It’s not always happy on Valentine’s Day! Join Samantha Lopez, Michael Flores, Robin Da Roza, and Jackie Forster as they share their heartbreak stories with us!
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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:39We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:47Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis, right by your side.
00:52Hit or miss, we are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends, the best of friends.
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be. We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:22It's feeling times day again. Check out some roses, a dinner by candlelight.
01:50Offer everybody, there'll be three less roses. Give them away tonight.
02:00Cause Jimmy's girl got out of play. Tried to stop her from leaving, but tried in vain.
02:10I can't handle those roses now, but she lives so far away, to a lonely heart.
02:21How does one say, happy Valentine's Day?
02:30It's Valentine's Day again. Long time lovers, lighting the fire once more.
02:49But it's gonna be cold tonight, for someone whose lover had walked right out the door.
02:59Sienna's fought and bagged the tears. Broke up with her beau of nine long years.
03:08And she's throwing her dreams up, walking down the aisle away, to a broken heart.
03:20How does one say, happy Valentine's Day?
03:32Cruel, oh so cruel, that your lover won't be glad.
03:41And if you're without a lover, well, that's just too bad.
03:51Cruel, oh so cruel, no other day like this can make you long so much for the one you miss.
04:09The one you miss.
04:16Sis, how was your Valentine?
04:18I had a good night's sleep. It was a long night.
04:21Me too.
04:23How about you?
04:25I had a good night's sleep, actually.
04:27Good.
04:28Ariel showed up, I took care of the kids, but she went home later.
04:31Yes, of course.
04:32Then we celebrated Valentine's Day.
04:34Good.
04:35Sort of.
04:36Do you remember your first Valentine?
04:39No.
04:40Really?
04:41Why don't you remember?
04:43Isn't it memorable to you?
04:45You know, most of us are girls, we're sentimental.
04:47Sorry, I had an operation five times.
04:49I had anesthesia.
04:50So, I can't remember.
04:51Really?
04:52Of course.
04:53What about you?
04:54Did Gabi recruit you?
04:55I really don't know.
04:56Gabi?
04:57I'm sure.
04:58I'm pretty sure.
04:59Was she with you?
05:00No.
05:01How about you, Jenny?
05:02How was your first Valentine?
05:03You had a valentine with you.
05:04Who was it?
05:05You were with me.
05:06Oh, yes.
05:07Right?
05:08We had a double date.
05:09We watched James Ingram.
05:10Okay.
05:11You don't want to say it because it's your date.
05:12Of course.
05:13That's why I gave you a tapioca.
05:14Did you notice?
05:15Okay.
05:16We'll talk about it today.
05:17Of course, post-Valentine.
05:18It's still love.
05:19It's still love.
05:20We're still together.
05:21But, the love I lost.
05:22How does it feel?
05:23It hurts, of course.
05:24It hurts, right?
05:25No, of course.
05:26You know, it hurts.
05:27But, the right arm.
05:28It hurts.
05:29It hurts.
05:30It hurts.
05:31It hurts.
05:32It hurts.
05:33It hurts.
05:34You know, it hurts.
05:35But, the right after.
05:36How does it feel?
05:37It hurts.
05:38Especially when you realize that this is it.
05:39This is it.
05:40We're going to say goodbye.
05:41Things like that.
05:42That's what we're going to talk about today.
05:43So, I'm sure a lot of people will relate.
05:44A lot.
05:45Yes.
05:46So, that's it.
05:47Watch out for that.
05:48That's an hour of stories and stories of life of our guests.
05:49We'll be back.
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07:18See?
07:20Okay.
07:21So, let's go.
07:22One love affair that you will never forget or your greatest love.
07:26Tell us about your greatest love, Chan.
07:30Well, I'm very open about him.
07:33He was the guy I loved.
07:35Until now, I still love.
07:36That's why he really doesn't want to marry me.
07:39I'm waiting.
07:41We had a relationship for two and a half years.
07:44So...
07:45Are you still together or not anymore?
07:46Not anymore.
07:47He really doesn't want to marry me.
07:48That's why you're a dead man.
07:50But I still love him.
07:52And he still loves me and my child.
07:55So...
07:56It hurts, right?
07:57Okay.
07:58No background music.
07:59Michael.
08:01Before...
08:03Just recently.
08:06She's the one I've been with the longest for...
08:08How long have you been together?
08:09Seven or...
08:10Seven years.
08:12That's a long time.
08:13That's a long time too.
08:15Ever since high school.
08:17So...
08:18It's hard to adjust up to now.
08:21That's why...
08:22What happened to us...
08:24Maybe it's just a disadvantage that we've been together for a long time.
08:28You've been together for a long time.
08:29Yes.
08:30Because...
08:31It's just two.
08:32It's either you'll separate.
08:34Or you'll get married.
08:35Or you'll get married.
08:36We'll go to that later, okay?
08:37Okay.
08:38Fine.
08:41Wait, I have a wife.
