Kate and Ben - Life In The Fast Lane
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00:00Well, we heard from Ben this morning about his date with Kate.
00:03It is the second date update, commercial-free New Country 99.5 QIK.
00:06They were set up by some friends, had a good date out in Tarpon Springs.
00:11But that's where things stand now, is he has no idea what's going on, but he felt like the date went well.
00:16They had good conversation. He said he paid for the meal.
00:19He did not drink too much. I asked him about that.
00:21And if he ran into anybody at the restaurant, and he said no.
00:25So, Kevin, you got her on the phone, right?
00:27I do. Perfect. And she's cool talking to us on the air?
00:29Yes.
00:29All right, I'm going to bring her on right now.
00:31Good morning, Kate. How are you doing?
00:33Good morning. I'm all right. How are you?
00:35We are doing good.
00:36And you just heard us talking about the fact that we heard about your date with Ben.
00:42And we just want to know what's going on.
00:44Because this guy's India, wants to see you again, and you haven't been really willing to go back out with him.
00:49What's up with that?
00:52Well, Ben pulled up for our date on a motorcycle.
00:57And I thought that was cool.
00:59You know, I didn't know he had a motorcycle.
01:00We never really talked about cars and what we drove or anything like that when we were getting to know each other.
01:07But as the date progressed, I found out that he only has the motorcycle.
01:12That's his only form of transportation.
01:14And that is not something, like, when you're dating, you kind of know what you want and what you don't want.
01:21And I want a guy with a car.
01:25Not that having a motorcycle is terrible, but having only a motorcycle is just not something that I want in a boyfriend.
01:32Like, I don't want to be picked up on a motorcycle for a nice dinner out.
01:37I don't want to ride a motorcycle in the rain or to the grocery store or, God forbid, to Costco.
01:43You know?
01:44I don't think you can take a motorcycle into Costco.
01:46I mean, there's too much stuff to buy there.
01:48It's too big.
01:48Yeah.
01:49Exactly.
01:50How are you going to fit the toilet paper on the back of a motorcycle and your girlfriend?
01:54Yeah.
01:54Right?
01:55So, basically, like, he was a nice guy and everything.
01:58But, you know, we started talking about the motorcycle.
02:01And I was like, why don't you have a car?
02:04And he did say, like, I don't have a car payment, insurance, blah, blah, blah.
02:09It's probably a lot cheaper.
02:10I mean, totally.
02:11I get that.
02:12But, you know, we live in a state where it rains nearly every day or, like, has the potential to rain all the time.
02:19Yeah, in the summer, sir.
02:20In the summer.
02:21And, you know, have you ever been on 275?
02:25Like, the drivers there are ridiculous.
02:29Yeah.
02:30I know for some people it's fine, but I don't want to ride a motorcycle.
02:34I'm afraid of being on one.
02:36I just don't want to touch that whole ordeal.
02:38I have a friend who died in a crash when I was young.
02:41It's just a lot.
02:42I don't want to be involved with someone with a motorcycle.
02:44All right.
02:44Well, I can totally get that.
02:46I mean, you're either going to be cool with it or you're not going to be cool with it.
02:48I mean, it's that easy.
02:49All right.
02:49Well, listen, here's the deal.
02:51Ben actually reached out to us.
02:52He said he had a great date with you.
02:55And we were just trying to see if we could set you guys up on another date.
02:58So Ben's on the other line.
03:00He heard everything that you had to say.
03:04Ben, so you only have a motorcycle, huh?
03:07Yeah, it's so much cheaper.
03:08I mean, it's awesome.
03:08Having a bike is awesome.
03:09And I never have any kind of problem just having a bike.
03:12It's great.
03:13Well, I mean, yeah, she kind of explained to us the you don't have a car at all or you
03:17don't plan on getting one.
03:18Is that the case?
03:20Not I don't currently plan on.
03:21I don't need one.
03:22And it's so much, you know, I got no the bikes paid off.
03:25The insurance is much less.
03:28You know, I can just park the bike right on my patio.
03:32The gas mileage is amazing.
03:33I don't really need a car.
03:35I don't travel that far.
03:37I have no problems with it.
03:39And everybody who I take on the bike loves it.
03:41So I don't know.
