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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:11We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:18We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:25I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:37We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:45Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis. Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:52We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:59I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
01:12We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:17Good morning sis! We're sure that many of you are celebrating their first Christmas.
01:22You can be a couple, boyfriend, or couple with a newborn baby.
01:27There are different kinds of first Christmas. Especially if it's your first Christmas with someone you love.
01:34That's nice. December is one of those months that many people get married and celebrate.
01:41That's true. Because it's cold, it's nice to have a honeymoon.
01:45It's nice to have someone to hug.
01:47Correct. They say that in the past, the first time.
01:51The first time. It's been a long time.
01:55They say that if you're celebrating your night with your boyfriend, usually you'll go home early.
02:00You'll go home early for the wedding.
02:02Because you go home early, right? If you don't go home on time, you'll die.
02:06You'll really get married.
02:08Maybe it's because it's nice to celebrate Christmas with someone you love, right?
02:13But I have another question, sis.
02:15How will you spend your Christmas this year?
02:18Since it's going to be a different Christmas.
02:21Well, the same.
02:23The same?
02:25Of course, it's the same.
02:27You'll still celebrate?
02:29We'll still celebrate Christmas.
02:31It's just a slight difference.
02:33The casting is different?
02:34No, it's the same.
02:36It's just a slight difference.
02:38It's still conjoined.
02:39Of course, right?
02:41Why are you favoring me?
02:43She's asking me. I'm just following her.
02:45That's right.
02:47You're following her.
02:49You're namedropping her.
02:51But whoever the couple is, their Christmas is memorable.
02:55First Christmas.
02:56And that's what we're going to talk about today with the couples
02:59celebrating their first Christmas either with each other or with their newborn baby.
03:05It's so good.
03:06We all know that the first Christmas is very exciting, right?
03:09I've been waiting for my first Christmas gift from my husband.
03:14What's the perfect gift?
03:16We might be able to answer that.
03:18Our guests might be able to answer that.
03:20But this will be answered by our guest.
03:23This is our guest today.
03:25She's with her baby.
03:27And we're going to introduce her.
03:29She's going to sing today.
03:30So that you and us will be happy.
03:32Ladies and gentlemen, Linsey Custodio.
03:41You're all I want for Christmas
03:52All I want, my whole life room
04:06Each day is just like Christmas
04:22Anytime that I'm with you
04:36You're all I want for Christmas
04:47And if all my dreams come true
05:02Then I'll awake on Christmas morning
05:16And find my stockings filled with you
05:32Sisters, we are sisters
05:39Always be, we are sisters
05:42We are sisters
05:47If you're newlyweds or you're just about to give birth to your firstborn,
05:51especially to couples,
05:53they're excited to celebrate their Christmas.
05:55What will be their first Christmas gift?
06:00Let's say that their first Christmas is with their new babies.
06:05So this is their first Christmas with their new babies.
06:08Of course, we're here with Ms. Melanie Marquez and Adam Loyer.
06:12Welcome again.
06:15Of course, we're going to have Linsey Custodio and Julius Platon.
06:19Good morning.
06:21Good morning.
06:22Thank you for having us here.
06:23First time.
06:24What's the name of your baby?
06:25Sean Christopher.
06:26Sean Christopher.
06:28Adam Loyer.
06:29Baby?
06:30Yes.
06:31Really?
06:32Yes, Adam Loyer.
06:33Like the father.
06:34Junior.
06:35No, that's the real Adam Loyer.
06:37Original.
06:38He's just the pet name of Adam.
06:40Ah, okay.
06:42But his name is called Adam.
06:44Adam?
06:45Loyer.
06:47You can't get the punchline.
06:50Sorry.
06:51Okay.
06:52Plans for this Christmas.
06:53Since you have this new baby,
06:55are you going to do something special?
06:58Yeah, we're going to have a wonderful Christmas.
07:00We're going to take the baby and wrap it in a bow and put it under the tree.
07:04Excited, I'm sure.
07:06You probably are very excited.
07:08I love Christmas, especially in the Philippines.
07:10Why?
07:11Because everyone takes Christmas so seriously.
07:14They told me when I first came here that they start celebrating Christmas in the Burr months,
07:19like September, October, November.
07:21Yes, that's true.
07:22As soon as it's already September, we play Christmas tunes.
07:26Right.
07:27Decorate.
07:28Decorate.
07:29By October, most homes are already decorated.
07:32Fully decorated.
07:33That's right.
07:34We're going to teach English.
07:36We'll draw you too.
07:38Yes.
07:39You two.
07:40Us?
07:41How are we going to celebrate?
07:43We plan to celebrate our Christmas the traditional way.
07:46With the family.
07:47Filipino, Filipino.
07:48But having the baby there with us during Christmas time, it's special.
07:54It's more special.
07:55It's a bonus.
07:56Yes, it's a bonus.
07:57It's more special.
07:58The traditional way.
07:59Early Christmas Eve.
08:01Go to church and then have Noche Buena together.
08:05So I'm sure you decorated your house.
08:07Did you decorate Christmas with your wives?