08:42Don't get mad.
08:43Don't get mad, okay?
08:45It's not Dominique yet?
08:46No.
08:47She's my greatest love.
08:48Okay.
08:49Fine.
08:51My story is about...
08:53The one who lost love.
08:54Because she needs love.
08:55Previous to her.
08:56Yes.
08:57Previous to her.
08:58It's good that she's gone.
09:00Okay.
09:01We'll go to that later.
09:02Robin.
09:03Robin.
09:05What?
09:06What is that?
09:07What?
09:08What's that?
09:09You're smiling at me.
09:10Nothing.
09:11It's like I know who that is.
09:12You know who I am?
09:13No.
09:14Go ahead.
09:15Tell us.
09:16Was it last month?
09:17No.
09:18No.
09:19Of course, my new girlfriend.
09:22Before that.
09:24Who is this?
09:26Who is this?
09:27Dominique.
09:28It's really you.
09:29It's me.
09:30No.
09:31That's it.
09:32Maybe each time that I part ways with the one that I'm with.
09:37She's the one I consider my greatest love.
09:39And I guess the one that will be my greatest love is the one that is going to stay.
09:43There.
09:45Jackie.
09:48It's been three years, right?
09:49So you can say it.
09:50Yes.
09:51We all know that.
09:52So the latest love and the most painful love.
09:55Two years.
09:57So how and where did you meet?
09:59Happy moment.
10:00There.
10:01Did you meet?
10:02It's not happy moment yet.
10:03Let's be happy first.
10:04Let's be happy first.
10:05Let's know the story.
10:07The way I met her was beautiful.
10:10I was drunk and my friends were carrying me.
10:13That's beautiful.
10:14That's beautiful.
10:15You can see that in the movie.
10:18She didn't carry you.
10:19No, no.
10:20You didn't hit her or anything like that.
10:22No, my friends were carrying me to the car.
10:25I couldn't stand up.
10:26And then I looked at her one last time because I was at the bar.
10:29I looked at her one last time just to check that everything's okay.
10:32And then I saw her and I suddenly stood up.
10:35I told my friends, wait a minute.
10:37I'm okay.
10:38I'm okay.
10:39You really stood up.
10:40I walked to her and I said, excuse me.
10:43I even slurred.
10:45Excuse me.
10:46That's a turn off.
10:48I would just like to know your name.
10:49Then she said her name.
10:51Then I said, okay.
10:52What's her name?
10:53That's it.
10:54That's beautiful.
10:56What's your name?
10:57Okay, wait.
10:58I'm okay.
10:59What's your name?
11:01What did she say?
11:03She said her name.
11:04What's her name?
11:05That's it.
11:06That's where I'm taking you.
11:09She probably already knows that.
11:10Then when she said her name, I said, I'm Rob.
11:14Then, nice to meet you.
11:16Then I just turned around and went back in the car.
11:19Then I passed out.
11:21But I remembered.
11:23Did you remember what your name is?
11:26Yes, I remembered your name.
11:29Samantha?
11:30I'm at Starbucks, 6750, November 8, 1998.
11:34That's really cool.
11:35What time?
11:37What time?
11:40Is it 752 at night?
11:43Actually, it's right.
11:44It's at night.
11:46It's at night.
11:47It's at night.
11:48How was our meeting there?
11:50Actually, Jessica Rodriguez should be the one to meet her.
11:56She's an American.
11:58She's a foreigner.
11:59And she doesn't know Jessica.
12:01It's just that Jessica's friend reminded her from abroad.
12:04Because it's her first time in the Philippines.
12:06So, Jessica and I are really close.
12:09We were eye to eye.
12:11I had an idea that Jessica would meet someone.
12:14We were eye to eye.
12:15I was the one who recognized that,
12:18Mam, I think that's the guy you're meeting.
12:21Then, while they were talking, I just looked at him.
12:25Did you get a big honey?
12:26Yes, we got a big honey.
12:28Oh, my God.
12:31You're smiling.
12:33He was my classmate in the 4th year of high school.
12:36But in the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd year,
12:39I didn't pay much attention to him.
12:43Did he bloom?
12:44No, because I also had a girlfriend in the 1st year.
12:47Then, we got back together in the 3rd year.
12:50Then, in the 4th year, he became my classmate.
12:54Then, he became my crush.
12:59Then, until he became my crush,
13:02you know, while we were together, we really developed.
13:05Until I really liked him.
13:07At the same time,
13:09that was the first time I got busted.
13:13He got busted.
13:15That was the first time I got busted.
13:17That's why I was really hurt.
13:19But at the same time, I was challenged.
13:22That's why you continued.
13:24Yes, I continued.
13:26He just dated me.
13:28How did you meet?
13:30At school.
13:31Was it a blind date?
13:33At school, I was his classmate.
13:35Then, he dated his friend.
13:39Although, I've known him for a long time.
13:42But, that's how we met.
13:45I don't know.
