90 Day Fiance S10 E08
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:04Will you marry me, Devin?
00:00:06Yes, of course I will.
00:00:11Now it's my turn to meet Devin's parents in the U.S.
00:00:14I'm hoping the meeting will go smoothly.
00:00:19Is this how you want me to dress for your mom?
00:00:22Like very conservative?
00:00:23Yeah.
00:00:24Today I'm meeting Justin's family.
00:00:26I feel nervous.
00:00:28What if they don't accept their son falling in love with a trans woman?
00:00:32Today you look more like a regular woman.
00:00:36There's just so much I can hold until I snap.
00:00:39You need a simple woman.
00:00:41I am not her.
00:00:43Try to be nice.
00:00:44Perfect, perfect. I'm leaving.
00:00:49When are you going to tell your family the truth?
00:00:53The culture is different from mine.
00:00:55Annalise's dad has no idea that I even exist.
00:00:59Well, where does he think she is right now?
00:01:01In America for work.
00:01:04My brother is blinded by love.
00:01:07I am going to be overprotective, always.
00:01:09I'm about to cry.
00:01:15This house is infected with s*** from other women.
00:01:20I had a life before I met you.
00:01:22Is she going to be always this jealous?
00:01:24Not going to be able to have any conversation with a woman?
00:01:27I think, since Gino had a bachelor party already,
00:01:30we should do a girls' night.
00:01:32He had one?
00:01:33They went out to a strip club.
00:01:36I'm trying to keep it cool in front of Michelle,
00:01:39but all I want to do is go home and face Gino.
00:01:45He's still guarded with me about certain things.
00:01:48I still can't find your kids.
00:01:50We're still getting married.
00:01:52Why?
00:01:53Because my life is private.
00:01:57Your personal life is private.
00:01:59Like, I am your personal life.
00:02:01You are here for me, in my country.
00:02:04Let's go, okay?
00:02:05I'm going to walk.
00:02:07Walking where, man?
00:02:08Over there, to the house.
00:02:12I can't erase these messages or videos and s*** in my mind.
00:02:16I wish I would have found out in England,
00:02:18because I would not have been coming to America.
00:02:19You give me a chance, I won't make it up to you,
00:02:21because I am sorry.
00:02:22Okay.
00:02:23We only have 90 days to get married,
00:02:25so I really only have 90 days to get over it.
00:02:46Do you want to pack up and go?
00:02:49Yeah.
00:02:51Boom.
00:03:01I see it, thank you.
00:03:06This fight is one of the worst fights we've ever been in,
00:03:08and I don't know how it's going to affect the rest of our relationship.
00:03:14Sophie says she's going to come home with me,
00:03:17so we're going to get back to the house,
00:03:19get away from this Airbnb,
00:03:20and get away from the idea that she's just going to leave.
00:03:23And I'm just hoping that she can see that,
00:03:27no, she's got a good guy, he just made a mistake.
00:03:37I've had an emotional migraine all day.
00:03:41I'm staying with Rob because it's not necessarily...
00:03:46He didn't cheat on me.
00:03:48He did something he knew would hurt me, and it sucks,
00:03:51but I don't think what he's done is worth throwing us away.
00:04:04You look good being back in here.
00:04:07Rob has a lot to prove to me in order for me to trust him again,
00:04:10but to be honest, I just don't know if he'll do it,
00:04:14or what I even need to see from him.
00:04:17And I just feel like it's not looking good in terms of us being married in 90 days.
00:04:21It doesn't really look realistic.
00:04:23Are you down to put the ring back on, though?
00:04:25Is it this finger?
00:04:27It's the left.
00:04:30Yeah.
00:04:31Does it fit?
00:04:32Yes.
00:04:33Leave it on.
00:04:42Don't make that face.
00:04:44Stop it. I'm not done.
00:05:00Alright, we're getting close. Watch your step.
00:05:03Where are you taking me?
00:05:05Uh, it's a little bit of a surprise.
00:05:10I know you like the beach. I know you like these houses over here.
00:05:13But I appreciate you giving me a chance to do something like this for you.
00:05:18When I woke up today, Rob surprised me and said that he has something planned for me at the beach
00:05:23and that I should just go and pack my clothes.
00:05:25Rob isn't like the best at day ideas or surprises,
00:05:28so I'm just really excited to see what he has planned for me.
00:05:31But at the same time, Rob has really hurt me,
00:05:34and I'm not someone that can just forgive things so easily.
00:05:39Alright, we're going here. This blue building.
00:05:43Pull it.
00:05:44Oh.
00:05:45I don't like that at all. It's confusing.
00:05:49It's super cute.
00:05:51Alright, so we're going up these steps, but check out the view real quick.
00:05:54Oh, this is so nice.
00:05:56Like it?
00:05:57Yeah, thank you.
00:06:00I love the ocean.
00:06:01It's super cute.
00:06:03We're going up this way if you want to lead the way.
00:06:06That's really lovely.
00:06:09Ladies first.
00:06:11Oh, this is so nice.
00:06:17It's really cute.
00:06:20Will you do this for me?
00:06:21Of course. You're always talking about how you want a house on the beach.
00:06:26Here, let's look around.
00:06:28It's really lovely what Rob's done and everything,
00:06:30but he thinks that romanticness equals something expensive,
00:06:34or he has to have a bunch of money to do it,
00:06:35when ultimately, just be nicer to me.
00:06:37It's not really that difficult to just be a bit more sweet.
00:06:39Like he can very much, because he used to be sweet.
00:06:42Before I met him online, he was saying,
00:06:44he was sending me paragraphs of how much he can't wait to be with me,
00:06:47and he's been struck by Cupid's arrow.
00:06:49That's why it's like I know it's in there,
00:06:51and sometimes I do see it and I'm really happy,
00:06:53but it's like I want it to be consistent.
00:07:02You happy?
00:07:03I'm very happy.
00:07:04I'm glad you're happy.
00:07:05I'm trying to make you happy.
00:07:10Now you've got lipstick on your mouth.
00:07:11Now I've got lipstick all over my mouth.
00:07:12You look beautiful.
00:07:14Guess what this place has?
00:07:15What?
00:07:16It has a bathroom right down that hallway.
00:07:19Does it?
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:21Wow.
00:07:22Like a whole new world.
00:07:25The bathroom's inside.
00:07:26The bathroom's inside.
00:07:28I figured that was essential.
00:07:30I was not going to find a place without a bathroom inside.
00:07:33I don't think there is any other places with a bathroom outside.
00:07:36It wasn't hard to find a place where the bathroom was inside.
00:07:39Yeah.
00:07:40I think yours is the only one.
00:07:41Easy access.
00:07:42Yeah.
00:07:44It's nice.
00:07:46I'm not going to say it's a turn-on,
00:07:47because a bathroom is normal,
00:07:50but yeah, I'm very glad there is a bathroom inside the house.
00:07:58The view is so nice.
00:08:00Let's go out here and soak it up a little bit.
00:08:02The beach, the sailboats, the waves.
00:08:09It's a lot better view than your apartment.
00:08:11Yeah.
00:08:12Thank you. I appreciate it.
00:08:14I'm glad you do.
00:08:15I like when you do stuff like this for me.
00:08:19I do wish I could do more of this type of stuff.
00:08:21Yeah.
00:08:22I try when I can, you know.
00:08:23Yeah.
00:08:24You just keep working with me and loving me,
00:08:27and I'll always try my best to do stuff for you.
