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00:01:10Alice?
00:01:30Alice?
00:01:34Alice?
00:01:37Look at this mess.
00:01:40Oh, look at my kitchen.
00:01:42Sweetheart, what are you doing?
00:01:44Oh, you're always making messes.
00:01:47Let me see your hands.
00:01:49Okay, go wash up. Stay in your room.
00:01:52You make a mess out of everything you touch.
00:02:00Charlie, say something.
00:02:02I thought we were safe.
00:02:07You know, you had protection.
00:02:10When did this happen?
00:02:12How far along are you?
00:02:1512 weeks?
00:02:17I don't know, 12 or 13.
00:02:20Which means I'm having this baby in December.
00:02:24I'm going to be going into my spring semester with a baby.
00:02:28Charlie, I'm 20. I don't know how to be a mom.
00:02:33Do you even want to think about options?
00:02:40I mean, I know I don't want to mess up some poor kid's life.
00:02:45You're not going to mess anything up.
00:02:47Alright, that's your mom talking.
00:02:48But we already screwed up the plan. This wasn't supposed to happen first.
00:02:53We're supposed to get married. We're supposed to have a few years together, you know?
00:02:58Oh my gosh, my mom's going to kill me.
00:03:02Babe, when I tell her, she's never going to speak to me again.
00:03:12Do you want to keep this baby?
00:03:16Only if it's a boy.
00:03:18What? Babe!
00:03:21Listen. I'm kidding. Come here. Give me your hands.
00:03:25Listen.
00:03:28Okay.
00:03:30Look at me. Look at me. Hey, hey.
00:03:33Okay.
00:03:35This is not the worst thing that can happen, you know?
00:03:38I'm halfway through my 20s.
00:03:42I think I'm ready.
00:03:44Yeah. Yeah, I do. And I think you're ready too.
00:03:48We can do this.
00:03:50Not this.
00:03:52Okay?
00:04:01When I tell my mom that I'm having a baby and we're not married, she's...
00:04:05My parents are not going to be happy with me.
00:04:08Okay.
00:04:10Well, let's do that then.
00:04:12I wasn't...
00:04:13No, I know.
00:04:14I promise I wasn't trying to talk you into anything.
00:04:15I know, but I'm serious.
00:04:17Let's get married. Right now.
00:04:19Justice of the peace.
00:04:22Come on.
00:04:24What about a wedding?
00:04:26My poor mother has been planning things since before I was born.
00:04:29Babe, I know.
00:04:32But truthfully, I feel like we're kind of past that now, right?
00:04:37I mean, we're having a baby.
00:04:42And we've got to do it right.
00:04:45No, I know. You're right. You're right.
00:04:49So...
00:04:50But you haven't even proposed yet.
00:04:53We can't just go to the courthouse. There's a lot of girls...
00:04:55Will you marry me?
00:04:58Charlie, I love you.
00:05:01I love you.
00:05:02You don't have to rush into it.
00:05:03I'm not...
00:05:05I got things a little out of order.
00:05:07And I realize that, but...
00:05:13I'll be right back.
00:05:14Babe.
00:05:15Babe.
00:05:17How are you?
00:05:18Fantastic.
00:05:19I...
00:05:22I'd like to offer you a drink.
00:05:25Can I have that?
00:05:27Customer service. Thank you.
00:05:33Yeah, okay.
00:05:36You too.
00:05:37Give me your hand.
00:05:38Babe.
00:05:43I live only for your happiness.
00:05:46For your love, I would give my last breath.
00:05:50Not here.
00:05:54As long as I live, I will love you.
00:05:59I promise you this.
00:06:02There is nothing I wouldn't give from this moment on.
00:06:08Allie, will you marry me?
00:06:13I don't know what you're getting yourself into.
00:06:15Are you saying yes?
00:06:19Yes. Yes, I'll marry you.
00:06:20Yeah?
00:06:21Yeah.
00:06:22Okay, all right.
00:06:24Oh, baby, you don't have to put that on.
00:06:26This is gonna be great.
00:06:27This is gonna be great.
00:06:33You're insane. I'm marrying a crazy person.
00:06:36Just don't get too attached to that.
00:06:38I'm gonna replace that soon.
00:06:39I really do love you.
00:06:41I really do love you, too.
00:06:46What?
00:06:48Did...
00:06:49Did you just propose?
00:06:50Was she and I doing lyrics?
00:06:52Yes. Yes, I did.
00:06:54But you can't take it back now.
00:06:55It's too late.
00:06:56She said yes, everybody.
00:06:57I know you guys.
00:07:05Is he healthy?
00:07:06Mm-hmm. Sure is.
00:07:08Sorry about the scare.
00:07:10You have a nice-sized little boy.
00:07:12And you do?
00:07:14The doctor says eight weeks, but I think he'll come early.
00:07:19Every first time, Mama thinks they're gonna deliver early.
00:07:21They're like, there's no way I can get any bigger than I already am.
00:07:25But they do.
00:07:26Really?
00:07:27Mm-hmm.
00:07:29This kid just made me realize how much I really do want him here.
00:07:32It's nothing like the first time you see that baby.
00:07:34Oh, you have kids?
00:07:36Mm-hmm.
00:07:37How many?
00:07:38I have two.
00:07:39I just gave birth to my second a few months ago.
00:07:41Oh.
00:07:45I do want him to be here, but then at the same time,
00:07:48I don't know what to do when he does get here, you know?
00:07:50And more than anything, I just don't want to...
00:07:52Honey, you don't have to be afraid of a child.
00:07:56You're going to be a great mom.
00:07:58You're gonna mess up, yes.
00:08:00All you got to do is love them and put the fear of God in them as they grow.
00:08:04I don't know what it is about motherhood that just has me so...
00:08:09I don't know.
00:08:10If I can kiss myself, I just...
00:08:13I mean, I know I need to get diapers,
00:08:15and we need to finish safe roofing the house,
00:08:16because we're not done with that yet, but...
00:08:17I say you need Jesus more than all that stuff.
00:08:21Do you go to church?
00:08:23I did when I was younger, but, you know, it's been a while.
00:08:26Tell you what.
00:08:28Tell your husband that your new friend Teresa invited you to church.
00:08:32Give me a call and tell me what he says.
00:08:34Yeah. Um, okay.
00:08:36All right.
00:08:40Teresa.
00:08:41Why don't you finish getting cleaned up, take your time,
00:08:43and you better not forget to call me.
00:08:45Okay.
00:08:46Bye.
00:08:47Bye.
00:08:58Okay.
00:09:02Well, you have to read it.
00:09:04I'm not going to read it. You can't make me.
00:09:06Christopher, I'm going to count to three,
00:09:08and if you don't quit your whining, I'm going to leave you here at the library.
00:09:11I've got four on my own.
00:09:13That's one.
00:09:14Okay.
00:09:15Yes, it is.
00:09:17Did you get the books?
00:09:18Yes, ma'am.
00:09:21You're first?
00:09:22Yeah.
00:09:24How exciting.
00:09:25You make it look so easy.
00:09:27Yeah, well, it isn't.
00:09:29James, grab your sister's hand.
00:09:31Stop by the front door, please.
00:09:33But it's worth it.
00:09:34God gives us grace and strength,
00:09:36and each child is a blessing.
00:09:38You enjoy yours.
00:09:39Thank you.
00:09:40I will.
00:09:42All right, kids.
00:09:43Inside voices.
00:09:44Inside voices.
00:09:54So, I feel like you got enough diapers for three babies.
00:09:59Is that something you're not telling me right now?
00:10:01No.
00:10:02No?
00:10:03We just have to be prepared.
00:10:04This is a living human being we're having here.
00:10:06Yeah, it's a baby.
00:10:07You know, we're not the first people to be parents.
00:10:09This thing eats and sleeps and pees and poops from the first year.
00:10:13That's about it, right?
00:10:15Allie, we got this thing outnumbered.
00:10:16It's like basketball, right?
00:10:18There's two of us.
00:10:19We're big people.
00:10:20Two grown-ups against one little bitty baby.
00:10:22We got this.
00:10:35Does it not scare you at all to be a parent?
00:10:38Nope.
00:10:40Not really.
00:10:42Okay, maybe a little bit.
00:10:44But I figure it'll just come naturally, you know?
00:10:46We'll roll with it.
00:10:48I just don't want to turn out like my mom.
00:10:51What if I screw up my kid?
00:10:53You are not your mom.
00:10:55You never will be, and besides,
00:10:58I like how you turned out.
00:10:59Yeah, when he got pregnant.
00:11:02Not sure how many people would agree with you on how I turned out.
00:11:04Besides, doesn't everybody say that they're not going to do what their parents did
00:11:07and then they turn out just like them?
00:11:11Allie, moms have been raising babies for centuries,
00:11:13and you've got all these books you've checked out,
00:11:16and the magazines that you bought,
00:11:17and the horrible talk shows you've been watching.
00:11:20Hey.
00:11:21We'll figure it out, okay?
00:11:23And listen, worst case,
00:11:25if we got questions, we find somebody who has the answers.
00:11:29The nurse who was doing the ultrasound today,
00:11:30she's a mom of two, and she was awesome.
00:11:34She gave me her number.
00:11:35See? Great.
00:11:36Call her, take her coffee, pick her brain.
00:11:39She invited us to go to church.
00:11:44Huh.
00:11:45I mean, some churches have mommy groups that women can go to,
00:11:49or like a mommy's day out program.
00:11:54It might be a really good way to get some help.
00:11:58Does it start early on Sundays?
00:12:00Because you know I like to sleep in.
00:12:02That's not all you like to do on Sunday mornings.
00:12:04Hey, look, I'm not the only one.
00:12:05Anyways, your days of sleeping in are coming to an abrupt halt, mister.
