Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 14
Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 14
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00:00I'm ready to have love that missing piece of the puzzle
00:06previously
00:08Two new singles married at first sight
00:12100 tennis ball and fell head-over-heels the wedding day of dreams
00:18While the experiments established couples
00:23Played host to more loved ones when we come to communicate him
00:27It's both and a friend's interrogation. Is this all a facade? Are you trying to be famous?
00:35Reignited Rochelle's trust issues
00:38Ain't quite adding up. So you can't you interpret what I'm saying? You just chat so much
00:44I'm too old for this nonsense
00:49Tonight
00:52The arrival of more in-laws puts on the pressure your approval is the most important as
00:59Ross seeks a father's blessing. My dad's not happy could all get it
01:04So while an insensitive comment from Casper, I've never fancied curvy women. Oh, no
01:10That was poor delivery. You can't say that. That's not a nice thing to say
01:16Prompts brutal honesty from a best friend right now. I don't think he's the man for you
01:22And
01:23The experiments final two singles true. Love means everything. I hope that she is the one I've been so unlucky in past
01:31Relationships, I've put all my hope into this one meet and marry at the altar
01:37By doing guys, but will the bride getting cold feet feeling very overwhelmed
01:42Do you take Ryan to be your husband stop the marriage in its tracks? I'm scared. I want to run away
01:50I feel like this is a massive mistake
01:59Well
02:00Prepare for five-star luxury as you soak up the Sun in the Dominican Republic
02:06Unreal newlyweds Hannah and Steven are about to jet off on honeymoon. You ever been no, I've yet. Nope
02:12Where is it? I don't really know Caribbean
02:20Oh
02:21See my dad and the established couples are preparing to welcome friends and family for in-laws week
02:29Obviously, we're quite touchy usually mean you quite physically affectionate. You'll have to
02:36Strip it back when my dad's here
02:39My dad would just feel really uncomfortable with like a man all over me
02:43I am he's like little princess. So it'd be a bit like whoa calm down Ross
02:49I've not even gives you the thumbs up. Yeah, don't talk about things, you know, you're not allowed to
02:56The girls, oh I'm shaking I can't wait to see the girls I need to exhale with my people
03:03Oh, I'll go with this
03:06I'm apprehensive. I just think that we're gonna be rehashing the honeymoon and
03:11They're gonna be angry at me. It's gonna be a very difficult awkward conversation. I
03:16Can't see how this is going to end. Well
03:19It's gonna be great. It's gonna be great. Yeah
03:24Meanwhile, the experts are matching the final couple of the experiment two new couples wed time to introduce the last pair to enter
03:32the experiment
03:34Shannon and Ryan might not seem like the perfect match at first glance, but I predict a strong bond forming between these two
03:43In my friendship group I'd say I was the Joker or like the class clown
03:50I'm daft as daft as a brush. It's not even gonna lie. I
04:01Live in Manchester and from a council state
04:07I work for the council as a bin man. I love it
04:12Morning Doris, I
04:15Know some people do look at and think it's not the best job. I get that
04:20But someone's got to do that job and I'm proud to say that I work on the bins
04:26Always work on the bins in there as long as you can handle early mornings. It's good
04:33You do get to know people on the round, you know, like you sometimes
04:37I'll have a little flirt or a cheeky laugh with one of the residents
04:43Someone give you biscuits
04:50I'm family-orientated. I help look after my gran as best as I can. Thank you
04:56She's 92 you like them council estate biscuits good
05:01I
05:06Been single now four years
05:09This has been a long time coming. I think I definitely need some help
05:13Definitely. I was with me ex for about three and a half years four years
05:18We've got a little boy called Leo
05:24Being a dad is incredible
05:27He's the best thing that's ever happened to you, he's my world 1 million percent. Have you got a girlfriend that's you?
05:39Every bit of time that I get really always precious. Welcome. I
05:45Went for a patch. I don't they did worry that I'd never see they all be born. I
05:52Was 22 when I was first diagnosed with bladder cancer
05:57And when I found out Leo's mom was about four months pregnant changed my life turned it upside down
06:12I didn't come to terms with it at first kept asking why me why me?
