90 Day Fiance S10 E07
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:03I'm gonna show her the house,
00:00:04what little house there is.
00:00:06It's kind of scary.
00:00:07The two most important people in my life,
00:00:09they're not just meeting,
00:00:10they're also gonna be living together.
00:00:12My mom lives here.
00:00:14Clayton's apartment is so small.
00:00:18Things are everywhere and it's really overwhelming.
00:00:21Uh, you...
00:00:23Bye.
00:00:24Bye.
00:00:25I'm not trying to f***ing be with nobody else but you.
00:00:31He's been getting disgusting videos from other women.
00:00:35I just left.
00:00:39She damn near done with me over this.
00:00:42All I could hope for is that she would give me a chance
00:00:44to make it up to her.
00:00:49Men in this region,
00:00:52they f***ing with them.
00:00:54They are.
00:00:55Of course.
00:00:56He would push me down there before he knew.
00:01:10When I think of intimacy with Nikki now,
00:01:13it's hard to forget she's trans.
00:01:19It's like he's leading a double life.
00:01:21Even if Manuel has nothing to hide,
00:01:23he sure is acting like he does.
00:01:41What is this?
00:01:43I have no idea what that is.
00:01:45I have learned to read Gino.
00:01:47I can tell he's guilty as f***.
00:01:50You're a f***ing cheater!
00:01:52No, I'm not!
00:01:53Yes, you are!
00:01:54Yes, you're a f***ing c**t!
00:01:56That's not cheating!
00:01:57You're a d***!
00:02:00I wanna go home.
00:02:02Oh my God, please, I wanna go home.
00:02:23Where's his car?
00:02:29So what happened?
00:02:30She dropped the phone and found
00:02:33some kind of lip balm or something,
00:02:35I don't know, lipstick or lip balm,
00:02:36I think it was lip balm,
00:02:38underneath my seat
00:02:39when she was looking for the phone.
00:02:42But that is,
00:02:43I was never on a date with a girl,
00:02:45I never cheated on Jasmine,
00:02:46I never was with any girl
00:02:48in the three years I was with Jasmine ever.
00:02:53I wanna go home.
00:03:01This has been a crazy a** last couple of hours.
00:03:05Jasmine won't let me explain
00:03:07how that stupid lip gloss got under the seat
00:03:10and how it got there.
00:03:12I was never with any girl.
00:03:14I'm just, like, gonna cry.
00:03:17Please, just buy me a ticket,
00:03:19I wanna go back to Panama, please.
00:03:23Let me go and pick up my dog and my thing, yeah.
00:03:26Okay.
00:03:27Yeah, I don't wanna be with you anymore.
00:03:29It's the best.
00:03:30That's fine, yeah.
00:03:30I didn't cheat on you or anything.
00:03:31You did, you know!
00:03:33Did not.
00:03:33You did!
00:03:34I was never with any girl.
00:03:35You did!
00:03:36Why are you reacting like that, all nervous?
00:03:38I'm not nervous!
00:03:39Just telling you there's no girls in my life,
00:03:42the last three years I was with you,
00:03:44never cheated on you,
00:03:45never been with a girl in my car,
00:03:47never, ever,
00:03:48I would never do that.
00:03:50I'm in love with you, why would I do?
00:03:52I don't feel love.
00:03:54I don't feel love.
00:03:55I'm telling you.
00:03:56I don't feel love, you know.
00:03:57I don't feel love.
00:03:59I don't.
00:04:00I'm telling you, I would never do that to you.
00:04:02I don't feel love, I don't feel love.
00:04:05I don't feel love.
00:04:08Why are you doing this to me?
00:04:10You have to believe me.
00:04:12Why are you doing this to me?
00:04:14You know why?
00:04:16Everyone in my life was always a part of me,
00:04:19why are you doing this to me?
00:04:29I have abandonment issues
00:04:33and everything comes from my dad.
00:04:36He abandoned me when I was three years old
00:04:39and he made sure to let my mom know
00:04:42that he had not interested in being part of my life
00:04:46and that he regretted having me,
00:04:48that I was a huge mistake in his life.
00:04:55He really messed up my mind and the way I see myself
00:04:59because the way I see it is like,
00:05:00if not even my dad can love me,
00:05:04like why any other man would love me?
00:05:07If my dad rejected me,
00:05:09why would any other man on earth want me?
00:05:12If even my dad told me that, I don't love you.
00:05:16And it's hard for me to trust on a man
00:05:20telling me I love you and you're pretty
00:05:23and you deserve love because I never had that.
00:05:27Why wouldn't you love me?
00:05:29Why I deserve that if I have never had it?
00:05:37I'm so cold, I can't not even think.
00:05:41You wanna sit in the car for a second?
00:05:43Huh?
00:05:45Yeah.
00:05:46Come on.
00:05:52I hate this cold, man.
00:05:55I hate every-
00:05:56No, get in.
00:06:08I love you and I wanna be with you.
00:06:10I would never ever cheat on you or be with a girl.
00:06:14How can I know you're telling me the truth, how?
00:06:17Baby-
00:06:18It's hard to trust for me, it's hard.
00:06:20Think about it.
00:06:21Think of all the times you called me on the phone.
00:06:23I was always home.
00:06:25I was never out with anybody.
00:06:29Do you understand?
00:06:31I would never cheat on you.
00:06:32I'd never risk that.
00:06:37I love you.
00:06:40I'm telling you the truth.
00:06:44I love you.
00:06:45I love you.
00:06:46I love you.
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00:07:12I love you.
00:07:13I love you.
00:07:14I love you.
00:07:36I haven't spoken to Rob since I left his apartment yesterday.
00:07:40Because Rob texts me and says, you know, I miss you, which right now it's like, it's
00:07:47difficult because it's like, it is still the same Rob, but it's like I'm just, I'm so upset
00:07:53right now.
00:07:54But I tell him that like he, he can come over and I guess we can, we need, we need to talk.
00:07:59I can't stay at some random house, you know, I've rented forever, like I need to know what
00:08:03I'm doing.
00:08:04So like we need to talk.
00:08:06What's going through your head?
00:08:09Um, it's like, I don't know, like when I, when I saw this message, obviously it's like
00:08:15I feel kind of, not even bad, I mean maybe a bit bad because it's like, you know, it's
00:08:20still Rob.
00:08:21See, so the thing is, I don't want to, I want to do this in person.
00:08:24I don't want to talk, you know, about this over the phone.
00:08:27I'm not going to go there.
00:08:28I'm not going to his house right now.
00:08:30Because it's gross.
00:08:31I don't want to be in that environment, in his dark tiny room.
00:08:34Um, so yeah, he can come here, he can come to me.
00:08:51I need to see his face too.
00:08:52I need to see if he's like being genuine and like how he's really feeling about this right
00:08:57now.
00:08:58And he also needs to listen to me, which I feel like over the phone sometimes, it's just
00:09:00not the best way.
00:09:08I'm trying to figure out how to help her understand me and understand her and just fix this.
00:09:18I don't really know what I'm going to say when I get there.
00:09:21I just know that I have to say something.
00:09:24And it's better be the right thing.
00:09:30Hey.
00:09:31Hey.
00:09:32What's your rose?
00:09:33Favorite color again?
00:09:35It's a nice place?
00:09:36Yeah.
00:09:37Nice as always.
00:09:38You take care.
00:09:39I love you.
00:09:40Okay.
00:09:41I love you.
00:09:42Bye.
00:09:43Bye.
00:09:44Bye.
00:09:45I love you.
00:09:46Bye.
00:09:47Bye.
00:09:48Bye.
00:09:49Bye.
00:09:50Bye.
00:09:51Bye.
00:09:52Bye.
00:09:53Bye.
00:09:54Bye.
00:09:55Bye.
00:09:56Bye.
00:09:57Bye.
00:09:58Bye.
00:09:59Now you sit so close to me.
00:10:01I bet.
00:10:02I sit over here.
00:10:07How was, um, how was your night without me?
00:10:11It definitely helped having space for me.
00:10:14Yeah.
00:10:17Yeah, I imagine it did.
00:10:21I just need you to know that, like,
00:10:23to me, what that is, is just, it's just bullshit online.
00:10:30It's just like, it's like junk mail.
00:10:34What I don't understand is, you did this to me before,
00:10:37and you knew if you did it again, I would leave you.
