From the life-changing presence of his first-ever kid to the habits he dropped because he now has a child, Ronnie Ricketts and other celebrity dads talk about their experiences as first-time daddies!
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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:39We always have fun being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:47Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis. Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:54We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends, the best of friends.
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be. We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:24So sis, what are you reading?
01:27Pregnancy and your baby's first year.
01:30But daddy is in the picture, not mommy.
01:33But Jelly, if there's a mommy, of course there's a daddy.
01:36You can't immaculate the conception of having a baby.
01:39Right, right, right.
01:40And these days, there are a lot of dads who are hands-on in taking care of their kids.
01:46Because most, I think 80% of the population now, both mommies and daddies work.
01:52So of course, he gives, he helps. Why are you two, Ariel?
01:55Yes, in fairness, I'm really proud that my husband and I really share the responsibility
02:01when it comes to taking care of our children.
02:03Even bathing, changing diapers, he does everything.
02:07He's a winner. That's true. Do you remember the movie back then?
02:11The Big Daddy. He's not a kid, but he took care of him. His life changed.
02:17This is Arnold Schwarzenegger in his junior year.
02:20He experienced how to get pregnant, how to give birth.
02:25Because when we give birth, of course, that's when we feel that we really need the help of our spouse.
02:34Of course, we also need help because it's really hard.
02:38You'll take care of yourself, you'll take care of the house, you'll take care of your spouse.
02:41You really need help.
02:44And today, we'll find out how the daddies feel about being a daddy.
02:49Even if they're being annoying to their children, their ears are itching.
02:54We'll find out if they really know the basic things that babies need.
03:02Yes.
03:03Here in...
03:04SIS!
03:13Always, always be.
03:15We are sisters.
03:17We are sisters.
03:21Is being a dad surprising?
03:23That was your first realization that you're a dad.
03:27Were they shocked how hard it is?
03:29We'll find out with our guests today.
03:33Okay, let's start.
03:34Her son, Rachel Marie and Minella Isabella, Rosabel, are fighting for her attention.
03:42Why are the kids so nice to her?
03:45Ronnie Ricketts!
03:47Our next guest is a daddy.
03:48He feels unstable when he's a daddy.
03:52Ruben Manang.
03:53Good morning.
03:54Good morning.
03:55He doesn't care if the kid cries, he'll replace it with a kiss.
03:59He'll check if the kid got shot, if the baby got hurt.
04:02So that he'll know that he's being taken care of.
04:04He's a rapey devil.
04:07When they sleep together and when the kid wakes up,
04:10his wife wakes him up.
04:12Cookie, Stooky, right?
04:14Being a dad is really hard.
04:17Good morning.
04:18At first, the baby was quiet and it wasn't a problem.
04:21Of course, it's still a baby, right?
04:22But when the toddler walks, it's a bit annoying.
04:25Gerard Laurent.
04:27Hi.
04:28Good morning.
04:29Good morning.
04:30Good morning, daddies.
04:31Good morning.
04:32Wow, daddies.
04:33Okay, what was your first...
04:35What was your first reaction when they told you,
04:37this is your home baby?
04:40Me?
04:42Wait, were you in the operating room?
04:44The second baby.
04:45But the first baby, I wasn't that strong yet.
04:47You weren't able to handle it yet.
04:49But I wanted to go, but the doctor didn't want me to go in.
04:52Maybe it's because you're married.
04:53Because I might end up holding the baby.
04:56No, really, because there's a situation like that.
04:58You might feel sorry for them.
05:00You might know their procedure.
05:01Correct.
05:02So they won't admit it.
05:03So when they gave me my first baby,
05:06it was very fragile.
05:10You might fall.
05:12It's so light that you can't understand.
05:14It's like you're speechless.
05:15But you're already holding it.
05:17You're super excited to thank the Lord.
05:20Of course, that this is it.
05:22This will change your life.
05:24So I felt really blessed that day.
05:27What about you?
05:28Well, when my baby was born,
05:31that was the excitement.
05:33I couldn't believe that from my own blood,
05:36I was able to draw a baby.
05:39I was like, wow, this is what life is like.
05:45You don't know what you're going to do next.
05:48But deep inside, I was afraid.
05:52Because I wasn't sure if I could live with this.
05:56Actually, after my wife delivered,
06:00I scanned all my bank books to see how much money I have.
06:04You're too nervous.
06:06It's like I want to give everything to her.
06:10The best, of course.
06:12DJ, first time you saw your baby?
06:14Yeah, the first time I saw my baby,
06:16as far as I could recall,
06:20How old was your first baby?