13:47Okay.
13:49It's been 2 and a half years.
13:52Jackie.
13:54I met him through my older brother.
13:57He's my older sister's fiancé.
14:00So, I call him older brother.
14:02One of his closest friends.
14:04We met August 18, 2000.
14:08We were friends for the longest time.
14:11He became my best friend.
14:12Until now, he's still my best friend.
14:14Okay.
14:15On the return of SIS,
14:17our guests will talk about
14:19how they realized
14:21what you have.
14:23Oh.
14:24Jones is singing.
14:26Let's leave it.
14:27It's too early.
14:28It's too early.
14:29Okay.
14:31SIS will be back.
14:43I want to be
14:46reaching out to touch you
14:51finding out what's true
14:56since I found you
15:01We are sisters
15:03We are sisters
15:04We are sisters
15:34I love you, it's my life
15:44There, you're getting to know each other.
15:48It's you.
15:50What are the first signs that became evident to you that,
15:56Oh my God, this is serious.
15:59I honestly love this person.
16:02And he or she honestly loves me too.
16:05We all have a personal gauge, right?
16:07Is this really love?
16:10We all have a personal gauge.
16:12So, how did you know that this is it?
16:16Me, when I felt I want to grow old with him.
16:18When I felt I want to marry him.
16:20Because before him, he offered me a marriage.
16:24Then I just laughed.
16:26I said, I'm not the type of a person to get married.
16:30But when I was with him,
16:34I feel like I can give up everything for him.
16:39Because I also saw how much he loves my child.
16:43Jackie.
16:46I wanted to spend a lot of time with him.
16:50And when I felt that he accepted everything.
16:56And no matter what, he was trying to fight for me.
17:01Because a lot of people were against the relationship on his side.
17:07Joanne.
17:09Let's start with the girls.
17:12For me, of course, you're still young.
17:14So, what I'm thinking is,
17:16I want to be with him every day.
17:18You always talk to him on the phone.
17:20You're really happy with that.
17:22How about boys?
17:23How did you know that you really like this girl?
17:27I think I really, really want to go deeper into the relationship.
17:36Like what I said earlier,
17:40I really like her.
17:42To the point that I really like her.
17:44That's when I got busted.
17:46So when I got busted,
17:47I really cried.
17:49I really went home.
17:51I cried.
17:52Ouch.
17:53Maybe it's just pride.
17:54No.
17:55I really love her.
17:58Didn't she tell you that you love her?
18:01Yes.
18:02I got busted.
18:04Of course, I was still young.
18:06You know, when you're young,
18:08you fall in love with everything.
18:10Everything.
18:11So how did you fight for that love?
18:16Of course, I proved to her that I really love her.
18:20Even her mom,
18:23when I met her mom,
18:25she said,
18:26I don't think he's serious.
18:27He just looks like this.
18:29You're against him.
18:30Yes.
18:31So when she told me that,
18:33of course, I proved to her that
18:37I'll prove to your mom
18:39that I'm really serious.
18:41Even when I was young.
18:43So this is it.
18:44You found out when you got busted.
18:46You fell in love with her.
18:48Oh, so much.
18:49How about you?
18:50For me,
18:51maybe when I stopped listening to advice.
18:56Oh, so that's how it is.
18:58Because usually, what advice do men give?
19:01Don't do that.
19:02You'll just get hurt.
19:03That will mess up your life.
19:05Is that what men talk about?
19:07Rob, there you go again.
19:09I just don't.
19:10How old are you, Rob?
19:11I don't listen to my friends,
19:13to my family.
19:15Even if I know that I'll get hurt,
19:19I'm 90% sure that I'll fall.
19:23I'll try to overcome all the obstacles.
19:27I won't listen to advice.
19:28I'll do what I want to do.
19:30For women,
19:31it's automatic.
19:32When you're in love,
19:33you'll do anything,
19:34give everything,
19:35everything.
19:36You'll do anything.
19:38For men,
19:39do you realize that you're really in love
19:41when you feel yourself
19:43doing things out of your norms?
19:46Oh, yeah.
19:47Right?
19:48Usually, if you don't want to commit,
19:51you're the one who's in a hurry to commit.
19:53I'm happy when I'm serving my girlfriend.
19:57I feel like,
19:59it's not that I'm being a burden to my girlfriend,
20:03but I'm serving her,
20:05and I don't use it against our relationship.
20:08I'm happy serving my girlfriend.
20:11I asked you earlier,
20:13how did you know that she's serious with you?
20:16Yes.
20:18Because there are people who are serious with you,
20:20like Michael.
20:21He's so serious,
20:22he's a bastard.
20:24Is there anyone like that?
20:25He's also serious with me.
20:29That's my problem.
20:31It's all about me.
20:32I feel like,
20:33I'm the one who gives,
20:35I'm the one who loves.
20:37I don't understand
20:39what he's giving to me when I'm wrong.
20:42It's the lack.