00:10:40And you know how much you hurt me the first time,
00:10:41so I don't understand why you did it again.
00:10:48I can't erase these messages or videos and shit in my mind,
00:10:52and I just don't think it's fair.
00:10:53Now I'm here by myself, just like, I can't leave,
00:10:56because where am I gonna go?
00:10:58I have no one to talk to, I have no place to go,
00:11:00I don't even have my own house,
00:11:01don't have friends, don't have family,
00:11:02I just have you.
00:11:03And it's like, I feel like you f***ed me over,
00:11:04you don't respect me,
00:11:05and it's like, what do I do now with my life?
00:11:07I've given it up for you,
00:11:08and the one thing that I just wanted from you,
00:11:09not money, not take care of me, not this, that,
00:11:12was literally just loyalty.
00:11:13But someone loyal doesn't do this.
00:11:15They just don't.
00:11:18The person I've been since you touched down in LA is,
00:11:21is a million percent committed.
00:11:24Yes, it's been hard.
00:11:26Trying to be with somebody from another country is hard.
00:11:29It's not easy.
00:11:31If you were in my life all the time,
00:11:32then it would have been easier.
00:11:35I'm not trying to talk to nobody else.
00:11:37I'm not trying to be with nobody else.
00:11:39I know, I'm not.
00:11:40Look, I've never said I think you're cheating in real life.
00:11:43I'm saying what you've done, and I've seen, it has hurt me.
00:11:48I'm not now accusing you of being a real life cheater.
00:11:50I don't think you're out here.
00:11:51No, great for you, but like, come on.
00:11:53Have I not said I'm sorry?
00:11:54It hurt me.
00:11:55Have I not said I'm sorry?
00:11:56Yeah, but not genuinely.
00:11:58Why isn't it genuine?
00:12:00What about it isn't genuine?
00:12:05I know it hurt you.
00:12:06There's no way I can walk you out of being hurt.
00:12:09I know you're hurt, and I am sorry.
00:12:13I don't know how to make you feel better right now.
00:12:16All I know is what I can do,
00:12:17and all I can do is just not do anything like that again.
00:12:25You give me a chance, I will make it up to you,
00:12:27because I am sorry.
00:12:35Is this how you want me to dress for your mom?
00:12:38Like, very conservative?
00:12:39Yeah.
00:12:40My parents are older generation,
00:12:44and the woman in our country wearing some simple.
00:12:48This looks nice, right, sweetie?
00:12:51No, not for me.
00:12:54He's still guarded with me about certain things.
00:13:08Your personal life is private.
00:13:09Like, we are due to be married.
00:13:12Now I'm this lady that his boys have no clue who I am.
00:13:18All they know is that I took their dad away.
00:13:33This is like the bazaar that we went to in Istanbul, right?
00:13:38Yeah, but a small one.
00:13:42Okay.
00:13:49We soon see my family.
00:13:52And I want you for this meeting to wear some more simple clothes.
00:13:58Why are you always trying to have me dress simple? Like...
00:14:02No, only for just this meeting. Okay?
00:14:05Okay.
00:14:07Let's go.
00:14:08Nikki meeting my friends was better than I hoped.
00:14:11But now I'm very nervous because Nikki meeting with my parents tomorrow.
00:14:17They accept Nikki as chance.
00:14:22But my parents, they are older generation,
00:14:25and I don't know how they will feel in person.
00:14:31I can already tell the fashion is going to be very disappointing.
00:14:34Disappointing?
00:14:37No, no, definitely no.
00:14:42Is this how you want me to dress for your mom? Like very conservative?
00:14:46No, it's too much. Maybe this is way too less cut.
00:14:52We need higher cover.
00:14:54Are you trying to say you want me more cover than this?
00:14:58Yeah.
00:15:00The woman in our country wearing some simple and not a lot of makeup.
00:15:06But Nikki, it's a different story.
00:15:09You know what I like to wear.
00:15:11Naked, I know, I know.
00:15:12Naked, sexy. It's called sexy.
00:15:15She has that figure from cartoon.
00:15:18Big butt, thin hips and big boots.
00:15:22So boots go on your feet?
00:15:23Big boots.
00:15:24Boots.
00:15:25Okay.
00:15:26B-O-O-O-T.
00:15:27Okay.
00:15:28Boots.
00:15:29Yeah, boots.
00:15:30Big boobs.
00:15:34Show me what you like.
00:15:37Look, it's pink. You like pink?
00:15:40I like pink, yes.
00:15:41But this Mondoma style pink.
00:15:43Do you know that my grandmother, she has these things on her table?
00:15:48It's like for coffee and teas.
00:15:50Really?
00:15:51Yes. Absolutely not.
00:15:53No, no, no.
00:15:54This looks like...
00:15:56This is the national, okay.
00:15:58Very, very nice. I like it.
00:16:01On Moldovan women, not me.
00:16:04Going into the store, the clothes are very basic.
00:16:08Boring.
00:16:09Conservative.
00:16:11Not my style.
00:16:12I could keep going on and on, but we don't have all that time.
00:16:17Look.
00:16:18No, no, no.
00:16:19Look.
00:16:20No, no, no.
00:16:22I think Justin would be happy with me wearing a straight jacket.
00:16:26I don't know.
00:16:28When he says conservative, I think that's what he means.
00:16:31I don't like any of the clothes here, honey.
00:16:33I have a very special shape body.
00:16:37But the fact that Justin's getting uncomfortable,
00:16:40it makes me think how he's feeling,
00:16:44and maybe I should compromise my style a little bit.
00:16:50This is nice. Very nice.
00:16:52That is actually more my style.
00:16:54I would actually do the blazer.
00:16:56The pink blazer that looks really pretty.
00:16:58I will try.
00:17:01Go change.
00:17:02Okay.
00:17:07How is the size?
00:17:09Let me put on the top right now.
00:17:10I don't rush you.
00:17:15This looks nice, right, sweetie?
00:17:18No, not for me.
00:17:21My fiancé thinks that this is too sexy.
00:17:24Do you think this is too sexy for Moldova?
00:17:26For Moldova.
00:17:43She said it's beautiful, but if you want, you can cover more.
00:17:47Okay.
00:17:48I think I'm okay.
00:17:50I brought some stuff.
00:17:51It's a lot nicer than what you've been seeing.
00:17:53I know this is a little bit revealing.
00:17:55I respect you.
00:17:57Okay.
00:18:00I totally understand and respect my fiancé's wishes,
00:18:04but he's giving me so much anxiety of how to dress.
00:18:13It's very important for Justin to feel the support from his family,
00:18:18but if someone is going to like you,
00:18:21they're just going to like you for who you are on the inside.
00:18:24I can definitely tone it down,
00:18:26but I'm not going to change who I am.
00:18:31I mean, if they're going to judge me for the way I dress
00:18:35or the way I express myself,
00:18:37then maybe we're just not meant to be.
00:18:41I feel on the outside of his family.
00:18:45It's like he purposely is trying to keep me separated.
00:18:49I don't understand.
00:19:11He's still guarded with me about certain things,
00:19:15about family dynamics and all that.
00:19:23Why?
00:19:25Don't tell me you're never going to introduce her.
00:19:27Yes, but since they're going to get married,
00:19:30I don't know if I'm going to introduce her.
00:19:32I don't know if I'm going to introduce her.
00:19:34I don't know if I'm going to introduce her.
00:19:36I don't know if I'm going to introduce her.
00:19:38Yes, but since they're going to get married,
00:19:41it would be a good time to get to know them, right?
00:19:45I feel like the woman on the side...
00:19:47Time will tell.
00:19:49Sometimes I just don't think he thinks about
00:19:51what the shoe looks like on the other foot.
00:19:54Now I'm this lady that his boys have no clue who I am.
00:19:59All they know is that I took their dad away.
00:20:02It's putting me in the ****** position ever, you know?
00:20:06And I don't think he gets that.
00:20:14Because I'm never going to understand.
00:20:37It's like a little stick of phosphorus.
00:20:39You scratch his head and it lights up.
00:20:42My children are still 12 and 14 years old,
00:20:45and I still have to protect them for their well-being.
00:20:48But let's hope that with time, everything changes.
00:20:52He loves you so much that he wants to be a part of your life,
00:20:57leaving a place where he wants to control you.
