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00:00I've... I've checked upstairs and he... he ain't here.
00:16Did he say anything else in the letter?
00:21It's just that... just that he don't want to be a burden.
00:27Listen, I've got to... I've got to find him, all right? I've got to find him.
00:47Please... please... please don't... don't hurt me again. Please.
00:57You, er... seen Nigel?
01:02Earlier, yes.
01:03No, no, recently now. Last hour or so.
01:05Oh, what? Has something else happened?
01:07No, no, er... I just thought he might come in here. I know that he talks to you.
01:12Yes, it does.
01:16When we spoke earlier, he was still shaken by what happened at the egg hunt.
01:20He told me that everything was in hand, but I'm not sure I believe him.
01:24And I'm not sure I believe you right now.
01:27He's, er... he's been planning on taking his own life.
01:39Okay...
01:41You don't seem that surprised.
01:43Well, the way he was talking gave me cause of concern.
01:46Even though he was trying to convince me that he is fine.
01:49Yeah, well... he ain't.
01:51And now he's got missing.
01:53All right, I'll go and come with you.
01:55What are you doing?
01:56I'm coming. We need to look for him.
01:57No, no, no, please. Just stay here, yeah?
01:59He might... he might walk past, see the light, and then come in here.
02:01So, please, just... just stay here.
02:03And let me know if he does, yeah?
02:04All right.
02:05Cheers.
02:06Cheers.
02:16Phil!
02:17Phil!
02:18Oh!
02:19I was talking to Nigel earlier, and, er...
02:21he said that he was worried that he was becoming a burden.
02:24Yeah, I got all that, but, er...
02:25did he say anything about going out tonight?
02:27No. Why?
02:30Later.
02:33I think you should look after him better, Phil.
02:36Just saying.
02:39Phil.
02:42Have you tried calling?
02:43Yeah, of course I tried calling, but there's no answer.
02:45He's...
02:47Maybe... he's done talking.
02:50You don't have to go in there, all right? I'll do it.
02:52No, no, no, no.
02:53If he's in there, this is on me.
02:56You don't have to do this or it's going to set you back.
02:59It won't.
03:06Okay.
03:07Okay.
03:08Okay.
03:09Okay.
03:21I'll do this.
03:23Okay.
03:24It's all now.
03:44We find him.
03:46We find him and we make sure he's on top.
03:49But, you know, that night that he called the mental health me,
03:55I was, well, I was angry, you know, I was angry.
04:00But he did the odd thing.
04:04He was trying to look after me, I understand that.
04:08Now, I'm going to do the same for him.
04:12I'm going to do the odd thing.
04:15Do what? Get him sectioned?
04:17Listen, he's a danger to himself, the same as I was.
04:21It's not the same, Paul. It's not the same at all.
04:23He wants to kill himself. He wants to die, just like I did.
04:30No, finding, finding his note, I mean, it is.
04:34It's probably all like, you know, what I,
04:36what I've brought you all forever long.
04:41I am sorry.
04:43Sorry.
04:44I really thought I was going to find him there, you know, I thought,
05:02I thought I was going to walk through that door and I was going to see him laying there.
05:07I thought I was going to see him laying there just like I saw my mum.
05:11What?
05:26Hello?
05:27Speaking.
05:30It's the hospital.
05:32Is he OK?
05:35Oh, that's such good news.
05:36Yeah, we've been really worried.
05:37I found him. He's safe.
05:40Phil.
05:51Thank God.
05:53We were worried sick.
05:56What happened?
05:57Is someone here?
05:59Phil.
06:00Well, that's not what the nurse out there said.
06:02She said the person who found you thought you'd been mugged.
06:05I fell.
06:07So whatever happened, it should have been me they called, not Linda.
06:11I washed my hands of you.
06:14My memory ain't what it was, but I remember that.
06:18Listen, you're angry with me and I don't blame you.
06:21Stop.
06:24Have they said how long you need to be in here?
