PANDORA has two wives and a girlfriend and her three children have four parents. Pandora, Nellie, Jae and the children previously featured on Truly and since then, they have welcomed Cierra into the family. Pandora said introducing Cierra into their lives and family was easy. She told Truly: “My poly relationship is not confusing for them [the children] at all.”
Nellie, Jae and Cierra refer to themselves as sister wives and have loved becoming parents. Nellie said: “Watching them hit milestones is the best.” The family share their story on social media and have received negative comments a lot, including judgement about ‘exposing’ their children. Pandora added: “The most recent comment that we have gotten is ‘this is a cult!’” But the family encourages people to educate themselves and don’t let the negativity get to them. Would they be open to another sister wife? Pandora said: “When me and Ci decide to get married that’s it, we made it, we reached our goal. Three is the max.”
Nellie, Jae and Cierra refer to themselves as sister wives and have loved becoming parents. Nellie said: “Watching them hit milestones is the best.” The family share their story on social media and have received negative comments a lot, including judgement about ‘exposing’ their children. Pandora added: “The most recent comment that we have gotten is ‘this is a cult!’” But the family encourages people to educate themselves and don’t let the negativity get to them. Would they be open to another sister wife? Pandora said: “When me and Ci decide to get married that’s it, we made it, we reached our goal. Three is the max.”
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00:00I have two wives and one girlfriend.
00:02My children, they have four parents.
00:03Ain't never a dull moment in this career.
00:05How would you feel if J, Nelly, or C
00:08asked you to be monogamous?
00:10Would y'all break up?
00:11Comments, comments, comments.
00:13Oh my God, this is crazy.
00:15She's just greedy.
00:21Hey, come on in.
00:23Welcome to my home.
00:24Last time you guys filmed with us,
00:26we catch a lot of hate.
00:27We get a lot of people saying,
00:29oh, you just want your cake and eat it too.
00:31And when we post something,
00:33a couple of people that'll pop up and be like,
00:35oh, this is a sin.
00:37We just moved.
00:38Let's get it together.
00:39Let's go.
00:40My name is Pandora Monroe.
00:41I have two wives and one girlfriend.
00:44We got Nelly here.
00:45This is the first wife.
00:46We've been together for 10 years.
00:48Married for six years.
00:50This is the second wife, J.
00:52We've been together for nine years
00:53and we've been married for five years.
00:55We do have an addition to the family.
00:59My girlfriend, she is hoping to be wife number three.
01:02We'll be.
01:03Okay.
01:04You heard that.
01:05We'll be wife number three.
01:07We have three children.
01:09We have Maya, our daughter, 15 years old.
01:12We have Makai, he goes by Kai, and he's 11.
01:15Then we have the baby boy.
01:16He's five years old, Mason.
01:18How would you describe your relationship as sister wives?
01:21It's just like having a sibling or a best friend.
01:22We basically have that tight, close relationship.
01:24We're there for each other, can help each other out.
01:26Ain't never a dull moment in this career.
01:28Was it always the plan to introduce a third sister wife?
01:31Yes.
01:32We discussed that early in our relationship
01:34of our desires and what we wanted.
01:36Today, we are going to be doing the nice little-
01:39I got it, I got it, I got it.
01:41What's up, YouTube?
01:42It's C.
01:43Today we got a video for the girlfriend review.
01:47We're gonna do a Q&A for y'all to introduce me.
01:50Sierra, what made you want to date Pandora?
01:53I was always infatuated with her.
01:54I reached out to Nellie and Jay first through Instagram
01:56and told them that I formed an interest.
01:59After they vetted her out,
02:01they told her she can come and talk to me
02:02and she slid in my DMs, I guess.
02:05But yeah, the rest is history.
02:08One thing that I would love to clear the air about
02:11and correct is I never, never introduced the idea of,
02:17hey, I want to bring another woman in the picture.
02:20Me and Nellie, this is something that we talked about
02:22from the beginning of our relationship
02:24because we originally started our relationship
02:27with my ex-girlfriend as a poly relationship.
02:30I am polygamous, but Nellie, Jay, and Sierra,
02:33they are all monogamous.
02:35There you go, pour it on each one.
02:37It's okay, you're gonna rub it in.
02:38Do you have a schedule
02:39when it comes to parenting responsibilities?
02:42Yeah, so it's not like a hardcore schedule
02:45for every part of the day,
02:47but we do make sure that somebody is helping out
02:50each child individually.
02:53The best thing about having more than one partner
02:54to parent with is having more than one partner
02:57to parent with.
02:58I don't have to do it alone.
02:59Cut some up for Mason's plate.
03:00This one will be for Kyle.
03:02Maya, how did you feel when your mom told you
03:04she had a girlfriend?
03:05I was like, is she nice?
03:07I feel excited to meet a new person.
03:11She's got a nice vibe to her.
03:12She was very friendly.
