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00:00Well, Lana and I agree on this one.
00:02We both like Brandon.
00:03He's a good dude.
00:03Yeah, he's well-spoken.
00:05He knows what he wants.
00:07He just seems really educated.
00:09I don't know.
00:10I'm getting a really good vibe from this guy.
00:12And he can't figure out why she's not calling him back.
00:16And he sounds pretty smart.
00:18So if he can't figure it out, maybe we need to dive into this.
00:20Yeah, he told us.
00:21He goes, hey, listen, I know there's no drama with me.
00:24I don't want that.
00:25That's not what I'm about.
00:26I'm trying to find the right girl.
00:28And we're trying to help him find that right girl.
00:30Hopefully it's Rachel.
00:31We're going to call her right now.
00:32Let's do it.
00:49Hello?
00:50Hi, good morning.
00:51Is this Rachel?
00:52Yeah, who's this?
00:53Hey, Rachel.
00:54This is actually JR and Lana over here at 99.5 QIK.
01:00Hi.
01:02Hi.
01:02Hey, good morning.
01:03How are you?
01:04Good morning.
01:04I'm okay.
01:05How are you?
01:06We're doing great.
01:07Hey, do you have a couple minutes?
01:08We want to see if we could talk to you actually on the air.
01:11Just a couple questions about a dude that's really, really into you.
01:17I guess so.
01:18Okay.
01:18I appreciate that.
01:20Do you think maybe you know who we're talking about?
01:22It's a guy you went on a date with.
01:23I have an idea, but I'm curious.
01:26It's Brandon.
01:29Yeah.
01:30Brandon told us about your guys' date at the landing.
01:34And he said it was just a casual thing.
01:36And he talked about you being kind of the all-around and complete package.
01:40He said you had a great job.
01:42You're a teacher.
01:42So thank you for what you do.
01:44And also that you just had a good head on your shoulders, great family.
01:48But since this date you had, he thought you'd be seeing each other again and thought you'd be hanging out again.
01:55But he can't seem to nail down a date with you.
01:57We wanted to see if we could help and find out what's going on.
02:03I mean, yeah, I don't know exactly what he told you.
02:05But basically, I mean, we had a really good date.
02:09Like, I was into him.
02:11And then, I don't know, towards the end of the conversation, I guess we were talking about, like, you know, past relationships or whatever.
02:18Uh-oh.
02:19And he mentioned he hasn't been in a relationship, like, since college or something.
02:25And that was just a big red flag to me.
02:28Like, you're telling me for the past, like, decade plus you haven't had one relationship?
02:34Like, that just is very off-putting to me.
02:37Like, either it hasn't been a priority for him or, you know, he's wanted, like, other things and just, like, a lack of experience.
02:44But I don't know.
02:45I guess it was, you know, a little, like, not very nice of me to sort of ghost him.
02:50But I just didn't really feel like dealing with it.
02:52But, yeah, that was just – I mean, nothing terrible happened.
02:55But that just –
02:56That threw you off and that scared you a little bit?
02:59Yeah, for sure.
03:00Well, I have to say, Brandon's really into you.
03:04And we have him on the phone with us, Rachel, right now.
03:07Yeah, he called us.
03:08So, I'm going to bring him back on.
03:10Brandon, you there?
03:12Yes, I am.
03:13Hey, Rachel.
03:14Hi.
03:16Like, that really was a red flag for you?
03:18I don't get it.
03:19Can you help me – can you explain that?
03:20I mean, I thought I explained it pretty well.
03:23Like, I want to be with someone who really wants to be in a relationship, understands what it takes to be in a relationship, and it just honestly seems, like, weird and immature.
03:36Brandon, you're looking for a relationship, aren't you?
03:38Yes, 100%.
03:39I'm looking for a relationship.
03:40And sure, I haven't dated anyone serious since college is because I'm a picky guy.
03:45I'm choosy.
03:46I don't want to just date someone just for the sake of dating anybody.
03:49And you're kind of holding that against me, and I just don't think that's fair.
03:52I mean, doesn't everybody say that?
03:54No.
03:54But, I mean, Brandon, you've been dating, though, right?
03:57Yes.
03:58I've gone on a bunch of first dates, and they just don't work out.
04:01And, yes, I haven't been in a serious relationship in a while, but the fact that she's not even open to seeing me again because of that just doesn't click.
04:10Like, I don't get it.
04:11Like, if I don't click with somebody, then I'm not going to continue to date them or be forced into a relationship.
04:17That's just dumb.
04:19It doesn't make sense.
04:19So, I guess I'm not allowed to be choosy.
04:22Like, you just said you've been on a bunch of first dates.
04:25Like, nobody's been decent enough to make it to a second date.
04:28Like, that's kind of weird.
04:29Well, you were.
04:30Yeah, but you were.
04:31So, like, you're special.
04:33I've had a lot of relationships, though.
04:35This is like...
04:36Hey, Brandon, have you ever been married before?
04:38No, never married.
04:38Okay, cool.
04:39I don't know if you, like, took a break after marriage or something like that of dating or whatever.
04:43But this whole thing is odd.
04:45Like, and I'm sorry if I'm getting upset, but I'm getting worked up about this because you're not even giving me another chance.
04:49It's like, because of that?
04:51That's so stupid.
04:52Like, we had a great connection that night, right?
04:54I mean, yeah.
04:55But, like, I, that's just...
04:58I think it was a red flag for me for a reason.
05:01So, Rachel, you have no desire whatsoever to see Brandon again?
05:05No, I mean, it's not even like he's understanding where I'm coming from.
05:08I don't think I do either.
05:10Not that you don't know.
05:11A lack of experience in her eyes.
05:13Yeah, it's just like, I'm looking, like, you're in your mid-30s.
05:16Like, you need to have, like, lived with somebody, you know, whatever.
05:21Okay.
05:22Like, I'm not trying to babysit.
05:24Well, Brandon, I don't fault you for being picky, man.
05:26I mean, life just kind of...
05:29The pieces fall over the pieces fall.
05:30And if you haven't found who you want to be with...
05:32He obviously listens to the show.
05:33Right.
05:34He listens.
05:35He knows how it happens.
05:36Rachel, I'm taking this as a no from you that you don't want to see Brandon again?
05:40Yeah.
05:41I don't know.
05:42Maybe if your reaction had been different.
05:43But, yeah, I'm good.
05:45Okay.
05:46Well, Brandon, you heard what you had to say.
05:48Again, I don't think this is anything you did wrong.
05:50It's just a preference of hers.
05:52So, I'm sorry.
05:53That's the way it is.
05:54Thank you, Rachel, for coming on.
05:55And you guys have a great day, okay?
05:58Yeah, this is stupid.
05:59Thanks for nothing, by the way, Rachel.
06:01Great.
06:02All right, guys.
06:03All right, take care.
06:05I think she's really missing out.
06:07I think she could be missing out.
06:08But I do understand that if someone hadn't dated anybody in a long time and it wasn't
06:13because, hey, you know, I'm just sick of dating.
06:15It's just I just haven't found the right person.
06:17Ten years of not even having, like, a few dates or a fling or anything like that.
06:22I mean, that might be a little bit of a red flag.
06:24I mean, if I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt on this one.
06:26I understand.
06:27But maybe he's just busy.
06:29Some people are just busy.
06:30You know, maybe he's in sports or he doesn't want to deal with a woman screaming at him
06:35all day on Sunday because he's watching football or whatever.
06:38Wow.
06:39You're speaking for a lot of women right now.
06:40Jeez.
06:41I'm just saying.
06:42All right.
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06:47Where are you at on this?