20:43It's not worth it.
20:45I also realized after a while,
20:48that it's not worth it to fight against our relationship.
20:51So, you're guilty of guilt?
20:52Yes.
20:53You didn't receive anything?
20:54Nothing.
20:56About your lost love,
20:58did you ever think that it's you?
21:01All of you thought that it's you?
21:04I thought it was time union.
21:05Of course, I think it's only Jackie who's different.
21:09Until now, I've been thinking that it's you.
21:11I hope it's you again.
21:15You know, Robin is really...
21:17What's Robin?
21:18There's a lot of Calabit Calabit ever.
21:21Maybe you should be the one we're asking.
21:23Because there's a lot of Jackie.
21:25Tell us about the scenarios that you do,
21:28the loving scenarios that...
21:32You reach the point where you ask,
21:36There's a proposal.
21:37There's a proposal
21:38You talked about it.
21:39Because you thought that it's you.
21:41Like Samantha,
21:42you were expecting him to marry you?
21:44It happened to me.
21:46It wasn't me who proposed.
21:47I was the one who asked.
21:49It was at the World Trade Center.
21:51It's not there anymore.
21:53That's why it's a conversation.
21:55That's where it happened.
21:56I just asked him.
21:58Because I gave myself 2 years to our relationship.
22:06If nothing happened,
22:09You know, if I'm not married,
22:11it's not that I don't want to continue.
22:132 years? Why just 2 years?
22:14I'm not getting any younger.
22:16I don't want to get married when I'm old.
22:18So how did you tell him?
22:20So after 2 years,
22:21I asked him.
22:23Because he was sending me where he was.
22:26We met where he was.
22:28Where he was based.
22:29So I just asked him,
22:31How do you see yourself 5 years from now?
22:34I told him that.
22:36It's not that obvious.
22:37I think it's a question.
22:38Yes.
22:39I don't agree with what he said.
22:42He didn't just say,
22:44Well, I hope we'll get married.
22:47And we'll have a child.
22:50It's all about his work.
22:52I hope he can promote it.
22:54I hope this and that.
22:56Okay, fine.
22:57I don't agree with his plan.
22:59So I anticipated it.
23:01Of course,
23:02in all relationships,
23:03there's no smooth sailing
23:05as in smooth sailing.
23:08There comes a time
23:09when you have differences with each other.
23:12You have problems.
23:14Sometimes, it's like,
23:16I don't think I can do this.
23:18And that's what we'll talk about
23:19when Sis returns.
23:31I say goodbye
23:34I thought you'd never take my eyes
23:39From yours
23:41How far can I go
23:45We are sisters
23:47We are sisters
23:53I'm missing things in the world
23:57Every day I seem to do more
24:02Both wishing that it was wonderful
24:06So where did the relationship start?
24:09The problem?
24:10Like the magic was fading?
24:13Of course, in the beginning,
24:14everything you do together
24:16is just wonderful and sweet and lovely.
24:19Suddenly, it's not as wonderful.
24:22When did it start?
24:25Don't give me a date.
24:29For me,
24:30it started when the relationship became selfish.
24:33It's like,
24:35I'm getting jealous.
24:37And of course, as time goes by,
24:39you get to know your partner's personality.
24:41How do you get jealous?
24:43Like, you can't go out.
24:45I wasn't given the freedom
24:49to be with my female friends.
24:51So you can grow, right?
24:53It's like, it's just the two of you.
24:55It's just the two of us.
24:57It's just the two of us.
24:59That's okay, right?
25:03Robin?
25:05For me,
25:07the response you gave
25:11is not the same feeling anymore as before.
25:15It's like,
25:17for example,
25:18what I said earlier,
25:19what you did,
25:21your response is so sweet that
25:23you really enjoyed what you did.
25:25And then,
25:26each time you do it again,
25:28the response becomes less and less and less.
25:30Like how?
25:32Is it coldness?
25:33Do you feel that?
25:34Coldness?
25:35The touch of the hand?
25:37Or is it just a concern?
25:39Is it doing something different to us?
25:43Is it fading away
25:44rather than building up?
25:46It's just a concern that
25:48the response isn't as great anymore.
25:50Then,
25:51you begin to wonder.
25:52And of course,
25:53for me,
25:54for guys,
25:55I don't know about other guys,
25:56but for me,
25:57that starts trouble.
25:59Because that means that
26:01you become,
26:02not that insecure,
26:03but you get worried,
26:05is this going to last?
26:07Am I always going to think of something new
26:12to make it good again?
26:14So it becomes an effort
26:16to keep a relationship going.
26:18Yes.
26:20What are the problems in a relationship?
26:22Let's define it.
26:23First,
26:24it's when selfishness starts to come in.
26:26Then,
26:27there's a loss of trust.
26:29Betrayal.
26:31What else?
26:33We get affected by
26:36what other people say.
26:38You get affected by outside influences.
26:41Other people get jealous
26:43or have bad intentions.
