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00:00Don't be putting any ideas in her head.
00:05I was 100% ready to propose to Dempsey when I visited her the first time, but we are having
00:11some speed bumps.
00:12I feel safe when I'm with you.
00:13Are you proposing?
00:14I'm not proposing, no.
00:15Let me look at your nose for the last time.
00:23After surgery, I'm not going to be my usual self.
00:26I will be here waiting for you, counting minutes.
00:28I really hope that he can step up because it's going to determine whether or not this
00:34is somebody that I can live the rest of my life with.
00:40Your love languages are switched.
00:42Men usually show their love by buying things.
00:46Josh's love language is just that security.
00:49I hope Josh and I can move past the problems.
00:53Can you buddy-buddy with your dad all I want?
01:06I can try to help him with banana chips, but is that helping us make money?
01:10No.
01:11I know my dad put pressure on us, but James can learn to be a better son-in-law.
01:17I'm going to screw it up and cost him a bunch of money.
01:20I'm going to try a little harder.
01:34Oh my God, we're in France.
01:36It's holy in France.
01:38We're in France.
01:50Oh my God.
01:52What the ****?
01:53I'm pretty sure it's a stink bug.
01:58We've been traveling for almost two weeks through England and France.
02:02We've been to Paris, and we're working our way to Chamonix.
02:11Hey, can you turn that off?
02:14It's messing with the water pressure.
02:17Oh, sorry.
02:19Fast laundry.
02:24It's like a dog treat.
02:26It tastes nice, though.
02:27It tastes a bit like one, too.
02:29I've taken the last two weeks off of work so that I can get comfortable with van life.
02:33But tomorrow, I'm starting work again that's going to take some getting used to.
02:39I really hope the campsite is by a river or a lake.
02:43Me, too.
02:50Do you want the Wi-Fi?
02:51What?
02:52Are you on my personal hotspot?
02:54No.
02:58I don't have internet.
03:00Okay.
03:01So we need to go find internet.
03:03Nothing's working.
03:04It's a good thing.
03:06We need to go find internet.
03:07Nothing's working.
03:09It's my first day back at work, and I don't really have enough cell service to get internet
03:15to have my personal hotspot for my laptop.
03:18Yeah, this has definitely been my biggest fear, is not having internet.
03:25Because without internet, no job, no money, no van life.
03:31If this keeps being an issue, 100% we'll get fired because I'm not coming across as reliable.
03:41She's stressing about work already rather than coming up with a solution.
03:46We just need to have this figured out.
03:48Okay, so we can just pack the van up and move then.
03:50It's not an issue.
03:51We'll go and find somewhere and pack.
03:53I don't think Stella's going to get fired from work.
03:58We have got time to pack the van up and move before she starts work.
04:02If the situation isn't right, figure it out.
04:13And I keep checking your signal.
04:15It's at three, but my internet on my laptop does not seem to be working yet.
04:21I know I have four.
04:23It's connected.
04:25Perfect. What a nice view.
04:27Are you sure this isn't somebody's home?
04:29It says public. You can park anywhere in France.
04:34Yeah?
04:35Yes.
04:36Okay.
04:40Can you try putting this in, please?
04:44I don't think it will fit in any of... You need a plug socket where it goes in the end because it's too wide.
04:50Can you try, please?
04:51Yeah, it won't work.
04:52Can you just try?
04:54I know it won't work. It's too wide. It won't fit.
04:57You need one that goes in the end there.
05:04You're going to have to figure this out now.
05:06Okay.
05:09Oh, it made a list of things that we really need.
05:16So the American charge converter that fits there.
05:19Double A batteries because this is on its way out.
05:23Yeah.
05:24So, yeah, that'd be awesome if you could get that done today so that going forward it's a lot smoother.
05:30Yeah.
05:31Statler's saying that she needs an adapter to plug in her monitor for her laptop and some other things.
05:39She could have tested her adapters out in the last two weeks, but she's waited for the morning that she starts work.
05:48Stupid ****.
05:51She's putting all that stress on me like it's my fault.
05:54That's on her. That's not on me.
05:59Is there any way you can fix the table so I can, like, have my hands not killing me here?
06:06I do feel that it's one thing after another at the moment.
06:13It just doesn't seem to be a concern for you at all.
06:18Yeah, it's a concern, isn't it?
06:20Could you do it later? Like, are you busy?
06:22Yesterday was a hell of a drive. We didn't get here until super late last night.
06:26I just need a minute.
06:28Okay.
06:29I don't feel like I've had a single minute to myself. I'm exhausted today.
06:35So am I.
06:38The agreement that Dempsey and I had going into this is that I would work and bring in the money,
06:43and she would kind of be like a van wife and take care of everything that has to do with the van.