08:11Did you help your wives decorate your Christmas tree or the Christmas lights or whatever?
08:16Oh, yeah.
08:17We have a pearl.
08:18Pearl.
08:19Yes, there's a lantern.
08:20And I hung it outside and I plugged it in and then blew it up.
08:28So did you have discussions about what color the Christmas tree would be?
08:32I mean, the decorations, like ours is blue and silver.
08:35Did you have that?
08:36Discussions and arguments?
08:38Yesterday, I cut off the bottom of the tree and then put it in the sand.
08:41It's a fresh one, right?
08:42Fresh tree.
08:43It's very beautiful.
08:44And then I put it in the sand and then I stood it up.
08:49That was my part.
08:50Okay, and then after that, the rest is hers.
08:52The rest will be mine.
08:53Yes, the rest will be mine.
08:54What color is your Christmas tree?
08:56Do you have a motif?
08:57I always want white.
08:58Oh, white.
08:59White Christmas.
09:00White Christmas.
09:01Oh, white.
09:02Okay.
09:03What about you?
09:04Did you have discussions?
09:05Did you have that?
09:06I don't argue anymore.
09:08I just let the girls decorate.
09:14I watched only because this is her first time to decorate the Christmas tree.
09:19Because every Christmas, she always has a show.
09:22So she doesn't experience decorating the Christmas tree.
09:25Last year?
09:26Last year was actually our first Christmas together.
09:28I'm sure for you too, it was your first Christmas last year together as a couple.
09:32But now it's different because there is a baby.
09:35What is the difference? Major difference?
09:38Well, last year, we were having our honeymoon.
09:41Oh, you didn't have a Christmas tree?
09:43We didn't have a Christmas tree to decorate at that time.
09:46Because we were in the States.
09:48It was our honeymoon.
09:51We traveled.
09:52We got married on December 19.
09:56After that, we left.
09:57We left on December 21.
09:59So we were in Florida on the 25th.
10:01We were in Dreamland.
10:04It was our first trip together in the U.S.
10:07So that's memorable.
10:08It was her first Christmas here in the Philippines.
10:11With a matching baby.
10:13With a baby.
10:14Bonus.
10:15How about both of you? How was your first Christmas together without the baby?
10:18We were in youth, isn't it?
10:20We don't have plans of cutting our trees.
10:22Because you know, we will go to the mountains.
10:25We own the land.
10:26So I go on a ranch in the mountain and I cut the tree down and she came with me.
10:31It's about 7 feet.
10:32So she picked out the tree on the mountain.
10:34But she picked a place in deep snow.
10:37And she stood on the road and she pointed.
10:40So I had to walk through snow up to here.
10:42And then I cut it down and I had to drag it back.
10:44I was sweating. I was really hot.
10:46Finally, we tied it to a four-wheeler.
10:48And then we pulled it out and took it home.
10:50She gave you a hard time.
10:52She just points which tree she wants.
10:54Beautiful trees.
10:55Because we have to really...
10:57I have to choose a high tree because the ceiling of our house is too high.
11:01So your first Christmas together was in the States.
11:04Yeah, the ranch.
11:05You were here.
11:06It was your first Christmas together here.
11:08That's why we're kind of excited about this.
11:10And you have a real tree.
11:12Yes.
11:13Why didn't you think of having a real tree?
11:19Because it smells good.
11:21So where did you get it?
11:22In S&R.
11:23S&R.
11:24They have real trees in S&R?
11:26Yes, they do. You can buy.
11:28I didn't know.
11:29And they're very cheap.
11:30They're imported.
11:32Anyway.
11:34Christmas shopping.
11:35We do Christmas shopping together.
11:36Yes.
11:37I go with her to Christmas shopping.
11:38But...
11:39You go with her.
11:40Wow!
11:42She's a shopaholic.
11:43Of course.
11:44But she's the one who chooses what to buy.
11:48I just watch her.
11:49She's always on one side.
11:51And then she brings her stuff.
11:52Because when I argue, the shopping takes a long time.
11:56So you just wait on one side.
11:58With the book.
11:59I just follow her.
12:00You just follow her.
12:01She's always on one side.
12:02Review, review.
12:03And then when I'm done,
12:04Honey, let's go.
12:05Okay, let's go.
12:06Why do you have to argue?
12:09You wrap gifts for the baby.
12:11Yes.
12:12And also for her children.
12:14My children.
12:15Everything is ready.
12:16Relatives.
12:17Because we don't want to panic.
12:21We don't want to panic.
12:23It's cheap.
12:24We finish early.
12:25I want to panic.
12:26Do you want to panic?
12:27I want to rush.
12:29Rush.
12:30When it comes to my children,
12:31I want everything enveloped.
12:33Cash only.
12:34Cash only.
12:35So they can buy whatever they want.
12:37You go with her?
12:38Christmas shopping?
12:39Yes.
12:40You do? You enjoy it?
12:41I love being with her.
12:44Did you bring the baby around already?
12:46A little bit.
12:48Now that we saw them bring their baby,
12:50we're more brave now.
12:52Are you overprotective?
12:54A little bit.