00:21:03I feel very separated from his dynamics with his family.
00:21:07They are a huge, huge part of his life, which I love, right?
00:21:11That's ****** great.
00:21:13But I feel very separated from that,
00:21:15and oftentimes when I'm like,
00:21:17what's going on, he just, everything's fine, it's away.
00:21:21You feel left out.
00:21:23Yes.
00:21:25For example, last night we were talking,
00:21:28I was like, you don't share big things with me.
00:21:30He goes, well, when I share little things with you,
00:21:32you react in a way that's like this,
00:21:34so why would I share big things?
00:21:36He goes, for example,
00:21:38I have to send $250 to my family at the end of the month.
00:21:42And I was like, what?
00:21:44Where is this even coming from?
00:21:46You're having a conversation with somebody clearly
00:21:48that I'm not privy to.
00:21:54When were you going to talk to me about this?
00:21:56You can't work,
00:21:59so I am being required to do it.
00:22:04So when were you going to have a conversation with me
00:22:07about what it is you were promising others,
00:22:10in my name?
00:22:15I don't think I do any sort of deep,
00:22:17extra aggressive questioning.
00:22:19I think I want to know the same amount of information
00:22:21that anybody else would want to know in a relationship.
00:22:24And I can foresee this
00:22:28being an issue that only gets bigger.
00:22:31Yeah, it's not going to go away.
00:22:33No.
00:22:35Both Ashley and Manuel are playing a role in their issues.
00:22:38Ashley is reactionary at times,
00:22:42and with Latin men,
00:22:44based on some childhood stuff and just cultural stuff
00:22:47where it feels almost like it's the mom
00:22:50coming in and saying, like,
00:22:52I need to know everything you're doing.
00:22:54And the man being like,
00:22:56no, I'm not going to do that.
00:22:58I'm not going to let you in.
00:23:21Your personal life is private.
00:23:24Like, I am your personal life.
00:23:26I am your privacy.
00:23:28We are due to be married.
00:23:31I need to be involved in what's going on.
00:23:34I don't think he's getting that the bad reaction
00:23:36is coming from not being let in.
00:23:38But moving forward, can you give him that reassurance
00:23:41that you will work on that?
00:23:43Yes.
00:23:45Okay.
00:23:47Yeah.
00:23:50No.
00:24:03Okay, awesome. Thank you so much.
00:24:10I'm supposed to be committing my whole self to this human.
00:24:15And I'll be damned if I'm going to take a back seat
00:24:17when you are here for me in my country
00:24:20looking to marry me.
00:24:22I get front seat.
00:24:24He's gotten front seat in my life for years.
00:24:28I want front seat in his.
00:24:41Annaliese's dad has no idea that I even exist.
00:24:47Si tu me presionas, me vaya.
00:24:59Chica, good morning.
00:25:12Surprise!
00:25:18Good morning, honey.
00:25:20Good morning.
00:25:42Generally speaking, me and Annaliese
00:25:44have a pretty healthy sex life.
00:25:46Every time we've been together in Peru,
00:25:48it's been pretty frequent.
00:25:50So the lack of intimacy is a little concerning.
00:25:54I don't generally have self-confidence issues,
00:25:57but it makes me wonder,
00:25:59maybe did I say something?
00:26:01Did I do something?
00:26:03Like, something's different.
00:26:05What is it?
00:26:14OK.
00:26:44You're hair's so pretty.
00:26:46Oh, thank you.
00:27:08You're hair's so pretty.
00:27:10Oh, thank you.
00:27:15¿A dónde me vas a llevar hoy?
00:27:17No, sorpresa.
00:27:19Estoy emocionada por sorpresas.
00:27:21There's few things more classic Kentucky than horses.
00:27:25So for Annaliese's first day in America, in Kentucky,
00:27:30I thought there was no better thing
00:27:32than to take her horseback riding.
00:27:37¿A dónde me vas a llevar hoy?
00:27:39Primero beso.
00:27:41No, dime primero.
00:27:43Dime primero.
00:27:48OK, chiquis.
00:27:50Vamos.
00:27:52No sé cómo se dice,
00:27:54pero el caballo está caminando
00:27:56y tú estás arriba.
00:27:58Montar caballo.
00:28:00Montar caballo.
00:28:02Vamos a montar caballos.
00:28:04Yo pienso que voy a montar los caballos mejor que tú.
00:28:08No estoy de acuerdo.
00:28:10Pienso que yo lo haré mejor,
00:28:12pero mis abuelos tienen caballos.
00:28:15SÃ, pero estamos en el capital de caballos del mundo.
00:28:19Es nuestra moto.
00:28:21Caballero.
00:28:25Siento que me veo como una abuela con mis lentes.
00:28:28No, bebé, eres bella siempre.
00:28:31Mi bonita.
00:28:33Tu abuelita.
00:28:35No, bonita.
00:28:37Aquà estamos.
00:28:42Hola.
00:28:44Hola.
00:28:46Bienvenida.
00:28:48¿Cómo te llamas?
00:28:50Mi nombre es Brittany.
00:28:52Bienvenida, Brittany.
00:28:54Esta es mi hermana.
00:28:56Brooke, bienvenida.
00:28:58Bienvenida.
00:29:00Esta es mi esposa de Perú, Annalie.
00:29:02Bienvenida a nuestra alcazar.
00:29:04Vamos a enseñarte cómo estar con el caballo hoy.
00:29:07OK.
00:29:10No.
00:29:12No, gracias.
00:29:14OK, solo lo manténgase asÃ.
00:29:18Gracias.
00:29:20Los caballos son un poco diferentes
00:29:22de los caballos que podrÃas asociar con Kentucky.
00:29:25Espero que no esté demasiado dormido.
00:29:30Y no he conducido un caballo en casi 15 años,
00:29:33por lo menos ahora no me voy a parecer tan estúpido.
00:29:39SÃ, adelante.
00:29:43Ahà va.
00:29:46Él sabe que estás haciendo negocio.
00:29:49Sigue recto, un poco recto.
00:29:51No, no, no, no, no.
00:29:53Absolutamente no.
00:29:55Absolutamente no.
00:29:57No, no, no.
00:30:00Está intentando mostrarse.
00:30:02Deja de mostrarte.
00:30:04Muestra a alguien más.
00:30:10¿Crees que eres un macho?
00:30:12SÃ, ¿por qué no?
00:30:14Realmente sin comentarios.
00:30:17Oh, es tan bueno.
00:30:19Tan bueno, sin palabras.
00:30:21Sin palabras.
00:30:33Gracias por traerme aquà al campo con los caballos.
00:30:38Estoy feliz de estar contigo.
00:30:40Yeah, siempre.
00:30:42También.
00:30:44Aunque tú pensabas que no cayó a venir.
00:30:47Yeah, good job.
00:30:49Good job for me.
00:30:50Good job for me.
00:30:56Quiero hablar contigo de algo porque estás aquà por fin.
00:31:00Yeah.
00:31:01Yeah, okay.
00:31:02Antes hablamos de cómo no publicas nada de nosotros en como redes sociales por lo general.
00:31:12Pero es por tu familia, por tu papá.
00:31:15Yeah.
00:31:16¿Pero quizás podemos publicar cosas ahora?
00:31:19¿O cuál es el problema en ese momento?
00:31:24Cuando iniciamos una relación con Clayton, es que fue muy pronto todo.
00:31:29Es que, ¿cómo le podÃa decir a mi papá que estoy comprometida cuando eran cuatro dÃas de conocerlo?
00:31:36Ocultarle a mi papá es por una buena razón.
00:31:42Pero luego se salió de control y no pude hacer nada.
00:31:49No lo voy a hacer ahora, más adelante quizás.
00:31:52Porque, okay, si lo publico ahora es como tú eres muy gringo, te ves diferente a un peruano.
00:32:02Entonces, oh, se fue por él.
00:32:06Yeah, eso es...
00:32:08No, porque yo dije otra cosa.
00:32:11No vengo por ti.
00:32:12SÃ, pero ¿en qué momento vas a decir la verdad a tu familia?
00:32:18Tu cultura es diferente a la mÃa.
00:32:20Mi papá tiene un pensamiento como que a la antigua.
00:32:25SÃ, pero tenemos tres meses, noventa dÃas para casarnos.
00:32:29Pero él no va a saber eso, pues.
