90 Day Fiance The Other Way Season 6 Episode 9
90 Day Fiance The Other Way S06E09
Transcript
00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03What the hell is this?
00:04The fermented shark.
00:06That's part of the tradition.
00:10I'm so nervous.
00:12Why are you nervous about meeting my parents?
00:14They'll be like, whoa, my son waited this long to be in a relationship and she sucks.
00:20I'm just going to try and work out the electric so we can get warm.
00:24Everything's hitting me at once. It's like, whoa, this is happening.
00:27It's usual for lesbians to go all in, all really quickly, but this is lesbian times infinity.
00:35Yay, let's go on.
00:40You like it?
00:41I don't like this one.
00:43This morning I met up with one of Sarper's exes.
00:46You have certain tactics that make women fall for you very easily.
00:50How do I really know that I am this one special woman in his life that he's going to change all of his ways for?
00:57Why I change my whole life for you if I'm playing with you.
01:01It makes me so hopeful, but that also is so scary.
01:07I mean, you're bringing my grandsons to meet him, why?
01:10Well, we're married.
01:11No, no, no, no.
01:15You married a total stranger.
01:18Sean could be the sweetest person in the world, but he could also be the biggest psycho.
01:24Does your sons know this?
01:26No.
01:49Boys, are you packed?
01:51Yeah.
01:52Yeah.
01:53Let's make sure you have everything, and let's start bringing it down to the car.
01:58Okay, what you're doing has nothing to do with our trip, please, sir.
02:05Mom, we gotta go.
02:09Today I'm going to Ireland with the boys.
02:12Assuming all goes well, this will be my last trip to Ireland, because the next time I go, I will be moving there.
02:18But before that can happen, I need to let the boys know that Sean and I are married.
02:25They have to love him, and they have to be okay with the move.
02:30So there's a lot riding on this trip.
02:34So I'm driving, or are you?
02:36No, I'm going to be driving.
02:38You don't drive that great.
02:41You don't drive that great.
02:42Oh, really? Seriously?
02:44If you drive, it'll take us five hours.
02:50So, guys, are you excited to go?
02:53Yeah.
02:54I'm happy that you guys are coming with me and that you are going to be meeting Sean for the first time.
03:01Let grandma know.
03:03Okay, I'll let everyone back home now.
03:05No, not everybody. I'm the only one that you have to let know.
03:08Give me a break.
03:09Okay.
03:10I give you a break.
03:12Can I have some eyes and ears there?
03:16I feel like there's some pressure on this trip, because I feel like my mom is really going to want my opinion on him.
03:23So I feel like I'm going to be able to see through him if he's not for real.
03:28I guess we'll see.
03:36All right, boys, let's go.
03:40Come on, guys. We got to go meet Noelle.
03:43My best friend Noelle is coming with us to Ireland because she really wants to meet Sean.
03:47Listen, I want the best, but I have a lot of questions.
03:50I did from the beginning, and I still do.
03:52Here I come, Sean.
03:54Here comes that friend.
03:58Plus, she's flying home with the boys so that I can stay a little longer.
04:02Hey.
04:03What's going on?
04:04Hi.
04:05You ready for the trip?
04:06Yeah.
04:07Noelle and I are super close.
04:10We don't keep anything from each other.
04:12So for her to find out two major things in one trip, her head is probably going to be spinning by the time she leaves.
04:21Did you check in? Because we have to go check in.
04:23I did. I checked in online already.
04:25All right, so I'm leaving my mother with you.
04:28She's yours now.
04:29All righty.
04:30And I'm going to go check in with the boys.
04:31All righty.
04:32All right.
04:33I'll see you in a few.
04:35You excited to meet Sean?
04:37I am excited to meet Sean.
04:39And I know you're going to ask the right questions.
04:41I mean, I feel like he kind of has to expect that with everybody's concerns, you know, and we want to know about him.
04:46I just want you to make sure that Joanna's making the right choice for her future.
04:51You know you're my eyes and ears.
04:54I got you.
04:55You all checked in?
04:57Checked in.