12:55I get a little concerned.
12:58But we worry sometimes.
13:01Because he got sick recently.
13:03He'll get better.
13:05What's his name? Sipon?
13:06Yes, Sipon.
13:07It's really hard.
13:08So this will be your first Noche Buena together.
13:12Because it's your first Christmas in the Philippines.
13:14So this will be your first Noche Buena together.
13:17Have you planned what you're going to eat?
13:19How are you going to celebrate Noche Buena?
13:21Who are you going to invite?
13:22Who are you going to invite?
13:25Me?
13:26Are you going to cook, Melanie?
13:28Of course.
13:29And for the others, I'll buy a cook.
13:32It might be too hard.
13:34But for me, whoever remembers us,
13:37they're welcome.
13:38Yes.
13:39As long as it's our family,
13:41my children and I,
13:42we'll be together.
13:43That's what's important for Christmas,
13:45the family.
13:46Together.
13:47I'm really celebrating Christmas on the 24th.
13:51You're going to celebrate it on the 24th also?
13:5324th Christmas Eve.
13:5424th.
13:55Yes, of course.
13:56December, we'll be having the traditional, right?
13:59Traditional Christmas.
14:00So with the family,
14:02the two of us and our baby,
14:04then after that, we'll be going around to my mom and her mom,
14:09to the lolas.
14:10Christmas Day.
14:11Christmas Day.
14:12On Christmas Eve, it's you.
14:14Yes.
14:15Then on Christmas Day,
14:16mommies and lolas.
14:19Everything.
14:20Yes.
14:22That's tiring.
14:24Have you already picked out your gift for Ms. Melanie?
14:27The baby.
14:28Oh, the baby.
14:29Okay, Izab.
14:31Don't tell me.
14:32You too, the baby.
14:33That's our priceless gift.
14:35That's our gift to you, right?
14:37Baby.
14:38That's right.
14:40My gift to her is another baby.
14:42Another baby.
14:44Possible.
14:46How to compromise and make some family traditions?
14:49Oh my.
14:50What are their plans for their family traditions on Christmas?
14:55We'll talk about it Wednesday.
15:12All couples go through a period of adjustment.
15:15How do they compromise their family traditions?
15:20How do they do that?
15:21What do you really talk about on Christmas Day?
15:25Oh, my mom.
15:26Of course, Lindsay has a side.
15:29You're an in-laws.
15:31Do you really talk about your plans?
15:34There's no losing or anything like that?
15:37None.
15:38We just said,
15:40let's be a family first.
15:42Let's be a family.
15:43Noche Buena.
15:44Go to church and then Noche Buena.
15:46And then after,
15:47let's bless our mom.
15:49Then let's bless the other one.
15:50That's it.
15:51But if ever the plans will change,
15:53maybe the two families will just hold Christmas in one place.
15:58So that we can all be together.
16:00Right?
16:01Because since my mom and her mom are in Alabang,
16:07so maybe we'll just meet in a place in the middle.
16:12Compromise.
16:13We'll just compromise.
16:15And you also have siblings.
16:18You have your own lives.
16:22When it comes to food,
16:24are you looking for anything?
16:25Do you have any special requirements?
16:27Oh, hon.
16:28We need this.
16:29This.
16:30This.
16:31On Christmas.
16:33Well, the traditional way for us,
16:35ham and queso de bola.
16:38That's the tradition here in the Philippines.
16:41I guess all the families are like that here.
16:44Ham and queso de bola.
16:46And then at the same time,
16:47the round fruits.
16:51Is that walnut?
16:53What is that?
16:54Is that 8 kinds?
16:55Or 12?
16:56Castanas.
16:57Castanas.
16:58They say it's good luck.
16:5912 kinds.
17:0012 kinds of round fruits, right?
17:02We need that.
17:03I know there are more.
17:04No, just 12.
17:05Just 12?
17:06Oh, okay.
17:07Just 12 months.
17:08How about you?
17:09Did you ask her to cook something?
17:11Did you require her to cook,
17:12let's say,
17:13something special for Christmas?
17:15Something that you always look forward to.
17:16Usually, Christmas time,
17:18you look forward to,
17:19like here, ham.
17:21Or Thanksgiving,
17:22you look forward to turkeys.
17:23Is there something you're looking forward to?
17:25I love her Filipino cooking.
17:27Especially pampangan.
17:29It's really good.
17:30You like the pampangan food?
17:31Yes.
17:32When she cooks it, it's very good.
17:34I also like lechon, crispy pata.
17:36Ooh, very healthy.
17:37Oh, yeah.
17:38That's why you should eat.
17:39That's why you should eat anyway.
17:40There's no difference
17:42between our sandwiches.
17:44It's all ham and queso de bola.
17:46You just add turkey,
17:48and stuff like that.
17:49Add a little bit of that.
17:50All the same thing,
17:51as long as it's food.
17:52So, for gifts,
17:53of course, there's a budget.
17:55Who has a budget?
17:58Who has a checkbook?
18:01We're both like that.
18:03We have a joint account.
18:05No, I mean,
18:06who pays?
