Married at first sight Australia S. 11 Ep.22
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00:00:00Previously, I've sat here hearing this same old script come out of your mouth.
00:00:07When expert John called out Ben's bad behaviour, I'm going to take my new voice, I'm leaving.
00:00:13Ellie left her marriage and the experiment with her head held high.
00:00:18I'm really excited for what's to come. Apparently my DMs will be blowing up according to a few people.
00:00:24Is Tori into you a lot more than you're into Tori?
00:00:30You've planted the seed of doubt.
00:00:32But it was Jack's surprising revelation.
00:00:35A pattern I have had is like disappointing previous partners and I do have concerns that I'm going to let you down.
00:00:41Boom.
00:00:42That left everyone confused.
00:00:44We've never heard you talk like this on the couch.
00:00:47If you want to go, like go now.
00:00:50She does it for me in every single way and I can see a future with her outside of this.
00:00:54And despite some couples making massive progress.
00:00:58On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being you are absolutely in love.
00:01:019.5.
00:01:05Are you physically attracted to Michael?
00:01:08Stephen made a brutal confession.
00:01:11No.
00:01:17Tonight.
00:01:18There was a sexual spark for me that I've not felt with you.
00:01:21I feel so guilty.
00:01:23An unexpected cheating allegation rocks the experiment.
00:01:27Goodnight.
00:01:28I honestly don't know if I care to salvage it.
00:01:33Couples retreat, let's go.
00:01:37Our newlyweds head off on a couples retreat.
00:01:43And this year it's a brand new romantic setting.
00:01:47It's the closest we've been in weeks.
00:01:49Gotcha.
00:01:51I actually can't do this.
00:01:56That will lead to an unforgettable and extraordinary breakthrough.
00:02:04I've never seen that side of Tim.
00:02:06So many morns came down then.
00:02:14You're joking.
00:02:16Did he do that?
00:02:17Sarah and Lauren.
00:02:18It's completely inappropriate.
00:02:20Oh my God, I'm like stressed right now.
00:02:22Learn brand new information about Jack.
00:02:25That is shocking to me.
00:02:27He's crossed the line.
00:02:29Will they speak up?
00:02:30I'm kind of like dying inside because obviously Sarah and I have some information that we want to share with her.
00:02:36And break the news to Tori.
00:02:38What's your limit?
00:02:39Like what would be your deal breaker?
00:02:41It's a great question.
00:02:55It's the morning after an intense commitment ceremony.
00:03:08This looks lovely.
00:03:09Yes, a bit of sunshine.
00:03:12And despite the sun shining outside, it's a frosty start to the day for Tori and Jack.
00:03:19Wife.
00:03:21Good morning.
00:03:23With Tori still processing Jack's brutally honest revelation.
00:03:29I feel like her affection is probably surpassing mine.
00:03:34I feel like we're past halfway starting to develop serious feelings.
00:03:41And I do have concerns that I'm going to let you down.
00:03:45What does that mean?
00:03:46And Jack's comments have got everyone talking.
00:03:49I feel like it came across like he is prepping her for breakup.
00:03:54A hundred percent.
00:03:55That's exactly what it was.
00:03:56Yeah.
00:03:57I've got some red flags around his intention.
00:04:01I went to the red flag store and they're out of red flags because he's got them all.
00:04:06I think Jack is not interested in Tori.
00:04:09At all?
00:04:10That's my feeling.
00:04:11Like do I think he's going to end up with her?
00:04:13No, I do not.
00:04:15Rough for Tori.
00:04:16Yeah.
00:04:17Up until now it's been we're perfect and we're into each other so much.
00:04:20But it turns out Tori's more into Jack than Jack is into Tori.
00:04:25Look, Jack hasn't really like done a lot of things that made me think he's a good person.
00:04:31He's made very like derogatory comments.
00:04:35He's gotten angry and lashed out.
00:04:38He talks about Tori to the boys.
00:04:42And from the beginning has had like issues.
00:04:47Sarah isn't the only one feeling dubious about Jack's actions.
00:04:52I am the most exposed I have ever been in 28 years of living.
00:04:58Yeah.
00:04:59And no intimate partner has had this version of me.
00:05:02And I want this version of me to be like feel so safe and so protected.
00:05:08So I was obviously taken aback by you feeling like I liked you more than you liked me.
00:05:13Oh my God.
00:05:14I just got railed.
00:05:15I feel like every time I sit on that seat, I just the seat is that **** hard I got to get off.
00:05:21Like.
00:05:22But you said that you did say, yeah, I feel like Tori has more feelings.
00:05:26I did.
00:05:27After the three experts had it out with me, 100% I did.
00:05:31Like I was thrown on the couch.
00:05:34But I feel like we align intimately at the moment.
00:05:38Feelings wise, like I have really serious feelings for you.
00:05:45I could have more feelings for you in a week's time.
00:05:49Yay.
00:05:50I think we're equal.
00:05:51Jack and I spoke about this a few days ago.
00:05:53And I asked him, do you think we like each other the same level?
00:05:56And he was like 100%.
00:05:58Yes, it is 50-50.
00:06:00But that couch is like the ultimate pressure cooker.
00:06:03I know that couch, like it's so easy to misarticulate yourself there.
00:06:07And I've done it.
00:06:08And I feel like last night that was a big misarticulation.
00:06:11So I was like, dude.
00:06:12Yeah.
00:06:13I have no doubt.
00:06:14And I have never had a doubt with how Jack feels about me.
00:06:18And so the only takeaway from last night is Jack needs to work on articulation.
00:06:26I clearly need to do some work.
00:06:28I need to watch my mouth.
00:06:29Yes.
00:06:30I've obviously got poor choice of words.
00:06:32Yes.
00:06:33But I don't feel any differently towards you.
00:06:35No, of course not.
00:06:36Something's got to rock this ship for me to question how I feel about you.
00:06:40For sure.
00:06:42And I feel the same.
00:06:43But I also think it's like this has been a really healthy conversation.
00:06:50Lucky wife.
00:06:51Lucky wife.
00:06:52Lucky wife.
00:06:58Across the hall, Sarah and Tim are also reflecting over their time at the commitment ceremony.
00:07:04How do you reckon our couch session went last night?
00:07:08Like I am who I am.
00:07:10I'm always going to be opinionated.
00:07:12And sometimes that is a lot for some people, so.
00:07:16I don't want her to feel like she's too much for me.
00:07:19That's my type.
00:07:21So something is going to have to change in terms of your communication.
00:07:27You've got to really start vocalising what you think and how you feel.
00:07:35Like even though we're doing really good, yeah.
00:07:38Yeah, there's always things that we can both work on.
00:07:41The main message I sort of got from it was I feel like I needed to step up to more of an assertive role.
00:07:48Yeah.
00:07:51I would love for that to be like a more regular thing.
00:07:54Because when it does happen, I come to you more with like affection, which is what you need for like reassurance.
00:08:02I'm going to try.
00:08:04I want to step up, you know, impress her.
00:08:07But yeah, I just feel like sometimes I'm a bit slow to the mark.
00:08:10And she's like a few levels above me in the emotional processing department, that's for sure.
00:08:18Having passed the halfway point, it's time for our couples to enter the next crucial phase of the experiment.
00:08:25As they take part in the annual couples retreat.
00:08:29Going on holiday.
00:08:31I like to go on holiday.
00:08:33The relationship retreat is an exciting and important phase of the experiment.
00:08:39It's a chance for our couples to spend quality time together as a group.
00:08:44It provides insight into how couples navigate outside influence and opinions.