26:45Then, you get affected.
26:46Because sometimes,
26:49these people make sense.
26:51What they want to say,
26:52they have their own intentions.
26:53But sometimes,
26:54it gets to you.
26:56You get hurt.
26:58Yes.
26:59Things like that.
27:02What do they say?
27:04What's the main issue
27:08why you have a problem?
27:14Of course,
27:15I have a child.
27:17Then,
27:20for example,
27:21bad news.
27:22There are people who are jealous.
27:24Of course,
27:25there's nothing you can do
27:26but to hurt them
27:27to make them famous
27:28or to make them win.
27:29So it was bothering him already?
27:30It was bothering him
27:31also because it was bothering his family.
27:33It affects his family.
27:35It's harder for a woman who's separated
27:37because there will always be a stigma.
27:39Yes.
27:40Especially when you have children.
27:41Exactly.
27:42It's like...
27:43Wait.
27:44Michael,
27:46when did you feel like...
27:48You got busted, right?
27:51Did you get busted too?
27:52Not ever?
27:53We got busted.
27:54You didn't tell me about it.
27:55I didn't say I got busted.
27:57I was in a relationship for 7 years.
27:59You got busted for 7 years
28:00and you were in a relationship for 7 years?
28:02Yes.
28:03When did you think that...
28:04Here,
28:057 years is a long time.
28:07So,
28:08you had a romance.
28:09You did magic.
28:10It was 7 years.
28:11I'm sure it was 7 years.
28:13It was too long.
28:14What was the problem?
28:15It was too long?
28:16Yes.
28:17It was a disadvantage
28:18that it was too long.
28:20That you didn't move to the next level?
28:22Yes,
28:23to the point that it became boring.
28:25It was like...
28:26You know,
28:27we already did everything.
28:29Then,
28:30it was just repeating.
28:32It was like we were in a circle.
28:34It was just repeating.
28:35Then,
28:36to the point that
28:38I wasn't that excited anymore.
28:40I wasn't that
28:42happy.
28:43Then,
28:44the problem for me was
28:47that
28:48my friends
28:50and my time
28:52became half.
28:54It was like
28:55my time was more on friends
28:57rather than sex.
28:58In other words,
28:59you see someone
29:01that you enjoy more.
29:03Yes, but not a woman.
29:05Not necessarily another person.
29:07Something else that you can look for.
29:09So, who decided to let go?
29:11When did you decide?
29:13Did you decide to let go
29:15or was it her?
29:16It was both of us.
29:18It was a mutual thing, a decision.
29:20Yes, it was a mutual thing.
29:21We really talked about it.
29:23It was like...
29:24She admitted that she wasn't happy anymore.
29:27It was like...
29:28But,
29:29the painful part was
29:32she tried to fix it.
29:34You?
29:35She said,
29:36let's try to work out the relationship.
29:39We tried twice or three times
29:41or maybe more.
29:43But, it came to the point
29:45that it came back
29:47to our problem.
29:49So, that's it.
29:50Until...
29:52You know, it was repeated.
29:53Until I said that
29:55it didn't work.
29:57It's like, it's hard.
29:58It's hard to force...
30:00It's like, it's hard to force
30:02the situation that...
30:04No.
30:05It doesn't grow anymore.
30:06It's like, it's really hard.
30:08That's it.
30:09John?
30:10I said,
30:11it's really over.
30:12I don't want it anymore.
30:13You ended it.
30:14Face to face?
30:15Telephone?
30:16Letter?
30:17Day after day.
30:18I said,
30:19because I've been saying it for a long time.
30:21It's like,
30:22I'm the one who's suffering.
30:24I'm the one who's giving in to our relationship.
30:27I'm the only one.
30:28I said,
30:29the day will come
30:31that I really...
30:32I woke up one day
30:34that I really don't love him anymore.
30:36Then I told him
30:37that I don't want it anymore.
30:40Robin,
30:41when you say goodbye to a person,
30:42for example,
30:43you're about to break up,
30:44of course,
30:45the woman is emotional,
30:46right?
30:47Of course, cry.
30:48Cry.
30:49Does it make you as emotional
30:51or of course,
30:52being a guy,
30:53it's like,
30:54no, it's okay.
30:55It's like, this, this, this.
30:56Right?
30:57It's like, there's an emotional block immediately.
30:59No.
31:00For me, it's different.
31:02My machismo side is set aside.
31:05It's not existent when things like that happen.
31:09There's no...
31:10They say,
31:11you should be a man and all that.
31:14No.
31:15It's different.
31:16You're talking about love.
31:17There's no...
31:19There's no,
31:20you're a man,
31:21you're a woman here.
31:22So, tell me the scenario.
31:23How is that?
31:24Like,
31:25depending on the scenario
31:27of why you separate.
31:29This girl you're talking about earlier.
31:31The one that I was talking about a while ago.
31:34I fought for that.