06:20I'm not ashamed to say I struggled. I think it's made me more of a man
06:27So I've been in remission for the last three years and
06:33There's a chance that it could come back
06:37Having cancer definitely affected my love life
06:39It's a stumbling block for me there because obviously when you say to someone about cancer
06:43I know for a fact people will think I won't give you got left to live
06:48Have you then had to sort of speak to people in relationships about what's happened?
06:54Yeah, but when you talk about cancer you think of death that just comes with it I'm open about it
06:59There's not really I can do about it life short and let's just enjoy it. I'm at a good place knowing my life
07:07Through what I've had to go through change me as a person like life is precious
07:16I definitely don't take things for granted now now this what you call a fairy tale
07:21My mom and dad have been together 31 years. They've got a very very close bond
07:27You look at them, and you're like well, why have I not got that?
07:32Marriage to me means a lot. It's a big commitment
07:39Love means everything people look at me, and I've had it said you look like you'll play away from home
07:46But I don't judge a book by its cover, I'm definitely not like that
07:51I
07:53Am ready to grab life with two arms and just see where it can go with my new wife and
08:00Hopefully just enjoy life together. I'm knocking 30. I think
08:04It's just last chance to loom for me this my usual type would have to be
08:09green or blue eyes
08:12Family all irritated I want someone that I can have fun with that's not gonna take life too serious
08:18I
08:21Love my life. I've been through a lot. I deserve to have a love like anybody else goes
08:30I
08:31Would describe myself as a good time like a super energetic ball of fun
08:40I feel like I can have fun in any situation
08:42I
08:45Am and always have been a bit of a wild child
08:49Hi, yeah, I am quite alternative to the nice lady Griffin
08:54I've always been into tattoos and piercings. Oh, I love it. It looks so nice
09:02I'm definitely a strong woman. I can be quite sassy when I need to be
09:09I
09:11Am so close to my friends could not imagine my life without them. They're the best people on the planet
09:17What's your thoughts on my last relationship?
09:21So cute. I think I need to find somebody that I like
09:25Physically, yeah, but also like yeah, yeah
09:29My friends think my love life is kind of sad at this point just because I'm so bad at picking men
09:36Feel like all I attract is fuck boys. I
09:42Feel like fuck boys are just always after one thing and once they get that they don't care about anything else
09:51In the past my exes have been emotionally immature, I'm not gonna lie
09:58Definitely the type that just had no care whatsoever for how I was feeling as long as I was there
10:05I was like an object. That's all it was to them
10:08They've cheated lied hidden things
10:12Went behind my back. I
10:15Have trust issues. I
10:17Don't trust anyone. I
10:22Think the most important things in life to me are like my friends my family
10:27My mom is part of my friend group. She is an angel. I tell her everything like
10:34Me and my dad have always had like a really special relationship. I was a daddy's girl when I was younger
10:41He would do anything for me my sister
10:44We were just going into lockdown. I think I hadn't seen him in a little while
10:48He messaged and I immediately knew something was wrong
10:57He just like yeah, I've been diagnosed the cancer
11:01And it all happened super fast, it's like the hardest thing I've ever been through and like
11:08In lockdown, but I just couldn't be there for him
11:13It was really hard I
11:19Took my time for granted with him and I never should have
11:23I
11:25Think it is gonna be important to me that I have a partner that understands just because grief hits you so randomly sometimes
11:32I do need somebody that's gonna be empathetic with at all
11:39It's so important to me to find somebody that my dad would have liked
11:45Do you feel that you maybe go for the same types of men embarrassingly? Yes
11:50Because I know it's not what I need. So what do you think has gone wrong for you in terms of meeting the right one? I
11:58Think I just find it hard to let my walls down
12:02Yeah, I find it hard to be vulnerable
12:04What do you fear will happen if you let your walls down? I'll be hurt
12:09Or let down by somebody
12:14I think my lack of trust in men has definitely affected my past relationships
12:18The last thing I need is an emotionally immature pretty boy. That's just gonna fuck me over. I
12:24Think going forward. I need to actually get to know somebody deep down rather than just going on my first impressions
12:32My ideal husband would be
12:35Somebody that is quite emotionally mature. So somebody that's maybe got some responsibilities
12:40It's something that's happy in themselves and just so nice
12:44I don't think asking for something nice is too much. I've see all my friends in these happy relationships
12:51When is it my turn?