04:58This is it.
04:59That's it. We're ready.
05:01I got to get big hugs and kisses because Grandma's not going to see you.
05:04I love you. I love you. I love you.
05:07I love you so, so much.
05:10Be careful there, okay?
05:15Joanna, be careful.
05:20We got to go. It's time.
05:24Today was very emotional to say goodbye because I already know the future.
05:29They don't.
05:30The boys are about to meet a man that they have no idea who he is,
05:36and they're about to find out that that's their stepfather because that's, in reality, what he is.
05:41Bye.
05:42Bye.
05:43Bye.
05:50I'm feeling so many emotions because they're going to get to meet him finally, and it's a relief.
05:57But the boys don't approve of Sean. I mean, what do I do?
06:00We're already married, and I really would like to move there.
06:04So I don't know what that would mean for us.
06:11We are finally on the plane, headed to see Sean.
06:15Say hi.
06:16Hi.
06:17Hi.
06:18See you soon.
06:27Bye.
06:43Adonis, you're going to be a good boy tonight while we are gone, right?
06:49Today is my birthday, and it also happens to be Sarper's birthday.
06:54And we're born at the same time, but two years apart.
06:59My birthday, girl.
07:00It's a special day for us.
07:02I know. It's our first birthday together.
07:04Same exact birthday.
07:06I know.
07:07We are the chosen one, babe.
07:08It's so crazy.
07:09We are the chosen one.
07:10I know.
07:11Boy.
07:12Sarper, you were born on the 21st.
07:15And Shekinah, you were born on the 20th.
07:17Yeah.
07:18And you have the same birthday hat.
07:22Yeah.
07:23I mean, there's a big, big, big point.
07:26Time difference.
07:27The time difference.
07:28It's not born in the same date.
07:31We're just born in the same moment.
07:33Two years apart, though.
07:34Yeah.
07:35Yeah.
07:36It's pretty amazing.
07:38Oh!
07:39Happy birthday.
07:40Happy birthday.
07:41Happy birthday.
07:42Tonight, we're meeting up with Sarper's family, and I'm really excited to see them.
07:43This is our first time getting together since I've been back in Turkey.
07:44Cheers.
07:45What is the Turkish?
07:46Cheers.
07:47Sarper, cheers.
07:48Cheers.
07:49Cheers.
07:50Cheers.
07:51Cheers.
07:52Cheers.
07:53Cheers.
07:54Cheers.
07:55Cheers.
07:56Cheers.
07:57Cheers.
07:58Cheers.
07:59Cheers.
08:00Cheers.
08:01Cheers.
08:02Cheers.
08:03Cheers.
08:04Cheers.
08:05Cheers.
08:06Cheers.
08:07Cheers.
08:08How many couples in the world have the same birthday, right?
08:09She's the chosen one.
08:10They're asking about our decision to stay in Turkey.
08:11Yeah, you won't leave anymore.
08:12You're going to visit your daughter, obviously.
08:13Well, I have to, yeah.
08:14You're going to visit for a short time, and you'll go back to Turkey.
08:15Yeah.
08:16Yeah.
08:17Yeah.
08:18Yeah.
08:19Yeah.
08:20Yeah.
08:21Yeah.
08:22Yeah.
08:23Yeah.
08:24Yeah.
08:25Yeah.
08:26Yeah.
08:27Yeah.
08:28Yeah.
08:29Yeah.
08:30Yeah.
08:31Yeah.
08:32Yeah.
08:33Yeah.
08:34Yeah.
08:35Yeah.
08:36Okay.
08:37Yeah.
08:38You'll visit for a short time, and you'll come back.
08:39Yeah, every 5 weeks for a week.
08:40And then, you know, she has summers off.
08:43So hopefully she'll want to come somewhere here.
08:46We'll have to see.
08:48I was actually waiting for the right time for this.
08:59We applied for the Capital Visa.
09:03What?
09:04What is a capital visa?
09:05You apply to America, and if it's approved, you go there, and you get married in 90 days.