00:32:31SÃ, pero eso es otra mentira.
00:32:34It's like, okay, imagÃnate en tres meses tú dices, oh, tengo novio.
00:32:40Pero en realidad es esposo.
00:32:42¿Y cuántos meses para decir, oh, tengo esposo?
00:32:44¿Otro año?
00:32:45¿Qué cambia?
00:32:47Es como que te hubiera conocido aquÃ, no antes.
00:32:51Un poco de lógica, pues.
00:32:56Being in this situation is really awkward because I can't change it.
00:32:59I'm not going to go seek him out and try to tell him about us.
00:33:03I'm going to let her do it.
00:33:05But, you know, I'm kind of hurt that after all this time he still doesn't know.
00:33:09And if left to her own devices, she probably would just keep this up potentially forever.
00:33:14Is she hiding some type of secret?
00:33:16I hope not, but I don't know.
00:33:19No me gusta que me presionen porque si tú me presionas es como ya no quiero hacerlo.
00:33:24Pero estoy pidiendo por años, pues.
00:33:28Ya no quiero conversar más de esto.
00:33:30Okay.
00:33:48I had a life before I met you.
00:33:50This is still important to you?
00:33:52No.
00:33:55Like, you have no trust in me whatsoever.
00:33:57No, no, no.
00:34:18Let's work out, Coco.
00:34:20Let's work out.
00:34:34The last days have been very stressful.
00:34:37I've been feeling betrayed after I found the lip gloss.
00:34:43I haven't forgotten about it.
00:34:45It is still super fresh in my mind.
00:34:47It's going to take a while before I forgive him.
00:34:54I have always felt in this relationship, like I'm not quite sure about how much, you know, love me.
00:35:02I was thinking to myself, okay, Jasmine, it might be related to the long distance, you know.
00:35:08Once you're living with him every day, you know, he's going to make you feel like you are his priority.
00:35:16You are the most important person in his life, but I'm not feeling it.
00:35:20It's just getting worse and worse and worse.
00:35:27I'm questioning myself.
00:35:28Did I make the right decision?
00:35:31But, I don't know.
00:35:39I don't know.
00:35:50Gino left to do some errands, so I decided to clean up the house.
00:35:55I kind of have an addiction to cleaning because it really relieves my anxiety and my stress.
00:36:02For me, it is like therapy.
00:36:05But then, I found stuff that made me think that the lip gloss is just the beginning.
00:36:12This shouldn't be around the house.
00:36:16This is from his ex-wife.
00:36:18Gino's 40th birthday.
00:36:20Forte.
00:36:21It's like strong.
00:36:23It's a Portuguese word, I guess.
00:36:25It has the date, and it has a heart with a D-M-G, Denise, his ex-wife.
00:36:31Why is he saving this?
00:36:32So romantic.
00:36:34You know?
00:36:35He saved the napkin.
00:36:39Oh, my gosh.
00:36:40And this is so romantic.
00:36:42Look at this.
00:36:44To the man of my dreams.
00:36:50I love you, baby.
00:36:51You make me so happy, and I'm so lucky to have you.
00:36:55You turn me on in every possible way.
00:36:58Wow, she's lucky.
00:36:59I cannot say this about Gino.
00:37:01Like, look.
00:37:03Sexual positions.
00:37:05Kamasutra.
00:37:07What the heck?
00:37:08Look at all this s***.
00:37:09And we have only practiced one.
00:37:12One position.
00:37:13And these lubricants.
00:37:15Why does he have that?
00:37:17These are not used.
00:37:18They're brand new.
00:37:21He has never tried to learn Spanish.
00:37:24Actually, I found in a notebook, like, he was apparently, I don't know, interested in Spanish.
00:37:32And the only word in here is perras.
00:37:36Bitches.
00:37:37Like, what the heck?
00:37:42Finding all these things from other women, it makes me very concerned to bring my family into this house.
00:37:48It just reaffirmed the fact that I cannot trust on him.
00:37:53When I went through his ex-wife's social media, I screenshotted, like, a picture of her dog.
00:38:02And it's even difficult to tell which one is Coco and which one is her dog.
00:38:08So this is Coco.
00:38:10And this is her dog.
00:38:12They're, like, so alike.
00:38:16He's trying to replace us.
00:38:18Do you feel like we are a replacement?
00:38:21No, Mommy, we're not.
00:38:22We're so unique and special.
00:38:25And you're more beautiful than her.
00:38:28Yes.
00:38:29Thank you, Coco.
00:38:31I'm so glad I brought you.
00:38:32I will be lost without you.
00:38:36I love you too, Mommy.
00:38:37Aw.
00:38:38He's so lovely.
00:38:39Yes, I know.
00:38:41I'm sorry for the trauma.
00:38:42I'm gonna get you dog therapy.
00:38:44I promise.
00:38:46We will both get it.
00:38:47After all this shit.
00:38:48We will both get it.
00:38:49After all this shit.
00:39:10Look at that.
00:39:13Look what I got.
00:39:18I got some wooden steps for Coco so he doesn't have to jump on the bed anymore.
00:39:24I got Coco some clothes too.
00:39:28Cute, right?
00:39:37Things have been really tense between Jasmine and I since she found that lip gloss.
00:39:40But I'm trying to move forward in our relationship.
00:39:43But, you know, at the same time, I'm really worried.
00:39:49I'm still worried about her jealousy issues, to be honest.
00:39:52What do you think?
00:39:54You're always a giver, aren't you?
00:39:57So generous and kind.
00:40:01Sit there.
00:40:03We need to talk.
00:40:06Okay.
00:40:07Okay.
00:40:12What is this?
00:40:16That's exactly my question.
00:40:18Um.
00:40:20Oh, this is just old stuff.
00:40:22And why, what is it doing in our house and why are you keeping it?
00:40:27I'm not keeping it. I probably forgot to throw it out.
00:40:30Forgot?
00:40:31Yeah, I can't find everything in my house.
00:40:33Do you know, you just opened the drawer in the closet and it's there.
00:40:37What drawer?
00:40:39The ones in our bedroom.
00:40:41No.
00:40:43Yeah.
00:40:45There shouldn't be anything in my drawers. No.
00:40:47Okay, you were trying to learn Portuguese.
00:40:51Yeah, but that was for my job when I went to Brazil for the first time.
00:40:55That wasn't any girl involved.
00:40:57I had to learn Portuguese so I was going to be there for six months.
00:41:00And when were you trying to learn Spanish?
00:41:01For me or to communicate with my kids or with my family?
00:41:04No, just because I was going to live in Brazil for my work.
00:41:08Okay, what about this napkin?
00:41:10That's my 40th birthday party.
00:41:13With your initial name and your ex-wife in a heart.
00:41:17So what?
00:41:21I had a life before I met you.
00:41:23Yes, but why are you keeping it?
00:41:25I'm not saving these for anything.
00:41:27I just didn't go through my whole entire f***ing house.
00:41:29And find every corner of my house and look for everything that I had in my past.
00:41:34I'm sorry, I didn't do that.
00:41:36I did not throw out everything that I probably have.
00:41:39So this is still important to you?
00:41:42No.
00:41:52Alright.
00:41:54Did you have fun with that?
00:41:55Did you have fun with that?
00:41:59I really believe that Jasmine's being way too harsh on me and she's, you know, stepping over the line.
00:42:07This is common for people to keep things from their past relationships.
00:42:11I mean, I'm not dating these people now, I'm not seeing them, I'm not cheating on you.
00:42:17There's no reason for you to be pissed off right now about this.
00:42:22Excuse me.
00:42:26Excuse me.
00:42:39This is a very Korean thing.
00:42:41It's shaped.
00:42:42Yes, it's hard.
00:42:44I'm really nervous because I have a big surprise for Devin.
00:42:48Whoa, whoa, whoa, where are you going?
00:42:55I don't know, sometimes I feel like I'm not the girl for you.
00:42:58I'm talking about your makeup.
00:43:00No, I don't feel like you're sexually attracted to me.
00:43:03It's very difficult when I feel the pressure every day about sex.
00:43:08I can't listen to her anymore.
00:43:11I scare you sometimes.
00:43:13That's what it is.
00:43:15You can't handle me, you can't handle me.
00:43:26So cute.
00:43:44I'm very happy we got approval from my parents.