00:08:49Because in this new social setting, there is nowhere to hide.
00:08:54And this year, we're taking them to the warm and idyllic location of Byron Bay.
00:09:01We're off to Byron.
00:09:03Byron.
00:09:04Byron.
00:09:05Sunshine.
00:09:06Beach.
00:09:07Oh, crystals, hippies and Hemsworth.
00:09:09Yes.
00:09:11I always avoided Byron because I thought it was full of like crystals and shower dodgers.
00:09:19I've never been to Byron and I'm so excited because I always felt quite pov-o that I'd never been to Byron.
00:09:24Everyone's like, have you been to Byron?
00:09:26I'm like, no.
00:09:27I don't know.
00:09:30I cannot believe our retreat is in Byron Bay.
00:09:34This is where I live.
00:09:36It's going to be so much fun.
00:09:38Tim's a little bit resistant.
00:09:40Do you think I should bring this?
00:09:42Marcus?
00:09:43Yeah?
00:09:45He'd rather have an anal probing, apparently.
00:09:50Retreat, you ready?
00:09:51Yeah, I'm excited.
00:09:53There's going to be drama, there's going to be gossip, there's probably going to be a few storm outs and arguments, blow ups here and there.
00:09:57Sit back and enjoy the show.
00:10:01Oh my god.
00:10:03Rock on.
00:10:05Here we come, bye Skye.
00:10:07See you Skye, see you in your apartment.
00:10:09Retreat, couples retreat, let's go.
00:10:12Up to you.
00:10:15Go for it babe.
00:10:16Check.
00:10:18While the others head off for fun in the sun, there's been a dramatic turn of events for Michael and Stephen.
00:10:31Stephen had to get his hair done, ready for a publicity shoot for the experiment.
00:10:36And during the appointment, Michael witnessed something devastating, involving his husband.
00:10:43Today was meant to be a fun day.
00:10:46We had a publicity shoot, and Stephen was getting his hair done, and I could see my husband flirting with the hairdresser.
00:11:03And on the ride home, I could see him sitting back texting, smiling, and I was like, oh, who are you talking to?
00:11:12And he was talking to the hairdresser.
00:11:15He told me that he felt a spark with this hairdresser that he's never felt with me.
00:11:22Like I've sacrificed so much to be here.
00:11:25Yeah, I'm beside myself.
00:11:28I'm hurt from this, I'm pissed off about this.
00:11:32Like my trust is betrayed.
00:11:35We're both in this for monogamy, but yet you've let a spark burn down an entire house.
00:11:42After the incident, Michael needed some space from Stephen, and now he's finally returning home to confront his husband.
00:11:53The relationship between Michael and I is obviously incredibly fractured.
00:11:58I feel shit, but feeling that instant attraction to someone, it was like a clarity, like that's what's missing.
00:12:07No matter how many exercises you're given, if it's not there, I don't know how to get it there.
00:12:18Hi.
00:12:38Earlier today, while preparing for a publicity shoot for the experiment, Michael and Stephen were having their hair done.
00:12:47Which was when Stephen was caught flirting with the hairdresser.
00:12:53On the way home, Michael's world was rocked further when he discovered the two had also been texting.
00:13:00Now, after taking some time apart, Michael has finally returned home to confront his husband.
00:13:11Hi.
00:13:18What's going on?
00:13:20You tell me.
00:13:22Well, I don't know.
00:13:25I don't know.
00:13:28Go on. Talk.
00:13:31Michael, I value you so much. Over these last two and a half weeks, I've opened up to you more than I've opened up to anyone, including my family.
00:13:40Like, I've told you shit that I've not told anyone, and I view you so highly.
00:13:49Do you understand the disrespect and significance of, like, everything?
00:13:55Can I explain why this all unfolded on my side?
00:13:59I honestly don't know if I want to hear your side, because I'm pissed. Like, that's so frustrating.
00:14:04I'm not doing any of this to hurt you.
00:14:08I got really confused, because I had had a 30-second conversation with someone, and I felt it was so much easier to get flirty with them than I did with you after knowing you for two and a half weeks.
00:14:21Obviously. And it's just you, just again, bam, shutting the door again.
00:14:28Absolutely, we had a spark there, and it was playful, and it was a little bit flirty, 150%. And I know that that's a shit thing to hear, which is why I feel so guilty.
00:14:39It's a horrible position to be put in to make someone feel like that. The fact that it came so easily with a stranger I've never even met, it was just like a light bulb moment. I was like, we are fighting a losing battle.
00:14:56I feel lied to, I feel disrespected. I'm confused, I'm upset, I'm hurt, I'm angry. Like, all my emotions are just in the blender right now.
00:15:05You can only be rejected so many times before eventually you're just sick of it.
00:15:10For Michael, his path to finding a husband was a rocky road.
00:15:15Your match decided to send us an email saying he no longer wanted to be a part of the experiment.
00:15:25I feel like somebody just ripped my heart out of my chest.
00:15:28I feel like somebody just ripped my heart out of my chest.
00:15:31But three weeks later, Michael was finally married to new match Stephen.
00:15:36You may now kiss.
00:15:41And on their wedding night, Michael quickly opened up.
00:15:45Um, I have been previously matched in this experiment before.
00:15:51Instantly, I felt sick. I just felt like, am I just his villain?
00:15:58Stephen tried to lower his walls during the crash course week tasks.
00:16:03I've experienced a man who was supposed to love his family unconditionally up and leave.
00:16:08The reason why I guarded is my dad cheated on my mum when we were kids.
00:16:13But despite his attempt to open up to Michael, Stephen made a brutal confession on the couch.
00:16:20Are you physically attracted to Michael?
00:16:23Um, no.
00:16:29And ever since that revelation, Michael has struggled to break through Stephen's walls.
00:16:36Michael, the guy today.
00:16:39I don't have any desire to pursue anything there.
00:16:43But yes, there was a sexual spark for me that I've not felt with you.
00:16:48Oh my God, I just really, I'm still upset that you haven't even apologised.
00:16:54But I can't, I can't apologise for having a spark.
00:16:58Like, that was just, that's...
00:17:03Do you hear the significant weight on that?
00:17:06The spark is what ruined it for me as well. I realised what this is missing.
00:17:12The spark?
00:17:13Yeah.
00:17:18And that f***ing sucks. I wish I could flip a switch. I wish I could be like...
00:17:22I'm not even asking you to flip a switch. I'm just asking you to try to grow something with me.
00:17:29I would be lying to you and everyone if I said that I could go forward in this to build a sexual relationship.
00:17:43I fully understand that that's a crushing thing to hear.
00:17:47Yeah.
00:17:53I don't understand.
00:17:56A spark? That sounds so insignificant.
00:17:59How is that insignificant? Michael, you have voiced...
00:18:01Because you had a 30 second spark.
00:18:04That could literally be nothing.
00:18:06Whereas you're literally trying to build something and grow something with me and we've set...
00:18:10Every time I feel like we get a good foundation.
00:18:12We've built the best friendship ever but that's all I can give to this.
00:18:21How are you feeling right now?
00:18:27Listen, listen, listen. After that...
00:18:30I honestly don't know if I care to salvage it.
00:18:34Okay.
00:18:35I'll leave that with you.
00:18:36I'm not...
00:18:37I don't want to talk about it.
00:18:38I don't want to go.
00:18:39You like this, Michael?
00:18:41Then what?
00:18:42Then I want to...
00:18:43I want to sit down as adults and talk about this and not have you walk away.