06:22Six years old.
06:23She's the youngest.
06:24Anyway.
06:25He's the youngest.
06:27I'm asking you the best part.
06:29You don't want to spoil it.
06:32She's already 16 years old.
06:34Okay, 16 years ago when you saw your first baby.
06:38But anyway, I suppose that
06:41the feeling was,
06:44the first time I saw my baby,
06:47the feeling was,
06:49Mutual.
06:51It was beyond your expectations.
06:56Do you have a vision that you can feel?
06:58Before the baby comes out,
07:00you already have expectations.
07:02Hey, my own baby is going to be born.
07:05So, the preparations and the feeling was at that level.
07:10It's like you practiced, but it's already like that.
07:13All the expectations and the feeling.
07:16But when it was actual,
07:18the feeling was beyond.
07:20The excitement,
07:22the tension was there at the same time.
07:24It's always above your expectations.
07:29More than that.
07:31I was worried.
07:33Happy and worried.
07:35So, this is it. This is your baby.
07:37No, because what you said to Rockets earlier.
07:40I went into the operating room twice.
07:44It's the same thing.
07:46So, I saw that your wife was open.
07:50I was worried about Cookie.
07:52I was worried about the doctors.
07:56I thought it was a big wound.
07:59Your baby was about to be born.
08:01Suddenly, it was my baby.
08:04I was happy, but I couldn't let it go.
08:08I was confused.
08:10Your wife is your baby.
08:13So, there was excitement.
08:16At the same time, I was nervous.
08:19I was worried about the emotions.
08:21It's like you're changing channels on TV.
08:24A lot of things happened.
08:26At the same time.
08:27It was just running.
08:29In other words, it was just running.
08:34For me, it was the flesh.
08:37There was no anesthesia.
08:40For me, it was the baby's head.
08:45I don't know, I had two cameras.
08:47I was holding a video camera.
08:49You were coaching a briefing.
08:51Yes, I did.
08:53You gave ice.
08:54Yes, I did.
08:56You even massaged his back.
08:58I didn't know who to give it to first.
09:00So, I just did it.
09:01I just held him.
09:02I said, you can do it.
09:03I think it was around 4 o'clock.
09:05Suddenly, the baby was born.
09:07The doctor was in the room.
09:08He was in the room.
09:09I was also in the room.
09:11I was holding a video camera.
09:13At the last minute, the baby was born.
09:17It looks like a nut.
09:21After that, I couldn't clean it.
09:25I put some tubes.
09:27It's like you're invading.
09:29That's what you need.
09:31After that, the baby was born.
09:35When the wind blew, the baby was born.
09:39Sir, this is your son.
09:41I'm happy, of course.
09:43But I was a little nervous.
09:47I wasn't lucky.
09:49You were blessed.
09:51Yes, but I was lucky.
09:52It was a blessing.
09:54But on the other side,
09:55when you check the baby,
09:57on the positive side,
09:58Is it complete?
09:59Is it complete?
10:00Is it healthy?
10:01After all,
10:02you're holding this,
10:03you're going to count it.
10:04Is it five fingers,
10:05or what?
10:06Or is it not enough?
10:07No, just bring the passports.
10:08Oh, really?
10:09I'm going to pay for it.
10:10Then, that's it.
10:11Is it healthier?
10:13You were also worried that it should be complete.
10:15Of course,
10:16you always pray for a normal child.
10:18Everything should be complete.
10:19Of course,
10:20you're excited.
10:21The emotion is overwhelming.
10:23When the excitement dies,
10:25the overwhelming factor is gone,
10:28you go home,
10:29you're at home,
10:30this is it,
10:31this is the reality.
10:32You're going to sleep,
10:33sleeping,
10:34sleeping,
10:35then,
10:36of course,
10:37what's that?
10:38Right?
10:39That's every two hours.
10:40That's the trauma.
10:42That's something I didn't expect.
10:44Because, of course,
10:45for me,
10:46it's the baby first,
10:47nothing else.
10:48Of course,
10:49we can do it.
10:50But it's hard.
10:51It's hard.
10:52Like I said,
10:53music to my ear.
10:54When you do music to my ear.
10:56You're already daddies.
10:58What did you feel?
11:00Are you participants?
11:02Yes.
11:03I practiced.
11:05Because my brother,
11:07he has a baby,
11:08he's already one year old.
11:10One year old is already big.
11:12The baby is different.
11:14It's like I'm already practicing.
11:15But the practice is different.
11:16You're already sleeping,
11:18you're waking up at night,
11:19you have no choice.
11:20We're shifting.
11:21What's shifting?