06:49My job shouldn't just be a priority of mine, it should also be a priority of Dempsey's,
06:55because it's what's putting food on the table, it's what's putting gas in the tank.
07:01I'll do it in the next hour.
07:03This is just another thing that makes me wonder, like, is Dempsey all talk?
07:14MUSIC
07:29Shekinah is having a nose surgery.
07:32I'm so nervous, so anxious, because I didn't care anyone as I cared Shekinah,
07:39and I'm going under anesthesia.
07:41What will happen?
07:43I wish I would watch it in the operation room.
07:46At least I know when she's going to awake.
07:51MUSIC
08:09MUSIC
08:23Do you remember me?
08:26Who am I?
08:32Why did you do that to yourself, baby?
08:35For beauty, huh?
08:37You look gorgeous like this, too.
08:39You can stay like this. I still love you.
08:44I will take care of you, OK?
08:46MUSIC
08:57Her state, she is vulnerable.
08:59She's, like, homeless, you know that?
09:02I mean, with no make-up, recovery, surgery, band-aids, casts everywhere.
09:08But I can do it. I'm the perfect nurse.
09:11I will give you juice, OK?
09:15They want you to take a little sugar.
09:17MUSIC
09:25Babe, what I want from you is you will try to stand up.
09:28It's important because of the anesthesia.
09:31Sarper's doing so amazing so far with taking care of me.
09:35Together.
09:36Yes, good girl.
09:41Let's walk a little.
09:42OK.
09:43Seeing this side of him just is a reminder that, you know,
09:47we do have something really special,
09:50and I think that we've come a long way.
09:53I get emotional.
09:55And I'm just proud of him.
09:58One more step, babe. Baby steps, you know?
10:01Like me. I'm making baby steps for you.
10:04What do you say? Small by small?
10:06Small by small.
10:07He's really impressing me, you know?
10:10There's been really hard times, and, you know,
10:13not everything was easy, but he's doing great,
10:18and I'm proud of us.
10:22Recovery is a big process.
10:24This is a good test for our relationship.
10:27But I hope there will be no more surgeries.
10:37So they do want us to have a kid.
10:43It's a terrifying feeling because, for me,
10:46not wanting to have children, I can't see it changing.
10:50I'm not sure if I want to have kids.
10:57♪♪
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11:25Today, we're going to go try the food for the wedding,
11:28and Tata's parents wanted to come along.
11:32It is very common for parents in Indonesia
11:34to be completely controlling the entire wedding.
11:37That's why it's caused so many issues,
11:39is because Tata's dad doesn't care about our budget,
11:41and he kind of looks at it as, you know,
11:43I'm an American, I should have a bunch of money,
11:46and that's just not the way it is.
11:47We can't just be splurging on anything and everything.
12:03This is the fried chicken.
12:06What kind of chicken is this?
12:08This is a chicken with a neck.
12:12If you want to change it to a country chicken,
12:15you can add more.
12:16I don't think we need to add more.
12:18It's better to have two kinds.
12:20People don't like chicken with a neck.
12:25No, just this one.
12:26Just this one, okay?
12:28But it's dry.
12:32The wedding plan is stressful for me right now
12:35because I want the traditional wedding too,
12:38but we cannot afford everything that my parents want.
12:42I have, like, 3,000 family just from my dad's side,
12:46and he want them to be there, and then we don't.
12:50So it's hard to keep everyone happy.
12:55What do you think?
12:56I would eat a plateful of this all day long.
12:59Yeah.
13:00Amazing.
13:01Indonesian people like sambal.
13:03You have to eat it with sambal.
13:04Me?
13:08If you don't like sambal, you have to learn sambal.
13:11You have to learn.
13:24It's not that spicy.
13:27It is a bit embarrassing to have everyone laughing at me,
13:31but here, they do spice different, okay?
13:34When they say spicy, they mean,
13:36oh, you want your tongue to fall out of your mouth.
13:38Okay.
13:40It's worse when it goes down the throat.
13:52That is nasty.
13:53I don't like that at all.
13:54That is nasty.
13:55I don't like that at all.
13:58They seem like they're in a good mood.
14:00Um, I was thinking, do you want to talk about kids
14:06and about not having them?
14:11I know Tata wants me to be honest with her parents
14:14about me not wanting to have children.
14:22I don't even know if I need to.
14:23I mean, I don't see what the point of it is.
14:32It's one of the three promises that I made to her dad,
14:36and in Indonesia, that's a huge thing.
14:38Having kids is basically why you get married.
14:41So it feels like just a recipe for disaster,
14:44but it's something my wife asked me to do,
14:46and I respect her enough to have the conversation.
14:50Let's get it over with.
14:51Uh...