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00:00The point I want to make to you today is that if you are told that no one has ever hurt you then you will find it strange.

00:13Of course.

00:14They hurt you with their actions, with their words, with all these things.

00:19And the intellectuals, many intellectuals say that no one ever hurts you with their words and actions.

00:29You get hurt.

00:31Because you have learnt that I have to be hurt by this.

00:36For example, if someone abuses you, you have learnt that it is an abuse.

00:42And if he is abusing me, I feel it.

00:46And if you have learnt that the person who is abusing you is spoiling his own mouth,

00:50he is spoiling his own language, he is telling me about his upbringing.

00:54Right.

00:55So he is not telling me.

00:56He is just opening his mouth to show how he has been brought up.

01:00Then you will not get hurt.

01:01Wow.

01:02Like if someone abuses you in another language which you do not understand, it does not affect you at all.

01:06You will not feel bad.

01:07And many times it happens that when you do not understand the language, your first response is yes, yes.

01:16By the way, why does someone deserve to be hurt?

01:19Okay, this is the thing.

01:20People are living their lives.

01:22They are telling people what they feel, what their upbringing is, what their understanding is,

01:27what their thinking is, what their style is.

01:29They are showing you.

01:30Yes.

01:31You have to decide whether you are getting hurt by that thing or not.

01:35For example, there are many teachers that you ask them questions, they get angry.

01:40Hmm.

01:41They feel that you are challenging me in front of the children.

01:44How dare you?

01:45Now he is saying in his heart that he has embarrassed me by asking this question.

01:48Because his scope is not so big that he can say to that child that I do not know the answer to this.

01:53I will tell you tomorrow or day after tomorrow.

01:55This is the sign of a great teacher.

01:57You remember that this is a litmus test that if someone is giving you a very long, broad lecture,

02:03explaining and you asked the question and he is saying that I do not know the answer to this.

02:08Believe him.

02:09Pick up his shoes and give them to him.

02:11Wash his feet and drink.

02:12He is a true teacher.

02:14Okay, the point I was trying to make was,

02:16save yourself from suffering.

02:18See, wherever you work, it can happen.

02:20If you are scolded,

02:22if someone says something to you,

02:24you are at home, it can happen with your wife.

02:26Right.

02:27Do you know where this happens the most?

02:28Where?

02:29We have some preconceived notions.

02:31I want to talk to the children about this.

02:33We have already conceived it.

02:35We know that our parents,

02:37we are youngsters,

02:39we know about IT,

02:40we know about today's requirements.

02:42These are old people, they do not know.

02:43Okay, they do not know at all.

02:45Okay, keeping this notion in your mind,

02:49you think that everything they say is wrong.

02:52Sitting at home,

02:53everything the old parents say is wrong.

02:56Because they do not know what the requirements of today's times are.

02:59You keep that notion aside.

03:01They are not talking to you about IT.

03:03When they tell you to leave your tablet,

03:06your phone,

03:07leave these things,

03:08listen to me,

03:09do not look at these things,

03:10do not do this,

03:11they are not talking about IT.

03:12They are not talking about the new era.

03:14They are talking to you

03:15and there is definitely something behind it.

03:18Not everyone tells you this.

03:20And be thankful to God

03:22and pray that

03:23may the people who scold me be safe.

03:27Amen.

03:28Because as long as the people who scold you are safe,

03:31then you are climbing the ladder of life.

03:33And as soon as you do not have anyone to scold,

03:36then believe me,

03:37the steps of your ladder have ended.

03:40And you could only come this far,

03:42you could not go any further.

03:43But Mr. Arun,

03:44things are usually interconnected.

03:46Like you talked about being thick-skinned,

03:48that you stop getting hurt by people's words.

03:51If you become this thick-skinned,

03:53then the things that should affect you,

03:57they will not affect you.

03:58You will not even be sensitive.

04:00You should be sensitive in a lot of matters.

04:03Okay, the way you are thick-skinned,

04:06there is an aspect of sensitivity in it.

04:09What is that aspect?

04:10Usually people think that

04:11a thick-skinned person is a stubborn person.

04:13That whatever he says,

04:14he is not affected.

04:15That's right.

04:16How are you taking that effect?

04:18For example,

04:19if I tell you where the past is,

04:22then it is where that man or woman

04:24or man said something.

04:25Absolutely.

04:26That is the past.

04:27Was.

04:28Yes.

04:29He said what he had to say.

04:31Absolutely.

04:32Even if you want,

04:33he cannot come back to you.

04:35First of all,

04:36have mercy on yourself.

