90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 6 Episode 14 - Reality Frights - Part 1/3
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00:00are you ready previously on 90-day fiance the other way these bottles and
00:07the book they represent women he's been with in his past I'm proud of him but
00:12there's a lot more change that I need to see from Sarper fear of losing her makes
00:17me crazy the only way to get past those misunderstandings is to work together
00:22and work individually I'm really hoping that we could just put all our arguing
00:32behind us because Lily's family is coming to attend the wedding ceremony
00:37and I want them to see that we're truly happy for the interview process to
00:44becoming a midwife is that in fully Icelandic the interview and all the
00:48courses are taught in Icelandic if I have to give up my dreams of being a
00:53midwife how happy would I even be staying in Iceland you just rude to me
00:59maybe we just don't get each of that period full stop am I going to get
01:05broken up with while I'm in the middle of a panic attack but I love life I
01:10enjoy life I love the fire begging you to please stop talking about this right
01:14now I won't it's too much
01:26take your sweet time Jesus almost there almost
01:44I would like to talk about this on our own land please
02:05so this is when you start driving on the American side yeah now that we're off
02:10the boat I'm feeling much better but all of the energy that I spent freaking
02:16out on the boat has now transferred to are we even gonna be together I mean she
02:22basically tried to break up with me on the ferry over I'm not thrilled with the
02:27way that things went down on the ferry no me when you do see me reaching the
02:36point of I'm over my limit like maybe not the time to come and try to talk to
02:44me and figure it out and I need like you to not be offended by it but I'm gonna
02:48be offended if you rude to me period I'm not gonna stand for you being rude to me
02:55all the time because you're feeling a certain way my intention is not to be
02:58rude I've had anxiety my entire life I I've tried multiple therapists I've tried
03:09multiple medications and I don't have it figured out I don't want you feeling
03:17anxious I would like to help you be able to get you know to be able to get over
03:25that yeah I'm just feeling well I can't do that when I'm feeling in myself because
03:31of the way you're speaking to me I feel really really guilty to say it but
03:41dealing with somebody with such high anxiety is really really hard and they
03:49say the true test of a relationship is living together or traveling together
03:54and we're doing both in a van I'm usually a really go-of-the-flow person but I am
04:00really starting to worry that this could be one of the worst decisions I've ever made
04:05taking away me being rude to you and me working on that and me being more deliberate with what
04:14I'm saying when I do feel anxious I mean do you could you still accept me as I am with the
04:23anxiety because what you said on the boat I mean it scared the heck out of me how you don't know
04:33if you could be with me you said you don't know when you're gonna get past that point and it's
04:42just past that point and then you like everybody get away from me like I can't I don't know I want
04:47to be there for you but I don't want to be there for you when you're being rude yeah and that's
04:52understandable I just don't want you to ever give up on me because I'm willing to put in work to
04:59make this relationship a good one and I'm sorry for not having my together more I'm sorry if I
05:09come in and trying to talk to you when you were past the point of no return I don't want to fight
05:23I don't want to fight either I also don't want to have anxiety I just want to be happy and free
05:31like you it's great that Dempsey gets over conflict really quickly but in order for this to work I
05:39need someone who is going to be able to handle my panic attacks because my anxiety isn't something
05:45that's just gonna go away I need her to be supportive in such a different way or else it
05:51this this isn't gonna work out she's not my person we're in the city of Perry and I would
06:00love to have a nice day with you
06:02great
06:26welcome to your home princess thank you
06:33You checking?
06:33No.
06:34Check the closet.
06:36Check the closet.
06:38Oh my God.
06:39Yes.
06:40Finally.
06:41Finally, babe.
06:41Yay.
06:44Oh my God.
06:46Today is a big day because she kind of is moving back
06:49to the place that where she belongs.
06:51My house, my place.
06:54I am emotionally and mentally relieved
06:59because after she left my house,
07:03the house was so empty.