11:22There's a lot of shifting.
11:23What's shifting?
11:24You're sleeping,
11:25you're the first one to wake up,
11:26you're the second one to wake up.
11:27No, no, no.
11:28Hours, hours.
11:29How many hours?
11:30We're shifting.
11:31Wake up.
11:32Wake up.
11:33No, no.
11:34That's shifting.
11:35As long as you're not in charge,
11:36if he cries,
11:37don't worry.
11:38Okay.
11:39It's up to you.
11:41So my son,
11:42in my chair,
11:43my son is still new,
11:44he can fit in here.
11:45Yes, he can.
11:46He won't fall.
11:47Yes, he won't.
11:48So you sleep on the chair.
11:50So if you cry,
11:51you're already there.
11:52It's perfect.
11:53There,
11:54later,
11:55after your shift,
11:56you can sleep
11:57directly.
11:58Of course,
11:59your heads are already hot,
12:00you can't sleep.
12:01Admit it,
12:02there are hours
12:03that are really
12:04irritable.
12:05Your fuse is short,
12:06the two of you,
12:07not just you,
12:08especially your husband.
12:09What did you fight about before?
12:11About taking care of the child?
12:14Well,
12:15who will take care of,
12:16for example,
12:17the milk,
12:18when he walks,
12:20especially when
12:21the child has a fever,
12:23or because of you,
12:24it's like
12:25it's very traumatic.
12:27What else are we going to do?
12:28Are we going to run to the hospital?
12:29Or not yet?
12:30Not yet,
12:31let's give this first.
12:33Cases like that.
12:34How about you?
12:36For me,
12:37we don't have a problem.
12:38Because we,
12:39we give time.
12:41Of course,
12:42whoever wants to,
12:43Who wants to?
12:44How about you?
12:45Let's keep an eye on it first.
12:49For me,
12:50it's okay if,
12:53if you feel tired,
12:54of course,
12:55you can give it.
12:56Share.
12:57Share.
12:58Okay,
12:59let's do this.
13:00Let us test
13:01these daddies.
13:02Let's do this,
13:03if you know how to make dede.
13:04This is what we're going to do.
13:05Let's start with
13:06seasoning the dede.
13:07They go first.
13:08Okay,
13:09let's start.
13:10Okay,
13:11ready,
13:12let's start in position.
13:13Should I mix it?
13:14Of course,
13:15you're like a kid.
13:17I think it's seasoned already.
13:18It needs to be mixed,
13:19the nipple should be up,
13:20and everything,
13:21okay?
13:22I know Richard.
13:23He's the one
13:24who made this.
13:25He's his baby.
13:30Okay,
13:31okay,
13:32are you ready?
13:33Ready,
13:34set.
13:35Hands at the side.
13:36Hands at the side.
13:37Okay,
13:38hands at the side.
13:39Ready,
13:40set,
13:41go!
13:47Sus,
13:48Mario,
13:49are you washing your hands?
13:50No,
13:51I was drinking alcohol earlier.
13:56Hey,
13:57Sus,
13:58your son doesn't like it.
13:59One.
14:00Wow!
14:01Wow!
14:02The milk is boiling.
14:03Yes.
14:04Fix the nipple,
14:05quickly.
14:06It's boiling.
14:07It's boiling!
14:08Do we remove the lid?
14:11I hope so.
14:14Oh,
14:15I'm done.
14:16I'm done.
14:18He's been here for a while.
14:19He's been cooking for a while.
14:23We all won.
14:24Oh, it's over too.
14:25Wait a minute,
14:26let's check.
14:27Official,
14:28official results.
14:29Fred,
14:30you are the winner.
14:33Thank you, Academy.
14:34You know why?
14:35Why?
14:35It splashed on you.
14:37That's why it was easy to remove.
14:39No, I pricked it to make it splash.
14:41That's a technique.
14:43Technique!
14:44Isn't this a chicken pot if it's hot?
14:46No, it's okay.
14:47I hope your kids won't feel bad
14:49because your kids will be pouring milk.
14:52And it's hot.
14:53Yes, and they'll enjoy it.
14:55No, because you made us do it.
14:56Time pressure.
14:57Yes.
14:58You're the first one to do it.
14:59It's like you're giving us time pressure.
15:01When I season my milk, there's love.
15:03Yes.
15:04While the baby is crying.
15:06That's right.
15:07It's here.
15:08It's here.
15:09Daddy's mixing the milk already for you.
15:12That's why the baby will say,
15:14Tata.
15:15Asus.
15:16Asus.
15:17Let's go back to how long
15:19these fathers' patience is.