31:35Even though she,
31:36she wanted to,
31:38to really break up.
31:39She broke up with me.
31:42I wanted,
31:43I really fought tooth and nail
31:45to get her back.
31:47But, she was decided.
31:48And,
31:49it took me a couple of months
31:50to really accept that it was over.
31:53For me,
31:54it's more painful on the phone.
31:55It's their birthday.
31:56It's Robin's birthday.
31:58On the phone,
32:01it's his birthday.
32:02It's more painful
32:03over the phone.
32:04In the time you spent together.
32:06There wasn't goodbye.
32:07But,
32:08he felt that
32:09that was the conversation.
32:10He opened up.
32:11I know,
32:12I'm not making you happy anymore.
32:14Even me,
32:15I'm not happy anymore.
32:16He said that.
32:17Then,
32:18there.
32:19In my shock,
32:20I didn't cry.
32:21I was determined.
32:22But, after that,
32:23I drank a bottle of red wine.
32:27Life after their relationship.
32:29We'll talk about that
32:30when Sis returns.
32:33We'll talk about that
32:34when Sis returns.
33:03Open your eyes
33:04It's a promise
33:08Love can be yours
33:09If we want it
33:13Starting tonight
33:15Every dream I ever knew
33:20Here in your arms
33:21I'm believing
33:23Finding my life
33:24Has a meaning of its own
33:28Here in the land
33:29Here in the land
33:30Of the loving heart
33:35Like,
33:36like falling in love,
33:39breaking up,
33:40or losing a person you love,
33:42also goes through stages.
33:45You go through a stage of
33:47denial,
33:49anger,
33:51you blame yourself,
33:52you blame the other person,
33:55until you finally grieve.
33:59And then, you move on.
34:01But, of course,
34:02let's say,
34:04the day after the grieving,
34:07you wake up.
34:09The day after,
34:10the morning after,
34:12how are you,
34:13Michael?
34:15Well, it's hard
34:16because in our relationship,
34:19I don't show her
34:20that I'm hurt,
34:23that I'm crying.
34:25But, the time came
34:26when I showed her,
34:28but I really stopped.
34:30Why did you stop?
34:33Actually, I don't know.
34:34It's like,
34:36it's like,
34:37I can't show her that,
34:39I don't know, maybe,
34:42maybe that's my personality.
34:45I can't show her that,
34:47but I'll still cry.
34:48I'll really cry.
34:50And then,
34:52that's when I realized
34:55that it's over.
34:56It's over.
34:57At home,
34:58I really cry.
35:00For me,
35:02when we broke up,
35:04I told her that I don't want it anymore.
35:06The next day,
35:07someone attended,
35:08it's funny because
35:09I attended a birthday party.
35:11Then, I met Dominic.
35:13Dominic,
35:14for three days,
35:15they were still breaking up,
35:18his ex.
35:20Then,
35:21we went on a date.
35:23We went out.
35:24We thought
35:25it's just a rebound,
35:27like you can't be with anyone.
35:29We thought it's not serious.
35:31Then,
35:32we were happy.
35:34The recovery was fast.
35:36I was happy.
35:37Samantha?
35:38It was fast.
35:40Me?
35:42Because,
35:43on the phone,
35:44I didn't say
35:45I don't want it anymore.
35:46I just said
35:47I can't do it anymore.
35:49It's like,
35:50he's torturing me.
35:52He's pushing me.
35:54Then,
35:56I was holding back my tears,
35:58my anger,
35:59my bad feelings.
36:01Then,
36:02I just said,
36:03because we talked about my daughter,
36:05I just said,
36:06you can still call her.
36:07Then, I said,
36:08we're still friends.
36:09You can still call me.
36:11You can still call me.
36:12Then,
36:13he suddenly said,
36:14come on Samantha,
36:15I still love you.
36:16I mean,
36:17of course,
36:18I will still call you.
36:19So, it's painful
36:20because it's like,
36:21what is this?
36:22What is this?
36:23Then,
36:24the next day,
36:25because I had a party
36:26right after that.
36:27Then,
36:28the next day,
36:29and not just,
36:30the next days,
36:31that's a long time.
36:33It's really
36:34hard.
36:35I cried a lot.
36:37I didn't leave the room
36:38for a long time.
36:39I was really devastated.
36:41It was really
36:42painful.
36:44Robin,
36:45what does a guy do when...
36:47What?
36:48Because,
36:49guys don't really
36:50show their emotions.
36:51Is that true, John?
36:53No,
36:54I'm just kidding.
36:56Why are you crying?
36:58Why are you crying?
37:00Let's find out.
37:01How is it?
37:02It's not all the same.
37:03I don't know.
37:04But,
37:05it's case to case.
37:06But,
37:07I really show my pain.
37:08Although,
37:09you know,
37:10I snap out of it one day
37:11because I care about myself.
37:13I know what I
37:14can give to anybody.
37:16And,
37:17I think the time that I say
37:18that it's over
37:19is when I tell myself
37:20that she's going to regret me.
