Married at first sight Australia S. 11Ep. 08
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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:02Here we go!
00:00:03This is exciting!
00:00:05Our newlyweds moved in together.
00:00:07I can't wait to see you in that pool.
00:00:09I'll be sitting here watching you with a bucket of fried chicken.
00:00:14As they entered the next phase of the experiment.
00:00:17It's Confessions Week.
00:00:19Great!
00:00:20Tell me it's a prostate exam, I'll be more excited.
00:00:23The phone swath exposed Jack's most recent past.
00:00:27Clearly something on there I didn't want you to see.
00:00:29I'm sure this is you proposing.
00:00:31As Jaden's confession triggered his wife Eden.
00:00:35I'm just in shock.
00:00:37Wait, he told you that?
00:00:39Before the return of the photo ranking.
00:00:41I don't want to do it.
00:00:42Brought some couples.
00:00:44You're my number one.
00:00:45Closer together.
00:00:46You're my handsome husband.
00:00:48The very top.
00:00:49Cool.
00:00:50But for Andrea and Richard.
00:00:52I'm going to put you.
00:00:54It was their first setback.
00:00:56It literally hurt a lot.
00:00:58And I don't know how to come back from that.
00:01:03Tonight.
00:01:04Which one is this lady?
00:01:05Sarah.
00:01:06Sarah.
00:01:07Casey I think her name is.
00:01:08Catherine.
00:01:09Edith.
00:01:10Eden.
00:01:11He's old enough to be my grandad.
00:01:13But I'm a savage so.
00:01:14I'm feeling good.
00:01:16Which one of these two.
00:01:20Confessions Week continues.
00:01:22This is why I haven't tried to kiss you.
00:01:24I really care about you and I don't want the fear to ruin our potential relationship with you.
00:01:27As Tristan reveals deep scars from the past.
00:01:31I'm so grateful that he felt safe enough to share that with me.
00:01:35Plus.
00:01:36There's nothing there.
00:01:37Just trust me.
00:01:40Is Sarah hiding something from Tim?
00:01:42Obviously she doesn't want me to see certain things on her phone.
00:01:46Um.
00:01:47Can't take these ladies to bed.
00:01:48I'm sorry.
00:01:49And Jack tackles the photo task.
00:01:52Don't want to walk home with someone that's six inches taller than me.
00:01:55I'm going to feel like a little bitch by the time I get home.
00:01:57But where will he place Tori?
00:01:59Um.
00:02:01Convince your husband you're the hottest.
00:02:03Boy you're the hottest.
00:02:04Fuck.
00:02:20Confessions Week is a chance for our couples to accelerate the process of getting to know each other.
00:02:26But sharing a home for the first time may also be an opportunity to reveal to each other
00:02:32some of their nocturnal behaviours.
00:02:36Oh the other night.
00:02:38What was it like talking to me?
00:02:40Was I sleep talking?
00:02:42Yeah.
00:02:43No I was not.
00:02:45Did you sleep alright?
00:02:46You didn't hit me this time in your sleep which is always good.
00:02:49You know.
00:02:50I'm glad to hear you.
00:02:51You're definitely still taking up all the bed but that's okay.
00:02:53This testing phase has so far strengthened the bond for some couples.
00:02:58When I met you and you said that you cooked scrambled eggs I was like let's just get married.
00:03:04Like honestly.
00:03:05You had me at eggs.
00:03:06Yeah you had me at eggs.
00:03:07Yeah.
00:03:08I think over if I make you an omelette we should maybe discuss.
00:03:14There's a fried chicken place around the corner that I really want to try.
00:03:17But for others the search for domestic bliss continues.
00:03:21You should actually come and learn how to do this Jack.
00:03:24Because one day I may be unable to.
00:03:28Confessions Week is a crucial part of the experiment.
00:03:32We want to develop levels of emotional connection between our couples which would normally take months or even years to create.
00:03:39The vulnerability our couples show in this intense phase will go a long way to solidifying their bond.
00:03:46And if they're both completely open and honest the end result will be a greater understanding of one another and the chance at a lasting connection.
00:03:58Oh my goodness.
00:04:02From the moment they first met Andrea and Richard quickly established themselves as one of the strongest couples in the experiment.
00:04:10That's very good.
00:04:11Look at you go.
00:04:12Have you done this before?
00:04:13No.
00:04:14Oh.
00:04:15I want to come back here.
00:04:17Eh?
00:04:18For our first anniversary.
00:04:19You reckon?
00:04:20You'll come back yeah?
00:04:21Yeah.
00:04:23Oh.
00:04:28However things changed for Andrea during the photo ranking task.
00:04:33When Richard unexpectedly ranked her third in attractiveness.
00:04:40It just looks nothing else.
00:04:41Yeah.
00:04:42I'm going to put you over here.
00:04:45A hundred percent.
00:04:47Which is not bad.
00:04:53After the challenge I'm not feeling super sparkly at the moment.
00:04:58All of that sort of thing that was rolling really nicely has kind of just made a little hole.
00:05:04Like I always want my men to think I'm awesome and I think they're awesome kind of thing.
00:05:11So it's not nice when you kind of get like you know shuffled down a bit.
00:05:15But realistically I'm not as good looking as those girls.
00:05:23I'm 51.
00:05:26But you're more attractive to me than any of them.
00:05:29You got that yeah?
00:05:31But that's not what, that's not what you put though.
00:05:37You know that's obviously, I don't want that for you.
00:05:40It bursted my bubble a little bit.
00:05:42Just a tiny bit.
00:05:44I'm not as special as I thought I was.
00:05:47That's how it made me feel.
00:05:49But like I get it and I appreciate your honesty.
00:05:56And yeah I just have to let that sink in a bit.
00:05:59Okay.
00:06:02I didn't realise that I have upset her.
00:06:06It makes me feel like a right piece of shit to be honest with you.
00:06:11And clearly that was a bad, poor decision.
00:06:14I f***ed up.
00:06:15And we've got so much going for us.
00:06:17So I need to fix it.
00:06:20Yeah, shame on me.
00:06:25As Confessions Week reaches its midway point,
00:06:28Eden and Jaden are yet to speak to each other after Jaden's confronting confessions letter.
00:06:36My ex-girlfriend cheated on me.
00:06:38She was going on dinner dates, movie dates.
00:06:41And I even had guys openly admit to me in person that they had slept with her.
00:06:46I told her that I was willing to give her another chance.
00:06:49But I'm going to sleep with her best friend in front of her while she watches.
00:06:56One of her friends agreed to do it.
00:06:59Do you regret that though?
00:07:01I don't regret it.
00:07:02Okay.
00:07:04You alright?
00:07:05Yeah, I just want to go feel like myself somewhere.
00:07:10It is confusing why anyone would do that.
00:07:13An over the top kind of revenge reaction.
00:07:16I just don't think it's necessary to upset someone else because you're upset yourself.
00:07:21That kind of just showed that he can't handle his reactions to a situation.
00:07:25I think telling her that story definitely triggered her and she might hold it against me.
