90 Day Fiance S10 E04
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:03Hi.
00:00:04Come on.
00:00:05Good job, good job.
00:00:07This trip is important because I want to feel that I'm making the right choice.
00:00:12Giving a second chance at love.
00:00:14I think we do our plans at the day, not at the night time.
00:00:19Are you scared that they're going to be able to tell I used to be a man?
00:00:23Kind of.
00:00:24You look like a porn actress.
00:00:27Okay, well that's better than a man or a trans or a trans woman.
00:00:35You're my priority, so I quit my job.
00:00:39If I'd known that Gino was going to quit his job, I would have never had this plastic surgery.
00:00:46Baby, you spent $10,000 on what implant?
00:00:49Well, you quit your job without telling me.
00:00:52This is exactly the kind of s*** that I'm worried about with you.
00:00:55You're spending s*** money on unnecessary s***.
00:00:58You need this s*** money, okay?
00:01:07That makes me sad.
00:01:09Manuel's mom has been thinking that he is out working in Guayaquil,
00:01:13when in reality, he's been in the States with me.
00:01:17My kids would never leave me without telling me goodbye.
00:01:20You didn't say goodbye in your life.
00:01:22I'm going to be questioning some things about him.
00:01:24He says he's in for the long haul, but can I trust that as being mama?
00:01:32Are you all in my phone?
00:01:34Who is that?
00:01:35I don't know.
00:01:37I would describe myself as a very jealous person.
00:01:40Like, I'm very honest about it. I know I'm jealous.
00:01:43But at the same time, it's like Rob hasn't necessarily been the most loyal fiancé.
00:01:48We only have 90 days to decide if we're going to be together, if this is like it.
00:01:52Every time you try to act like that was cheating,
00:01:54that's bulls*** because I haven't ever cheated on you.
00:02:18Coco.
00:02:20Coco.
00:02:22Where is my mami?
00:02:24Oh my gosh, now you know how to do it.
00:02:30Last night after we got home from the massage,
00:02:34Gino was like, he was like,
00:02:36I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry.
00:02:38I'm so sorry.
00:02:39I'm so sorry.
00:02:40I'm so sorry.
00:02:41I'm so sorry.
00:02:42I'm so sorry.
00:02:43I'm so sorry.
00:02:44I'm so sorry.
00:02:45I'm so sorry.
00:02:46Oh my gosh, Gino barely spoken to me.
00:02:49And he has been giving me the cold treatment.
00:02:51I know that he's mad.
00:02:53He's disappointed because he told me that I am selfish.
00:02:59Coco, do you miss Bonomo and your aunties?
00:03:04You're going to call home, okay?
00:03:05And maybe he's right.
00:03:07What I did was very selfish on my part.
00:03:10But it's done.
00:03:16I'm really disappointed and angry with Jasmine right now.
00:03:20I sent her $4,000 to buy a wedding dress.
00:03:24And she comes back and tells me she got butt implants
00:03:27with the money I sent her.
00:03:32I feel really betrayed by Jasmine.
00:03:36To me, she's like thinking of herself.
00:03:38And the wedding doesn't matter to her.
00:03:41And she lied to me about it.
00:03:43What else is she lying to me about?
00:04:14Yeah.
00:04:29This first week here in Michigan has been very tough.
00:04:32It just feels like a mess.
00:04:34It has been one bad new after the other.
00:04:37But meanwhile, I'm freaking out because I might not be able
00:04:41to bring my kids to the United States
00:04:43because I am not working.
00:04:45So I cannot be the sponsor for my kids.
00:04:48It needs to be Gino because the only income
00:04:51that we were going to have was his job.
00:04:54But now that is gone because he thought
00:04:56that it was going to be a good idea just to spend time with me.
00:05:11Yes.
00:05:41Yeah.
00:05:43Wow.
00:05:45¿En qué te metiste?
00:05:47SĂ.
00:06:11One of the things that I feel the most guilty about
00:06:13is me accepting $2,000 from my ex, Dan, as a loan.
00:06:18That then became a gift to get my bad implant.
00:06:22Gino doesn't like Dan, doesn't trust on him,
00:06:26doesn't want him close to me as a friend or anything.
00:06:31I have good news.
00:06:32Tell me.
00:06:33I just moved into your birthday home.
00:06:37Fantastic.
00:06:38I'm excited we're going to be neighbors.
00:06:41Out of all the buildings in freaking Panama,
00:06:43you got to pick the one that your ex is in.
00:06:46You're acting like I'm cheating on you.
00:06:48Are you?
00:06:51I'm out of here.
00:06:54Right there, bitch.
00:06:57Whore.
00:07:01When Gino learned that I still have a friendship with Dan,
00:07:05he completely disagreed with it and asked me to cut it
00:07:09because he sees him as competition.
00:07:12But in reality, there is nothing to worry about.
00:07:15Honestly, I see Dan as a brother.
00:07:18You know, he's always willing to help.
00:07:21I want to be honest, but I'm not stupid.
00:07:24If I tell him right now
00:07:26that Dan contributed to my bad implant surgery,
00:07:30we are going to have big problems.
00:07:35I want to be honest, but I'm not stupid.
00:07:38If I tell him right now
00:07:40that Dan contributed to my bad implant surgery,
00:07:43we are going to have big problems.
00:07:46I will eventually tell Gino, but not now.
00:07:53Bitches.
00:08:17I feel like Loki, your sister, makes me a bit nervous.
00:08:19Why? It's not like you've done anything
00:08:21for her to want to fight you or anything, so...
00:08:23Yeah.
00:08:24We should be good.
00:08:25Sophie arrived to the U.S. a couple days ago,
00:08:28and it's been pretty up and down.
00:08:30We've had huge things about online cheating
00:08:33and just bickering and fighting about stupid stuff,
00:08:37but I don't want to dwell on that negative stuff.
00:08:40We got a long journey in this process,
00:08:42so I'm trying to keep things positive,
00:08:44and tonight we're going to meet up with my sister, Victoria.
00:08:46Anything I should talk to her about or shouldn't
00:08:49that will, like, help the conversation?
00:08:51I mean, be positive.
00:08:53Talk about maybe you can't wait to meet the rest of the family,
00:08:56you know, things like that.
00:08:58Don't act shy. Just act like you...
00:09:01You're going to say, don't act shy.
00:09:03Don't act shy. Like, just try to be open.
00:09:05Try to be honest, you know?
00:09:07Sophie's only met Victoria two times.
00:09:11They really haven't gotten to know each other very well,
00:09:13but I think Victoria thinks she's a really sweet girl.
00:09:15She thinks that she's genuine.
00:09:17Victoria's a party planner,
00:09:19and she's actually offered to plan our wedding for us.
00:09:22So whatever she thinks of Sophie can't be that bad.
00:09:25All right, so when you meet Victoria,
00:09:27don't make eye contact immediately.
00:09:29She can get pretty aggressive.
00:09:31Are you being serious?
00:09:33Yeah.
00:09:34Actually...
00:09:35Huh?
00:09:36Are you being serious?
00:09:37Nah.
00:09:39I'm very nervous to meet Rob's sister
00:09:41just because I haven't really seen her in a while.
00:09:44And it's like, now she'll talk to me
00:09:46not just as Rob's girlfriend.
00:09:48She's going to talk to me as, you know,
00:09:49someone that's going to marry her brother.
00:09:51So I don't know if she's going to judge me
00:09:53or if she's going to try to grill me,
00:09:54but, yeah, I'm a bit nervous.
00:09:59Hi!
00:10:00Hey, yo.
00:10:01How are you guys?
00:10:02How you doing?
00:10:03Well, you're fine. I don't want to thank you.
00:10:05Hi, everyone!
00:10:06How are you?
00:10:07I'm good.
00:10:08You're finally here!
00:10:10I know, it's crazy.
00:10:11I'm so excited!
00:10:13I'm so excited for you.
00:10:15Are you, like, so happy to be here?
00:10:17Yeah, it's actually crazy.
00:10:18It's been so long.
00:10:20How is it having her here?
00:10:21Like, finally here?
00:10:23I'm very relieved that she's here,
00:10:24but, like, now we have so much other stuff to figure out
00:10:27and we're also not going to wait until the last day, so...
00:10:30Oh, you're doing it sooner?
00:10:31Yeah, I mean, we're not going to wait
00:10:32until the last day of...
00:10:33Bro, you're not even in my calendar yet.
00:10:35You got to talk to her about that.
00:10:37I feel like I don't want to do
00:10:38just, like, a basic courthouse thing.
00:10:39Like, I want to do, obviously,
00:10:40not, like, the huge ceremony,
00:10:41but, like, definitely something,
00:10:42because it's still, like, you know,
00:10:44official kind of, like, getting married.
00:10:46Yeah, like, I want to make it special,
00:10:48you know what I mean?
00:10:49Even though it's, like,
00:10:50there's time and there's pressure,
00:10:51like, it doesn't have to be, like, feel rushed.
00:10:54That makes it a lot more, like, stressful,
00:10:56to be honest, but, like, it would also be nice.
00:10:58Like, I'd rather look back and say I had a nice,
00:11:00you know, wedding rather than just a rushed one.