37:22Because...
37:23To help yourself recover.
37:25Because I know
37:27I know I'm capable of
37:28giving somebody so much
37:30because that's what
37:31I want to give.
37:33If she only looks at
37:34the negative side of it,
37:35then,
37:36what's her life going to be
37:37for the future, right?
37:38So,
37:39when I snap out of it,
37:40when I say to myself
37:41that,
37:42you know,
37:43it's closure.
37:44It's finished.
37:45It's over.
37:46It's over?
37:47It's over.
37:48Oh,
37:49what if
37:50I miss you?
37:52It's over.
37:54Oh!
37:55What about Jackie?
37:57I thought,
37:58you know,
37:59it's,
38:01it's time for me to
38:03pick myself up,
38:04move on,
38:05and start learning
38:06how to do things
38:07on my own again.
38:08Because he was my best friend
38:09and we spent a lot
38:10of time together.
38:11And,
38:12if I did it before,
38:14I can do it now.
38:16So, it's just,
38:17you know,
38:18it was hard,
38:19but it made me
38:20a stronger person.
38:21Everything that I've
38:22been going through
38:23has made me stronger.
38:24So,
38:25just get up and
38:26move forward.
38:27Okay.
38:28That's how it is.
38:29Oh, it's an ego thing.
38:30Michael said earlier,
38:31the world is small.
38:33You'll see each other again.
38:34We'll see each other again.
38:35Barryman also said,
38:36somewhere down the road.
38:38Oh!
38:39Our roads are gonna cross again.
38:40Our paths are gonna cross again.
38:41Last night,
38:42Valentine's.
38:43Okay?
38:44Supposing,
38:46she,
38:47that particular person,
38:49is with you
38:50last night.
38:51Supposing.
38:53What would you have said?
38:54Do you have something to say?
38:57Something you haven't said
38:58or asked before
39:00that maybe this is the chance?
39:03Jackie?
39:04What would you have told that person?
39:06I was with you last night.
39:09Oh, you guys were together?
39:10I thought he was still in New York.
39:13No, he came back.
39:15He came back.
39:16What did you say?
39:17Huh?
39:18Thank you for taking me here.
39:19I had fun.
39:21We're still friends.
39:24Yes, actually.
39:25It's okay.
39:26It's still okay.
39:27It's still possible.
39:28It's still possible.
39:29What about Robin?
39:30I don't know.
39:31Just,
39:32just good stuff.
39:34Reminiscing?
39:35Yeah.
39:36I won't make it heavy.
39:37I won't make it dramatic.
39:39I think my life is involved
39:40with too much drama already
39:41in the past.
39:43I don't want it anymore.
39:44I don't want drama anymore.
39:45I just want happy thoughts,
39:47happy memories.
39:48Let's have happy thoughts.
39:49Yeah, just stories.
39:51Just nice stories.
39:52So, remember to...
39:53Yeah, no teasing of what can happen
39:56or what had happened.
39:57There are no jokes like that.
39:59There are no stories
40:00that I hope will happen again.
40:01None of those.
40:02Just all good.
40:04John?
40:05Oh, my.
40:07It's a good thing we broke up.
40:11But there's no drama.
40:12It's a good thing.
40:13It's a good thing.
40:14And you taught me to be strong.
40:18Oh, thank you.
40:19I'm so thankful.
40:20And I'm nervous.
40:22Michael.
40:23It's me.
40:24Hurry up.
40:25Talk to me.
40:27No.
40:28Maybe I'll tell her.
40:29To Janice.
40:30To you.
40:32Maybe I'll really apologize.
40:34How?
40:35Huh?
40:36Because...
40:37How?
40:38Tell me.
40:39You can't avoid reminiscing
40:40when you're together, of course.
40:43So, if ever I can be with her,
40:45for example, we were together last night,
40:47I'll make the most out of it.
40:51Samantha.
40:55Actually, for me,
40:56after not seeing him for 10 months,
40:59we met last year,
41:00on my birthday.
41:01So,
41:03we talked about the past.
41:06I told him why...
41:11We talked a lot.
41:12To the point that
41:13I even stayed at his place
41:15for like 5 nights.
41:18We were next to each other in bed.
41:20You know?
41:21And then,
41:22we became friends.
41:24And if ever I can be with him last night,
41:29because I was disgraced in skydiving.
41:31I almost died because of him.
41:33So,
41:35maybe
41:36if we're together last night,
41:38maybe...
41:40delicate.
41:41Maybe, you know,
41:42I need to wear a helmet
41:44or something.
41:47And also,
41:49I think it's better
41:52if we don't call each other.
41:54Let's not be friends.
42:00Thank you for these stories.
42:04Valentine's Day is just around the corner,
42:06but life is fun, right?
42:08Right?
42:09Life goes on.
42:10Your lives have gone on.
42:13You're all okay.
42:15Alright?