06:29Well, I think I might have a...
06:31It's a call when you get a bang on the head.
06:34A concussion?
06:35A concussion, yeah.
06:36And, um...
06:38I won't let you leave on my own because of that.
06:40Good.
06:41Because if they did it, you'd just wander off on your own again, wouldn't you?
06:51He's just worried.
06:53He, um...
06:54He told me what he said to you.
06:56He was angry at the thought of you hurting yourself.
07:05He won't say this because he don't know how.
07:10But he really cares about you.
07:17Do you mind leaving me now?
07:19I need to get dressed.
07:20Listen to me, I know what I'm talking about, all right?
07:31This man is a danger to himself.
07:33Phil, can I have a word?
07:34Yeah, in a minute.
07:34Now.
07:36What?
07:37What are you playing at, eh?
07:38Stopping you from making a mistake.
07:40It's going to be standing by and letting another person hurt themselves.
07:43But trying to get him sectioned is not the answer.
07:45Peter, what happened to Peggy, to you, and what's happening to Nigel now,
07:52and it's all got sort of jumbled up in your head like it's part of the same story, and it's not.
07:56He told me he wants to kill himself.
07:59No, Phil.
08:00What he wants is not to get worse.
08:05You know, Shirley's mum, Sylvie, when she was at her worst near the end,
08:11I promised myself that if that was me, I would not let it come to that.
08:15So I understand.
08:17You know, I may not like it, but I do get it.
08:21He's not depressed and in despair like you were.
08:24He is not an alcoholic like me.
08:27What he's got, you can't recover from.
08:34He is in despair, all right?
08:37And he's frightened.
08:38What am I supposed to do?
08:39Just throw my arms up in here and walk away and let him end it all?
08:43No.
08:45No, look, I don't know.
08:47Just talk to him.
08:50It's his life.
08:51Listen, I'm sorry.
09:08You know, for what I said before at the house, I suppose you scared me.
09:12So, where was you headed tonight?
09:19Uh, well, after talking to Gene, I got worried and, um, I made arrangements to rent a little park home near the coast.
09:33Coast?
09:33You're talking about where on the coast?
09:35Kent.
09:35Um, I forget, I can't remember the town.
09:39I've written it down somewhere.
09:40That was always the plan.
09:44Soon as I felt I was becoming a burden, I'd go live out the rest of my days in a piece by the sea.
09:55I probably should have done it sooner, but I'd hope that being in a familiar place with familiar faces might bring back the good times.
10:10Might even slow down the symptoms.
10:14And I thought I was doing some good.
10:17But what you said, you know, in your note about being a burden, you, you ain't a burden to me.
10:32So come home, yeah, we can, we can take you day by day.
10:38And, um, what you said at the arches about you needing me, well,
10:44there's only the half of it.
10:53How are you feeling?
10:55Yeah, yeah, better, thank you.
10:57Well, the doctor said you can be discharged as long as you've someone with you to keep an eye on you.
11:01Is that the case?
11:03Yeah, yeah, yeah.
11:04Um, I'm going back on the knee.
11:07Good.
11:08Well, I'll leave you to get your things together.
11:10Right, thank you.
11:11Sorry.
11:11Um, you see all this stuff in the news about brain injuries and dementia.
11:17I, I, I just wondered, you know, could a knock to the head make the condition worse?
11:22You'd have to speak to a specialist, but I can't think it will have helped.
11:26Oh, this tap, I'm going to have to, I'm going to have to get a plumber around it.
11:46You, uh, you want to see a copper?
11:49Oh, cheers, yeah, right.
11:53Who's that?
11:54Uh, gee.
11:58Listen, that, uh, that video you made, I know why you made it.
12:01Well, now it's all out in the open, we can talk about it.
12:03You, you don't need it anymore, so you might as well delete it, mightn't you?
12:07Yeah, yeah, right.
12:09I'll delete it.
12:13Now, I'm still master of my own...