00:43:49So before we go to Seoul, I have a whole day planned for Devin in Seoul.
00:43:53Look at this.
00:43:55Come have a look.
00:43:57This is Korean culture.
00:43:59Do you like them?
00:44:00I do.
00:44:02So we are engaged.
00:44:04I thought it would be very nice to take a photo of us in this costume, you know?
00:44:10I like cute things and this is already pretty.
00:44:18Hanbok is a Korean traditional costume.
00:44:22Oh, look at this.
00:44:24Actually no, this is for prostitute.
00:44:28I'm serious.
00:44:31People used to wear this in daily life and then there is a specific hanbok for wedding.
00:44:37Are you going to wear this?
00:44:38No thanks.
00:44:39Why not?
00:44:40It's going to make my face look very long.
00:44:43It is really exciting to be taking pictures for engagement.
00:44:47Engagement.
00:44:49It's something that I really didn't think we're going to have the opportunity to do at all.
00:44:53So it is really exciting.
00:44:55Look, look how she, how happy she is.
00:45:04Are you ready?
00:45:08Oh, look at you.
00:45:11Is it pretty?
00:45:12Yeah, it suits you.
00:45:13Cute.
00:45:15I'm serious.
00:45:16I love it.
00:45:18The Korean hanbok, they're very unique.
00:45:22When you put it on, you feel like, kind of like a princess.
00:45:26Wow, it's perfect.
00:45:29Like an angel, Korean angel.
00:45:34Alright, it's my turn.
00:45:43Very cute.
00:45:45Are you ready yet?
00:45:47Yup.
00:45:53Oh wow, cute.
00:45:57Look at you.
00:46:00This is how people wore it back in the day.
00:46:03How do I look?
00:46:04Good, you look good.
00:46:05Not too bad?
00:46:06Yeah.
00:46:07So, let's pop out and take some pictures.
00:46:15This is a park, but it used to be a fortress.
00:46:21Wow.
00:46:22So big.
00:46:29So, we do this.
00:46:30Do this?
00:46:31Yeah.
00:46:35This is a very Korean thing.
00:46:36Can you see this shape?
00:46:37Yes.
00:46:38It's hard.
00:46:39Yeah.
00:46:42Kimchi!
00:46:45You're cheesing so hard.
00:46:47Look at you.
00:46:52Okay, let's go then.
00:46:53I have a big surprise for Devin.
00:46:56Look at those house.
00:46:57I like them.
00:46:59When we got engaged and applied for the K1 visa, it wasn't special.
00:47:05So, I'm going to propose to her.
00:47:10You want to take a seat here?
00:47:12Okay.
00:47:15Are you nervous?
00:47:17Yeah, I'm nervous, yes.
00:47:19I'm nervous that I've never done this before.
00:47:22You can sit on my jacket if you want.
00:47:26In Hanbok, there's no pocket.
00:47:29I have to hide the ring in my inner pants, which is really hard to reach.
00:47:34So, I'm in a very chaotic state of mind.
00:47:38I just wanted to say thanks for coming here all the way to Korea.
00:47:44Just for me, I really appreciate it.
00:47:47And I know you've been through a lot for the past couple of days.
00:47:53So...
00:47:56Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, wait.
00:47:58Oh, my God.
00:48:02Will you marry me, Devin?
00:48:04Will you marry me, Devin?
00:48:12Yes, of course I will.
00:48:21I like you?
00:48:22Yes.
00:48:31Hold on.
00:48:34Yeah!
00:48:36This is a very nice surprise.
00:48:39I just don't know what to say. I don't know what to think.
00:48:43I'm just really happy.
00:48:45Kimchi.
00:48:49Happy?
00:48:50Yes.
00:48:52I can't wait to go to the U.S. and actually get married.
00:49:04Woo!
00:49:19Baby, are you ready?
00:49:22Almost. I mean, I got dressed already.
00:49:25We must go. My parents are still waiting.
00:49:28I know, baby. I'm just finishing the hair and then I'm going to throw on my dress.
00:49:32Today I'm meeting Justin's family and I feel nervous.
00:49:39What if they act weird, you know?
00:49:42It's not an easy thing to accept their son falling in love with a trans woman from the U.S., you know?
00:49:51I just hope everything goes smooth.
00:49:55Van. Van. Van.
00:49:59It's you.
00:50:01It's you.
00:50:03How long have you been using that app to learn English?
00:50:07Oh, it's long. Eighteen ninety-two days.
00:50:11Eight hundred and ninety-two?
00:50:13Eight hundred and ninety-two days.
00:50:15Nice. Have they taught you the word horny?
00:50:18Horny?
00:50:20Horny, yes.
00:50:21No.
00:50:22You know, when your peepee gets like this, you know?
00:50:25Does it teach you that?
00:50:27No, maybe not this version.
00:50:31Sometimes when Nikki yells on me, I don't understand what she's saying.
00:50:36I start to earning the English app so I will be ready for anything what Nikki said to me.
00:50:43If it's nasty, I will know now.
00:50:50Honey.
00:50:53Finally, baby, you look more like a regular woman.
00:50:56You like?
00:50:58Does it look presentable for your family?
00:51:05Regardless of Justin telling me to dress modest, I have an open mind and I'm willing to compromise his demands or requests.
00:51:17And I can do conservative as long as it's a sexy conservative.
00:51:25I like how you look now.
00:51:27Really?
00:51:28Yeah.
00:51:29Oh my God, I got a compliment out of you.
00:51:31So sweet.
00:51:40Put the belt on.
00:51:41Yes, yes.
00:51:43Okay, baby.
00:51:45Are you ready to go?
00:51:46I'm nervous.
00:51:47This is an important step.
00:51:48I know, I'm just a little bit nervous.
00:51:54Okay.
00:51:58Okay.
00:52:08Today you look more like a regular woman in our city.
00:52:12And you don't put a lot of makeup.
00:52:15This is a good step for our relationship.
00:52:19Even if I'm still all done up, I still look like a regular woman.
00:52:24Like, that's just who I am.
00:52:27I don't know.
00:52:28I don't know, like, honestly.
00:52:31I don't think, like, I don't know.
00:52:32Sometimes I feel like I'm not the girl for you.
00:52:37I'm talking about your makeup.
00:52:39No, it's not just makeup, it's everything.
00:52:41I notice that the more time that I spend with Justin,
00:52:44sometimes he just doesn't reassure me
00:52:49with the way that I look and making me feel confident.
00:52:52So, yeah, I start feeling insecure.
00:52:56Maybe I feel like I'm not his cup of tea,
00:52:59and maybe he's with me for the wrong reasons,
00:53:02and maybe he thinks that girl's attractive
00:53:04and pays attention to someone else.
00:53:05I don't know.
00:53:06I'm not sure.
00:53:07Maybe he thinks that girl's attractive
00:53:08and pays attention to someone else.
00:53:10I don't know.
00:53:11I'm not him.
00:53:14Honestly, I don't feel like sometimes you're sexually attracted to me.
00:53:17I don't know if it's because of me.
00:53:19I don't know if it's because you're, like, asexual,
00:53:22you're not into anybody.
00:53:23I don't know.
00:53:24I don't know what it is.
00:53:25I can't figure it out.
00:53:26Only you know.
00:53:29This is going from inside,
00:53:31and from head,
00:53:34my attraction to you.
00:53:36When you kill my mind,
00:53:40it's not work.
00:53:41Physically, only physically.
00:53:42It's very hard.
00:53:43All right.
00:53:44From last night,
00:53:45we had an amazing time together.
00:53:47And then, brand new day, right?
00:53:49Yes.
00:53:50You're laying on your back.
00:53:52Yeah.
00:53:53Okay, and I'm just touching your chest.
00:53:55Not sexually.
00:53:57I'm not trying to get you turned on.
00:53:58But your chest is so wild.
00:54:00I'm...
00:54:01I was.
00:54:02I was.
00:54:03I was.
00:54:04Wild, like you eat me.
00:54:05I was.
00:54:06I was touching your chest.
00:54:07I scare you sometimes.
00:54:08I was.
00:54:09Okay.
00:54:10This is why I go and make the breakfast.
00:54:11I was touching your chest.
00:54:12I was touching your chest.
00:54:13You can't handle me.
00:54:15It's pure.
00:54:16It's, like, that's what it is.
00:54:18You can't handle me.