09:22A moment came and I just felt that I have to say to my family, and it is kind of a betrayal to hide from them.
09:33Can't you get married here? I mean, you can't stay here.
09:38I mean, if you want, you have to stay there for a while after you get married.
09:43I'm talking about K-1.
09:46A lot of things are being said, and even though I can't understand the language, I can see by their reactions that it's not going over well.
10:13She says that it's mother feelings.
10:17I'm sure, yeah.
10:20You know, it's not Europe. It's another, you know...
10:24Continent.
10:25Continent, yeah.
10:27I'm not eager to go, but being with you is more important for me.
10:42Otherwise, of course, I would have preferred my son to marry a Turkish girl and live here.
10:51I'm going to ask you something, Serper.
10:52Now, when you go there, will Shikaina's family support you?
11:12It was very...
11:15Not logical?
11:16Yeah, like for me to move to Turkey so soon after meeting him.
11:27What are your thoughts about Sophie, about me?
11:32Well, Sophie is so influenced by them, you know, because they're my family, and she has five aunties.
11:41She hears them talk, and it's really embarrassing.
11:45So they were always like that, or they're just doing it because you're with Serper?
11:53I don't know. I honestly don't know.
11:54I'm sorry. I didn't want to...
11:57My dear, come on.
12:00No tears.
12:02I don't know why.
12:05But I feel bad.
12:11My relationship with my family is really different than Serper's relationship with his.
12:17My family and I used to be a lot closer, but last year my sister, Shariah, came to Turkey to meet Serper, and it didn't go well.
12:27Serper, it's very hard to take your word because I know of your past.
12:32You've been kind of like a f*** boy.
12:35Oh my gosh.
12:37Her impression of him was not good, and I feel like it was partially the way that she approached him.
12:43You're speaking too much, Shariah.
12:46All right.
12:47You are so cute, but you are speaking too much.
12:54And ever since then, my mom and my sisters, they're not speaking to me, and that's been really difficult.
13:01You have a family right now? You see?
13:04I just feel bad because you don't deserve it because you're so wonderful.
13:08No, you don't deserve it. You're so wonderful.
13:13It's kind of hard to justify asking Serper to leave his loving, supportive family in Turkey to come and be with me in the U.S. where I don't have that type of support from family.
13:25Serper says he's willing to do this for me, but no.
13:28He says he's willing to do this for me, but now seeing his family's heartbreak right in front of my eyes makes me afraid that he may back out and decide that he doesn't want to do it after all.
13:41And then what happens to us?
13:50There's still time to bail.
13:52No, no, no.
13:53I don't know a lot about Inky's parents.
13:55All I know is they are quite old, quite conservative, and I don't think they've ever had a black person in their home.
14:25Hey babe, are you ready?
14:29No.
14:31Today I'm going to be meeting Inky's parents for the first time.
14:36I don't know a lot about Inky's parents.
14:38All I know is what he's told me, which is they are quite old, quite conservative, and I don't think they've ever had a black person in their home before.
14:48So I'm feeling very nervous. I'm sweating a bit.
14:51I just hope that I don't make an ass of myself. You can never remake a first impression.
14:59Beautiful, babe. How are you feeling?
15:02Um, like I don't want to do it.
15:04Ah, it'll be okay, babe.
15:06I mean, you say that about everything. You're like blind optimism sometimes is infuriating.
15:11We're a team. We're team awesome.
15:13Even if your parents are like, leave Corona, she sucks, and we don't want black grandbabies, I'm going to be like, sucks.
15:19That will never happen, babe.
15:21I'm so serious, though.
15:26Do we have to do it?
15:27Yeah, we have to do it.
15:29Okay.
15:30We're heading to my brother's house.
15:32You know, you love Karli.
15:34I do love Karli.
15:35Okay.
15:36It's going to be good.
15:37Okay, okay.
15:41My parents are in their 80s, and I'm the youngest out of their three children.
15:45My brother is married, and he has like two kids, and my sister has a kid, so it's a big deal that I'm finally bringing someone to meet them.