12:57This is a couple with lots of potential
13:00Shannon is a fun-loving girl looking to navigate the life of her future husband
13:05She's been in a relationship for over a year and she's been in a relationship for a year and a half
13:10Shannon is a fun-loving girl looking to navigate life with a supportive mature man that she can trust with her deepest feelings
13:19Ryan is a man comfortable in his own skin with experience in handling some really big challenges that life's thrown at him
13:27Becoming a parent has also helped him to develop that emotional maturity and that's important to Shannon
13:33Who's fallen foul of a series of cheating partners?
13:37She struggles to trust but Ryan has the loyalty and resilience needed to break down her walls
13:44Ryan wants someone he's attracted to instantly but also wants a partner who's down-to-earth. I
13:51Think no-nonsense. Shannon ticks both of those boxes
13:54Both Shannon and Ryan have been through their fair share of trauma and loss
13:59They'll be able to draw on those life experiences to relate to and understand one another and form a connection
14:06That could be a great foundation for the marriage
14:10Shannon
14:12And Ryan
14:20Getting excited now, I'm so excited Casper
14:24In London, Emma and Casper are anticipating the arrival of Emma's sister Lee friend Heidi and Casper's friend
14:32Joe, I can't wait to see the girls. Is there a path forward? Is this a dead end?
14:38I'm looking to get that out from them. The girls would be nice to you like you're my husband
14:45Don't worry about the girls. That's all I am worried about
14:48I'm very nervous that his friends are coming here because I'm gonna have to relive the honeymoon again
14:52And it's not something I'm proud of and it's not something that I'm looking forward to
14:56Oh, do you get a door?
15:02No
15:07These girls are my world
15:09I just want a cuddle a cry and just to outpour our love for each other because this is the longest time
15:16I've not spoken to them in
15:18Years and years and years and years. So from the beginning, how was the honeymoon?
15:27Like the hotel was amazing. Yeah, it was great. Nice. Yeah a gorgeous views right on the seafront right over
15:34and then
15:38We had a bar me that night what
15:43You had an argument
15:49What's the crack doesn't fancy me
15:55Yeah, what it came to that straightaway, yeah, I
15:58Said something I shouldn't say you should never say to someone a woman that you don't fancy her
16:07The phrase I use is I I don't I've never fancied curvy women
16:19That's not a nice thing to say no, no, I'm fully aware
16:29Disappointing my instincts to swear, but I'm not gonna sweat
16:36I thought I was calm collected mature
16:41And then I woke up the next morning and I just thought of you girls
16:48Oh, no, no
17:04I thought I was calm collected mature
17:10And then I woke up the next morning and I just thought
17:14Oh
17:17No, no
17:22And I got really angry and I just needed to say no that was like that was poor delivery
17:28yeah, you can't say that and you know, I just kind of
17:32And I thought I wouldn't have a husband's say that to any of my fucking friends. No, no
17:39I
17:45Wasn't really horrific mental state because I was so unhappy with myself. Yeah, I'm the pain I've caused Emma
17:52My heart's breaking for Emma right now something like that to be said at all. Never mind quite so early
17:57She does deserve the absolute world
18:01Is it something that can be worked through?
18:03realistically
18:06The attraction isn't there, you know, is it quite a deal-breaker?
18:17It's not where we wanted to be
18:20And I say, you know, there's been a lot of
18:22Frustration from the hope but now we've got to try and make the best of it. I
18:26Feel like I'm just reliving the same moment over and over again if I could take it back a word
18:32It's just frustrating
18:35Oh
18:42Hello
18:47Joe's my best friend and I know he's got my back no matter what and so I'm just so glad that he's made it
18:53How are you doing? Anyway, not too bad. Well, I think more importantly, how are you guys getting on?
