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00:01What's the goal you're headed towards?
00:03With you?
00:04Yeah.
00:05Marriage?
00:06Marriage.
00:08I feel safe when I'm with you.
00:10Are you proposing?
00:21We're in Paris right now.
00:23Party!
00:24I'm stoked.
00:25So many people would kill for this lifestyle.
00:27I know.
00:30I know.
00:37A little verbatim.
00:51This is nice.
00:52It is nice.
00:53Sweet.
00:55See that thing?
00:56Maybe the Notre Dame, something or other.
00:59Dempsey and I are in Paris for a couple of days,
01:02so we're going to take in the sights before I have to start work again.
01:09Ooh, they have crepes.
01:10I'd f*** up a crepe right now.
01:12I feel like we're definitely in France right now.
01:19Hello, pigeon.
01:23Hi.
01:24Could we please get a caricature?
01:26Yeah, you can sit.
01:30Do we have to stay really still?
01:32Yeah, you can talk a little bit, not so much.
01:34Okay.
01:36I'll start with you.
01:37Okay.
01:42It's really awkward, isn't it, just sitting here?
01:46So which is the most thing you like in Paris?
01:49This caricature.
01:50No.
01:51Yeah.
01:52I'm lucky.
01:53It's the first fun thing we've done so far.
01:55Ah, nice.
01:57Some of this has been hard, but I feel like we're headed towards a goal.
02:01Yeah.
02:02What's the goal you're headed towards?
02:05With you?
02:06Yeah.
02:07Marriage?
02:08Marriage.
02:09Yeah, eventually.
02:11That's surprising.
02:13I feel like the adjustments of getting to where we are now have been hard,
02:19but I think that, you know, we've got through it.
02:22You know, nothing gets blown out of proportion too bad,
02:25and we always, like, make up pretty quickly.
02:28Yeah.
02:31Like, eventually, what timeline are you looking at?
02:34A year sounds good.
02:36Like, a year until we get engaged or a year until we get married.
02:40Yeah, at least a year until we get married.
02:42Yeah.
02:43Or three.
02:44Or five.
02:45Or ten.
02:47I'm just kidding.
02:48Paris is the best place to propose for someone.
02:51The most romantic place.
02:53Don't be putting any ideas in her head.
02:59I have always wanted to have this nice life of, you know, settling down at some point.
03:05I would marry Statoil if she asked me.
03:08Our love for one another got us this far,
03:11and the problems that we've had, we've worked through it.
03:16I'm not ready to put plans into place.
03:19But, yeah, I would like to get married.
03:23This is the fun part.
03:26This, with you, is the fun part.
03:29And you, as well.
03:30Is it?
03:33Uh-huh.
03:34Is that your French laugh?
03:37Oui.
03:39You know, one of the reasons I do really love you...
03:41Why?
03:42You make me laugh a lot.
03:44Interesting. That's good.
03:46And I feel safe when I'm with you.
03:50Are you proposing?
03:53I'm not proposing, no.
03:56I'm just telling you how I feel.
03:58I love you.
03:59I love you, even though you're making me sit through this drawing.
04:04And I love you more for sitting with me through this drawing.
04:09I like to make you happy.
04:11I know.
04:13I was 100% ready to propose to Dempsey when I visited her the first time.
04:18It's reassuring to hear that Dempsey is excited about marriage.
04:23But it's also a lot to think about because, you know, we are having some speed bumps.
04:29And so I just want to be sure that this is the right move,
04:33and we actually get along when we're together.
04:37Because I want forever love.
04:39Because I want forever love.
04:42And I hope it's with Dempsey.
04:46I ask you to say one, two, three in French.
04:48Okay.
04:49Un, deux, trois.
04:52Holy s**t.
04:54Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no.
04:56That's beautiful. It's so good.
04:59Wow. Wow, those teeth are good.
05:02I appreciate that. Thank you.
05:04I'm going to go crawl in a ditch and f**king kill myself.
05:07That was nice. I appreciate that. Thank you.
05:11That doesn't give me a complex. I don't know what will.
05:14Oh, no.
05:15It's beautiful. It's really nice.
05:19Last night, we go to dinner.
05:21Money, 500.
05:23Here we go again.
05:24She wants to bring up money, this time in front of my brother.
05:28Thank you for ruining Jared's night tonight.
05:38We're going to have dinner.
05:51We'll go enjoy our evening, okay?
05:55So excited.
05:57Is this a grocery store?