15:55I really hope that my family is just going to take her with arms wide open and like just accept her for who she is.
16:07I don't think I've ever even met a partner's family before. This is definitely a first.
16:13Like, why are you feeling so nervous about meeting, like, my parents, babe?
16:17Because what if they don't like me?
16:19Like, what is there not to like, babe, about you? I mean, everyone that I've introduced you to, I can't wait to meet you again.
16:28I don't know.
16:31Don't you worry about it.
16:36You ready, babe?
16:37No.
16:39This is it.
16:43There's still time to bail.
16:45No, no, no. No, no, no.
16:49What if I just, like, fall and break my leg in the snow? Then we'd have to go to the hospital.
16:53Ah, we'll just have our parents meet us there.
16:55What the ****?
16:57Inky's brother, Karley, is awesome. He made me feel right at home the first time I met him.
17:01Hello.
17:02Hi, Karley.
17:03Good to see you.
17:06Lithuania.
17:07Thank you very much. Likewise.
17:08Yes.
17:09I've been practicing.
17:11Karley, in the past when we've hung out, he makes sure, like, I understand what's happening in the conversation.
17:17So, I'm glad he's with me to meet Inky's parents because he can be, like, a buffer a little bit.
17:24Very nervous now that we're here meeting your parents.
17:27Yeah, I can imagine. It's a big adjustment.
17:32Hey, they're here.
17:34Oh my gosh.
17:36So, this is my mom.
17:37Hi.
17:38Hi.
17:39Hi.
17:40Hi.
17:41Hi, I'm Karoda. I will give you a hug.
17:44Oh, for me?
17:45Yes.
17:46Oh, thank you.
17:48Yes, definitely.
17:49Yes.
17:50Oh my God.
17:52Hello.
17:53Hi.
17:54Nice to see you.
17:55Hello.
17:57Jau.
17:58Jau.
17:59You speak Icelandic?
18:00Yes, I speak Icelandic.
18:01Very good indeed.
18:02Can I just have a touch?
18:05Yes.
18:07Nice to see you. Welcome to the family.
18:10Hi.
18:14Yeah, okay.
18:15Wow, they are so nice.
18:17Like, his dad, the second he sees me, he's like, welcome to the family.
18:20Like, I wasn't expecting any of that.
18:22So, it really makes sense that, like, Inky's so positive.
18:25Like, he grew up in a very, like, nourishing home.
18:34She thinks it's really pretty.
18:35Oh, thank you.
18:37Yes.
18:38She's just wondering how you do it, like...
18:41I just, like...
18:43It just, like, rolls together.
18:45I was shocked.
18:46His mom just went for a handful of hair.
18:48Typically, I do not let people touch my hair.
18:50And if they ask, the answer is exclusively no.
18:56But I wanted to make such a good impression on his mom.
18:58Honestly, she could have asked if she could chop one off and take it home,
19:01and I would have said yes.
19:06Ah, Corona.
19:07How long are you going to be staying in Iceland this time around?
19:12Uh, like, forever?
19:14Oh.
19:16Yes.
19:17Yes.
19:21She's moving here, so...
19:22Yeah.
19:23Yes.
19:24So, this is a pretty big deal.
19:25Yeah.
19:26That's why I was so nervous.
19:29I am shocked that Inky didn't tell his parents that I was moving here,
19:32which I think is a big deal.
19:34Not that I need, like, an ego stroke, but, like, I'm not even on his social media.
19:38So, it's like, my guy.
19:39Like, are you proud of this relationship?
19:41Don't you want to, like, show your girl off?
19:48She's asking, like, you never introduced them to anyone before?
19:53Why now?
19:55Yeah.
19:56Like, yeah.
19:58I mean, uh...
20:00I met her.
20:01Like, everything about her, like...
20:03I adore.
20:05I have high hopes for what the future holds with her in my life.
20:12She's very happy.
20:13Okay, good!
20:14Yeah, yeah.
20:15Great!
20:33Uh...
20:47Okay, how to say this?
20:48Yeah.
20:50They are absolutely thrilled for more grandchildren.