00:18:49Right now, do you want a friendship?
00:18:51Or do you want to be people that hate each other and you've just thrown the ring here and you've walked away?
00:18:58You seem like you turned the light for us.
00:19:00I did not choose anything.
00:19:01I'm the one sitting here right now trying to talk through this with you.
00:19:04I'm the one that's been sitting around all day waiting to have this conversation with you.
00:19:09You're the one that's blown this up.
00:19:14You are doing the theatrics that make my walls go up.
00:19:18What was that?
00:19:19What is this?
00:19:20Do you want to just...
00:19:21Do you not want to work any of this out?
00:19:26I just...
00:19:27You basically just told me that it's never going to happen.
00:19:29You got a report from somebody you met for 30 seconds.
00:19:32What am I fighting for?
00:19:33What am I fighting for?
00:19:35I just...
00:19:36I just need time.
00:19:54Coming up.
00:19:55Our husbands and wives head north to Byron Bay for the annual couples retreat.
00:20:00One, two, three.
00:20:03This is the sweatiest extreme.
00:20:11Friendships will be put to the test.
00:20:13I feel like I can't ask you questions about you and Jack.
00:20:16Why?
00:20:17Because I feel like you might get upset about it.
00:20:19I feel nervous to bring things up to you.
00:20:21Really? I do.
00:20:22I feel like you don't want me to ask you questions.
00:20:25And emotions will reach boiling point.
00:20:28I'm sorry.
00:20:30I actually can't do this.
00:20:44This year, the coastal paradise Byron Bay, located on the far north coast of New South Wales,
00:20:51will be playing host to the Married at First Sight annual couples retreat.
00:20:57Come on!
00:20:59I'm stuck up right now.
00:21:00You can do it!
00:21:03The relationship retreat is an exciting and important phase of the experiment.
00:21:07It's a chance for our couples to leave their normal day-to-day lives
00:21:11Oh, you guys!
00:21:13and get a fresh perspective on their marriage in a different setting.
00:21:21For this year's couples retreat,
00:21:23Yes!
00:21:24we've decided to freshen it up with a brand new location.
00:21:27We're here. We made it.
00:21:29Byron Bay. Couples retreat.
00:21:31Here we go, eh?
00:21:32We'll take it.
00:21:37Andy!
00:21:38Hi, neighbor!
00:21:40We got one!
00:21:41Oh, this is beautiful.
00:21:45How come you're puffed up?
00:21:46I had to drag this.
00:21:48Are you okay?
00:21:50Guys, this is freaking gorgeous.
00:21:53The house is absolutely stunning.
00:21:55Like, this place is legit.
00:21:56Like, I want to find out who owns it.
00:21:58Might fly it in their DMs.
00:22:00I don't know what I'm going to say.
00:22:02It's going to be like,
00:22:03Hey, I was in your house last night.
00:22:06Oh, that is creepy.
00:22:09They'll be living together under the same roof,
00:22:12which can really turn a mirror on a couple's relationship.
00:22:15Good job, doll.
00:22:18Getting away and spending time in a new environment
00:22:21can really help breathe life into a relationship that's in a rut.
00:22:25Ah, this is amazing.
00:22:26This is lovely.
00:22:27This is good, eh?
00:22:28This is what affection feels like, eh?
00:22:32It can also bring stronger couples even closer together.
00:22:36That's such a good room.
00:22:38Look at how much space you've got here.
00:22:40Man, happy with this room.
00:22:42Love the room.
00:22:43Yeah, me and the old girl got a break in the bed.
00:22:45Be rude not to.
00:22:46I must tow his Roman sandal for it.
00:22:48Let's go.
00:22:51And we've got a bathroom.
00:22:53I love this joint.
00:22:55This is just like sole ground.
00:22:57Yes!
00:22:58I feel I'd like to make a sort of a unified experience.
00:23:02Yay!
00:23:03Where we can create a bit of a cauldron
00:23:06and pop some intention in.
00:23:08Maybe fun, connectivity, a bit of adventure,
00:23:12like lots of laughs.
00:23:14Let's be silly.
00:23:15Let's, you know, release our shit.
00:23:19Oh my God, it's perfect.
00:23:20Woo!
00:23:26And I am the sun.
00:23:27Yeah, that's the work.
00:23:29It's giving rich housewife vibes.
00:23:32Just minus the rich part.
00:23:43One pillow.
00:23:44And as everyone settles into the retreat lifestyle...
00:23:47Two pillows.
00:23:49Can't believe you fit that in.
00:23:51Across the hall, it's a very different vibe.
00:23:58Despite what's happened in the last 24 hours,
00:24:01at Stephen's request,
00:24:03Michael has unexpectedly agreed to attend this year's retreat.
00:24:08Stephen is hoping the retreat can help them
00:24:11find an amicable path back.
00:24:15I'm not feeling confident about the retreat.
00:24:19Coming in, Stephen and I,
00:24:21we weren't really on talking terms.
00:24:23I'm confused, I'm hurt, I'm angry, I'm upset.
00:24:26And my head right now is split in two places.
00:24:29I want to leave.
00:24:31But do I potentially try to make this work for one more week
00:24:34and see how it goes and give him another chance?
00:24:37My mind is just scrambled.
00:24:40Oh Lord.
00:24:42I'm kind of like anxious about this next couple of days.
00:24:46Michael and I are at a bit of a crossroad.
00:24:49But, look, I'm really hopeful
00:24:52that the new environment can mend what's been fractured.
00:24:57I'm super keen to just give this everything these next few days
00:25:02and really focus on building a connection,
00:25:05building that trust, building that friendship,
00:25:07and, yeah, going from there.
00:25:09The retreat is the first time the entire group have seen each other
00:25:13since last week's commitment ceremony.
00:25:16So tonight, our couples have decided to get together
00:25:19for some welcome drinks.
00:25:21Oh, look at this!
00:25:23This is so nice.
00:25:26Ooh-wee, this is romantic.
00:25:29Look at this.
00:25:31So nice.
00:25:32What a treat.
00:25:34Ready for tonight. Let's have some fun.
00:25:37Ready for tonight. Let's have some fun.
00:25:39It's going to be a great night.
00:25:41Hopefully it's not the definition of a dinner party on steroids.
00:25:44You know?
00:25:46What can possibly go wrong?
00:25:48It's so good hanging out with everyone, getting to see everyone,
00:25:50you know, the drinks, the boys, the group settings,
00:25:53the parties, that kind of stuff.
00:25:54Cheers, Jono.
00:25:55Cheers, Eve.
00:25:57Should we take one of these cheese platters over?
00:25:59What do you reckon?
00:26:00The wind and elements and earthing
00:26:02and a bit of the old cheese platter.
00:26:05It's impossible to know what's possible.
00:26:08I don't think it is.
00:26:10Anything could happen tonight.
00:26:12The boys are getting in the pool.
00:26:14Who?
00:26:15The ones with amazing rinse.
00:26:17Hey, you can't spell rinse without an R-I-G.
00:26:19You disgust me.
00:26:23Disgust me.
00:26:24You're naked!
00:26:29Oh, my God.
00:26:31I need to have a chat with you.
00:26:32OK, let's chat.
00:26:34Oh, are you OK?
00:26:36That hurt.
00:26:38That nearly knocked me the f*** out.
00:26:40Although the first night drinks are off to a smashing start,
00:26:44Timothy is still concerned about Jack
00:26:46and his true intentions with Tori,
00:26:49following his confession at last night's commitment ceremony.
00:26:52I don't want to shit on Tori, right?