15:20Even though their ears are itching
15:22from crying for their baby.
15:24When we come back,
15:25that's what we'll talk about.
15:34Always.
15:35Always be.
15:36We are sisters.
15:38We are sisters.
15:42As parents,
15:44we always want the best for our children.
15:47That if they can go through any pain,
15:49any hardship,
15:51we'll be the ones to promise
15:53that they won't get hurt and suffer.
15:55But of course, that's not possible.
15:57We can only stand on the sides
15:59and watch and see.
16:01So of course,
16:02fears will come.
16:04Of course, you're happy and excited.
16:06And then,
16:07of course, you have fears,
16:09especially as a father.
16:10You're responsible for another human being
16:12aside from yourself.
16:14What are your fears?
16:18My fear is that
16:20you'll let them down.
16:22You cannot provide
16:26the means to prepare them
16:28for the world.
16:30Emotionally?
16:31Emotionally
16:33and intellectually.
16:35You have to give them the right advice
16:37and proper preparation.
16:39It's like there's still something missing.
16:41There's no
16:43hard-written
16:45book to teach you how to be a father.
16:47There's always this fear
16:49that one day
16:51they'll have a problem.
16:52Just like all of us growing up,
16:53we had problems.
16:54We felt like we couldn't answer our father.
16:56And what's scary is when you feel
16:58your child cannot approach you for advice.
17:01Are the fears for a boy
17:03different from the fears for a girl?
17:06A girl or a boy?
17:08A boy.
17:10A boy.
17:12That's true.
17:13I agree with that.
17:14The later part,
17:15especially if they're already teenagers,
17:17that's when the courtship
17:19comes in.
17:20It's like you're feeling it now.
17:22That's a question for him.
17:26We can't avoid that somehow
17:28the weaker part are the women
17:30as they grow up
17:32compared to the boys.
17:34Especially us.
17:36That's what I'm afraid of.
17:38Usually it's the women who cries
17:40and the men are stronger.
17:42That's why I said
17:44if someone takes a bath in my son's room,
17:46I'll bring it to my room.
17:47That's my poster when I was young.
17:48You'll see it.
17:49That's me when I was young.
17:51So you be careful.
17:55There's a certain stage for that.
17:57It's like you're cleaning a gun.
18:01When the children are women,
18:03especially when there's no stage
18:05for that matter,
18:07the guy-girl relationship
18:09when there's no proper stage,
18:11the worry, especially with the parents,
18:13is more there.
18:15But beyond that,
18:17talking about that,
18:19talking about security,
18:21that's our problem.
18:22Peace and order.
18:23That's my fear now.
18:26Even in school,
18:28when a child is young,
18:29that's one fear.
18:31That's one of my fears.
18:32I'm really absorbed now.
18:33If I can follow the rules.
18:35That goes for a boy or a girl.
18:37If I can bring my child to school,
18:39I do that.
18:40Security is important to you.
18:42Every time,
18:43sometimes the child,
18:45if you don't notice,
18:46the door is still open,
18:47he'll just come out.
18:48That's my number one fear.
18:50Of course, you have to ask,
18:51hey, where's my child?
18:53There's no sudden silence.
18:57You just have to look.
18:59Of course, you have to look for him.
19:01That's when you panic.
19:02That's what's scary.
19:03Ruben, what are your fears?
19:04Well, for me,
19:05aside from my physical fears
19:07that I might get hurt while playing,
19:09for me,
19:11financial security is more dominant
19:13for the future of my child.
19:15And if it can be added.
19:19Because you can't say
19:21if you want to give him everything.
19:25You can give him more choices in life.
19:27Everything he needs.
19:28A good school.
19:30If he can go to school.
19:31Because you're afraid
19:33that something bad might happen.
19:35So, the future,
19:37I'm still a bit nervous.
19:40Because I believe and I know
19:42that I'm not yet considered
19:46a good provider for my son and wife.
19:49That's the challenge for you?
19:50That's the challenge.
19:51And I'm willing to...
19:52For everybody, I guess.
19:53That's the challenge.
19:54For everybody.
19:55Especially these times.
19:56It's very unpredictable.
19:57Especially these times.
19:58Yeah.
19:59It's not only here in the Philippines.
20:00It's global.
20:01For everyone.
20:02So, it's really unpredictable.
20:03Of course, you too.
20:04Aside from the child,
20:05aside from the physical changes,
20:07the environment,
20:08the things you do,
20:10there are also changes
20:12that change you.
20:14Decisions.
20:16The priorities.
20:18Priorities.
20:19I feel like I shouldn't do this anymore.