12:16You said I'll delete it, and I'll delete it, in my own time.
12:21Back in a minute.
12:27Where you going?
12:29Uh, Jean brought this round, she wants it back.
12:31What, now?
12:32That's what she says.
12:34Well, I'll drop it back, you need, you need the rest, yeah?
12:37I'll make the tea when I get back.
12:39So, if you can't answer, uh, if you get, if you fail the test, then, uh, you've got to take action.
13:02Well, she still can.
13:06No ifs.
13:07No buts.
13:09Fail this test.
13:12And you have to kill yourself, old pal.
13:21What is it? What's happened?
13:23Uh, nothing, uh.
13:25Well, I didn't want to say anything earlier on, but, uh, Nigel went missing.
13:29Oh, and you found him?
13:30Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's fine now.
13:32Well, you're right, yeah, I've, I've got to take better care of him.
13:38Anyway, here you go.
13:40Oh, I gave him that as a present.
13:42What, you said you, uh, said you wanted it back?
13:45How would he say that?
13:47Uh, maybe he's confused.
13:49There's been a lot of that lately.
13:52Thanks.
13:56Question five.
13:57In Smokey and a Bandit, the dog in Smokey and a Bandit, especially chosen by Burt Reynolds, what's his name?
14:07Or her name.
14:10Yeah.
14:15Don't.
14:17Sorry.
14:22Don't know.
14:25I don't know.
14:28I don't know.
14:29what's your game hey you should never ask for this i'm sorry you're trying to get rid of me
14:42or something hey you deleted that video yet niger i don't understand all right i thought
14:50we agreed you don't need it anymore you know that things are gonna get better now
14:54it won't they can't that's what you don't seem to understand things are gonna get bad
15:03and much quicker than i thought where are you going where you go hold you the sea the house
15:08you don't need to go there anymore niger you don't need to go there anymore all right
15:14it's locked have you got the key i've locked it
15:20niger i've locked i've locked that one another you can't keep me prisoner i'm not keeping you
15:27prisoner i'm trying to keep you safe no you're doing what i'm most scared of taking away my decisions
15:34phil please it's time you have to let me go go where go where some crappy little caravan
15:44it's a park this is your own night this this is your home there's nothing you can do there
15:51that you can't do here it'd be worse there you'd be you'd be alone wouldn't you
15:54you know you need a place to spend the days you've got left this this is it
15:59what
16:03i think we're a bit past the cloak and dagger stage if you've got anything to say you can tell me i'm
16:10i'm your mate and i i failed
16:13the um
16:19cognitive test i made for myself i failed i failed it just now
16:25it's just so i don't mean nothing means everything it's just some stupid question questions that i
16:32rely on that i promised myself i'd act on before it's too late you have to let me go listen you're
16:38stressed all right you don't know apples from oranges right now you're just taking a massive
16:41blow to the head yes which has speeded everything up like that nurse said no she never said that
16:47something's changed nothing changes that quickly nigel all right now and just park yourself up
16:54because you ain't going anywhere until you see sense i am seeing sense that's the whole point
17:01but in a week a month i might not remember i might not even care then what does it matter hey what's it matter
17:10because i care now
17:15and i want this nigel to make the decisions this me
17:27i never thought what my life could be like when this disease takes hold
17:42it's not it's not just a case of having a dodgy memory it's um it's just not being able to walk
17:51or wash myself or even wipe me on the backside
17:54sitting in some home being fed like a child by someone i told you
18:03i want to be me
18:13right to the end
18:16now do you understand
18:21phil
18:31phil
18:36phil
18:40you should uh you should call julie tell her what you're planning because that's the least you can do
18:49no i i don't want that for her i didn't want this for you
18:57never want there to be a burden
19:00what are you listening back at the hospital right
19:03you ain't a burden all right
19:05you never were you never could be because because you you saved me
19:11no anyone would have done what i did that night