03:43I mean, I'm just picturing spending hours getting ready for a date to get on a bike but have
03:48to wear pants to not burn my ankles and like the windblown hair and the helmet hair and
03:56just it's just it's too much.
03:59Well, you know, we have when I need, you know, if I'm taking you on a nice date, I'm going
04:05to get an Uber, of course.
04:06I mean, I'm not going to make you do anything you're uncomfortable with.
04:08I take Ubers when I need to, but it's not that often, but oh, absolutely.
04:12I wouldn't make you.
04:13Yeah, but like part of getting to know somebody, like we can't even have a conversation on a
04:18motorcycle.
04:19That just seems ridiculous.
04:20Like you're going to pay every time for an Uber when you could just have a car.
04:24I don't know.
04:25I mean, I have a car.
04:27It's just not a great car.
04:29It's not in good condition.
04:30I don't want to be the one driving if I don't want to ride the motorcycle.
04:33So that's just not something that any female that I can think of would want for themselves.
04:40That's a bummer.
04:41Well, I know.
04:42And you were great.
04:43I mean, the date was fun.
04:45But yeah, this is just not something I want to waste both of our time with if I'm not going
04:50to be happy going into it.
04:52Well, I really love my bike, but I guess if I get a car, maybe I'll give you a call.
04:57I mean, is this going to be a car idea?
05:00You thinking about buying a car?
05:01I could hook you up with some great car dealers.
05:03Oh, Lana.
05:04I don't know.
05:05I don't know.
05:06I really love not having one.
05:07I'm going to have to think about that one.
05:08All right, man.
05:09You do you.
05:09Well, I appreciate you both coming on with us today.
05:12I mean, it's that simple.
05:13Like I said earlier, you're either going to be cool with it or you're not going to be
05:15cool with it.
05:16And it sounds like Kate's not.
05:18And I'm sorry, Ben.
05:19This is not going to work out.
05:20But I wish you both luck.
05:21Well, Kate's pretty great.
05:23So I'm sorry, too.
05:26Well, thanks.
05:26And you're pretty great, too.
05:28Just get a car like a normal person.
05:30Oh, OK.
05:31All right.
05:32All right, guys.
05:33Sorry I couldn't make it work out.
05:34All right.
05:35All right.
05:36See you guys.
05:37All right.
05:38Well, you know, that's a big deal.
05:40It is a big deal.
05:41You know, and there's there's somebody that works in this building that only rides a motorcycle
05:45and that rain or shine.
05:47Yeah.
05:48And if it's raining, they're not going to be here on time.
05:50You know, it just is what it is.
05:52Yeah.
05:52So there's people that are that are dig that lifestyle.
05:54And it's like, yes, I ride a bike and that's all I ride.
05:57But if you're not cool with it, you're going to be an issue.
06:01I mean, I get where he's coming from.
06:02I mean, you don't have to.
06:04You know, the insurance is less.
06:05The payment and all that other stuff, you know, so gas, probably a little better on
06:09gas and all that stuff with everything so expensive.
06:11I can understand that.
06:12But that's a lot to ask a girl.
06:15I mean, I'm out.
06:17Saddle up, partner, you know, to go out on a date.
06:21Yeah.
06:21So and then, you know, having to call an Uber for a date, you know, hey, we're getting
06:25an Uber tonight, which is not necessarily the worst thing, especially if you're going
06:28to have a couple of cocktails or something like that.
06:30It's not the worst thing to do.
06:31True.
06:31But if they just want to have a night out, you guys drive and she doesn't want to take
06:36her car and all you got is a motorcycle.
06:38But I mean, you know, you're just like going shopping or grocery shopping or picket.
06:42What if you have, you know, takeout food?
06:43It's it's going to be hard to figure it out this far.
06:46I guess so.
06:46So I don't know.
06:47I don't think going on another date would hurt them by any means.
06:50But, you know, if she's just kind of nipping this in the bud before it even starts, I
06:54guess, is her.
06:55It sounded like they liked each other, though.
06:57They kept saying they were great.
06:58That's what my whole thing was.
06:59You were great.
07:00You were great.
07:01All right.
07:01Don't talk to you anymore.
07:02All right.
07:03800-992-1099.
07:05800-992-1099.
07:08You can weigh in on this right now.
07:09Would this be a deal breaker for you?
07:10I mean, what would you tell him if it was if you were Kate?
07:14All right.
07:15Hit us up.