18:07Who pays?
18:08Who pays?
18:09That's why you should pay.
18:10Who pays?
18:11The girl, of course, right?
18:13Yes.
18:14Me.
18:15But sometimes, she does too, right?
18:16Yes.
18:17It's different.
18:18We're both like that.
18:19It depends on who the gift is.
18:20Who's closer to the cashier?
18:21I'm also like that.
18:23Who's the one who doesn't get lazy
18:24to get things from the wallet?
18:26Who's fancy, baby?
18:27Who's fancy?
18:28Who's fancy, baby?
18:29Who's fancy?
18:30It depends, right?
18:31Sometimes, you know.
18:32Sometimes, me.
18:33Yeah, we just sort of do it together.
18:34Yes.
18:36Okay.
18:37How about promises?
18:38Any promises that you made
18:41when you were just boyfriends,
18:44that you broke up,
18:45and you still want to be together this year?
18:47Something like that.
18:48Me?
18:49Us?
18:50Thank God.
18:51I don't have any yet.
18:52My promise to her was
18:53that I'll bring her to the US.
18:55So, it came true.
18:56It came true.
18:57My promise to her.
18:58It came true.
18:59There's another one.
19:00This year.
19:01You told me before, right?
19:04Your promise that we'll spend Christmas together.
19:07That promise.
19:08Always.
19:09Forever.
19:10That's it.
19:11We got married,
19:12and we've been together forever.
19:13You're the second one.
19:15Jaden.
19:16No, I'm the second one.
19:17Okay.
19:18The second one.
19:19More to come.
19:20Yes.
19:21Next year, the third one.
19:22Then, the next year, the fourth one.
19:23The fourth one.
19:24Next year, the fifth one.
19:25Okay.
19:27Wow.
19:30Thank you, thank you, thank you,
19:31thank you very much.
19:33Oh, for sharing your Christmas,
19:34first Christmas with your children.
19:36Or babies, I guess.
19:37Babies.
19:38Yes.
19:39And your fresh Christmas tree.
19:41I can't forget it.
19:44I don't know if there's anything like this
19:45in the Philippines right now.
19:47Anyway,
19:48if they don't agree
19:49on this Christmas,
19:51what should I do?
19:52How can I not give love
19:54on Christmas Day
19:55so that they'll be careful
19:56that it won't happen this Christmas.
20:14Oh,
20:15is there anything
20:16that they didn't agree on this Christmas?
20:19Is there?
20:20For example,
20:21his lover.
20:23Yes.
20:24What can we do?
20:26Of course,
20:27with us here,
20:29right?
20:30Christmas,
20:311999,
20:32when they decided to get married.
20:33Yes.
20:34Oh my God,
20:35it's a typhoon.
20:36It's a venue.
20:37It's cold.
20:38It's cold.
20:391999.
20:40Christmas.
20:41Christmas,
20:422001.
20:43They already have a baby.
20:45First Christmas with your baby.
20:47Yes.
20:48Here,
20:49with us,
20:50oh,
20:51Jack.
20:52I got you.
20:55John Malini and Gerard Pizaras.
20:57Good morning.
20:59Here on the right,
21:01Christmas of 2001,
21:03first Christmas with baby,
21:04Alessandro Martino,
21:06Nin Munak,
21:07and Todd.
21:08We didn't agree on this Christmas,
21:10what happened?
21:11Morning,
21:12good morning,
21:13sweet, sweet.
21:14I am sweet.
21:15I am sweet.
21:16You said that
21:17you didn't agree on this Christmas,
21:19but we didn't become a problem.
21:21First,
21:22first,
21:23we don't have a question yet.
21:24We don't have a question yet.
21:25Okay,
21:26what are you doing?
21:27Introduction.
21:28Sorry.
21:29Sorry.
21:30Can I ask a question first?
21:31Can I?
21:32I have a question.
21:33I have an answer.
21:34Ask, Jack.
21:35What are the things
21:36that you might not agree on
21:38this Christmas?
21:39This is a bad question.
21:40Okay.
21:43What are the things
21:44that you might not agree on
21:45this Christmas?
21:46Like,
21:47the motif of the Christmas tree,
21:49or what you will prepare
21:50for Noche Buena,
21:51or something like that.
21:52Or what you will give
21:53to your daughter
21:54or to the one
21:55who is crying.
21:56Crying.
21:57Right?
21:58What?
21:59Not agreeing on.
22:02What is it?
22:03Maybe,
22:04what the baby will wear.
22:05Something like that.
22:06Because,
22:07we have different tastes.
22:09Sometimes,
22:10in the mall,
22:11I will be chosen.
22:12I will be like,
22:13what are you doing?
22:14That's it.
22:15Then,
22:16minor things,
22:17very little things.
22:18What else?
22:19Food.
22:20What you will prepare.
22:21That's it.
22:22Maybe.
22:23Do you have something like that?
22:24Why?
22:25What does she like?
22:27Smorgasbord.
22:29Mixed.
22:30She likes a lot of things.
22:32As for me,
22:34what else?
22:35You're the one who cooks.