00:08:31I appreciate you.
00:08:55My engineering paid off.
00:08:57That's why I went to college,
00:08:59so I can do stuff like this.
00:09:07Yesterday, I walked in the house,
00:09:09and Jasmine had all this stuff that she found in my house.
00:09:13You know, pictures of my exes,
00:09:16a van that I was in,
00:09:18and all this stuff.
00:09:20You know, pictures of my exes,
00:09:23Valentine's cards.
00:09:25I mean, she was really upset
00:09:27because she found this stuff,
00:09:29and I didn't get rid of it before she got here.
00:09:32You know, and I don't think she should be getting upset.
00:09:36This is like my past relationships.
00:09:39Why would you get upset about that?
00:09:42I just hope it gets better.
00:09:44I really do.
00:09:47Where is your dad?
00:09:49He's not here, so he must be upstairs.
00:10:01What is that?
00:10:02These are the steps for Coco
00:10:05so he doesn't have to jump on the bed anymore.
00:10:11So how was the nail salon?
00:10:16It was nice.
00:10:20I would love to know
00:10:25about something.
00:10:28I would love to know
00:10:30what you did the day before I arrived
00:10:35to USA.
00:10:40The day before you arrived?
00:10:45The day before you arrived?
00:10:47Yeah.
00:10:49I didn't go out the day before you arrived.
00:10:54What about you spending time
00:10:56with Dana, Anthony?
00:11:02You're talking about my bachelor party?
00:11:04Yeah.
00:11:05What's up with that?
00:11:09That's my exact question,
00:11:11what's up with that?
00:11:14So number one thing,
00:11:16you didn't tell me.
00:11:18You have a bachelor's party.
00:11:20And I get it.
00:11:21Because I had one,
00:11:22it's fair, you had one.
00:11:24But why didn't you tell me?
00:11:29Well, honestly,
00:11:31I didn't want you to be pissed off or upset
00:11:34preparing to come to the United States
00:11:37because I'm going out on a bachelor party,
00:11:39which to me is very normal here in the United States
00:11:42if you're getting married,
00:11:44to go out for a bachelor party.
00:11:46Okay.
00:11:47Stupid excuse, but okay.
00:11:50When were you planning,
00:11:52I'm already here,
00:11:53I've been here for a while,
00:11:55when were you planning to tell me?
00:12:00You know,
00:12:01I wasn't really going to tell you
00:12:03unless you asked.
00:12:06If you would ask me about it,
00:12:08I would be more than happy to.
00:12:10How the heck would I ask about you?
00:12:11How would I know?
00:12:13What did you do?
00:12:14You went with your family
00:12:15but be more specific.
00:12:16Yeah, I went with my family.
00:12:17Where?
00:12:18Big deal.
00:12:19Where?
00:12:20We went to a strip club.
00:12:24And a lot of people have bachelor parties,
00:12:26by the way,
00:12:27in my country,
00:12:28in strip clubs.
00:12:29Did you enjoy it?
00:12:31I didn't even ask for any dances.
00:12:34I didn't touch any girls.
00:12:37Woo!
00:12:41Woo!
00:12:46Oh, hello.
00:12:49See what you got.
00:12:52I wasn't that bad of a boy.
00:12:56I was with my family.
00:12:57This is a fun night out.
00:12:58Before you come,
00:12:59why are you so upset about that?
00:13:02It's your freaking attitude,
00:13:04you know,
00:13:05and it has been like the same
00:13:06for three f***ing years.
00:13:08I always have to discover s***
00:13:10from other people.
00:13:12And when I confront you,
00:13:14this is your f***ing attitude,
00:13:16you know,
00:13:17all the time.
00:13:18What's my attitude?
00:13:19You're careless.
00:13:20Like, oh, you got mad,
00:13:21you shouldn't.
00:13:22You shouldn't get mad.
00:13:23Yeah, you shouldn't get mad.
00:13:24Why are you upset?
00:13:25But I am
00:13:26because you lie to me,
00:13:27you know,
00:13:28all the time.
00:13:29You're hiding things.
00:13:34I don't want to marry you.
00:13:39That's up to you.
00:13:40I don't want to marry you
00:13:41because I don't...
00:13:42I can't marry someone
00:13:43that gets upset and angry like you.
00:13:48You're way overreacting.
00:13:49You're way out of control.
00:13:52I think you need some help
00:13:53is what I think.
00:13:56I need a ticket back to Panama.
00:13:57That's what I think.
00:13:58That's what I think.
00:13:59You are way overreacting
00:14:00about a stupid bachelor party.
00:14:02I need a ticket back.
00:14:03A once-in-a-lifetime
00:14:04bachelor party
00:14:05that you're getting this upset.
00:14:07I need a ticket back to Panama.
00:14:10That's up to you.
00:14:11Okay.
00:14:12I'm not joking, you know.
00:14:13Okay.
00:14:14I'm not joking.
00:14:15You act like I cheated on you.
00:14:16This is something...
00:14:17That's the way it feels.
00:14:18That's the way it feels, you know.
00:14:20I'm tired of having to tell you
00:14:22that I'm sorry for the way
00:14:24that you make me feel.
00:14:29Yeah, okay.
00:14:30All right, thanks.
00:14:31Take that.
00:14:32Take that.
00:14:33I don't want it.
00:14:34Give it to someone else.
00:14:35I want to go back with my dog
00:14:37to Panama.
00:14:38I want to be with my kids.
00:14:40Yeah, I don't want you here.
00:14:42I know you don't want me.
00:14:43If you're so angry...
00:14:44You've made me angry.
00:14:45Let me finish my sentence.
00:14:47I can't speak to you.
00:14:48I can't talk to you.
00:14:49F*** you, you know.
00:14:50Okay.
00:14:51I'm not going to do
00:14:52any s*** with this, man.
00:14:54I'm not doing...
00:14:55I don't want to be here.
00:15:03It's crazy.
00:15:08Yeah, it's crazy.
00:15:12I don't want to marry a person
00:15:14that doesn't care
00:15:15about how I feel.
00:15:18That doesn't care.
00:15:20That hides the truth
00:15:21all the time.
00:15:24I don't want to...
00:15:25I don't want to have
00:15:26that kind of life.
00:15:27I prefer to be alone.
00:15:32I just want to go home.
00:15:34I made a big mistake.
00:15:35The biggest mistake.
00:15:38This happens all the time.
00:15:41It's starting to wear me out.
00:15:44She's always threatening to leave.
00:15:46It's getting to become
00:15:47too much for me.
00:15:49Because my life
00:15:50shouldn't be like that.
00:16:02We just got to Memphis.
00:16:04Walk faster.
00:16:05Yeah.
00:16:06I know Nick is nervous
00:16:08about meeting my parents.
00:16:11I'm worried.
00:16:12I don't know a lot about them.
00:16:15Well, there they are.
00:16:16You can stay home.
00:16:20At least when my mother
00:16:21saw Nicole,
00:16:23she didn't know
00:16:24that Nicole is trans.
00:16:41So we're going to take a bus
00:16:42to the Incheon airport.
00:16:45In like 24 hours
00:16:46you'll be in America.
00:16:58Bye-bye Korea.
00:17:00I think you'll definitely
00:17:01get home safe.
00:17:03At some point, yeah.
00:17:04My friends, my family.
00:17:08I'll definitely miss them.
00:17:11We will come back though.
00:17:13Thanks, mate.
