How do celebrity moms achieve work-life balance? | SiS (Stream Together)
Cess Quesada, Lara Melissa de Leon, and other celebrity moms discuss their priorities in life, and how they balance their family life with their professional one!
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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:39We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:47Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis, right by your side.
00:52Hit or miss, we are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends, the best of friends.
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be. We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:18Good morning, good morning mga sis. Sis, good morning na tayo.
01:24Good morning everybody, good morning sis. Kasi binabasa ko to eh.
01:27Iniisip ko kasi, ano yung mga, ano yung mga trabahong pwede sa mga…
01:33Marami.
01:34Oo, sa mga mami.
01:35Sa mga babae.
01:36Oo, sa mga babae.
01:37Lalo na sa mga mamis. Maraming trabahong pwede sa mga babae.
01:39May mga trabahong flexi time, katulad ng mga sa sales.
01:41Na pwedeng house based, diba?
01:43House based, or at your own time na pwede kang libre, tsaka kalalakad, yung mga brokers, yung mga ganoon. Ganoon klaseng trabaho.
01:51Oo, pero meron din yung mga trabahong may age restriction.
01:54Katulad ng…
01:56Katulad ng…
01:58Basta, especially pag manual labor.
02:00Oo.
02:01Oo, pag manual labor.
02:02At saka pag ano, itong pag artista, may age restriction.
02:04Oo naman, kasi basta.
02:07Basta.
02:09Maraming trabaho available for moms, women.
02:12It's nice na ano na, kahit papano, nangintindihan na ng society ngayon, na kagaya ngayon, mas marami ng home based ang mga trabaho.
02:20So, nangintindihan na ng importance that the mom still has to be at home with the kids.
02:23Yan, ngayon umaga, yan ang pag-uusapan natin, na isang bagay na malapit, na malapit sa puso ng ating mga kasis.
02:28At sa ating dalawa, because we're both working moms.
02:32We're going to talk about motherhood with an added element.
02:35Tama ka dyan, sis.
02:36Diba?
02:37Nakasama natin ng mga working moms.
02:38Tulad nating dalawa.
02:39Correct.
02:40Pero bago natin kausapin ng ating mga working moms, mamamasyal muna tayo.
02:45Uy, paminsan-minsan.
02:46Diba?
03:10You there, am I lurking?
03:13Looking for a place to hide?
03:17Just reach out and take my hand.
03:21I'm gonna pull you through.
03:25Baby, I'll be soon.
03:27We are sisters.
03:29We are sisters.
03:32We are sisters.
03:34We are sisters.
03:37Parami ng parami ang tinatawag nating working moms.
03:41Di tulad ng mga lola natin na nasa bahay lang sila para full-time na maalagaan ng kanilang mga anak.
03:46Bakit nga kaya karamihan sa mga nanay ngayon ay nagtatrabaho na rin outside their homes.
03:52Para tulungan tayong maliwanagan sa bagay na ito, please welcome.
03:58Para sa kanya po, there is no perfect mom.
04:01She has been married for 15 years.
04:03At saka meron siyang 8-year-old daughter, Cez Quezada.
04:06Hi, good morning.
04:07Good morning, Pasol.
04:08A good mother is one who would bring up her children in a very godly way.
04:1410 years married at may tatlong anak.
04:16Lala Melissa DeLeon.
04:18Hello.
04:19Good morning, everyone.
04:20Good morning to the sis.
04:22Good morning.
04:23Yes.
04:24Para naman sa kanya, a good mom is somebody who will bring out a productive member of the society.
04:31Walong taon na po siyang kasal at may dalawang anak, Chiqui Roa Puno.
04:36Good morning.
04:37Good morning.
04:39Pamilya ang kanyang priority.
04:415 years ng kasal at may dalawang anak, Rochelle Barameta.
04:44Hi, good morning.
04:47Para sa kanya, time management ang sikreto sa pagbabalansi ng pamilya at trabaho.
04:5210 years married with 5 kids.
04:56Lala Flores.
04:58Hi, good morning.
05:00Chaka ka dyan.
05:045 kids.
05:06Okay, you've been busy.
05:08Yes.
05:09Chaka ka naman.
05:11Sexy, tapos tangkad-tangkad.
05:14Para wala kailangan siya sa pag-anak kami.
05:16Okay, let's go.
05:17Rochelle, pariwa kasi kayo ni, pariwa kayo ni Jemel Artista, di ba?
05:21Paano pag pariwa kayo may taping, sinong naiiwan sa mga kids?
05:24Well, ano nalang kung baga grateful ako kasi kasama namin sa bahay yung mom ko.
05:29So usually, pag dalawa kami ni Jemel lang wala, nandiyan yung mommy ko kahit may yaya.
05:34So hindi masyadong problema?
05:35Hindi masyadong problema.
05:37Kampante kang nagkatrabaho?
05:38Oo, kasi talagang mas gusto ko.
05:41Kunyari may trabaho kami, gusto ko lagi nandiyan yung mommy ko.
05:44Kasi kahit yung yaya lang, hindi ka makasigurado eh.
05:47Hindi ka pa rin makakampante, ano?
05:49Oo.
05:50Atsaka there are things na may mga emergencies to come up na kung yung alam mo na may didiskarte ka agad.
05:57Si Lala, very supportive dawang yung husband.
06:00Paano bang arrangement din yung pag ikaw ang may trabaho?
06:04No, kasi yung business ng husband ko home-based.
06:07So with us, it's really give and take.
06:10Kahit nung nagmo-model pa ako before, pag talagang may work na hindi ako pwede with the kids,
06:15siya yung nai-adjust na yung time.
06:19Ay, yung swerte.
06:20Swerte talaga.
06:21Kaya naka lima rin kami dahil sobrang time we spend together.
06:24So naka lima din kami.
06:26Swerte, diba?
06:28Swerte talaga.
06:32Kasi ano, si Lara.
06:34Ba't hindi ka na masyadong...
06:36Lara, ba't ka mamamilis.
06:39Mamamilis.
06:41Hindi ka na masyadong active sa show.
06:43Eh, paano nung active ka?
06:44Paano yung mga kids?
06:46Tara na yung sakin noon time show, diba?
06:48Kasi at that time, yung every lunchtime, I leave the house at 10 o'clock.
06:53Siyempre nasa skwela na mga bata. My husband is at work already.
06:57And by the time they get home, I'm home.
07:00So that is the most ideal work for me at the time.
07:03Maganda.
07:04At that time.
07:05Hindi ka na tumatagap na ng iba pang work?
07:07After that, napunta ako sa drama na napapauwi ako ng 9 o'clock the next day.
07:13Hindi pwede. Parang hindi ako happy ganun.
07:16Parang may namimiss ka, no?
07:17Oo, yung parang the whole night.
07:19Okay lang the whole night siguro for a day, in a week.
07:24Pero you come home the next day, 9 o'clock, you're home. Nobody's home anymore.
07:29Atsaka you're too tired, no?
