This entire story is pretty ugly :(
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00:00The widow of TV personality Stephen, Twitch Boss, is being dragged online for exploiting
00:04her husband's death in her new memoir, where she exposes his darkest secrets.
00:08Now, his friends and family say she's a money-hungry opportunist.
00:11My best advice is to find a dance partner that you trust and you love. And for me,
00:16that's my beautiful wife, Allison.
00:18Stephen, a professional dancer who appeared as both a contestant and judge on the TV show
00:23So You Think You Can Dance, is best known as the dancing DJ on the long-running Ellen DeGeneres
00:28show. Tragically, Stephen took his own life in late 2022, sending shockwaves through the
00:33community of fans he'd gained throughout his six years on the Ellen show.
00:36Twitch, you want to know my favorite thing that we've added?
00:38What's your favorite thing?
00:39It's you.
00:46Today, Stephen's widow, Allison Holker, and her upcoming memoir titled,
00:50This Far My Story of Love, Loss, and Embracing the Light, have created major controversy.
00:55But it's not what's inside her memoir that's making people furious.
00:59It's what Allison revealed about her late husband while promoting the book.
01:02Allison, who married Stephen in 2013 and is the mother of his two children,
01:07waited two years after her husband's suicide to share her grief experience.
01:10I hope by sharing my story, I can bring some comfort to those who have also felt loss
01:15and are trying to navigate through it," she wrote on Instagram.
01:18However, in an exclusive interview with People magazine,
01:20Allison revealed some shocking private details about Stephen that she learned after his death.
01:25First, she claimed that she uncovered a cornucopia of illicit substances hidden
01:29inside his shoeboxes while picking out an outfit for him for the funeral.
01:33It was very alarming to me to learn that there was so much happening that I had no
01:36clue about it was a really scary moment. But it also helped me process that he was
01:40going through so much, and he was hiding so much, and there must have been a lot of shame in that.
01:44He was wrestling with a lot inside himself, and he was trying to self-medicate and
01:49cope with all those feelings because he didn't want to put it on anyone."
01:51Later, Allison made another vague claim about her late husband,
01:55revealing she had read Stephen's journals to gain a better perspective of where he was in life
01:59and the type of things he was struggling with. She added,
02:01Reading through his journals, you realize he went through a lot as a child and never faced it."
02:05But Stephen's family and close friends were not buying Allison's story. Stephen's mother,
02:09Connie Boss Alexander, posted a statement to her Instagram denying the misleading claims
02:14about her son, calling Allison's statements untrue and appalling. Friends of Stephen chimed in,
02:19calling Allison tacky and opportunistic.
02:22Whether any of it is true or not is actually beside the point. This is how you protect his
02:26children from any further humiliation, hurt, and despair? This is what you want them to
02:30remember about him? asked fellow dancer Courtney Ann Platt. Another friend of Stephen's publicly
02:34wondered why Allison didn't handle this privately, rather than airing it all out in a magazine.
02:39Allison swiftly took to her Instagram account to share a lengthy response to the explosive backlash.
02:44She defended her choices by insisting that everything was done from a place of love.
02:48Hopefully, you'll see my intention is to celebrate the love and life I shared with
02:51Stephen and our three beautiful children, and also the more complex aspects of both of our lives.
02:56But shortly after Allison's response, those closest to Stephen dropped a bombshell. Stephen's
03:01cousin, Danielle, revealed that Allison had forced Stephen's family members to sign an NDA
03:06in order to attend his funeral. Danielle also countered Allison's claims of her late husband's
03:11drug use by sharing reports that no illicit substances were found in Stephen's system
03:15after his autopsy. So let me ask the question, who stands to gain from this? Is it the world,
03:22or is it you? Because nobody benefits from you supposedly dropping dimes about your late
03:29husband. So is Allison's memoir really just an attempt to profit off of her husband's tragic
03:34passing? According to news outlets, it seems likely. TMZ reported that the NDA Stephen's
03:39family members were forced to sign insurers that Allison would be the sole beneficiary of
03:43any financial gain from his name, and restricts his family from profiting from interviews, books,
03:48articles, or media projects related to him. Allison's memoir debacle is a reminder that
03:53even when it comes to public figures, some things are better kept private.