00:26:55But I smell a rat.
00:26:57Yeah.
00:26:58Do you smell a rat?
00:26:59Yeah.
00:27:00If we're holding hands
00:27:02and we're kissing and everything,
00:27:04and I say to you,
00:27:06I don't want to disappoint you,
00:27:08it's almost like you're laying the groundwork...
00:27:11Yeah.
00:27:12..for a dumping.
00:27:13Yeah.
00:27:14I feel like we're, you know, past halfway,
00:27:17starting to develop serious feelings,
00:27:20and I do have concerns that I'm going to let you down.
00:27:29I actually respect Tori.
00:27:31I actually...
00:27:32I have so much respect for you.
00:27:33I actually like Tori.
00:27:35She is a great chick.
00:27:37She's all in.
00:27:38She's all in.
00:27:39She is f***ing all in.
00:27:41I know. I know.
00:27:42I don't believe Jack. That's the issue.
00:27:45I know, but I don't know what to say to her.
00:27:49There's Lauren. She's coming.
00:27:51Lauren, come here.
00:27:53Hi.
00:27:54Are you talking about what I think you're talking about?
00:27:56Sit down.
00:27:57I miss Timothy.
00:27:58Where's the chaos?
00:28:01OK, so...
00:28:02Tori's a great chick.
00:28:03Yeah, we love our girl.
00:28:04So I don't want her standing under a tree for her final vows
00:28:08and him reading something out going,
00:28:10you know what, you know,
00:28:12it's been a great ride for the past two and a half months,
00:28:15but unfortunately it's not for us.
00:28:17Oh, my God, if that happens, I'll die.
00:28:19That is the f***ing shits.
00:28:21Like, if he was really into Tori,
00:28:23why in week one would Jack show me pictures of his ex
00:28:27and how hot she is?
00:28:30You're joking.
00:28:31Oh, my God.
00:28:32Did he do that?
00:28:33Yeah, on the phone.
00:28:36That is shocking to me.
00:28:38He's crossed the line.
00:28:40I don't believe that Jack is here for genuine reasons.
00:28:43Like, he is screaming, f*** boy.
00:28:45100%, no.
00:28:47From every direction.
00:28:49I have, like, zero respect for the guy.
00:28:51I also have some information about Jack.
00:28:54I didn't want to bring this up because
00:28:57when these two situations happened,
00:29:00it could have been an accident.
00:29:02Tim and I were going to the spa,
00:29:04and we were walking past, he said hello to Tim,
00:29:06and then as I was walking away, he kind of tapped my butt,
00:29:08but I'm like, was that purposely?
00:29:10But the second thing was,
00:29:12Jack was apologising to Lauren at the dinner party
00:29:15about that whole big fight.
00:29:17And when he apologised to me, he kissed me on my neck.
00:29:20Jack kissed you on the neck?
00:29:22That is 100% a dog act.
00:29:24You've got to get pretty close to somebody
00:29:26to kiss her on the neck or grab them on the arse.
00:29:31This man is married to my friend.
00:29:34The disrespect to my friend is unacceptable.
00:29:38Oh, my God, I'm, like, f***ing stressed right now.
00:29:42Yeah, I just think he's a snake.
00:29:44He's Jake the snake.
00:29:46I saw the snake wrangler here today
00:29:48trying to look for, like, the snakes on the boundary line,
00:29:50and I was like...
00:29:53I'm pretty sure he's in that room to the front and to the left.
00:29:56He's got a tight man bun, way too much tan,
00:30:00and a shirt that shows a little too much nipple.
00:30:04I don't really give two shits about Jack at the end of the day.
00:30:07What I care about is my friend.
00:30:09I don't want her left at the end of this looking stupid
00:30:12and feeling stupid and heartbroken.
00:30:16This is very clear that we all don't want our friend to be her.
00:30:21Yeah. Let's talk about it.
00:30:22Sorry, this is the game plan.
00:30:24Yeah, tell me what the game plan is.
00:30:26Tomorrow, the three of us, we're going to...
00:30:29How do I say this?
00:30:31Because I just don't want her to feel like we're coming for her,
00:30:34really, she feels so happy about.
00:30:36I f***ing love Tori so much.
00:30:38I know.
00:30:39If that hurts her in that way...
00:30:41She's coming, she's coming, she's coming, she's coming.
00:30:44She's coming here.
00:30:46We all were just trying to, like, open Tori's eyes,
00:30:49but I really don't want to talk about this tonight.
00:30:52I'd rather do it when Jack's not around.
00:30:54Otherwise, he's going to deny it, she's going to shut it down
00:30:57and we're not going to get anywhere.
00:30:58So I feel like tomorrow, we need to try to pull Tori aside,
00:31:01tell her what we know, because I'm trying to shake her
00:31:04and be like, you need to see what we see
00:31:06because we want you to make the decision to leave
00:31:08before he leaves you and breaks her heart.
00:31:11The retreat's first night drinks have certainly loosened tongues,
00:31:16with some privately mentioned allegations about Jack
00:31:20at the forefront of Lauren, Timothy and Sarah's minds.
00:31:24OK, it's not the right time.
00:31:26Let's just let things play out a little bit.
00:31:28Having decided to park that situation for tonight...
00:31:31All right, let's go back down there. OK, let's go.
00:31:33Holy shit, there's a storm abroad.
00:31:36The group are now ready to find out what's been happening
00:31:39with the allegations about Stephen and his hairdresser.
00:31:45Michael and Stephen, what's going on?
00:31:48Yeah, we had a...
00:31:50Um...
00:31:52It was a pretty rough weekend for the two of us.
00:31:55Yes, it was.
00:31:57Um...
00:31:59So, basically...
00:32:01Um...
00:32:03We went to the hairdresser.
00:32:05Stephen was getting his hair done
00:32:07and there was flirting happening with the hairdresser.
00:32:13Only to find out later, on the way home,
00:32:16that they had been flirting via message.
00:32:21I felt like it was a massive, like, emotional cheat there to me.
00:32:25You had this sexual awakening with another person
00:32:27that all of a sudden you didn't want to talk about.
00:32:29You had this sexual awakening with another person
00:32:31that all of a sudden you didn't want anything to do with me after that.
00:32:34Because I was starting to think about
00:32:36how come it was so easy to me to get flirty with someone
00:32:39I've known for 30 seconds.
00:32:41And we've been together for three weeks
00:32:43and I've been trying to force it and my instinct is to shut off.
00:32:47And, like, I feel so guilty about that.
00:32:50He's physically repulsed by me.
00:32:54I'm not physically repulsed by you.
00:32:56Like, if all of us just went off a physical spark,
00:32:59none of us would be in happy relationships
00:33:01because that is such a fleeting, like, moment of lust.
00:33:04Yes, exactly.
00:33:06But his point is that he's tried for three weeks to really...
00:33:09No, he has not. That's the thing. No, he has not.
00:33:11Michael, I'm just talking.
00:33:12No, he has not because you haven't been behind our closed doors.
00:33:14He has not tried for three weeks.
00:33:16Can you just relax for a second?
00:33:17No, I'm not going to relax. I'm annoyed right now.
00:33:19You worry about your own relationship.
00:33:22Are you serious, Michael?
00:33:24I'm serious.
00:33:25Yeah, because you're hurt and I get that.
00:33:27I'm serious. I'm pissed off.
00:33:28Stop lashing out at people.
00:33:29No, because you're making no sense to me because you're shallow.
00:33:32Why are you being like this to me?