07:31You spend the next day na tulog.
07:34So practically two days na wala ka sa'yo.
07:36Two days, you're off their side.
07:41Sabi ni Chiki daw, it's a matter of compromising pagyating sa pagsaset ng priorities.
07:49Paano ba ito? Ano yung sa'yo? Paanong ginagawa mo?
07:52Well, compromise because hindi naman lahat na gusto mong gawin magagawa mo.
07:56And especially if it takes you out of the home.
07:59And then at the same time, you want to spend yung sinasabi nilang quality time with the kids.
08:04Parang to me, there's nothing like quantity time talaga.
08:09The actual hours that you spend.
08:11Everybody agrees with that.
08:13So the compromise is, obviously if you want to spend the physical hours with your kids and your husband,
08:20talagang kailangan magigiveway yung kareer mo.
08:23So you all agree na it's quantity time talaga?
08:26Or is more important than quality time?
08:28Yes, especially when they're small.
08:30Bakit? Pag gano'n?
08:31You know why kasi, ako I only have one daughter and she just turned 8.
08:36So ako ang feeling ko, I miss out on her growing up if I spent too much time outside of the house.
08:43Hindi ba, mayam, mayang lalaki na yun na hindi mo alam kung paano nangyari yun.
08:47So ako ang feeling ko, I have to be with her to be able to know her better.
08:52Kasi hindi mo alam how sad.
08:54And how sad for a parent, for example, na hindi mo alam na ito pala ang favorite niyang cartoon.
08:59Ito pala ang gusto niyang pagkain.
09:01Ito pala yung, you know, this is what makes her happy.
09:04At saka yung, diba pag may sakit sila, hawakan mo palang siyang ganyan.
09:07O ano, ganyan palang, parang randam mo na, ay may nararamdaman to.
09:11Diba? Parang minsan nararamdaman, uy, alam natin siguro to si Wacky ngayon.
09:15Kasi iba yung timpla niya.
09:16Alam mo na kagad, but if you're out of the house, kahit nga kakwality time kayo.
09:21You can't have, you buy quality time.
09:23And even kids, they are so selfish.
09:25They want you.
09:26So, hindi enough yung, oh I have one hour, let's spend quality time.
09:30They don't understand that.
09:31Hindi nila alam yun.
09:32With them, they see you, and talagang kung ka-igagrab ka nila as a whole.
09:36So, more time spent with them, the better.
09:39O ganito, magkakaroon kami ng Ziz Challenge.
09:43Each guest will pick a color.
09:45Each color corresponds a situation.
09:48Siyempre, I will read it, and kayo naman ay gagawa, ano ba, magre-react ba kayo,
09:54o mahala na kayo.
09:55Magbibigay kayo ng ano man ang dagawin nyo, if ever.
09:58Magay-bagay na ganyan. Fine.
10:00Sino ba ang pauunahin natin, Tita Ces?
10:03Ako?
10:04Pick a color.
10:05Ako? Ah, sige.
10:08Color green.
10:09Green.
10:10Kasi nakagreen ako.
10:11Sige.
10:12Binahan sa ano, kasi nakagreen siya.
10:15Kasi nakagreen ako.
10:16Bano naman kayo, lahat kayo naka-black and white.
10:18Okay.
10:19Situation, may out of town show ka.
10:22Paalis ka na na magka-German measles ang bunso.
10:25How would you handle the situation?
10:27Okay.
10:28Ako, pagka ganyan, nasagotan ko na eh, yung trabaho.
10:34Commitment yan.
10:35I will go, but somebody has to stay with my daughter, my husband.
10:40Kasi kami ng husband ko, kung ano yung mas importante, let's say dalawa kami nagkasabay,
10:46and something like that happens, ano ang pwedeng i-give up?
10:50But yung ganyan, nasagutan mo na, syempre commitment yan.
10:54Compromise mo na yan.
10:55Compromise mo na yan.
10:56Yung tipong, I'll ask him to stay if he can stay.
10:59And if not, probably, dyan tayo maswerte because we have a network of yung support system natin.
11:05Like your brother, pinsa, kapatid.
11:08Yes, yes.
11:09I'm lucky because I have a sister who's a doctor.
11:11So in that case, probably I would do that.
11:14Tapos, uwi kagad, hindi ba?
11:17Napanagutan na eh.
11:19Parang nakaka-nervous naman itong...
11:21Wala namang grade.
11:23Wala namang grade.
11:25Balit para sa blue-green.
11:27Blue-green.
11:29Blue-green.
11:30Hectic day sa trabaho.
11:31Ngarag sa shoot dahil naghahabol kayo ng playdate o kaya ng basta.
11:36Suddenly, nag-ring ang cellphone.
11:38Si Bunso, umiiyak at naglalambing.
11:40Pilit kang pinapa-uwi.
11:42Anong gagawin mo?
11:45Nandung ka na eh.
11:46Nandung ka na.
11:47You can, there are a lot of words that can also...
11:51That you can use.
11:53You know, you talk to them.
11:56Para...
11:57Ma-assure.
11:58When you talk to them on the phone,
12:00because that's what I use all the time.
12:02My telephone.
12:03Pag sinabi nilang, I want to talk to my mommy,
12:06they'll call me up sa aking cellphone.
12:10It makes them feel good when you choose the right words to comfort them.
12:15Okay.
12:17Pink na lang.
12:18Pink.
12:19Pink, nag-promise kang mag-attend ka ng PTA meeting sa school ng anak mo.
12:23Out of the country si Mister, kaya ikaw lang ang makakatend.
12:26Ang problema, di matapos-tapos ang taping sa Baguio.
12:30Oh my God.
12:31May ahanda lang sitwasyon.
12:34Wow.
12:36Well, yun again, nasa Baguio ka na.
12:38Siguro, babalikan ko yung ano nyan.
12:40If I had yung commitment sa PTA,
12:44at alam kong magiging ganyan sa Baguio, baka hindi ko na tinanggap.
12:47Wala ka sa Baguio.
12:48Wala ka sa Baguio in the first place.
12:49Oo, hindi ko na siguro.
12:50May ipot mo yung PTA sa Baguio.
12:51Okay.
12:52O tatawagan ko si teacher sa kanyang cellphone.
12:55Oo, yung mga teachers may cellphone.
12:58Do you even get that?
13:00Usually, if it's a one-on-one, you can always request for a reschedule.
13:07Mga bihasa!
13:08Teenager na ang panganay mo, nasa rebellious years.
13:12Panaginig at lately, napupununan ng tatoo ang patawan.
13:15Oh my God.
13:17Hindi lang ang sagot.
13:19Your baby is slowly turning into a stranger.
13:21At the same time, you're at the peak of your career.
13:24How would you compromise?
13:26Siguro, I need to have this bond.
13:29Hindi lang ako.
13:30Kailangan, dalawa kami ng asawa ko na kakausapin ko siya.