20:53There, I said it.
20:54Yeah.
20:58Do you want to have kids?
21:00Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:03Children?
21:04Okay, Mom, like, you know, just take it easy a little bit.
21:08We've been dating for four months.
21:10Just ease it down a little bit.
21:14There's been a lot of pressure on us.
21:16Yes.
21:17My sister is one, I have two.
21:18How many more do you want?
21:19Well, she has...
21:24We just wanted to throw it out there.
21:27How are you doing, baby?
21:30Yeah, I'm good.
21:31Yeah.
21:32Oh, f***.
21:34I'm glad that she is saying that she wants children from us
21:37and she would accept our children,
21:39but before any of that happens,
21:41we should be talking about when's the wedding
21:43and not when are the kids.
21:50You want some tea?
21:51Today is the start of our first day of marriage.
21:54You want some tea?
21:55Today is the start of our journey
21:57and we're going to live like nomads.
21:59I just hope we don't go mad.
22:04That's f***ing awful.
22:08He just wants what he wants
22:09and he feels like he might not get it, so he spirals.
22:23We're going to live like nomads.
22:44You want some tea?
22:45No, thanks.
22:46I've made one anyway.
22:49Last night was the first night in the camper van
22:51and we are now about to get into bed.
22:54So we've put up the blind, which keeps falling.
22:59The mattress is somewhat decent
23:01and we were both so exhausted from the day's festivities
23:06that we just went to sleep.
23:14That's f***ing awful.
23:15Is it?
23:16Yeah, tastes like fish.
23:22That's like bad.
23:25It must be the water.
23:27Wait, you use that water?
23:28Use this water.
23:30Oh, hell no.
23:32Maybe.
23:33Just drink sewage or something.
23:35Maybe tea's not the answer then.
23:38It ran long enough because it's been...
23:40Yeah, I know.
23:42Shall we have a bottle of champagne instead?
23:44Do you have champagne?
23:46Yeah, I did bring a bottle for us to toast.
23:49This morning, I feel like things are back on track
23:51compared to when she arrived to England.
23:55I was hoping to be welcomed with open arms at the airport.
23:59I know.
24:00I was so excited to see you.
24:02Like, I just wanted to kiss and be like,
24:04babe, I've missed you.
24:06I know.
24:08To be fair, I was excited to see you.
24:10I just...
24:11It's shown as well.
24:12It was just...
24:14Cheers.
24:15Stay still, stay still, stay still.
24:17I was just overwhelmed.
24:19I am not at all comfortable with living in the moment.
24:21It stresses me out.
24:23And now we're in a van, living freely, and so...
24:28Yeah, this is it.
24:30For as long as we can stand it.
24:33We're just rolling with it, literally.
24:38That's cute.
24:40That is cute.
24:41To our first morning together.
24:44Without killing one another.
24:45It's a start.
24:51To us.
24:54Shall we unhook the electric
24:57and try and get this out of the grass?
24:59Yeah.
25:00Yeah?
25:01I'm going to put mine down the sink.
25:02I don't really like it.
25:03And I'm driving.
25:04So, I'll do that.
25:06Today's the start of our journey
25:08and we'll be heading south out of England.
25:11Our mission is to get to France and Switzerland
25:14and then, you know, wherever our wheels take us.
25:18Cute.
25:20We're going to live like nomads.
25:22I just hope we don't go mad.
25:27Just lay your suitcase down flat
25:29so it doesn't roll.
25:33Dempsey's used to living a nomadic lifestyle.
25:36But I'm going to have to get used to
25:38no air conditioning, living in a tiny, tiny space.
25:42Not to mention, I'll be working in the van.
25:45So, not only is this like the bedroom,
25:47the kitchen, the bathroom,
25:49it's also the office.
25:58I'll just scoot in a bit.
25:59I'm excited to get to the next campsite.
26:05You know, living together in a van
26:07in the different countries
26:09feels like a really good time
26:11to start some healthy habits.
26:14I agree.
26:16I'm just new to communicating in a healthy way.
26:21It's nice that you are just communicating with me now.