00:33:34You shut up right now. You're getting on my nerves.
00:33:39I was kind of looking at Tim like, babe, say something.
00:33:42Like, chime in.
00:33:44Just do something.
00:33:47Do anything other than sitting, sipping, taking it all in.
00:33:55Just because every time I sit at dinner parties and things, Sarah,
00:33:57you always have the first thing to say.
00:33:59You are rejected and I get that, but you don't have to lash out at everyone.
00:34:04It doesn't matter. I don't really care.
00:34:07I obviously know that Michael was feeling rejected and hurt
00:34:10and I don't want to be a cause of hurt.
00:34:12Like, I feel so much guilt about that.
00:34:15So, like, my main priority, it's smoothing things over with Michael
00:34:19and try and make amends.
00:34:23Can I have a champagne?
00:34:28The issue that's been happening with Tim and I from the beginning
00:34:31is that I need Tim to step up and support me and say,
00:34:36don't come for my wife.
00:34:39There's nothing sexier than a guy who just, like,
00:34:42shuts down somebody else coming for them and being like,
00:34:45don't you dare speak to her like that.
00:34:48I've been with men who are like that and I f***ing love it.
00:34:53I think at this point, Tim and I need to have the conversation
00:34:56of whether or not he can step up.
00:34:59And if he can't, then, yeah, I guess I'm out.
00:35:07As night one of the retreat draws to a close,
00:35:10Sarah's frustration with Tim's lack of action
00:35:13spills over into the bedroom.
00:35:16It's not that hard to have your partner's back.
00:35:18It's not that hard to be like, hey, don't speak to my wife like that.
00:35:23Like, I need you to step up.
00:35:28Yeah.
00:35:29What do you think?
00:35:34I've been really trying to, like, step up to her standards
00:35:38and raise the bar and, you know, like,
00:35:40be the person that she wants me to be.
00:35:42There's that fine line of raising your standards
00:35:45or just, like, never really quite being enough.
00:35:50It just feels like, let's just talk about this.
00:35:53It's hard.
00:35:58It's the first morning in Byron Bay.
00:36:00Let's do it, eh?
00:36:01All right, let's do it.
00:36:03It's going to be a good day today, I've got a feeling.
00:36:05Let's go.
00:36:06Wakey, wakey.
00:36:07Hands off Snakey.
00:36:08Oh.
00:36:09And after a dramatic first night at the retreat,
00:36:12Lucinda has decided to bring Zen back to the group.
00:36:16Let's take our fingers.
00:36:18Oh, I love this.
00:36:19So good.
00:36:21Oh.
00:36:22With an early morning yoga session.
00:36:25As wide as we can and journeying over to the other foot.
00:36:29Aye.
00:36:30Aye.
00:36:36It's amazing what we can do on the earth.
00:36:38We try just, you know, reconnecting and letting go
00:36:41and having a bit of fun.
00:36:43Here to the ground.
00:36:45It's so nice having this gorgeous bunch of people together
00:36:49in this, oh, divine old house.
00:36:52Just hold it and really stretch it into your bum.
00:36:57And after working up an appetite,
00:37:00many are hoping to ease into day two of the retreat
00:37:03with some soul food.
00:37:05Oh, it's all going on in here.
00:37:07It's all going on.
00:37:08It's all happening.
00:37:09Salt, salt, salt.
00:37:10Today is a new day.
00:37:12The sun's out.
00:37:13Yesterday is in the past.
00:37:15Today has got to be a great day.
00:37:16Bon appétit, gorgeous people.
00:37:18Thanks, guys.
00:37:19This looks unreal.
00:37:20Enjoy.
00:37:21Made with love, guys.
00:37:22Made with love.
00:37:23This is what I love.
00:37:24I love just having a relaxed time, good energy, water, sun,
00:37:29water, sun, food, like all of that sort of stuff.
00:37:32So this calmness I really enjoy.
00:37:35Too blessed to be stressed.
00:37:37Yay, thank you, everybody.
00:37:39Thanks, guys.
00:37:42While most of the couples are starting the day feeling refreshed,
00:37:46it's a different story for Tim and wife Sarah.
00:37:49Feeling a bit flat, eh?
00:37:52It's up to last night.
00:37:55Definitely got differing expectations in a relationship, you know,
00:37:58and, like, just kind of, like,
00:38:01it's hard to change the nature of who you are.
00:38:04We haven't spoken to each other this morning at all, so.
00:38:08Bit of a position.
00:38:10This morning was a little bit off.
00:38:14I didn't get much sleep last night.
00:38:16I probably got three or four hours sleep.
00:38:18So that was pretty rough.
00:38:19And, yeah, Sarah and I didn't really speak at all in the morning.
00:38:25I'm just not living up to those expectations
00:38:27or, like, not meeting those needs of hers.
00:38:29I'm definitely not really a super confrontational person.
00:38:34I don't know, it's like the mix between growing as a person
00:38:37and being better and, like, changing who you are.
00:38:40So, yeah, it's a tricky sort of situation to navigate.
00:38:46Sorry, we need to have a chat.
00:38:52This next conversation that Tim and I have,
00:38:55it's going to be how can we work on this?
00:38:57Because I can't keep having the same conversations over and over again.
00:39:03How you doing?
00:39:04I'm a bit flat.
00:39:05Yeah.
00:39:07Same.
00:39:09I feel like to me it would be so easy
00:39:11to just, like, have him support me and speak up,
00:39:16and that would allow me to just, like, take a back seat.
00:39:19It's like I feel like in my brain it's as easy as that,
00:39:22but it's obvious that, like, in his it's not like that.
00:39:26It's a different way.
00:39:28It's not about being the loudest or yelling
00:39:31or having the biggest, like, opinion.
00:39:33It's about in those moments saying things for me and supporting me.
00:39:38You have someone who's yelling in my face.
00:39:42Like, I don't understand how that's asking for too much
00:39:45just for you to defend me in that moment.
00:39:52I want to let you know that I do want to be there for you
00:39:55and, like, I want to defend you.
00:39:57I want you to see that I'm on your team, you know,
00:40:01that I've got your back.
00:40:02You have it in you.
00:40:04It's not that you don't, you just choose not to.
00:40:07I never want to be in a situation like that
00:40:09where I don't feel like my partner has my back.
00:40:13I understand, you know,
00:40:15and I'm sorry that I didn't straight come to your defense.
00:40:18It hasn't been, like, perfect at all, but we laugh.
00:40:22We have really good sexual chemistry.
00:40:24Like, we obviously like spending time together.
00:40:27We're comfortable around each other.
00:40:29There's a lot of good things,
00:40:31and I want to hold on to, like, the good things,
00:40:33but I also want to make sure that, like,
00:40:35we figure out how to move past this and understand each other.
00:40:41Coming up...
00:40:42Give me a kiss.
00:40:45There's a few snakes around here.
00:40:47We need to tell Tori what's been happening.
00:40:50I feel f***ing sick about this.
00:40:52I feel sick about it, too, but I think it needs to be done.
00:40:55Will Sarah and Lauren spill the beans?
00:40:59About you and Jack.
00:41:06It's day two of the couples' retreat.
00:41:09Gotcha.
00:41:10And after a tense start to their Byron Bay trip...
00:41:13LAUGHTER
00:41:15..this afternoon, our husbands and wives
00:41:17are hoping to calm things down with a bit of R&R.
00:41:21I feel like we need, like, a day of just, like, chill vibes.
00:41:28I feel like we need a day of just, like, chill vibes.
00:41:31I feel like we need a day of just, like, chill vibes.