20:21Because I have children.
20:22I know.
20:23Attitude.
20:26Attitude.
20:27That's a lot.
20:28A lot of things change.
20:29You go through a phase
20:31where even you,
20:33your emotional changes change.
20:36For me,
20:37talking about career,
20:39I'm lucky.
20:40I started doing movies
20:41without bold movies
20:42or kissing scenes.
20:44I can tell my daughter
20:45to watch my movies
20:46and say,
20:47that's your daddy.
20:48Maybe shooting people,
20:49but those are the bad people.
20:50But in terms of
20:51doing other crazy things,
20:53they can't see it.
20:54Hopefully,
20:55I could maintain that level of
20:57my personality.
20:59Well, for me,
21:00first of all,
21:01going out with my friends.
21:02I reduced it because
21:06my daughter needs
21:08my wife's attention.
21:11Plus,
21:13the unreasonable things
21:14that I used to spend on
21:16like sports,
21:19I reduced it.
21:21I reduced it because
21:22I can't remove it.
21:23Ron said earlier,
21:24it's your outlet.
21:26I reduced it all.
21:29You said earlier,
21:30you were young.
21:31Very young.
21:32When you got married.
21:34That's different.
21:35As a young father.
21:37I suppose it happens to,
21:39if not all,
21:40to most men
21:42who settle down,
21:44family life,
21:45with children,
21:46that their focus
21:48changes.
21:49It changes.
21:50Beforehand,
21:51your focus is on yourself,
21:53on what you need.
21:55What you need.
21:57For your satisfaction,
21:58personally,
21:59but the family life,
22:01family stage,
22:02your focus changes.
22:05You work for your family
22:06from then on.
22:08You earn this money
22:10for your family,
22:11no longer for yourself.
22:12Your drive changes.
22:13Your drive changes.
22:14Your drive changes.
22:15Your money reason that,
22:19I want to buy this.
22:21Before you think about it,
22:23think about it for your children.
22:27This is for fathers
22:28who have daughters.
22:30We have a saying here in the Philippines,
22:33that if you have a lot of daughters,
22:35if you have a lot of daughters,
22:36it's like a reflection of your past.
22:39Meaning,
22:40you have something to pay for.
22:42Exemption.
22:43Me?
22:44Yes.
22:45You told me earlier, right?
22:46I disagree that they are exempted.
22:48No, no.
22:49You disagree with the exemption?
22:51Yes.
22:52You say yes.
22:54Yes, why, why, why, why, why?
22:55Okay, I'm a politician.
22:59I don't believe so,
23:01that just like me,
23:03my children are girls.
23:05All of them?
23:06I disagree that,
23:08because of my past,
23:10what you mentioned.
23:13That's my destiny.
23:16That's how it is, right?
23:17That's what God gave me.
23:18I believe so, that way, more of that way.
23:20So, are you afraid that,
23:22of course, you know how men think.
23:24Of course, of course.
23:25You're young.
23:26Of course.
23:27Of course, your children will give birth one day.
23:30So, do you remember
23:32what you thought of women back then?
23:35And then your daughters,
23:37when they grow up,
23:38and when they give birth.
23:39When they date.
23:40When they date.
23:41That's also what men think,
23:43when they're with them.
23:45Do you think of that?
23:46It won't go away from your mind.
23:48It won't go away, of course.
23:49That's where your overprotective attitude will come out.
23:52Right?
23:53Actually, it's disturbing.
23:54It's disturbing.
23:56We have a lot of disturbing people, right?
23:57It's really disturbing.
23:58Super.
23:59Well, maybe that's where it comes in,
24:01as much as possible,
24:02as early as possible,
24:05you should lay out how you will discipline the child.
24:08Educate them.
24:09You should educate them
24:10because you won't be able to watch them for a minute.
24:13Every minute.
24:14It's their upbringing.
24:15It will come out.
24:16It's their upbringing.
24:17This is just a curious question.
24:19Of course,
24:20at one point in time in their lives,
24:21you will have to talk to them about
24:24sexuality.
24:25Right.
24:26Talk to mommy.
24:27So,
24:28did you experience that?
24:29There are stages.
24:31How did you experience that?
24:33We get to that point
24:34that we talk about that,
24:37right?
24:39At first,
24:40the baby's coming.
24:42That's how you talk?
24:43Boy, girl.
24:44The,
24:45uh,
24:46son,
24:47what?
24:48Actually,
24:49we give it basically that
24:50we're going to make a brother.
24:52And actually,
24:53we don't go into too much detail yet.
24:56We don't go into too much detail yet.