26:26Yeah, I think that's hard for me
26:29and something that I'm trying to work on.
26:32Like, I want you to be my partner.
26:35Yeah.
26:36In life and on the road.
26:39I think we'll be good.
26:40Like, this is the whole reason I'm here.
26:43Because I believe in us.
26:45Yeah.
26:54I'm so glad that me and Statler had this chat.
26:56I've never dealt with anxiety before
26:58and I think it's going to be really challenging
27:00navigating her ups and downs.
27:02But she is worth it.
27:06I love you.
27:07I love you.
27:11Here we go.
27:23Miss my Jojo.
27:25You're a suss now.
27:27A suss? Why am I a suss?
27:29Do you not crush on her?
27:31Bella only knows Jo as my friend.
27:33I didn't want her getting attached
27:35just in case me and Jo didn't walk out.
27:38I see her, I see her, I see her.
27:40I see her.
27:41I see her, I see her.
27:43["All the Women in the World"]
27:45["Only the Women in the World"]
28:07I, uh, I, uh, God, I'm exhausted.
28:11Can I sleep on your coat?
28:14Of course. Yay.
28:16Don't start dribbling on it. I'm not going to dribble.
28:21I would describe myself as being honest, hard-working,
28:25loyal, a good dad.
28:27A drool queen.
28:31I do not have a typical nine-to-five.
28:33My full-time job is taking care of my daughter, Bella Rose.
28:41Nice.
28:42Bella Rose is eight years of age.
28:45I don't even have words to describe her personality.
28:48She's hyper, funny, loving, adventurous.
28:51She's amazing.
28:54That's it, Bella. Good job. Keep going.
28:57This is an early wake-up call for this plane.
29:03Me and Bella's mother separated seven months after Bella was born.
29:07As Bella grew up, we thought it would be better
29:10for Bella to live with me.
29:14Bella means everything to me. She's my whole world.
29:19These always get emotional talking about this child.
29:21Hang on. Give me a minute.
29:25What's his name again?
29:26Joey.
29:27Joey, Joey.
29:28Jesse is the youngest one. Joey's the oldest one.
29:32Joe and the boys and Noel are arriving today
29:35and me and Bella are going to go collect them at the airport.
29:39Noel.
29:40If she's a hairdresser, you can be like,
29:42Noel, do my hair. Blow-dry my hair.
29:44My daddy doesn't know how to do it properly.
29:46Yeah.
29:47When you say, yeah, I do know how to do it properly, actually.
29:50I didn't say you didn't know. I got good at that.
29:52I got good at that.
29:54Joe's friend Noel is coming with her.
29:56I've heard that Noel has a lot of questions for her.
29:59I heard everyone has a lot of questions for me.
30:02I would be an open book.
30:03I have no problem with people asking me questions.
30:05But if Noel comes in all hot and aggressive,
30:07flying off the handle,
30:08I will simply and respectfully get up and walk away.
30:11I don't tolerate bull****.
30:13Are you excited to meet Jesse and the boys?
30:15I'm super excited to meet the boys and just have Joe back.
30:20I miss my Joe-Joe.
30:23You're sus now.
30:25Sus? Why am I sus?
30:27Do you have a crush on her?
30:28Do I have a crush on Joe?
30:30You're like, I miss my little Joe.
30:32Oh, maybe that did sound a bit sus to me.
30:34Yeah, that's just a bit weird now.
30:37Daddy.
30:40I said my little Joe-Joe.
30:42Oh, that's so cringe.
30:44What is a cringe?
30:45You literally love her like you want to marry her.
30:49Why would you like it if me and Joe got married?
30:51Married?
30:52Yeah.
30:53Yes.
30:56Bella only knows Joe as my friend.
30:58I didn't want her getting attached just in case me and Joe didn't walk out.
31:02But now that we're married and the boys are coming, we can tell them all together.
31:07So I think Bella will be super excited.
31:10Maybe, possibly after the excitement dies down, she'll turn around and be like,
31:14hey, what do you mean you got married?