00:17:17I've never thought about
00:17:18going to U.S.
00:17:20I think America is
00:17:21something too far away.
00:17:27That's the robot.
00:17:28That's the robot.
00:17:30Oh, he's smiling.
00:17:31Let's go say hello.
00:17:33Kind of risky
00:17:34leaving my friends behind,
00:17:37my family behind.
00:17:39But Devin and I
00:17:41are meant to be
00:17:42together forever.
00:17:44So I'm willing to go
00:17:45to U.S. for her.
00:17:47Let's go that way.
00:17:48You want to go to the toilet?
00:17:52I think we should go
00:17:53through security first.
00:17:55Okay.
00:18:10Watch out!
00:18:22We just got to Memphis
00:18:26to see our parents.
00:18:30Come on.
00:18:31Walk faster.
00:18:33Yeah.
00:18:35I know Nick is nervous
00:18:36about meeting my parents.
00:18:38I'm worried about
00:18:39living with them.
00:18:41It's not my house.
00:18:43It's not my family.
00:18:44So I have to be polite,
00:18:47respect the culture,
00:18:49respect everyone there.
00:18:52Yeah, it's scary.
00:19:04There they are.
00:19:05We finally meet you.
00:19:06You're real.
00:19:08I'm glad to meet you too.
00:19:10Let me give you a hug.
00:19:13How are you?
00:19:14I'm so glad you're real.
00:19:16I thought it wasn't
00:19:17going to happen.
00:19:19You look just the same
00:19:21as the picture.
00:19:22You know what I mean?
00:19:23You look the same too.
00:19:25Okay.
00:19:26Except you're real.
00:19:27Like, you are real.
00:19:29Not just this
00:19:30made-up person Devin had.
00:19:34Nick being from South Korea,
00:19:36he's really coming
00:19:37into a strange situation.
00:19:40The primary concerns
00:19:41that I have
00:19:42about their relationship
00:19:43is just the unknowns
00:19:45about how they interact
00:19:47in person.
00:19:49We're looking forward
00:19:50to figuring that out
00:19:52since we're all going to be
00:19:53under one roof together.
00:19:54Their relationship's
00:19:55in front of us,
00:19:56so if they have an argument,
00:19:57we're going to be seeing
00:19:58and hearing it.
00:19:59So are you excited
00:20:00to be here?
00:20:01Very excited.
00:20:02And nervous.
00:20:03Very nervous.
00:20:04Very nervous.
00:20:05Because I'm hearing
00:20:06some accent
00:20:07I'm not used to.
00:20:08Bare with me.
00:20:09My English is not perfect.
00:20:10We'll have you
00:20:11a Southern slang
00:20:12before you know it.
00:20:13Okay, okay.
00:20:15There's so much
00:20:16going on in my head.
00:20:18There's so many things
00:20:19I have to take in.
00:20:21Is that it?
00:20:22Is that it?
00:20:23Yeah, that's it right there.
00:20:25I noticed
00:20:26I'm the only Asian here.
00:20:29I'm the only one.
00:20:32That's overwhelming.
00:20:34Whoa.
00:20:38I have no idea
00:20:39where the car's at.
00:20:40It's up here to the right.
00:20:41This lights in the car park
00:20:44because it's so dark.
00:20:46You know?
00:20:48It's like something's
00:20:49going to happen here.
00:20:51Yeah, this is not a safe town
00:20:53that we're in.
00:20:54Really?
00:20:55Oh, let's get out of here.
00:20:57Let's get out of here.
00:20:58This is my day one.
00:20:59I don't want to, you know.
00:21:01It is day one.
00:21:02It is day one.
00:21:03My day one?
00:21:04You know what that means?
00:21:05I think he's saying
00:21:06he wants to make it longer
00:21:07than day one.
00:21:08Yeah.
00:21:10This is day one of 90 days
00:21:13until we have to get married.
00:21:14It's something that we
00:21:16didn't really ever imagine
00:21:18being here.
00:21:21All right, let's go.
00:21:24I don't know about him.
00:21:25It still hasn't, like,
00:21:26set in completely yet for me.
00:21:29The second we came off that plane,
00:21:31that's when the thoughts
00:21:32started to kick in.
00:21:44Okay, baby, we're getting closer.
00:21:46My parents' house,
00:21:47and we must be nice.
00:21:50We have a lot to, like,
00:21:51work on, like, after.
00:21:53Right now I'm just going to
00:21:54live in the moment.
00:22:01What?
00:22:02First time.
00:22:03First time in my life
00:22:04I see how cows
00:22:05f*** each other.
00:22:06Here.
00:22:10Okay, baby,
00:22:11this is my parents' house.
00:22:15Okay.
00:22:18I definitely feel like
00:22:19it's the wrong energy
00:22:21to go and see his family
00:22:23after we had a huge blowup
00:22:25in the car.
00:22:26Justin made such a big deal
00:22:28about how I look,
00:22:29and I was like,
00:22:30I'm so sorry.
00:22:31I'm so sorry.
00:22:32I'm so sorry.
00:22:33I'm so sorry.
00:22:34I'm so sorry.
00:22:35I'm so sorry.
00:22:36I'm sorry.
00:22:37I'm so sorry.
00:22:38I'm so sorry.
00:22:39I'm so sorry.
00:22:40I'm so sorry.
00:22:41I'm so sorry.
00:22:42I'm so sorry.
00:22:43Justin made such a big deal
00:22:44about how I look,
00:22:45making me feel a little bit,
00:22:46you know, insecure.
00:22:47Go straight ahead.
00:22:49But for the sake of tonight,
00:22:51we both need to put
00:22:52our differences to the side
00:22:54and try to make it
00:22:56a better vibe
00:22:58for us to meet his family.
00:23:01Hi.
00:23:03Привет, мама.
00:23:05Привет.
00:23:08Привет.
00:23:09Hello.
00:23:11Jessica.
00:23:13Jessica.
00:23:17Nicole, this is my stepfather,
00:23:19Daniel.
00:23:24Meeting with my parents,
00:23:27they are, like,
00:23:28older generation.
00:23:30I'm nervous
00:23:31because the last time
00:23:33my mother saw Nicole,
00:23:35she didn't know
00:23:36that Nicole is trans.
00:23:40Mom!
00:23:46That's her son, you know,
00:23:47and the way that it went down
00:23:49and the way we broke up,
00:23:50it's a little nerve-wracking
00:23:51and it's a little uncomfortable for me.
00:23:54And now I'm nervous
00:23:56if she forgive this all.
00:24:01Hey.
00:24:09Good boy.
00:24:10Good boy.
00:24:16Let's go.
00:24:18Who's there?
00:24:20Wow!
00:24:21Wow!
00:24:22Wow!
00:24:24Привет, моя!
00:24:25Let's go.
00:24:32Привет.
00:24:33Давно тебя не видела.
00:24:34Очень давно тебя не видела.
00:24:36Тише, тише.
00:24:38Моя девочка, добрая девочка.
00:24:41Я узнала,
00:24:42что они начали снова общаться.
00:24:44Я не скажу,
00:24:45что это было для меня
00:24:46неожиданностью.
00:24:48На здоровье!
00:24:50На здоровье!
00:24:53Как мама,
00:24:54как каждая мама,
00:24:55которая переживает
00:24:56за состояние,
00:24:59до конца не знаю,
00:25:00что там произошло,
00:25:02но то, что видела,
00:25:03вот это могу сказать.