24:58But,
24:59your children thought that
25:00there's some secret technique
25:01that the parents know.
25:02So,
25:03their order is
25:04if there's a brother,
25:05there should be a sister.
25:06There should be two.
25:07Their order is so simple.
25:09But,
25:10they understand that there's,
25:11you know,
25:12there's something else.
25:13There should be a boy and a girl.
25:14So,
25:15But the details come in later
25:16because the oldest is still eight.
25:18So,
25:19So,
25:20break it to me gently.
25:21How will you break it?
25:23There's a book.
25:25Can you show me the book?
25:26Adam and Eve, right?
25:28Okay, fine.
25:29Let me move on.
25:31Okay.
25:32Don't multiply.
25:34Of course,
25:35they already drank milk,
25:36they'll leave the house,
25:37the baby will do the laundry.
25:38Correct.
25:39Mommy will do the laundry.
25:40Of course,
25:41Mommy will do the laundry.
25:42So,
25:43you'll do the laundry for your child.
25:44Us again?
25:45Yes.
25:46Let's time this.
25:47Let's go first.
25:48Go!
25:50I won.
25:51Hey,
25:52you're the first one.
25:53I'm sorry.
25:54Hey!
25:55I'm sorry.
25:56I'm sorry.
25:57I'm sorry.
25:58I'm sorry.
25:59I'm sorry.
26:00I'm sorry.
26:01I'm sorry.
26:02I'm sorry.
26:03I'm sorry.
26:04I'm sorry.
26:05This is hard.
26:06This is hard.
26:07What is this?
26:08Clothes.
26:09What's harder than the baby?
26:10The clothes.
26:11Don't twist it.
26:12Don't twist it.
26:13I want to help.
26:14I'm nervous.
26:15Hurry up.
26:17Alright.
26:1928.
26:2028.
26:2128.
26:22She won.
26:23Yes.
26:24She won.
26:25There you go.
26:26She won.
26:27She won.
26:28She won.
26:29She won.
26:30She won.
26:31She won.
26:32She won.
26:33She won.
26:34Marisa!
26:35Come back, sis!
26:36When she's here at home, she's usually the one who supports Ivan, our son.
26:41She's the one who takes care of him.
26:44She brings him to school, picks him up, everything.
26:46And she also cooks.
26:48She likes to cook.
26:51Love, don't worry.
26:53I'm just here for you.
26:54We're just here for your child, whatever you want to do in your career or whatever.
27:00We're just here for you, so support us.
27:02And we love you very, very much.
27:04Always, always be
27:06We are sisters
27:08We are sisters
27:13Always, always be
27:15We are sisters
27:17We are sisters
27:25Dads always say,
27:26no matter how hard the work is,
27:28a hug and a smile from a baby
27:30is worth it.
27:32So let's talk about
27:33how hard it is
27:35to have a baby.
27:39So, are we going to switch?
27:40Huh?
27:40Milk! Milk!
27:41Milk! Milk!
27:42Wow, that's tiring.
27:43Poor dads.
27:45We're always ready.
27:48Okay, how will you describe...
27:49What's the question? We're sleepy.
27:50No, we're not.
27:51We're not sleepy.
27:52How will you describe
27:54how happy your baby is
27:56especially when you're tired from work?
27:58That's the solution.
27:59That's the solution.
28:00That's the solution?
28:01Yep.
28:02Yep.
28:03What's your favorite moment?
28:05The first time you had a baby?
28:07Yeah, the first time I had a baby.
28:09Really?
28:10Really.
28:11It was like,
28:13wow.
28:14I'm a dad now.
28:16I'm a dad.
28:17Another realization.
28:19I'm teaching him how to be a dad.
28:21Me too.
28:22Not mommy.
28:23Actually, diet.
28:24Baby!
28:25Baby, baby, baby.
28:27I feel like I'm the winner.
28:28I'm the winner.
28:29First word.
28:30I like the first time you had a baby.
28:34His hand suddenly went to you.
28:36It's like a commercial.
28:37It's like a commercial.
28:38Touch mobile.
28:40It's like he touched your arm.
28:42It's like you're really being touched.
28:44Yeah.
28:45It's solid.
28:46It's warm.
28:47It's not like you're reciprocating.
28:50Yeah, it's like he's communicating.
28:52His hand is solid.
28:54Touchable.
28:57For me, the attitudes and virtues that I want to inculcate and cultivate in him,
29:05when I see him, that becomes his habit,
29:10how he eats,
29:12how he sleeps,
29:14how he thanks you,
29:15like a specific example.
29:17You still have a baby?