13:34Kasi, di ba, sa society, hindi natin alam kung ano yung mga nakakasama niya.
13:40O ano, nasa school.
13:42Hindi mo rin mabababysit yan pag nasa school.
13:45So siguro, kung sa school man, kakausapin ko yung teacher niya kung ano ba nagiging problema ng anak ko.
13:52Para at least malaman ko, little by little, kung ano talaga yung punot dulo kung bakit siya nagkakagano.
13:59Okay, wala ka ng choice.
14:01Wala na akong choice.
14:02Graduation day na in two weeks.
14:04You're the proud mom of the class valedictorian.
14:07Biglang may tumahag sa'yo para sa isang project na matagal munang pinapangarap,
14:11kaso it will coincide with your child's graduation day.
14:14Career o family?
14:16In that case, I will choose family talaga.
14:19Because yung projects, they come and they go.
14:22Pero wala silang merits at all except financial reward.
14:26But since, you know, it's a graduation day and it's a big day for my daughter or for any of my children,
14:32I wouldn't miss on that.
14:34Yes.
14:35Parang obvious na yun.
14:36Iklarong-iklaro na yun.
14:37Oo.
14:38Para sa working moms naman, I think kung sobrang busy ka, it's because of a necessity.
14:44But if you're busy once in a while, ano lang naman yun, may choice parin naman tayo.
14:49Yeah.
14:50To say no or say yes to certain projects.
14:52Pero mas marami pang kwentuhang tungkol sa pagiging nanay sa pagbabalik ng sis.
15:09Kanina, mga sitwasyong gawa-gawa lang namin ang binigyan ninyo ng mga solusyon.
15:13Ngayon naman, ikwento nyo kung paano ba talaga binabalansi ang time between your kids and your work.
15:22Okay, mommy says.
15:23Paano mo ina-explain kay Isabel, your daughter, na kailangan mo umalis ng bahay para magtrabaho?
15:29Actually, now that before, nung mali chan, mahirap.
15:32Kasi only child, syempre pag only child, walang kalaro.
15:36So, mas nagkikling sa'yo.
15:38So, for a time, nahirapan ako.
15:40Lalo na hindi niya ma-differentiate what was real and what was not real.
15:45Nagagali siya kay Nova kasi nag-aaway kami on screen.
15:49Nagsiselo siya if I have a different child on TV.
15:53Parang hindi niya ma-differentiate.
15:55So, what I did was I brought her to taping one day.
15:58And then, talagang pinagpahawakan ko siya ng mga set.
16:02Oh, it is not real, it is not true.
16:05Orientation.
16:06Orientation talagang what you do.
16:08And then, now that she's bigger, mas madali na for me because now that she goes to school,
16:13ginawan ko ng parallel.
16:15Like, if you are afraid that the teacher will get mad at you if you're late.
16:20Ganun din ako, I have a director.
16:22And I can only leave when the director tells me to leave.
16:25Ganun din kayo, yung teacher.
16:27You can only leave when the class is finished.
16:29When the class is finished.
16:30But there was one time na ginawan niya, tinawagan niya yung director ko.
16:35Oo, tumawag sa akin, Mama, can I talk to your director?
16:38And so, ang nakausap niya yung AD, no?
16:40So, sabi ko, sige, binigay ko, I want it.
16:42And she was five, five years old.
16:44Sa'yo, hello, anong oras yung papauwi ng mama ko?
16:48Eh, kasi ganito, meron pa two sequences.
16:50Eh, kasi magsistorytelling pa kami.
16:52You know, she started arguing with the AD.
16:57So, ngayon, alam niya na yung terms na sequences, pack up.
17:00Alam niya na yung terms natin.
17:02Effective ba ang reverse psychology sa mga kids?
17:05Sa pagdidisiplina ng mga anak mo, ginagamitan mo ba sila ng reverse psychology?
17:11Like, sa pagdidisiplina, I would always talk to them.
17:16I would use a belt.
17:18I would use a...
17:20Rod.
17:21Yes, that's biblical.
17:23And I would like to follow that.
17:26But even before I, for example, spank them,
17:32sasabihin ko yung maling ginawa niya,
17:36kung bakit ko siya papaluin,
17:38and I would spank them.
17:42Then right after that, I would assure them that I'm doing that because I love them
17:46and that I'm disciplining them.
17:48And I'd like...
17:49I always stress to them, all my kids,
17:52the meaning of discipline.
17:54Disciplining children.
17:56And it works. It works.
17:58Whenever, for example, napalo ko sila,
18:01meron silang ginawang hindi tama,
18:03they understand, my mommy disciplined me a while ago because so, so, so, so forth.
18:08Disciplined me.
18:12It works. It works.
18:14And we have a common friend that taught me
18:19how to, like, spank a kid without getting angry.
18:23Mahirap yun, diba?
18:24That is really hard.
18:26You know, a friend of ours, Pastor Jan, was the one that told me,
18:30Melissa, when you discipline or spank your child,
18:33learn not to get angry or get mad.
18:36How are you going to do that?
18:38That's hard to do.
18:39How do you do that?
18:41It takes a lot of discipline also.
18:43From your part.
18:44Yeah, from others.
18:46Spank yun na.
18:47No, it's not.
18:48You have to be firm.
18:49You show her the authority.
18:51You are in control.
18:52There's such thing as being firm.
18:53But in a loving way.
18:54I am firm.
18:57Pero yung, like, for example,
18:59syempre malayo pa yung belt.
19:01Yes.
19:02Meron kang yung, from where you are, you go get your belt,
19:05meron kang five na.
19:07Okay.
19:08Okay, now I got my belt.
19:10Honey, I'm going to do this because I have to discipline you.
19:13And ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta.
19:14Swap.
19:15Malakas. Oh.
19:16So how old do you start?
19:18Kasi babies pa mga anak mo.
19:20Just for them to feel.
19:21How old do you start giving that kind of discipline?
19:26Kasi usually, ako one pala yung anak ko.
19:28Pag may ginawa siya, though hitting.
19:30Wow.
19:31Though hitting.
19:32Bad.
19:33Bad.
19:34E kayaan mo pwede simulan ng,
19:35I am disciplining you because you did this and this.
19:39Na maiintindihan niya.
19:40Na maaalala niya kung ano yung ginawa niyang mali.
19:42Like my daughter, one year old pa lang,
19:45I talk to her already.
19:47Pero the spanking part is,
19:49mga lab part.
19:51Ina-adjust mo naman ng konti.
19:52Towards three years old already,
19:55na medyo nakakausap mo sila ng may pagkaayos nakausap.
20:00Pero yung one year old,
20:02it should be at least you get to talk to them.
20:05Talk and talk and talk.
20:06You know, that's not right.
20:07It's not proper for you to do that.
20:10Alam naman nila eh.
20:13Oo, nakaka-interes sila.
20:14And especially the bonding between mother,
20:17we all know that the mother and the child,
20:19they get it right away.
20:22So, Luciel,
20:23bawal daw paluin ng yayong mo yung mga bata.