00:12:12I can't do this alone.
00:12:17I really think it might be a good idea if we start going.
00:12:22Okay.
00:12:25Thank you, sweetheart.
00:12:26But I do have to finish this crib,
00:12:28otherwise this kid's not going to have a place to sleep.
00:12:30It looks like you're pretty much done to me.
00:12:32Yeah? Does it?
00:12:33Mm-hmm.
00:12:36Hey, I need you to install the car seat.
00:12:38If you're sick, we can't leave.
00:12:53Okay, you ready?
00:13:00Alright, take the breath.
00:13:01Let's push him up.
00:13:02Push, push, push.
00:13:03Push hard, push hard, push hard.
00:13:05You got it, you got it.
00:13:07You got it, baby.
00:13:08Yes, you got it.
00:13:09Yeah!
00:13:10Yeah!
00:13:33Ronnie.
00:13:46It's beautiful.
00:14:03Hey, Chrissy, I'm here to pick up Kate.
00:14:05Uh, Morris.
00:14:06Um, I'm afraid Katie was a little out of hand this morning.
00:14:13She hit two of the other children with wooden blocks.
00:14:19I'm so sorry.
00:14:20It's okay.
00:14:21It's okay.
00:14:22It's okay.
00:14:23It's okay.
00:14:24It's okay.
00:14:25It's okay.
00:14:26It's okay.
00:14:27It's okay.
00:14:28It's okay.
00:14:29It's okay.
00:14:30It's okay.
00:14:31I'm so sorry.
00:14:32Well, we tried to get her to calm down,
00:14:34but she doesn't seem to understand
00:14:36that you cannot throw wooden blocks at other people,
00:14:39including me,
00:14:40so I thought you might want to address that.
00:14:43Of course.
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45You know our policy is if kids keep hitting,
00:14:47then we have to have a parent stay with them during the service
00:14:51or else the child has to sit with Mom and Dad in, um,
00:14:54big church until their next birthday.
00:14:57Completely understand.
00:14:58Um, I'll talk with my husband, and it won't happen again.
00:15:02Okay.
00:15:03Thank you.
00:15:07Mommy, Mommy, I'm going to be an assassin when I grow up,
00:15:10and then I'm not going to have a name so the police can't find me,
00:15:15but I'm going to hack into the computer,
00:15:17and I'm going to steal all the government secret plans,
00:15:20and then I'm going to build up a death squad,
00:15:22and then destroy all the monsters in the ocean.
00:15:25Hey, Mommy, what do you want for your birthday?
00:15:27For you to not be a complete screw-up for one day, honey!
00:15:45Honey, you okay?
00:15:46I just needed you.
00:15:51Hey, buddy.
00:15:52Hey, buddy.
00:15:53How you doing?
00:15:54Kate's got poop on her back.
00:15:56Yeah, well, when is she not covered in poop?
00:15:58Daddy.
00:15:59Can you please just change her diaper for five minutes alone?
00:16:02Mama!
00:16:03Okay, let's give her a second.
00:16:05Let me go change her real quick, okay?
00:16:07Then I'll come check on her.
00:16:08Oh, that's awful.
00:16:10Mama!
00:16:13Ooh.
00:16:18Wipes.
00:16:23Oh, Kate.
00:16:25Stop.
00:16:26Stop moving.
00:16:28You've done enough.
00:16:29Hey, hey, I'll do it, I'll do it.
00:16:31I got this.
00:16:32I don't want you changing her when you're upset.
00:16:33Yeah, well, you locked yourself in the bathroom
00:16:35and said you needed help, so I'm helping.
00:16:37I just needed a minute.
00:16:38I can do my job.
00:16:39Thank you.
00:16:41Hey.
00:16:42Hey, Teresa and Kenneth are going to be here at 6.30.
00:16:44How long do burgers take?
00:16:46Perfect night for company.
00:16:48Like 30 minutes.
00:16:49I'll get into it.
00:16:50Hey, one more thing.
00:16:51Can you come back here for a minute?
00:16:54Sure.
00:16:56Tonight we need to talk about Kate.
00:16:57She was, I guess, hitting other kids in church yesterday,
00:17:00and they said that they might have to actually
00:17:02kick her out of nursery.
00:17:04Kick her out of nursery?
00:17:05That's crazy.
00:17:06She's two.
00:17:07That's what two year olds do.
00:17:08Yeah, well, let's just talk about it tonight
00:17:09after they have left.
00:17:11Kate and Ron have been running the house lately,
00:17:13and it is wearing me out.
00:17:16I'm sure it's a phase.
00:17:17She'll grow out of it.
00:17:18Talk to Teresa about it.
00:17:19I don't think it's a phase.
00:17:21The other kids are not hitting each other,
00:17:23and we are her parents.
00:17:24We're supposed to fix things like this.
00:17:26I don't want to talk to Teresa.
00:17:28I want to talk to you about it.
00:17:29I want to talk to my husband.
00:17:30I want to hear your ideas.
00:17:32I cannot do everything by myself.
00:17:35Okay, we'll talk about it.
00:17:38Great.
00:17:39I'm so glad you're interested in your kids' lives.
00:17:45Hey.
00:17:50Hey.
00:17:57Quiet out here.
00:17:59Yeah, I know.
00:18:00Kind of nice, isn't it?
00:18:01Yeah, tell me about it.
00:18:03With three under six,
00:18:04the sound of nothing can be pretty sweet.
00:18:07Honestly, I don't know how you guys do it.
00:18:09Ronnie and Kate are almost too much for Ali as it is.
00:18:13What about you?
00:18:15Oh, I'm fine with two.
00:18:17No, I'm talking about the stress.
00:18:19What's it say to you?
00:18:20Just tune it out.
00:18:22I know, man, but I ain't at work.
00:18:24When I come home, I gotta unwind.
00:18:26You don't think Alice is tired, too?
00:18:28I'm sure she is.
00:18:29But, I don't know, quick trips,
00:18:30it just takes it out of me, man.
00:18:32Well, look, man, I get it, all right?
00:18:34When it comes to raising kids,
00:18:35the days are long, but the years are short.
00:18:38Not short enough, if you ask me.
00:18:41Do you remember the challenge
00:18:42that Pastor Mark gave us on Sunday?
00:18:44No, I was out of town.
00:18:45You were out of town.
00:18:46But look, he quoted some guy that said,
00:18:48children are the living messages
00:18:50that we send forth to a time that we will not see.
00:18:57You should get the tape.
00:18:59It talks about giving a vision
00:19:01for what God might have for your kids.
00:19:04Something more than hoping
00:19:05that they grow up happy and healthy
00:19:06and get a good job and get married.
00:19:08Oh, I think I burnt these.
00:19:13Yeah, I hear you, man.
00:19:14It got me to realize that
00:19:17our kids aren't the problem, it's us, man.
00:19:22Yeah, you and me, that's right.
00:19:24I'm the problem.
00:19:26Remember that verse that says,
00:19:27without a vision, the people will perish?
00:19:30Can't say that I do.
00:19:32Well, it applies to the family as well.
00:19:35You can't run around living life one day at a time.
00:19:39You gotta know where you're going,
00:19:41and then lead.
00:19:43All right.
00:19:45All right.
00:19:48Give me that ball.
00:19:51He literally pulls up half court,
00:19:53and he makes it and just acts like,
00:19:54this is something I do all the time.
00:19:56It was ridiculous.
00:19:57I saw the replay of that on the news.
00:19:59It was unbelievable.
00:20:00It was.
00:20:01It was crazy.
00:20:02Excuse me.
00:20:03Yes, sir?
00:20:04I've finished my food.
00:20:05Can I get a popsicle?
00:20:06I've finished my food.
00:20:07Can I get a popsicle?
00:20:08Cool.
00:20:11Miss Alice, John David has a question for you.
00:20:14Yes, John David?
00:20:15Can I please get popsicles?
00:20:18Of course you can.
00:20:19They're in the freezer on the bottom shelf.
00:20:24Your little man has become quite the gentleman.
00:20:26I want a popsicle too.
00:20:28You can have one when all of your food's gone, buddy.
00:20:30But I can't eat it.
00:20:31It's too much food.
00:20:32I want a popsicle like John David.
00:20:34Son, your mother gave you an answer.
00:20:36You cannot have dessert until you finish your food.
00:20:39Sit down.
00:20:40Finish your food.
00:20:42Do you mind if I try something?
00:20:45Go ahead.
00:20:48Now, Ronnie,
00:20:49you know your plate has to be empty
00:20:51before you go get dessert, right?
00:20:54Right?
00:21:05Looks like your plate's all empty, hon.
00:21:07I guess that means you get dessert.
00:21:10Can I get a popsicle now?
00:21:13Yes, you may.
00:21:14Thank you for asking.
00:21:20My dad did that with me once.
00:21:22I never forgot it.
00:21:24That's the picture of grace, he would say.
00:21:27Getting what you don't deserve
00:21:29because somebody else did what you should have done for you.
00:21:32You just wanted to eat more hamburger, man.
00:21:34Don't be...
00:21:35Don't get all spiritual on me over that.
00:21:37You just remember that the next time
00:21:39you're making these hamburgers out there.
00:21:41We got more if you need it.
00:21:43You don't have to eat my kid's food all the time.
00:21:45Bring him a popsicle.
00:21:47Steal my kid's hamburger.
00:21:54Just five more minutes
00:21:55and I'll help you with those dishes.
00:21:56Oh, no, no, no, no.
00:21:57You sit and rest.
00:21:58No, I can have your hamburger.
00:22:00Did you hear us talking?
00:22:02Excuse me, Mama.
00:22:03You're excused.
00:22:05Ronnie wants to know can...
00:22:07May I?
00:22:08May I play Frogger with him?