00:11:03On the flip side, though,
00:11:04it can be a nice distraction
00:11:06from not being able to go anywhere
00:11:08and, like, do stuff at home,
00:11:09you know what I mean?
00:11:10Like, we could work on that together,
00:11:12and, like, it might be,
00:11:13it might help you mentally,
00:11:14because you'll, like, have something to work on.
00:11:16Yeah, by the time we're in month three,
00:11:18you might be bored to death.
00:11:19She won't be, because she'll be planning a wedding.
00:11:22There you go.
00:11:23Are you ready to get married?
00:11:25I mean, it's...
00:11:26There's pressure, and there's, like,
00:11:27there's no pressure, and there is, like,
00:11:29a ton of pressure, you know what I mean?
00:11:30Yeah.
00:11:31Obviously, because of the countdown,
00:11:32that's why, because it's not like,
00:11:33you know, we'll have more time.
00:11:34We don't have more time.
00:11:35If we're not ready within 90 days,
00:11:36it's, like, that's it.
00:11:37Like, I have to leave if we're not ready.
00:11:39So it's, like, there's more pressure for, like,
00:11:41for me than Rob.
00:11:42But, yeah, I mean, I think we're ready, though, I feel like.
00:11:45That's good. That's good.
00:11:46Yeah.
00:11:47Have you guys thought about kids?
00:11:51Yeah, we want to have kids.
00:11:52Are they in the plan?
00:11:53We want to have kids, like, one day.
00:11:55Okay.
00:11:56Yeah.
00:11:57When do you want to have kids?
00:11:58Like, we haven't really had, like,
00:11:59this conversation, obviously.
00:12:01Wait, you guys are going to get married
00:12:02and you haven't had this conversation?
00:12:06I mean, I feel like we've touched base on it,
00:12:08like, in general.
00:12:09Well, that's kind of you.
00:12:10We'll have kids in the future.
00:12:14Like, to be honest, like,
00:12:16I don't think I actually want to be pregnant.
00:12:26What does that even mean?
00:12:28I don't want to be pregnant.
00:12:31So you don't want to have kids?
00:12:36If I don't ever want kids,
00:12:38is that a problem with you?
00:12:39Because right now, where my head's at,
00:12:41that's the case, if I'm being honest with you.
00:12:48Is that, like, a problem for you, or...?
00:12:55Yeah.
00:12:57Yeah.
00:13:02I mean, we both thought we was on the same page.
00:13:06That's the problem,
00:13:07is you guys never had this conversation.
00:13:10There was a lot of assuming and thinking,
00:13:14but nobody talked.
00:13:25I don't really know how I'm doing right now.
00:13:28I kind of just, I feel like,
00:13:33yeah, I just don't, I don't really, I have no idea.
00:13:36I don't know how I'm doing right now.
00:13:39Sophie just rocked my entire belief
00:13:42in her and what we can have.
00:13:45And it's like, what else?
00:13:47What's the next thing that you're going to tell me
00:13:49that you really don't want or you really don't care about?
00:13:53I don't want it to just be me and Sophie forever.
00:13:55Like, I really saw there being more to that.
00:14:06And I really put my heart into that.
00:14:13Oh!
00:14:14This practice is so comfortable.
00:14:17Yeah.
00:14:18Being intimate is a very big part
00:14:22of making our relationship work.
00:14:24And sometimes I just feel like he doesn't even try.
00:14:27Are you going to give me a shower?
00:14:29Or what?
00:14:30I don't know.
00:14:32You sit here and act like an asshole
00:14:34when I get you a brand new cell phone
00:14:36and you tell me essentially to kick rocks
00:14:38because it wasn't early enough.
00:14:40No grites.
00:14:41Not to be a butt face,
00:14:42but I really don't have space for stupid conversations.
00:14:45You want respect, you give respect.
00:14:47That's how this works here.
00:14:55Yeah!
00:15:06Now my lips look like your lips.
00:15:08That color looks good on you.
00:15:10No.
00:15:22Where is this guy?
00:15:25There you are.
00:15:27There you are.
00:15:28Come on, honey.
00:15:29I want to go check out your place.
00:15:32And I think this...
00:15:34So, do I look too out there over the top?
00:15:39Or do I look super hot and you're like,
00:15:42wow, this is my woman?
00:15:45Wow, this is my woman.
00:15:46You like come from some movie.
00:15:49Maybe cartoon?
00:15:50Not a cartoon.
00:15:51Okay, movie, movie.
00:15:52Probably like a James Bond movie.
00:15:53Okay, movie, yes.
00:15:54Stop pushing my buttons.
00:15:57Come in, baby.
00:16:00You know, I still can't find your button with G letter.
00:16:07What is that?
00:16:08G button.
00:16:09What's the G button?
00:16:10Okay, this is Russian humor.
00:16:12Are you talking about G-spot?
00:16:15Oh my God, I can't.
00:16:19Our special adventure starts with my new carpet.
00:16:23I want you to make first step in our happiness.
00:16:30Okay.
00:16:32Step and welcome.
00:16:38Here the lighting.
00:16:42Cute.
00:16:48So, this is the bathroom that you were working.
00:16:54So, money is a thing between us.
00:16:56I did agree I would help him.
00:16:58Before this trip, he asked to borrow some money to fix the bathroom.
00:17:03And I sent it to him.
00:17:05And I see that it went in, you know, the money went for good things because he did repair the bathroom.
00:17:11And I'm happy because it actually shows that he cared to make me feel more comfortable while I'm staying with him.
00:17:19Here, we can make the shower.
00:17:21Okay.
00:17:22We have to close this.
00:17:23And you fixed the water pressure, right?
00:17:25Yes, now it's good.
00:17:27Like this.
00:17:28Perfect.
00:17:29Okay.
00:17:30What else? Show me the kitchen.
00:17:32Yes, here, like in your apartment, I have rules of apartments.
00:17:38Love each other and support each other.
00:17:41Very good.
00:17:42Yeah.
00:17:43So, that's why we're meant to be together.
00:17:45Because we have the same values.
00:17:47Let's go, I'll show you another place.
00:17:51We can go here.
00:17:55And this is my bed.
00:17:57This is my bed?
00:17:58And our bed.
00:17:59Okay, it's our bed now.
00:18:01You can put the light on.
00:18:04Cute.
00:18:05Yeah.
00:18:07All right, I'm gonna unpack.
00:18:09I just need to take a break.
00:18:11By the way, this bed feels so comfortable.
00:18:14I love it.
00:18:15Yeah?
00:18:18It's nice.
00:18:21Being that I'm in an overseas relationship, there's just so much you can do for someone.
00:18:26You can help them financially, you can support them on the phone.
00:18:29But then there's the other elements of a relationship when you're together finally.
00:18:33Let's go.
00:18:34Being intimate is a very big part of making our relationship work too.
00:18:41And sometimes I just feel like he doesn't even try.
00:18:46I think you can put your clothes.
00:18:50If you're truly in love with somebody, you prove your love, you make love to the person.
00:18:55That's just always been forever that.
00:18:58It makes me feel rejected, and that's a problem for me.
00:19:02And this is why I'm here.
00:19:06Gonna give me a shower?
00:19:07Or what?
00:19:09Are you gonna shower me?
00:19:13I don't know.
00:19:25I don't know.
00:19:37Ma'am, what are you doing?
00:19:39You're gonna set the house on fire.
00:19:40What's wrong with you?
00:19:42Can't you feel the energy?
00:19:44What energy?
00:19:46I'm smoking for your body.
00:19:52Because it's good for cleaning your energy.
00:19:58Look at yourself.
00:19:59Look at yourself.
00:20:00You're gonna die.
00:20:01You're gonna die.
00:20:02You're doing witchcraft.
00:20:03Yeah, exactly.
00:20:04Watch out for this witch.
00:20:06I was like, the firemen are coming now.
00:20:09But yeah.
00:20:11For the experience, it's good.
00:20:13Yeah, it's good.
00:20:14It's on now.
00:20:17Open the windows, Berlis.
00:20:22What's wrong with you?
00:20:24Open those windows.
00:20:26Please.
00:20:40What is...
00:20:42Is the volume low?
00:20:43Yes, everyone, please.
00:20:46So?
00:20:50So what?
00:20:52Are we going out somewhere?
00:20:53Do you have something to tell me, Manuel?
00:20:55Me?
00:20:56You know I don't tell you anything.
00:21:12So I call up my cell phone company,
00:21:14and I'm like, hey, let's get an estimate
00:21:16of how much it's gonna be to get him a new phone.
00:21:18They're like, it's not even gonna be this much.
00:21:20We'll do, like, free two-day express shipping.
00:21:23We're waiving the activation fee.
00:21:24All these things.
00:21:25I'm like, yes, that's amazing.
00:21:26That's amazing.
00:21:27Let's do it.
00:21:28Order the phone.
00:21:29I tell him, and he goes,
00:21:33that's not early enough.
00:21:35I need internet.
00:21:36And I was like, okay, so what?
00:21:38Do you want me to cancel it?
00:21:39Yeah.
00:21:40Then just walks away.
00:21:42I deserve an apology.
00:22:11You want internet specifically on your phone?