00:25:05Да, тяжело перенес эту разлогу.
00:25:09Он очень долго,
00:25:10почти два года,
00:25:12он выходил вот с такого стресса,
00:25:15я бы сказала.
00:25:18Я кое-что принесла,
00:25:19и сейчас я покажу.
00:25:20Николь понравится.
00:25:22И сейчас, как увидишь,
00:25:25ты не поверишь.
00:25:27Я уже вижу,
00:25:28что ты хочешь показать.
00:25:29Нет, сейчас я покажу.
00:25:31Пошел.
00:25:32Я покажу тебе фотографии
00:25:34нашей семьи.
00:25:37Кто этот мальчик?
00:25:39Мальчик.
00:25:41Мальчик Игорь.
00:25:49Джастин Тимберлейк.
00:25:51Она держала его фотографию.
00:25:56По крайней мере,
00:25:57она не закрепила.
00:25:58Она закрепила.
00:26:00Нет, нет, нет.
00:26:01Смотри, она начинает.
00:26:05Нет, нет, она начинает,
00:26:06и я закреплю.
00:26:08Нет, ты, наверное, сделала это.
00:26:18Эту я не имею.
00:26:19Я не имею эту фотографию.
00:26:21Да, да, да, да.
00:26:30Майя, это очень важно,
00:26:33что ты все еще держала мои фотографии
00:26:35и наши фотографии
00:26:36много лет назад.
00:26:38Я очень рада,
00:26:39что ты не закрыла сердце,
00:26:41и открыла свой ум,
00:26:42чтобы мы попробовали снова.
00:26:51Несмотря на то,
00:26:52что ты злишься на то,
00:26:54что я вернулся.
00:27:03Say you don't forget nothing.
00:27:07Принесу торт.
00:27:09Сейчас придем.
00:27:11Сейчас придем.
00:27:20Как ты думаешь,
00:27:21что сейчас происходит?
00:27:29Тебе нравится?
00:27:30Мне нравится.
00:27:31Мне нравится.
00:27:32Вот почему я люблю тебя.
00:27:33Ты пиздец.
00:27:36Что ты думаешь,
00:27:37что сейчас происходит с твоей мамой?
00:27:38Я думаю,
00:27:39что все будет хорошо.
00:27:40Да?
00:27:41Теперь ты можешь видеть
00:27:43мою работу.
00:27:45Это то, что я делаю
00:27:48для моей семьи
00:27:49понимание,
00:27:50открытие
00:27:51и поддержка.
00:27:52И поддержка нам.
00:27:53Понимаешь?
00:27:54Да.
00:27:58Джестон сделал много,
00:27:59чтобы даже быть со мной
00:28:00в первую очередь.
00:28:02Я вижу,
00:28:03что Джестон готовил
00:28:04своих родителей
00:28:05к тому,
00:28:06чтобы они меня приняли.
00:28:07Что я люблю,
00:28:08потому что
00:28:09это показывает,
00:28:10сколько он меня любит.
00:28:11Это значит мне много.
00:28:15Я постараюсь не быть так сложной
00:28:16с тобой,
00:28:17как ты.
00:28:18Я постараюсь быть
00:28:19более честной, не так ли?
00:28:20Я буду очень счастлив.
00:28:37Мы должны были провести свадьбу
00:28:38в 70-что-то дней,
00:28:39а ты разговариваешь о кофе.
00:28:41Что, черт, происходит?
00:28:44Мы не находимся
00:28:45на той же длине сейчас.
00:28:46Это меня страхует,
00:28:47насколько это безумно.
00:29:03Так что, моя любовь,
00:29:04мы будем идти весь день.
00:29:06Мы идем каждый день.
00:29:09Так что,
00:29:10ты хочешь
00:29:11шапки,
00:29:12которые будут очень комфортны?
00:29:14Рико,
00:29:15что мы делаем, дорогая?
00:29:16Мы не находимся на табле.
00:29:17Уходи из таблицы.
00:29:19Ты знаешь,
00:29:20что мы не находимся на таблице.
00:29:33Нам нужно пойти купить кофе.
00:29:35Так что,
00:29:36я не хочу,
00:29:37чтобы ты говорила об этом.
00:29:45Я не хочу,
00:29:46чтобы ты говорила об этом.
00:29:49Так что,
00:29:50у меня сегодня много дел,
00:29:51и я забираю Мануэла с собой,
00:29:53чтобы я мог убрать его
00:29:54немного из дома.
00:29:55Это очень важно,
00:29:56чтобы Мануэл
00:29:57начал чувствовать себя дома,
00:29:58в США,
00:29:59несмотря на то,
00:30:00сколько он пропадает
00:30:01от семьи в Эквадоре,
00:30:02потому что
00:30:03это его новый дом.
00:30:07Хорошо,
00:30:08я сделаю кофе,
00:30:09чтобы попробовать
00:30:10вместе с нами,
00:30:11хорошо?
00:30:14Возьми все кофе.
00:30:18Я никогда не видел
00:30:19человека,
00:30:20который пьет кофе
00:30:21с Майклом.
00:30:22Конечно,
00:30:23кофе
00:30:24очень вкусно,
00:30:25но не так,
00:30:26как она делает.
00:30:27И еще,
00:30:28минар,
00:30:29и эспрессо.
00:30:30Если ты пьешь
00:30:312-3 кофе
00:30:32в день
00:30:33на 7 дней,
00:30:35и добавляешь
00:30:36на месяц,
00:30:37это хорошее деньго.
00:30:38Что случилось с этим?
00:30:40Кофе тебе не повезло?
00:30:44Я всегда любил...
00:30:45Я люблю
00:30:46экономизировать.
00:30:47Но она
00:30:48живет в деньгах.
00:30:49Если у меня 50,
00:30:50я использую 50 часов.
00:30:51И это не так.
00:30:52Я понимаю
00:30:53твой пункт,
00:30:54Manuel,
00:30:55но если я
00:30:56использую 2 кофе
00:30:57и ты говоришь
00:30:58только 1 кофе,
00:30:59я храню
00:31:018 долларов,
00:31:02и эти 8 долларов
00:31:03идут в газ.
00:31:05Нет ничего
00:31:06для снижения.
00:31:07Но благодаря тому,
00:31:08что ты нашел человека,
00:31:09например,
00:31:10ты нашел человека,
00:31:11который поможет тебе
00:31:12снижать
00:31:13деньги.
00:31:14Мануэл,
00:31:15стоп.
00:31:16Мануэл,
00:31:17Мануэл.
00:31:18Да,
00:31:19я говорю.
00:31:20Да.
00:31:22О боже,
00:31:23я упала в кофе!
00:31:44Давай твой кофе.
00:31:46Давай.
00:31:52Necesito tu ayuda,
00:31:53Manuel.
00:31:54Estoy tratando
00:31:55de manejar.
00:31:56¿Qué quieres con todo?
00:31:57¿Qué quieres con todo?
00:31:59Ya, ok.
00:32:00Toma café.
00:32:01Toma café.
00:32:02Tienes un café acá.
00:32:03¿Qué necesidad
00:32:04tienes de abrir
00:32:05otro café
00:32:06y tomarte los dos?
00:32:07Si no,
00:32:08estás con un café en la mano
00:32:09con otro café
00:32:10en la otra mano
00:32:11y manejando.
00:32:12¿Quieres pulpo?
00:32:17I don't even know
00:32:18what we're arguing about.
00:32:19I don't.