00:07:30I just don't know why you'd come up with that as the solution.
00:07:33Like it just blows my mind.
00:07:35Yeah.
00:07:36I think the most concerning part for me is when I said to you, do you regret it?
00:07:42And you said no.
00:07:44Like the act of what happened is twisted.
00:07:46Like it is.
00:07:47But it felt like you were proud of it.
00:07:52I was in a place where I was hurt.
00:07:54And when you give and give and give every chance and you're hoping that something's going to work out.
00:07:59Over and over again you keep getting hurt.
00:08:02It pushed me to a place where I was like, I was really upset to a point where I just didn't know how to handle it.
00:08:07And unfortunately I didn't handle things the right way.
00:08:11I just went and did something stupid.
00:08:12Yeah.
00:08:13And I think it's good that you're acknowledging that right now.
00:08:15But like in the heat of the conversation you couldn't even acknowledge that it wasn't the right thing to do at the time.
00:08:21Which again is the thing about reaction.
00:08:24For me reactions and being irrational is like the one thing that I really, really don't like.
00:08:31And it doesn't work for me.
00:08:35At all.
00:08:36So like I just need you to be remorseful of things that you want to grow from.
00:08:40I soon think if I was in the same position right now I wouldn't do it.
00:08:43Okay.
00:08:44That's how I think of it.
00:08:46But it is going to have to be something I have to work on when things come up that I'm hurt and heartbroken or upset about.
00:08:53I'm going to have to learn to handle those situations using my head and not my emotions.
00:08:57Because I have a lot of learning to do.
00:08:59Yeah.
00:09:00And a lot of experts to teach us.
00:09:01Mm-hmm.
00:09:03I'm hoping that she'll give me the chance to sort of prove to her that I'm a different person, this is a different time.
00:09:08But honestly I don't know if she can forgive this.
00:09:12As I said, if I see the way you react about a decision that I've made, of course I'm going to want to change it.
00:09:20Yeah.
00:09:23I just feel like you're better than that and you need to react better than that.
00:09:27I'm going to be.
00:09:29Maybe not yet, but I'm going to be.
00:09:31That's good to know.
00:09:37As well as having tough conversations during Confessions Week,
00:09:41our couples must also complete tasks aimed at revealing their genuine feelings towards one another.
00:09:49But for Collins and Natalie, they've had to navigate this crucial phase of the experiment while living in separate apartments.
00:10:11Hey!
00:10:12Morning.
00:10:13How are you?
00:10:14Good, yourself? Sorry.
00:10:15Good, good.
00:10:16Just doing my hair.
00:10:17Good to see you.
00:10:18Good to see you too.
00:10:19On their wedding day, Natalie was smitten with her new husband.
00:10:25I do feel a spark with Collins.
00:10:28Every time he touches me I just go, oh, this is nice, this is so nice.
00:10:31We walk?
00:10:32Yeah, we walk.
00:10:35However, Collins' initial feelings for Natalie weren't quite clear.
00:10:40That's a good lady.
00:10:41That's a really, really good lady.
00:10:44Do you know that lady's name?
00:10:46Oh, Nikki, of course.
00:10:48Are you looking after my girl?
00:10:50Yeah, God yeah, yes.
00:10:53And after seeing how close the other couples were at the dinner party,
00:10:58I just don't think I can push myself through this.
00:11:01Natalie decided to make an early exit.
00:11:04Whatever makes you happy.
00:11:06Loving husband.
00:11:09I just wanted to come and say goodbye.
00:11:11Goodbye?
00:11:14Oh my God.
00:11:18That's goodbye for me too.
00:11:23But after having decided to stay in the experiment,
00:11:26the experts are fast tracking their relationship,
00:11:29asking them to take on the photo ranking task.
00:11:32This exercise may be confronting and uncomfortable,
00:11:35but it'll give you a better understanding of one another
00:11:38at this early stage of the experiment.
00:11:41There you go.
00:11:42Yeah.
00:11:43Oh, easy.
00:11:44Easy.
00:11:45I'm glad that we finally get to address the physical attraction side
00:11:49of Collins and I,
00:11:51because we haven't really been able to speak about it
00:11:54and speak about it in detail.
00:11:56All right, let's go.
00:11:59So I'm really happy that this is going to force him to say how he feels
00:12:03and how he feels in terms of his level of attraction to me,
00:12:08Lauren.
00:12:10Yeah.
00:12:11Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:12:14Let's have a go.
00:12:15Yeah, we'll put this.
00:12:16Which one is this lady?
00:12:17Sarah.
00:12:18Sarah.
00:12:21There you go, Sarah.
00:12:23Very nice.
00:12:26Oh, Casey, I think her name is.
00:12:28Cass.
00:12:29Cass.
00:12:30Cass is very nice.
00:12:32Then Eden.
00:12:34Eden.
00:12:35Very nice.
00:12:40And then for me, this lady.
00:12:43Ellie.
00:12:44Ellie.
00:12:47Yeah, I'm happy with that.
00:12:51The brides, they're all very physically fit
00:12:54and traditionally very good looking
00:12:57and I'm not, you know, that athletic kind of look.
00:13:02Yeah.
00:13:03Yeah.
00:13:07Do you have any insecurities at all
00:13:09that you think will come out during the experiment?
00:13:16I'm not the typical bleached blonde Bondi babe.
00:13:22I kind of had that sense of, am I pretty?
00:13:27But then I love who I am inside.
00:13:31I like that.
00:13:32So what does that actually look like practically
00:13:35from the guy that you're with?
00:13:36I just want someone who accepts me for me
00:13:39and is true to themselves
00:13:41and isn't putting all these shields up
00:13:44and someone who's genuine.
00:13:48All right, Collins, you happy to rank me?
00:13:51Absolutely.
00:13:54This is pretty straightforward, as I've said.
00:13:57As I said from day dot, when I turned around,
00:13:59I saw someone who was just like beaming, glowing.
00:14:02And the best way I know is the smile in your eyes.
00:14:06I look like, yeah, I'm about to cry in that photo,
00:14:09but anyway.
00:14:12I do doubt what he says at times.
00:14:15He starts to do that surface level performance.
00:14:19Yeah.
00:14:20And he ranks me higher than,
00:14:23I felt like it was just an easy answer.
00:14:36You know, you'd ranked physical fitness
00:14:38and good looks together, so I just wanted to...
00:14:40Yeah, my mind says that all three of those work
00:14:42kind of go hand in hand.
00:14:43You're living a healthy lifestyle,
00:14:45you're doing physical exercise.
00:14:46I think you're going to look good.
00:14:48Exactly.
00:14:49Yeah.
00:14:50Do you not think you live a healthy lifestyle?
00:14:52I do, I do.
00:14:53I'm just not as physically fit as some of the other girls.
00:14:56That's what you're saying, but I don't see it that way.
00:14:59Yeah.
00:15:00I really do, hence why you're number one.
00:15:03That's just a very, very good looking lady.
00:15:08Yeah.
00:15:10Yeah.
00:15:11Yeah.
00:15:12If all the girls are lined up, I would 100% say
00:15:15Yeah.