00:22:14My question is why you need internet so bad.
00:22:17I've got an iPhone.
00:22:18I've got an iPad.
00:22:19I've got a computer.
00:22:20The whole house runs on internet.
00:22:22Whoever you need to talk to for these next two days
00:22:24while waiting for your phone, you could talk to.
00:22:27Manuel, I'm not asking you to talk to me.
00:22:29I'm asking you to talk to me.
00:22:31I'm not asking you to talk to me.
00:22:33I'm not asking you to talk to me.
00:22:35I'm not asking you to talk to me.
00:22:37I'm asking you to talk to me.
00:22:39Manuel, yo tengo internet.
00:22:41No grites.
00:22:42Yo tengo internet.
00:22:44Quiero internet en mi teléfono, en mi teléfono.
00:22:45Manuel.
00:22:46No quiero tu teléfono, no quiero tu teléfono.
00:22:47Manuel, dos dĂas.
00:22:49Dos dĂas.
00:22:50Hay muchas maneras tĂș puedes hablar con la gente de Ecuador.
00:22:53Oh, en serio, verdad?
00:22:58Ahorita extraño a mi familia y quiero estar con ellos,
00:23:00pero no puedo.
00:23:01Porque si estuvieran una hora o dos horas de aquĂ,
00:23:03yo me fuera a verlos.
00:23:04Pero no puedo, realmente.
00:23:06Necesito mi privacidad.
00:23:08No quiero preguntarle a ella por el celular de ella.
00:23:13Podemos intentarlo, poner un chip nuevo aquĂ en este.
00:23:16This is ridiculous.
00:23:17Yo creo que sĂ vale.
00:23:18Intentemos comprar un chip, le ponemos a eso,
00:23:20a ver si funciona.
00:23:22ÂżDĂłnde vamos a conseguir un chip, Manuel?
00:23:24Es tu ciudad, bĂșscame dĂłnde.
00:23:26Exactamente, eso es porque conseguir un celular nuevo.
00:23:29Escucha.
00:23:30Es un teléfono de Ecuador.
00:23:32¿Tu teléfono cómo funciona en Ecuador?
00:23:34Manuel.
00:23:35ÂżEs internacional?
00:23:37Esta es la conversaciĂłn mĂĄs estĂșpida que he tenido.
00:23:42Siento que estoy perdiendo los células del cerebro.
00:23:48Manuel, ¿qué es tu problema?
00:23:50Yo comprarte un celular nuevo.
00:23:52¿Qué es tu problema?
00:23:53¿El problema qué?
00:23:54SĂ, el celular yo regalarte.
00:23:56SĂ, el celular yo comprar con mi dinero.
00:23:58TĂș no trabajar.
00:23:59Eso es lo que uno quiere.
00:24:00Manuel, no estaba diciendo.
00:24:01Eso lo dijiste, me gritaste.
00:24:02Manuel, Manuel.
00:24:03SĂ, joderte.
00:24:04Eso fue absolutamente ridĂculo.
00:24:05Eso fue absolutamente ridĂculo.
00:24:06Te sientas aquĂ y actĂșas como una mierda
00:24:08cuando te traigo un celular nuevo
00:24:10y me dices que esencialmente te golpea las rocas
00:24:12porque no era tarde suficiente.
00:24:13AsĂ que sĂ, eso no era agradable para ti decir.
00:24:15Quieres respeto, le das respeto.
00:24:17AsĂ es como funciona aquĂ.
00:24:34Ella solamente explotĂł
00:24:38porque ya los genes de ella es asĂ.
00:24:41No estamos meditando.
00:24:44No estoy compartiendo espacio espiritual con ti
00:24:46con tu actitude malvada.
00:24:48Eso es seguro.
00:24:50Ok.
00:24:51Ok.
00:24:52Ok.
00:24:58Me voy a ir con mi hermana.
00:25:01Creciendo los dolores, como en los esteroides.
00:25:03Nosotros nos conocemos
00:25:05y estamos luchando por algunas patas duras.
00:25:07AdiĂłs, Yazik.
00:25:08AdiĂłs, Manuel.
00:25:10¿Qué?
00:25:11Es ridĂculo.
00:25:14Estoy hecha.
00:25:15Estoy hecha con esta conversaciĂłn.
00:25:16Y no para ser una cara de culo,
00:25:19pero realmente no tengo espacio
00:25:20para conversaciones estĂșpidas.
00:25:22âȘ
00:25:35Cuando conocĂ a Devin,
00:25:36pensé que era una amenaza.
00:25:39Ella es la primera chica blanca que me casé,
00:25:41pero en Corea necesitamos permisiĂłn
00:25:44los padres antes de que me casara.
00:25:47Estoy nervioso.
00:25:49Si Devin explota,
00:25:51My family won't let me go to U.S.
00:25:54And it's gonna destroy my whole life.
00:25:57âȘâȘ
00:25:59I don't know what the **** I'm gonna do with my life
00:26:01if I don't ever have kids.
00:26:04Even Jay-Z and Beyonce got kids.
00:26:06It's like, if I wanted to not have kids,
00:26:08I'd probably be a player forever.
00:26:10Babe.
00:26:11Just leave me alone for a little bit.
00:26:13âȘâȘ
00:26:21âȘâȘ
00:26:31Hi, I'm Nick. I'm 31 years old.
00:26:34âȘâȘ
00:26:37I was born and raised in Korea.
00:26:40And I was in Australia for about 60 years,
00:26:44working and learning English there.
00:26:47So I got a Korean-Australian accent.
00:26:51It sometimes sounds stupid.
00:26:53How are you, mate?
00:26:55How's it going, mate?
00:26:56Do you want some brekkie with avo?
00:27:00Something like this.
00:27:02âȘâȘ
00:27:05Most of people who know me would describe me
00:27:08as a kind of mixed everything.
00:27:12I'm an electrical engineer by day,
00:27:14and I'm a karaoke champion by night.
00:27:19âȘâȘ
00:27:23I guess I'm a typical Korean guy.
00:27:26But don't make me sing.
00:27:27No.
00:27:28Ha ha ha.
00:27:34I'm from Daejeon in South Korea.
00:27:37I was a very introvert child.
00:27:41The bullies are everywhere.
00:27:43It was a hard time.
00:27:44I had to stood up for myself,
00:27:47and I went to military service.
00:27:49I felt like, oh, I can do anything.
00:27:52And I want to go out of South Korea
00:27:55and see what's out there.
00:27:58And I wanted to learn English.
00:27:59I just needed a challenge and change.
00:28:03So that's why I went to Australia.
00:28:06âȘâȘ
00:28:08Come on. Oh, there you go.
00:28:10There you go. Drag it, drag it, drag it.
00:28:12There you go.
00:28:13Oh, I got this piggy.
00:28:15Whoa, look at this. It's cute.
00:28:17âȘâȘ
00:28:18I hadn't dated anyone for about two years.
00:28:23My friend told me,
00:28:24oh, you should go and dinner with someone.
00:28:27So I did it.
00:28:28And when I first met Devin in Australia,
00:28:32I thought it was fate, and I felt so lucky.
00:28:36âȘâȘ
00:28:38âȘ If you don't know about me, well, I'm about to show you âȘ
00:28:42âȘ If you don't know about me, well, I'm about to show you âȘ
00:28:46What I love about Devin is she's friendly, she's cute.
00:28:51She's the first white girl I've dated.
00:28:53Asian girls, I would say they are too skinny.
00:28:57I would prefer Devin.
00:28:58She's fit. She used to be a soccer player.
00:29:01It's just so much fun to spend time with her.
00:29:04Let's dig in.
00:29:06Devin is a definitely introvert person.
00:29:09So when I first met her, I was struggling to make her laugh.
00:29:16But after we spent quite a lot of time,
00:29:18she started, like, going crazy.
00:29:20Like, she'd do naughty things.
00:29:23And it was fun.
00:29:25What naughty things would she do?
00:29:27Like, showing her ass to me, like...
00:29:32Like, just for fun, to make me laugh.
00:29:34And, you know, something like that.
00:30:01Hello.
00:30:03Hello.
00:30:04I'm here to get some chicken feet.
00:30:07Can I get some chicken feet?
00:30:09Sure.
00:30:16Where did you get that?
00:30:18This? I got it from a claw machine.
00:30:22My girlfriend's nickname is Piggy.
00:30:25Oh, Piggy?
00:30:27Devin calls me Monkey, and I call her Piggy.
00:30:31Because she's cute and a little chubby.
00:30:37Speaking English, I thought chubby is kind of a little fat,
00:30:41but I realized that chubby is kind of quite fat.
00:30:46I felt kind of bad, but it's just saying Devin's cute.
00:31:01I dated Devin for two years, when I was in Australia.
00:31:05But she missed her family and friends in South Sea, Arkansas.
00:31:11She wanted to go back, but I couldn't imagine
00:31:15living in the two different countries.
00:31:18So, we got engaged, and we got married in South Sea, Arkansas.
00:31:23And we got married in South Sea, Arkansas.
00:31:27In the two different countries.
00:31:29So, we got engaged and applied for the K-1 visa.
00:31:34What do you know about South Sea, Arkansas?