18:59Okay, good I
19:02Suppose we're not where we would like to be. Okay
19:10Do we have to rehash this or please to
19:15Excellent brilliant, I
19:17Mean we had a rocky anime
19:19and
19:21Most that was down to one of comment I made
19:24right
19:25Emma and
19:27And
19:30We're still trying to recover from that place I suppose basically the attraction wasn't there right I
19:39Remember sitting down at the wedding with you and you'd said Casper doesn't have a type like he does but Casper doesn't a type
19:49I don't think any of his friends just to help you wouldn't be able to draw what that type is
19:55I
19:56Think Casper say he isn't attracted to curvy girls wasn't the best start
20:00But actually they're both trying to work towards something here
20:02I think what's happened has happened and I think they both look like they're trying to draw a line under it
20:16What do you send out to break
20:24Maybe cut in the family getting closer
20:28My mind going on to my bra. I hope I'm prosthetic dad today. That's you mean though a lot to me
20:35I just hope you like me
20:37I'm having been fucking window
20:42It's super important that Ross impresses my dad today his opinion means more than anyone's to me
20:50Because my dad's not happy could all get it. So
20:55I
21:06See important to me to speak to Ross because I want to know I was gonna look after my little girl
21:10It's that's really important to me. So really he wants to like impress me today, really
21:15Yeah, I already getting your tea ready. He's gotta be
21:19Definitely protective fiercely loyal be willing to defend it to the death even if it's wrong like bring does me
21:30Everything's going on feels like we've married three years
21:36Like you've known each other for years like that's obviously why it's so important that you meet Ross today because your approval is always
21:45The most important
21:51Hey, are you worried I'm gonna disappear to Manchester voice is already said
21:57You would be so happy knowing how Ross is it couldn't be any any better
22:01I think my dad would have preferred Ross to be from Birmingham
22:04So, you know, I'd be living a little closer after this, but he knows I'm gonna be gone
22:09I
22:13Ross are you used to play football?
22:17Yeah, I would tell you two years ago, I've got a new pop it now it's a the gym
22:25How'd you fancy come with shiny name
22:28Come on
22:32We can do some arms
22:35I'm definitely worried for us going to the gym with my dad. He does not know what he's getting himself in for
22:52We excited Shannon I keep getting waves of nerves. Mm-hmm. I'm excited. I wonder what it's gonna look like
22:58I know get him married to a stranger feels bizarre. I'm not gonna lie
23:03I'm so excited to meet him. I just want to know what he looks like already your usual type or something else
23:08I don't know. I don't know if my usual type is good for me
23:12So I think I'm secretly hoping it'll be somebody else. It's better somebody else picks for you
23:18I've just been so unlucky in my past relationships, and I think I've just put all my hope into this one
23:25So if it doesn't work out
23:27It's not gonna be fun
23:29Worst case scenario what's there?
23:31Like I really can't hack a man child boy and somebody that like is emotionally mature as well
23:38Don't wanna fuck boy. Don't need any more of that in my life
23:43I've put a lot of faith into the experts. I am just because I know I'm terrible myself
23:48So I'm like if somebody knows what they're doing
23:51perfect
23:53I
24:01Always
24:03There's a lot riding on this and I just want to start something why I'm young and build a future with someone
24:08What are you saying about these bad boys?
24:11They're do now what you're gonna do though like if you fancy and all that
24:14But then she's like all stuck up and that like she's not down to earth straight away. It's like
24:19This is definitely one of the biggest days of my life by a country mile
24:23my worst nightmare would be if you wasn't down to earth or humble with it because I treat somebody on
24:30The street with nothing just as I would with a man that had millions in the bank
24:34So when do you reckon you're gonna be sort of speaking to her about like?
24:39Cancer and stuff and obviously the effect that so I've had obviously it's not gonna come out straight away
24:44She might look at me and think well
24:45Do I really want to settle down with someone that maybe has had that diagnosis? I think that I'm only human and I think that
24:55When I was diagnosed I
24:57Put a big strain on my relationship at the time and dating people when you've told someone
25:02It's like a stumbling block really in there. It's like well, are you going to last?