00:15:16If all the girls are lined up, I would 100%.
00:15:18Still picking that, definitely.
00:15:20Even in that photo.
00:15:23I would.
00:15:24Because she's a very gorgeous girl.
00:15:26Very gorgeous looking girl.
00:15:27Lady.
00:15:29Hair.
00:15:30I'm into the hair.
00:15:31Your hair's on point.
00:15:33She's real honest.
00:15:36It feels good to know that I find her really attractive.
00:15:46After realising he'd upset Andrea during the photo ranking task...
00:15:53Breathe in deeply.
00:15:56Richard is trying hard to repair their relationship.
00:16:00I'll tell you why.
00:16:01If you want anything in the world, all you have to do is massage me.
00:16:05The ranking of number three based on looks was pretty well thought out.
00:16:10The ranking of number three based on looks was pretty well thought out.
00:16:15So I'm going to make sure she feels special all the time.
00:16:20Is that it?
00:16:21That's the spot.
00:16:22Yeah.
00:16:23Massage is my love language.
00:16:26Really deep.
00:16:27So I appreciate his trying and I know he cares about me.
00:16:35Yeah?
00:16:36So good, thank you.
00:16:37On your head.
00:16:39As Confessions Week continues, it's Ellie and Ben's turn to take on the next task.
00:16:46I guess we'll open this one first.
00:16:50So the alignment of values is one of the most critical components of any successful relationship.
00:16:55Inside this envelope are 12 key traits that you must place in order from most important to least important.
00:17:02Yeah, I can't wait to see what they are.
00:17:04The values ranking task will help our couples identify whether their core values align or differ.
00:17:10Universally, intelligence, personality and a sense of humour tend to be the most desirable traits in a life partner.
00:17:17Testing whether these key values are similar is crucial to assessing the chances as a couple in the outside world.
00:17:24I'm pretty excited to do this one.
00:17:26I feel that from what I've gathered from you so far, like the information, that we kind of have the same values and morals.
00:17:37From the moment they met, Ellie and Ben seemed like the perfect match.
00:17:43Wow.
00:17:44Hi.
00:17:47He just seemed so lovely standing there, like looked into my eyes, like it was great.
00:17:52And I just feel like the experts did such a great job.
00:17:56Holy shit, she's beautiful.
00:17:58Despite their immediate chemistry, Ben's motivation for being in the experiment was soon brought into question by Ellie's cousin Jordan.
00:18:07I'm just going to be completely frank with you.
00:18:09I have concerns that you might be here to promote your touring business, promote your podcast.
00:18:16You're just here for fame.
00:18:18But despite some early doubts, the experts hope that the values task will highlight the possibility of a shared future for Ellie and Ben.
00:18:30From what I recall Ben was saying, you know, he said he's 39, he really is looking to settle down and have a start a family.
00:18:37And I'm very much at that stage as well.
00:18:43How important is it for you to become a mum?
00:18:46I definitely see myself becoming a mother.
00:18:49But I, like, I have to find the right guy to do that with.
00:18:54Like, yeah, I wouldn't rush into anything.
00:18:57But I, yeah, I've got a body clock.
00:19:00Yeah?
00:19:01Yeah.
00:19:02And you can hear it?
00:19:03Yeah, tick, tick.
00:19:04Uh-huh.
00:19:05But I want to be in a loving relationship rather than just finding someone to have children with for the sake of it.
00:19:11Yeah, I want a partner in crime and someone to do life with and have fun with.
00:19:16And then it's nice to know if we're also on the same page.
00:19:20Yeah.
00:19:23I put family orientated first.
00:19:25One's children, like, must.
00:19:28Yeah, I know pretty much, like, what my values are and what I want at the stage of my life anyway, so.
00:19:37Cool.
00:19:38Your turn.
00:19:39My turn?
00:19:40Values are really important in any relationship, but I also think values and beliefs do change over time.
00:19:46Well, they certainly do for me.
00:19:52Number one, chinwag, having a great conversation.
00:19:54You've got to be with your bestie, I think, forever and ever until the end of time.
00:19:58Maintaining good vibes with a healthy lifestyle is very important.
00:20:02Financial stability, good looks, has money.
00:20:07To be honest, when he started putting them up, like, healthy lifestyle, fitness, I was like, OK, great.
00:20:15When is that family one coming?
00:20:17Good in bed.
00:20:20Physical fitness.
00:20:23Family oriented.
00:20:24One's children.
00:20:26Oh my, OK, wow.
00:20:28Ooh, wow, yeah.
00:20:36Yeah, I'm surprised with the family orientated thing, because that's number one for me.
00:20:41I'm very open to being someone who does not want to have children.
00:20:47I'm also very much open to the possibility of having a family and having kids.
00:20:53But it's not, well, have children with anybody, don't care, you know.
00:20:57I don't want to have children with anyone, like, either.
00:21:00Well, how many people in society do these days?
00:21:02A lot.
00:21:03Oh, there's a man with a job.
00:21:04And they get divorced.
00:21:05He's got all his teeth, that'll do.
00:21:07They settle.
00:21:10I'm not just going to have children for the sake of it because my body clock.
00:21:13No way.
00:21:14So how do you feel about me with the idea of possibility of not doing it?
00:21:20Well, then...
00:21:21I've been open to that.
00:21:23So if I would have met you in a pub, like, hey, how you doing, you want to have kids?
00:21:26Instead of open to not having kids, you'd have probably walked.
00:21:30I feel like you're not understanding this at all.
00:21:35I'm not sure why you're upset.
00:21:38I just, I'm sorry, I'm actually, I'm feeling like you're not listening to me.
00:21:45I understand, you're a very sensitive woman.
00:21:50You know, I'm putting my heart and soul into explaining that, like, I want a family,
00:21:56but, like, I'm not going to have children just for the sake of having children.
00:21:59I've said this multiple times.
00:22:01And, like, if he says no, I don't want children, then I'm out, like.
00:22:07Obviously, say you said to me, I never want to have children, then it wouldn't work.
00:22:11Because I want to have children in the future.
00:22:15You've told me that you are open to having children and also open to not having children.
00:22:19But you've met me right now, we're married.
00:22:22Right.
00:22:24I would want children. Would you be happy with that?
00:22:27Yeah.
00:22:28Yeah.
00:22:29Like I said, I'm open to that.
00:22:31Obviously, Ellie has a sensitive soul, and this is a sensitive topic.
00:22:36You know, and that possibly really struck a nerve.
00:22:39It makes sense.
00:22:41She just wants to be a mum.
00:22:43It's very common.
00:22:48Kids are very important for females, I understand.
00:22:54CONFESSIONS WEEK
00:23:01Confessions Week is our couple's first chance to live together and start creating a home.
00:23:08But for Lucinda and Timothy, sharing a home and being open and honest has tested Timothy this week.
00:23:17I'm so excited to do this with you.
00:23:19Yeah?
00:23:20You know, like, you're getting a little bit uncomfortable.
00:23:22Can you see it?
00:23:23Yes.
00:23:24Shit.