00:41:35Oh!
00:41:37By the pool.
00:41:41And, like, light, happy chat.
00:41:45Why don't you sit in Ridger's lap?
00:41:47He's got a little spot there for you.
00:41:48Like, in the middle here.
00:41:49You might lose me in the pink light.
00:41:50I'm the big spoon.
00:41:51LAUGHTER
00:41:52I actually don't bother the spoon.
00:41:54Maybe a bit of, like, rest and recovery.
00:41:58You're joking! Yeah!
00:42:00While some relationships are heating up in Byron...
00:42:03LAUGHTER
00:42:04..others are using the retreat to help mend their relationship.
00:42:08And Stephen is doing the best he can
00:42:10to smooth things over with Michael
00:42:13after his extramarital flirtation.
00:42:16That was karma. Instant karma.
00:42:19I think that there's a bit of tension.
00:42:21Michael and I are at a bit of a crossroad.
00:42:24Our last proper chat, I pretty much told him I was done.
00:42:29Um...
00:42:30But then I do have a tendency to kind of flee
00:42:34when I feel like it's not instantly right.
00:42:37So I definitely know that I could be putting
00:42:39a little bit more work into that.
00:42:41But we've got so much care and compassion for each other,
00:42:44and so, like, when you see that someone that you care about is hurt,
00:42:48you just drop it all and all you want to do is make sure they're OK.
00:42:52Right now, like, I feel like shit.
00:42:55I feel responsible for this not working.
00:42:57I feel guilty about that.
00:43:00I feel like everyone knows how much of a great guy you are,
00:43:03and I'm like, trust me, I see it.
00:43:07Like, I'm just frustrated at myself.
00:43:10The way I spoke about it was all very definite.
00:43:13When you use language like that, obviously it hurts you to hear that,
00:43:17but it also, like, it shuts off all possibilities.
00:43:20I feel like when, yeah, when you use that language
00:43:23and close off so many things,
00:43:25it just makes me want to, like, not put in effort in it.
00:43:27Makes me want to walk away as well.
00:43:29Yeah, I get that. I totally get it.
00:43:31But I have, like I've said, seen glimpses of a great guy,
00:43:35and I hold on to that.
00:43:39Just want you to show up, I guess, for a little bit.
00:43:41And I am, just like a day at a time.
00:43:43Like, today I've had a really good day,
00:43:45and, like, we're talking, conversing,
00:43:47and tomorrow we'll see what that brings.
00:43:50It was great seeing Stephen check in.
00:43:52I noticed he's making a little effort, which is nice.
00:43:56His famous words are take a day at a time,
00:43:58and right now I'm just trying to live that advice
00:44:00and just see where it goes.
00:44:03Michael and Stephen aren't the only ones
00:44:05feeling the positive effects of the retreat on their relationship.
00:44:09This is the sweatiest exchange.
00:44:13I feel like the retreat has been good. It's been fun.
00:44:15This is wet.
00:44:18Yeah, I'll continue to treat Tori with respect
00:44:21and, you know, work on us.
00:44:23Make her laugh and make her feel safe.
00:44:27Oh!
00:44:28Give me a kiss.
00:44:31There's a few snakes around here.
00:44:33Sarah and Lauren are sitting on some scandalous information about Jack,
00:44:37and Tori is not in the loop yet.
00:44:40And stuff that happened was, like, inappropriate and suspicious.
00:44:43Totally.
00:44:44It turns out I was right about Jack.
00:44:47He's being inappropriate with Sarah.
00:44:50Kiss on the neck, the tap on the bum.
00:44:54I don't want to do it. I don't want to do it.
00:44:57I don't want to do it either.
00:44:59Shh! He's right there.
00:45:02We need to tell Tori what's been happening.
00:45:05I feel sick about this.
00:45:07I feel sick about it too, but I think it needs to be done.
00:45:10But she is so defensive of him.
00:45:13Yeah, it is a bit scary.
00:45:15I can finish Jack and I want to get in on it.
00:45:19F***.
00:45:24I want to get in on it.
00:45:26I don't want to upset her, but I'm just worried about her.
00:45:31So I want to get, like, a bit more of a gauge on where Tori is at.
00:45:35I feel like I can't ask you questions about you and Jack.
00:45:38Why?
00:45:39Because I feel like you might get upset about it.
00:45:42I feel nervous to bring things up to you.
00:45:44Really? Yeah.
00:45:45I feel like you don't want me to ask you questions.
00:45:48People are interested in yours and Jack's relationship
00:45:50because from the beginning you have said,
00:45:51we're so good, we're so good, we're so good.
00:45:53But obviously things have come up along the way with Jack.
00:45:56Like, can I ask you a question?
00:45:59Absolutely.
00:46:00How do you feel about what happened at the commitment ceremony?
00:46:03Do you feel like he was setting you up to be like,
00:46:06I'm going to bail at the end of this?
00:46:08That's what it looked like.
00:46:09It was an eye-opening couch session.
00:46:13And it did provoke a very big conversation.
00:46:18I feel like I have a very good judge of character.
00:46:21And I feel like people think I'm this, like, little poor,
00:46:25like, poor Tori and, like, she's being played.
00:46:27No, that's not even it.
00:46:29We think you understand why he remanded.
00:46:31But I have a limit.
00:46:34What's the limit?
00:46:35Yeah, I'm not there yet.
00:46:37I'm not, like...
00:46:40I'm very in tune with what's going on and I'm...
00:46:43Yeah, I'm not a silly girl.
00:46:45We know that.
00:46:46And that's why it comes across as,
00:46:48because you're obviously very intelligent,
00:46:50everyone knows that,
00:46:52it comes across when you, like, sit there with him
00:46:54and you're like, no, we're all good, no matter what.
00:46:56Like, even the first week, you know, when the whole story came out,
00:46:58you were like, no, we're all good, like, no matter what.
00:47:00There was no, like, even little slither of, like,
00:47:02oh, yeah, I didn't like that.
00:47:03I think it's just they really like him and love is blind, you know?
00:47:07Like, you can kind of oversee things that are major red flags.
00:47:12There's no denying I'm annoyed at Jack.
00:47:14I'm very frustrated at Jack.
00:47:16And he knows he's got a lot of work to do.
00:47:18He knows he needs to make it up to me.
00:47:20But Lauren and Sarah aren't really, like, a fan of Jack.
00:47:24And so I don't need to, yet again, air dirty laundry.
00:47:29So unless you want something new to say to me,
00:47:32new, fun and exciting,
00:47:34I am not going to talk anymore.
00:47:37I'm going on vocal strike.
00:47:39It seemed very, like, I'm going to stand by him.
00:47:42No, no matter what.
00:47:45And that's when my concern came in.
00:47:46I'm like, what if something legitimate happened?
00:47:51It wasn't the right time to tell her
00:47:53because she's too defensive about it.
00:47:57Like, Jack's right there.
00:47:58So, I mean, we'll try again tonight.
00:48:01When Jack's out with the boys,
00:48:03we literally have one chance to pull this off.
00:48:06Otherwise, it will get shut down and that'll be the end of it.
00:48:08We need to make sure we execute it properly.
00:48:10And I feel like all hell is going to break loose, honestly.
00:48:15Coming up, will Lauren and Sarah finally dish the dirt on Jack?
00:48:20What's your limit? Like, what would be your deal breaker?
00:48:23It's a great question.
00:48:25Lauren and I locked eyes straight away
00:48:27and we were like, we've got to tell her.
00:48:32Coming up...
