, we had a whole little side conversation where
17:17I said something made your wife mad at me. You'll see it on there. Yeah. Yeah. Hi, Heidi.
17:23How are you? I don't know. She's just talking crap. That's normally what happens during this
17:29segment. Clearly, Ryan likes being at home. Keeps mentioning how close we are. Home body.
17:34Okay. Now, hold on. Sorry. I like my- What? You got to set the table. I don't even remember
17:39what we were talking about. So last night, Heidi kept talking about this place and how.
17:42You can say the name of it. It's Howell's Main Street Winery. It's right downtown Howell.
17:46Nice little spot. We haven't been there since we've moved out there. Okay. So she was dropping
17:53hints. How many times did she mention it? Oh, five, six times while we were laying in bed,
17:57just watching TV. Like, oh, look at this. Look at this. Your question is, is this a we
18:02should go this weekend? Yeah. Is this something I got to do like immediately? Like take her
18:05this weekend because she's fired up about it? Or can I just put it in the back pocket and
18:11save it for a later date? 248-398-9279. And how bad are man at signs? Jenny, you've already
18:18pointed out that we're not good at it. Yeah. You're pretty bad. Okay. Intern Jenny there.
18:22Hold on. Hi, Don. Hi, how are you? Good. Go ahead, man. Yeah. Hey, Ryan, you got to go
18:32and get the Filthy Rich Pizza and then get a couple bottles of wine and then you'll love
18:39it and you'll be happy you win. See? There you go. Okay. All right. You should definitely
18:45go. I like that. A little endorsement for this place. Was that a real thing that you said?
18:49What's it called again? Yeah. The Filthy Rich Pizza. The Filthy Rich Pizza. All right. Thank
18:56you, buddy. Hey, Don, have a great day. Be careful on those roads this morning, okay?
19:00Yeah, yeah. And boot check. Oh. Boot check. See you, bud. Speaking of Filthy Rich, by the
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19:24you doing, buddy? I'm doing good. Driving into work. Boot check. Boot check. How are the
19:29roads, by the way? Oh, they're okay. We're doing about 65. All right. Ryan, you got a pen?
19:35We're going to write this down. So you live in Howell. Yeah. All right. First, take her to
19:40Karana's Pizza. You got the open balcony there. You're overlooking Main Street. You
19:43have a nice Italian dinner, a couple cocktails. Now, this is the important part. You have a
19:47friend. Take flowers to the winery, leave them on a table, have that table reserved for
19:52you after you're done eating at Karana's. Walk down there, have some wine, flowers, nice,
19:58you know. Leave there. Walk over to Dairy Queen, get some ice cream. Done there. Shoot across
20:03the street to the movie show. Boom. Done. Beautiful night. You're a hero.
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20:34your day. Line one gets the lottery tickets there, Captain Morgan. Yeah, that's a good
20:38call. We, uh, yeah, that's the only problem. Heidi's listening. She goes, no flowers. Sounded
20:44nice, but everything else. She doesn't do flowers. Yeah. Uh, she is fired up this morning.
20:48The first place, he said, that's one of our favorite places to go. Carotid? Yeah.
20:54So what it is? They show heart-shaped pizzas? Karates. Karates? Yeah. Do they chop the pizza
20:58when you go on? Oh, I was just going to say, it's awesome to see the guy just, that's how he cuts
21:04them into sizes. They got a pizza there called the Big Sexy at this place. Yeah, they do. Yeah.
21:10When you're in there. Or is that just throwing me on some bread? Hey, hey, hey. You're next
21:15caller. Hi, James. Hello. How are you guys doing today? Good morning. Hey, man. Good morning.
21:21Say, okay, get some advice. Oh, food check. Go ahead, man. Oh, and Ryan, I got my crocs
21:26on. Oh, yeah. Crock check. Crock check. That is not a thing. So anyways, um, my, my thing
21:32is, is that she's sending you all these hints. Why don't you just say, honey, that sounds
21:37good. Set it up and we'll go. I mean, she's home, right? Oh, put it on your home. She's,
21:44she's, you know, got the daytime and she can set everything up. And it just for you to acknowledge
21:51yeah, that sounds okay. Hold on, James. James, in theory, that sounds good. In real
21:55life, Ryan will go, well, you're the one that's home all day. You should be the one
21:58doing this stuff. Right. Well, she's the one that is always doing the plans. So I
22:04think that's part of this is she's like, Hey, figure this out. Call one of our parents
22:09and get them, get the kid watched and let's go. So she wants you to be assertive in this
22:14relationship and do something. Yeah. It could probably go both ways. You know, I mean, I've been
22:20in several relationships myself and yeah. Yeah. It could go both ways.
22:24There you go. Learn a thing. Why do you think I talk about this stuff on air? I'm so hoping
22:28one of the grandparents hears it and goes, okay, we'll get them. Then I don't even have
22:32to reach out. You know what I'm saying? Right. Right. Off the subject, how's your baby's
22:36teeth? Ah, they're good, man. They're coming. He's got like four up top coming through right
22:41now. Yeah. And rub them in? Crazy mouth. Oh yeah. We've done that. Bunch of other stuff
22:46you guys suggested and helped us out with. Whoever suggested the plunger was a bit too
22:49much. James, have a good day, bud. You guys have a good day too. Thank you. Bye. One
22:56more here. Hi, Colleen. Hello. Hello there. Hi. Is this Colin? Caden. Caden. Okay. My
23:06bad. I looked up. It's my fault. I totally misread that name. Caden. So I went from all those.
23:11Anyway, what do you think? Should he go or not? I think he should go. Boy, you got to
23:16find a place with a nice burger along the way. I mean, you got to be full on your stomach.
23:23Before you go hammer some wine with your wife. So where's he going to get a burger and how?
23:31I don't know. Okay. But you're saying you got to get some base before you go to this wine
23:35place. Yes. All right. Caden gets it. Caden, man. Nice to know you're listening to, man.
23:40Have a good morning. Hey, you too. All right. Later. Well, they got unbelievable looking
23:46pizzas here. I was just saying you got base. The problem is I don't think Heidi can eat
23:50any of these. They don't have gluten free or whatever it is. It doesn't look like it
23:53from their website. I might have to give them a call. Well, if you didn't marry Lola Granola,
23:57you might be able to go out someplace every once in a while. Don't start that. Why don't you
24:01go out and hug a goat and just make a day of it? She'll fight you over this, Big Jim. Good
24:05Lord, man. You want to sit down and come home and watch Woodstock again? What the hell,
24:10man? It's on you now, Heidi. I'm Team Ryan. Quit suggesting places you can't go to. You
24:16know where we should go on date night? Mars. That'd be great. I forgot about that. I'm not
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