29:18Yeah, my baby.
29:20When we fall asleep, he wants me to hold my wife's hand.
29:24So those are the uplifts,
29:28the worries, the tiredness.
29:31Tiredness.
29:32That's right.
29:34Like what my brothers said,
29:35it's all true.
29:38He's really experienced.
29:4015 years from now, 10 years from now,
29:42things that you can't tell them right now because they're still too young,
29:45they still don't understand,
29:48things that they still can't grasp,
29:50that 15 years from now, they'll understand better.
29:53And maybe 15 years from now, you won't be able to tell them
29:56because you're still thinking about something else.
29:59I hope she'll grow up the way I wanted her to be,
30:03without any pressure at all.
30:05Because like Ruben was saying,
30:07what my babies see in me,
30:10me and Maritz,
30:11hugging, kissing,
30:12the love that we shared,
30:14I hope they can share that with everyone,
30:16with everyone.
30:17In a very positive way.
30:19Not like...
30:20Okay, okay, we get your point.
30:23I'll be really proud of you.
30:26Well, maybe for me,
30:29Ivan,
30:32you know, daddy loves you very much.
30:36My wife, Tukati, and Ivan are with me.
30:39Daddy's trying his best.
30:41Maybe I'm not a good provider as of now for you,
30:46but daddy will try his best,
30:48and always remember that
30:51daddy will always guide you and love you.
30:56You have a new baby.
31:00For my children,
31:02as a father to you,
31:04I love you so much that
31:07I would sacrifice everything,
31:09even my life for all of you.
31:11As much as possible, as much as I could,
31:14I would like to provide you
31:16the best things in life for all of you
31:19to just make you happy
31:21and to make you grow up
31:28as righteous as you could be.
31:33The best of everything for all of you.
31:36Okay.
31:38Daddy, why are you laughing?
31:40I'm touched. I'm speechless.
31:43It's continuous. You're holding it in.
31:45I'm tired of taking care of him.
31:47For me, I would say to them,
31:49I love you,
31:50but daddy is not a superman.
31:54Daddy's a person, a human being
31:56who has also faults.
31:58Maybe, I try to do the best I can,
32:01but I know maybe it's not enough
32:04for what some of you might think.
32:08I was surprised with my children one time
32:10when they saw me with Aci Taulado.
32:13They said,
32:14you're so small, daddy.
32:16You're the most...
32:19Fabulous.
32:20I wouldn't want them to put me on a pedestal
32:24and be unrealistic.
32:26I just try to do the best I can.
32:29Just pray.
32:31Jera.
32:33For me,
32:35full support.
32:36Of course,
32:37you'll give everything to him
32:39until he grows up.
32:42If possible.
32:43If possible.
32:45You're always there for him.
32:47Your wives will thank you
32:49if they give you children.
32:51She might cry.
32:54Jerald, let's start with you.
32:57For me,
32:58this is the first time I experienced
33:00being a mother and a father
33:02because I don't have a wife.
33:06You can do it.
33:07You can do it.
33:09Everything, of course.
33:11Everything.
33:14Everything you do.
33:19Go ahead.
33:21Okay, Ricardo.
33:23I'm speechless again.
33:26Why are you speechless?
33:29I always say thank you, Kuki.
33:32You're right.
33:33Your timing.
33:35Kuki is always the one telling me
33:38that this is the time.
33:39This is the right time for another child.
33:43He's always right.
33:45Sometimes, you need to listen to your wife.
33:51Love you.
33:52Love you.
33:55Thank you, hon.
33:56I love you very much.
33:59To my first wife.
34:05That's a breaker.
34:07Which is true.
34:08My first wife.
34:09I have two children there.
34:11I'm very thankful that
34:13although you didn't give me a son.
34:17This is so annoying.
34:18I want to hit him.
34:21But then,
34:22I'm very thankful
34:24because
34:26honestly,
34:27I love my children.
34:29I love them so much.
34:31First wife.
34:33They're so beautiful.
34:36I feel so good that they love me, too.
34:39How about second wife?
34:40To my second wife,
34:41I have also two children.
34:44Once again,
34:45thank you.
34:47I can't give him a son.
34:49I can't.
34:50I can't.
34:55There's a camera in front of you.
34:56If you hit him,
34:57I'll ruin the audience.
35:00Okay.
35:01Okay, I'll hit him.
35:04To my second wife,
35:07I'm not done yet.
35:10That's it.
35:13Well, to Cathy,
35:15first and foremost,
35:16I'd like to thank you for giving Ivan to me.
