Aired (June 9, 2024): “Nagtrabaho ‘yung nanay ko nang maigi para ako kaya kong maging ‘yung nanay na gusto ko para sa mga anak ko.” - Andi Eigenmann
Aminado daw si Andi Eigenmann na hindi sila pareho ni Jaclyn Jose pagdating sa pagde-desisyon bilang ina. Ngunit, wala raw nakikitang mali si Andi sa pagiging ‘career-driven’ ng kanyang ina na si Jaclyn dahil maganda rin ibinunga nito ngayong isa na rin siyang ina.
Aminado daw si Andi Eigenmann na hindi sila pareho ni Jaclyn Jose pagdating sa pagde-desisyon bilang ina. Ngunit, wala raw nakikitang mali si Andi sa pagiging ‘career-driven’ ng kanyang ina na si Jaclyn dahil maganda rin ibinunga nito ngayong isa na rin siyang ina.
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00:01That's it?
00:02That's it?
00:03It's like food.
00:05Ma'am, that's a lot.
00:08It's like there's no pandemic.
00:10It's not just about time.
00:13But we're still following the IATF.
00:16It's a highlight.
00:18So, that's how it is.
00:20You're right.
00:22You're right.
00:24We'll be waiting for you.
00:26Wait for us.
00:28Bye.
00:29In some of her interviews,
00:31she sometimes asks,
00:33Jane, if you were to choose
00:37between
00:39career,
00:40and family,
00:41and your children,
00:43your mother always says,
00:45career.
00:46I have a question, Andy.
00:49When you hear that,
00:50do you get angry?
00:52No.
00:53Do you get mad?
00:54Actually,
00:55she doesn't tell me that.
00:58But even if I didn't ask her that,
01:00and I didn't hear her answer,
01:02I know,
01:03I know that
01:05that's what she'll answer.
01:06But you understand that?
01:07Yeah.
01:08Make us understand.
01:09Because that's for me.
01:12She chose her career.
01:16For us,
01:17that's my brother.
01:20I feel like,
01:23to her,
01:25my career is important
01:27because this is what gives me life.
01:29And this is my way.
01:30This is the best way
01:32I can find
01:33to give my children a good life.
01:36And it's true.
01:37My life is beautiful.
01:39My life is beautiful.
01:41And I'm very lucky.
01:43And I know that my life is beautiful
01:45and I'm lucky
01:46because of her.
01:48Looking back,
01:49now that she's gone,
01:50now that she's with the Lord,
01:53do you have a better understanding of her?
01:56I would say that
01:58her weight is different now that she's gone.
02:01But since I left Manila,
02:05when I moved to Siargao,
02:07and I left the industry,
02:09somehow,
02:10I was able to understand
02:13all the things that my mother went through
02:16and all the decisions that my mother made in her life.
02:19It's just different for me.
02:21But if I was asked if I would choose my career or my family,
02:25my answer would be different.
02:27But it doesn't mean that I don't appreciate her choices
02:31and that I don't respect it.
02:33You know?
02:34We can have different beliefs,
02:36different opinions,
02:37but we can still accept,
02:39understand,
02:40and love each other.
02:41We're going to make something.
02:43What's like our body?
02:46Mommy, find the ship.
02:51She was so cute because
02:53he packed his own bag.
02:56What's the difference between
02:58raising your mother
03:00as opposed to raising your children?
03:03Fundamental differences.
03:05Very different.
03:06I feel like my mom,
03:08she showered me with a lot of love.
03:11I was sheltered with the help of
03:13the people around her that love her.
03:15Me and Lorraine,
03:16my aunt,
03:17her sister,
03:18and also my mom's other siblings,
03:20they're a big family.
03:21So my aunts and uncles were there
03:24to help my mom
03:25when she was raising me.
03:27So she can work or leave us.
03:30But of course,
03:32even so,
03:34in a way,
03:35I was in a place of comfort.
03:36But at the same time,
03:37I still had room to be more independent
03:41because my mom wasn't there.
03:44She was working.
03:45Yes, she was working.
03:46It doesn't mean that it's a bad thing.
03:49But she wasn't there all the time
03:51because she was working.
03:52For my children,
03:53I just wanted to do the opposite.
03:57And again,
03:58it's not because I didn't agree with my mom.
04:01I just wanted something different.
04:02I just wanted to be there for my kids.
04:05So now,
04:06I want to be there all the time.
04:09I won't allow her to eat breakfast
04:12when I'm not around.
04:14Or you know,
04:15things like that.
04:16I want hands-on.
04:17I'm a homeschooling mom.
04:18Yes.
04:19So I am the one that teaches my children.
04:27What I'm hearing is that
04:28when you grow up,
04:30your mom will often work.
04:33What I'm doing now,
04:34I want to be present in my children's life.
04:38Not because
04:41I deliberately want to be different from my mother.
04:45I am just really different
04:47and she was just different.
04:48Yes.
04:49The thing is,
04:50to put it this way,
04:51my mom worked hard
04:53so that I could do this.
04:55Yes.
04:56My mom worked hard
04:57I love the way you say that.
04:58so that I could be the mom
05:01that I want for my children.
05:02Correct.
05:03I believe that
05:04I won't be able to make this decision in my life
05:06and I won't be this kind of mother
05:08but because of my mom.
05:10And you are the mother that you are
05:12because of her.
05:14And I'm not ashamed.
05:15I'm not ashamed to say
05:16that my mom and I are different.
05:18My mom and I are different
05:19to the point that sometimes we don't agree.
05:21That's why we are different.
05:23She gave me a blank space.
05:26She gave me a room with no content.
05:29She didn't dictate who I should be
05:31or what I should be.
05:33She allowed you.
05:34She let me flourish
05:35and bloom into my own person.
05:37In one of her interviews with OG,
05:40she said,
05:41yes, I accept.
05:44This is a paraphrase.
05:45I'm afraid of my children.
05:46I'm afraid of Andy,
05:48especially because he's usually right.
05:52You heard about it?
05:53Yeah.
05:54I feel like that's in relation to me saying
05:56that my love for my mom
05:59is sometimes tough love.
06:01When she's getting older,
06:03I want her to make certain decisions
06:06that are more her priority
06:08but she doesn't want that.
06:09She still wants us to be her priority
06:11even though we have our own family and life.
06:13She doesn't want that.
06:14She wants to love us more.
06:17Your mom is afraid of you.
06:19Are you afraid of Ellie?
06:21Oh my.
06:22Yes.
06:25Because,
06:27Ellie, as my firstborn,
06:30I'm happy that
06:31now I'm raising Lilo and Koa with Philmar
06:34in a way that I,
06:35and I'm being the mother that I've always wanted to be.
06:38With Lilo and Koa?
06:39Yes.
06:40That's thanks to my mom.
06:41But,
06:42the realization and putting myself here,
06:45it was Ellie that paved the way to that.
06:54All of my decisions,
06:55sometimes not literally or not directly,
06:57but all of my decisions in life before
06:59that led me here
07:00is to give her a good life as well.
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