20:25Bakit?
20:26Bawal.
20:27Kasi kubaga sakin,
20:28gusto ko, ako lang yung magdi-disciplina sa anak ko.
20:30Kubaga kung may nagawa man,
20:32kung may pagkasutil ang mga bata,
20:34sabihin nyo sakin,
20:36kung talagang maling-maling yung anak ko,
20:38ako yung papalo.
20:39Ikaw yung gagawa naman ng disciplinary action.
20:41Oo, pwede naman nila sabihin,
20:42Julia, that's bad.
20:44Pwede nila sabihin nyo.
20:45Pero yung sa kanilang kamay na,
20:47yung magagalit sa pagpalo ng anak ko,
20:49ah, doon kami magtatalo.
20:50Oo, naman.
20:51Ako, I make it a point,
20:52pag dinidisciplina ko rin yung mga anak ko,
20:53my yayas are there,
20:54so they know how you discipline your children.
20:57Kasi di naman ako agad-agad na mamala.
20:58Namimili naman ako ng sitwasyon.
21:00And you fight all the battles.
21:02Ako, I'm in close contact with my yayas.
21:04Parating, I'm, I'm,
21:05kung mag-asap, partner talaga yun yan.
21:07You become their partners talaga eh.
21:11That's true.
21:12That's true.
21:13Okay.
21:14So, mag-araw tayo pag-uusapan.
21:15Sa pababalik na sa'yo.
21:29Sa ating mga babae,
21:30normal na yung mag-open up tayo
21:31sa mga friends natin
21:32tungkol sa mga problema.
21:33Eh, since lahat po kami dito,
21:35working mom,
21:36bonding time!
21:38Correct.
21:39Lala, ano ba ang usual
21:40nagiging problema sa bahay?
21:41Siguro sa'kin,
21:42yung having five kids
21:44and not having enough time.
21:46Yung parang feeling ko lang,
21:48kasi di ba,
21:49pag malalaki na yung iba,
21:51parang feeling mo less time
21:52kasi naiintindihan na nila yung buhay mo.
21:54Oo.
21:55But yung mga smaller ones,
21:56sila yung mga selfish eh.
21:57Oo.
21:58Ganon.
21:59Pero, ano ba aking problema?
22:00Parang, paano ko talaga
22:02madi-divide yung time ko
22:04each of them,
22:06making sure na lahat sila,
22:08na,
22:09alam ko yung mga concerns.
22:11Minsan kasi lately,
22:13kasi nakukonsensya ako
22:14yung dalawang eldest ko na babae,
22:1610 and 9.
22:17Parang,
22:18kasi laging nakaganyan yung baby ko,
22:21yung two-year-old,
22:22yung five-year-old.
22:23So parang,
22:24yung dalawa,
22:25hello, and then nakikita kami
22:26world sila.
22:27Pero, I still want to be a part of it.
22:29So,
22:30paano ko kaya masolusyonan yung
22:33talagang to spend time?
22:37Yung malaman ko yung mga concerns.
22:39And she's 10 and 9.
22:41Ako meron akong,
22:42this is not out of my own experience,
22:44kasi dalawa lang yung anak ko.
22:45Dalawa na lang ang anak ko.
22:46Tingin ko problema na rin yung
22:48not spending enough time.
22:49But I have some friends
22:50who have a lot of kids.
22:52Particularly this one friend,
22:53who has tatlo lang naman.
22:55Pero,
22:56yan din yung problema niya.
22:57Ang ginagawa niya,
22:58they set a special date
23:00for each kid.
23:02Yes, right.
23:03Individually.
23:04In a month,
23:05and the whole afternoon together,
23:07sila lang.
23:08And the kid will be the one to choose
23:11kung anong gagawin.
23:12Parang appointment yung mom.
23:15Pero, siya lang.
23:16Wala yung iba.
23:17Wala yung iba.
23:18Yung one-year-old,
23:19hindi pwede nakaganyan.
23:20Isa lang.
23:21Oo.
23:22Well, I found it,
23:23parang interesting yung kinakwento.
23:25Oo, gali nga, no?
23:27I learned that also
23:28from my sister-in-law.
23:30To be able to spend time
23:32with each,
23:34especially kung lalaki,
23:36spend time with the father.
23:38Kung baba, spend time with the mother.
23:40And I also have something,
23:42like I have three kids, no?
23:44Like when my baby girl came,
23:47yung dalawa ko,
23:48yung parang,
23:49I don't want them to feel yung parang
23:51out-out sila.
23:53What I do is,
23:54I make them involved.
23:56You make them involved
23:57with whatever activity
23:58you're doing with them.
23:59Like for example,
24:00my baby girl.
24:01For example,
24:02ako usapin ko siya.
24:04Oh, Rebecca,
24:05you're so nice,
24:06you know,
24:07your kuya's here.
24:08Parang you're talking to your baby,
24:10but then you're
24:11talking to your other kids.
24:13You're letting them feel
24:14na-involved nila doon,
24:15kahit you're with the younger,
24:17ano.
24:18Yes, I'm talking about
24:19my other kids.
24:20I'm talking straight to my baby,
24:22but I'm talking about them.
24:24So they would feel,
24:25oy, look at my mommy.
24:27She's talking to my sister about me.
24:30They'll feel very proud.
24:31Kasali pa rin.
24:32Kasali pa rin.
24:33With the medyo adult naman,
24:36it's more involvement.
24:38Like, oy, honey,
24:39I cannot handle her anymore.
24:41Can you please help me?
24:42Or even yung bathing,
24:43you know,
24:44when you bathe the baby.
24:45They like it.
24:46They love it.
24:47Oy, nako,
24:48I'm ano na.
24:49I'm a baby.
24:50Ako, ako,
24:51mahinap at least.
24:52Ako kasi,
24:53I've worked practically,
24:55I'm practically a mommy and a daddy
24:58to all five of them.
25:00So, swerte ko lang,
25:01kahit papa,
25:02na-divide sila into certain groups.
25:04Like, my son is a teenager already.
25:06So usually,
25:07ang oras namin yan,
25:08pag uwi niya,
25:09pag medyo,
25:10yung gabi na,
25:11napatulog na yung mga kapatid niya.
25:12Oras na magkakawintuhan kami sandali.
25:14And, you know,
25:15I tell him,
25:16I always tell him,
25:17pasensya ka na.
25:19Because, you know,
25:20mama's working,
25:21syempre yung mga kapatid mo maliliit.
25:23Naiintindihan naman niya yun.
25:25Pag may concern siya,
25:26lalapit naman siya sa akin.
25:27Tsaka nag-uusap naman kami.
25:29Pag mag-uusap kami,
25:30minsan habang kumakain kami.
25:31Or sometimes,
25:32kahit na meron akong visitors na nandiyo diyan,
25:34nandiyo diyan siya,
25:35nakikipagkwentuhan siya sa amin.
25:36Siya mag-join siya sa usapan.