00:31:37So, what I know is there's nothing.
00:31:43I'm kind of worried about it.
00:31:44There's not much diversity there.
00:31:48There's no Korean community, no Korean restaurant and store.
00:31:52Devin told me there are quite a lot of racists there.
00:31:56Yeah, it scares me.
00:31:58Because I've seen racism in the countryside in Australia.
00:32:02So, it kind of scares me, yes.
00:32:10Because we were waiting for our visa to be approved
00:32:13in the middle of the COVID time,
00:32:16we were separated for about two years.
00:32:18But today, Devin, she's flying to Korea.
00:32:27She always wanted to come to Korea and see what it's like.
00:32:31So, I'm excited to show her around.
00:32:33And this is a secret, but I'm going to propose to her in Korea.
00:32:40When we got engaged and applied for the K-1 visa,
00:32:44it's all about paperwork.
00:32:47It wasn't romantic at all,
00:32:50but I want to propose to her properly.
00:32:54But in Korea, we need permission,
00:32:57approval from our family and parents before I get married.
00:33:03I believe my parents will measure Devin
00:33:06against typical Korean girls.
00:33:09They have a specific standard.
00:33:11Like, as a daughter-in-law,
00:33:15they have to do this, do that.
00:33:19So, I'm nervous.
00:33:21If Devin blows this up,
00:33:25my family won't let me go to U.S.
00:33:29And it's going to destroy my whole life.
00:33:33âȘâȘ
00:33:41âȘâȘ
00:33:45If you legitimately just want to go to the U.S.,
00:33:50if you legitimately do not see children in your future at all,
00:33:54like, ever, that is something you need to be
00:33:56completely honest with yourself about.
00:33:58Yeah.
00:33:59âȘâȘ
00:34:04I'm kind of in shock.
00:34:06If I hadn't asked that question about the kids,
00:34:08I don't know if they would have talked about it.
00:34:11I'm just kind of...
00:34:13Honestly, I don't even know.
00:34:15âȘâȘ
00:34:17For me, it's definitely more the pregnancy thing
00:34:20and even a scare of, like, can I even have kids?
00:34:23Because when I was 15, they found, like,
00:34:25there was a teratoma cyst in my left ovary,
00:34:28which, obviously, if they didn't find it in time,
00:34:31I would have died.
00:34:32Like, it's quite serious.
00:34:33So, they had to do surgery.
00:34:34Like, that's why I literally have, like, scars on my stomach
00:34:36from, like, wow.
00:34:37They told me that, like, there was a possibility
00:34:39that it could mess up my eggs.
00:34:41So, since then, it's like, would I rather, you know, be like,
00:34:45oh, yeah, like, I'm going to be a mom one day
00:34:47and then be told, actually, you can't have kids?
00:34:49Because that's devastating.
00:34:50Yeah.
00:34:51For me, it was easier to just be like, you know,
00:34:54actually, I might not even want to be pregnant.
00:34:56So, it's like I've kind of accepted it.
00:34:58âȘâȘ
00:35:03I feel like Sophie knows what the...
00:35:05She knows what I want.
00:35:06She's known that I want kids.
00:35:08I've told her.
00:35:09How do I...
00:35:10How does a man talk about what his kids' names would be
00:35:12and then she's going to act like she doesn't remember that
00:35:14and act like she didn't know I would want kids?
00:35:16It just sounds stupid.
00:35:19We're pretty far into this.
00:35:21For her to not know, maybe, maybe not, like,
00:35:24it's not that type of thing.
00:35:26It's like, do you want them or not?
00:35:28Do you see yourself having kids or not?
00:35:32Does Robert know that?
00:35:35Um, I know Rob knows that I have had surgery when I was fit
00:35:39because he's asked about, obviously, the scar on my stomach.
00:35:43But I don't think he knows that it's affected, like, my eggs
00:35:46or anything like that.
00:35:47I honestly think that that conversation needs to happen
00:35:52if you want this relationship to go further.
00:35:59The reasons behind me not wanting kids
00:36:01is a lot to do with medical issues,
00:36:03which I don't really tell, you know, anyone.
00:36:06It's a very personal, like, matter for me.
00:36:09Rob does know some stuff about it.
00:36:10I guess he's never really asked,
00:36:12does that affect you having kids?
00:36:13Like, if someone who really wants kids,
00:36:15I just feel like that would be the first thing you'd kind of wonder.
00:36:18Like, is everything OK there?
00:36:20And when we both ask about each other's future,
00:36:22it's the same thing.
00:36:23Me and him living inland with animals.
00:36:26Never one of us is mentioned with a couple kids.
00:36:28Like, usually that's, you know, genuinely in the conversation.
00:36:32Not once has he ever mentioned kids.
00:36:34Not one time in this whole three years.
00:36:37I might just go check on him at least
00:36:39to make sure he's all right.
00:36:40All right.
00:36:57You OK?
00:36:59Am I OK?
00:37:03Can you stop for a sec?
00:37:04Can you just stop?
00:37:06I'm trying to have a serious conversation with you.
00:37:11I feel like you didn't hit me over the head with this s**t.
00:37:13Like, and then you're trying to act like you have no idea
00:37:17that I would want kids.
00:37:18I just don't want to talk about this at our, like, arcade place.
00:37:21Like, it's not really the place to have a...
00:37:23Well, how are we supposed to enjoy the arcade?
00:37:27I understand that Rob is in shock about what I've said,
00:37:30but I'm also in shock by the way he's acting.
00:37:33It seems like he hates me.
00:37:35And it's crazy how something like that can just go so sideways.
00:37:39I said one thing and he's looking at me like
00:37:41he's ready to walk away and leave.
00:37:43I've never seen him look at me like that before.
00:37:46It's like a very upsetting situation
00:37:48and I don't really know how we're supposed to,
00:37:50I guess, make up from this.
00:37:54I don't know what the f**k I'm going to do with my life
00:37:56if I don't ever have kids.
00:38:03I don't know what Sophie Tsaw is doing with our later years.
00:38:07Like, alright, we want to grind, we want to gold chase right now.
00:38:10And then what? F**k.
00:38:12Even Jay-Z and Beyonce got kids.
00:38:14It's like, I don't want to be single forever.
00:38:16If I wanted to not have kids, I'd probably be a player forever.
00:38:24Just leave me alone for a little bit.
00:38:34Baby, I'm home.
00:38:36How many hours do you need more?
00:38:38You always criticize me. I'm tired of it.
00:38:41You're not going to control my style, my hair looks, and my makeup.
00:38:46That's all. You have more fingers. Continue.
00:39:03What?
00:39:22What is that?
00:39:34I want to ride with you.
00:39:40Good morning, baby.
00:39:44I'm so tired.
00:39:47Waking up next to Justin,
00:39:49my first morning in Kishinel, Moldova,
00:39:52makes me feel whole again.
00:39:55You know, I felt like I was missing part of my heart.
00:39:58And it feels good to be held at night
00:40:01and cuddled by a guy with nice strong muscles.
00:40:07So what are we going to do today?
00:40:10Do you like parks?
00:40:12Of course I like parks.
00:40:14Okay, I'm going to walk you to the park.
00:40:17On a leash?
00:40:18What?
00:40:19You said you were going to walk me to the park like a dog.
00:40:22Yeah.
00:40:24Well, you're too much.
00:40:26I need to go and get ready.
00:40:29It's probably going to take me about...
00:40:32How much?
00:40:33Like an hour, hour and a half, maybe a little bit more.
00:40:36What?
00:40:37Yeah.
00:40:38Baby, I like when you look more natural.
00:40:41That is, for me, looking more natural.
00:40:43When I get done up, it takes about three hours.
00:40:49I have experience living with women,
00:40:51and getting ready for some woman takes a long time.
00:40:56Nikki is longer than everybody.
00:41:01When I'm asking Nikki how much time she's left to be ready,
00:41:06sometimes she tells me, like, 30 minutes, maybe 50 minutes.
00:41:10But it happens after two hours.
00:41:13It's hard work.
00:41:15And our day only begins.
00:41:19Here in our country, when you have a lot of make-up...
00:41:23Yeah?
00:41:24The birds, they like you.
00:41:27They like me?
00:41:28It sits on you.
00:41:30They will not stop playing.
00:41:32I have to do my make-up.
00:41:34OK.
00:41:35Did you guys have a chance for any sexy activity last night?
00:41:39No sexual activity.
00:41:42We were both exhausted.
00:41:45And I think we passed out around 7 p.m.
00:41:48Honestly, I just don't know what the plan is going to be
00:41:52about who makes the first move of being intimate together.
00:41:57But I think Justin's priorities are a little, you know,
00:42:01mix-matched.
00:42:03So I don't know, you know.
00:42:06So we'll see.
00:42:08And don't forget the bacon and some eggs.
00:42:12OK.
00:42:15This morning, waking up with Nikki,
00:42:18I feel like a new day for me, a new life.
00:42:22But we didn't have power for sex
00:42:24because we slept a few hours and many days.
00:42:29And I was so much tired.
00:42:32We slept like 12 hours without waking up.
00:42:38Yeah.
00:42:39You guys.
00:42:40Mm-hmm.
00:42:43So, how many hours do you need more?