00:23:27Do you have any boundaries in sex?
00:23:30Anywhere that a doctor, you know, really says, just relax, I'm most probably out of bounds, you know?
00:23:39So you're saying, like, anal is out of bounds, for example?
00:23:44Yeah.
00:23:45Okay, that's a pickle.
00:23:53Ah.
00:23:54Hello.
00:23:55G'day.
00:23:56How you doing?
00:23:57Oh.
00:23:58I got you flowers.
00:23:59You're such a sweetheart.
00:24:01They're beautiful.
00:24:03Not only has Timothy brought flowers for his new wife, he has also brought with him an envelope containing the values task.
00:24:14Okay, you lay yours down first.
00:24:16Definitely, number one would be good conversation.
00:24:20I want to be able to banter with my person in this lifetime.
00:24:25Okay.
00:24:26Let's see what I've got.
00:24:28Ready?
00:24:30Bang.
00:24:31Good conversation, huh?
00:24:33Hey.
00:24:35There's a lot of loveliness about Tim.
00:24:38You know, he makes me laugh, I enjoy his company.
00:24:41And I know he likes me and that there's no one that I would prefer to be with other than him.
00:24:47And, you know, I do get that he's a slow burn.
00:24:53The biggest, the biggest gap?
00:24:57Wow, good and bad.
00:24:59It's right down the bottom for you, isn't it?
00:25:02Look, it's, it's, you know.
00:25:10I don't know.
00:25:11She's a lot more advanced than I am.
00:25:16I mean, Jesus Christ, she asked me this morning,
00:25:18are you keen to go to a four day Tantra sex festival up in the mountains?
00:25:27No, I'm not keen to go.
00:25:30So I don't want to walk around with hippies in the bush with my balls hanging out.
00:25:33Call me old fashioned.
00:25:36Are you a sexual being?
00:25:39Not necessarily.
00:25:41Okay. That's all I was curious about.
00:25:46Cool. Well, thank you for sharing so honestly.
00:25:53While Confessions Week helps our couples gain a better understanding of one another.
00:25:58Financial stability in my man's a nice thing because I've been with people that weren't and that's not fun.
00:26:06I'm not your sugar mama.
00:26:09If you don't know how to spend it wisely.
00:26:12Yeah.
00:26:15For Cassandra and Tristan, their relationship has progressed slowly.
00:26:20Even though they were smitten when they first met.
00:26:30You look stunning.
00:26:35He's got these lovely eyes and such a fun smile.
00:26:39I am drawn to him because he's so warm hearted, so funny.
00:26:46And on the honeymoon, there were small steps taken towards building a connection.
00:26:53I was maybe wondering after dinner if I could give you a goodnight kiss.
00:27:03Oh!
00:27:04My God, this freaks me out.
00:27:07That's so sweet.
00:27:09Don't hide. That's really sweet.
00:27:13But due to Tristan's lack of relationship experience, the progress that new bride Cassandra had hoped to make with her husband has so far eluded them.
00:27:23And she is worried about her husband's ability to show affection.
00:27:28I was just thinking, yeah, about how fast our relationship is progressing.
00:27:35And I know that we're just on our own pace and everything takes time.
00:27:40I thought we were moving pretty fast. I thought we were going good. Are we not moving fast?
00:27:43No, no, we're moving great. But we obviously haven't kissed.
00:27:50You wouldn't have to make the move because I haven't had a girlfriend in like seven years.
00:27:53I'm still trying to figure this shit out.
00:27:56I just was pointing out that it would be nice if we were further ahead in physical touch and affection and now we're just kind of in this weird space.
00:28:10He is my husband. I would like him to kiss me.
00:28:14But he's definitely just said it's all on you to make a move because his lack of experience.
00:28:24I'm like, oh, cool, cool, cool.
00:28:27How do you feel about that?
00:28:28Weird.
00:28:31We'll try again.
00:28:34To get a better understanding of one another, the experts have asked Cassandra and Tristan to take on the confessions letter task.
00:28:42The letter writing task is a test of our couple's ability to be open with their communication.
00:28:48It also examines how well they listen and their capacity to empathise with what their partner is telling them.
00:28:58What I'm talking about today is the reasons of why I won't make the first move.
00:29:03I didn't know that was an issue for her. I don't want to feel upset.
00:29:07So hopefully it will give her a bit of clarity of why I struggle with it, not I'm some weird dude.
00:29:12I don't like doing this, right? This is me being vulnerable. I'm not happy about it.
00:29:16I have to do it though because I know it's something to move on.
00:29:19And hopefully it will give her clarity and understanding of it.
00:29:22Or I'll just look like a loser, one of the two.
00:29:25This was really hard for me to write. I need you to understand, this has affected my life for the last 30 years.
00:29:33I would love to share with you the why I struggled to make the first move.
00:29:37Through our journey so far, you understand I was very overweight during school.
00:29:42I always become self-conscious. I never think I'm really good enough.
00:29:46It affects me in everyday life. It used to affect me going to the beach.
00:29:50I don't ever go to private beaches where no one else is around.
00:29:55Meeting girls was very hard.
00:29:58For a long time I always thought that the only way a girl would love me was if I had a six pack.
00:30:03When I would approach them or ask them out, they would reject me and also then laugh and make fun of me.
00:30:08It wasn't the rejection, it was the fact that they laughed at me and made fun of me that just made me feel worthless.
00:30:17Why is it always such a deal for me to ask someone out or why has it been single for seven years, you know?
00:30:22Or why do people choose their mates over me? You know? It's kind of like that kind of stuff.
00:30:26I'm like, what's really wrong with me, I guess.
00:30:28What do you see when you look in the mirror?
00:30:31I don't know, this ugly chubby ass dude, I guess. Sorry for swearing.
00:30:34It's okay.
00:30:35Yeah.
00:30:37That's not what I see.
00:30:39I know, but I used to be a really overweight kid when I was a lot younger.
00:30:43Okay.
00:30:45And I was laughed at and made fun of for being like fat or ugly.
00:30:47And that kind of never really kind of leaves you, I guess.
00:30:50Right.
00:30:53There has been a lot of times during the experiment I've wanted to lean over and kiss you.
00:30:59The thought that you aren't attracted to me scares me.
00:31:01This is why I haven't tried to kiss you.
00:31:03I really care about you and I don't want the fear to ruin our potential relationship with you.
00:31:08Oh, Trist.
00:31:11That makes a bit of sense.
00:31:13That does make so much more sense.
00:31:17Beautiful letter, Trist.
00:31:19Thank you so much for trusting me and telling me that.
00:31:24Finally, I understand where he's coming from.
00:31:26Finally, I understand where he's coming from.
00:31:29Why his actions are the way they are.
00:31:32This is why I struggle to do things first.
00:31:34Yeah.
00:31:36I want for you to know I will never laugh at you.
00:31:38I hope not.
00:31:40I will always laugh with you.
00:31:42And I am attracted to you, right?
00:31:45And those girls didn't see who you are like I see you the way you are.
00:31:53I think you're beautiful.