25:37With my three girls,
25:39hindi masyadong problema
25:40kasi they sleep in one room.
25:42So nalang kaming chat,
25:43baim na kaming tatlo.
25:44Doon lang kami sa bed,
25:45kukwentuhan kami,
25:46kahit naano,
25:47magditsikahan kami.
25:48May movie night kami,
25:49na manonood kami ng DVD,
25:51tapos manonood kami ng movie,
25:53nasabay-sabay kami.
25:54And then my baby,
25:55when all of them are all in school,
25:58tayong laman namin,
25:59dalawa yun,
26:00Rochelle namin.
26:01Perfect time.
26:02So, concerns.
26:03Siguro,
26:04ang ano ko lang,
26:05yung panganay ko,
26:07nasanay sa,
26:08Mommy,
26:09I want something
26:10pag-aalis kami.
26:11O kaya,
26:12pag nasa mall kami,
26:13pag may negusuan siyang toy,
26:16dapat bilhin.
26:17Pag hindi mo binili,
26:18Sige,
26:19iiyak ako,
26:20magka-cry ako.
26:21Yung gano'n,
26:22parang,
26:23di ba,
26:24parang ayokong sanayin
26:25na
26:26pag nasa mall,
26:27bigay.
26:28Oo,
26:29syempre,
26:30kailangan ko kahit,
26:31di ba,
26:32little things,
26:33small things,
26:34na ibigay mo,
26:35pero wag naman yung,
26:36every time naaalis kami,
26:37and every time na may makita siya,
26:38pupunta kami ng ano,
26:39Mommy,
26:40buy me.
26:41Emotional blackmail.
26:42Yeah.
26:43How old is your son?
26:44Four and four months.
26:46Four years and months.
26:47Yeah.
26:48Kasi,
26:49ako,
26:50well,
26:51kasi my daughter is,
26:52is a lot older,
26:53but when she was around,
26:54mga six,
26:55seven,
26:56eight,
26:57when,
26:58yung,
26:59kasi,
27:00ayoko kasing yung ganyan,
27:01although she wasn't like that,
27:02ang inaano ko sa kanya,
27:03I also involve her,
27:04I make her realize,
27:05kung papaano gumalaw yung pera,
27:06that money is limited,
27:07and that we should prioritize things.
27:08So,
27:09when I go to the grocery,
27:10I show her,
27:11this is how much we have,
27:12and these are the things
27:13that we need to buy.
27:14If we,
27:15if we have extra,
27:16then we can buy this thing.
27:17If we have extra,
27:18then we can buy this thing.
27:19If we have extra,
27:20then we can buy this thing.
27:21If we have extra,
27:22then we can buy this thing.
27:23So,
27:25if not,
27:26we will have to wait.
27:27Next time.
27:28Next time.
27:29Parang ganoon.
27:30Or,
27:31if it's expensive,
27:32we will have to save.
27:33So,
27:34in other words,
27:35pinapakita ko sa kanya,
27:36that money is limited,
27:37and that we have certain priorities.
27:39This goes to food,
27:40this goes to,
27:41now that she can add,
27:43I involve her in terms of adding,
27:45how much is left.
27:46How much,
27:47lesong pa niya sa man.
27:48Karang,
27:49mabuti.
27:50No, no, no.
27:51Hindi,
27:52kasi she's older,
27:53but with that,
27:54yung emotional blackmail,
27:55I had a problem with,
27:56with Isabel when she was,
27:57yung terrible too.
27:58Now,
27:59she's going to this,
28:00yung tantrums,
28:01na,
28:02mababantay bata ka.
28:03Mababantay bata ka.
28:04Kasi alas,
28:05mata sa kanyo,
28:06ganoon.
28:07Akala mo,
28:08ganoon.
28:09Hindi,
28:10akala na kapitbahay,
28:11kasi OA nga,
28:12eh.
28:13You know,
28:14I'll tell her,
28:15Oh,
28:16sige,
28:17you cry.
28:18Sige,
28:19you cry.
28:20Pinapakry,
28:21we have a crying chair.
28:23Pag natapos ka na,
28:24tsaka tayo mag-usap.
28:25Because I refuse to talk to you
28:26when you're not in control.
28:28Dali,
28:29mga tips.
28:30Minsan pa naman,
28:31alam nila,
28:32alam nila,
28:33pag ano,
28:34yung napipikong ka na,
28:35salakas na iyak nila.
28:36So,
28:37lalakas nila yun.
28:38Lalo,
28:39lalakas nila.
28:40Para mapikok.
28:41Ako natutulog dito.
28:42Ma,
28:43if we don't play nice,
28:44gusto niya matulog sa amin.
28:45Kung gusto mo matulog,
28:46you have to shut up.
28:47You have to,
28:48because mama and papa want to sleep.
28:49Do,
28:50siya sa labas ng pintu namin,
28:52mayroon ang ilabas.
28:53Pero hindi,
28:54pinigila ko yun.
28:55You know,
28:56ever since that time,
28:57ngayon,
28:58alam niya,
28:59hindi siya pwede mag-emote
29:00ng walang dahilan.
29:01Kasi dine-dedma ko.
29:02Dine-dedma.
29:03Dine-dedma ko,
29:04pag walang reason,
29:05yung iyak.
29:06Ako,
29:07favorite line ko,
29:08even if you cry blood.
29:09Even if you cry blood.
29:10Even if you cry blood.
29:11Even if you cry blood.
29:12Still no.
29:13No.
29:14E paano yung iyak
29:15ng bagong gising,
29:16na,
29:17inarating.
29:18Kung,
29:19yun,
29:20pwede siguro,
29:22pero yung acting,
29:23kaya nga.
29:24Yung minamanipulate,
29:25pero siya parang,
29:26alam niya na,
29:27pag mag-cry ako,
29:28bibigay ulit wishes ko.
29:29Oo,
29:30lagi,
29:31yun,
29:32yun ang panakot niya.
29:33You know,
29:34you let kids cry.
29:35You be firm.
29:36Yun ang panakot.
29:37Sige,
29:38magka-cry ako.
29:39Pero,
29:40ayun naman,
29:41pag naririnig na ni Jimol yun,
29:42titignan na siya ng masama.
29:43Doon na,
29:44behave na siya.
29:45Kasi diba,
29:46there are some parents,
29:47who parang,
29:48lagi natin naririnig yung line na,
29:49yun na nga,
29:50kasi bagong gising yun e,
29:51masungit e,
29:52medyo,
29:53hindi yata maganda yung pakiramdam.
29:54You're giving excuses,
29:55constantly,
29:56for a kid to,
29:57to have tantrums,
29:58to act that way.
29:59Hanggang saan,
30:00diba?
30:01Kailan,
30:02kailan mo siya ikokonsult?
30:03Kailan mo,
30:04the dead man.
30:05Tsaka,
30:06is that a real,
30:07is that an excuse?
