Common Sickness in Marriage | Mufti Menk | Blessed Home Series
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00:00So we are paying for a marriage that was already broken
00:04Before subhanallah, we've even seen the fruits of anything
00:11We have a sickness what is the sickness
00:14The sickness is we are not prepared to build bridges. We are not prepared to mend relations
00:19But we are rather prepared to break a relation based on something minor
00:24So when people get married before mashallah, we used to say alhamdulillah. When are you having kids?
00:30How many children do you have in two or three years now when people get married? Maybe not in Mombasa
00:36I hope it is still good here. But in other parts of the world when they get married two years later
00:41You say are you still together?
00:44That's the question
00:45Are you still together? I know of hundreds of cases of people
00:52Who take loans in order to show huge weddings
00:57The wedding was big. The wedding was beautiful, but the marriage was not beautiful
01:03The wedding we took loans
01:06The divorce happened six months later, but that loan it will take us two years to pay
01:12So we are paying for a marriage that was already broken
01:16Before subhanallah, we've even seen the fruits of anything. We are paying for it way beyond its lifespan
01:25Does it make sense?
01:26Why because we are not setting aside differences you marry someone you will be different
01:32Appreciate the difference acknowledge it give people their view their opinions understand the same way you have a right
01:45You