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00:00I know that surgery comes with, you know, a set of restrictions,
00:04but I'm shocked.
00:06Like, I have not heard these things before.
00:09Breathe, breathe.
00:107,200 hours, babe.
00:12Oh, my God.
00:13Okay.
00:14You want to cancel?
00:16What if I'm not doing the extreme physical activity,
00:18he's, like, doing all the work?
00:20That's absolutely fine.
00:21Okay, great.
00:22That's fine.
00:23We'll be fine then.
00:24Just don't hit your face,
00:26and don't get your blood pressure too up,
00:28and you'll be okay.
00:29Okay.
00:30Sounds good.
00:32Babe, I almost had a heart attack when she said,
00:35one month.
00:37When I f*****g knew we would put something like this.
00:40What's the blood pressure, baby?
00:41Stop.
00:42Slow down.
00:44We'll figure it out.
00:45Just relax.
00:46Can I please focus on my surgery right now?
00:48I mean, we can go home right now, huh?
00:51You can go home.
00:53Actually, I think you should go home,
00:55and I'll just stay here,
00:57because you're stressing me out at this point.
01:00I know Sarper really wants me to cancel this surgery,
01:03but we're here in the hospital,
01:04and I really want this,
01:06so we are going to find a way around this
01:08no sex for a month thing.
01:10We are not the couple that's going to comply with that one.
01:14Hi there.
01:15Hi.
01:16Good to see you.
01:17Good to see you, too.
01:18Merhaba.
01:19Merhaba.
01:20My team will prepare you,
01:21and I will be waiting downstairs.
01:23Have a good luck.
01:25Bless your hands.
01:26Don't worry.
01:27We will do our best.
01:30Look after my girl.
01:31Oh, don't worry.
01:32Don't worry.
01:33Sorry.
01:34Okay, I'm going to go change.
01:36Okay.
01:37I love you.
01:38Love you, too.
01:43I care Shikaina so much.
01:44I love her.
01:45Any kind of problems she has,
01:47if she's in pain,
01:48if she's vulnerable,
01:50I feel bad.
01:52Look at this.
01:53Last time.
01:54Good for the last time.
01:59If anything happens to my love,
02:01I never can handle it.
02:03After surgery,
02:04any recovery things,
02:05problems,
02:06I will feel that more than her,
02:08and I will be anxious.
02:10I know that.
02:12I will be here,
02:13waiting here,
02:14counting this.
02:15Right now,
02:16our relationship on an eggshell,
02:19and I want to show that I will be always with her,
02:22but I never in my life look after anyone,
02:26so it will be difficult.
02:31Don't be nervous.
02:32Okay.
02:33Everything's going to go good.
02:43So let's just talk about the trip.
02:47Looking back on it now, yes,
02:48I feel bad for keeping the secret from everybody.
02:51So far, Sean's a cool guy.
02:55What did you think, Joey?
02:57Well, Sean.
02:59Oh, God.
03:04Vic's VapoStick
03:15Come on, Jess.
03:17Get yours.
03:18I still have mine over there.
03:20After a week in Ireland,
03:22it is now time for Noelle and the kids to fly home.
03:25I wish they were staying longer
03:28so that we'd have more time to talk
03:30and discuss things as a family.
03:32I definitely hope that this trip would have given more clarity.
03:36We were like, yes, we're in love.
03:38I'm moving to Ireland.
03:39I'm making it home base,
03:41and it's going to be great.
03:42Everybody's going to love it
03:43and be in complete agreement with us,
03:45but it's caused more confusion.
03:48You have the passports, Noelle?
03:50I have the passports, Joanne.
03:52All right, here we go.
04:05So let's just talk about the trip.
04:08I was excited to meet Sean,
04:09but I was like, oh, my God,
04:10we're all staying in the house.
04:11What if I, like, hate him?
04:13Like, I don't really have a good poker face.
04:15Noelle does not sugarcoat things,
04:18and she definitely laid into me when she had me alone.
04:22I'm not going to lie.
04:23I was a little effing hurt.
04:24Yeah, I get it.
04:26You know, and then when you were like,
04:27then you're going to move here,
04:28I was like, that was like a f***ing punch.
04:31What the f*** is going on?
04:33Like, how did I not know?
04:37I understand totally that Noelle was upset.
04:40I would have felt the same exact way,
04:42but right now there's so much emotion coming from the kids
04:46that I just really need her to be my best friend,
04:49be there for me, and help me figure out
04:52what the future looks like.
04:55So far, you know, Sean's a cool guy.
05:00He's a cool guy.
05:01A real shwell guy.
05:04What did you think, Joey?
05:06Well, Sean?
05:08Oh, God, no.
05:10Sean?
05:11Oh, God.
05:12No offense.
05:14Definitely wasn't expecting you guys to be married for two years.
05:20Almost two years.
05:21Two years.
05:22We're going to say two years.
05:24We're just rounding it up.
05:27I mean, I had a week to digest, like,
05:30two years worth of information here.
05:33You know what I mean?
05:35It was a lot.
05:36I apologize.
05:37We didn't take control properly.
05:39Obvious.
05:41Please forgive me.
05:43It was a lot, I know.
05:46Looking back on it now, yes,
05:48I feel bad for keeping the secret from everybody, you know?
05:51I mean, at the same time, I wouldn't change the day that we had.
05:55I would just change the time period that we waited to tell people.
06:00Well, there's so many pieces that I still have to put together in this puzzle.
06:06But in the future, I'll definitely be planning better
06:11and including you in those plans.
06:14Like, I will definitely communicate better.
06:17I hope so.
06:20There was a lot of information to take in.
06:22I wish I was able to spend more one-on-one time with Sean.
06:26I need a little more time to sit on it.