30:08Bagong gising,
30:09or diba,
30:10yung parang,
30:11e bagong gising,
30:12kaya masungit,
30:13okay lang,
30:14namang ganyan.
30:15Ay,
30:16dalad-dalad nila yan,
30:17hanggang pagtanda.
30:18Oo,
30:20it's not the reason for you to cry,
30:21so if you want to cry,
30:23wherever you want to,
30:25I just,
30:26I'm firm with,
30:27like for example,
30:28sinabi ko na,
30:30I'm not going to,
30:31I'm not going to,
30:32go to you and,
30:34go with whatever you want me to do.
30:37Hanggang cry ka dyan,
30:38sinabi mo nga kahit,
30:39even if you cry a lot,
30:40even if you cry a lot,
30:41it's not going to lift up,
30:42even if you cry a lot,
30:43it's not going to lift up,
30:44even if you cry a lot,
30:45even if you cry a lot,
30:46kasi later on,
30:47paglaki nila,
30:48they will learn how to deal
30:49with their problems,
30:50suddenly,
30:51hindi yung emotional na,
30:53kasi ko,
30:54I'll deal with you,
30:55when you are okay,
30:56when you are,
30:57in control of yourself,
30:59otherwise,
31:00dead ma,
31:01oras,
31:02oras yan.
31:03Or you make them,
31:04you go to your room,
31:05think about what you did,
31:06you come back if you're ready,
31:08you tell me what you did,
31:10and if it was right or wrong.
31:11Yes.
31:12Okay,
31:13it is right for us to take a break.
31:16Magpapalit ka pa,
31:17Yes.
31:30Hindi madaling maging good mother,
31:32all the time.
31:33Kung minsan,
31:34nauubos din ang pasensya,
31:35at sa trabaho naman,
31:36kailangan din
31:37i-maintain ang pagiging professional.
31:39Where do you draw your strength?
31:42From?
31:44Where do you draw your strength?
31:48From?
31:50Yeah.
31:51Mahirap,
31:52I don't know,
31:53I mean, I don't know,
31:54do I really have the strength?
31:55Kanina, nakikinig ka lang,
31:56pwede ba magtanong na lang?
31:59Kasi ang ganda nung mga advice,
32:01na binibigay nung mga mothers dito,
32:04because ang tanong mo is,
32:05where do you get the strength?
32:06Feeling ko nga parang medyo kulang,
32:08kasi nung nagkakwentuhan kayo,
32:09about screaming kids,
32:11naiisip ko bigla,
32:12but I'm a screaming mom.
32:13Yeah.
32:14Have you ever found yourself
32:15in the situation,
32:16you're telling your kids,
32:17Stop screaming,
32:18quiet!
32:20They will really try your patience
32:22to the max.
32:23Diba?
32:24So ikaw sumisigaw na,
32:25quiet!
32:26Diba?
32:27Parang ano yun?
32:28So parang kung minsan din,
32:29hindi mo na malaman
32:30where to get,
32:31saka ba lulugar talaga?
32:32Oo.
32:33Saka ba?
32:34Actually,
32:35it's true,
32:36it's hard,
32:37mahirap yung kung saan
32:38nuhugutin yung strength mo.
32:41But with my experience,
32:42my husband is around,
32:44and I'm saying na,
32:48I also get strength
32:49from my husband.
32:51We do a lot of bonding together,
32:54training together,
32:55and really talking
32:57what we should do
32:58with the children
32:59in terms of disciplining,
33:00what to do with them,
33:01ganyan.
33:02And I'm very blessed
33:03that I have a husband
33:04that really brings
33:05the whole family in prayer,
33:08in the Lord,
33:09you know,
33:10let's go to church.
33:11He's the one that,
33:12so like going to church,
33:13madi-discipline din yung mga,
33:15natututo din yung mga bata sa,
33:17with the Sunday school
33:19that we have.
33:20So it makes a lot of difference
33:22when you're really drawing
33:25your strength from the Lord,
33:27and your husband is there
33:29bringing you to the Lord.
33:32I think a part of that feeling,
33:33Melissa, is,
33:34syempre diba pag nangarag ka,
33:36feeling mo kasi parang
33:37ikaw lahat eh,
33:38but sometimes,
33:39yung ang dami ikaw na,
33:40ikaw na in charge na help,
33:42yung magluluto ka pa,
33:43and everything,
33:44but if you know
33:45that you are not alone in this,
33:46that you have your husband,
33:47you have the Lord,
33:48you have,
33:49parang, parang,
33:50laksang, ano,
33:51sa'ng mapakukunin.
33:52Sa'ng mapakukunin.
33:53But in my case,
33:55in my case,
33:56it also helps sometimes
33:57that you detach yourself
33:59from the situation.
34:00From all of this.
34:01Like I was telling Lala
34:02a while ago
34:03when we were still
34:04in the dressing room,
34:05sabi ko nga na,
34:06it's important for me
34:07to have time for myself
34:08because how can I give
34:10kung walang,
34:11kung wala ako
34:12maipipigay?
34:14Diba pagod na pagod ka na,
34:16feeling mong pangit-pangit mo,
34:17ganyan, so,
34:18pag naglulokalokahan ako,
34:20I tell them,
34:21I tell them,
34:22I tell my husband,
34:23oh, naloloka ako.
34:24So what do you usually do for a while?
34:26I go to the parlor,
34:27pa-hat oil ako,
34:28pa-ano,
34:29pamper yourself,
34:30pamper yourself,
34:31pamper yourself.
34:32Mawawala ako yan.
34:33Pag nawala ako,
34:34alam na nila.
34:35Masikipang mundo.
34:37Pagbalik ko,
34:38ang ganda-ganda ko na.
34:39Oh, hello, honey.
34:41And it's,
34:42you know,
34:43when you detach yourself
34:44from that environment,
34:45naggigain ka somehow,
34:46parang recharged ka eh.
34:49Actually,
34:50come to charging.
34:51What I do,
34:52is parang,
34:53at the time when you feel
34:54the most self-pity,
34:55parang,
34:56why ako na lang na?
34:57Yes.
34:58You stop,
34:59stop pitting yourself
35:00and then think of all
35:01of the blessings you have,
35:02parang balita rin mo.
35:03Parang,
35:04ano ba yung kinokomplain?
35:05Ang buti nga,
35:06hindi,
35:07yung sakit ng anak mo,
35:08kunyari,
35:09yung fever nyo,
35:10is ganyang kataas.
35:11Ang buti nga,
35:12hindi mas malalaya.
35:13Yung parang,
35:14isipin mo talaga.
35:15Ano ba talaga,
35:16may problema ka ba talaga?
35:17Parang mas madami ka pa,
35:18dapat ka nao-overwhelm ka lang.
35:19Oo, oo, oo.
35:20Baka di sya problem,
35:21inconvenience lang sya.
35:22Yes.
35:23Parang,
35:24if you stop and put things
35:25in perspective,
35:26I think,
35:27yun nga,
35:28that's parang a place
35:29to draw strength from.