05:59What is this market we're going to?
06:02Night market.
06:03Food?
06:04Yes, a lot of food.
06:05Like street food?
06:06Chinese snake?
06:12No snake.
06:14Snack.
06:15Snacks.
06:16Snack.
06:17Snack food.
06:18Snack food.
06:19Yeah, yeah. There's a big difference. Snack and snake.
06:22Oh, snack snake.
06:26Jared, do you think dad and mom worried about just living in China?
06:36Yeah, you know, I think they're a little concerned.
06:39You know, if you've never been to China, I can see where it might be easy to think of it as, you know, different, strange, or unsafe.
06:48But this is super safe. I think there's a misconception.
06:52Well, at least you can bring comfort, you know, you've been here, so that's nice.
06:56Oh, yeah.
06:58Jared, I ask you a question.
07:03Do you think Lily loves Josh?
07:12Yes.
07:14But Josh sometimes thinks Lily is not in love with him.
07:24Last night, we fight.
07:26But why?
07:27First night taking my brother out to China, this is how you want to talk about it?
07:58Let me tell you, last night, we go to dinner.
08:02But Josh always message, always text.
08:09I ask Josh, you text who? Text to who? Then Josh.
08:18No, we were in a restaurant.
08:20I put my phone down.
08:22Very dramatic.
08:28So, some of the day, I don't want to eat dinner.
08:33Actually, the messaging happened before we actually sat down to eat.
08:37I was texting you, mom, dad.
08:39I tried talking to her after, you know, we sat down.
08:42I said, there's a couple of messages.
08:44She ignored me.
08:45I said, here, you want some meat?
08:46And she's ignoring me.
08:47So I said, you know what?
08:48If I'm going to sit here, talk to myself, I'm going to go ahead and continue messaging.
08:52And then she gets up from the table and leaves.
08:55Fifteen minutes goes by.
08:57I found out she's in the car.
08:59She left the restaurant.
09:03You know, it's not normal behavior.
09:05It sounds like she's upset.
09:08Well, she gets upset easily for no reason.
09:15I know you love telling me how much money you spend.
09:18That's all you talk about, money.
09:21Money, money, money.
09:23Hold on.
09:24When we meet, I know you poor people.
09:28You tell me you have no money.
09:31Right?
09:32Yes.
09:33When we meet, when we first meet, but I'm still married with you.
09:40I told you I don't, I don't care money.
09:44The problem, Lili, is I'm not like you.
09:47I don't try living in the past and creating fights or sabotaging a relationship.
09:52What I try to get you to understand is you need to say, okay, you told me what you felt last night was over with.
10:00So you know what?
10:01Let's be happy today.
10:03You like to just focus on the past.
10:08Here we go again.
10:10She wants to bring up money.
10:12No matter how many times I tell her how it makes me feel like a burden, makes me feel worthless.
10:19She's still bringing it up.
10:21And this time in front of my brother.
10:23It is incredibly frustrating and it needs to stop.
10:30You focus on making sure everyone in the world knows you are right all the time.
10:39You always create arguments.
10:41You sabotage our relationship.
10:44You always like this.
10:46Today, he is emotional, but I just want to do your hobby.
10:53See, this is what she does.
10:56It's just always a repeat.
10:58But we can never move forward.
11:03We're stuck in the same situation, the same arguments, the same feelings.
11:08And I wonder, are they ever going to get resolved?
11:13I don't know how much more I can take.
11:17But I do thank you for ruining Jared's night tonight, sweetie.
11:26Next time on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way.
11:29He has a vision for what he wants my nose to look like.
11:34I will be the one who will see that every day.
11:38So let me do it.
11:40I cannot come to an operation tonight.
11:43You will bother us.
11:46Try to help your dad with banana chips. Is that helping us make money? No.
11:49Try a little harder.
11:51I left the United States, came here, all for her.
11:54I feel like it counts for nothing.
11:57Those are the things I'm trying to figure out right now.
11:59And if I can't, then I don't belong here.
12:05Who do I have now?
12:07If you're not here, something happens with Jesse at school.
12:11Right.
12:12It's really just going to be me, I feel like.
12:14If you don't want me to move, then you don't say that.
12:16I feel like it's a lose-lose situation.
12:20He doesn't want to know about how much you're paying.
12:24Because he feels bad that he can't contribute.
12:27I truly believe we can move forward.
12:30Jared's not going to be here with me forever.
12:32I can't live a life of always arguing and living in the past.