00:42:51You can have.
00:42:52You want no make-up, you want natural,
00:42:54go date a Russian girl.
00:42:56You know from the very beginning, 17 years ago,
00:42:59I wore make-up and I still wear make-up
00:43:01and that's never going to change.
00:43:03So why are you asking?
00:43:05Why are you telling me this?
00:43:07It's like he wants to mold me
00:43:10or to conform me into this person that I'm not.
00:43:14Justin changed his whole character
00:43:18when he found out that I was trans.
00:43:20Like literally changed to someone very macho,
00:43:24like trying to make me submissive.
00:43:27It makes me upset.
00:43:31I just don't understand
00:43:33I just don't understand
00:43:35because 17 years ago, I wore make-up.
00:43:38You never said anything.
00:43:39Now I'm getting a little bit older
00:43:42and I see many kinds of make-ups
00:43:46and now I have some knowing, I would say.
00:43:50So you know about make-up?
00:43:52A little.
00:43:53No, you don't.
00:43:54How it look on the face of the girls.
00:43:56You're not a make-up artist.
00:43:58Okay, I am a make-up artist
00:44:00This is my aesthetic.
00:44:01This is what I do.
00:44:04At the end of the day,
00:44:05you're not going to control my style,
00:44:08my hair looks and my make-up.
00:44:12That's all?
00:44:14I think that that's pretty much it.
00:44:16You have more fingers.
00:44:17Continue.
00:44:21And this is what I'm talking about.
00:44:22When you want to be a jokester,
00:44:24you think everything is funny.
00:44:26It's like I'm trying to be serious.
00:44:28Our life is not funny.
00:44:30I can't figure him out sometimes.
00:44:32I really can't.
00:44:33It doesn't seem like he wants to work
00:44:34or try to make it better
00:44:35and everything is a joke.
00:44:37I feel he's not taking our relationship seriously.
00:44:41Give me a hug.
00:44:42A little hug.
00:44:50He's walking not in a man's pace,
00:44:52he's walking in a child's pace.
00:44:55But I do love him.
00:44:57So I'm going to think positively
00:44:59that my relationship is going to work,
00:45:01that I want it to work,
00:45:03and I'm going to do everything possible
00:45:04to make it work.
00:45:11They called nine times.
00:45:13That's weird, Ashley.
00:45:14It's weird!
00:45:16I didn't know who you guys were
00:45:17when he was over in Ecuador.
00:45:19Now you're blowing him up?
00:45:20I'd be a fool to not think about the fact
00:45:22that Manuel might be coming here on my back
00:45:24so he could meet up with his family.
00:45:26And leave you.
00:45:28Don't like it.
00:45:29It's messy.
00:45:56Hi.
00:45:57How are you?
00:45:58How are you?
00:45:59I'm good, you?
00:46:01I've been better.
00:46:02Okay.
00:46:03We're here at the park right now
00:46:04because Manuel and I got into
00:46:06kind of an explosive argument.
00:46:08So I called my sister to vent
00:46:11and talk me off the ledge, really.
00:46:15Thanks for meeting me.
00:46:16No problem.
00:46:17Yeah, when you called me
00:46:18you kind of sounded a little upset.
00:46:20I don't know if he's adjusting
00:46:22or not adjusting well.
00:46:24Wait, I'm sorry.
00:46:25Is that a hickey on your neck?
00:46:28Ashley!
00:46:30I don't know what it is.
00:46:31No, stop.
00:46:32Is that a hickey?
00:46:35What is that?
00:46:36No, show me!
00:46:37I'm trying to hide it up.
00:46:38I don't know what it is.
00:46:40You see, that part's fine.
00:46:42Oh, okay.
00:46:43Yeah, I know.
00:46:44I mean, it's kind of...
00:46:45It's just the communication.
00:46:47Yeah, when you called me
00:46:48and it's only been two days
00:46:49I was like, yeah, something's up.
00:46:50Let's sit, like, right here.
00:46:52It's beautiful.
00:46:54I want to see what's on my neck.
00:46:55Want to see your phone?
00:46:57Okay.
00:47:00Oh, God.
00:47:03You're bad.
00:47:04I told you, that part is fine.
00:47:09I'm telling Mom.
00:47:10I mean, the sex should be great.
00:47:13Here's what's not great, though.
00:47:15Okay, I tell him, I'm like,
00:47:17babe, your phone's coming
00:47:18on Monday or Tuesday, all set up.
00:47:20And then he goes,
00:47:22Ugh, that's not early enough.
00:47:26Like, thank you should have been
00:47:27the first thing up his mind.
00:47:28Thank you!
00:47:29I'm not sitting here like,
00:47:30you need to thank me
00:47:31and, like, bow down to me.
00:47:33But it just could have been
00:47:34very simply, thanks, babe.
00:47:36Appreciate you.
00:47:38That's it.
00:47:39Yeah.
00:47:40The fact that we couldn't
00:47:41try to work through this
00:47:43and I had to leave my space,
00:47:45red flag for me.
00:47:47You know, you have to,
00:47:48you have to work through it.
00:47:50You can't just walk away
00:47:51when things get hard.
00:47:53He told me when I left,
00:47:54he goes, make sure you come back
00:47:55in a better mood.
00:47:56Oof.
00:47:57I'm telling you.
00:47:59And then he's like,
00:48:00yeah, you're all like
00:48:01saying like, f*** you,
00:48:02da, da, da, da, da.
00:48:03And I was like,
00:48:04and I meant what I said,
00:48:05f*** you.
00:48:06Cursing him out, Ashley.
00:48:07Cece, I meant what I said.
00:48:08You were cursing him out.
00:48:09Cece.
00:48:10Okay.
00:48:11Did he understand you?
00:48:12He repeated back, f*** you.
00:48:15Ashley is quick to react.
00:48:17She goes from zero to 100
00:48:18really, really fast.
00:48:20She's fire.
00:48:21She's magic.
00:48:22She's fire.
00:48:23And you know,
00:48:24they're both alphas.
00:48:25We'll see how things
00:48:26work out for them,
00:48:27but it's going to be
00:48:28a lot of learning curves.
00:48:31Was he like frustrated
00:48:32that he couldn't talk
00:48:33to his family?
00:48:34Is that why?
00:48:35He can talk to his family.
00:48:36On your device?
00:48:37Yeah.
00:48:38Okay.
00:48:39When he says,
00:48:40I need internet now,
00:48:42he needs internet on his phone.
00:48:45That's what he's saying.
00:48:47But why though?
00:48:48Why is it so important
00:48:49for you to get internet
00:48:50on your phone specifically?
00:48:53Do you think he was like,
00:48:54I don't know.
00:48:55What were you going to say?
00:48:56Say it.
00:48:57Say it.
00:48:58That just makes me nervous.
00:48:59Is he like planning
00:49:01something with his family?
00:49:04I'd be a fool
00:49:05to not think about the fact
00:49:06that Manuel might be
00:49:07coming here on my back
00:49:08so he could meet up
00:49:09with his family.
00:49:11And leave you.
00:49:12And leave me.
00:49:13I would be a fool
00:49:14to not think about that.
00:49:15He has family in New York City.
00:49:18He has family in Newark.
00:49:20Does that worry you?
00:49:23It didn't until his people
00:49:25started calling so aggressively.
00:49:29I guess his mom
00:49:30gave them my phone number
00:49:32because we still can't
00:49:33get his phone up
00:49:34and working in America.
00:49:35So they've been blowing up
00:49:37my phone to talk to him.
00:49:39They called nine times.
00:49:41Like that's weird, Ashley.
00:49:43Isn't that weird?
00:49:44That's what I'm saying.
00:49:45It's weird.
00:49:47Why are you calling so much?
00:49:49I didn't know who you guys were
00:49:50when he was over in Ecuador.
00:49:52Now you're blowing him up?
00:49:54Interesting.
00:49:57I've never met them.
00:49:58I've never FaceTimed with them.
00:49:59I don't know their names.
00:50:00I did not think
00:50:01that they'd be calling me.
00:50:02I'm glad that he has
00:50:03people close by
00:50:04so he doesn't feel like
00:50:05he's alone.
00:50:06But I also want him
00:50:07to remember what he's here for.
00:50:09Yeah.
00:50:10He's not here for them.
00:50:12He's on a K-1 visa.
00:50:14He is here for this relationship.
00:50:16They are secondary.
00:50:20I'm not saying this man
00:50:21is here for a visa.
00:50:22I truly believe he loves me.
00:50:25But I also believe
00:50:27that if things don't work out
00:50:29and if we don't get married,
00:50:31he has no intention
00:50:32of going back to Ecuador.
00:50:34Damn.
00:50:36I support her.
00:50:38I love who she loves.
00:50:40But based off some of the
00:50:42red flags that I'm getting from him,
00:50:44I don't know if he's
00:50:45a fit partner for her yet.
00:50:47You know, people switch up.
00:50:49When they show you who they are,
00:50:50you believe them.
00:50:51And I feel like he's definitely
00:50:52showing who he is.
00:50:54So I think they need to get
00:50:55to know each other more
00:50:56before something like marriage.