03:13I just enjoy being around her.
03:14She's very funny too.
03:16She funnier than me?
03:17Maya, funnier than me?
03:20Y'all have different types of humor.
03:23You tell dad jokes.
03:24How did you find the relationship
03:25with Ciara to your kids?
03:27We pretty much just said, you know,
03:28this is mom's friend.
03:29This is a friend of the family.
03:31Until we saw how she bonded with them
03:33and we knew for sure that we were gonna move forward
03:36and make it more permanent.
03:37It was easy to just say like, hey, you know,
03:39she's a part of our family now.
03:40She's, you know, one of your parents.
03:43Do you have any friends that have parents
03:44in a similar situation?
03:46I have one friend and her mom is also gay,
03:48but like nobody else has multiple parents.
03:52Mama does not care what strangers think at all.
03:55It makes me feel very confident.
03:57Like if she cannot care what other people think about her,
04:01then it's like, I can too, you know?
04:03Grateful.
04:04Grateful.
04:04Thank you, baby.
04:05Becoming a parent brought the kid out in me more.
04:08It definitely helps you grow, learn.
04:11Kids are a whole different ballgame.
04:13Watching them hit milestones, it's the best for me.
04:18All right, let's see, let's see, let's see, what we got?
04:20I did like a little black and white paisley
04:23to switch it out and yeah.
04:27I started out doing designs and stuff a few years back.
04:30Running a business is great,
04:32but then when you run a business as a family,
04:33it's just like, yeah.
04:37I think it'll be bomb on like the black or gray.
04:41That's nice.
04:42So we have a family calendar
04:44that basically has all of our dates planned out.
04:47I just want to take her on a date.
04:48I looked at Saturday is available.
04:51Then I went to Nellie and Jay
04:52and let them know that I wanted to take her out
04:54on a date on Saturday.
04:55And then we just add it to the calendar.
04:57Date night, here we come.
04:58Do you feel like you all have enough time with Pandora?
05:01I got more than enough time with her, I don't know.
05:04All right, we got to get this Q&A going.
05:06Okay, y'all, so you've been asking for the Q&A on me.
05:10Y'all sent in y'all questions.
05:12Listen, y'all sent in some crazy ones,
05:14but some of y'all sent in some good ones,
05:15so fingers crossed, let's go.
05:18Okay, do you want more children?
05:22No.
05:23We are good with the three we have.
05:25We are perfectly fine.
05:26Did you decide to become Polly after Nellie cheated?
05:35Skip.
05:37If one of your wives cheats on you, skip.
05:40How would you feel if Jay, Nellie, or C
05:43asked you to be monogamous?
05:45Would y'all break up?
05:49This ain't our question, y'all.
05:51This ain't our question, y'all.
05:52If either one of them decided to change
05:54the dynamics of our relationship,
05:56then they would essentially be asking,
05:58could they change the dynamics of their own relationship?
06:01Which means they would be wanting to remove their self.
06:04So, we get a lot of negative comments all the time.
06:07Comments, comments, comments.
06:11I do not care.
06:12I would say just educate yourself
06:14before you stick your nose in our business.
06:17You know what I'm saying?
06:17We get a lot of confusion.
06:19People are so, you know, oh my God, this is crazy.
06:22Oh no, she's just greedy.
06:24Why would you do this?
06:25The most recent comment that we have gotten is,
06:28this is a cult.
06:29This is really, you know, disgusting to expose to children
06:33or you're gonna influence them to be this way, that way.
06:36Do you think it's ever gotten
06:37potentially confusing for your children?
06:40My Polly relationship is not confusing for them at all.
06:43You know, them having multiple parents doesn't confuse them.
06:46The only thing that has ever been a thing in question is,
06:50okay, so mom is with another woman
06:52instead of mom's with a man.
06:54And that was gonna be the case
06:55regardless if I was with one person or three people.
06:58They know that there's different types of love.
07:00Some women love other women.
07:02Some men love other men.
07:03They know that people love differently.
07:05Polly doesn't look like one thing.
07:07It's multiple different types of polygamous relationships
07:10or polyamorous relationships.
07:12Maya first created Family Game Night
07:14because she just likes when we all get together
07:16and play games and have fun.
07:19Definitely Nellie is the most competitive.
07:21She is a sore loser.
07:23These are just not fun.
07:24If we can describe the family in one word,
07:27what would it be?
07:29An experience, yeah.
07:30Experience?
07:31Okay.
07:32Exciting for sure.
07:33Would you all be open to another sister wife?
07:36I would not be open to another sister wife.
07:37No, we are open.
07:38We are complete.
07:39We have capacity.
07:40When me and C decide that we're gonna get married,
07:43then that's it, we're good.
07:44We've made it.
07:45We've reached our goals.
07:46So three is the max.
07:47I hope that we all just continue to flourish
07:51and just be great
07:53and keep impacting lives in a positive way.