00:31:54And I've already told you this.
00:31:56And I'll keep telling you this until it sinks in.
00:32:02I think we've definitely made progress.
00:32:05When I first did this experiment, I was about to promise myself that I'd be 100% open and honest and do this stuff.
00:32:10So, I'm not going to break that promise.
00:32:13Hug it out, as we normally do.
00:32:15Hug it out.
00:32:17To me or Cass.
00:32:20Coming up, can Tristan make the first move?
00:32:22You know when you kiss someone or whatever, it's always like a bit of a spark?
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:28If we don't have that, then how do we move from there?
00:32:30Then, Lucinda grills her husband Timothy.
00:32:33What are you doing to build romance or connection with me?
00:32:38Tim's trust issues are put to the test with the arrival of the phone swap task.
00:32:43So, what do you want to do?
00:32:46I'm happy to share everything.
00:32:49And later, Jack takes on the photo ranking task.
00:32:53So, these are both dark haired and they're in my top three.
00:32:56So, I am brunette guy.
00:33:10As another day of Confessions Week comes to an end, our couples are winding down for the evening.
00:33:17Woah, mate.
00:33:19Good morning, mate.
00:33:21Someone's got to make sure this place stays tidy.
00:33:25Daddy's home.
00:33:27Oh, your favourite bit of the day.
00:33:31But for Timothy, this current dynamic in his new living arrangement reminds him of his life back home.
00:33:38Um, I love Matilda with everything in me.
00:33:43You're four legged dog.
00:33:46When I walk in the door, Matilda's going apeshit just right up in my grill.
00:33:51It's like, just give me five minutes, Matilda.
00:33:58Oh, you're so needy.
00:34:01How much closer can you get?
00:34:04Um, yeah.
00:34:06It just doesn't matter where I go in the apartment, she's there.
00:34:09Do you think that I'm like that?
00:34:11Well, I'm just, you know.
00:34:13You compare me with Matilda because she doesn't leave you alone and she's very affectionate.
00:34:18She's very affectionate.
00:34:19She adores you.
00:34:20She does.
00:34:22Lucky you.
00:34:28As they get ready for the next day of Confessions Week, it's time to get to work.
00:34:32As they get ready for bed, Lucinda has taken Timothy's request on board
00:34:37and is making sure he has the space and comfort needed for a good night's sleep.
00:34:42Do you want to get it all in?
00:34:44Here we go, let's wedge one down there.
00:34:50Let's get you really...
00:34:51It's not like that.
00:34:52It's safe.
00:34:56Obviously there's so many walls and a massive shell there.
00:35:02I just had a saying on top of my head.
00:35:06Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
00:35:09Alright, I'm going to roll over you, is that alright?
00:35:12Yeah, go for it.
00:35:14It's commando.
00:35:16And I've got to be careful because I can be cheeky and poke him a bit.
00:35:20I don't want to poke him away too far gone.
00:35:24Can we have a little cuddle?
00:35:26I thought that's what we just did.
00:35:29So, yeah, I've just got to keep sort of pulling him in
00:35:34in all the gentle ways that aren't too overwhelming at this point.
00:35:44Hang on, wait.
00:35:47Hang on a second.
00:35:49I'm hopeful.
00:35:51Just hit one of your lights.
00:35:54Hang on a second.
00:35:56Okay.
00:35:58Hang on.
00:36:10It's the last day of Confessions Week
00:36:12and our couple's hard work has caused their connections to grow.
00:36:20After an emotional confessions letter task,
00:36:22Cassandra and Tristan are taking a break outside.
00:36:26Oh, it's so lovely.
00:36:27This is what it feels like.
00:36:28This is what Sydney's like when it's not raining, you know?
00:36:33But this week's confronting tasks have been effective
00:36:36as the raw honesty that was revealed
00:36:39has given Cassandra a deeper understanding of Tristan.
00:36:43After Tristan's confession letter,
00:36:45I feel like I understand who Tristan is
00:36:47and why he's not more affectionate.
00:36:50I feel so, like, grateful, honoured
00:36:53that you trust me enough to share that with me.
00:36:55And I might not be able to put it into words
00:36:57as you are so great with your words,
00:36:59but I heard every word of it.
00:37:01Cos, like, I've never told anyone that, you know?
00:37:03No.
00:37:04So...
00:37:05Look, we're married.
00:37:06We're adults.
00:37:07I think we're both with, like, the affection side
00:37:09and we're just trying to move forward
00:37:13and get there and just make it happen.
00:37:17The only concern is I do have a concern.
00:37:19You know when you kiss someone or whatever,
00:37:21there's always, like, a bit of a spark?
00:37:23Yeah.
00:37:24I'm nervous that once we actually do it,
00:37:25it probably could be part of the reason
00:37:27I maybe held back on not doing it.
00:37:28But, like, if we don't have that,
00:37:31then how do we move from there?
00:37:33But that's the only thing I'm a bit nervous about,
00:37:34that if we do kiss, that we'll end up just...
00:37:36You know, you might feel the same,
00:37:37then it just might, like...
00:37:38Or it could be amazing.
00:37:39Or it could be amazing, you know?
00:37:42He's naturally a negative thinker
00:37:45and I'm a positive thinker.
00:37:47So I'm trying to help him shift his view
00:37:50from my point of view,
00:37:52because he's in his own head.
00:37:54So no more overthinking.
00:37:56We're just gonna keep being Cass and Tristan.
00:38:00We'll be all right.
00:38:01Well, we need to do something,
00:38:02just like what I've just figured out what to do now.
00:38:05Therese?
00:38:09A flower for my flower.
00:38:10Oh, very nice.
00:38:12Here you go, honey.
00:38:13I'm not sure if I was allowed to do that,
00:38:14so maybe just don't.
00:38:16There you go.
00:38:17I care about you.
00:38:19Could have just done it just then.
00:38:20F*** that up.
00:38:22She went for a kiss,
00:38:23and then, as per usual, I f***ed that up.
00:38:25It looks pretty lovely.
00:38:26It looks pretty.
00:38:29See? Done!
00:38:30Look at that!
00:38:31Look at that!
00:38:32Just like that.
00:38:33All that talking, we just nailed it, you know?
00:38:36You're terrible.
00:38:37We killed it, we killed it, we killed it.
00:38:39Tristan made the first move.
00:38:41I knew a good kisser.
00:38:43Ahem.
00:38:44I'm sorry, sorry, I'm just like you.
00:38:46Ahem.
00:38:47I was worried I was gonna have to do it,
00:38:48but he kissed me.
00:38:50He's so, in the best Tristan-y way possible.
00:38:55Beautiful dream.
00:38:56I feel like a schoolboy.
00:38:57Very smooth.
00:38:58All giggling.
00:39:01I kissed her.
00:39:02So, yeah, it's a bit of spark there.
00:39:04Yeah, it's good to go.
00:39:05You know?
00:39:07You can see my voice gets real high.
00:39:09Are you in love?
00:39:10No.
00:39:11Okay.
00:39:12Your kiss knocked me off my feet.
00:39:15I found a new way to keep Tristan quiet.