00:32:20And I feel like
00:32:21I'm not doing anything wrong.
00:32:22I'm just living.
00:32:24And he is just
00:32:26picking
00:32:27at things.
00:32:39Hello?
00:32:40Hey,
00:32:41Hey.
00:32:43I am just calling you
00:32:44because I'm on
00:32:45the verge of tears
00:32:46and I just need to like
00:32:47chill.
00:32:49What's going on?
00:32:50He's
00:32:51pissy right now.
00:32:53He's carrying
00:32:54on and on
00:32:55about
00:32:56the coffee.
00:32:57The coffee?
00:32:58Yes!
00:33:00And I
00:33:01drinking
00:33:02too much coffee.
00:33:05It's like
00:33:06so stupid.
00:33:09Yeah,
00:33:10yeah,
00:33:11he's right next to me.
00:33:36What world
00:33:37are you living in?
00:33:38And is this
00:33:39going to be
00:33:40my world?
00:33:45Maybe it's something
00:33:46bigger than coffee
00:33:47and it's like
00:33:48scaring me
00:33:49at how ignorant
00:33:50this s*** is.
00:33:51I'm not even going to lie.
00:33:55We're supposed to be
00:33:56having a wedding
00:33:57in 70 something days
00:33:58and you're arguing
00:33:59over coffee.
00:34:00What the f***
00:34:01is going on?
00:34:02Part of me
00:34:03wants to turn around.
00:34:04We are not
00:34:05on the same
00:34:06wavelength right now.
00:34:0790 days
00:34:08is not even close
00:34:09to enough time
00:34:10to assess the situation.
00:34:12I want to get through this.
00:34:13I want to marry him
00:34:14but on some real s***.
00:34:16It's moments like these
00:34:17where I'm like,
00:34:18am I in over my head?
00:34:19Like I'm not even joking
00:34:20right now,
00:34:21like dead a**.
00:34:38I'm making a big sacrifice
00:34:40to leave my mother alone.
00:34:42Nothing,
00:34:43mother is only one.
00:34:44Well, boyfriend,
00:34:45you can find him.
00:35:01Surprise,
00:35:02it's a pool.
00:35:03Oh.
00:35:05Oh.
00:35:27Okay.
00:35:35Whoa, whoa, whoa,
00:35:36what the f*** are you doing?
00:35:37Hold on now.
00:35:39Okay.
00:35:40Despacio.
00:35:42Whoa, whoa, whoa,
00:35:43what the f*** are you doing?
00:35:44Hold on now.
00:35:46Okay.
00:35:47Despacio.
00:36:12It's so emotional.
00:36:13More, please.
00:36:14More, Timothy.
00:36:15Paz, this is crazy.
00:36:19What did you hear
00:36:20from your sister
00:36:21after we saw each other?
00:36:23I only heard
00:36:25something from my mom
00:36:27that my sister
00:36:29arrived safely.
00:36:33With Brandi,
00:36:34we didn't have
00:36:35a good connection
00:36:37or communication
00:36:38in the first meeting
00:36:40we had.
00:36:42She was very hard on me.
00:36:44Without knowing me,
00:36:45she said things
00:36:46I never imagined
00:36:47she would say.
00:36:48Like, I don't know,
00:36:49you're here
00:36:50for the green card.
00:36:51What's her problem
00:36:53with me?
00:36:58I want to visit Brandi.
00:37:02Normally,
00:37:03we don't fight.
00:37:05I don't know
00:37:06what her problem is,
00:37:07but I hope
00:37:08to talk to her
00:37:10to make everything better.
00:37:17I don't know.
00:37:18She's attacking me
00:37:19without knowing me.
00:37:20I didn't do anything to her.
00:37:22She doesn't know anything about me.
00:37:24I think Annalie and Brandi
00:37:26need to spend more time
00:37:27with each other.
00:37:28I think it's weird
00:37:29to have her kind of insulting
00:37:31and not getting along
00:37:32with my fiancé
00:37:34because, you know,
00:37:35I love my sister,
00:37:36but I also love Annalie.
00:37:38It kind of, like,
00:37:39snaps me back into reality,
00:37:41like, oh,
00:37:42we need to resolve this.
00:37:44The pigs are very stressed.
00:37:46Está muy estresado.
00:38:06♪♪
00:38:12-♪♪
00:38:27-♪♪
00:38:32-♪♪
00:38:35-♪♪
00:39:05-♪♪
00:39:35-♪♪
00:40:06-♪♪
00:40:19-♪♪
00:40:36-♪♪
00:40:49-♪♪
00:40:55-♪♪
00:41:03-♪♪
00:41:08-♪♪
00:41:25-♪♪
00:41:28-♪♪
00:41:29-Oh, this is so nice.
00:41:31He thinks that, like,
00:41:32romanticness equals
00:41:33something expensive.
00:41:35Just be nicer to me.
00:41:36It's not really that difficult.
00:41:37-♪♪
00:41:44-♪♪
00:41:54-♪♪
00:41:59-♪♪
00:42:04-♪♪
00:42:09-♪♪
00:42:16Let's go outside,
00:42:17because I'm gonna get
00:42:18this fire started,
00:42:19and we can have us a drink
00:42:20and eat some dinner.
00:42:22-♪♪
00:42:29-♪♪
00:42:34I gotta figure out
00:42:35how to get this thing started.
00:42:39-♪♪
00:42:43Hey.
00:42:44-♪♪
00:42:45Hey.
00:42:46Your boy got talent.
00:42:48-♪♪
00:42:49Good job.
00:42:50-♪♪
00:42:51Wow, and it's blowing
00:42:52right at me.
00:42:53I love it.
00:42:54-♪♪
00:42:55Yeah, but the glass is wrong.
00:42:56-♪♪
00:42:59-♪♪
00:43:00Where did you get the food?
00:43:01-♪♪
00:43:02Well, when it comes to the food,
00:43:05I wanted to show you
00:43:06that I know you.
00:43:08I found chicken korma.
00:43:11-♪♪
00:43:12I love Indian food.
00:43:13It's, like, my favorite,
00:43:14so it does mean a lot to me
00:43:15that Rob's chosen, like,
00:43:16a meal that he knows I love
00:43:17and not just, like,
00:43:18what he wants,
00:43:19so I appreciate him, like,
00:43:20really putting in the effort.
00:43:22-♪♪
00:43:23I feel really bad
00:43:24about everything,
00:43:26and I just didn't feel like...
00:43:32I don't know if I'll ever feel
00:43:33like I've done enough,
00:43:34but I just felt like
00:43:35I wanted to do more
00:43:37to show you that I'm sorry
00:43:39and hopefully make you happy
00:43:41and keep you happy.
00:43:42-♪♪
00:43:43Like, you can't just, like,
00:43:44act like nothing happened,
00:43:45you know?
00:43:46-♪♪
00:43:47I'm not gonna act like
00:43:48nothing happened.
00:43:49-♪♪
00:43:50Because you hurt me a lot.
00:43:51-♪♪
00:43:52I'm sorry, and I know that,
00:43:53and I'm not gonna act
00:43:54like nothing happened.
00:43:56I know it was stupid and ignorant
00:43:58to think there was a difference
00:43:59or that there was levels
00:44:01of what's appropriate
00:44:02and what's not.
00:44:03None of it was appropriate.
00:44:06Um, and I'm sorry.
00:44:08I'm sorry that...
00:44:11I allowed anything like that
00:44:12to go down.