42:16And you will be okay.
42:19Life is good.
42:20Yes.
42:21Life is good.
42:22Thank you very much.
42:25Thank you again.
42:26You'll come back, sis.
42:38I'm running out of laughter
42:43Those tears in these eyes
42:47What have you ever after?
42:52We are sisters
42:54We are sisters
42:59Yes!
43:00Hi! Okay.
43:01Sorry, I'm a bit quiet.
43:03Why did you think so deeply, sis?
43:05Nothing.
43:06Of course,
43:07you know,
43:08somehow,
43:10love can make you happy,
43:12it can make you sad.
43:14Ms. Janice is like that.
43:16All of our emotions,
43:20if you want to describe them all at the same time,
43:23it's called I love.
43:25Because when you love a person,
43:26you also have to be open to the idea of getting hurt
43:30and crying.
43:33Okay.
43:34I'm talking now.
43:35Do you want me to continue?
43:36Go ahead.
43:37Can I relinquish my quotation points?
43:40Yes, I know.
43:41You've been thinking about it for a while.
43:43It's like you know that's where I'm going to quote.
43:45Yes, go ahead.
43:46Okay.
43:47I read this years ago.
43:48I read it, I heard it, whatever.
43:50I really don't know who wrote this,
43:51but it's like this.
43:53If the heart is the place where love comes from,
43:56then where does love go when it dies?
43:58Back into the heart.
44:00What turns tears into our eyes,
44:03but even if one knew the answer,
44:05what could one possibly gain
44:07with the knowledge of where love has gone?
44:10Tweeze the heartache and the pain.
44:14Love.
44:16We will never find the answer
44:18until we find love again.
44:23I'm still Ate Luz.
44:26Go ahead, it's okay.
44:27Wait.
44:28Let's talk to Ms. Trina.
44:31Hello there.
44:32Hello, hello there.
44:34Ms. Trina, you came out with your first song,
44:36the opening.
44:37That's part of your album, right?
44:39Yes, it's sort of like a CD single
44:41with four additional songs.
44:43In other words, it's like half an album.
44:45Yes, half an album.
44:46Just half.
44:47Is their payment half as well?
44:49Yes, it's just cheap.
44:51It's available in Music One and Tower Records.
44:54The title of the CD is Happy Valentine's Day.
44:57Hey, it's the best time of the year.
45:00Happy Valentine's Day.
45:01Yes.
45:02Happy but sad.
45:03Happy but sad.
45:04Happy but no, it's okay
45:06because that's part of life, right?
45:08Well, the song that you heard a while ago,
45:10it actually speaks to everyone
45:12because what it's saying to those
45:14who are lucky in love
45:17is to have a little more compassion
45:19to those who are not as lucky in love.
45:22And for those who are not lucky in love,
45:25for them to know that they're not alone.
45:28There are a lot of people like that.
45:30Right?
45:31It won the song competition.
45:33Yes, it won in the 1999 USA Songwriting Competition.
45:37Wow.
45:38Yes.
45:39Champion.
45:40Wow.
45:41First Filipino who won?
45:42Yes.
45:43First Filipino who won?
45:44Yeah.
45:45First Asian even.
45:46Oh, Asian.
45:47First Asian.
45:48Yes.
45:49So that was a very special song.
45:52Thank you very much, Trina.
45:54Thank you so much
45:55That was a beautiful song and music.
45:58Yes.
45:59So, we hope you learned,
46:01and learned,
46:02loved,
46:03and loved again.
46:04Yes.
46:05And we hope you enjoyed our three-day Valentine's special.
46:08Thank you for joining us today.
46:11And thank you, Arcadia.
46:13Wow, thank you so much.
46:14Yes, thank you very much.
46:16Wow, you should come here.
46:17Yes.
46:18It's fun.
46:21Manny, Sis.
46:22Sis would like to thank
46:24Bambi Puentes,
46:26Mossimo, F&H,
46:28Chloe for our eyewear,
46:30Optical Works,
46:32Adidas,
46:33Janeline Shoes,
46:35Wade Shoes,
46:36Bayo,
46:37Under the Sea Pet Shop,
46:39Salon de Manila,
46:40La Germania,
46:42680 Home Appliances,
46:44Jurastar,
46:46Mano Mano,
46:47Play and Display,
46:49JBL Home Furniture Enterprise,
46:51The Barnyard,
46:53Grand Flora,
46:54Our Home,
46:56Wayless Center and Spa,
46:58Balloon Creations,
47:00Color My Hair,
47:01and Union Square.
47:04piano plays
47:17I'm afraid to die
47:21And I don't know why
47:24I'm jealous of the people
47:27who are not afraid to die
47:32It's just that I recall
47:36Back when I was small
47:39Someone promised that
47:41they'd catch me
47:43And then they let me fall
47:46And now I fall
47:49I'm falling fast again
47:53Why do I always take a fall
47:57When I fall in love
48:03applause
48:05It's a part.