00:22:10What's that?
00:22:11Oh, it's just this little video game
00:22:13with frogs trying to cross the road.
00:22:15It's totally harmless.
00:22:17Yes, you can play Froggy with Ronnie.
00:22:19It's Frogger, Mommy.
00:22:21Well, whatever it's called.
00:22:23Yes, you can play for about ten minutes
00:22:25and then we gotta go.
00:22:26Okay.
00:22:27Okay.
00:22:28Whatever it's called.
00:22:29Yes, you can play for about ten minutes
00:22:30and then we gotta go.
00:22:31Thank you.
00:22:32My mom says I can play.
00:22:35Kids.
00:22:36I'm sorry about Ronnie tonight.
00:22:40What for?
00:22:41His manners.
00:22:43His lack of manners, I should say.
00:22:46How does he normally act?
00:22:49I don't know.
00:22:50I guess I just don't notice it
00:22:52when it's just him and Kate.
00:22:54I don't know why
00:22:55He just seems to always decide to act up
00:22:57whenever we have company around.
00:22:58John David used to be just the same.
00:23:00Really?
00:23:01Mm-hmm.
00:23:02It took us weeks to get him to learn basic table manners.
00:23:05Because you ain't no kid going to say things like please
00:23:07and thank you on your own.
00:23:09Yeah, well, you're going to have to lend me whatever
00:23:12book you used to train him.
00:23:13Oh, you already got it, honey.
00:23:15And it's all in there, in the Bible.
00:23:18Oh, well, I guess I missed the chapter on manners.
00:23:21Well, how much time do you spend reading
00:23:23Proverbs or memorizing verses?
00:23:25I mean, I have all my kids learn Proverbs 23, 13, and 14
00:23:29as soon as they're old enough to talk.
00:23:31Do not withhold discipline from your children.
00:23:34Whom the Lord loves, he disciplines.
00:23:36Yeah, but I just, I don't know that I can
00:23:39intentionally hurt my child, though.
00:23:41Alice, listen.
00:23:42Some of the greatest lessons in life come amidst pain.
00:23:44If there's no sting, then what you get is a spoiled child.
00:23:49And I know you don't want that.
00:23:53Oh.
00:24:09Hi.
00:24:10Your son is watching you play that game.
00:24:13Can you take him in the other room with you?
00:24:16I have to run a bath for Kate.
00:24:18Can you not just pause your game and please deal with him?
00:24:21Hey, boy, why don't you go put your pajamas on, brush your teeth,
00:24:23and I'll come pray with you in a minute, okay?
00:24:25Why?
00:24:27Because it's time to go to bed.
00:24:29Got it. Got it.
00:24:30But why can't I just watch for a few more minutes?
00:24:34Buddy, this is a grown-up game, okay?
00:24:36I told you that before. Now, please, you got to go to bed.
00:24:39Why?
00:24:40Son, go to bed now, please.
00:24:45Honey.
00:24:48Charlie cannot believe you.
00:24:50Come on.
00:24:52I'm sure that you both realize that Ronnie's very bright.
00:25:22We've been tracking his test scores over the past four years,
00:25:25and he's in the 97th percentile in reading and language.
00:25:29He's in the 99th percentile in math.
00:25:32He's in the 99th percentile in science.
00:25:35So even though Ronnie's a freshman,
00:25:37we would like to encourage you to have him start taking the SAT now
00:25:40and once a year every year.
00:25:42I don't want to create any false expectations,
00:25:45but students with these kinds of early scores
00:25:48often go on to become national merit scholars.
00:25:52I'd imagine he'll have his pick of college options,
00:25:56and many of those options will likely come with some very generous scholarships attached.
00:26:02You both should be very proud.
00:26:0499th percentile. Did you have any idea he was that smart?
00:26:07I knew he got good grades and didn't have to work at it very hard.
00:26:10What do you think?
00:26:11Pre-college? Yeah, I'm into it.
00:26:14You know how he's been skipping youth groups and that he needed to study?
00:26:17This whole time I thought he was making excuses because it's boring
00:26:20and the leaders tell him to treat him like he's in sixth grade,
00:26:23but he's actually been studying. He's really smart.
00:26:26Yeah, he's pre-college smart.
00:26:29I'm not sure we'll get that lucky with Kate or Josh or Faith.
00:26:32See you at home. Love you.
00:26:47What are you doing with my Master Sword set?
00:26:49Mom said I could use a Lego spittle fort for a freckle.
00:26:52That doesn't mean you take apart a Master Sword to build some stupid fort.
00:26:56I could. She didn't say that. No, give it back.
00:26:59Mom said I could play with it.
00:27:01She's not your real mom anyway.
00:27:03Yeah, she is. Nuh-uh. Your real mom couldn't handle you.
00:27:07That's not true. That's what Mom told me when we got you.
00:27:10She did not. Uh-huh.
00:27:13Here, take your stupid Legos. They're stupid anyway.
00:27:18Mom!
00:27:32Hey, you on your way?
00:27:34No, I'm not. I'm still at the office.
00:27:37Hey, how was your day?
00:27:39How late?
00:27:42How was your day is code for I'm going to be late, so just tell me how late.
00:27:46Okay, well, I do have another couple hours of work to do on the Wilson project,
00:27:51and then I should be able to get free.
00:27:53Charlie, really?
00:27:54Listen, I know, but if I work hard, I can get it done by Friday,
00:27:57and then no more late nights for a while.
00:27:59Yeah, well, I think this is, what, the 10th project? You've said that on now?
00:28:05Hey, are you okay?
00:28:07No. No, not really.
00:28:10Josh and Faith had a big fight today, and Josh said some really horrible things to her.
00:28:15Like what?
00:28:17Like that I'm not her real mom.
00:28:20She's not little anymore, and I don't know how to talk to her about her mom
00:28:24and why she ultimately gave her up.
00:28:29I need you to be home before Josh goes to bed so that you can talk with him.
00:28:33He ignores me. He needs to hear it from you.
00:28:36And I don't know what to say to Faith either, so maybe we can do that together?
00:28:42Yeah, okay. Love you.
00:28:49Kids, dinner!
00:28:51Is Dad home yet?
00:28:53Um, that was him on the phone.
00:28:57He's stuck on a project, so he's not going to be back until late.
00:29:01You were supposed to take me to the mall tonight.
00:29:03Well, I don't think that's going to happen, sweetie. I'm sorry.
00:29:06Can I call Dad and see if we can go?
00:29:09Yes, but we need to eat dinner first.
00:29:13Please go get the others. Tell him it's time to eat.
00:29:15Okay.
00:29:17Ronnie! Josh! Faith! Dinner!
00:29:26Laundry belongs in the bin, not next to the bin.
00:29:31Oh, you seem to make babies.
00:29:34Faster than I can pick up their laundry.
00:29:37How do you make babies?
00:29:39What?
00:29:40What?
00:29:41We're not talking about this. Go get your PJs on.
00:29:43But I need to go potty.
00:29:45Then go potty.
00:29:54What are you reading?
00:29:56Something for a class?
00:29:58Nope. Just for fun.
00:30:02Hey, on Saturday, um, I was planning on going to a concert downtown with some friends.
00:30:07What show?
00:30:09Uh, it's a band called Neal Fit.
00:30:11Are they Christian?
00:30:12Kind of. Their band name is Latin for Nothing Comes.
00:30:15Um, their music has some spiritual themes.
00:30:18Okay. Who would you be going with?
00:30:20I don't think you know them. Justin Booth and Franklin Hauser.
00:30:23They're juniors, so they can give me a ride to the show.
00:30:26I think that should be fine, but let me just...
00:30:29Let me just talk with your dad before I let you know, okay?
00:30:31Okay.
00:30:32Night.
00:30:33Good night.
00:30:41Night, Addy. It's Katie Bug.
00:30:47It's okay. I know you have really important things to do.
00:30:51End of the fair is Saturday. Do you think we could go?
00:30:56Thanks, Addy.
00:31:00Just putting everyone to bed.
00:31:05Love you too, Daddy.
00:31:11Okay. Turn it off.
00:31:13Okay.
00:31:14Put it up.
00:31:15Okay.
00:31:16Here you go.
00:31:17So I want to talk to you.
00:31:19I want to talk to you about the things that you said to your little sister today.
00:31:22I was just kidding with her.
00:31:25Honey, it's not kidding if you tell her that I'm not her real mommy.
00:31:29Well, you're not. That's what you told me.
00:31:33Well, I'm not her birth mom, yes, but I am her real mommy.
00:31:37God had her planned for our family before she was even born.
00:31:41Well, why didn't he put her in your tummy?
00:31:45God just has different plans sometimes. That's all.
00:31:50Look, sweetie, I know that having a sister can be very, very frustrating.
00:31:55But Faith needs you to be a good big brother.
00:31:58Well, me and her don't even like the same things.
00:32:01Well, that's okay. Maybe you can help her with things.
00:32:05You know, you could maybe teach her cursive, because you're really good at ear letters.
00:32:10Or you could show her games on your iPad.
00:32:13Or maybe show her pictures and tell her stories about our family.
00:32:17I can show her the place in the garage Dad put a hole in the wall when we were moving in.
00:32:22Yes. Yeah, you could definitely show her that.
00:32:27You know what you need to do first, though?
00:32:29What?
00:32:30You need to tell her that you're very sorry and ask her to forgive you for the things you said.
00:32:36Remember how to do that?
00:32:39What do you say first?
00:32:41I say, sorry.
00:32:43You say, I'm sorry for...
00:32:45I'm sorry for what I said. I was wrong.
00:32:53Will you please forgive me?
00:32:57And then what do you do?
00:32:59Then I give her a hug.
00:33:01Perfect. We'll do that first thing in the morning, okay?