07:04I'll get this one.
07:06It's our cardio, babe.
07:08We do it so often.
07:11Oh God.
07:14Yeah, take it off, baby.
07:16Feel comfortable.
07:17Okay.
07:19Sarp are destroying the bottles,
07:21getting rid of the black book, going to therapy.
07:24All of those things are what helped me decide to go back.
07:28He's shown me that he's really willing to make a change.
07:33So I'm giving him another chance
07:35and let's see how this goes.
07:39You miss me?
07:41Look how happy he is, huh?
07:44I don't want you to see you always unpacking,
07:47packing, unpacking.
07:51Just unpack once and stay here forever.
07:55That's what I want to do.
07:56But do you feel like when we went to therapy,
07:59like it helped you understand?
08:01Yeah.
08:02It started with me.
08:04I changed.
08:05Therapy first, you know?
08:06Really?
08:07You know that one time is not enough.
08:10Like we have to keep going.
08:16Did you do anything while I was gone?
08:17Like to make steps towards doing that?
08:20Yeah.
08:21I arranged a schedule for my therapy next therapy.
08:27You scheduled your next therapy?
08:30For yourself or for us together?
08:32For myself.
08:35Did you really?
08:38Yeah.
08:41Okay.
08:43I just think it's weird that you didn't tell me that.
08:46Like, if it was me, I would have been like,
08:49this is what I've done.
08:51Because I'm doing for myself.
08:53I called on this.
08:55Anytime that Sarper feels like he's done something good,
08:58he can't wait to tell me.
08:59But he didn't tell me that he made this appointment.
09:02So I really don't believe him.
09:06Did you really make a therapy appointment?
09:14No.
09:16No?
09:18Babe, you-
09:19Wow.
09:21Babe, you-
09:21Wow.
09:23Okay, now we have a whole different problem.
09:26Now you're lying to me.
09:36It's a white lie, yeah.
09:38It's nothing important.
09:40It's small.
09:40A lie is a lie.
09:45In our culture, Turkey, therapy is not a familiar thing.
09:49Even a man goes to therapy, they never say to anyone.
09:52So I'm not so eager to make an appointment.
09:56But she is not trusting me anymore,
09:58and I just lied to her.
10:00I saw on her face that hopeful look,
10:03and I thought that it was in a moment
10:06that I can say a pink lie.
10:08Because afterwards, if she didn't realize that,
10:12after the first thing, I will go to my laptop
10:14and make an appointment.
10:19Our life is going to be you scolding me everywhere,
10:23in every situation, and I'm always sorry.
10:26So whose fault is that?
10:27When I'm not sorry, I get mad,
10:30and I become the guilty one.
10:31Whose fault is that?
10:35You are like an olive oil, you know?
10:37I mean, when mixed with the water, always be on top.
10:42That is not true.
10:43Being on top is good.
10:44In bed, but not in real life, babe.
10:47You are pressing on me too much about everything.
10:50Don't do that.
10:52Don't let me.
10:52I'm not doing anything wrong.
10:53I'm just not letting you get away with stuff.
10:55That's all.
10:56You're not used to being held accountable.
10:59So that's the problem here.
11:05Sarper has seen that I can be this submissive, loving person.
11:10Yes, I like when a man takes charge,
11:12but I'm also gonna speak up
11:14when I don't like something that's happening.
11:17Sarper has gotten away with a lot in his life,
11:20and a lot of women have allowed him to.
11:23I am not gonna be that person,
11:25and he's going to have to behave completely differently
11:27if he wants to be with me.
11:30Why does this always happen?
11:32When I get here with my suitcases,
11:33something happens that I don't wanna unpack.
11:37I'm just over it.
11:42I'm ready to do everything.
11:44That's why I lied to you right now,
11:45and that's why I just confessed.
11:48But now I have a whole new issue to think about.
11:51He lies to me.
11:52Oh my gosh.