00:54:19You can't handle me.
00:54:20And we're not meant for each other.
00:54:22So we'll just leave it like that.
00:54:25When Nikki said she wants sex,
00:54:28it's always what I'm hearing every day.
00:54:31For me, it's very difficult
00:54:33to make them feel the pressure every day,
00:54:36every time about sex.
00:54:39I can't listen to her yell anymore.
00:54:59Have you decided on beverages?
00:55:00I think we decided on everything.
00:55:02Wonderful.
00:55:03What are we having?
00:55:04So we're going to do a colt at the Gilroy.
00:55:07We're going to do the ceviche,
00:55:08and we're going to do the steak.
00:55:10Wonderful.
00:55:32You and your therapist.
00:55:36Go.
00:55:37But...
00:55:38Go.
00:55:39Don't you think she'll help us?
00:55:41For you, I don't know.
00:55:43If she helps you, fine.
00:55:45But it's for us.
00:55:46I don't want to do it without you.
00:55:47I've always felt good.
00:55:50Don't you want support so you don't have an erection?
00:55:54Support for what?
00:55:55So you don't have an erection.
00:55:58I came to therapy with Ashley.
00:56:00This time I accepted it for Ashley,
00:56:02that she needs it, that we're going,
00:56:04that I don't know what, I don't know how.
00:56:05Going back to therapy.
00:56:09No.
00:56:11You here, the gringos,
00:56:13think that with therapy you can fix things, right?
00:56:18I understand that therapy is not popular
00:56:22in other parts of the world.
00:56:26But it continues on in that way.
00:56:38Oh, God.
00:56:41We left with the counseling session.
00:56:43He spoke a lot, was very vocal, very open to receiving.
00:56:47Now he's saying he doesn't want to go back.
00:56:55He's going to help us with more confidence.
00:57:01Do you trust me?
00:57:03That's the problem.
00:57:04Ah, the problem. That's the problem.
00:57:06That's the problem.
00:57:07If you want confidence, give me confidence.
00:57:09Do you understand?
00:57:11Simple, easy.
00:57:13What's the problem?
00:57:16I'm not liking your attitude right now.
00:57:19I'm not liking your attitude right now.
00:57:22I'm not liking your attitude right now.
00:57:29Talking to a therapist isn't part of my culture.
00:57:34And if you want to not have problems with your husband,
00:57:37we're going to get better, you and me.
00:57:39But talking between the two of us,
00:57:41I don't like a dialogue.
00:57:43But sometimes she doesn't want to listen to me.
00:57:46¿Qué va a pasar si tú y yo tenemos una discutiendo que es muy grande y por dÃas o semanas?
00:57:56Ay, otra vez, y otra vez, y otra vez, y otra vez.
00:58:02You are being a grumpy kiddie.
00:58:09You are being a very grumpy kiddie.
00:58:11Háblame en español.
00:58:12I can literally not wait until we go home and you get in bed and you relax.
00:58:18Because you were at a twelve and I need you at a two.
00:58:20¿Ya?
00:58:21Yes.
00:58:22Tú necesitas una fiesta.
00:58:25Me estresas, Ashley, me estresas, sÃ.
00:58:28La manera que estás hablando conmigo en este momento es sin respeto.
00:58:39Oh, God.
00:58:41We are in the middle of this restaurant and you are acting like you have no sense whatsoever.
00:58:47You do not speak to me like that.
00:58:50A veces yo sentir que cuando tú quieres cosas en tu manera, tú fuerte, mi manera.
00:58:58¿Cómo tú?
00:58:59Porque yo quiero ir a un televisa.
00:59:01Anda, chau, vai, chau, anda.
00:59:05No contar conmigo, basta.
00:59:07Entonces mi opinión no está importante a ti en este tópico.
00:59:11No.
00:59:14Okay.
00:59:16I've had a few moments where I'm wondering if this is the right move.
00:59:20Yeah, I definitely have.
00:59:24We've had bumps over my career and me identifying as a witch.
00:59:28We've had bumps over sending money back.
00:59:30We've had bumps over me spending money.
00:59:32We've had bumps over all sorts of things.
00:59:35I think the reason why we stay in this is because we work so hard for two plus years to give up after 30 days.
00:59:44It just can't happen.
01:00:08Hi, Brandi.
01:00:09I'm nervous about introducing my sister Brandi to Annalie.
01:00:13I was wondering why there's no posting of you on her page.
01:00:18Because of her dad.
01:00:19So her dad doesn't know that you guys are together?
01:00:21No.
01:00:23I don't know what her intentions are with my brother.
01:00:26It is a weird situation.
01:00:28How do I know that she's just not here for a green card?
01:00:34How do I get trust back from you?
01:00:37I spend the rest of my life trying to show you.
01:00:39You said that the first time.
01:00:42The first time Rob online cheated on me, it took over a year for me to trust him again.
01:00:48And obviously we don't have a year this time before we get married.
01:00:51It was wrong and I understand that.
01:00:53It could have been a lot worse, but it wasn't.
01:00:55And it would never ever be that wrong again.
01:01:07You give me a chance, I will make it up to you.
01:01:09Because I am sorry.
01:01:24Okay.
01:01:28My only option is to say, okay, I have nowhere else to go.
01:01:32My only option is to say, okay, I have nowhere else to go.
01:01:35So I'm willing to work through it, but...
01:01:41How do I get trust back from you?
01:01:44I spend the rest of my life trying to show you.
01:01:46You said that the first time.
01:01:51We only have 90 days to get married.
01:01:52So I really only have 90 days to get over it.
01:01:55But, I mean, I'm willing to at least go home with him.
01:01:59To our home, where all my stuff is.
01:02:01And give him at least the time of day to try and make things better with me.
01:02:05Right now, it's not looking like I can trust you again
01:02:09without having to have this toxic relationship where I'm always checking your phone.
01:02:13And it's like privacy evasion.
01:02:15Which I think everyone should have their privacy.
01:02:18But if people take advantage of it, then they lose that.
01:02:23I made a mistake.
01:02:24And I told you that was a lapse in judgement.
01:02:26I'm sorry. And I meant that.
01:02:28I just don't want you to feel like there's just a million other things I'm doing
01:02:31when that is it.
01:02:35The first time Rob online cheated on me,
01:02:38it took just over a year for me to trust him again.
01:02:42And obviously we don't have a year this time before we get married.
01:02:45It just sucks that I have to again go through the hurt that he's caused me
01:02:49and have to learn to trust him again.
01:02:51It's like I wish I would have found out in England.
01:02:53Because I definitely would not have been coming to America right now.
01:02:56But I'm already here and I only have 90 days or else I have to go back.
01:03:00I think I've been slow in the process of transitioning from being single for years
01:03:09to having a girlfriend and the relationship I have being long distance.
01:03:15It's not made it any easier to make all the right decisions at all times.
01:03:21And it's unfortunate that I've slipped up a couple of times.
01:03:26It was wrong, but it...
01:03:30It was wrong and I understand that.
01:03:32It could have been a lot worse, but it wasn't.
01:03:34And it would never ever be that wrong again.
01:03:39Well, I'm starting... I started trying to make it up to you by bringing a rose today.
01:03:44It's first step. I know you like them.
01:03:49And I'll try every day.
01:03:52Thank you for the rose.
01:03:54Smell it.
01:04:00I think that Sophie is considering not crucifying me completely for this
01:04:08and possibly giving me another chance.
01:04:12So that gives me a little bit of hope.
01:04:16Can I scoot closer to you?
01:04:18Can I scoot closer to you?
01:04:20Okay.
01:04:24And I'm begging and I'm hoping and I'm praying that we can get back on track.
01:04:30Don't hate me.
01:04:32I dislike you.
01:04:33Dislike is better than hate.
01:04:36We're getting somewhere.
01:04:48Oh my God.
01:04:59Okay, yeah.
01:05:11Yeah, wrap that.
01:05:25Today I'm introducing my sister Brandi to Annalie.
01:05:29I'm nervous about introducing Annalie to Brandi because Brandi is the only sister.
01:05:34So she's naturally more protective when her brothers have, you know, their girlfriends
01:05:39or she's meeting them for the first time.
01:05:49Wow.
01:05:52Well, she's just overprotective.
01:05:54Wow.
01:05:55That's all I can say, I mean.