22:37Just the right amount.
22:38Just the right amount.
22:39She likes
22:40a lot of things.
22:41Like,
22:42wow!
22:43Noche Buena.
22:44I have a bonus
22:45this Christmas.
22:46That's what I like.
22:47I have a bonus
22:48this Christmas.
22:49That kind of effect.
22:50That kind of effect.
22:51I have a bonus,
22:52that's why.
22:53This is it.
22:54It's Oni and Ed.
22:55What is it?
22:56I don't know.
22:57Is this your first Christmas
22:58together?
22:59Yeah.
23:00First Christmas
23:01with a baby.
23:02With a baby.
23:03Okay.
23:04That's my gift to her
23:05this Christmas.
23:06You're giving her a gift?
23:08What else?
23:09What else?
23:10Sometimes,
23:11when we want to billiards,
23:12she doesn't allow us.
23:13That's it.
23:14Ah!
23:15With her 5-month-old son.
23:16With her son.
23:17Yes.
23:18Billiards.
23:19She doesn't allow you.
23:20I think she should.
23:21I think she should.
23:22That's what we do
23:23at night, right?
23:24That's it.
23:25That's us, right?
23:27Why don't you
23:28let her answer?
23:29Let her answer.
23:30I don't know what to say.
23:33Is that why you're sweating?
23:34Yes.
23:35It's cold here.
23:36You're wearing a jacket.
23:37Christmas.
23:38That's an image.
23:39You're wearing a jacket.
23:40You're wearing a jacket.
23:41You're wearing a jacket.
23:42Ed,
23:43is this what you do
23:44with Oni?
23:45Hey,
23:46help me, for example,
23:47when you have a baby,
23:48do you wake him up
23:49and tell him
23:50that he needs to drink milk,
23:51that he needs to change his diaper?
23:52Do you make him
23:53make milk?
23:54No.
23:55Actually,
23:56he has a cousin.
23:57Wow!
23:58He has a cousin.
23:59Do you not want that, Oni?
24:00I don't want to force him
24:01because
24:02I don't want him
24:03to disobey me.
24:04No,
24:05the milk,
24:06I made the milk
24:07but we talked about it
24:08at the beginning
24:09that I really won't
24:10change my diaper.
24:11Why?
24:12Why?
24:13You should have experience.
24:14Yes, as a father.
24:15You should tell him
24:16the next time
24:17that you didn't
24:18change his diaper.
24:19It's not Christmas.
24:20No,
24:21it's not Christmas.
24:22No,
24:23for me,
24:24it's a job
24:25of a mother.
24:26Hey,
24:27hey,
24:28Oni,
24:29why is it a job
24:30of a mother?
24:31Why is it a job
24:32of a mother?
24:33Hurry up,
24:34hurry up.
24:35Why is it a job
24:36of a mother?
24:37Why can't you
24:38do that?
24:39You put a label
24:40there.
24:41Help me,
24:42where did you put
24:43the label?
24:44Hurry up,
24:45help me.
24:46Why is it a job?
24:47It's a job
24:48of a father,
24:49right?
24:50You give
24:51the needs
24:52of your family,
24:53right?
24:54But the...
24:55It doesn't stop there.
24:56Emotional,
24:57emotional.
24:58You should change
24:59your diaper.
25:00No,
25:01tell me the truth.
25:02He's really willing
25:03to learn anything.
25:04But I don't want
25:05because I know
25:06at first,
25:07really,
25:08when we had
25:09our baby,
25:10I know
25:11that I won't
25:12expect him.
25:13But I can see,
25:14I can see
25:15that he's already
25:16doing the part.
25:17So at least,
25:18you're not expecting
25:19that he's not
25:20going to disappoint you.
25:21So now,
25:22you're just surprised
25:23that he's still helping.
25:24Right?
25:25He doesn't want to admit it.
25:26No,
25:27and also,
25:28it's not like
25:29I always pray
25:30with the baby,
25:31but the...
25:32Diaper.
25:33Especially when he was
25:34still a baby.
25:35You're afraid
25:36to hold him.
25:37You're afraid
25:38to hold him
25:39because you're
25:40afraid of his head.
25:41You're afraid
25:42that you'll hurt
25:43his bones.
25:44That's why
25:45he's gentle
25:46with women.
25:47I don't have a problem
25:48with him.
25:49I have a problem
25:50with him.
25:51He always wants
25:52to be the one
25:53to hold the baby.
25:54What's your problem?
25:55No,
25:56my problem is
25:57I want him
25:58to brush his teeth
25:59in the morning.
26:00Brush your teeth
26:01before you kiss the baby.
26:02No,
26:03I don't want
26:04to kiss the baby.
26:05Because when he wakes up
26:06from the baby,
26:07he goes like this.
26:08He should brush
26:09his teeth first.
26:10That's all.
26:11It smells.
26:12It smells.
26:14Morning breath.
26:16What's the difference
26:17between last Christmas
26:18when you didn't have
26:19a baby
26:20and now
26:21that you have one?
26:22What's the difference?
26:23Now,
26:24we have
26:25a fixed plan.