00:33:04Okay.
00:33:05Night, little buddy.
00:33:06Good night, Mom.
00:33:07Sleep good.
00:33:12Josh, your shoes are by the door. Hurry up!
00:33:15Sweetie, we gotta leave in five minutes. I've got an appointment at the office at nine.
00:33:18Is your lunch almost packed?
00:33:20Almost.
00:33:22Who are you texting this early in the morning?
00:33:24It's a friend.
00:33:26And her name is?
00:33:28His name is Adam, Lauren's older brother.
00:33:31Hey, Adam can wait five minutes until your lunch is packed and we're in the car.
00:33:37Hey, hey. Morning, baby.
00:33:39How you doing? Did you sleep good? Did you sleep good? Did you sleep good? Did you sleep good?
00:33:46Hey, sweetheart.
00:33:47Hey, Dad.
00:33:48Hey, babe, I gotta run. I know I said I'd pick up the kids later, but I'm probably gonna have to work late.
00:33:52Babe.
00:33:53I know. I'm finishing it, though, so this will be the last time for a while.
00:33:56Yeah, well, you said that last week.
00:33:58I mean it today.
00:34:00Okay, we'll just be off tomorrow. The girls are counting on you.
00:34:03Oh, I wouldn't miss the fair with my girls. You excited?
00:34:07Yeah.
00:34:08Faith is coming?
00:34:10Yeah. Dad and the girls at the fair. It's gonna be great.
00:34:15What do you think, Faith? You think we should get Kate to ride the teacups with us?
00:34:19Yeah.
00:34:20You know what? You guys can just go ride the teacups together.
00:34:24You know what? You guys can just go ride the teacups together.
00:34:28I'm gonna just go with some friends from school. It's probably a better idea anyway.
00:34:34I'll be in the car.
00:34:39What's that about?
00:34:42Teacups.
00:34:44She loves teacups.
00:34:47You realize that she is 12 now?
00:34:50Faith, come on. Let's go. Come on, come on.
00:34:54Josh, we're in the car!
00:35:20Yeah, I had them checked yesterday. They said they're fine.
00:35:23Yep, spay or two.
00:35:26Yeah, I know. We can Skype. I'll be home in like 11 weeks.
00:35:34Alright, you two. See ya.
00:35:37Was that Dad?
00:35:40Yep.
00:35:41You know, he really needs to get some rest.
00:35:43Yeah, I know.
00:35:45Was that Dad?
00:35:48Yep.
00:35:49You know, he tried to take a later flight so he could be here.
00:35:51No big deal. He was here for the party last night.
00:35:53Yeah, well I can't believe that. They wouldn't let him miss a meeting so that he could be here to see his firstborn son off to college.
00:35:57Mom, it's not a big deal.
00:35:58Hey, you need help with your stuff?
00:36:00Got it.
00:36:15You know, your Dad and I keep thinking that Dunwood is a mistake.
00:36:20You had your choice of a dozen schools. I don't see why you had to pick the most extreme.
00:36:25Mom, look, I know this is hard for you letting go, but you've done your job. You raised me, okay?
00:36:31I stayed out of trouble. I got the grades. I got the full scholarship, tuition, room and board.
00:36:36You did good, okay?
00:36:38What do you want these?
00:36:39Um, passenger seat.
00:36:42Hey.
00:36:51What do you want these?
00:36:52Um, passenger seat.
00:37:12Hey.
00:37:24Hey, are you looking through all my stuff?
00:37:27I was just looking at your baby picture and...
00:37:30It's just a book, okay? I mean, you can't really know what you believe until you've read all the sides.
00:37:35And he teaches at Dunwood?
00:37:38I'm not going to do this again with you, okay?
00:37:41The decision is made. Classes start on Thursday. Would you let it go?
00:37:46Ronnie, what are you...
00:37:47Mom, let it go!
00:37:50Okay.
00:37:52Have you registration and everything in your glove compartment?
00:37:59That belongs to Matt. He put it there the other night. He just asked me to keep it for a few days.
00:38:03And you were just going to drop it off by his house on your way out on Monday morning?
00:38:08Exactly, so...
00:38:09You are not leaving this driveway with drugs in your car.
00:38:13Do you have any more of this stuff in here?
00:38:23Are you done?
00:38:25When your father finds out about this.
00:38:28Yeah, okay. Whatever.
00:38:29Hey, you guys know where to find me, right?
00:38:35Hook me up sometime.
00:38:39Reid Hall. Room 517.
00:38:51Bye, Mom.
00:39:00Close the door.
00:39:08Ronnie! Ronnie!
00:39:29Ronnie!
00:39:45I had fun, Mike.
00:39:47I did too, Katie.
00:39:51I should probably go before my parents suspect anything.
00:39:56Just stay a little while longer.
00:40:00I don't know. I just don't want to get caught.
00:40:04Your parents are probably in bed.
00:40:09Yeah.
00:40:10Come on.
00:40:12I just...
00:40:14I should probably go.
00:40:18You know he hasn't lost his phone. He just doesn't want to talk to us.
00:40:22It's been three days. He'll cool off. He'll call us back.
00:40:26Yeah, well, I think he's an atheist. And it's not just about the book.
00:40:30He's a teenager. He's confused. I read all kinds of books when I was his age.
00:40:37You hear that?
00:40:45Hon, should I call the police?
00:40:47No, I'll check it out.
00:40:56Mike!
00:41:01Mike, let go!
00:41:03No!
00:41:17Mike, let go! You're hurting my arm!
00:41:22Hey!
00:41:24Hey!
00:41:28Katie!
00:41:30What happened? You all right?
00:41:31I'm fine.
00:41:32You okay? Who was that?
00:41:33Yes, I'm fine.
00:41:34Who was that? Did he hurt you?
00:41:35Yeah.
00:41:37Hey, look at me. Are you okay? Are you okay?
00:41:40Yes, I'm fine, Dad.
00:41:42Are you, Dad?
00:41:43Yes.
00:41:44Come here. Come here.
00:41:45Come here. Come here.
00:42:01Honey, what's going on?
00:42:03Katie? Katie, what are you doing out?
00:42:06Sit down.
00:42:07What is going on?
00:42:08Sit down. Answer your mother.
00:42:11Kate?
00:42:12I snuck out on a date.
00:42:13What else?
00:42:14Excuse me?
00:42:15What else happened?
00:42:18She snuck out on a date with a boy who pushed her out of his car.
00:42:21He did what? Who is this person? What?
00:42:24You don't know him.
00:42:26Oh, I'm gonna know him.
00:42:27That is not what I asked, Missy.
00:42:29Who is he?
00:42:32Catherine.
00:42:33His name is Mike. He's in college.
00:42:35College?
00:42:36Mommy, I need water.
00:42:38College?
00:42:39Mommy, I need water.
00:42:40Katie, he's in college?
00:42:42Katie, I am not happy about this.
00:42:44I need medicine.
00:42:45You're not through. Come on.
00:42:47Where's your cup?
00:42:48I had your medicine right by your bed. Did you not take it?
00:42:50It's gone. I don't know where it is.
00:42:52This isn't the first time you've done this, is it?
00:42:56No.
00:42:57Well, it's the last time.
00:43:00Are you grounded?
00:43:02Your mom and I will talk about it for how long?
00:43:04Typical.
00:43:07What did you say?
00:43:09Look, Mike's a good guy.
00:43:10This is the first time anything has happened.
00:43:12Good guys don't push people out of their car, Katie.
00:43:16Yeah, well, I can take care of myself.
00:43:21Really? Like tonight?
00:43:24Yeah.
00:43:25Well done.
00:43:26Like tonight, and like every other night when you're at work
00:43:29and Mom's at home taking care of Faith and Josh by herself.
00:43:32I'm fine.
00:43:33I picked you up off the sidewalk, Kate!
00:43:37Does that sound fine to you?
00:43:41Matt, this is going nowhere.
00:43:43Sit down!
00:43:44Look, can you just leave me alone?
00:43:45I'm not done talking to you!
00:43:46Just leave me alone!
00:43:53Katherine's here.
00:43:54No.
00:43:55No, I don't want to talk to you right now.
00:43:57I don't want to talk to you.
00:43:58Who is this person?
00:43:59How did you get here?
00:44:00Where is he?
00:44:01Katherine!
00:44:02Oh, my God!
00:44:09How come I didn't know about this boy?
00:44:14Because we've been giving her space.
00:44:18We're like all I've heard for the past two years.
00:44:20Mom, give me space.
00:44:21Yeah, well, look where space got us.
00:44:25I still don't know how that happened.
00:44:28We need help, Charlie.
00:44:31I can fix this.
00:44:32Okay, then.
00:44:33What's your plan?
00:44:34I'm going to spend some time with her.
00:44:37Some one-on-one time.
00:44:38Some real time.
00:44:40With Kate.
00:44:42And the other kids.
00:44:44I can, you know, really make an effort.
00:44:47Which I haven't.
00:44:48Honey, the only reason that Kate is still here
00:44:51is because she is too young to leave.
00:44:54She's going to brush you off just like she does me.
00:44:56She wants less of us in her life, not more.
00:44:59Honey, we have got to get help.
00:45:02We have two more coming up after her.
00:45:04And she's following right after Ronnie.
00:45:06And they're going to follow right after her.
00:45:14He started drifting away and doing his own thing.
00:45:18And I just thought it was normal, young adolescence stuff.
00:45:24I know our jobs as parents is to make sure our kids
00:45:27are well taken care of and keep them out of trouble, right?
00:45:31Yeah.
00:45:32Teresa and I are beginning to realize that
00:45:34maybe we had our priorities all wrong.
00:45:36Look, we were looking at the spiritual development
00:45:39of our children as only a part of their lives,
00:45:41but not the centerpiece.