00:48:36Byron Bay is the new home for this year's couples retreat.
00:48:42One, two, three.
00:48:54In the middle. I'm clicking. Right here in the middle.
00:48:56And while some are soaking up the sun...
00:48:58This is dreamy. Hi.
00:49:01..others are playing a get-to-know-you card game.
00:49:05What is the funniest experience you've had on a date?
00:49:10I have one. I was on a date with a boy, my first date.
00:49:14I stood on the front of my dress.
00:49:16As I stood up, the whole dress went down to here.
00:49:25Is there a fashion trend you wish you hadn't followed?
00:49:30I had a perm.
00:49:33A perm and a mullet.
00:49:37Perm and mullet at the same time.
00:49:41I do personally find Tim really spunky.
00:49:44Tim and I are in the best possible place,
00:49:47celebrating each other in this new couples retreat space.
00:49:52But I just think that when he clicks in and decides to open up,
00:49:57I think a beautiful love could blossom between us.
00:50:02Jaden, what is your biggest fear?
00:50:07Losing my parents.
00:50:09Oh, Jaden!
00:50:11Losing my parents.
00:50:13Losing your parents?
00:50:15Losing my parents.
00:50:26What's the next card?
00:50:28You know, I could see the family question.
00:50:30It put Tim into a spell of sort of feeling his loss.
00:50:37I adored him.
00:50:39And for who he is, for what he's been through...
00:50:45The stories and the scars that he carries, he's actually phenomenal.
00:50:50After a harmless card game left Timothy feeling the grief of losing his family,
00:50:55Lucinda has decided to sit her husband down
00:50:58in the hope that he might finally open up to her emotionally.
00:51:02How are you?
00:51:04Been better.
00:51:09It's been a funky day, I think.
00:51:11It has, yeah.
00:51:13Yeah, I really want to be there for Tim.
00:51:15Just got to be so careful not to push him.
00:51:18Cos then all the walls come up, and I understand that.
00:51:23But, you know, we're married,
00:51:25so I just want to lean in and touch and be and go deep.
00:51:31I actually was feeling so actually good, and...
00:51:36Same.
00:51:37It just seemed to turn to shit so quick
00:51:39when we were playing that game this afternoon.
00:51:43I felt you so much.
00:51:46You know, you've had to work through a lot of shit stuff.
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:54My dad passed away about six weeks ago.
00:51:59And mum died 17 years ago.
00:52:04My brother died in the same year.
00:52:07So I've got no family left.
00:52:11I'm definitely guarded.
00:52:13Hence my new tattoo that I got just a couple of weeks ago.
00:52:22The Tin Man.
00:52:27You tell everyone you don't have a heart.
00:52:31I don't really let too many people in.
00:52:34Closing myself off is the way I protect myself.
00:52:38Because what would it mean for you
00:52:40if you admitted that you have a heart?
00:52:43It means I can be hurt.
00:52:46I get why you aren't who you are.
00:52:49I'm defensive, you know.
00:52:51You've had to be.
00:52:54Yeah, it's losing the family.
00:52:58And...
00:53:03Yeah, and the biggest thing I lost was myself.
00:53:08Yeah.
00:53:16I'm sorry, brother. I'm sorry.
00:53:20I actually can't do this.
00:53:37I'm sorry.
00:54:07No.
00:54:38It's like...
00:54:41Everyone has an anchor.
00:54:44You know, it's generally, you know, it's generally your family.
00:54:50And I just, you know, I...
00:54:59I guess just being around everybody and just hearing everybody and...
00:55:04Yeah.
00:55:06It just brings it all to light.
00:55:09And losing yourself is...
00:55:13You know...
00:55:16You just don't know who you are anymore.
00:55:29I just, you know...
00:55:32I, um...
00:55:34I seem like a mouthpiece sometimes and I...
00:55:40You know, I try and make a joke of pretty much everything
00:55:43because it's the way that I deal with things.
00:55:50I don't know. I'm in sort of uncharted territory for me.
00:55:55It just cut so deep.
00:56:02I feel lost.
00:56:10I know that Lucinda doesn't think I'm weak because I show emotion.
00:56:16Lucinda's... She's a rock. There's no question.
00:56:20Lucinda's a rock.
00:56:32I've never seen that side of Tim.
00:56:39I just feel like so many wounds came down then.
00:56:43It was a real turnaround.
00:56:45I feel deeply, deeply honoured that Tim feels safe enough to open
00:56:50and share his deepest vulnerabilities with me and...
00:56:55I just want to, like, be in devotion to that.
00:57:02MUSIC FADES
00:57:13Byron Bay is the new setting for this year's couples retreat.
00:57:18And having spent last night in a mixed group setting...
00:57:21Ooh!
00:57:23Work it, girl.
00:57:25..tonight, our husbands and wives will be separated for a boys and girls night.
00:57:30That is a beautiful dress, gorgeous.
00:57:32Have you got a jacket? You've got your big jacket.
00:57:35Oh, I'll get it.
00:57:36A social event separating our brides and grooms
00:57:39is an integral part of this retreat.
00:57:42There's so much to do right now.
00:57:46Looking fine.
00:57:47Studies show that spending time away from your spouse
00:57:50and catching up with other people
00:57:52can have a positive impact on your relationship.
00:57:55Do you have hairspray?
00:57:57Oh, I gave it to Eden.
00:58:00I'm so excited about tonight.
00:58:02Jack and I, I'm in a much better place.
00:58:05I feel like the retreat, we needed this.
00:58:08I know I'm going to have a really great time.
00:58:10Don't comment on how burnt I am.
00:58:11No, you look good.
00:58:12Oh, thank you.
00:58:16It's going to be interesting to see...
00:58:20..what's going on.
00:58:23Me and Sarah had a conversation with Tori today
00:58:25about how we feel like we can't really talk to her about her relationship.
00:58:28But unfortunately, Sarah and I have more information about Jack
00:58:32than that we want to share with her,
00:58:34and it's, like, really uncomfortable.
00:58:36It's, like, not the kind of thing
00:58:37that you ever want to have to tell a friend.
00:58:40I think tonight's going to be...
00:58:43..interesting.
00:58:45Yeah.
00:58:52I love Tori, but Jack definitely crossed a line.
00:58:56And I would much rather have someone be honest with me
00:58:59about something than beat around the bush.
00:59:02And as her friend, I feel like she should know.
00:59:06Inappropriate things have happened.
00:59:11Yeah, it's going to be a big night.
00:59:17Good job.
00:59:18Have fun with the girls.
00:59:20Yep, I'm sure it'll be a hoot.
00:59:26This evening, the boys' night is being held
00:59:29at a local Byron Bay distillery...
00:59:31Boys' night, let's go!
00:59:34..while the girls are staying back at the house for the night.
00:59:38Oh, yeah!
00:59:40That's so cute.
00:59:42Oh, water now.
00:59:45Tonight's boys' night.
00:59:47Let's go.
00:59:48Come on.
00:59:49Look, I like half of them.
00:59:51I think the other half are dickheads.
00:59:53Boys, I think it goes without saying,
00:59:55one shot for every time you've dogged your missus, so...
00:59:58We've got a lot of shots.
01:00:02So imagine going out with a bunch of dickheads.
01:00:05Saddle up, here we go.
01:00:07There we go.
01:00:11Boys, let's go.
01:00:14Cheers, guys.
01:00:15Cheers, girls' night.
01:00:18Tim had a real turnaround tonight.
01:00:20There's been a huge breakthrough there.
01:00:22I feel so happy in my heart.