31:16When was this wedding? Why wasn't I there?
31:26I'm literally so nervous.
31:29Yeah, you're nervous?
31:30Yeah, you're nervous and excited.
31:32I'm getting butterflies in my stomach.
31:34Aw, like Christmas.
31:41So yeah, they're going to come out these doors?
31:44Like when?
31:45Well, they'll be out soon.
31:48Oh, where are they?
32:00Hi.
32:10I see her, I see her, I see her, I see her, I see her.
32:16Oh, thank God, mate.
32:19Hi.
32:20Hi.
32:21How are you?
32:22Good.
32:28I'm used to just seeing Joe coming out and it's like, oh, I'm so excited and all.
32:32And then you see her and then you're like, oh, wait, there's the kids and the wedding.
32:34And you're like, oh, ****.
32:36That's, that's, the anxiety and the reality starts to kick in then.
32:40So, yeah, that's, that's it.
32:44Hi, how are you?
32:45Nice to meet you.
32:46How was your flight?
32:47Good.
32:48Long, not tired.
32:49Long.
32:50What's up, brother?
32:51How are you?
32:52All right?
32:53Nice to meet you.
32:54How was your flight?
32:55Nice to meet you.
32:56I heard a lot about you.
32:57How was your flight?
32:58Good?
32:59Yeah?
33:00It's all exhausted?
33:01Yes.
33:05Too long broke?
33:06No.
33:08All right.
33:09Well, let's, let's get out of here.
33:10Let's do it.
33:11OK, I'll take you.
33:12Let's do it.
33:14I'm just happy to have them all here.
33:16I'm just looking forward to spending time, getting to know one another,
33:19integrating the families.
33:20Yeah, 100%.
33:21And just, that's it.
33:22We've been waiting for this a long time, so just...
33:24Overdue.
33:25Yeah, well overdue.
33:26Well overdue.
33:27Yeah, yeah.
33:28I've never seen two people come off a plane so immaculate looking in me life.
33:33I'm not going right into any information for the boys.
33:36Everyone's tired, everyone's dehydrated, exhausted, a little bit cranky.
33:40It's not the time.
33:41Yeah.
33:42It's not the time now.
33:44But sometime this week we'll definitely be discussing where the relationship is going.
33:49Or has gone.
33:50Or has gone.
33:53It is.
33:54It's not cold.
33:55It's not cold.
33:56Ireland's cold.
33:57It's not cold.
33:58It's not cold.
34:07You're welcome.
34:14Happy family, guys, with the family mobile.
34:21Well, I'm exhausted.
34:23I'm also exhausted.
34:24And so am I.
34:25We're all pooped.
34:27That goes for everybody.
34:28Yeah, I think everybody needs a nice nap at some point, but happy to be here.
34:33We love naps.
34:34Happy to have you guys here.
34:40Can you guys understand me?
34:42Yeah?
34:43OK.
34:44Can you, Joey?
34:45Yeah.
34:46OK.
34:50If Jo is able to move to Ireland, everyday life would be amazing.
34:55We'd be able to do normal, everyday stuff that I think most couples take for granted.
35:01This week is going to have a huge impact on what mine and Jo's future looks like.
35:06If Joanne's boys don't want her to move here to Ireland, or they end up not liking me,
35:11I don't know what that looks like for mine and Jo's future.
35:22It's my birthday.
35:23Her birthday, too.
35:25Look at what we get.
35:31It feels, like, surreal.
35:32Like, this isn't real.
35:36It just, like, went so wrong.
35:42MUSIC
35:55Hey, Mark.
35:56Hey.
35:57How are you?
35:58Fine.
36:03How are you, Dad?
36:04Good, thank you.
36:11I just offered her to buy the Benetit that she liked yesterday.
36:16It was expensive.
36:18I didn't like it yesterday.
36:20And she didn't like it.
36:22She doesn't want it. She doesn't want anything.
36:26That negativity.
36:28I did my best.
36:29He just wants what he wants and he feels like he might not get it.
36:32So he spirals.
36:35You ripped out my hair extensions.