26:26The three of us
26:27will always be together.
26:28That's it.
26:29And you're
26:30like a family.
26:31You're not like
26:32the other two.
26:33We can't be together.
26:34I'll go to you
26:35and I'll go to him.
26:36That's okay.
26:37No,
26:38the three of us
26:39need to be together.
26:40Actually,
26:41we were
26:42first Christmas
26:43together
26:44because
26:45we got married
26:46last Christmas.
26:47Did you get married
26:48on Christmas?
26:49December 17.
26:50So,
26:51it's like a honeymoon.
26:52So,
26:53this is the first Christmas
26:54that we'll be together
26:55for the whole season.
26:56That's right.
26:57That's right.
26:58That's right.
26:59Before
27:00we get pregnant.
27:01Pregnant?
27:03If there's one thing
27:04that you want
27:05from your partner
27:06this Christmas
27:07that you'll be happy about,
27:08what is it?
27:10You, Gerard.
27:11Answer.
27:12You haven't said anything yet.
27:13So, day.
27:14Okay.
27:15Scooter.
27:17It's a gift.
27:19That's his attitude.
27:20Attitude.
27:23Okay, attitude.
27:24I'll think about it.
27:26I'm perfect.
27:27Gerard is perfect.
27:29Perfect.
27:30See?
27:31I don't have any problems.
27:32Oh, really?
27:33And,
27:34I'm sorry.
27:35If you talk too much,
27:36your Christmas
27:37might not be happy.
27:39I might not be able
27:40to give you a gift.
27:41I know.
27:42I hope
27:43she doesn't beat me up.
27:45You look like
27:46a battered husband.
27:48What else?
27:50I hope she studies cooking seriously.
27:54No.
27:55I cook candela.
27:59She doesn't cook candela.
28:00Okay.
28:01Complete the sentence.
28:03Let's not prepare
28:04for a black
28:05because
28:07let's not prepare
28:08for a black
28:09baby.
28:11Let's not prepare
28:13for a
28:16vegetable
28:17because she can't eat it.
28:21Let's not prepare
28:22alcohol
28:23because she has a baby.
28:24Let's not prepare
28:25alcohol.
28:26Alcohol.
28:27Alcohol is different from
28:28alcohol.
28:29No.
28:30Alcohol.
28:31Tomas.
28:33Because she doesn't drink.
28:35And me too.
28:36And we don't want
28:37our guests to drink.
28:38Yes.
28:39Let's not prepare
28:40for alcohol.
28:41But it's okay
28:42if you come to us.
28:43It's okay
28:44if that's how good
28:45you drink.
28:47Okay.
28:48Let's not prepare
28:49for a black
28:50because
28:52Let's not prepare
28:53for a
28:56Let's not prepare
28:57for a lover
28:58because I don't want
28:59to love.
29:00Yes.
29:03Let's not prepare
29:04for clothes
29:06because you'll buy
29:07because I want to fit
29:08in my old clothes.
29:09In your old clothes.
29:10Correct.
29:12Okay.
29:13When we return,
29:14we'll let them
29:15feel
29:16what they feel.
29:18Talk and tell us
29:19who and what
29:20are their
29:21partners
29:22that they're
29:23discussing.
29:24Hey.
29:25Don't be shy.
29:26Don't be shy.
29:27Let's go back to Sis.
29:28Let's go.
29:37We are sisters.
29:41Let's see
29:42how our guests
29:43express their feelings
29:44to each other.
29:45They said
29:46it takes 7 years
29:47to prove
29:48marriage.
29:49Is that true?
29:50What if
29:51it's your first?
29:52Especially if
29:53it's your first
29:54Christmas together.
29:55What if
29:56it's your first?
29:57What if
29:58it's true?
29:59It's like proofing.
30:00It's true.
30:01It's like opening a house.
30:027 years?
30:03Yes.
30:04It's 7 years.
30:06Because 7 years
30:07is crucial.
30:08It's like
30:09the first 3 months
30:10of pregnancy.
30:11That's crucial.
30:12But for us,
30:13it won't be a problem
30:14because...
30:15It's true.
30:16Because
30:17honestly,
30:18my parents are separated.
30:20So I don't want
30:21my son
30:23to...
30:24To grow up with that.
30:25To...
30:26go through what I
30:27went through.
30:28As much as...
30:29As much as I
30:30can
30:32help him.
30:34So don't
30:35leave me.
30:37Yes.
30:39We can't speak.
30:41How about you?
30:42For me,
30:43it's just
30:45spiritual life.
30:46If you're strong
30:47in your faith,
30:49for Him,
30:50everything will follow.
30:51That's true.
30:52That's where I believe.
30:54All of the guidelines
30:56can be seen
30:57in the Bible.
30:58So,
30:59if you seek first
31:00your spiritual growth,
31:02you'll understand
31:03everything
31:04on the perspective
31:05of God.
31:06Not on the perspective
31:07of our emotions
31:08and our minds.
31:09So, that's what I believe.
31:10That's true.
31:11That's true.
31:13Actually,
31:14it will all fall into place
31:15if you have fear of God.