00:44:17Do you forgive me,
00:44:18or do you think you ever will?
00:44:23-♪♪
00:44:28I mean, I forgive you.
00:44:29I haven't forgotten what you did,
00:44:30but I forgive you.
00:44:34I'm serious about, like,
00:44:35what I need,
00:44:36and if anything like this
00:44:37happens again, like,
00:44:38I'm leaving.
00:44:39Like, I'm not, you know,
00:44:40we're actually together now.
00:44:41I'm in America.
00:44:42You have no excuse.
00:44:43Like, I have no reason
00:44:44to give you the benefit
00:44:45of the doubt.
00:44:46Like, I'm here, you know?
00:44:47So I'm, like,
00:44:48if you do anything like it,
00:44:49like, I'm gonna be gone.
00:44:53-♪♪
00:44:54Without a doubt in my mind,
00:44:55I don't want anybody else,
00:44:56and I haven't wanted
00:44:57anybody else since I knew,
00:44:58since I met Sophie,
00:45:00but, yeah,
00:45:01I am definitely kicking myself
00:45:02that I was, that I've made
00:45:04any mistakes along the way.
00:45:07I just wish I could
00:45:08take it all back.
00:45:11I'm still gonna check your phone
00:45:12till I can trust you again.
00:45:14That's fine.
00:45:16Every time that you think
00:45:17about my mistakes from the past,
00:45:21remind yourself about
00:45:23our potential future.
00:45:27Okay?
00:45:30I'm definitely hopeful
00:45:31for the future of the relationship,
00:45:33and I don't, I don't feel like
00:45:36I'm gonna find somebody
00:45:37who's closer to what I want
00:45:39than who Sophie is.
00:45:40You know, she is who I want,
00:45:42and her personality
00:45:43is what I want.
00:45:44The person that I see us,
00:45:46you know, her being
00:45:47and who we are 10 years from now,
00:45:49I feel like that, that works.
00:45:52What she wants in life,
00:45:53what I want in life work.
00:45:56Who she is, who I am work.
00:45:58As long as we can push out
00:45:59all of the negative things,
00:46:01we will work,
00:46:02and I feel confident in that.
00:46:07Okay, make a toast to me.
00:46:09Okay.
00:46:10Just to me, not us to me.
00:46:14I won't jump off a building
00:46:15if I didn't have you.
00:46:17You would.
00:46:18But I might go live
00:46:19in a hobbit hole.
00:46:20If you didn't have me
00:46:21in your life?
00:46:22Cheers.
00:46:23Yeah, I'd go live in the,
00:46:24in the woods,
00:46:25in a hole in the ground.
00:46:29You'd see me covered in, like, moss.
00:46:33Collecting wood.
00:46:35That's kind of romantic.
00:46:37That's the real love.
00:46:39In Rob's way, that's romantic.
00:46:40That's my love right there.
00:46:42Cheers.
00:46:52Hello.
00:46:53Hello.
00:46:56Hello.
00:46:59Oh my goodness, that looks so good.
00:47:04So, we have about four more months
00:47:07before the K1 visa is approved,
00:47:09and how are you going to feel
00:47:11him leaving again.
00:47:13I know you must feel a little bit nervous.
00:47:41When I came back from the United States for the first time, I was very upset and very
00:48:08worried.
00:48:09It made me upset too.
00:48:21I really, like, at that moment, I tried.
00:48:24To tell you she's very worried about me?
00:48:28Don't be sad.
00:48:30OK, OK.
00:48:32I don't want to make this, like, so emotional.
00:48:38Like, I want this to be a happy moment.
00:49:06I don't want to, like, relive the past because it's making her, it's making her upset.
00:49:16We have a lot, like, we have a lot of people.
00:49:20Our feelings are invested and other people's feelings are invested.
00:49:23Our parents' feelings are invested.
00:49:25Our friends' feelings are invested.
00:49:27Everyone's feelings are invested.
00:49:31And I don't, like, want the same thing to happen the last time happen again.
00:49:42Well, well, well.
00:49:43Hi.
00:49:54I know I was kind of a turd the last time.
00:49:57Is that what you call it?
00:50:01I asked myself, is there someone else?
00:50:07Try to brush it off.
00:50:10Act like I'm too cool.
00:50:16Five minutes.
00:50:18Five minutes?
00:50:19Yeah.
00:50:20OK.
00:50:21OK.
00:50:40Wow!
00:50:41Good job, Cheekys.
00:50:48All right, Mama, me and Annaliese are going to go now.
00:50:50Well, be careful driving.
00:50:52Me and Annalie are headed to Indiana
00:50:54this weekend for some alone time.
00:50:58We're also going to visit my sister
00:50:59Brandi while we're up there.
00:51:01Coco chunker boy, you're a chunker boy.
00:51:04You chunky boy.
00:51:06You chunky.
00:51:06Ah.
00:51:08Me?
00:51:19Just about every part of our relationship
00:51:22has reconnected by now.
00:51:24But the one thing that's missing is our intimacy.
00:51:29But me and Annalie are going to be away from home.
00:51:32We're going to be alone in a hotel room.
00:51:34Hopefully, things happen when we're alone
00:51:38and mom's not in the house.
00:51:40Maybe this might be the time.
00:51:43Hopefully.
00:52:05Drogas y maiz.
00:52:07¿Qué?
00:52:08Drogas y maiz.
00:52:24Brandi has invited me and Annalie to an orchard.
00:52:27I don't know if apple picking is a thing in Peru,
00:52:31but it is an American thing.
00:52:33And me and my sister used to come to this apple orchard
00:52:37to have fond childhood memories of this place.
00:52:45Brandi and Annalie meeting for a second time
00:52:47is really important to me because I care
00:52:50about them both very much.
00:52:52But I do know that Brandi is the type of person
00:52:54that will cut someone off in the family
00:52:57if she doesn't like them.
00:52:58But I'm not just going to send Annalie packing
00:53:01because my sister doesn't like her.
00:53:03They have to get along.
00:53:05Vamos, chiqui.
00:53:07¿Tú cerraste bien?
00:53:09Ah.
00:53:32Well, well, well.
00:53:33Hi.
00:53:34Hi.
00:53:35Hello.
00:53:35We meet again.
00:53:36Yep.
00:53:37How are you guys?
00:53:38Appreciate the empty bucket.
00:53:39You're welcome.
00:53:41Hi, how are you?
00:53:42I'm fine, you?
00:53:44Good, good.
00:53:46I wanted Annalie and Clayton to come here today
00:53:49because after how things went last time,
00:53:52I feel bad a little bit, a lot.
00:53:59I just thought that this would be a nice place
00:54:01since it's like a childhood memory.
00:54:03So maybe he will forget how big of a bitch I was being.
00:54:08I didn't react the way I wanted to last time.
00:54:11But it was just like an information
00:54:13overload all at once, finding all of this stuff out.
00:54:18But I want him to be happy.
00:54:20So I plan to keep my doubts to myself the best that I can
00:54:26because I still have a lot.
00:54:28Oh, muchos.
00:54:30I want one.
00:54:32All the good apples are up high, and I'm short,
00:54:34so I can't get them.
00:54:37Which one do you want?
00:54:40I didn't get your height.
00:54:46Thank you guys for coming today because I
00:54:49know I was kind of a turd the last time.
00:54:51Is that what you call it?
00:54:53Turd?
00:54:54I mean, oops.
00:54:56I mean, it's OK.