01:06:00I wanted to take Annalie bourbon tasting because bourbon in Kentucky is just as big as horses.
01:06:06Those are the two things that come to mind when I think about Kentucky.
01:06:09So this is the other half and plus my sister likes to drink.
01:06:19Whoa.
01:06:21Hello.
01:06:22Hi.
01:06:23Hello.
01:06:24Have a seat.
01:06:25Have a seat.
01:06:26Look at all this set up.
01:06:29You can enjoy your bourbon how you want to.
01:06:31Yeah.
01:06:32I'm hoping that everyone can just have a couple drinks and get loose, get along, get to know
01:06:37each other.
01:06:39So are any of these like nuts per chance?
01:06:42No, so someone here has nuts.
01:06:44Yeah, that's me.
01:06:45That's you.
01:06:46Yeah.
01:06:47Hi.
01:06:48Hello.
01:06:49Hi.
01:06:52Hi Brandy.
01:06:53Hi.
01:06:54Hi.
01:06:55Nice to meet you.
01:06:57Hey.
01:06:58You're so beautiful.
01:07:11Taste of Kentucky.
01:07:12Is it good?
01:07:13Delicious.
01:07:14Good.
01:07:15Cheers.
01:07:16Cheers.
01:07:31What kind of alcohol does she drink at home?
01:07:33Is this weird for her?
01:07:40Tequila, whiskey.
01:07:42Cool.
01:07:44How does she like living?
01:07:45I feel weird like speaking to you but asking questions about her.
01:07:49How does she like living with her mom?
01:08:00It's like a big change.
01:08:03She left her family for me.
01:08:05It's a big change.
01:08:09Yeah.
01:08:12Cute.
01:08:15I know nothing about Annalie.
01:08:18It is weird that I don't know anything about her
01:08:20just because of the fact that me and Clayton are fairly close.
01:08:24Maybe he's not telling me things about her
01:08:27because he thinks I will probably be a bitch
01:08:30if she is just coming here to use my brother.
01:08:37So why haven't you like said anything about her
01:08:40because I literally know nothing about her.
01:08:42Honestly, just you know, being honest,
01:08:44you have typically had like problems with my ex-girlfriends
01:08:48or like girlfriends at the time.
01:08:50So I didn't want to tell you too much about her
01:08:53because I don't want you to have something in your head
01:08:55when you guys meet.
01:08:57Like I was looking on social media
01:09:00and I was wondering why there's no posting of you on her page
01:09:06but she's all over yours.
01:09:13It's a long story but her dad is like,
01:09:17she doesn't want to post things publicly because of her dad.
01:09:21So her dad doesn't know that you guys are together?
01:09:23No.
01:09:26I don't know what her intentions are with my brother.
01:09:29Clayton's last girlfriend, I think she cheated on him.
01:09:32So I'm always going to be on guard for everything.
01:09:36I mean, I have the same question.
01:09:37I'll be on your side for that one.
01:09:39Well, where does he think she is right now?
01:09:42He thinks that she's in America
01:09:44but he thinks that she's here for work.
01:09:48Did you know that?
01:09:50Spit up there.
01:09:52Estoy explicando que tu papá
01:09:54piensa que estás aquà para trabajar.
01:09:57Y aún asà él está muy preocupado
01:09:59si le digo como que la verdad
01:10:01nunca hubiera venido aquà para ti.
01:10:03She said that she's here for work.
01:10:07She said that her dad is like a worrying type person
01:10:12but if he had known...
01:10:14So is she, and she knows.
01:10:17Yeah, I know, but...
01:10:19I know, it doesn't sound good to me either.
01:10:26So, just to be like blunt
01:10:28and just don't want to beat around the bush,
01:10:30like, how do I know that she's just not here for a green card?
01:10:34¿Cómo ella sabe que no estás aquà para una visa solamente?
01:10:41Porque si hubiera querido solamente eso
01:10:45no hubiera sido tan difÃcil dejar a mi familia.
01:10:47She's saying that if that were the case
01:10:49she wouldn't have left her family.
01:10:52I can't imagine her faking something like that
01:10:55for two and a half years.
01:10:57I can.
01:10:59I don't think that she would have left her family
01:11:02I don't think that she would be able to
01:11:04fake something that long.
01:11:06People do all the time.
01:11:13I'm not sure if I'm more hurt or more annoyed.
01:11:16It seemed like she had kind of an attitude to begin with.
01:11:19I don't know where it came from,
01:11:21but it's unfortunate that she's wanting to show this side of her
01:11:24on her first meeting with Annalie.
01:11:27Well, this was fun.
01:11:30You have enough to drink?
01:11:33No.
01:11:38What's the thing that worries you the most?
01:11:40What concerns you?
01:11:42I'm just over it.
01:11:46So is that like a nothing?
01:11:48What answer is that?
01:11:49It's fine. Get married.
01:11:52I'll get coffee.
01:12:00I don't know what to say.
01:12:04I think she's probably pissed at me,
01:12:07and a little bit of me doesn't give a f***.
01:12:12I love my brother,
01:12:13and I do think that maybe he is blinded by love a little bit,
01:12:16and so he is missing some red flags.
01:12:18But I am going to be overprotective,
01:12:20always, even when he's mad.
01:12:24You're not going to know what's going to happen.
01:12:27I think since Gino had a bachelor party already,
01:12:31we should do a girls' night.
01:12:32He has one?
01:12:33They went out to a strip club the day before you came.
01:12:57Hi.
01:12:59I have an appointment.
01:13:00Follow me, please.
01:13:01Okay.
01:13:03I have had so many arguments with Gino,
01:13:06and I've been going through hell and very difficult situations
01:13:10ever since I moved with Gino.
01:13:12So I'm going to do some pampering for myself
01:13:15to take my mind off of Gino,
01:13:17and I'm going to make sure that he's happy.
01:13:20I'm going to make sure that he's happy.
01:13:22I'm going to make sure that he's happy.
01:13:24I'm going to do some pampering for myself
01:13:26to take my mind off of things,
01:13:28and I'm so pissed at Gino
01:13:30that I don't care how much it is going to cost.
01:13:35Hey.
01:13:36Hi, my dear.
01:13:37How are you?
01:13:38Good to see you.
01:13:40So nice to see you again.
01:13:42I'm trying to, you know, having a hard time
01:13:45trying to decide which should I get.
01:13:47They're almost the same, but I like that one.
01:13:49Right?
01:13:50Today I'm going to be meeting Michelle.
01:13:53Honestly, the only family member
01:13:56I actually feel comfortable with.
01:13:59She's not judgmental.
01:14:01She's open to get to know me for who I am.
01:14:04I used to do this with my sisters all the time.
01:14:09But I have you. You saved me.
01:14:11You have me.
01:14:13I am so tired.
01:14:15I bet.
01:14:16Cleaning Gino's house?
01:14:18You know.
01:14:19Yes.
01:14:20He didn't help?
01:14:21No.
01:14:22No, not at all?
01:14:23There were so many empty boxes
01:14:25and dust and places in the house.
01:14:29Like, I can tell you, Michelle,
01:14:31they haven't been touched by any person,
01:14:34human being, in years.
01:14:36Oh, no.
01:14:39How is it going, you know,
01:14:41like being together 24-7?
01:14:45It's not easy.
01:14:46I cannot say, like, it has been perfect.
01:14:48This is the thing.
01:14:49Since I've been cleaning the house
01:14:51and I'm trying to organize everything
01:14:53and I've been opening drawers and that stuff
01:14:57and I have found things.
01:14:59I'm not looking for anything.
01:15:00It's just that it's there.
01:15:01It's there.
01:15:02I have found love letters, pictures.
01:15:06It's not just finding things from the ex-wife.
01:15:09It's what they meant.
01:15:10Because why is he saving these love letters?
01:15:13I think a lot of people do.
01:15:16Dana has stuff.
01:15:18Really?
01:15:19Yeah.
01:15:20Are you okay with it?
01:15:21I am.
01:15:23Oh, my gosh.
01:15:26I am so messed up in my mind
01:15:28because I believe that jealousy is a disease
01:15:31and I suffer from it
01:15:32and I'm trying to battle it
01:15:34because I'm over the top.
01:15:37I think you just need to
01:15:39maybe try to trust him a little bit more
01:15:41and believe in him a little bit more
01:15:44because, like, he loves you.
