In this video, we'll discuss the nine signs of powerful sexual connection. These signs will help you identify and understand your sexual attraction, so that you can enjoy a More Powerful Sexual Relationship!
The More Powerful Sexual Relationship begins with understanding your own sexual attraction. In this video, we'll discuss the nine signs of powerful sexual connection and help you to identify and understand your own sexual attraction. From this understanding, you can develop a powerful sexual connection that will help you to enjoy your relationships to the fullest!
The More Powerful Sexual Relationship begins with understanding your own sexual attraction. In this video, we'll discuss the nine signs of powerful sexual connection and help you to identify and understand your own sexual attraction. From this understanding, you can develop a powerful sexual connection that will help you to enjoy your relationships to the fullest!
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00:00 Was there ever a time where you felt a spark
00:02 with someone you were talking to?
00:04 Maybe it was a blind date or someone you've met in a bar,
00:07 but it felt like there was a connection.
00:10 Or maybe you felt a spark while reading a romance novel.
00:12 And so you're curious about in-person sexual tension.
00:15 Sexual tension is when we feel sexual attraction
00:18 or chemistry with someone, but don't have sex,
00:21 either right away or ever.
00:23 Our brains can often judge
00:24 how we feel about someone quickly.
00:26 A 2015 University of Pennsylvania study
00:29 of over 10,000 participants
00:31 found that most people make their decisions
00:32 about attractiveness
00:33 within the first three seconds of meeting someone.
00:36 And considering our bodies respond
00:37 to the signals our brains send out,
00:39 we might notice some signs of attraction
00:41 and sexual tension between us and our person of interest.
00:44 Now, with all aspects of sex and sexual attraction,
00:47 it's important to be aware
00:49 that some signs of sexual tension can be misread.
00:52 What you might think of as awkward but fun flirting
00:55 might be someone else's, "I'm feeling uncomfortable."
00:58 So go slowly with these things
00:59 and be careful about reading the signs.
01:01 Here are nine signs
01:03 you might be experiencing sexual tension.
01:06 Number one, attraction.
01:08 The first and very obvious sign
01:09 of sexual tension is attraction.
01:12 We can feel a connection with a new person
01:13 that isn't sexual at all.
01:15 So a big difference between a friendly connection
01:17 and a romantic one is the attraction part.
01:20 So your first question to tell
01:21 if what you're feeling is sexual tension is to ask yourself,
01:25 am I attracted to this person?
01:27 Do you find yourself checking them out?
01:29 Remember, our brains know these things
01:31 sometimes before we realize it.
01:33 Take a moment to think about
01:34 how you feel about your new interest.
01:36 It's a good way to get in touch
01:37 with your own thoughts and feelings before you go further.
01:40 You might not be able to tell
01:41 if you're special someone feels the same,
01:43 but maybe with some of these other signs,
01:45 you can get a better idea.
01:47 Two, awkwardness.
01:49 This isn't always present,
01:50 but sometimes if we're attracted to someone
01:52 and still figuring out our own thoughts
01:53 and feelings about them, we might feel awkward.
01:56 We might be too busy thinking about the right thing to say,
02:00 or we just keep quiet
02:01 to make sure we don't say the wrong thing.
02:03 This can lead to a bit of awkwardness
02:05 until we're a little more sure of ourselves
02:07 and the other person.
02:08 But it's important to remember that awkwardness
02:10 can also be a sign of other things, such as shyness.
02:13 So while awkward conversations
02:14 can be a sign of sexual tension,
02:16 it shouldn't be the only way to judge it.
02:19 Number three, immediate connection.
02:22 On the complete opposite side of awkwardness,
02:24 you might both feel an intense
02:25 and instant connection to one another.
02:28 You've probably heard people describe the feeling
02:29 of having known this person for a long time
02:31 despite having just met.
02:33 You might feel that same sense of connection
02:35 as you talk to them.
02:36 This chemistry, the way you two just seem to click
02:40 could indicate a level of attraction or sexual tension.
02:44 Number four, similarities.
02:46 You might've heard that opposites attract,
02:48 but in some cases of attraction, like attracts like.
02:51 So in addition to an immediate connection,
02:53 you might also notice that you and them
02:55 share a lot of similar features.
02:57 This could include shared interests, hobbies, or goals,
03:00 but it might also include
03:01 having similar physical features as well,
03:03 such as the same hair or eye color.
03:05 Scientists call this assortive mating,
03:07 where we bond or connect with people
03:09 based on similarities we can observe.