00:54:57It's the PG version of it.
00:54:58Yeah.
00:55:14Oh.
00:55:15OK.
00:55:19Thanks for that.
00:55:22Makes her feel better.
00:55:24The reason why I acted so crazy the last time
00:55:27is because I just feel like it kind of was like all at once.
00:55:33What?
00:55:34I mean, I like everything was just an information overload,
00:55:36and it just like made me emotional.
00:55:40And so I'm not going to take it out on you
00:55:42because you're my baby.
00:55:45Do you take it out on her?
00:55:46I mean, yeah.
00:55:47It's not fair, but I just always see you as like my 12-year-old
00:55:53little brother.
00:56:16OK, I'm going to read you what she wrote.
00:56:19For me, it was very difficult to leave my country,
00:56:21mainly for my mother because she is in very delicate health
00:56:24and without someone to accompany her.
00:56:27So when you said that I was just here for a green card,
00:56:31I really wanted to cry at that moment
00:56:32because it was hard for me to leave my mother alone.
00:56:36I really wanted Clayton to be in Peru,
00:56:38but for me, leaving my family was not easy.
00:56:46I'm sorry.
00:56:47That makes me sad.
00:56:52I'm sorry.
00:57:07Ew, I hate crying.
00:57:10It's making me sad to hear about her mom
00:57:13because I only have my mom.
00:57:18Seized and not being there for her, I couldn't imagine.
00:57:27She's here for like a bigger reason than what you think.
00:57:30Like, it's basically our relationship.
00:57:31She's here for a bigger reason than just like citizenship or...
00:57:35Well, I hope so.
00:57:37I mean, you both deserve love.
00:57:49Brandi's finally starting to get to know the Annalie that I know,
00:57:53the one that she should have known the first time
00:57:56had she just asked normal questions.
00:57:59And I'm just really excited to move forward.
00:58:03So how's it been living with mom?
00:58:08It's been mostly okay.
00:58:09Just hard to have like private time.
00:58:15Ew.
00:58:16Ew.
00:58:17Gross.
00:58:21Well, I mean, how did you do it when you still living with mom
00:58:23and you got pregnant with Brooklyn?
00:58:28Like this?
00:58:29No, I'm sorry.
00:58:33Holy ****, Brandi.
00:58:38I've already looked at flights.
00:58:40I can come in a week or two weeks.
00:58:43Rob is not listening to me.
00:58:44I'm hoping my mom can put some sense into him.
00:58:47I feel like it's an SOS.
00:58:49And if I see you super sad, I just want to go psycho on it.
00:59:09Hi.
00:59:09Hey, babes. How's it going?
00:59:11Good.
00:59:15Don't you dare try to change me.
00:59:20Where are you anyway?
00:59:21It's like a bar, like brewery type place in like downtown LA.
00:59:25Just because like if I call you when I'm at Rob's,
00:59:27he can hear our conversation.
00:59:28There's no like privacy.
00:59:30So I just came like here to call you.
00:59:33I can't believe you've had to leave the house
00:59:35to get away from Rob.
00:59:36It's not to get away from Rob.
00:59:37It's to get, there's no, there's no privacy.
00:59:42That's so sad.
00:59:44It's not sad.
00:59:45It is sad, but you want to call your mom
00:59:48instead of being with the man of your dreams.
00:59:51It's literally just change of scenery.
00:59:54Okay.
00:59:56I've been worried about you since last time we spoke.
00:59:59What happened? Are you back together?
01:00:01Are you still going to stay with him?
01:00:03I'm going to give him a chance
01:00:04because obviously like there's not a normal relationship
01:00:07and it's not like he was doing that
01:00:08while we was together in the same house.
01:00:10We was apart for like eight months or whatever.
01:00:13This is on you to be fair
01:00:16because all you ever do since you've been with Rob
01:00:19is we'll get one day,
01:00:20oh, he's being so nice.
01:00:22I'm going to give him another chance.
01:00:23And then the next day,
01:00:24oh, I can't believe what he said, what he's done.
01:00:27It's called insanity.
01:00:28Staying with someone expecting a different result.
01:00:31This is the last chance though.
01:00:32This is like, I'm here now.
01:00:34We're in a relationship.
01:00:35I was accepted.
01:00:36Like there's no problem.
01:00:37So it's like, this is it.
01:00:40Okay. So do you want my opinion?
01:00:43Go on.
01:00:44If he's doing that,
01:00:46how do I know he's not doing other things?
01:00:48I know he wasn't real cheating
01:00:49because I tracked his phone and he doesn't know
01:00:51and he was always just in his house.
01:00:56Have you really?
01:00:59It's not like I ever was like,
01:01:00give me your location.
01:01:01Basically, I felt unsafe one time in a taxi
01:01:03and me and Rob shared locations to make sure I was safe.
01:01:06And then he stupidly never turned his off
01:01:09and I just never told him that I had it the whole time.
01:01:13He still doesn't know I have his location.
01:01:17He still doesn't know.
01:01:19Don't tell him. No one tell him.
01:01:22It's been like three years I've had it.
01:01:25But that's how I know he's never cheated in real life.
01:01:27So it makes me feel better.
01:01:30When I met him,
01:01:31I mean, he bored me a little,
01:01:33if I'm honest, between me and you.
01:01:35He gets on my nerves a bit.
01:01:36He's very like, blah.
01:01:38But I could tell he loved you.
01:01:40I mean, he makes you happy.
01:01:41But the thing is, as time's gone on,
01:01:43I think he makes you happy 35.8% of the time.
01:01:49Unless you're happy,
01:01:51I can't be happy.
01:01:53And if I see you super sad,
01:01:54I just want to go psycho on it.
01:01:55And I don't want to have to do that.
01:01:57Yeah, no, don't do that.
01:02:00Well, here's the good thing.
01:02:02I've already looked at flights.
01:02:04I can come in a week or two weeks.
01:02:07You can't be mean to Rob when you're here.
01:02:10Like, you have to try and get along with him, you know?
01:02:12I'm not going to be rude to him.
01:02:13I'm not rude to anyone.
01:02:14Unless he's rude to me,
01:02:16then I will stick up for myself.
01:02:18Because at the end of the day,
01:02:19you're my little princess,
01:02:21and I feel like it's an SOS.
01:02:25I'm a bit nervous that my mum's going to cause problems
01:02:28between me and Rob,
01:02:29just because I know that, like,
01:02:31Rob and my mum don't have the best relationship.
01:02:34My mum used to visit me
01:02:35while I was staying in Mexico with Rob.
01:02:37They would have little arguments and tiffs
01:02:39because my mum would see how Rob was talking to me
01:02:41and she didn't like it.
01:02:43And then, like, Rob would see
01:02:44me and my mum having our usual, like,
01:02:46we have little arguments too,
01:02:47but it's not, like, serious,
01:02:49and he didn't like it.
01:02:50And so I think they just
01:02:51both were sticking up for me to each other,
01:02:53and it would cause them to argue.
01:02:57Oh, it's been so good talking to you.
01:02:58Love you, bubba.
01:02:59Yeah, you too. I'll speak to you soon.
01:03:01All right, love you. Bye.
01:03:02Bye, bye, bye.
01:03:05I don't think she's 100% at peace with
01:03:08I'm going to be with this man forever.
01:03:09So, honestly,
01:03:10I'm kind of hoping that my mum is able to
01:03:13tell him, like, what he should be doing for me.