00:39:20The wife is happy.
00:39:21The wife is happy.
00:39:22Sweet, that's my number one rule.
00:39:23Said it from the start.
00:39:24Happy wife, happy life.
00:39:27That was perfect.
00:39:28It was perfect.
00:39:31Coming up...
00:39:32Lucinda and Timothy fall further out of sync.
00:39:35Just give it some time.
00:39:37Yeah, but you just don't like hugs or touch at all.
00:39:41Like what time for what?
00:39:43I don't f***ing know.
00:39:44Maybe you'll get used to it.
00:39:46And Sarah and Tim take on the phone swap task.
00:39:50I haven't given you a reason not to trust me,
00:39:52so what's the point?
00:39:54And later, Jack ranks his wife, Tori,
00:39:57on her level of attractiveness.
00:39:59Looks are very important to me.
00:40:01So you're on par with a couple other ladies.
00:40:11As another day of Confessions Week continues,
00:40:14it's Lauren and Jonathan's turn
00:40:16to take on the photo ranking task.
00:40:20Here we go.
00:40:23Oh, the lads.
00:40:26Alrighty.
00:40:27Okay.
00:40:28Okay.
00:40:30Alright, this is going to be actually so easy for me.
00:40:33So we'll go with my mate Tim.
00:40:37We love us some Tim.
00:40:40Oh, I think Collins is gorgeous.
00:40:42We'll go with Collins.
00:40:46Yeah, okay.
00:40:48Well, I mean, Jaden has the most f***ing immaculate head of hair
00:40:53I've ever seen in my life, so.
00:40:57I mean, this challenge is obviously f***ing brutal.
00:41:01I think he's going to struggle though because he's so nice.
00:41:03He's old enough to be my grandad,
00:41:05but I'm a savage, so I'm feeling good.
00:41:09Okay.
00:41:11And then which out of these two f***ing heads am I going to put last?
00:41:19I put Ben last because I just think he's full of shit.
00:41:23Like, I don't believe anything he says when he speaks.
00:41:26I just think that he's just, like, here for attention.
00:41:30And then Jack, just because, like,
00:41:33I'm just not attracted to him physically, like, at all.
00:41:35And his pants are too tight.
00:41:41It stresses me out so badly.
00:41:44Okay, so...
00:41:47I'd say, like, Lucinda's really lovely.
00:41:52Um, Ellie is super lovely as well.
00:41:56Tori is absolutely lovely.
00:42:00She's just lovely. She's a lovely, lovely lady.
00:42:04Um, okay.
00:42:06They're both so lovely.
00:42:08Um...
00:42:10Oh, she's so lovely. Like...
00:42:14Cass is just, like, the most lovely person in the world.
00:42:17Like, what is this guy talking about?
00:42:20Who do you think's hot, though?
00:42:22Ellie's really lovely.
00:42:24And she's got massive titties. I know you're a titty man.
00:42:30I really like Aiden.
00:42:32Every time I've talked to her, she's been, like,
00:42:34I like Aiden. Every time I've talked to her,
00:42:36she's been absolutely lovely.
00:42:41I've got to talk to both Aiden and Ellie a bit,
00:42:44and they're just absolutely lovely.
00:42:46They're very beautiful.
00:42:47Can you use a different adjective than lovely?
00:42:50Um...
00:42:52Yeah.
00:42:54They both have beautiful eyes.
00:42:57Okay.
00:42:59Okay. Should we chuck each other up?
00:43:01Yeah.
00:43:02I'm not even going to lie.
00:43:03Like, this is a no-brainer for me.
00:43:05And it's not because of your personality.
00:43:07Let's put it that way.
00:43:11Thanks.
00:43:13I think.
00:43:16He's by far the best-looking person in here,
00:43:18like, physically.
00:43:20And everything else as well.
00:43:22I got real lucky.
00:43:28Kiss.
00:43:29Kiss.
00:43:30You're definitely the most lovely.
00:43:32If you say so.
00:43:34Job done. Job done.
00:43:35We've got a successful challenge completed.
00:43:37Yeah, well done.
00:43:38Alright.
00:43:40I do think you're the best-looking person out of the bunch.
00:43:44That was quite easy.
00:43:45Yeah, I feel the same way about you.
00:43:47Oh, thanks.
00:43:52Confessions Week aims to fast-track
00:43:54the connection between couples.
00:43:56But for Lucinda and Timothy,
00:43:58rather than growing closer,
00:44:00there is now a divide between them,
00:44:02after Timothy asked his wife for space.
00:44:08Jesus.
00:44:10I feel quite rejected, yeah,
00:44:12in the intimacy, romantic stakes.
00:44:17I just don't see much effort.
00:44:26I don't know, I can just feel a little bit of
00:44:29just tension.
00:44:31Tension because
00:44:34I actually don't know.
00:44:37I know I asked for more space,
00:44:39but I don't want to create more of a divide between us.
00:44:44We're on different wavelengths.
00:44:48Oh.
00:44:53Let's have a chat.
00:44:55I feel tension.
00:44:58Like tense.
00:44:59Okay.
00:45:00Yeah.
00:45:01What are you feeling tense about?
00:45:02For the past hour, hour and a half,
00:45:05I just felt I've just been walking around on eggshells.
00:45:09Well, you know, my feelings have been hurt.
00:45:13But I just don't know how.
00:45:14Yeah.
00:45:15But I just don't know how.
00:45:17You're busy with the television.
00:45:21You know.
00:45:23What are you doing to build romance or connection with me?
00:45:34We're a week and a half in.
00:45:37We're two weeks in, actually.
00:45:39I've left a lot in your ball court the last couple of days.
00:45:45And I don't feel there's much,
00:45:47any sexual tension or flirting.
00:45:49I know.
00:45:50It's back to that.
00:45:54Just give it some time.
00:45:56Yeah, but you just don't like hugs or touch at all.
00:46:00Like, what time for what?
00:46:01I don't know.
00:46:02Maybe you'll get used to it.
00:46:05I don't know.
00:46:08It's just become such a big deal.
00:46:10Like, I know you want romance.
00:46:12I know you want all of that.
00:46:13But I don't know how many times I've got to tell you.
00:46:16It may take four weeks.
00:46:17It may take eight.
00:46:18Who knows?
00:46:19But just, just be patient.
00:46:23Or just, I don't know.
00:46:25I don't know.
00:46:26It's such a, it's a long,
00:46:28I wouldn't, I'm not saying race,
00:46:30but it's just this experiment.
00:46:32I know that they want you.
00:46:34I know what they want.
00:46:36I just feel a bit rejected.
00:46:38Don't feel rejected.
00:46:44You know, just, yeah.
00:46:46It's like, oh, you don't want any affection.
00:46:50It's like, I just.
00:46:51It's not that I, it's just, it's me.
00:46:53Then, then, you know, and I know.
00:46:56It's just, it's just like,
00:46:58I would like to come closer to you.
00:47:04Okay, can I, we end this talk now?
00:47:08Enough.
00:47:14We're nearly at the end of Confessions Week.