00:51:03I'm just shocked that
00:51:05you blew all that money
00:51:07on a cosmetic procedure
00:51:08that you don't even need.
00:51:10And you lied to me about it.
00:51:12I feel betrayed by Jasmine.
00:51:14For the last year and a half,
00:51:15I've been busting my ass
00:51:17to save money.
00:51:18When is she going to do
00:51:19something for us?
00:51:21But you have to understand
00:51:22that you lied to me, baby.
00:51:24Because hiding the truth
00:51:25is lying.
00:51:26Baby, it's not the same thing.
00:51:36Coco.
00:51:42Hi.
00:51:43Hi.
00:51:54What are you doing?
00:51:57I was just reading some news.
00:52:03Well, I really feel like
00:52:06I really need to talk to you.
00:52:10I'm very sad, to be honest,
00:52:12because you're mad at me.
00:52:14We cannot continue just, like,
00:52:16ignoring each other.
00:52:21I'm just shocked that
00:52:24the money that I gave to you
00:52:26for your wedding dress,
00:52:30and you blew all that money
00:52:32on a cosmetic procedure
00:52:34that you don't even need,
00:52:37and you lied to me about it.
00:52:43I feel really betrayed by Jasmine.
00:52:47For the last year and a half,
00:52:48I've been busting my ass
00:52:50to save money to buy a dress,
00:52:52and she spends it
00:52:53on butt implants for herself.
00:52:56I mean, when is she going to
00:52:58do something for us?
00:53:02I feel very bad to make you
00:53:05feel that way.
00:53:07I was never intended to make you
00:53:10feel like you're feeling.
00:53:15But you have to understand, too,
00:53:17that you lied to me, baby,
00:53:19because hiding the truth is lying.
00:53:22You know?
00:53:23Baby, it's not the same thing.
00:53:27I was quitting my job
00:53:29to be with you and support you
00:53:31when you come here.
00:53:32Yeah, but that's the thing.
00:53:33If you had told me this,
00:53:35like you quit your job,
00:53:36that we were under
00:53:37a very tight budget,
00:53:39when I was in Panama,
00:53:41instead of waiting
00:53:42until I arrive here,
00:53:44I promise I would never
00:53:46spend this money.
00:53:49But that's the thing.
00:53:50I did it thinking to myself
00:53:53that you were working,
00:53:54that we were okay,
00:53:55that I would have time
00:53:57to replace the money.
00:53:58I mean, I regret having the surgery.
00:54:01I do, but I cannot, like,
00:54:03okay, doctor, take out the implants
00:54:05and give me the money.
00:54:07I wish I could.
00:54:09If that were possible,
00:54:10trust me, I will.
00:54:15What's going to happen
00:54:16if we were to get married
00:54:18and you were spending, spending,
00:54:21spending money like crazy
00:54:22on these cosmetic procedures
00:54:24that you don't even need?
00:54:27I don't see myself
00:54:28the way you see me.
00:54:30I have always
00:54:31dealt with this problem.
00:54:32Like, I am very insecure
00:54:35when it comes to my body.
00:54:36I'm sorry for being like this.
00:54:39I wanted to look
00:54:40so pretty for you, baby.
00:54:42Like, I work so hard at the gym.
00:54:45I'm eating healthy all the time.
00:54:48You know, but the reflection
00:54:50that I see in the mirror
00:54:51doesn't match, you know,
00:54:54the reality.
00:54:55Like, I don't see myself
00:54:57like a pretty woman.
00:54:58I'm highly insecure,
00:54:59and I was so scared, like,
00:55:01now that I got so skinny
00:55:03and I lost my ass,
00:55:04you wouldn't love me.
00:55:10You don't have to
00:55:11change all this stuff.
00:55:13I like you the way you are.
00:55:16Like, you're beautiful
00:55:17the day I met you.
00:55:19Why do you have to keep
00:55:20doing all these procedures?
00:55:23Baby, but I'm trying my best.
00:55:25I just took away
00:55:26my hair extension
00:55:27that I used to spend
00:55:28thousands and thousands
00:55:29of dollars.
00:55:30Baby, you're...
00:55:31And embrace my natural hair
00:55:32that I hate it
00:55:34because I'm losing it.
00:55:35I love your natural hair.
00:55:36It's beautiful.
00:55:38I love the way
00:55:39your hair is now.
00:55:42Because I struggle
00:55:43with alopecia.
00:55:45I've been more than 15 years
00:55:46wearing wigs and hair extensions,
00:55:49and I'm very insecure
00:55:51about my hair.
00:55:54It means a lot
00:55:55having, you know,
00:55:56complimenting my hair
00:55:57and telling me
00:55:58how beautiful I look.
00:56:00It really just helps
00:56:01with my self-esteem a lot.
00:56:06You're beautiful
00:56:07the way you are.
00:56:09Don't you see?
00:56:10You're beautiful.
00:56:13I knew that Jasmine
00:56:14had some insecurities,
00:56:17but I don't know,
00:56:18maybe she struggles
00:56:19with it more than I know.
00:56:21At least she apologized
00:56:23because, honestly,
00:56:24she doesn't apologize to me
00:56:27very often, to be honest.
00:56:29She's being honest with me,
00:56:30and it gives me hope
00:56:31that maybe she's not
00:56:33going to lie to me anymore.
00:56:42We just have to, like,
00:56:44stop hiding things
00:56:45from each other.
00:56:50It would prevent
00:56:51a lot of pain,
00:56:53suffering in the, you know,
00:56:56future,
00:56:58because otherwise
00:56:59our relationship's going to
00:57:00go down the drain.
00:57:01No, don't say that.
00:57:02Don't say down the drain, no.
00:57:04I want us to have
00:57:05a happy and healthy relationship.
00:57:10You're my happiness.
00:57:11I want that, too.
00:57:15I agree that honesty
00:57:16is super important
00:57:18if we really want to make
00:57:19this relationship work.
00:57:22And that means that
00:57:23I will eventually
00:57:24have to come clean,
00:57:26but now is not the time.
00:57:41You're going to see
00:57:43the real Piggy.
00:57:45Excited?
00:57:46I'm excited, too.
00:57:48Because we were waiting
00:57:49for a visa to be approved,
00:57:51we were separated
00:57:52for about two years.
00:57:54Come here, Piggy.
00:57:56Look at me, Piggy.
00:57:58I'm pretty sure
00:57:59she's going to have jet lag,
00:58:00but I don't care.
00:58:01Tonight, I'm going to
00:58:02break the bed for sure.
00:58:05He likes to keep
00:58:07pieces of his life separate,
00:58:09and it makes me wonder.
00:58:11It does.
00:58:35Ooh.
00:58:49I'm going to pick up
00:58:50my girlfriend, Devin,
00:58:51at the airport.
00:58:53I'm nervous and excited
00:58:55at the same time.
00:58:58She's flying to Korea
00:59:00from the U.S.
00:59:01for the first time.
00:59:03To finally meet my parents,
00:59:05and I can't wait to see her.
00:59:09You're going to see
00:59:10the real Piggy.
00:59:12Excited?
00:59:14I'm excited, too.
00:59:16Because we were waiting
00:59:17for our visa to be approved,
00:59:20we were separated
00:59:21for about two years,
00:59:22living in two different countries.
00:59:25To be honest,
00:59:26I'm so excited
00:59:27to feel attached to her tonight.
00:59:30That sounds weird,
00:59:31that sounds weird,
00:59:32but I can't wait.
00:59:34It's not easy to
00:59:36not to have sex
00:59:38in more than one year.
00:59:39Yes, of course, yes.
00:59:43For the two years,
00:59:44I was able to talk to her
00:59:46on the phone,
00:59:47but talking on the phone
00:59:49is nothing.
00:59:52I want to touch her
00:59:54and feel her, you know?
00:59:56I'm pretty sure
00:59:57she's going to have jet lag,
01:00:00but I don't care.
01:00:01Tonight I'm going to
01:00:02break the bed for sure.
01:00:09It's definitely a sign of respect
01:00:12that she's coming to Korea
01:00:14to see my parents
01:00:16and my country, you know?
01:00:17But I'm kind of worried
01:00:19about the chemistry.
01:00:22We haven't seen each other
01:00:23in a while.
01:00:27So when we see each other
01:00:28in person,
01:00:30it can be different, you know?
01:00:35But I just can't wait
01:00:37to see her, you know?
01:00:39I'm just going crazy.
01:00:42I'm going to miss you.
01:00:58I love you.
01:01:01I love you.
01:01:03I love you.
01:01:08I love you.
01:01:12I love you.
01:01:26Good to see you.
01:01:32Oh, s***.
01:01:39My name is Devin.
01:01:40I'm 24,
01:01:41and I live in Searcy, Arkansas.
01:01:52When I see Nick,
01:01:53I definitely feel emotional.
01:01:55It's been a long time,
01:01:57and there were points
01:01:58where we weren't sure
01:01:59if it was even going to happen or not.
01:02:01So now that it's finally here,
01:02:03I don't even really know
01:02:04exactly how to feel about it.
01:02:06It's still processing.
01:02:12Seeing Nick cry like this,
01:02:14it's pretty sweet.
01:02:16Because he never cries
01:02:17or anything, so...