31:16That means,
31:17you're always following Him.
31:19And as long as
31:20there's love,
31:21once there's love,
31:22real love,
31:23I mean,
31:24inside the relationship,
31:25I don't think
31:26anything can go wrong.
31:27As long as everything
31:28is two ways.
31:29Exactly.
31:30One way.
31:31You need to have respect.
31:32Of course.
31:33Why do we always have
31:34different opinions?
31:35What do we know
31:36about God?
31:37That's right.
31:38Different opinions.
31:39Okay,
31:40out of all the differences
31:41you've encountered
31:42with each other,
31:43is this what you're asking
31:44from Him to change?
31:47Out of all the differences
31:48you've encountered
31:49with each other,
31:50is this what you're asking
31:51from Him to change
31:52this Christmas
31:53or a bigger acceptance
31:54of your different characters?
31:56Do you have,
31:57like,
31:58I'll just accept it,
31:59the acceptance
32:00and I hope
32:01He changes this.
32:02I hope next,
32:03I hope it won't be like this.
32:04I hope you won't be,
32:05you know,
32:06eating grapes.
32:07Stuff like that.
32:10I'm just saying,
32:11but I'm not...
32:12Minimizing.
32:13Yes.
32:14I'm just doing it
32:15because there are
32:16really habits
32:17of men
32:18that you don't
32:19really take.
32:20You don't really
32:21take it.
32:22Like watching
32:23Discovery,
32:24all day long.
32:25All day long.
32:26All day long.
32:27It's only 10.30
32:28and the sound
32:29of the TV is so loud
32:30and I can hear
32:31your voices.
32:32I'm calling you.
32:33Sister,
32:34it's 10.30 already.
32:35This is a joke.
32:36It's a joke.
32:37No, it's true.
32:38I'll go home.
32:41Oh, Joy!
32:43You can bring that
32:44to Amanda.
32:45Okay.
32:46Hi!
32:47Hi!
32:48We're so touched.
32:49She's like us.
32:50She's just shy.
32:51She's like us.
32:52She's like us.
32:53She's like us.
32:54She's like us.
32:55She's like us.
32:56She's like us.
32:57She's like us.
32:58Don't go yet.
32:59It's hot outside.
33:00It's hot outside.
33:01We may have to
33:02keep it in.
33:03Okay.
33:04Okay.
33:05So what is it?
33:06What is it?
33:07What are we talking about?
33:08Do you want to
33:09change
33:10Ollie's script?
33:11Are you asking
33:12for a different
33:13attitude?
33:14Or you've
33:15accepted that
33:16he's like that?
33:17I think I've
33:18accepted that
33:19because
33:20you know,
33:21the things I see
33:22in him
33:23that he's doing
33:24the wrong things,
33:25it's like his
33:26childhood.
33:27I'll explain.
33:28That's where he did it.
33:30Oh, okay.
33:32So, I understand that.
33:36It's just a sample.
33:39Or maybe he rode a rollercoaster five times.
33:43He didn't do it.
33:44Because he was working.
33:46No, I'm not kidding.
33:47Because it's just like those rollercoasters.
33:50Even in the States, there are associations
33:53that travel to other states and other countries
33:58just to ride a rollercoaster.
34:01It just so happens that I really like rollercoasters.
34:05Five times?
34:07When he was still working.
34:09He was still working, but we didn't know.
34:11Oh, he didn't know.
34:13Here.
34:14Things that you discovered together
34:16is probably the perfect season to express
34:18each other's feelings.
34:21You're not comfortable with one thing,
34:23but you're doing another thing.
34:25You're not comfortable.
34:27For me, it's Laska.
34:29I'm guilty because sometimes,
34:32it's just like that.
34:34I just want to be quiet,
34:37but I need to express myself.
34:39Yourself.
34:40Yes.
34:41But he's like, he wants to...
34:44His ears are scared.
34:45No, because I don't want to.
34:47I'm always the one who's scared.
34:49That's why.
34:50That's how it should be.
34:52No, it should be one person.
34:54One person should be the one who's scared.
34:56But it should be like this.
35:00Maybe I'll give it back to Madam.
35:03No, that's why.
35:04The woman should submit.
35:06The woman should submit to the man.
35:08It's written in the Bible.
35:10That's why you were brought to Tagjong.
35:12That's why you were brought to Tagjong.
35:14We'll discuss this later.
35:16We'll discuss this later.
35:18We'll discuss this later.
35:20We'll discuss this later.
35:21We'll discuss this later.
35:22We'll discuss this later.
35:24Okay.
35:25What's the worst thing you've done to your partner
35:29that you won't let it happen again?
35:32Can you promise him this?
35:34She's cursing.
35:36I won't do it again.
35:38I won't do it again.
35:40I won't do it again.
35:41Ever.
35:42There.
35:44I won't face you guys anymore.
35:45I won't face you guys anymore.
35:46I promise.
35:47I won't emote again.
35:51I won't emote again.
35:53It's postpartum.
35:54I won't emote again.
35:55It's postpartum.
35:56I understand.