00:45:43Maybe we cared more about how they acted
00:45:45than we did about teaching them what loving and trusting
00:45:49and walking with Jesus every day looks like.
00:45:53What they learned from us was how to stay away from sin.
00:45:58Don't mess up.
00:45:59And if you do, don't tell anybody
00:46:01or else you'll be in big trouble.
00:46:05Maybe taught them how to hide their sin
00:46:07rather than confess it.
00:46:11They never saw us confessing anything.
00:46:16I can't get my kids to talk to me,
00:46:18let alone confess anything, so...
00:46:21Here is your catfish and fries for you
00:46:23and catfish and slaw for you.
00:46:25You guys need anything else?
00:46:27We're good, thank you.
00:46:28Okay, enjoy.
00:46:30Teresa and I were talking the other night
00:46:32and she thinks that we think that maybe it'd be a good idea
00:46:36for the four of us to get together
00:46:38and go to that new parenting series at church.
00:46:42I'll be the oldest ones in the group, all right,
00:46:44but it can't hurt to sit in on a few sessions now, can it?
00:46:52Okay.
00:46:53Yeah?
00:46:54Yeah, I'll do it, let's do it.
00:46:56Good, good.
00:46:58Now, now can you pray over the food
00:47:00so I can eat my catfish, please?
00:47:01Sure.
00:47:05God, thank you for the food
00:47:08and for friends
00:47:12and our kids.
00:47:18Thanks for doing this.
00:47:22Tell him.
00:47:23Hey.
00:47:24Excuse me.
00:47:32It's okay, come on in, let's get this started.
00:47:35We want to welcome you to the Art of Parenting video series
00:47:38presented by Family Life.
00:47:40Here's what the schedule's going to look like.
00:47:42We're going to watch a video for about a half hour,
00:47:44take some notes...
00:47:45Here we go.
00:47:46We'll break out into some mini-sessions.
00:47:48I think most parents in America say,
00:47:51I want my kids to be happy
00:47:53and or I want them to be successful.
00:47:56And I feel like, oh my gosh, that's not good enough.
00:48:00Happiness is just an emotion that comes and goes.
00:48:03What does happiness look like?
00:48:05It's kind of difficult to answer.
00:48:19I want my kids to be happy
00:48:21and or I want them to be successful.
00:48:23What does happiness look like?
00:48:25It's kind of difficult to answer.
00:48:27What does happiness look like?
00:48:29It's kind of difficult to answer.
00:48:31What does happiness look like?
00:48:33It's kind of difficult to answer.
00:48:35What does happiness look like?
00:48:37It's kind of difficult to answer.
00:48:39What does happiness look like?
00:48:41It's kind of difficult to answer.
00:48:43What does happiness look like?
00:48:45It's kind of difficult to answer.
00:48:48Kate, can you come down here for a minute?
00:48:51Yeah, one sec.
00:48:58Yeah, what's up?
00:48:59Have a seat.
00:49:13Okay.
00:49:18Well, your mom and I have come to realize
00:49:24that our faith and believing in God
00:49:29needs to be more than just going to church on Sundays
00:49:33or praying before we go to sleep.
00:49:36That God doesn't just need to be a part of our life,
00:49:40but that he needs to be the center of it.
00:49:43What does that mean?
00:49:45That's a good question,
00:49:47and honestly, we're still trying to figure that out too.
00:49:51Well, I think for most of our marriage,
00:49:54we've tried to do the right thing,
00:49:56and we figured that if we were doing that,
00:50:00if everything was going okay, that we were on track.
00:50:04Yeah, we just, we thought we just had to do our best
00:50:10and turn to God when things aren't working,
00:50:14when you get stuck.
00:50:17But that's not the way it is.
00:50:20We've been learning a lot about this book, the Bible,
00:50:25and that this is what God wants us to spend time in every day
00:50:29so that we can learn more about him.
00:50:32This is how he teaches us about himself,
00:50:35and this is how we learn his plan for us.
00:50:39Jesus said that we need God's word more than we need food.
00:50:46Nuh-uh.
00:50:47Yeah, yeah, I know.
00:50:49It's hard to believe, but it's true.
00:50:52You know, our souls hunger for these words
00:50:57the way that our body hungers for food.
00:51:02I want us as a family
00:51:05to start spending time every single day
00:51:08reading the Bible together.
00:51:11I try to read my Bible sometimes,
00:51:13but there's a lot of words in there
00:51:15that I don't know what they mean.
00:51:17I understand.
00:51:18You know, there's a lot of words in here
00:51:19that I don't know what they mean either,
00:51:21but I bet if we dive in together, we can figure it out.
00:51:23Okay?
00:51:24I tell you what, why don't we start,
00:51:26why don't we start now?
00:51:28Go get your Bibles, and we'll dive in.
00:51:30Just read a few verses and go from there, okay?
00:51:33Go ahead.
00:51:44Well, we'll see if this does any good.
00:51:47Hon, you're doing great.
00:51:50We just have to remember that our job is to be faithful.
00:51:54Change is up to God.
00:51:57Yeah.
00:52:00Hey, you got a minute?
00:52:20Kate, I messed up.
00:52:23I haven't been as involved in your life
00:52:27as I should have been.
00:52:34You have grown into a beautiful young woman,
00:52:39and somewhere along the way, I quit being your dad.
00:52:48You know, when you were little, I knew what to do.
00:52:53We would go get ice cream.
00:52:56I would just push you on the swing.
00:52:59Well, you said,
00:53:01higher, Daddy, higher.
00:53:08And then you stopped wanting to go to the park, you know?
00:53:16And I guess I just, I started to think
00:53:18that maybe my job was over.
00:53:24But I was wrong.
00:53:28I was really wrong.
00:53:46You were on that sidewalk the other night
00:53:50because of me.
00:53:53I wasn't here for you.
00:53:56And I stopped protecting you.
00:54:05Will you forgive me?
00:54:07I'm so sorry.
00:54:10I forgive you, Dad.
00:54:21I have something to say to you, too.
00:54:25Okay.
00:54:30I'm sorry I snuck out with Mike.
00:54:34I knew that it was wrong.
00:54:37I just...
00:54:39It was nice to have a guy paying attention to me.
00:54:44Making me feel special.
00:54:50I know it caused you guys a lot of stress.
00:54:58Can you forgive me, too?
00:55:01Of course.
00:55:10Buds?
00:55:12Buds.
00:55:13Pals?
00:55:14Pals.
00:55:15BFFs.
00:55:16Okay, nobody says that anymore.
00:55:19What do they say now?
00:55:21I don't know, like dudes.
00:55:27Ice cream date?
00:55:29Okay.
00:55:30I have to check my calendar.
00:55:32You have to check your calendar?
00:55:34Yeah.
00:55:35Okay, pencil means.
00:55:41Here, try this.
00:55:43Okay.
00:55:46That's amazing.
00:55:48Thanks.
00:55:49Yeah, no, I'm really impressed.
00:55:51I still need to try it with less garlic, I think.
00:55:55Or add it in earlier.
00:55:58How old are you?
00:56:00I'm ten, Dad.
00:56:01You're ten.
00:56:02Oh, that's right, that's right.
00:56:04Because you're talking like you're 35.
00:56:06You know, I think we should try to find a way for you to make some money doing this.
00:56:10For real?
00:56:11Yeah.
00:56:12How?
00:56:13Well, I have an idea.
00:56:14You know how Mom goes to Bible study on Monday nights at the church?
00:56:18Mm-hmm.
00:56:19What if you made dinner for the family every Monday?
00:56:21That would be awesome.
00:56:22Yeah?
00:56:23Now, we'd have to plan ahead and make sure you have what you need.
00:56:25Okay.
00:56:26But I'm thinking if you cook for everybody and you clean everything up,
00:56:31I'd be willing to give you five dollars a week to do that.
00:56:36How about ten dollars a week?
00:56:37Are you negotiating with me already?
00:56:39Yeah.
00:56:40No, no, no.
00:56:41I'm going to stick at five.
00:56:42Okay.
00:56:43For now.
00:56:44But if you made extra, then we could take some to Mr. McBride from church as well.
00:56:49I bet he'd love to have a meal cooked from you, okay?
00:56:51Mm-hmm.
00:56:52That sound good?
00:56:53Yeah.
00:56:54Yeah?
00:56:55Are you excited?
00:56:56Yeah.
00:56:57Okay.
00:56:58Keep going.
00:56:59I want to eat more.
00:57:00Good, man.
00:57:02Number five, what have you done to show your children that they are special and unconditionally loved?
00:57:09Well, I've been spending some time with Josh, helping him with his cooking.
00:57:14He's pretty good.
00:57:16How's it been for you?
00:57:18Hard at first.
00:57:22You know, he, um, I guess I never really looked at cooking as something that men did.
00:57:28But I am learning that I can't make him what I want him to be.
00:57:34Well, how's it been for him?
00:57:36He's, he's really opening up.
00:57:39It's been really good.
00:57:59What are you working on?
00:58:01Katie's arrow.
00:58:02Hmm.
00:58:04Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:58:06You're not gonna, you're not gonna copy off of my work.
00:58:09I thought we were supposed to do this together.
00:58:11Ultimately, yes.
00:58:12But I would really, I think that we should each do our own first draft.
00:58:16And I see what you're, I see what you're doing here.
00:58:18Whatever, whatever you come up with, that would be so fun.
00:58:20Mm-hmm, yes.
00:58:21But that's, you're not gonna get out of your homework that easy.
00:58:24Gosh, you're no fun.
00:58:25I'm fun sometimes.
00:58:28I heard that she's considered insensitive, and something that I want to work on her with is culturally insensitive.
00:58:34I have the papers invented.