01:02:19Didn't you cry too?
01:02:20Well, yeah, but I cry all the time.
01:02:22Okay.
01:02:25This is for you.
01:02:26Look at this.
01:02:27Piggy.
01:02:29Look at that.
01:02:31Exactly.
01:02:32Just like you.
01:02:33Look at that.
01:02:34Piggy.
01:02:36Piggy.
01:02:37You like it?
01:02:38Yes.
01:02:39Yes.
01:02:40You can cuddle with it.
01:02:43Nick insists that piggy
01:02:45is a term of endearment.
01:02:47I think at this point,
01:02:49I'm not really offended by it anymore.
01:02:51But in America,
01:02:53it'd be considered extremely rude
01:02:56to, like, call someone a piggy.
01:03:01And I've explained it to him,
01:03:03so I think he knows, but...
01:03:05I know,
01:03:06but we are different.
01:03:09You know what I mean?
01:03:10No.
01:03:14Are you okay?
01:03:15Yeah.
01:03:16Are you tired?
01:03:18Thank you. Thanks.
01:03:19What do you want to eat?
01:03:21I don't know.
01:03:23Let's get out of here.
01:03:26The main reason we came to Korea
01:03:29was for me to meet Nick's parents
01:03:31for the first time.
01:03:32So, you know,
01:03:33even with all the excitement,
01:03:35I'm still a little nervous about that.
01:03:38We've already gone through a lot
01:03:40to get to this point,
01:03:41so it would ruin everything
01:03:43if his parents didn't like me.
01:03:46Do you think your parents will like me?
01:03:49It's okay to be nervous,
01:03:52because I'll be the same
01:03:54when I see your family.
01:03:57But you will be there for me,
01:03:59and I will be there for you.
01:04:01Come here.
01:04:02Come here.
01:04:07Welcome to Korea.
01:04:29My life.
01:04:33From the truth of my eyes.
01:04:46So, I'm making dinner,
01:04:48and these people have been calling me like crazy,
01:04:51just trying to figure out, like, who they are
01:04:53and what's up and what's going on with that.
01:05:03We still can't get his phone up and working in America,
01:05:06so I guess his mom gave them my phone number,
01:05:09so it's been really intense.
01:05:11I have no clue who these people are.
01:05:13I just know that they're family members of Manuel
01:05:15and that they're in New York City.
01:05:33Ten times.
01:05:38It's different.
01:05:39Let me call him.
01:05:40We need...
01:05:41To see what's going on.
01:05:42Exactly.
01:05:43Please.
01:05:44Okay.
01:06:05Okay.
01:06:06Okay.
01:06:09Okay.
01:06:40Bien, y tĂș?
01:06:41Bien, bien, gracias a Dios.
01:06:42Todo bien.
01:06:43Te presento a mi novia, si no la conocĂas.
01:06:45Hola.
01:06:46ÂżCĂłmo estĂĄ?
01:06:48Oh, Merci.
01:06:50Y tĂș?
01:06:51Bien, gracias a Dios.
01:06:52Avancé a llegar.
01:06:55SĂ, un poquito difĂcil el camino,
01:06:57pero gracias a Dios estoy por acĂĄ.
01:06:59Qué bueno, primo.
01:07:00Qué bueno.
01:07:01Me alegro por ti.
01:07:02Es mi primera vez a verte,
01:07:04y yo lo sé,
01:07:07quiere hablar con Ă©l mucho, mucho.
01:07:10¿Y por qué mucho llamar?
01:07:21Yeah.
01:07:29Yo quiero conocer usted en el futuro.
01:07:33Es bonito conocernos.
01:07:35Ya poco a poco tenemos tiempo,
01:07:37y a ver si me pego un vuelo,
01:07:39a visitar a la familia.
01:07:41ÂżY cuĂĄntas familias tiene en Nueva York?
01:07:44ÂżMuchas o poco?
01:07:47Muchas familias.
01:07:48Muchas familias.
01:07:50Primos, tĂos.
01:07:53Primos, tĂos.
01:07:57Manuel has a lot of family in New York.
01:07:59I thought that he had some,
01:08:01but Mercy said mucho.
01:08:03Mucho, mucho.
01:08:05And it makes me wonder
01:08:07whether or not he's using me for a green card.
01:08:10It does.
01:08:22Pretty much the way I see it
01:08:24is if Manuel ever wanted to like leave
01:08:28and take a bus to New York,
01:08:30he could.
01:08:31He could bounce out.
01:08:33He'd eat.
01:08:34He'd figure it out.
01:08:35That's what it sounds like
01:08:37with the amount of family he has
01:08:39just five hours away from me.
01:08:55I don't see anything in your mind
01:08:57that you even want to spend like intimate time with me.
01:09:00Spending nice time, romantic.
01:09:02Justin, this is something that you do
01:09:04when two people live with each other.
01:09:06I haven't seen you in nine months.
01:09:09Like you act like you have another woman.
01:09:11No, you act like you have another woman, though.
01:09:24Baby, my sneaker.
01:09:26Can you tie it for me, please?
01:09:31Let's go.
01:09:40Okay, so how far is the park from here?
01:09:43It's near.
01:09:44It's not far.
01:09:46Today I bring the Niki
01:09:48as in one of the beautiful parks at Kishinev.
01:09:53At day time, here, always the frogs singing.
01:09:57And at the night time,
01:09:59many you hear another voices.
01:10:02Some making love there.
01:10:05And then forest, some voices, love voices.
01:10:09Any kind of voices.
01:10:11Voices.
01:10:13Do you have ice cream?
01:10:15I want ice cream.
01:10:16How about I want some cotton candy
01:10:19and I want ice cream.
01:10:21Bubble gum?
01:10:22Yes, my favorite.
01:10:27I bring two.
01:10:28Okay.
01:10:29Can I get one?
01:10:31Baby, I got you ice cream.
01:10:35I just got ice cream on my face.
01:10:37Can you lick it?
01:10:39Lick it!
01:10:40It's too much you make up here.
01:10:42What?
01:10:43But it's cake.
01:10:44No, no, no.
01:10:45Come on!
01:10:46I don't have a napkin.
01:10:48I don't have a napkin.
01:10:50I give it to you.
01:10:52No, I don't.
01:10:54Wait, wait, wait.
01:10:55Come here.
01:10:56Just lick it.
01:10:59Can you believe my fiance wouldn't lick my face?
01:11:07Spasibo.
01:11:08Spasibo.
01:11:12Let's go.
01:11:14I think it's such a beautiful gesture
01:11:17to take me to the park in Moldova
01:11:19because the last time we were in Moldova
01:11:2116 or 17 years ago,
01:11:24he brought me to a park for my first engagement.
01:11:28And here, some games.
01:11:32Okay.
01:11:33What is it?
01:11:34The first thing is, you see?
01:11:37Yes.
01:11:38All the pieces are on the laces.
01:11:41Okay.
01:11:42And I put it here.
01:11:44Yes.
01:11:46And try to put all the pieces here.
01:11:48Are you trying to test how smart I am?
01:11:50No, no, no.
01:11:51This is just games for brain.
01:11:53I will play with you also.
01:11:55Justin likes chess,
01:11:58so I don't find it odd that he likes puzzles, I guess.
01:12:03I think I deserve a little bit more.
01:12:08I would have probably liked a picnic with some wine.
01:12:12Why are you testing how much of an airhead I am?
01:12:15No.
01:12:16I don't know if this is one of Justin's moves,
01:12:18bringing a woman to a park, playing puzzles.
01:12:21Maybe that's why he was still single at 36 years old,
01:12:24because obviously that hasn't worked for him.
01:12:26Wait.
01:12:28Hold up.
01:12:29I think I got it.
01:12:30Yeah.
01:12:31See?
01:12:32Only one game.
01:12:33Yes.
01:12:34And you, smarter.
01:12:35Okay, what other games are we going to play?
01:12:37Hide the hotdog?
01:12:39In our hard relationship.
01:12:42Let's go work on your relationship, honey.
01:12:44Let's go to the house.
01:12:46Yeah?
01:12:47I can't sleep again?
01:12:48No, you're not sleeping, honey.
01:12:50Let's go make babies.
01:12:52Come on.
01:12:53Okay.
01:12:54Let's go work on your relationship.
01:13:05I haven't seen you in nine months.
01:13:06That means, like, being with you intimately and stuff like that.
01:13:10Do you even want to?
01:13:11Because it doesn't seem like you do.
01:13:13I want to, baby.
01:13:15Let's talk about it.
01:13:17No way.
01:13:22How do you call when you, I don't know, jump?
01:13:30Jump?
01:13:33Would you rather play chess and make love?
01:13:35Does that excite you more?
01:13:38I don't think you, like, really appreciate, like,
01:13:40a beautiful, gorgeous woman being with you.
01:13:43I haven't seen you in nine months.
01:13:46Like, you act like you have another woman.
01:13:48No, you act like you have another woman, though.
01:13:50I mean, if you don't like being with me, then why are you even with me?
01:13:58I mean, honestly, when I get here and there's no spark.
01:14:02Excuse me?
01:14:03Spark?
01:14:04What do you mean, spark?
01:14:06Okay, flesh.