35:58I understand.
36:00You won't get a scooter.
36:03I won't blame the gym.
36:08It's not a problem to go to the gym.
36:10I won't blame the gym.
36:11When I was pregnant,
36:12Of course, I feel bad for him.
36:14He really needs to go to the gym every day.
36:18So you left him?
36:20I was forced to go with him because I was sad at home.
36:23I wasn't working out.
36:25Of course, I let him go to the gym.
36:27He wasn't there.
36:29I was talking to him.
36:33I won't get mad again because of the steak you cooked.
36:39I promise to you.
36:41Did you get mad?
36:43No.
36:44Maybe he's hungry.
36:46We had a really expensive steak.
36:52I'll cook it.
36:56When I saw him cooking it, I thought it was okay.
37:00But when I saw the steak, it was burnt.
37:07It was just a candle.
37:10What about Eddie?
37:14Explain it to him.
37:18I expect too much because he's only 19.
37:23Okay.
37:27That time will come.
37:29You'll love to cook.
37:31What about you, Eddie?
37:33I won't cook again.
37:35Maybe I'll cook again tomorrow.
37:37I hope so.
37:39I'll cook again.
37:40I'll cook.
37:44Complete this sentence.
37:46Christmas this year for me will be because of you.
37:52Look at it again.
37:58Romantic.
37:59You know why?
38:01Because I have a Christmas gift for you.
38:03I know.
38:04I know.
38:06I'm good at this.
38:07Is it Christmas?
38:09Okay.
38:11Okay.
38:12What did you say?
38:14Nothing.
38:17I'm just happy.
38:18More than happy.
38:21Even if it's not Christmas, my life is complete because of you, Elizabeth.
38:28That's beautiful.
38:29You're the best.
38:31What are you doing?
38:33You're happy?
38:34Yes.
38:35But you'll come back here.
38:36We'll talk about it.
38:37You're the one who's going to call me.
38:39Let's see who you'll call when you come to the topic.
38:41That's the topic.
38:43It's in the Bible.
38:44Thank you very much.
38:46Yes, it's in the Bible.
38:47Yes.
38:48Wait a minute.
38:49You're going to the public speaking.
38:50Yes.
38:52You're going to the public speaking.
38:53He's older than you.
38:54Yes.
38:55Okay.
38:56Thank you very much again.
38:58I wish you a very, very Merry Christmas.
39:00Merry Christmas.
39:02You're so cute.
39:03Can I take a picture with you?
39:04Sure.
39:05Later.
39:06Later.
39:07Thank you again.
39:10Thank you for the assignment.
39:11We really appreciate it.
39:12Jen and I are still sisters.
39:13What do you mean by that?
39:14She's still thinking about it.
39:15Don't say that.
39:20I have a lot of things to do.
39:23Okay, let's go.
39:29We are sisters.
39:32Always be.
39:33We are sisters.
39:35We are sisters.
39:39Candy cane.
39:40Yes, candy cane for you, Jen.
39:42Let's change.
39:43Okay.
39:44Why is it candy cane?
39:46There.
39:47That's why it's candy cane.
39:50Okay?
39:51Because this is the symbol of the first Christmas.
39:55When you celebrate Christmas, you see candy cane.
39:59Why is it candy cane?
40:00It's not just because it's candy, but it's because…
40:02It's because it's J.
40:04And Christmas means Jesus because it's the birthday of Jesus Christ.
40:09In short, it's the J.
40:10Yes.
40:11That's the big J.
40:12Big J.
40:13Big J.
40:14Jesus Christ.
40:15Big J.
40:16Jesus Christ.
40:17The ultimate J, actually.
40:18Tell us about the color.
40:19Color.
40:20White is a symbol of holiness.
40:22The red is the symbol of the blood of Jesus Christ.
40:26And green is a symbol of peace.
40:28Yes.
40:29These are the colors of Christmas.
40:31So when we see candy cane, let's not think of it as candy.
40:36Let's think of it as J.
40:38Jesus Christ.
40:39And if we make Jesus Christ, especially in couples,
40:42if we make Jesus Christ the center of your relationship,
40:45everything else follows.
40:47Plus, we will teach this to the kids.
40:50When they grow up, that's how it is.
40:52So this, Janice, is for you, and that's for me.
40:55No, that's for you.
40:57Oh, you're giving it to us.
40:58Yes.
40:59Okay, thank you.
41:00We just wish we could give you the candy cane.
41:02Yes, we just can't.
41:03We can't.
41:04So anyway, thank you so much.
41:06And we…
41:07We had a great conversation today with the…
41:10With the couples.
41:11With their first babies.
41:12Yes.
41:13There are a lot of babies.
41:14Yes.
41:15Anyway, thank you for joining us.
41:16Thank you for joining us.
41:17And let me repeat,
41:18this is for
41:19SIS!
41:48and Union Square.
41:49You're all I want for Christmas
42:02All I want, my whole life room
42:16Each day is just like Christmas
42:29Anytime that I'm with you
42:44You're all I want for Christmas
42:57And if all my dreams come true
43:12Then I will know