25:07I
25:11Hope you are very I meet today except it. Well, I'm nervous very very nervous
25:22Come in
25:38It is super important to have my mom here today just because my dad can't be with us
25:43It is hard not having him here, but I know you'll be watching it for me
25:49Yes, I need words
25:53She just looks so beautiful that yeah just burst into tears
25:57Feel like I'm just ready to get there now get me down that aisle. Yeah, I can't wait to get you down
26:03My agent Charlotte, I just didn't expect it to happen
26:06No
26:07Shannon's had a lot of issues with her dad passing away and then a boyfriend split up and she had a bit of a tough time
26:14So I'd really like
26:16Somebody to know her background and it's empathetic
26:19I'm anxious for your reaction
26:22Why because your face gives away everything
26:26I'm sick of men child vibes. Like I don't need that anymore
26:32I think because I am put in my all into it
26:37If it doesn't go how I want it to I'm gonna be pretty disappointed and I am one of those people
26:43That doesn't hide their disappointment well
26:49Today's massive former
26:54I'm definitely ready to commit. I
26:57I want a fairy tale happy ending
27:01True love means everything. I'd hope that she is the one I've always dreamt of the love of my soulmate and the love of my life
27:14Hi guys, hi
27:16I
27:20Have you feeling a bit anxious? Yeah, I'm still excited formal feelings
27:35No, we feel in there. All right. All right. Not bad. Not bad. Well, she stands you up
27:41It's not what I was expecting
27:44I
27:45Am 100% looking for a man rather than a boy at this point
27:50Every bit here, but take it in a stride
27:57He will help you know
28:01I'm really hoping I'm gonna fall in love immediately
28:06Once and get secure in themselves, I'm just gonna be my rock
28:14I
28:24Okay, no, how's it going?
28:26Good. Thank you
28:29Brian what's your name? Shannon? Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Hey nervous. How you feeling? I'm good. I'm calm
28:37She's very pretty, yeah
28:40She's ticking boxes
28:44Very pretty very pretty think potentially high maintenance
28:48He looks like a pop boy to me all looks and no substance. What am I doing guys?
28:58Challenge reaction is cold at the moment. I'm feeling awkward
29:02Initial thoughts are very handsome. Maybe a bit of a bad boy
29:08I'm not entirely sure Shannon is happy
29:14Feeling very overwhelmed when I first saw Ryan I immediately thought he's gonna be just like the rest of them
29:22He's good-looking but
29:25I'm not sure I'm gonna be happy
29:28He's good-looking but is he the kind of guy that I can trust
29:35So, I know we're all so excited for you both to share your vows today so Ryan you're first
29:44If you'd have asked me this time last year where I saw myself in 2024
29:49It definitely wouldn't be stood and all the same wedding vows to a stranger
29:54I'm
29:56Looking forward to going through this crazy experience together and hopefully coming out on the other side
30:03With a best friend a partner in crime and someone who will have my back as much as love does
30:08Okay, Shannon, it's your turn now I
30:13Asked for a man who's gonna be my largest cheerleader and support me even on my bad days
30:19Let's take on this crazy journey and build a beautiful relationship together
30:24Can't promise it's always gonna be smooth, but I promise I'll give it my all
30:29lovely
30:30Ryan, do you take Shannon to be your wife?
30:34Cherishing her and showing her loyalty no matter what I do
30:43So Shannon
30:45So Shannon
30:48You reminds me a lot of my exes I'm scared I want to run away
30:53Do you take Ryan?
30:56to be your husband
30:59Cherishing him and showing loyalty no matter what
31:06Right now I feel like this is a massive mistake
31:12Shannon what are you actually doing?
31:16You
31:23So Shannon
31:26Do you take Ryan to be your husband
31:32Cherishing him and showing loyalty no matter what
31:45I
31:48Do
31:53I'm delighted to say you are husband and
31:57It is of course time to seal the deal with your very first kiss
32:05It's been awkward, isn't it?