00:58:36And I'm nursing.
00:58:38She is, she is.
00:58:58Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:59:15Okay, science, though.
00:59:18Mm-hmm.
00:59:22A little video teaching how to tie a tie.
00:59:27Wow.
00:59:39Thank you very much.
00:59:40I appreciate it.
00:59:41You're welcome.
00:59:42Have a good afternoon.
00:59:44I have some news for you.
00:59:48Kate, Kate, Kate, oh my goodness.
00:59:52Honey.
00:59:53I know, isn't it beautiful?
00:59:57Let's go six and four on five.
01:00:04There you go.
01:00:05Yeah, there you go.
01:00:06A little higher, a little higher.
01:00:07There it is.
01:00:08There you go.
01:00:09Very nice.
01:00:10Good job, Steph.
01:00:27So, uh, your handsome son is nowhere to be found, so I guess you have to call me in on my day off.
01:00:33Kenneth.
01:00:34How's it going?
01:00:35It's good.
01:00:36No, Josh actually is doing all of the food for the wedding.
01:00:39Is that right?
01:00:40That's right.
01:00:41That's great.
01:00:43He's just making pasta, but he's very excited about it.
01:00:46Yeah, you know, he's always been the best cook out of both of our families.
01:00:50I don't know why I didn't see that.
01:00:52Don't tell Teresa, though.
01:00:54Okay.
01:00:56Well, you got three summers left with him.
01:00:58Not enough time, if you ask me.
01:01:01Zero left with Kate.
01:01:03Thank you.
01:01:05Well, at least you got two extra summers out of it with him.
01:01:09God has restored beyond repair.
01:01:11That is his specialty.
01:01:14You're telling me.
01:01:25Hey, sweetheart.
01:01:26Hey.
01:01:27Did everything unloaded?
01:01:29Unloaded, set up.
01:01:32Looks good.
01:01:33Thanks.
01:01:39I want to show you something.
01:01:47Kate was the one who found it.
01:01:56Is that Ronnie?
01:01:58Yeah.
01:02:04Who's the little guy?
01:02:08He looks just like you.
01:02:10Is that his?
01:02:19He has a son.
01:02:22He has a son.
01:02:28What else do you know besides this picture?
01:02:32Kate was looking around, and from what she could tell,
01:02:35it looked like Ronnie didn't even know he was a dad until a couple weeks ago.
01:02:41Looks like the mom dropped the little guy off with him at his place.
01:02:46Where's that?
01:02:47It's a place in Oregon.
01:02:49Did you call him?
01:02:51Yeah, I left a message.
01:02:53What did you say?
01:02:54Nothing out of the ordinary.
01:02:56I didn't let on that I had seen the picture or anything.
01:03:05Honey, are you okay?
01:03:07I have a grandson.
01:03:13We're grandparents.
01:03:16Those are the only pictures that we have.
01:03:19Do you have any reason to think that we'll be...
01:03:22Is he going to be there?
01:03:24At the wedding, do you think?
01:03:27No.
01:03:29No, I...
01:03:30I don't think so.
01:03:36Hey.
01:03:45Hey.
01:03:51Father?
01:03:56We pray for our...
01:03:57We pray for our boy.
01:04:00You don't know where he is, Father, but you do.
01:04:04And, God, we thank you for the blessing of a grandson.
01:04:10A grandson, Father.
01:04:12And we pray that you will protect him
01:04:15from any harm or evil
01:04:21that may come his way, God, and somehow...
01:04:27Somehow that he would come to know you at a young age,
01:04:31that he would learn to love you and to walk with you
01:04:34and to trust you with his whole life.
01:04:42We pray again for our boy.
01:04:44Honey, Father.
01:04:48My boy.
01:04:52Bring him home.
01:04:55Father, bring him home.
01:05:00Help him see the folly of his sin, Father,
01:05:05and the reality of your love
01:05:09and the reality of our love.
01:05:15It's in your son's name we pray.
01:05:18Amen.
01:05:20Amen.
01:05:23We have a grandson.
01:05:27Ah.
01:05:30Ah.
01:05:33Uh, hey, this is Ronnie.
01:05:35Can't get to the phone right now.
01:05:36Honey.
01:05:37Leave me a message.
01:05:38We're gonna talk to the bride.
01:05:39You need to go do it now.
01:05:42I don't think he's coming.
01:05:52Just remember, you're on the left, he's on the right.
01:05:56Come here.
01:05:58I'm not supposed to be touching your dress.
01:06:01It's okay.
01:06:04Listen.
01:06:07Today is a big day for Daddy.
01:06:11He probably won't show it, but on Monday,
01:06:13when you guys are back at home and I'm not there,
01:06:16he'll probably try to act like he's not sad.
01:06:19But he'll be sad.
01:06:22A little sad.
01:06:23He only has one little girl at home now, and that's you.
01:06:27But I'm not a little girl anymore.
01:06:30You are to him.
01:06:32Even though you're 13,
01:06:34he's still gonna need those hugs from you.
01:06:37He needs to know you haven't gotten too cool for him.
01:06:40Okay?
01:06:44And when you get to be my age,
01:06:48and you meet a cute boy,
01:06:50just like Rick,
01:06:52who loves Jesus,
01:06:54and he asks you to marry him,
01:06:56you make sure you get Daddy's blessing
01:06:58before you run off and get married.
01:07:02And remember, whoever you marry
01:07:03has to want to live no more than 30 miles from Mom and Dad.
01:07:06Really?
01:07:09You're kidding.
01:07:11But help your dad.
01:07:13Ladies.
01:07:17Excuse me, miss.
01:07:20Have you seen my daughter Kate anywhere?
01:07:24No, no, no, this can't be her.
01:07:26This is an angel.
01:07:29You look gorgeous.
01:07:31Thank you, Daddy.
01:07:34Hey, um, Faith, can you give us a minute?
01:07:36Why don't you go see if you can help Mommy?
01:07:45Are you ready for all this?
01:07:47Because we can call this thing off.
01:07:48Dad, Dad.
01:07:57So, Ronnie, I think it's...
01:07:58Dad.
01:07:59I know, it's okay.
01:08:01We'll just keep praying for them.
01:08:04For both of them now.
01:08:06Kate, I just...
01:08:07Dad.
01:08:09I'm not going to let this steal the joy of this day.
01:08:14And you shouldn't either.
01:08:17Hey, sorry to interrupt.
01:08:19Kate, honey, they need you out front
01:08:20before the guests arrive.
01:08:22Tell them I'll be right there.
01:08:25No, you go.
01:08:28You sure?
01:08:29Yeah, we can talk later.
01:08:35Everything look okay, Mom?
01:08:38You look perfect, honey.
01:08:40Come on, I'll walk you out.
01:08:41Okay.
01:08:43Love you.
01:08:44Love you, too.
01:08:45Love you, too.
01:08:54I love you.
01:09:24I love you, Daddy.
01:09:27It's okay.
01:09:33I love you so much, Kate.
01:09:43Catherine Grace Morris,
01:09:46now Catherine Grace Johnson,
01:09:50is a testament to the saving grace
01:09:52and mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ.
01:09:55Having received this blessing from the Lord 20 years ago,
01:09:59I have faithfully taught her to love God
01:10:03with all of her heart, soul, and strength.
01:10:07Catherine has proved herself to honor God and authority,
01:10:11to live responsibly,
01:10:14to hunger and thirst for righteousness,
01:10:17to be a proper helpmeet,
01:10:19to seek reconciliation and forgive quickly,
01:10:22to obey the Lord and all His holy will.
01:10:27I hereby give thanks and praise
01:10:31to God for this blessing,
01:10:34and in the presence of our Lord,
01:10:37I declare to God be the glory.
01:10:43I also declare that on this day,
01:10:46Catherine Grace Johnson,
01:10:52given to me by God as an arrow in my quiver,
01:10:55is hereby released
01:11:01into the world,
01:11:04now in the hands and the direction of her husband,
01:11:08on mission for the Lord,
01:11:10by the Lord, and of the Lord,
01:11:13to make a difference for him
01:11:17and our generation.
01:11:19May she be the mother of tens of thousands
01:11:22and her legacy continually bless
01:11:25future generations for the glory of God.
01:11:30Amen.
01:11:44I love you.
01:11:46I love you too, Ronnie.
01:11:49I got my eye on you.
01:11:55Incoming call.
01:12:01Ronnie, it's Kate, again.
01:12:04Just calling to see if you're going to make it
01:12:06to Mom and Dad's 50th birthday party.
01:12:09I talked to your son, Tim,
01:12:11and he and Elizabeth are coming.
01:12:14Ronnie, listen,
01:12:16you don't want to get a voicemail at some point
01:12:19and learn that one of them is gone,
01:12:21and you never...
01:12:23I don't know.
01:12:25Just come, okay?
01:12:33Well, you know what?
01:12:37What in the world have you done?
01:12:40My internationally acclaimed
01:12:42strawberry French toast,
01:12:44made from an old family recipe
01:12:47that I dug up online about 20 minutes ago.
01:12:50I bet the kitchen is a disaster.
01:12:53In a half hour, it will be spotless.
01:12:55No, I'll take care of it.
01:12:57Once I eat this beautiful breakfast,
01:12:59your son would be so proud.
01:13:02Josh would be surprised
01:13:04that I can cook anything for breakfast
01:13:06besides Pop-Tarts.
01:13:07Do they still make those things?
01:13:09I have no idea.
01:13:10Well, anyway,
01:13:11this looks a lot better than Pop-Tarts.
01:13:14Whatever inspired you
01:13:16to make me such a special breakfast?
01:13:18I have no idea.
01:13:20I was just sitting at the kitchen table
01:13:22reading Joshua 9.
01:13:24Oh, is that so?