01:15:47And I think maybe for you,
01:15:49maybe sometimes it's hard for you to accept love.
01:15:53Yeah.
01:15:54And, you know, so maybe you need to work on, like,
01:15:57accepting it and believing it.
01:15:59Right.
01:16:00You know?
01:16:01I don't know.
01:16:02Now I feel bad.
01:16:04I felt for Jasmine today
01:16:05because she just wants to feel secure.
01:16:08She truly left her home to come here
01:16:11and make a life with Gino,
01:16:14and she found upsetting things in his house
01:16:17and he's not communicating openly.
01:16:19And he needs to, like, make her feel safe.
01:16:23I think we should do a girls' night.
01:16:26Oh, my gosh.
01:16:27I would love that.
01:16:28I actually used to do that, you know,
01:16:31once in a month with my friends.
01:16:33I miss them so badly.
01:16:35Like, you guys are together 24-7 at this point.
01:16:38You need a break.
01:16:39Yes.
01:16:40He's my personal driver.
01:16:41He's me.
01:16:42He's cleaner.
01:16:43He's, like, chef.
01:16:44You need to get out and have some fun.
01:16:46Because I need a break.
01:16:47Well, since Gino had a bachelor party already,
01:16:50maybe we should get some girls,
01:16:52have some fun, have some laughs.
01:16:54He had one?
01:16:56He didn't tell you?
01:16:57No, he told me that he was, like,
01:16:59not having a bachelor's party
01:17:01until I came and I was going to organize it.
01:17:07He had it the day before you came.
01:17:12The day before?
01:17:16And what did he do?
01:17:17They went out.
01:17:18OK, but where?
01:17:20To a strip club.
01:17:26I need to understand, how is it, like,
01:17:28the women are touching them,
01:17:30or it's just looking at them dancing,
01:17:32or they are touching them?
01:17:34Do you think a woman touched Gino?
01:17:36It was a bachelor party.
01:17:37I'm sure he got touched.
01:17:39He got touched?
01:17:40I'm sure.
01:17:41Here I am feeling guilty for getting mad at Gino,
01:17:44being very hard on myself,
01:17:46blaming everything on me, like,
01:17:48yes, maybe, you know, I'm too jealous,
01:17:51I have trusting issues,
01:17:52after finding all these things from his exes,
01:17:55but I should have trusted my instinct
01:17:59because I was right.
01:18:02He's in big trouble, Michelle.
01:18:04If he didn't tell you,
01:18:06or he didn't say that he had one,
01:18:08or you told him you couldn't,
01:18:09like, they had, I mean, I can tell you they had one.
01:18:13Gino is keeping secrets from me.
01:18:16I'm trying to keep it cool in front of Michelle,
01:18:19but all I want to do is go home and face Gino.
01:18:28I'm changing my whole life.
01:18:30My friends, my country.
01:18:32This is big shock.
01:18:34I help you much more than this money.
01:18:36I give you much more.
01:18:37I'm passionate.
01:18:38You're a cold.
01:18:43This is a big date for me.
01:18:45I'm very nervous getting you to my parents.
01:18:51This is why I'm feeling not like normal.
01:18:56Try to understand me, please.
01:18:59I'm thinking not only about the sex,
01:19:02I'm thinking about you.
01:19:04I'm thinking about you.
01:19:06I'm thinking about you.
01:19:09I'm thinking not only about the sex in my life.
01:19:13You do it all the time.
01:19:15That's just an excuse.
01:19:18But okay, if that's what you want to say.
01:19:22I feel that Justin has a way of gaslighting me,
01:19:26and making it like, you know,
01:19:28my feelings don't matter, they're not valid.
01:19:31Okay, you're trying to blow my mind,
01:19:34and then try to have sex.
01:19:37No, no, no.
01:19:38My touch, you feel like I'm going to eat you.
01:19:42It's been constant, constant, like,
01:19:45mess things that you say to me to put me down.
01:19:49He really goes there with, like,
01:19:52the what he says to me.
01:19:54You know this, this is who I am.
01:19:56It's never changed.
01:19:57Hungry woman from America.
01:19:59I'm passionate.
01:20:00You're a cold.
01:20:02There's just so much I can hold until I snap.
01:20:08You need a simple woman.
01:20:10I am not her.
01:20:12Okay.
01:20:13I will never be simple.
01:20:15Do you understand this?
01:20:17Okay.
01:20:18Do you understand this?
01:20:19And you need what?
01:20:20Robot s***.
01:20:21Every time.
01:20:28I don't get it.
01:20:29A robot s***?
01:20:31Robot s*** 24 and 7 days.
01:20:33Oh my goodness.
01:20:34I had to.
01:20:35Yeah, so much you have to learn at 36 years old.
01:20:38I'm thinking about this.
01:20:3936 years old and you're still learning.
01:20:41Don't push me, please.
01:20:42Don't push me.
01:20:43Don't push you.
01:20:44I have many things about what I'm thinking.
01:20:46I'm changing my whole life.
01:20:48Yes.
01:20:49My friends.
01:20:50Good.
01:20:51My country.
01:20:52Me too.
01:20:53All of it.
01:20:54This is big shock.
01:20:55Baby, I help you much more than this money.
01:20:57How?
01:20:58I give you much more.
01:20:59How?
01:21:01I think the biggest problem for me and Nikki right now
01:21:06is that Nikki can't live at the moment.
01:21:10She's only thinking about what she did for me,
01:21:14like material stuff.
01:21:16But she forgets about the hard work,
01:21:20how I'm telling my friends, my parents,
01:21:24and when Nikki always, always fighting with me.
01:21:29All the fighting in my head.
01:21:31And this is difficult for me.
01:21:33What have you given me?
01:21:35At this moment.
01:21:36Accepting me?
01:21:39Accepting you.
01:21:40I talk with my friends.
01:21:42I talk with my parents to accept it.
01:21:44It's very hard.
01:21:46Now you come here and stay like a big problem for me.
01:21:50Try to be nice.
01:21:51Perfect.
01:21:52Perfect.
01:21:53I'm leaving.
01:21:59Where's the button inject?
01:22:02Now leaving.
01:22:12Why do you always take everything as a f***ing joke?
01:22:19Because here only with jokes you can survive.
01:22:23Only with jokes.
01:22:24Only with jokes.
01:22:27Life is not easy.
01:22:29I'll meet your family and be sweet and nice.
01:22:33But honestly, if I could go like this and be back at home,
01:22:37I would do it.
01:22:38Like that's how I feel.
01:22:46I literally, I just don't know why he's with me.
01:22:50If he has so many f***ing complaints about everything,
01:22:53then I'm like, am I settling?
01:22:54No, I'm not settling because I'm in love with him.
01:22:56But is he in love with me?
01:22:59I don't know.
01:23:03Sometimes I just feel like so empty inside.
01:23:07Sigh.
01:23:26We just got to Memphis.
01:23:28Walk fast, Nick.
01:23:29Yeah.
01:23:31I know Nick is nervous about meeting my parents.
01:23:35I'm worried.
01:23:36I don't know a lot about them.
01:23:39Well, there they are.
01:23:40You're gonna fail.
01:23:48Me and Annalie haven't had sex since she's arrived.
01:23:52But I'm hoping that tonight that changes.
01:23:55Cheeky, cheeky.
01:24:05This is my stepfather.
01:24:06Hi.
01:24:07Nicole.
01:24:13The last my mother saw Nicole, she didn't know that Nicole is trans.
01:24:18Do we have her blessing to get married?
01:24:28I'm just, I'm tired of being disappointed.
01:24:31I'm tired.
01:24:32I'm tired of being rejected.
01:24:37Ooh.
01:24:38This is so nice.
01:24:40He thinks that like romanticness equals something expensive.
01:24:43Just be nicer to me.
01:24:44It's not really that difficult.
01:24:45I'm still gonna check your phone to like trust you.
01:24:47Every time that you think about my mistakes from the past,
01:24:51remind yourself about our potential future.
01:24:53Like you can't just like act like nothing happened, you know?
01:25:03True.
01:25:10I'm having revelations in real time how much his family depends on him.
01:25:22I would love to know what you did the day before I arrived.
01:25:29Whoa!
01:25:31You act like I cheated on you or something.
01:25:33That's the way it feels!
01:25:36I'm not gonna do anything with this man.