32:08You
32:10Family and friends
32:11It's with great pleasure that I invite you to welcome Ryan and Shannon as they take their first steps as a newly joined couple
32:20He's very clean-cut. If I met him in a bar, I would literally walk in the opposite direction. He just looks like a player
32:31Question mark
32:34I'm half her course. Shannon is fit. Of course she is. But I'm worried Shannon doesn't like me
32:42Like I can't call her
32:51I'm super proud of myself of how I've managed things
32:55I've mentally prepared myself and not the perfect man at the end of the aisle wasn't expecting my husband to say I'm not attracted to
33:02Curvy girls, I've always gone for skinny girls and that's what I'm sexually attracted to on my first night at the honeymoon
33:08It's now such a big issue for me where I think he still doesn't find me attractive
33:13you can't force that like it is what it is, but it's just showing willing to like
33:18Getting to know you you're I'm biased but like you're fab. You're a great person
33:23It just seems like he's kind of like I don't fancy us. I'm not gonna try that is how it's coming across
33:28For us fit fit for your friends at the wedding we all said
33:32She was ticking a lot of boxes. I think we're all very positive about it because it looked
33:36Pretty good on paper. I hope both sides will be saying actually
33:41There's a friendship there that I think you guys could at least build on
33:45We're not gonna sit here and say oh my god
33:46I'm gonna like put more into it because you're obviously doing everything you can
33:50At the end of day he's here. He could have run away from it. He stayed he
33:55Me and Lee after everything that's gone on
33:58I don't think Emma seems that happy as things currently stand
34:01I think they've got a lot of work to do and a lot of bonding
34:04But and they're both still here. So they're committed to see if they can make it work
34:09Yeah, we're fighting for it my attraction for Emma has grown
34:13Because there have been moments that I've thought about kissing her. Yeah, but right now
34:18Is it ever going to grow to something where I'm head over the heels and love?
34:22Is it ever going to grow to something where I'm head over the heels and love with what I know and what I've seen
34:27I don't know, but i'm gonna keep working on it the road ahead isn't great
34:32In my head and that's me being a realist
34:35So I don't know whether to write leave this week
34:38Okay
34:39If you were in my shoes, what would you do? I would say
34:42Right now I don't think he's the man for you
34:44um
34:45Yeah, I've got to be honest. I don't think it's forever
34:49Um
34:50The girl's opinions are really important to me
34:53There's not that much more I can do
34:55If casper steps up treats me like a proper wife and we'd start having a laugh and there might be a glimmer of hope
35:03I think I need a night to sleep on it and process it
35:11Hi, hello, I'm okay. Congratulations guys. Let's get you some wedding photos. Shall we?
35:16Okay, great great and just look in this way
35:24Lovely right, uh, put your arm around your wife
35:30There you go now you look like you're a married couple beautiful just look at each other for me there, please
35:38Guys could I get a kiss from there?
35:41It's looking really lovely
35:43I think being so close to somebody that you've literally just met is very intense
35:49Could I get one more kiss from there if that's okay?
35:52That's all now
35:53I think shannon's got a guard up getting a rejection like at the first hurdle. It makes it harder
35:59What's what you do for work?
36:01Oh, yeah
36:02Okay. Okay. How long you done that for?
36:05like 10 years
36:07Where are you from manchester
36:10glasgow
36:12How long have you always lived in manchester normal life looking gorgeous guys, what do you do i'm a bin man, are you really yeah
36:21Interesting ryan's been man
36:24I've never dated anybody that does anything like that. Do you like it? Yeah, I love it
36:28Yeah, I was a good probably finished and work at what half 12 every day. Wasn't it?
36:32I've got a lot of time on my hands
36:35Are you close to your family are you don't like so close so close you got a kiss do you
36:42Got a little boy. Do you how old is it? Six. That's lucky. What's his name? Leo. Oh
36:50Stepmom
36:52I find out ryan has a son
36:55I like a guy that's got some responsibilities
36:58I'm starting to realize he might be more emotionally mature than I thought
37:04Yay
37:11Hey, okay
37:15Grab a seat guys. Come on get a seat brother. How are you feeling ryan?