00:47:17And even though there's been some tough conversations,
00:47:20this intense phase has deepened the level of understanding
00:47:23between our couples.
00:47:25Lovely nails, honey.
00:47:26Oh, thank you.
00:47:29But Sarah and Tim are yet to connect on a deeper level.
00:47:34Sarah entered the experiment to end a cycle
00:47:37with her ex-boyfriend.
00:47:40Sarah entered the experiment to end a cycle with her ex.
00:47:44When I was with my ex, he ended up cheating on me.
00:47:48But I just kept going back to him for like four or five years.
00:47:53I really need this experiment because I need to get over my ex
00:47:57and get out of those toxic patterns.
00:48:00And on their wedding day,
00:48:02Tim revealed to Sarah he carried his own heartbreak.
00:48:06Your last relationship, what happened there?
00:48:12She was unfaithful to me.
00:48:14Okay, so she cheated?
00:48:16Yeah.
00:48:17It's the worst, isn't it?
00:48:19So the Confessions Letter task will be a chance for them
00:48:23to further open up about their past.
00:48:27This task is actually going to be very important for me,
00:48:30for my mental health, for my clarity and emotional stability
00:48:35because I really want to express
00:48:37probably the most significant thing I can possibly share with her.
00:48:41I'm going to share sort of my experience in my past relationship
00:48:44and how I was treated and how that's kind of led me
00:48:47to develop some certain probably fears and insecurities really,
00:48:51primarily based around trust.
00:48:56Hi.
00:48:57Hey.
00:48:58Are you ready?
00:48:59I'm ready.
00:49:00Okay.
00:49:01I'm nervous.
00:49:03Let's go.
00:49:05Dear Sarah,
00:49:07I want to talk to you about the development of my trust issues.
00:49:11This is going to be pretty hard for me to fully express.
00:49:14I was mistreated in my previous relationship.
00:49:17I was lied to, gaslit, toxically manipulated,
00:49:21made to feel like I was a crazy one, controlling one,
00:49:25and that I was always a problem.
00:49:27Plus, I was cheated on a lot.
00:49:31We were definitely in love and she was unfaithful.
00:49:34So I was quite hurt.
00:49:36It was pretty rough, like, finding out, you know,
00:49:38what she had been up to and everything like that.
00:49:41I didn't want to end the relationship.
00:49:43I felt like I had to.
00:49:44How present is that betrayal
00:49:46and those effects of the betrayal on you today?
00:49:49The element of trust is going to be a,
00:49:53potentially going to be a roadblock for me, like a hurdle,
00:49:57something that I'll probably need to work through.
00:49:59Intuition.
00:50:00My intuition, my gut feeling on things.
00:50:02I had a little bit of an off-gut feeling
00:50:05in my previous relationship.
00:50:07So, you know, if anything like that happens,
00:50:11I'll probably be inclined to just be on my guard at least,
00:50:16you know?
00:50:20But I wanted to share this with you
00:50:22so you might understand my behaviour at times.
00:50:25I was pretty heartbroken.
00:50:27It was pretty traumatic.
00:50:29So I think it's important for me to take,
00:50:31still take those steps in, like, learning how to trust again.
00:50:35But it is definitely important for me to share that with you.
00:50:39If we are, like, on a team together, you know,
00:50:42we can be, we can work through it.
00:50:44Yeah.
00:50:45Well, thank you for sharing with that.
00:50:47It was a pretty challenging task to sort of, like, get through
00:50:50and I feel like she understands the significance
00:50:52of my trust issues.
00:50:54I am, you know, doing the best I can to work through them.
00:50:58Hopefully she can help.
00:51:01I feel like I understand him a lot more.
00:51:05I understand why he has trust issues,
00:51:08because he was being mistreated and disrespected and lied to.
00:51:12I can resonate with his past relationship, like...
00:51:15I have had a similar thing happen to me.
00:51:17And I feel his hurt.
00:51:20Yeah.
00:51:21Yeah.
00:51:26Having just completed the letter-writing task,
00:51:29Sarah and Tim are about to have their relationship tested again
00:51:33with the arrival of another envelope.
00:51:36Tim, we got another letter.
00:51:38Another letter.
00:51:39Yeah.
00:51:46Another task.
00:51:48OK.
00:51:49As humans, we are hardwired to connect with others.
00:51:52Without human connection, we simply cannot survive.
00:51:55This next task will test your ability to trust each other.
00:51:59For this task, you must reveal your latest correspondence
00:52:02on the device you use most, your phone.
00:52:07So what are you going to do?
00:52:14I'm happy to share everything.
00:52:17Yeah.
00:52:20I haven't given you a reason not to trust me.
00:52:24So, what's the point?
00:52:31Do you feel strongly about not doing it?
00:52:33Yeah, I do.
00:52:36I feel like it's invasive, and I feel like this whole thing is.
00:52:40Yeah.
00:52:41Like...
00:52:43Yeah, interesting.
00:52:45Yeah, interesting.
00:52:55After completing the letter-writing task,
00:52:58where Tim took the opportunity to highlight his trust issues,
00:53:02the couple have just been given one last task to complete.
00:53:07So what are you going to do?
00:53:14I'm happy to share everything.
00:53:17Yeah.
00:53:20I haven't given you a reason not to trust me.
00:53:24So, what's the point?
00:53:31Do you feel strongly about not doing it?
00:53:33Yeah, I do.
00:53:36I feel like it's invasive, and I feel like this whole thing is.
00:53:40Yeah.
00:53:41Like...
00:53:43Yeah, interesting.
00:53:45Like, the concern of mine would be if you were talking to other people
00:53:49outside this, you know, other guys.
00:53:51I'm not.
00:53:59What is the point of trusting if we can't actually just trust someone
00:54:02without looking through someone's phone?
00:54:04That's not trust.
00:54:06Trusting is allowing someone to just be like,
00:54:09there's nothing there, just trust me.
00:54:12And that's it.
00:54:17Would you be concerned about me seeing messages to someone?
00:54:21Like, who you've been messaging?
00:54:23No. No.
00:54:25Hmm.
00:54:27Yeah.
00:54:29Um, if you don't do this task,
00:54:31I'm happy to, like, take you for your word kind of thing.
00:54:37As long as you can acknowledge that that's me supporting you
00:54:43and trusting you and...
00:54:45OK.
00:54:46..showing you that, you know, I'm trusting you.
00:54:52Thank you. I appreciate that.
00:54:55I don't think that task went very well, to be honest.
00:54:58Obviously, she doesn't want me to see certain things on her phone.
00:55:06I do want to trust her
00:55:08and I want to learn how to be OK with things like that,
00:55:12particularly considering, like, my history.
00:55:15I don't fully trust Sada at the moment, for sure,
00:55:17but I'm taking her word at face value
00:55:20and I'm...I'm, um...
00:55:23Yeah, I'm trying to be a good husband.
00:55:28But maybe she's chatting to other guys.
00:55:33Um...
00:55:37Definitely raised some question marks.