01:14:07Flesh in your soul, in your heart.
01:14:09Yes, yes, got it.
01:14:10In your penis.
01:14:11That's a spark, you know, when you feel something inside you
01:14:15and you want to make love to the woman that you're marrying in the future.
01:14:20Like, after a nine-month break, it makes me question his love for me.
01:14:33I'm always with you.
01:14:34I'm trying to be nice with you.
01:14:37Why you want always to fight?
01:14:39I don't understand your position.
01:14:43Spending nice time, romantic.
01:14:46Justin, this is something that you do when two people live with each other.
01:14:50So it's like, I don't see anything in your mind
01:14:53that you even want to spend, like, intimate time with me,
01:14:55and that's like, that bothers me.
01:14:57You're talking about the time in the bed.
01:14:59No, it's not just now, it's other times, too.
01:15:02If you're not sexually attracted to me, why are you with me?
01:15:08But when you say, baby, I need money, baby, I need help, I'm there, right?
01:15:12Can we just pack this? I want to go.
01:15:16Honestly, I just feel like if you're not wanting to be with me intimately,
01:15:21I feel rejected, and when I feel rejected,
01:15:23I start feeling that you're not in love with me
01:15:26or there's someone else that you're screwing when I'm not around.
01:15:33Like I said, yes, our relationship built not on physically.
01:15:38It's more like soul, like heart, like something, different vibes.
01:15:45When we're talking about the physically,
01:15:47I need a little time with you in nice, yes?
01:15:52And then I feel some, my main energy coming up,
01:15:56looking, who is that woman there?
01:15:59Okay.
01:16:00Okay.
01:16:01I understand.
01:16:07Can we go?
01:16:08Yes, let's go.
01:16:11I want to show something.
01:16:13This book, it's like instructions for couples to understand better each other.
01:16:20Couples make love, and you don't do that with me.
01:16:24What do you mean? Physically?
01:16:27Yes, honey.
01:16:28Yes, there's many elements that go into a relationship.
01:16:31You came only yesterday.
01:16:32Can we just go?
01:16:33Let me hold you.
01:16:34Can we go?
01:16:35Let me hold you.
01:16:36Of course we can go.
01:16:38Listen, I'm going to tell you something.
01:16:40I'm going to tell you something, and you can take it for whatever it is.
01:16:43Okay.
01:16:44If something doesn't change, and like seriously,
01:16:47I think this is so beautiful, yes, thank you,
01:16:50but literally you have within like 48 hours to change my mind,
01:16:56or I'm literally leaving, okay?
01:17:00And that's the last time you're ever going to see me.
01:17:02I'm so done with your like making everything a joke.
01:17:06You're talking about very serious.
01:17:08Yes, I'm very serious.
01:17:11There's so many emotions inside that have been holding inside for me for so long
01:17:18with my relationship with Justin,
01:17:20but like now being here in the moment and speaking to him in person
01:17:24and seeing that it's like reality is hitting me in my face,
01:17:28like oh my God, he really is cold to me.
01:17:31He has never put me on his social media.
01:17:34He has never even wanted me to come to here.
01:17:38It makes me feel like I am a secret.
01:17:41It makes me feel like he's ashamed of me.
01:17:44It makes me feel so many feelings that I should not feel,
01:17:50and I don't deserve that.
01:17:53I deserve more.
01:17:55I'm just like so over this.
01:17:57I thought this was going to change with us, and it's just not.
01:18:03And I have to have hope and never have doubts of our relationship,
01:18:08but whether he chooses to jump in and work on it with me
01:18:13or emotionally check out like he always does and run away, we'll see.
01:18:24I'm just going to get some tea, and I think you should as well.
01:18:31Just at least let me like think about things too, you know?
01:18:35I could not walk down the aisle today.
01:18:37I couldn't do that.
01:18:39It would be a lie because my heart is really torn right now.
01:18:45I'll be back.
01:18:47Because my heart is really torn right now.
01:18:50I'll be back.
01:19:18I'm heading out.
01:19:19I just wanted to say bye.
01:19:21How are you feeling about everything right now?
01:19:25It's got a lot to process.
01:19:27Yeah.
01:19:28I mean, like I'm kind of taken aback by that whole conversation.
01:19:31You know, I wasn't expecting that.
01:19:33Like you would think that that's something you guys talk about from the beginning.
01:19:37I really feel like it was, it's definitely been put out there.
01:19:42But there's still a lot to be done.
01:19:44It's definitely been put out there.
01:19:46But then you asked the question, do you want Josie's?
01:19:51I feel like if I'm telling you what I would name my kids, obviously I want kids.
01:19:57Yeah.
01:19:58She did tell me, I don't know how much she told you, but she invited it to me a little bit,
01:20:02that it's more like a medical, like it's a legitimate medical fear that like she fears for her life.
01:20:08So like, I just want you to listen with an open heart.
01:20:13Because the one thing a woman's body is supposed to do is have children.
01:20:17So when you feel like that's been taken away from you, you guys just need to have that conversation.
01:20:22But I'm here for both of you guys.
01:20:24I love both of you.
01:20:25I love you.
01:20:26All right.
01:20:27I'll talk to you soon, okay?
01:20:28Drive home safe.
01:20:29All right, bye.
01:20:34I guess we will have to talk about it.
01:20:37Sophie's going to have to say something.
01:20:39She's going to have to help me understand what I should be thinking right now.
01:20:45So what's up? You ready to go?
01:20:46Yeah.
01:20:48Because I could not walk down the aisle today.
01:20:51I couldn't do that.
01:20:54It would be a lie because my heart is really torn right now.
01:20:59And that's not fair to me or her.
01:21:06Oh.
01:21:10There's a heating in this car.
01:21:12Oh, really?
01:21:14Freezing.
01:21:19I feel like, you know, he's making me out to be like a villain.
01:21:23Because I've said something as crazy as, oh, I don't want kids.
01:21:26When it's like, you know, I'm not obliged to have children.
01:21:29It's not, you know, if you're in a relationship, you have to have kids.
01:21:32You don't. No one does.
01:21:37I still want to be with Rob, even though he's acting like this.
01:21:40I still feel the same.
01:21:42But it kind of looks like his feelings towards me,
01:21:45even just by saying something, has completely switched.
01:21:50This is what he does.
01:21:51He's heard something he doesn't like.
01:21:53Shutting down.
01:21:54He doesn't want to listen to me or understand my personal reasons
01:21:57as to why I don't want children.
01:21:59And I just want him to, I guess, just listen to me
01:22:03and give me the time I need and understand where I'm coming from.
01:22:06But it just feels like he hates me right now
01:22:09and he doesn't really care what I have to say.
01:22:27Right now, I'm overly exhausted,
01:22:29so I really don't have the energy to, like, speak about something this big.
01:22:33So it's like, I feel like tomorrow I can give you, like, you know,
01:22:36my full energy and after, like,
01:22:40just at least let me, like, think about things too, you know?
01:22:45So, yeah, I'm just going to get some sleep.
01:22:47And I think you should as well.
01:22:52I'm going to walk her home.
01:23:00I don't know how she can sleep.
01:23:03I know I'm not going to sleep.
01:23:07All I'm going to think about is wondering what's supposed to,
01:23:09what's going to happen with my life.
01:23:14I'll be back.
01:23:21Bro, come on.
01:23:30Next time on 90 Day Fiance...
01:23:34Today, I look at myself in the mirror,
01:23:36I was super red and I got scared, like, what is this?
01:23:40What is causing this is that the house is very dirty.
01:23:44You were living in a dirty apartment with mice in it.
01:23:48What mice, you **** idiot? What mice?
01:23:51Your apartment.
01:23:52You're very disrespectful.
01:23:53Your apartment.
01:23:54You're very disrespectful.
01:24:00Oh, little French pig.
01:24:02I love my guinea pigs a lot, but they're not my only roommates.
01:24:05I also have two chihuahuas.
01:24:07My mom lives in a walk-in closet.
01:24:10But my fiancée, Annalie, got issued her K-1 visa,
01:24:13and she's going to be arriving to the U.S. very soon.
01:24:21But I'm worried about how Annalie would react
01:24:23if she were to arrive today.
01:24:29Surprise.
01:24:33My mother wasn't happy with me getting married to America.
01:24:39It's kind of a big day.
01:24:40The first time you're going to see my parents.
01:24:43I can't marry someone my family doesn't like.
01:24:47Is that them over there?
01:24:49Just don't forget to smile.
01:24:55So tomorrow you want to go to the gym?
01:24:57Maybe not my gym. Another gym.
01:24:59Why would it be better for me than the gym that you've been going to
01:25:02that you don't want me going to?
01:25:04Okay, stop.
01:25:06You don't put me first ever.
01:25:08Who the f*** do you think you are?
01:25:11Bye, little child.
01:25:18I'm not perfect, but I'm definitely not trying to f*** me with nobody else but you.
01:25:23I just want you. I want you in my life.
01:25:25It's just a lot and he's disgusting right now
01:25:27and I just don't want to be anywhere near him.
01:25:31I just feel very trapped and very alone.
01:25:34I don't have anywhere to go.
01:25:36What am I supposed to do now?