01:00:27Guys, you're not going to believe what just happened.
01:00:29What? What do you mean?
01:00:31You won't.
01:00:33Well, miracles happen.
01:00:35Oh!
01:00:36Yeah.
01:00:37What do you mean?
01:00:38OK.
01:00:39Cass had some cards earlier,
01:00:41and we went around and asked some questions,
01:00:43and we all answered them.
01:00:44It was those two questions about what's your biggest fear
01:00:48and what's your biggest loss.
01:00:50And I just clocked the moment and felt for Tim.
01:00:53Oh!
01:00:55And anyway, we're just sitting on the couch,
01:00:57and, you know, we spoke about that,
01:01:00and, yeah, I just started to tear up
01:01:03because I could feel his loss, and then he didn't.
01:01:06Oh!
01:01:07Wow.
01:01:10I just lost it.
01:01:11I don't...
01:01:13I don't cry.
01:01:15And I just...
01:01:17Yeah.
01:01:18Did you cry?
01:01:19Yeah.
01:01:20Really?
01:01:21Yeah.
01:01:22And we reunited,
01:01:24and he gave me the most heartfelt, beautiful hug.
01:01:27Oh, my God, I love you guys.
01:01:29It was just such a gorgeous hug.
01:01:30He came to you.
01:01:31He came to me.
01:01:32He came to you.
01:01:33And the biggest...
01:01:34It was just...
01:01:35We breathed into each other.
01:01:36Oh, my God, a melting pot.
01:01:37Yeah, and I got another ride in there.
01:01:39It was the best thing in the entire lockdown world.
01:01:41It was so...
01:01:42Literally.
01:01:43Literally.
01:01:44It was so beautiful, and...
01:01:45I'm getting teary.
01:01:46God!
01:01:47I thought Timothy would make me teary.
01:01:48Yeah.
01:01:50I'm looking forward to catching up with Alayda.
01:01:52Yeah!
01:01:54That is very nice.
01:01:56There you go.
01:01:57Oh, wait.
01:01:58You're looking forward to catching up with Alayda?
01:02:00I'm looking forward to catching up with Alayda.
01:02:02What's gonna happen later?
01:02:03I didn't see that coming.
01:02:04I know, I didn't.
01:02:05That's good to hear, man.
01:02:07I'm excited.
01:02:08That's really good to hear.
01:02:09Yeah.
01:02:10She was a sweetheart.
01:02:11Yeah.
01:02:12She is.
01:02:13She really is.
01:02:14Yeah.
01:02:15Mr. Slowburner himself.
01:02:16Mr. Slowburner.
01:02:17Yep.
01:02:18Mate, mountains got melted today.
01:02:20They think global warming is fake.
01:02:22It's real, and it's in Timothy's heart.
01:02:24Yeah.
01:02:25You know?
01:02:26He's, like, the definition of a slow burn, you know?
01:02:29But I think the candle's now reached its wick to pure flame.
01:02:33What do you reckon the chicks are all talking about?
01:02:35Andy, how are you and Big Dick going?
01:02:38Ah!
01:02:40He's such a sweetheart.
01:02:41He's the kindest heart.
01:02:42And, yeah, he's...
01:02:44Like, I really like him.
01:02:46I love Girls' Night.
01:02:47Yeah, we love Girls' Night.
01:02:49Girls' Night was so needed for you.
01:02:51Yeah.
01:02:52Big time.
01:02:53OK, who's next?
01:02:54Tori.
01:02:55What?
01:02:57Yeah, Tori, how are you going?
01:02:59I'm great.
01:03:02Jack and I are good.
01:03:03Jack and I are in a good place.
01:03:05I feel like I'm, like, constantly, like, justifying that.
01:03:09You know, our couch session at the last commitment ceremony
01:03:13was quite raw and quite, like, exposing,
01:03:18but it was a really good...
01:03:20It was a great chat and it led to a really, you know,
01:03:23good and honest and open conversation,
01:03:25transparent conversation with Jack and I.
01:03:27We're in a good place. We're in a good spot.
01:03:32Jack definitely crossed the line.
01:03:34I have to say something to her.
01:03:38I'm actually just, like, a little bit...
01:03:40I'm shitting my pants.
01:03:44Sorry.
01:03:50Let's get this done.
01:03:59OK, who's next?
01:04:01Tori.
01:04:03Yeah, Tori, how are you going?
01:04:04I'm great.
01:04:06Jack and I are good.
01:04:08Jack and I are in a good place.
01:04:10say something to her.
01:04:13Jack definitely crossed a line.
01:04:16With like, two inappropriate occasions with me.
01:04:20This is a conversation that needs to be had
01:04:23and it needs to be unpacked.
01:04:25Do you feel like you guys are companions
01:04:28or like more relationshipy?
01:04:30I feel like it's more relationshipy.
01:04:32This is probably the first healthy dynamic
01:04:34that I do feel like trust and comfort and safety.
01:04:39Cutaways, mate.
01:04:42Is Puri your physical type?
01:04:51She's enough for me, 100%.
01:04:57Do you see her being the mother of your kids?
01:05:10All I can say is I'm open to having children
01:05:12with someone I fall in love with.
01:05:15We have a situation where Tori is very invested.
01:05:20And when I asked her, is Jack the father of your children,
01:05:23I'm 100% I'll have his kids tomorrow.
01:05:26When Jack was asked the same question, it was,
01:05:31I'm not buying it.
01:05:35But what do you think, it's somebody you fell in love with,
01:05:37but are you in love with Tori?
01:05:40Um.
01:05:43Of course I'm in love with Tori.
01:05:44You don't have to be in love, though.
01:05:46You can ask him.
01:05:46I'm not in love with Tori, no.
01:05:50Nobody gives a shit about Jack, I don't think.
01:05:52Couldn't care less whether he's here or not,
01:05:54but nobody wants to see Tori get hurt.
01:05:57I'm very lucky to be with someone in this experiment
01:06:00that I can go to and that does have my back
01:06:03because this experiment is a lot.
01:06:05Sitting here listening to Tori talk about
01:06:07how great the relationship is,
01:06:09I'm kind of like dying inside
01:06:10because obviously Sarah and I have some information
01:06:13that we want to share with her
01:06:15and it's like hard to sit here and listen to that.
01:06:19What's your limit?
01:06:20Like what would be your deal breaker?
01:06:21Like the ultimate deal breaker?
01:06:22Yeah.
01:06:27It's a great question.
01:06:29It's a good question.
01:06:30Lauren and I kind of locked eyes straight away
01:06:32and we were like, we've got to tell her.
01:06:35All right, I need to have a chat with Tori and Sarah,
01:06:37if you guys don't mind.
01:06:39Sorry guys, we'll be back.
01:06:41It's important to let Tori know
01:06:42because she needs to know all the facts.
01:06:44Then she can make her decision
01:06:45on what she wants to do with her relationship
01:06:46based on the truth.
01:06:48Does anyone know what this is about?
01:06:49No.
01:06:52Is there wherever you want to sit?
01:06:53I'll sit there.
01:06:53I'm on an aeroplane.
01:06:56Tomorrow night, Eden.
01:06:59I've received this information that I didn't want.
01:07:01Has.
01:07:02I'm feeling so uncomfortable and so anxious.
01:07:04A secret.
01:07:06I don't know what to do.
01:07:07Information so damaging.
01:07:10That can affect a lot of people in here.
01:07:12It will derail the entire experiment.
01:07:16They're all gonna hate me.
01:07:19Every single one of them.