01:13:28Happy 50th.
01:13:30You're the only woman I've ever loved.
01:13:33Oh, my Charlie.
01:13:35You're the only man I've ever loved.
01:13:39Well, you should go ahead and eat
01:13:41before my world-famous French toast gets cold.
01:13:44Okay.
01:13:46Mmm.
01:13:58Okay.
01:14:01Looks great, guys.
01:14:03Let's put out the first 30 or so.
01:14:05We'll ice the rest of them,
01:14:06pull them out of the fridge as needed.
01:14:20Hooray, you're here.
01:14:22Oh, Faith, it is so good to see you.
01:14:26You guys are so grown up.
01:14:28Say hello to your new kids.
01:14:30Hello.
01:14:32Hello.
01:14:34Oh.
01:14:37Dad.
01:14:38Hey, it's good to see you.
01:14:41Hey, Mom.
01:14:42Oh, you look great.
01:14:44Oh, thank you.
01:14:45Look at all this food.
01:14:46Josh, we could feed everybody
01:14:47for a month with all this.
01:14:48We're gonna have some leftovers,
01:14:49but that's no problem.
01:14:50We'll take care of it.
01:14:51I think you may have gone over
01:14:52the budget that I gave you.
01:14:54Well, actually, uh,
01:14:55we are far under budget.
01:14:57This is my gift to you guys.
01:14:59Josh.
01:15:00Yeah.
01:15:01No, no, listen.
01:15:02How often does a caterer
01:15:03get to serve his parents
01:15:04on their 50th anniversary?
01:15:06Dad, I know you did something
01:15:07special for Mom, right?
01:15:09He brought me breakfast
01:15:10in bed this morning.
01:15:12Oh, really?
01:15:13That's impressive.
01:15:15Cornflakes?
01:15:16I'll have you know
01:15:17I made strawberry French toast.
01:15:19And your mom gave the meal a 10.
01:15:22I gave it an A for effort.
01:15:25I really think the reason
01:15:26he cooked for me this morning
01:15:27was because he knew
01:15:28he was gonna be accountable
01:15:29to you today.
01:15:31Not so.
01:15:32Not so.
01:15:39Ronnie's calling.
01:15:41Ronnie?
01:15:42Hey, sis.
01:15:45Um, I missed the first flight
01:15:47but got on a follow-on.
01:15:51Sorry I missed your calls.
01:15:53But you're on your way.
01:15:56Yeah, I'll be there.
01:15:59Ronnie?
01:16:01Uh, Kate.
01:16:03I'm sorry that...
01:16:05Don't mind any of that.
01:16:08Today is about Mom and Dad.
01:16:10I haven't even told them
01:16:11you're coming yet.
01:16:12I'll surprise them.
01:16:14Okay.
01:16:15I'll see you soon.
01:16:20♪♪
01:16:27♪♪
01:16:34♪♪
01:16:39♪♪
01:16:44♪♪
01:16:49Have you seen him?
01:16:50Rick's waiting for him
01:16:51by the door.
01:16:53He should probably get started soon.
01:16:54These kids aren't gonna
01:16:55last all night.
01:16:56Yeah, you're probably right.
01:16:58I'll get Dad
01:16:59to do the blessing.
01:17:00Okay, thanks.
01:17:03♪♪
01:17:10♪♪
01:17:16Cold out there.
01:17:17Hey, Ronnie.
01:17:18I'm Rick.
01:17:19I'm Kate's husband.
01:17:20Guess I missed the dinner.
01:17:22Trust me,
01:17:23there's plenty of food left over.
01:17:24Everyone's inside
01:17:25and they're just now
01:17:26starting to share their tributes,
01:17:27so come on.
01:17:28Um, listen,
01:17:29I don't want to interrupt.
01:17:30What's going on
01:17:31Is there a place
01:17:32where I can listen in
01:17:33without all of a sudden
01:17:34being the center of attention?
01:17:35I'm way ahead of you.
01:17:36Get the perfect spot picked out.
01:17:41So, in honor
01:17:42of your amazing 50 years together,
01:17:45your children decided to
01:17:48take a minute
01:17:49and let you know
01:17:50just how much you mean to us.
01:17:52We thought it best
01:17:53to find a way
01:17:54to preserve our thoughts for you.
01:17:57We decided to go in age order
01:17:59from youngest to oldest,
01:18:01and this is what Faith wrote.
01:18:07♪♪♪
01:18:13Mom and Dad,
01:18:14I have had many years
01:18:15to think of what my life
01:18:17might have been
01:18:18if you two had not made me
01:18:19a part of a forever family.
01:18:21I've read about the lives
01:18:22of the children
01:18:23who spend their childhood
01:18:24in orphanages.
01:18:26Chen and I know firsthand
01:18:27that even the best orphanages
01:18:29can never give a child
01:18:30all the things you gave me.
01:18:32Your whole life was about
01:18:33giving to our family.
01:18:35You gave us so much.
01:18:38But today, I want to thank you
01:18:39for the three most important
01:18:41things you gave me.
01:18:43First, you gave me
01:18:44the gift of security.
01:18:45As a child, I knew that
01:18:47whatever happened in my day,
01:18:48even if it was a pesky,
01:18:50bratty brother tormenting me,
01:18:53I would always have
01:18:54a mom and dad
01:18:55that would show me
01:18:56unconditional love.
01:18:58I remember the time
01:18:59when I was eight
01:19:00when I packed
01:19:01my little suitcase
01:19:02and I told you
01:19:03I was moving back to China.
01:19:05I remember you telling me, Mom,
01:19:06that you'd leave my room
01:19:07the way it was
01:19:08just in case things
01:19:09didn't work out
01:19:10for me in China.
01:19:11That's all I really
01:19:12wanted to hear.
01:19:13I never made it out the door.
01:19:15I had a home.
01:19:17You gave me a place to belong
01:19:19and a family to belong to.
01:19:22When people who could tell
01:19:23I looked different
01:19:24from my siblings would ask
01:19:25how long I'd been in the family,
01:19:27I remember you telling them, Dad,
01:19:28that God had determined
01:19:30I would be a Morris
01:19:31long before any of us were born.
01:19:34Even when I struggled
01:19:35with my identity as a teenager,
01:19:37you kept reminding me
01:19:38of what is true,
01:19:40that my identity isn't found
01:19:43in the color of my skin
01:19:45or the city where
01:19:46my birth parents lived.
01:19:47You taught me that
01:19:49my true identity
01:19:50is as a child of God.
01:19:53And that's the third gift
01:19:54you gave me.
01:20:02You gave me the gift
01:20:03of a living faith.
01:20:10You made sure
01:20:11we were all in church.
01:20:12You were dead.
01:20:14You were faithful
01:20:15to read the Bible to us.
01:20:19But the loudest sermon
01:20:20I heard growing up
01:20:21was the one both of you preached
01:20:23by the way you walked.
01:20:25I learned what it looks like
01:20:26to believe in God
01:20:28and walk with Him every day
01:20:29by watching how
01:20:30you walked with Him.
01:20:35I know my siblings were stunned
01:20:37when they found out
01:20:39that their adopted sister
01:20:40was actually
01:20:41your favorite child.
01:20:45But I wasn't surprised at all.
01:20:47I knew it was true.
01:20:49So thank you
01:20:51for all the gifts
01:20:52you've given me.
01:20:54Chen and I pray
01:20:55that heritage you've given us
01:20:57will become a mighty legacy
01:20:58that will live for generations
01:21:00through our children
01:21:01and our children's children.
01:21:03I love you, Mom and Dad.
01:21:05Your daughter forever.
01:21:06Faith.
01:21:22Well, I originally
01:21:34was going to title mine
01:21:36A Tribute from Your Favorite Child.
01:21:40But I didn't want to crush faith
01:21:43with the truth.
01:21:45So I ended up calling it
01:21:48Here's to My Imperfect
01:21:50But Faithful Parents
01:21:52From Your Very Imperfect Son.
01:21:55In the Bible,
01:21:56the Apostle Paul said,
01:21:57I am who I am
01:21:58by the grace of God.
01:22:00And I can say the same,
01:22:02except I have a second part
01:22:03to that phrase.
01:22:05I am who I am
01:22:06by the grace of God
01:22:07and because of the faithfulness
01:22:09of my Mom and Dad.
01:22:11My parents learned early
01:22:12that their third born
01:22:13was stubborn and strong-willed.
01:22:16Dad, I remember you used to
01:22:18love telling people
01:22:19that when I was a child,
01:22:20I drew a circle around myself
01:22:21and called myself
01:22:22the Lord of the Ring.
01:22:23But we both knew
01:22:24that there was more truth there
01:22:25than either of us
01:22:26wanted to admit.
01:22:29Was that in the end,
01:22:31people matter more than things.
01:22:34Relationships matter more
01:22:36than always having to be right.
01:22:40And love matters most.
01:22:44And you both taught me that
01:22:45by how you faithfully loved
01:22:47you're sometimes
01:22:48hard to love some.
01:22:52So in the end,
01:22:53that will be your legacy.
01:22:56And there could be
01:22:57no greater legacy
01:22:58than a legacy of faithful love.
01:23:01I love you two very much.
01:23:03Your son, Josh.
01:23:14I'm proud of you, son.
01:23:16I know, Dad. Thank you.
01:23:21You make it sound
01:23:22harder than it was.
01:23:23Your memory's failing you all.
01:23:28So I decided not to include
01:23:30in my tribute
01:23:31about being the favorite child
01:23:32because you know
01:23:33that was our secret.
01:23:34And I know how to keep a secret.
01:23:37So Faith and Josh,
01:23:38I am sure you are really
01:23:41the favorite children.
01:23:44My tribute is called
01:23:46My Two Moms and Dads.