35:30When you really,
35:31well,
35:32parang analyze the situation
35:33and realize that you're,
35:34it's not all that bad.
35:35With me naman,
35:36siguro,
35:37because we can keep ourselves busy
35:39and it's not really important,
35:41right?
35:42So, with me,
35:43parang I learn how to
35:44prioritize things.
35:45Hindi ko pwedeng lahat gawin
35:47yung bagay,
35:48like say,
35:49barikada kita,
35:50tapos si Jelly
35:51labas ng labas,
35:52I know now my priority
35:53is my family,
35:54you know,
35:55then second lang
35:56yung karir ko,
35:57but I make it a point
35:58na lahat sila,
35:59lahat kami buong family also,
36:00Habang may extra time.
36:01Is talagang,
36:02we draw all our strength
36:03from the Lord.
36:04Hindi talaga,
36:05from us, eh.
36:06Then,
36:07after doing all this,
36:08sometimes we feel like,
36:09you know,
36:10parang kulang
36:11or we don't have
36:12enough strength.
36:13What I do,
36:14I make a list.
36:15Do I have to do this?
36:16Is this important?
36:17Blah, blah, blah, blah.
36:18Yung mga sobrang
36:19excess lang.
36:20Sinisimplify ko.
36:21Yes,
36:22sinisimplify ko
36:23and then,
36:24I don't need to do this.
36:25Yung mga important lang.
36:26Then when I have
36:27sobrang time
36:28and then,
36:29you know.
36:30Tsaka po pwede.
36:31Yes.
36:32So,
36:33parang mag-isip na,
36:34bakit si Ganon ganyan?
36:35They went on a trip.
36:36Let's say,
36:37bakit kami?
36:38In and of self-pity.
36:39Yes.
36:40So,
36:41ako like,
36:42you just look inwards.
36:43You'll have more blessings
36:44like Chiki just said.
36:45Parang,
36:46kung titignan mo yung iba,
36:47you will always say,
36:48where did they get the money?
36:49You know,
36:50parang,
36:51then talagang,
36:52you will always be,
36:53talagang walang strength na,
36:54parang bakit ako ganon?
36:55But if you'll just look
36:56inside,
36:57yung mga blessings mo in life,
36:58then you will be one
36:59happy working mom,
37:00talaga.
37:01Hindi mo,
37:02pagod na pagod ka,
37:03pero actually,
37:04pasalamat ka,
37:05may trabaho ka,
37:06diba?
37:07What makes a good working mom?
37:10Siguro,
37:11kahit busy ka,
37:13at least once a week,
37:15diba?
37:16Magkaroon ka ng family time.
37:17Ibi ko sabihin yung,
37:18pag Sunday,
37:19labas kayo,
37:20yung ipa-feel nyo naman sa anak nyo na,
37:23ah,
37:24ganito kami kaimportante
37:25sa parents namin.
37:27Actually,
37:28we are all lucky,
37:29kasi yun na nga,
37:30na pwede tayong humindi,
37:31o umuwa sa isang lakad.
37:33When others,
37:35they remain tense,
37:36diba?
37:37Nine to five,
37:38six times a week.
37:39And I,
37:40I'm amazed
37:41with those kinds of mothers.
37:43Talagang from eight to five,
37:45they go to work,
37:46and still they have to spend time
37:47with their children,
37:48maglutuk pa yan,
37:49maglutuk pa yan,
37:50maglutuk pa yan,
37:51mamamalengke.
37:52The Lord really knows
37:53whom to give it to.
37:55Alam nya ako,
37:56hindi ko kaya,
37:57hindi whoever,
37:58hindi kaya.
37:59It's really that, eh.
38:01I really...
38:02Well,
38:03with your question,
38:04how do you know
38:05if you're a good working mom?
38:06Ako,
38:07I can say for myself
38:08that I am a working mom,
38:09but I don't know
38:10if I'm a good one.
38:11And I won't know
38:12until my kids are older,
38:13are adults.
38:14Like I said,
38:15I told your writers,
38:16you said in the beginning,
38:17sa akin ang batayan yan
38:18is kung pag malaki na yung anak mo,
38:20maayos sila.
38:21That's right.
38:22When they live their own lives.
38:23Responsible,
38:24God-fearing,
38:25productive people,
38:26that means you brought
38:27them up correctly.
38:28Whether or not you're
38:29a working mom,
38:30you're a homemaker,
38:31I think that's the basis
38:32of judging if you're
38:33a good mom,
38:34working or not.
38:35Ako kasi,
38:36when you say
38:37good working mom,
38:38parang nakakatakot isipin
38:39kasi parang antaas, no?
38:40The standards.
38:41Parang pag pinapanood
38:42sa TV, di ba?
38:43Yung talagang
38:44ang nanay,
38:45malinis ang bahay,
38:46ang mga bata,
38:47malulusog,
38:48pero actually
38:49in real life,
38:50parang ang hirap
38:51na lahat yun gawin mo.
38:52May asawa ka pa
38:53on the side, di ba?
38:54Exactly!
38:56On the side, di ba?
38:58Totoo yun,
38:59pagod na pagod mo na.
39:00Tapos pagdating,
39:01may asawa ka pa,
39:02di ba?
39:03My whole point is,
39:04when you say
39:05good working mom,
39:06parang ako,
39:07I don't want to think
39:08of it that way
39:09kasi I take things
39:10one step at a time.
39:12Every day is a new day
39:13for me because
39:14I realize,
39:15as I said in the
39:16opening segment,
39:17ang intro ninyo,
39:19I don't believe
39:20there's a perfect mother
39:23because kahit anong
39:24basahin nating libro,
39:26di ba?
39:27Wala naman magwa kasi
39:29wala naman magwa.
39:31May perfect tayong lahat.
39:34Araw-araw, iba yun.
39:35Iba anak mo,
39:36iba anak mo.
39:37Disipline, di ba?
39:38You treat your kids
39:39differently, di ba?
39:40Yes, yes.
39:41Which is why ako,
39:42every night when I pray,
39:43I always rate my day.
39:45Whether I was
39:46a good mom today
39:47or a good wife today.
39:49And most of the time,
39:50sometimes,
39:51I find myself wanting,
39:52you know,
39:53to be this.
39:54But in the long run,
39:55I said,
39:56never mind,
39:57there's tomorrow.
39:58So tomorrow,
39:59I strive for another chance
40:00to become a better.
40:01And every day,
40:02it's like that.
40:03You cannot talagang contain
40:05lang na I'm a good
40:06working mom because
40:07I'm so and so.
40:08Oo, yung labels lang ganon.
40:10Every day,
40:11learning.
40:12It will really be hard
40:13for us to say,
40:14ah, okay,
40:15I did it right today.
40:16Yes, and then tomorrow,
40:17you shut up.
40:18With me,
40:19with my experience
40:20and with my three kids,
40:22and my husband around,
40:24um,
40:25we zero in to
40:27having a real good relationship
40:29with Christ.