06:29Let's go, guys.
06:31I want to talk to my brother, come to an agreement,
06:34and let her know if me and Jesse are on board with her moving or not.
06:42All right.
06:43All right, guys.
06:44Make sure you text me when you land.
06:46I will.
06:47Okay.
06:48Got it.
06:49Give me a hug.
06:50Bye, Bella.
06:51So nice to meet you.
06:52And you text me as soon as you land.
06:54Bye, Sean.
06:55It was nice to meet you.
06:56Have a safe flight home.
06:57Hope we'll see you sooner than later.
06:59Bye, brother.
07:01It was nice to meet you, bro.
07:03We'll get you back soon without all the stress.
07:05You good?
07:06Oh, Jesse.
07:07Yeah.
07:08All right, call me as soon as you get home.
07:10Well, I want to know as soon as you take off.
07:12I want to know as soon as you land.
07:14And then call me later.
07:16Okay.
07:17Okay?
07:18Yeah.
07:19I love you.
07:20I love you.
07:21All right.
07:22I'll see you later.
07:23It was nice to meet you, yeah?
07:24Get you back soon.
07:26It was nice to meet you.
07:27We'll get you back soon.
07:29I cared for these boys before I even met them.
07:33So the fact that I've hurt them in some way is really weighing on me now at the minute.
07:38Bye, fella.
07:40Bye.
07:41Bye.
07:42Come on, kiddos.
07:43Don't annoy your dad.
07:45He annoys me.
07:48It's easy to dream big with your wife, but the reality is setting in that this might not happen for us.
07:57And then there was three.
07:59Yeah.
08:01I'm going to miss them, guys.
08:03They'll be back.
08:05Yeah, hopefully.
08:07We've reached the point where we need to look into going back.
08:12Maybe you go back.
08:13I stay here.
08:16We do it every night.
08:18Every night.
08:31I would just like to state that you made a couple of small penises.
08:34No, that's eerie.
08:36I know, but it looks like a couple of small penises.
08:40Beautiful.
08:41Beautiful, elegant penises.
08:46After the argument yesterday, Tata's been pretty distant and pretty cold to me.
08:52It feels a little unfair.
08:55I think Tata's in denial right now about our financial situation, and she's trying to look at it as it's all just going to work magically.
09:03That's not how it works.
09:05We have to do something to be able to take care of ourselves here, and we haven't yet.
09:11How many stones you got left?
09:13Not much.
09:15Almost gone.
09:17You know, you've done a really good job at using them all.
09:19Haven't done a good job at selling any of them, though.
09:21Yeah.
09:23We had a jewelry business back in the U.S., and if we could really start selling our jewelry here in Indonesia consistently,
09:29we wouldn't be diving so deep into what's left of our savings.
09:32We have gone to countless stores, but none of them wanted to put it in their stores,
09:39because it would take away from their designs.
09:41We've got a lot of jewelry here, but none of them wanted to put it in their stores,
09:46because it would take away from their designs.
09:48We've got all this beautiful jewelry, but we cannot sell it.
09:53Maybe we can try to sell it online.
09:56We're selling it online already, but all the people that want to buy it are in the U.S.
10:02Can we not ship it to them?
10:05That's expensive.
10:07So what do you think we should do?
10:09It's kind of what I'm trying to figure out.
10:12This wedding has cost a lot of money, and I can't get a job here without speaking the language.
10:20I feel like applying for a job, but most of them are just in the city, not here.
10:28I didn't know you've been applying for jobs.
10:32Before I moved to the U.S., I was a data scientist here in Indonesia.
10:37Over the past few weeks, I've been applying for those positions again.
10:42But most of the offers are in Jakarta.
10:45In Jakarta, it's like nine hours from here by train.
10:49And also, it's really expensive to live in there.
10:54My salary won't be enough to live in there.
10:57Especially, the gym is not working either.
11:02Here, if you were the one working and I wasn't working, society itself would eviscerate me daily.
11:08They would look at me as a failure as a husband.
11:11I mean, it would cause your family to resent me.
11:15Yeah.
11:16At this point, I'm running out of options.
11:22I see what's left in the account.
11:28We've reached the point where we're at the red line of, we need to look into going back.
11:42I don't want to move back to the U.S.
11:50We can't just expect your family to help us pay for everything.
11:54I miss them.
11:56I don't want to leave them again.
11:59And I understand.
12:01Just understand it's not enough.
12:03Because it is so hard living there.
12:07I know it is.
12:09Yeah, because I was so sick.
12:11The doctors don't even know what happened to me.
12:16And now, it's like helping here.
12:18There are good doctors out there, we just haven't found them.
12:22Well, we went to a lot of doctors.
12:24Like, a lot.
12:28And you were mostly working.
12:30It's like when you're working, you just stay at home.
12:36Maybe you go back, I stay here.
12:45We're supposed to be in this together no matter what happens.
12:48Not one of us just offends the other one.
12:52I just can't move back to the U.S.
13:00I feel like this is bullshit.
13:02I feel like we can't figure something out here in Indonesia.
13:06I live in state almost three years and then James not even make it here for three months.
13:12It's not fair.
13:13And I'm not going back.
13:18Next time on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way.
13:21I don't have internet.
13:23You need a plug socket where it goes in the end because it's too wide.
13:27Can you try, please?
13:28I've tried. I know it won't work.
13:31She's putting all that stress on me like it's my fault.
13:34That's on her.
13:35Without internet, no job, no van life.
13:41This is the fried chicken.
13:44This is the fried chicken.
13:46There are two types of fried chicken.
13:49I don't know what to do.
13:52The wedding plan is stressful.
13:54We cannot afford everything that my parents want.
14:01I still have a lot of questions because I know the woman from Vietnam.