04:39Become sensitive.

04:41Become so sensitive

04:43that you talk to yourself.

04:45Look,

04:46tell yourself that

04:47the thing is

04:48you don't deserve this.

04:50Wow.

04:51Or you don't deserve

04:52that because of that person's bad tongue

04:54or because of his behavior,

04:56you get hurt.

04:57If his upbringing is bad,

04:59then you are not the reason.

05:01Have mercy on yourself.

05:02Love yourself.

05:03That man,

05:04this is not your fault.

05:05This is his fault.

05:07And if you feel like crying,

05:09then let yourself cry.

05:10Wow.

05:11Cry once.

05:12Wow.

05:13If you feel like

05:14hugging someone,

05:15then go and hug your mother,

05:17your father,

05:18anyone.

05:19Cry.

05:20Talk.

05:21But once for all,

05:23once,

05:24take that thing out of your heart,

05:26then you are entering the future.

05:28The past is left behind.

05:30Move forward.

05:31Don't look back.

05:32It will remain the same.

05:33And it wants to stop you.

05:35You don't have to stop.

05:36You have moved forward.

05:37Very good.

05:38Wow.

05:39Outstanding.

05:40Wow.

05:41Wow.

05:42Gogin,

05:43a person said,

05:44he said,

05:45it's okay.

05:46My past is left behind.

05:47He said,

05:48I will do it in the future too.

05:49Look,

05:50if you want me

05:51to never get hurt,

05:52then I will give you

05:53a bad news today.

05:54Tomorrow,

05:55day after tomorrow,

05:56your whole life

05:57is going to be hurt.

05:58Why?

05:59The reason is that

06:00when you want to spend your life,

06:02the whole world

06:03cannot be yours.

06:04Yes.

06:05Every person wants

06:06that everything should be about me.

06:08I should be sitting

06:09in his place.

06:10Right.

06:11I should be in that place.

06:12This car should be with me.

06:13You will keep feeling hurt.

06:15Okay,

06:16what you have to do now

06:17is that you have to

06:18come out of that hurt.

06:19So first,

06:20as I told you,

06:21you can cry.

06:22If you feel like crying,

06:23the second way

06:24is to forgive

06:25the person

06:26who has hurt you.

06:27One way of forgiving

06:28is that

06:29you are not able to forgive.

06:30You say,

06:31okay,

06:32I forgive you.

06:33And Allah will ask him.

06:34Yes.

06:35It happens.

06:36Allah says,

06:37you are not able to forgive.

06:38Another way is

06:39to forgive with your heart

06:40that I am able to forgive

06:41but I am not able to forgive.

06:42There are some people

06:43who say,

06:44my ego,

06:45I have a lot of self-respect.

06:46If someone says

06:47such things,

06:48I cannot tolerate it.

06:49But believe me,

06:50it is not only

06:51tolerable

06:52but also

06:53manageable.

06:54Wow.

06:55If it is not manageable,

06:56then he will say,

06:57I am quiet,

06:58leave me alone.

06:59I have to answer him.

07:00Yes.

07:01This happens.

07:02This is true.

07:03So,

07:04it is better

07:05than falling

07:06in your own eyes

07:07that you keep

07:08your self-respect

07:09at a place

07:10where you know

07:11that if I cannot

07:12say anything to him,

07:13then I will not

07:14say anything to him either.

07:15You see,

07:16on the road,

07:17you will always see

07:18that the car driver

07:19is a very rich man

07:20and other people

07:21say that

07:22if he is saying

07:23something,

07:24then he should

07:25keep saying it.

07:26So,

07:27learn to trust

07:28Allah.

07:29Absolutely.

07:30Look towards

07:31the future.

07:32Have mercy

07:33on yourself.

07:34Learn to

07:35forgive people.

07:36First of all,

07:37have mercy

07:38on those

07:39on whom you

07:40have mercy

07:41otherwise

07:42you can

07:43even take

07:44revenge.

07:45Then you

07:46have the right

07:47to say that

07:48I have

07:49forgiven

07:50you.

07:51And then

07:52that day will

07:53come when

07:54sympathies

07:55will be born.

07:56We will

07:57see each other

07:58and smile

07:59and understand

08:00that you

08:01are also

08:02fighting a war

08:03and I

08:04am also

08:05fighting a war

08:06but this

08:07war is not

08:08against each

08:09other.

08:10This war

08:11is the

08:12war of

08:13our own

08:14life.

08:15Sir,

08:16the talk

08:17has become

08:18too long.

08:19We

08:20will

08:21meet

08:22again.

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