36:37I didn't rip the hair.
36:38And you ripped my phone out of my hand and you wouldn't give that to me.
36:40Her phone from here.
36:42And yeah.
36:43One of the extensions from here came out.
36:47I never harm her.
36:49I never touch her.
36:53That's f****** vanity I mean.
36:56I mean it's my birthday.
36:58Her birthday too.
37:00Look at what we get.
37:04Okay. I think I have everything.
37:07Please move.
37:09Okay.
37:15Take care of yourself.
37:17In your life.
37:19In your new life.
37:21In your life.
37:23Okay?
37:25Whatever makes you feel better.
37:27Here. You go out.
37:29You go.
37:37Okay.
38:00What happened?
38:02Well it started at the restaurant.
38:04He started in on me at the table saying,
38:07Why don't you just let me buy this vanity?
38:10But I said, I don't want you to spend your money on a vanity I don't even like.
38:15And he was just insisting and insisting.
38:17It was the most stupid thing to get into a fight about.
38:19And he was yelling at me in the car and saying he's changed his whole life for me.
38:23What have I done? What have I done?
38:25I haven't done anything for him.
38:26He had a good life before.
38:28He had a peaceful life.
38:29He was perfectly happy.
38:31And now look at it. I f****** his life.
38:34And so we got back to the house and...
38:39He just kept yelling and started yelling more and more.
38:41And then he came over and grabbed my phone,
38:44ripped my hair extension out,
38:47and I said, give me my phone back.
38:48And he says, what?
38:49I don't know where your phone is.
38:52How would I know where your phone is?
38:53And I was like, you just took my phone.
38:55Am I like...
38:57He was trying to make me feel like I was going crazy.
38:59Finally he gave it back to me.
39:00He was like, come here baby, come here.
39:01It's our birthday.
39:03Let me hug you.
39:04I was like, don't touch me.
39:06And so I started packing.
39:09He came out and he was like, what are you doing?
39:11And I was like, I'm packing because I'm leaving.
39:14He goes, if you leave, you'll never see me again.
39:16And I was like, that's the point.
39:22So stupid.
39:23F****** sucks.
39:31I love you.
39:44Are you okay?
39:46I'm okay, yeah.
39:48I feel like...
39:51a little bit numbed at this point.
39:53Like, I just need to process what happened.
39:55Because it feels like surreal.
39:57Like, this isn't real.
40:01He kept saying, you've changed.
40:03You used to listen to me.
40:04Now you don't listen to me.
40:06And he was saying, I want the old Shekinah back
40:08who used to listen to me in the beginning.
40:14I don't think I've changed.
40:16I think I just...
40:18I'm using my voice more
40:20because I'm realizing certain things are not okay.
40:24You know, he doesn't like to be confronted or questioned
40:29or challenged at all.
40:35I don't know what this means for me or Sarper at this point.
40:38I just need to process what happened.
40:42And I'm alone with my dog.
40:53I just keep thinking about how it was earlier tonight.
40:57It was such a good night.
41:00It just went so wrong.
41:08Next time on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way...
41:11My mom, she's not really, like, the gentlest person, you know?
41:15I did promise my family that we would do a video call with Inky.
41:19If Mookie gets ate up by a volcano,
41:22I'm gonna bring you back to life so I can kill you.
41:27Did I tell a joke?
41:39If James don't want to have a kid,
41:41it will break my family heart.
41:44We'll sort everything out financially.
41:46Like, I still have the money from my car.
41:48Okay.
41:49It's the first I'm hearing that she had extra money.
41:53I thought that you didn't really, like, have any extra money.
41:57The van is not in my name.
41:59Mm-hmm.
42:00And I feel like this is all a scam.
42:02I feel let down. I feel betrayed.
42:07She's always reminding me how much she loves me.
42:11She's always reminding me how much she does for our relationship.
42:15It's opening a wound.
42:25If he just thinks we're gonna fall back into, like, our happy life
42:28and things are gonna be great, he's totally wrong.
42:31Right now, I don't know if I even want to see him again.