19:14no not that night not just there here in this house every day since i left the unit
19:19you you saved me night
19:22fred
19:24the name of the basset allen in smoky and the bandit i remembered
19:33fred
19:34i was about to do it
19:43i would have i would have done it
19:45oh my god
19:47you know
19:49you know a while ago i i spent the best part of the year thinking i was 59 actually i was
19:58i was 58
20:00no dementia or no dementia we all we all forget things we all make mistakes
20:05doesn't change things really this uh this disease is going to beat me in the end
20:12nige
20:14nige we all get beaten in the end
20:16you know you're you're worried about your your future
20:21but the future that you imagined it it don't have to go down like that
20:26now i will do everything i can to to change things
20:30so that you feel like that you're in control yeah
20:35and if you know when the time comes for you to move on
20:39you don't have to live in some boxy little shoe box
20:44there's places you can go good good places full of good
20:47people kind respecting caring people that will look after you
20:52just
20:55just think about it
20:57yeah
21:00yeah
21:26oliver cut the cheese and toast
21:30i saw you as i was leaving the lord did you find him
21:33yeah
21:34how is he well he's uh he's safe at least but i think the rest is going to take
21:38time
21:42he's lucky to have a friend like you i don't know about that
21:44well he just about having a mistake in the book today but uh well i think we might turn the corner
21:50so what next he don't like the look of what's coming down the line i can't say i blame him but
21:55well i'm gonna look into some care homes
21:57and what is wrong with the home that he is in right now
22:03greater love has no one than this
22:09to lay down one's life for one's friends
22:11it's obvious that you care very much about him and it strikes me that nigel is already exactly where
22:20he should be
22:58Sonia, it's me, Phil.
23:20Listen, I don't even know what time it is where you are.
23:24Jess.
23:25Listen, I've had this idea, and I need you to tell me whether it's a stupid idea or not.
23:39All right.
23:39Hi there.
23:40All right.
23:43It's, uh, hammer cheese.
23:45Oh, simple potions.
23:48Yeah.
23:50I've, uh, I've been thinking.
23:55You know, uh, about how we could make this work.
24:00Please, Phil, enough talking.
24:03Listen, if I don't say this now, then I'll never say it, all right?
24:08So just, just, just hear me out.
24:11I don't know how much time you've got left, you know.
24:14None of us know that, do we?
24:16But what time you have got, you know, don't have to, don't have to be like you said, you know,
24:20people looking after you that, that, that don't know you.
24:26Stay here and, how do I look after you?
24:30Are you offering to be my carer?
24:33Yeah.
24:35Yeah, I suppose I am.
24:36What?
24:43I don't know.
24:43I'm, um, surprised.
24:47And I'm, I'm touched.
24:51But I can't let you do that, even if it were possible.
24:54Well, it is possible.
24:55I just spoke with Sonia.
24:55She said, as long as we get some support in, we, we could do it.
24:58I don't want you to do that.
25:00Yeah, because you don't want to be a burden.
25:02And I, I understand that.
25:05But you ain't a burden, all right?
25:07You know, we've, we've talked before, haven't we, about, you know, how, what led me to the
25:18Arches that night.
25:20Well, you know, I've always, I've always had a purpose in life.
25:23Whether it was sticking a finger up to my old man, or making money, looking after my
25:30mum, looking after family.
25:31I've, I've always had a purpose, but I ain't got them things anymore.
25:34I have.
25:36I have got you.
25:39Now here, you, you be safe, you, you be looked after, and you be, you be treated with dignity.
25:46I promise you.
25:47You have no idea how bad it could get.
25:55Well, whatever comes, you know, we'll, we'll prepare for it.
25:59We'll deal with it together.
26:02And, you know, on the plus side, you get to eat a few more cheese and ham toasties.
26:11This, this ain't about me saving you.
26:14This is about saving both of us.
26:17And you, you commit to staying here, I will commit to looking after you.
26:24All right?
26:26Till the end.
26:34Till the end.
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