37:21This is mad
37:25But you did get yourself into it
37:28It does feel a little bit awkward just now I think just because we've not got the chemistry
37:32It just feels a wee bit strange and a wee bit forced
37:38So, what did you ask to see at the end of the aisle
37:42I'm not gonna lie
37:46I was expecting something different
37:49Okay
37:51Fair play
37:54Don't judge a book by its cover
37:56This is just the start
37:58If she didn't fancy me at the start, it's sort of difficult then
38:01What did you expect at the end of the aisle, um
38:04To be honest, I go for dark hair green or blue eyes nice teeth is a must
38:11So I was all right
38:16I feel bad though
38:19I maybe have been a bit hasty in judging ryan
38:22I've just been hurt so many times in the past that my walls just went right back up
38:26But I am going to keep an open mind to see where things go
38:32So
38:37What are you thinking i'm she's a hard judge of character
38:40Yeah
38:42I get I get off the bat straight away. She's down to earth. Yeah, the only thing I was worried about was she's fancied me
38:48So I feel attraction wise what ryan was asking for. I think he's got
38:52By the sounds of it. Shannon's got something a little bit different. It's just a case of you asking her
38:57sort of where her heads at with it or
38:59Sort of what her intentions are going off first impression. I definitely think she meant that
39:07I don't
39:20You're close to your parents or you said
39:23You should be though, isn't it? That's the way it is your mom and your dad
39:26My dad's dead. Oh, do you pass away?
39:31How did he pass away
39:34Oh, he died of cancer. Oh, really?
39:37It's a talk to show that of course it is a dad passed away
39:41I didn't expect her dad to have gone through what he'd gone through
39:44Your dad didn't pass away. How are you dealing with that? It was rough
39:48But like I think I kind of dealt with it before because I knew it was happening
39:52Obviously, I can see it means a lot to her and obviously I'll support her through that and you never get over that
40:04I
40:06Had cancer in the past
40:09Shut up
40:11So yeah, and when did you have cancer 2017 on it twice?
40:17Like chemo
40:23It was a bit of a shock hearing that he's been through something like that
40:27So young that's such a big thing to deal with. What kind of
40:31I've got a cancer. Holy shit
40:34That's fucking intense
40:38Are you fine now? Yeah, of course. I mean there's bigger things in the world up. Yeah, just enjoy it
40:44So
40:48It's really nice that he's opened up to me because i've been through
40:53Similar things with my dad and we've just been really open with each other about it, which I think shows a lot about a person
40:59There is emotional depths to him that have surprised me
41:02Now he's been speaking and getting up and I feel like we are a good match
41:08Starting to make sense
41:11Yeah
41:13Right, come on then now tell me now they've gone
41:16Give me the gossip in london. Sasha and ross have been spending time with sasha's parents
41:22I'm, absolutely smitten
41:24Really?
41:25Yeah
41:26Yeah, I didn't expect to feel like this so soon about someone
41:31But we're pretty much
41:33deep in it
41:34I can I can tell
41:36Like I feel really safe with him but like not even just physically safe like
41:42Emotionally safe. Yeah, you can tell he just he's really happy
41:46I wonder where ross is getting on training with dad. I don't think he's ready for the intensity
41:54What's going on
41:56biceps
41:57arms
41:58At the moment ross i've seen too bad as a son-in-law, but your time will tell you know training ross today
42:04I want to see what kind of man he's a basically
42:06Come on everybody
42:09Not too rush not too far don't drop back come on
42:14Yes, that's better
42:17And again squeeze all the negative all the negative
42:22One more one more slow and blow it up squeeze it up
42:28Obviously I want today to go well she's very close to her dad, but it's very important
42:34I'm hoping that I did good in front of him for me and I am it's on. Um, I could be strong this year. Oh, come on
42:41God
42:43No, no, no
42:45One
42:47Come on, last one last one
42:53Ross fucking killing me. Oh man
43:01Because it's going so well and everything's
43:04Perfect to be honest. Yeah, like I do always think like ever the worst and i'm like
43:11What would I do if I lost him?