40:30Yes.
40:31I don't know.
40:32I can't say anything.
40:34We're talking about tips,
40:35this and that.
40:36We can tell all the tips
40:37we want,
40:38but it all zeroes down to
40:40where do we draw
40:41our strength from?
40:42Yeah.
40:43It's from the Lord.
40:44I don't know.
40:45For me,
40:46talagang yun lang eh.
40:47And my husband's the one
40:48that really pulls us to that.
40:51And with it,
40:52with it,
40:53it's really totally different
40:55when you zero yourself
40:57to someone
41:00that you're accountable for,
41:02which is the Lord.
41:04And later on,
41:06kasi for me,
41:07we cannot wait later on.
41:09Okay, magiging okay kaya
41:10yung mga anak ko?
41:11I'd like to start now.
41:13I'd like to start
41:14with the family
41:15that's God-fearing,
41:16who obeys.
41:18Palang okay ka ne.
41:19That's what you should do first.
41:21Parang sakin,
41:22yun muna ang gagawin ko
41:24sa aming dalawa.
41:25And I will see later on.
41:27And I think it will,
41:28how can you go wrong?
41:29Yeah, like me,
41:30you know,
41:31even in terms of explaining
41:32to her in discipline,
41:34I tell her,
41:35you are a gift from the Lord.
41:37And our assignment
41:38is that when we give you,
41:40when we give you back to Him,
41:42that you're a good person.
41:44And that is our focus,
41:46both my husband and me.
41:47And it's easier for her
41:48to understand
41:49why sometimes
41:50we have to discipline her
41:51because she has to be good
41:52in the eyes of the Lord.
41:53Alam ko na.
41:54So, let's not label,
41:55wag na natin sabihin,
41:56good working moms.
41:57Ayo eh,
41:58mothers, dash,
41:59still working at being good.
42:01Yes.
42:02Correct.
42:03Bottom line is,
42:04we're doing our best.
42:05That's what's important.
42:06That's what's important.
42:07Thank you very much.
42:09Maraming magiging kami.
42:10Parang pura kang isang oras
42:11para sa isang kwento.
42:12Ulitin natin ito.
42:13Yes.
42:15We always want to talk
42:16about our children.
42:17It's the perfect place
42:18to do it, honestly.
42:19Ulitin natin ito.
42:20Magbabalik pa pong sis.
42:35Basta ang bottom line,
42:36I think all moms
42:37are working moms
42:38kasi mahinap maging ina, ha?
42:40Naku, diba nga sabi nila,
42:43it's the most taken-for-granted job
42:45in the world,
42:46but it's actually the hardest.
42:48Kasi ano yan eh,
42:49simula na magiging ina ka,
42:5124-hour job yan,
42:52atsaka lifetime job.
42:54Isama mo pang homemaker ka,
42:55housewife ka.
42:56Homemaker, housewife,
42:58mother.
42:59Ako, hilo ever.
43:00Hilo ever.
43:01Yan ang pinaka-hectic talaga.
43:03Yeah, so we should never take
43:04our moms for granted.
43:06Because ang pinagdaanan po nila
43:08para mapalaki tayo,
43:09kakahilo po.
43:11Yes.
43:12So anyway,
43:13I enjoyed our discussion today.
43:15Kailangan talaga may part 2, part 3.
43:17Parang di tayo matatapos d'yan.
43:18But pag pinag-usapan mo talaga,
43:20isa kang ina,
43:21tapos pinag-usapan mo yung mga anak,
43:23parang never-ending yan.
43:24Andami-dami marilis.
43:25Parang naalala mo,
43:26pinag-usapan natin,
43:27the problems that we encounter
43:28with our children
43:29tog medyo na sa teenager stage na.
43:30Naalala mo?
43:31Siyempre,
43:32tumex sa akin si Luigi,
43:33parang ako ang topic nyo for today.
43:35Ako ang star ng show.
43:37Ang star ng show.
43:38Kaya marami pa kami pag-uusapan
43:40sa lahat-lahat ibang episode po ng Sis
43:41na tukulit sa pagiging mga
43:43mom, working mom,
43:45anak.
43:46Basta lahat yan pag-uusapan namin.
43:47Siyempre,
43:48wag na wag po kayong
43:49di manonood
43:51ng Sis
43:52para maabutan nyo.
43:53Oo.
43:54Kita tayo ulit.
43:55Bye!
43:57Sis would like to thank
43:59Bambi Fuentes,
44:00Mossimo,
44:01F&H,
44:03Chloe for our eyewear,
44:05Optical Works,
44:06Adidas,
44:08Janeline Shoes,
44:09Wade Shoes,
44:10Bayo,
44:11Under the Sea Pet Shop,
44:13Salon de Manila,
44:15La Germania,
44:16680 Home Appliances,
44:18Jurastar,
44:20Mano Mano,
44:21Play and Display,
44:23JBL Home Furniture Enterprise,
44:25The Barnyard,
44:27Grand Flora,
44:28Our Home,
44:29Wayless Center and Spa,
44:32Balloon Creations,
44:34Color My Hair,
44:35and Union Square.
44:37Before,
44:38when I was young,
44:39it was hard
44:40because only child.
44:41Siyempre,
44:42pag only child,
44:43walang kalaro.
44:44So,
44:45mas nagkikling sa'yo.
44:46So,
44:47for a time,
44:48nahirapan ako,
44:49lalo na hindi niya
44:50ma-differentiate
44:51what was real
44:52and what was not real.
44:53Pero,
44:54yung next example,
44:55siyempre malayo pa yung belt.
44:56Meron kang yung
44:57from where you are,
44:58you go get your belt,
44:59meron kang five na.
45:00Netang kami niya.
45:01Okay.
45:02Okay,
45:03now I got my belt.
45:04Honey,
45:05I'm gonna do this
45:06because I have to discipline you
45:07and
45:08da-da-da-da-da
45:09swap.
45:10Malakas, oh.
45:11Kaya,
45:12pag nasa mall kami,
45:13pag may nagusapan siyang toy,
45:15dapat bilhin.
45:16Pag hindi mo bilhin,
45:17sige,
45:18iyak ako,
45:19magka-cry ako.
45:20Stop pitying yourself
45:21and then think of
45:22all of the blessings you have.
45:23Parang balita rin mo,
45:24yung parang,
45:25ano ba yung kinokomplain?
45:26Mabuti,
45:27mabuti nga,
45:28hindi malaki,
45:29yung sakit ng anak mo,
45:30kunyari,
45:31yung fever niya,
45:32STD ang kataas.
45:33Mabuti nga,
45:34hindi mas malalaya.
45:35Yan ang pinaka-hectic talaga.
45:37Yeah,
45:38so we should never take
45:39our moms for granted.
45:40Because
45:41ang pinagdaanan po nila,
45:42para mapalaki tayo.
45:43Kakahilo.
45:44Kakahilo po.
45:45Yes.