03:11 So it's possible that those similarities you're recognizing
03:14 might be a piece of attraction,
03:16 and it could be contributing to that immediate connection
03:18 you're hopefully both feeling.
03:20 Number five, speedy heart and sweaty palms.
03:24 We usually tell kids that butterflies in the stomach
03:26 mean we like someone.
03:27 That's not far off.
03:29 Do you notice your heart starts racing more
03:31 around that special someone,
03:32 or do you notice your palms start to get a little sweaty?
03:35 These are usually signs of attraction.
03:37 But in a 2022 study that set men and women up on blind dates,
03:41 it found that those who were mutually attracted
03:44 to one another experienced heart rates and sweaty palms
03:47 that increased and decreased at the same time.
03:50 Why does this happen?
03:51 Well, it could be because attraction
03:53 is often caused by hormones like adrenaline
03:55 and norepinephrine getting ramped up,
03:57 which leads us to getting excited,
03:59 hence the racing hearts and sweaty palms.
04:02 So if you and your partner are both noticing these signs,
04:05 you might be feeling a touch of sexual tension.
04:07 Number six, touch that excites both of you.
04:11 Are you both feeling a little touchy?
04:13 No, I don't mean you're feeling grumpy,
04:15 but are you both finding little ways to touch each other?
04:18 This could be the brush of a hand
04:19 or a light touch on the arm,
04:21 or even leaning closer to one another when talking.
04:24 If you're hugging, you might notice
04:25 that you both hang on a little longer
04:27 than you would with others.
04:29 When we find someone attractive,
04:30 we wanna get closer to them.
04:31 And one of the ways we do that is through touch.
04:34 But the touches are usually ones that affect both of you.
04:36 You're both feeling some level of excitement from them.
04:39 So if you're finding that both of you
04:41 are touching each other slightly more,
04:43 that may be a sign
04:44 that you're both experiencing sexual tension.
04:46 Number seven, you enjoy one another's company.
04:50 Do you both find that you can't get enough of one another?
04:53 You can talk for hours and hours
04:55 and still not be tired of each other.
04:57 Maybe you realize you feel immediately comfortable
04:59 with each other,
05:00 or you both feel secure in each other's company.
05:02 And you might even be a little worried
05:04 that when you both separate for the evening,
05:06 you'll miss the conversation
05:07 or feel like you even missed an opportunity.
05:10 Sure, some of these signs can also mean
05:12 you're experiencing a friendly connection,
05:14 but when you combine it with the attraction part,
05:16 it's usually a good indicator
05:18 that sexual tension is occurring.
05:20 Eight, your conversations are very flirty.
05:23 While you're enjoying your endless conversations,
05:25 you might also be finding your talk is a little flirtatious.
05:29 Are some dirty jokes coming up?
05:31 Does complimenting each other come naturally?
05:33 And are you finding you're both bouncing off each other
05:36 in the same playful way?
05:37 If so, this may be a good sign
05:39 you're both feeling sexual tension.
05:41 But if you're finding you're a bit alone on the flirts,
05:43 don't be too pushy.
05:44 There's nothing that'll kill sexual tension quicker
05:47 than trying to force the connection.
05:49 And number nine, you continue thinking about them
05:51 after you've separated.
05:54 A big sign you're feeling sexual tension
05:56 is that they're still on your mind
05:57 even after you've been separated for a bit.
06:00 Are you constantly thinking about your conversations
06:02 or how good they looked in their outfit?
06:04 Or maybe you're trying to figure out
06:05 what your next conversation will be.
06:07 Perhaps you're also thinking about when you'll see them next.
06:10 If you continue to think about them
06:11 no matter how much time you spent together,
06:13 you might be experiencing some attraction.
06:16 If you find out the other person is feeling the same,
06:18 that's probably a good indication
06:20 you're both feeling sexual tension.
06:22 Navigating the world of dating and sex
06:24 can sometimes be a challenging thing.
06:27 What we think is a sign of attraction
06:28 can be someone else's shyness or even discomfort.
06:31 It's important to remember that even using these signs,
06:34 it needs to be felt on both ends.
06:36 And while we can't always tell
06:38 what someone else is feeling,
06:39 it's good to understand our own feelings
06:41 about someone else.
06:42 Sexual tension can be a fun and exciting start
06:44 to something more meaningful,
06:46 but only if we're sure both people
06:48 are feeling that same pull.
06:50 Have you ever had a time
06:51 where you experienced sexual tension with someone else?
06:53 Let us know in the comments below.
06:55 Thanks for watching
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