01:23:50When I was 15,
01:23:51I got a new mom and dad.
01:23:54My old mom and dad,
01:23:57they were loving and kind,
01:23:59caring and gentle.
01:24:02My new mom and dad,
01:24:04they were also loving and kind,
01:24:07but I didn't realize it
01:24:11at the time.
01:24:13I, in fact, didn't care
01:24:15for my new parents
01:24:17all that much.
01:24:19They put new boundaries in place.
01:24:23They said no to things
01:24:24that they normally said yes to.
01:24:28But there was something
01:24:30about this new set of parents.
01:24:34They didn't rattle easy.
01:24:38They had an inner peace.
01:24:42They had new priorities.
01:24:45And they calmly and quietly
01:24:48went about reshaping our family.
01:24:51And in that process,
01:24:52they showed me what it means
01:24:54to live my life in Jesus
01:24:58instead of trying to find
01:24:59a place for Jesus in my life.
01:25:03Mom and dad,
01:25:04I can't express to you
01:25:07how grateful I am
01:25:08for all the fun times,
01:25:11love, memories,
01:25:15and most of all,
01:25:18the model that you showed me
01:25:22how to walk humbly
01:25:25with your God.
01:25:31I love you.
01:25:33Your daughter, Kate.
01:25:36♪♪♪
01:25:46♪♪♪
01:25:59Well, before we cut the cake,
01:26:00there's something
01:26:01I want to say about it.
01:26:03We wanted to do something
01:26:04very special for Mom and Dad.
01:26:08♪♪♪♪
01:26:21Josh, I realize I'm
01:26:25kind of late here tonight.
01:26:30Like about 30-some-odd years late.
01:26:37And...
01:26:40Kate said something about tributes
01:26:43when I talked to her last.
01:26:48I guess I probably didn't
01:26:51listen all that carefully to her.
01:26:56It's been an issue
01:26:58of mine over the years,
01:27:00not listening to what
01:27:01other people were telling me.
01:27:06Oh, but I don't want to
01:27:08take the spotlight off
01:27:09where it belongs.
01:27:12Mom and Dad.
01:27:16Um...
01:27:18I think I remember
01:27:21reading once,
01:27:24"'Hear, my son,
01:27:28"'your father's instructions.
01:27:37"'And forsake not
01:27:41"'your mother's teaching.'"
01:27:50Back then, I didn't listen
01:27:52too well to much of anything
01:27:54other than my own
01:27:56perceived intelligence
01:27:58and upperclassmen
01:28:00or my instructors,
01:28:02whose approval I was
01:28:04craving at the time.
01:28:12Um...
01:28:14I am glad that my own son,
01:28:19Tim,
01:28:21and his wife, Elizabeth,
01:28:23are able to be here today.
01:28:26I guess it's about time
01:28:27that they met y'all.
01:28:30And y'all met them,
01:28:32especially since Tim
01:28:34has just taken a new job
01:28:36at Fort Mill.
01:28:41And, son, I'm...
01:28:45glad...
01:28:49that you're gonna finally get a chance
01:28:51to meet your grandmother
01:28:52and grandfather
01:28:53and get to know them.
01:28:57I should have...
01:29:00years ago...
01:29:03I should have known.
01:29:34Oh, good night, sweetie.
01:29:36Night.
01:29:38Night, guys.
01:29:40Mom, what are you doing?
01:29:42You have someone coming on Monday
01:29:44to do this.
01:29:45It's your anniversary.
01:29:46I'm just rinsing a few dishes.
01:29:47You know me.
01:29:48I can't leave a dirty kitchen.
01:29:49Ah.
01:29:51Okay, I know I'm not gonna win
01:29:53an argument with you.
01:29:55Mm-hmm.
01:29:56But I'm not gonna win
01:29:57an argument with you.
01:29:59Okay, I know I'm not gonna win
01:30:00an argument with you.
01:30:02Mm-hmm.
01:30:05Are you okay?
01:30:06Mm-hmm.
01:30:08Ronnie's gonna stay at the house.
01:30:11This is a good thing?
01:30:13Yeah.
01:30:14It's good.
01:30:16It's really good.
01:30:19Okay.
01:30:21Well, listen, if you're gonna do dishes,
01:30:23then you need to do them right.
01:30:25Ha-ha-ha!
01:30:26Ha-ha-ha!
01:30:43We're about to head home.
01:30:44I just wanted to say goodbye
01:30:45and how thankful we both are
01:30:47to finally get to meet you
01:30:48and Grandpa.
01:30:49You just don't know.
01:30:51Oh.
01:30:54You two have no idea
01:30:55how thrilled your grandma and I are
01:30:57that you're gonna be moving
01:30:58just right down the road
01:30:59in Fort Mill.
01:31:01We're gonna have to have you over.
01:31:03Mm-hmm.
01:31:04Better yet,
01:31:05we need to give you two a night off
01:31:07and get to know your kids better.
01:31:08Yes.
01:31:09Wow, that's very kind of you.
01:31:11Thank you.
01:31:13Truth is, I have so many questions
01:31:14I'd love to ask you.
01:31:17Sometimes I just don't know
01:31:18what to do with the little ones.
01:31:20Oh, honey, I understand.
01:31:23When Ronnie was born,
01:31:25I was so scared,
01:31:26I didn't have a clue
01:31:27what I was doing.
01:31:28Bye-bye.
01:31:29Bye-bye.
01:31:30Bye-bye.
01:31:31Bye-bye.
01:31:32Bye-bye.
01:31:37So they took the baby Jesus
01:31:39and they wrapped him
01:31:40in swaddling clothes
01:31:41and they laid him in a manger.
01:31:46What are you doing?
01:31:48Tell them this story.
01:31:52Now there were shepherds
01:31:53abiding in the field
01:31:55keeping watch
01:31:56over their flocks by night.
01:31:58And suddenly,
01:31:59the angel of the Lord
01:32:00came upon them,
01:32:02and the glory of the Lord
01:32:03shone round about them,
01:32:05and they were swollen with fear.
01:32:08The angel said unto them,
01:32:10Fear not,
01:32:11for behold,
01:32:12I bring you good tidings
01:32:13of a great change.
01:32:22For more information
01:32:23visit www.fema.org
01:32:52To the end of the earth
01:32:53they will leave this night
01:32:57Like a torch that's light
01:32:58through the darkest night
01:33:02Lift them up,
01:33:03hold back the bomb
01:33:04We'll say a prayer
01:33:05and we'll let them go
01:33:07Heroes
01:33:10Send them out like arrows
01:33:15Oh, it's the greatest
01:33:17heartless thing
01:33:18we'll ever do
01:33:21Kiss them on the street
01:33:23and they will know the truth
01:33:26Send them out beyond
01:33:27their wildest dreams
01:33:31Send them as far as I can see
01:33:35And they'll come through
01:33:38this crazy life
01:33:39and watch them fall straight to
01:33:43the target that we're aiming for
01:33:46It's you
01:33:48The target that we're aiming for
01:33:50It's you
01:33:55To the end of the earth
01:33:56they will take this night
01:34:00Like a torch that's light
01:34:01through the darkest night
01:34:05Lift them up,
01:34:06hold back the bomb
01:34:07We'll say a prayer
01:34:08and we'll let them go
01:34:10Heroes
01:34:13Send them out like arrows
01:34:18Oh, it's the most important battle
01:34:20we will fight
01:34:23About a given world
01:34:25Let's give our lives
01:34:28It takes patience
01:34:29It takes courage
01:34:30It takes heart
01:34:32We may be broken
01:34:34but it's not too late to start
01:34:37And they'll come through
01:34:40this crazy life
01:34:41and watch them fall straight to
01:34:45the target that we're aiming for
01:34:47It's you
01:34:50The target that we're aiming for
01:34:52It's you
01:34:57To the end of the earth
01:34:58they will take this night
01:35:02Like a torch that's light
01:35:03through the darkest night
01:35:07Lift them up,
01:35:08hold back the bomb
01:35:09We'll say a prayer
01:35:10and we'll let them go
01:35:11Heroes
01:35:15Send them out like arrows
01:35:20I have decided
01:35:22to follow Jesus
01:35:25No turning back
01:35:27No turning back
01:35:30I have decided
01:35:32to follow Jesus
01:35:35No turning back
01:35:36No turning back
01:35:37No turning back
01:35:38No turning back
01:35:42To the end of the earth
01:35:43they will take this night
01:35:47Like a torch that's light
01:35:48through the darkest night
01:35:52Lift them up,
01:35:53hold back the bomb
01:35:54We'll say a prayer
01:35:56and we'll let them go
01:35:57Heroes
01:36:01Send them out like arrows
01:36:03through the darkest night
01:36:07To the end of the earth
01:36:08they will take this night
01:36:11Like a torch that's light
01:36:12through the darkest night
01:36:36I come from where I've been all night
01:36:51It's way too familiar
01:36:55my present fight
01:37:02Lift me up
01:37:03Lift me up
01:37:04or throw me down
01:37:08Into the new world
01:37:11my ground
01:37:13The wind blows
01:37:14a holy sound
01:37:19Fast in pain
01:37:20they lay me down
01:37:24Fast in pain
01:37:25they lay me down
01:37:43All I can see
01:37:45are words due to me
01:37:47Being cast into the sea
01:37:50that I can't seem to reach
01:37:53But I dive down in prayer
01:37:55and return empty-handed
01:37:59Leaving my heart
01:38:00feeling slowly stranded
01:38:05Lift me up
01:38:06or throw me down
01:38:10Into the new world
01:38:13my ground
01:38:16The wind blows
01:38:17a holy sound
01:38:21Fast in pain
01:38:22they lay me down
01:38:26Fast in pain
01:38:27they lay me down