43:14Do you know what I mean? Yeah, there's that scary thought of like I would never I would never recover from that
43:20Wow, i'd never find anyone like him again
43:24So that's a big deal. Yeah
43:27It's scary
43:33What do you want like mustache like what's your plan I came here for one thing dinner and basically I found it
43:42uh
43:43When I first turned around, I just knew she's gonna be the one
43:48I feel I've known her for years. Yeah
43:51Communication we had fantastic and she makes me happy
43:57And you like being together like sort of thing
44:00Um, this is what I wanted to say to you
44:03She's not very close with stature and I have a daughter and I know what it feels like
44:08It's not man to man
44:09Finally get to show it to you about it
44:12I will do whatever to make her happy. I will protect her. Yeah, I will look after her
44:19And I will respect her. Yeah
44:26Yeah
44:57Yeah
45:00That's all I want
45:02That's good. Yeah
45:04That's all I want for sashay. You know what I mean? Yeah, you basically said he likes me. So that's a good thing
45:10Yeah, happy dude
45:12I was going to ask you that anyway, so you've already said it which is even better. I know you got my blessing
45:19Thank you, that means a lot
45:26So
45:35He's nice isn't it he's actually so similar in a lot of ways
45:38Like he's a real family man as well and you're really family girl
45:43I think going through that
45:46Makes you more sensitive to people's feelings and I think just listening to ryan you'll understand like emotionally and things. I think you'll understand
45:55Yeah
45:56Yeah
45:59It has made me feel a lot more at ease
46:01He really opened up to me and showed me a kind of different side to what I was already seeing
46:06So I think that's kind of brought my guard down a little bit and made me open up a little bit more to him
46:12I think I judged a wee bit too quickly and now we've got to know each other. I'm feeling a lot better about things
46:19Maybe she's done it. I don't know he's attracted
46:24So
46:34I'm holding back
46:35Because if she didn't like me
46:37It'd be hard to accept it
46:39I hope mine and shannon's feelings are the same and only time will tell
46:48Yeah, I feel like it's been good vibes today
46:51Like this is what I was wanting i'm feeling good. What is that? Are you sure? Are you sure about that? Yeah
46:55When I turn around I was like, okay, she's ticking boxes. They've got that
46:59um
47:00But what about you? What about when I turn around?
47:03I was taking her back a wee bit. I immediately thought pretty boy
47:07I think it was just it wasn't what I was expecting in a good way or a bad way in a good way
47:12In a good way. I can accept that. Yeah, like obviously you're very handsome
47:16I am attracted to you. Yeah
47:18I think it's a good thing
47:20I've put a lot of faith into it. I'm not gonna lie
47:23Like I wanted to work out
47:25Like truly wanted to work out like all my past relationships have been hit loose
47:31and I feel like if it doesn't work out i'm just gonna
47:34Probably be single for a very very very long time
47:38What about you?
47:40Um, like you say I have been single a long time and it's not worked out. So I decided right
47:45Let's do it back to front. Yeah
47:47You're in for a rough ride a rough ride
47:50Like I will put you through your pieces
47:53Definitely
47:55But i'm happy like are you happy?
47:58I am are you ready for a ride? I am
48:01I think me and shannon have been matched for a reason
48:04At the start of the day, we definitely want as comfortable as we are now
48:07We are clicking to us
48:10I
48:13Think I might have judged a wee bit too early and my head space has totally changed
48:20I do fancy him. I am attracted to him and he seems lovely
48:24Feeling happy positive buzzing to go on honeymoon now. I feel like we're going to have a really good time together
48:32Next time thanks for having me over. It's the final visit of in-laws week. I'll be honest
48:37I was pissed off at the wedding where adam's actions are put under scrutiny
48:41She gets married and then this guy's like, yeah, she's not really my type that did upset me
48:49And the newlyweds head off on honeymoon
48:53That's it. Oh, yeah, where are your hands?
48:55For some I didn't think I was gonna get this comfortable this fast. It's a smooth start to married life love marriage and happiness
49:04absolute dream honeymoon
49:06But for hannah and stephen hannah's opinion is the only opinion. It's a lot of shit
49:10I'm out of my fucking comfort zone here pal things take a turn for the worse
49:15Don't make promises to people that you can't keep because i'd have stayed at fucking home. All right, we're done then happy
49:21Does that make you feel better leaving their marriage hanging by a thread you try shit mate. Good night
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49:36So