00:55:43I'm glad that he's, like, choosing to trust me
00:55:46and we can just move past it
00:55:49and hopefully work on this relationship.
00:55:59As Confessions Week draws to a close,
00:56:02Sally and Jack have been given one last task from the experts.
00:56:09Oh!
00:56:10Oh, God. Oh!
00:56:13Inside this envelope are photos of all the other bride and grooms
00:56:16in the experiment.
00:56:18From left to right, you must place the photos
00:56:20in order of who you find most attractive to least attractive.
00:56:24The task today is ranking most hottest to least hottest.
00:56:31Brides and grooms, I'm keen.
00:56:35Put me last and I'll suffocate you in your sleep.
00:56:38When they first met, Tori was instantly attracted to Jack.
00:56:47Great teeth.
00:56:49But Jack found it hard to connect with Tori on a physical level.
00:56:55There's no sexual sparks flying for me at the moment.
00:56:59And honestly...
00:57:01I don't think we're sexually...
00:57:03Well, we're not sexually connected at all.
00:57:08So the experts hope the photo-ranking task
00:57:11will be a chance for both to reveal the levels of attraction
00:57:14they have for each other at this stage of the experiment.
00:57:18So these are both dark-haired and they're in my top three.
00:57:21Mm.
00:57:22So I am a brunette guy, like, if I had to pick.
00:57:26My physical type, gorgeous eyes.
00:57:28I want to connect with the eyes and a gorgeous smile.
00:57:31Um...
00:57:32Long hair, can't stand short hair on women.
00:57:34Don't know who does.
00:57:36And brunette over blonde as well.
00:57:38And I like big boobs.
00:57:40No-one is bad-looking, but, like, Lauren...
00:57:43I don't know if it's her personality that's, like, dimming the light.
00:57:47Well, also, Lauren's really tall.
00:57:50Well, that's a deal-breaker for me.
00:57:53So I don't want to walk home with someone
00:57:55that's six inches taller than me either.
00:57:57I'm going to feel like a little bitch by the time I get home.
00:58:00And I could not kiss them older birds.
00:58:03Um...
00:58:04I just can't take these ladies to bed, I'm sorry.
00:58:07If she was dolled up and she was dolled up night-hour,
00:58:10I wouldn't even go to Lauren.
00:58:12Too tall, I'm not attracted to her, so I wouldn't go try her.
00:58:15Tell us how you really feel about good old Loza.
00:58:18You've heard it.
00:58:19Based on what I know, she's too loud for me.
00:58:21Light makes me look the other way.
00:58:23But, God, I could hear Lauren before I ever laid eyes on her.
00:58:26Um, and, yeah, visually, not my type, so...
00:58:30Goes with the personality, so...
00:58:32weigh that one to rest.
00:58:34All right, one more.
00:58:37Who is it?
00:58:39Me!
00:58:40HE CHUCKLES
00:58:41Mmm...
00:58:45You know what?
00:58:46You know what?
00:58:47Looks are very important to me.
00:58:51So you're on par with a couple other ladies.
00:58:53Um...
00:58:55Do you agree that you're the hottest?
00:58:59I would agree I'm the hottest, yeah.
00:59:00Why?
00:59:02Why am I the hottest?
00:59:04Um...
00:59:05F***!
00:59:06Why am I the hottest?
00:59:07Convince your husband you're the hottest.
00:59:09Why are you the hottest?
00:59:17It's the final day of Confessions Week,
00:59:20and having placed the other brides in the line-up,
00:59:23it's now time for Jack...
00:59:25HE CHUCKLES
00:59:26..to rank the level of attractiveness of his wife, Tori.
00:59:29You know what?
00:59:30Looks are very important to me.
00:59:33So you're on par with a couple other ladies.
00:59:36Um...
00:59:37Do you agree that you're the hottest?
00:59:41I would agree I'm the hottest, yeah.
00:59:43Why?
00:59:45Um...
00:59:46F***!
00:59:47Why am I the hottest?
00:59:48Convince your husband you're the hottest.
00:59:50Why are you the hottest?
00:59:53I think I've got great eyes.
00:59:55Great brows.
00:59:56Are they mine?
00:59:57No.
00:59:58Good teeth.
00:59:59Yeah.
01:00:00Good lips.
01:00:01Great tits.
01:00:02Again, not mine, but I'll take it.
01:00:05And my hair's really soft.
01:00:06And I have cute little ears.
01:00:08I don't have, like, absolute shockers.
01:00:12No, that's confident.
01:00:13You're not just like,
01:00:14yeah, I'm all right, you'll be all right, I like it.
01:00:16Like I was saying, looks are important,
01:00:18and I was happy to do this challenge
01:00:21because I didn't want to upset you.
01:00:23But if I didn't find you super attractive,
01:00:27you'd be bummed.
01:00:29Yeah, fair, fair.
01:00:31But I can easily say I have you up here.
01:00:33Woo!
01:00:34Which is a testament to you.
01:00:37You have a nice body, you have nice big boobies,
01:00:40so you're on par with a couple other ladies.
01:00:44Nice booty.
01:00:45I'm a bit of a booty guy as well.
01:00:47You have beautiful hair, you have beautiful skin.
01:00:50So, there you go.
01:00:51Did you feel like I thought that way about you
01:00:53amongst these women?
01:00:55You did?
01:00:56Pretty confident, yeah.
01:00:57Damn **** straight, sir.
01:01:00I think I've got the best personality.
01:01:01It's not about personality.
01:01:03This task has just, like,
01:01:05doubled down on the confirmation
01:01:07that Jack and I are probably a perfect match.
01:01:09I'm like, I agree with this list.
01:01:12I don't have any, like,
01:01:14insecurities about anything.
01:01:17I'm a very secure person.
01:01:20And it would take, like, a real ****
01:01:22to make me feel anything less than secure
01:01:25in my own skin, definitely.
01:01:28Good job.
01:01:29Thanks.
01:01:31You have to be open and honest.
01:01:33There is no fighting on this couch.
01:01:36In the very first commitment ceremony...
01:01:39We're all looking stunning,
01:01:40but not as stunning as my wife.
01:01:41Our match has been incredible.
01:01:43...real love...
01:01:45Yeah, it feels really, really right for both of us.
01:01:48...will melt hearts...
01:01:50I like deep, emotional conversations.
01:01:52I find it horrific.
01:01:55...but to uncover the truth...
01:01:58Just to be clear, Jack,
01:02:00you're in a relationship with someone...
01:02:02...the experts...
01:02:04...while applying for marriage at first sight...
01:02:06...won't hold back.
01:02:08I felt so betrayed.
01:02:10Yeah, okay.
01:02:11I've tried, I really have.
01:02:12Get real with me.
01:02:13I felt like she had something to hide.
01:02:14Did you have anything to hide?
01:02:15We need your decision.
01:02:17Stay or leave?
01:02:18Stay or leave?
01:02:19Stay or leave?
01:02:20I don't trust him.
01:02:22The first commitment ceremony...
01:02:24They'll have to be held accountable for their actions.
01:02:27Sunday at 7 on Nine and Nine Now.
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