35:19And I would say
35:20thank you for loving me,
35:22for accepting me,
35:23and pushing me to the limits
35:25to be the best that I could be.
35:28I love you.
35:30To Maris,
35:31my best friend,
35:32my inspiration.
35:36I'm so blessed that I had you for my wife
35:38and gave me two lovely daughters.
35:40That's all I can say.
35:41Thank you very much for all the love
35:42and the trust.
35:44I love you.
35:46Last question.
35:48Given all the things
35:51that a father goes through,
35:54would you...
35:57Right?
35:58Would you go through being a mother?
36:00Something like that.
36:02Do you think you'll accept that?
36:04I don't want to.
36:05You don't want to?
36:06You don't want to have children?
36:07I don't want to have children.
36:08It's hard to be a woman.
36:11You'll have menstruation.
36:14Dad,
36:15you'll have a lot of menstruation.
36:17You'll be pregnant again.
36:20The work,
36:21the experience,
36:22the labor pain and everything.
36:24But you give birth to a child.
36:26Very hard.
36:27I wouldn't like that.
36:30It's okay for me to support my wife.
36:33Those are the best terms.
36:34To support your wife.
36:35It's hard.
36:36Don't do that.
36:37You'll be okay.
36:38You'll be okay as a man.
36:40I trust God's decision.
36:42Okay.
36:44Making us the fathers.
36:48You'll be a man.
36:49Thank you very much.
36:51Thank you so much.
36:52Another first.
36:53This is first for us.
36:54We had so much fun.
36:56Us too.
37:15So happy.
37:16I had a lot of fun this episode today.
37:19I was happy with the daddies.
37:21The daddies are really happy.
37:23They're handsome.
37:24They're so into their children.
37:25I think most daddies really want to be a part of their child's lives.
37:33Even if it's the most trivial thing like
37:35mixing milk,
37:36changing diapers.
37:38Of course, not all the time.
37:40Some are tired.
37:41But all daddies,
37:43they want to be a part of their children's lives.
37:45Those little things like changing diapers,
37:48changing clothes,
37:49being a father.
37:51We always talk about how the mothers feel.
37:55How the mothers feel when they give birth,
37:57have their children.
37:59Sometimes we forget to acknowledge that the daddies are also there.
38:04There are also those who are going through it.
38:06The daddies are going through it.
38:07And now we experienced their fears.
38:10What they're thinking for their children.
38:13And it's fun.
38:14Ronnie,
38:15he doesn't care if he gets scolded.
38:17He doesn't care.
38:18It's okay.
38:19He really enjoys it.
38:21How about PJ?
38:24He's really thankful for the first and second birth.
38:27Which is good.
38:28Because you know,
38:29it's big of him.
38:31Yes.
38:32Anyway,
38:33we enjoyed ourselves.
38:34I hope you enjoyed it too.
38:35We saw and experienced the feelings of a father.
38:40We were able to give credit to the broads.
38:45Not only the sis,
38:46but also the broads.
38:48We also want to thank Molly McGregor Beanhoppers.
38:51Okay?
38:52Yes.
38:53Thank you very much.
38:54Thank you very much.
38:55And we'll see each other again here on
38:57Sis.
39:00Sis would like to thank
39:01Bambi Fuentes,
39:03Mossimo,
39:04F&H,
39:05Chloe for our eyewear,
39:07Optical Works,
39:09Adidas,
39:10Janeline Shoes,
39:12Wade Shoes,
39:13Bayo,
39:14Under the Sea Pet Shop,
39:16Salon de Manila,
39:18La Germania,
39:19680 Home Appliances,
39:21Jurastar,
39:23Mano Mano,
39:24Play and Display,
39:26JBL Home Furniture Enterprise,
39:28The Barnyard,
39:30Grand Flora,
39:31Our Home,
39:32Wayless Center and Spa,
39:35The Heritage Art Venue,
39:37Color My Hair,
39:38Molly McGregor,
39:39and Beanhoppers Coffee,
39:41Tilted Giraffe,
39:42and Union Square.
39:44After my wife delivered,
39:48I scanned all of my bankbooks
39:50to see how much money I have.
39:52You're too nervous.
39:54It's like...
39:55You're insecure.
39:56I want to give her everything.
39:58My dad, they say,
39:59your heartbeat,
40:02your warmth,
40:03can be felt by a baby.
40:04Yes.
40:05When he touches it,
40:06he knows it's you.
40:07He touches it a bit.
40:08Once, of course, he'll come back.
40:09But,
40:10wow, I'm a star.
40:11Honey, did you see that?
40:12He's quiet.
40:13He's about to cry.
40:14You'll get him.