Common Sickness in Marriage ｜ Mufti Menk ｜ Blessed Home Series

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00:00So we are paying for a marriage that was already broken

00:04Before subhanallah, we've even seen the fruits of anything

00:11We have a sickness what is the sickness

00:14The sickness is we are not prepared to build bridges. We are not prepared to mend relations

00:19But we are rather prepared to break a relation based on something minor

00:24So when people get married before mashallah, we used to say alhamdulillah. When are you having kids?

00:30How many children do you have in two or three years now when people get married? Maybe not in Mombasa

00:36I hope it is still good here. But in other parts of the world when they get married two years later

00:41You say are you still together?

00:44That's the question

00:45Are you still together? I know of hundreds of cases of people

00:52Who take loans in order to show huge weddings

00:57The wedding was big. The wedding was beautiful, but the marriage was not beautiful

01:03The wedding we took loans

01:06The divorce happened six months later, but that loan it will take us two years to pay

01:12So we are paying for a marriage that was already broken

01:16Before subhanallah, we've even seen the fruits of anything. We are paying for it way beyond its lifespan

01:25Does it make sense?

01:26Why because we are not setting aside differences you marry someone you will be different

01:32Appreciate the difference acknowledge it give people their view their opinions understand the same way you have a right

01:45You