01:03:15Because he's not listening to me,
01:03:16I'm hoping my mum can put some sense into him,
01:03:18and, you know, that's his problem to deal with.
01:03:26Me and Annalie haven't had sex in over a month.
01:03:29Cheeky, cheeky.
01:03:31But I'm hoping that tonight that changes.
01:03:36¿Quieres que apague las luces?
01:03:38Okay.
01:03:39Porque vamos a dormir, por fin.
01:03:41¿Mm?
01:03:42¿Sabes qué significa huevos azules?
01:03:45No.
01:03:46¿Pelotas azules?
01:03:47No.
01:04:06¿Qué?
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01:05:33Mother feel pain.
01:05:34Yeah.
01:05:35I can see how much you love your son.
01:05:39And I just want you to know that he's in good hands with me.
01:05:50Ah.
01:05:51Yeah.
01:05:52Yes.
01:05:53Ah.
01:05:55I'm going to get it.
01:05:57If my mom doesn't believe me, I don't know how it can be good.
01:06:04Because it's his path, and I'm his mom.
01:06:08I can't interweave his paths.
01:06:13How did you find it inside yourselves to accept me being trans?
01:06:18Because I know culture. Your culture here in your country is very not open to accepting people like me.
01:06:24So how did you and Daniel come to accept my life, my life, who I am?
01:06:55And every person decides for himself how it's best for him, with whom it's best for him.
01:07:02And everyone chooses their own path, you see?
01:07:24She respects our choice.
01:07:26Okay.
01:07:27And she will support us, too.
01:07:30Thank you. Thank you.
01:07:33So I think I know the answer, but I really just want to double-check with both of you.
01:07:38So we do. Do we have your blessing to get married?
01:07:43Of course.
01:07:45Okay.
01:07:46Everything will be fine.
01:07:52Tell her I'm very happy to have this moment with them, to celebrate our engagement.
01:08:06Are you coming? You will come?
01:08:14She said no.
01:08:15Shut up!
01:08:18I feel really happy that we got to see your family and that I got the blessing that I wanted to get from his mom that meant the world to me.
01:08:30It was a sweet moment, and I'll cherish that.
01:08:35Thank you so much for having us.
01:08:40You're welcome.
01:08:42Hearing my mom give us her blessing, it's like a big exhale for me, for my heart, and now I feel much better.
01:09:02Okay, cheeky cheeky.
01:09:13Hello. Checking in.
01:09:15I'm really relieved that things went well with Brandi today, but that wasn't the only reason I wanted to get away this weekend.
01:09:22Okay, cheeky.
01:09:27I'm sorry.
01:09:28Okay.
01:09:29I wanted to book a romantic night at a hotel because me and Annalie haven't had sex in over a month.
01:09:37Okay.
01:09:38Being sexually frustrated is uncomfortable.
01:09:42It's normal to have sex in a relationship.
01:09:45It's normal to not have sex for shorter periods of time, but when it's abnormal behavior, it's something you take notice of.
01:09:53Annalie has been talking about wanting to do massages when we get to the U.S.
01:10:00Well, now she is here in the U.S., so I think tonight's massage is going to be what gets the romance flowing with me and Annalie.
01:10:08I'm hoping these little doodads will get her in the mood as well.
01:10:15I forgot the most important thing, believe it or not, because friction is not your friend.
01:10:22And this Rubik's Cube is in case she falls asleep and I get bored.
01:10:30She won't see this here.
01:10:32Definitely not.
01:10:45Ah.
01:10:49Cheeky, cheeky.
01:10:51Hi.
01:10:52Hi.
01:11:11Do you want a massage?
01:11:14Yes, I'm so stressed.
01:11:17I can see.
01:11:20I'm going to take this off so you can do my massage.
01:11:27Okay.
01:11:34It's okay.
01:11:35It's okay.
01:11:36Aren't you tired?
01:11:39No.
01:11:41I know.
01:11:44Let me know you feel so.
01:11:46Come on, come on.
01:11:47I can't wait for your touch.
01:11:50Do you want me to turn off the lights?
01:11:52Okay.
01:11:53Why are we going to sleep?
01:11:56Nothing.
01:11:58I'm so sad, honey.
01:12:00Poor thing.
01:12:03Do you know what blue eggs mean?
01:12:09No.
01:12:10Blue balls?
01:12:11No.
01:12:12Okay, I'll tell you.
01:12:14It's when a boy is ready to have babies, but the girl is like, oh, I don't want to.
01:12:29The testicles turn blue.
01:12:35Are you telling me that your testicles are blue?
01:12:41I would like to show you, but…
01:12:43Oh, my God.
01:12:44No.
01:12:45It's nasty.
01:12:48Oh, my baby.
01:12:49You have red eyes.
01:12:52That's the beginning of…
01:12:53Yeah, because I'm sad.
01:12:55It's not a sad dream, honey, because you didn't sleep much.
01:13:00I think that I'm being patient with Annalie about not having sex because she doesn't like to be pressured,
01:13:06and especially when it comes to sex, I don't want to pressure her at all.
01:13:10I want it to just happen.
01:13:12But sex is an important part of any relationship, especially when we've been so accustomed to having sex whenever we are together.
01:13:21Given that she's here now and it's not happening, it's just weird.
01:13:27Finally, I can sleep.
01:13:32Do you expect me and us to send money to your family every month or not?
01:13:38Yes.
01:13:39How much?
01:13:41I'm having revelations in real time how much his family depends on him.
01:13:46Where are you going?
01:14:10Okay.
01:14:16Oh, they are here.
01:14:18Bonito.
01:14:19Hello.
01:14:20I've been long.
01:14:21Hi, guys.
01:14:22How are you guys?
01:14:23I can't wait to see you.
01:14:24I can't wait to see you.
01:14:25You look so cute.
01:14:27Good to see you.
01:14:28I am so excited to update you guys.
01:14:31I'm excited, too.
01:14:32I'm excited to be here.
01:14:33I'm excited for this candle place.
01:14:34I'm excited to be here, too.
01:14:35I'm excited to be here, too.
01:14:36Here.
01:14:37Ooh.
01:14:38Let's do it.
01:14:39I smell it already.
01:14:40Wow.
01:14:46Welcome.
01:14:47You can start by grabbing a clipboard.
01:14:49We have a hundred scents available.
01:14:51Oh, gosh.
01:14:52Write down all your favorite scents on your worksheet.
01:14:53We'll help you with the blending when you get over to the bar.
01:14:55Okay, perfect.
01:14:57Thank you so much.
01:14:58Perfect.
01:14:59Bye-bye.
01:15:00I'm going to start over there.
01:15:01After Manuel and I got into this huge fight in the car, I am now realizing that we have a lot of work to do.
01:15:08It feels like sometimes we're on the same page in the bedroom, but when we're not in the bedroom, we're, like, not on the same page.
01:15:17Whipped cream.
01:15:18No.
01:15:19No.
01:15:20Mmm.
01:15:22I love whipped cream.
01:15:24Si.
01:15:25Buenas.
01:15:26This makes me think of nasty things.
01:15:29Good girl.
01:15:31We didn't get to know each other like your average couple.
01:15:37If you think about your average couple, they have a lot of time, relatively speaking, to get to know the ins and outs of that person and how that person works.
01:15:46Even when we met initially, we were always around his family or we were around my friends.
01:15:52We were always in group settings.
01:15:55So getting to know each other one-on-one and how we work from day to day, I think that's what's going on.
01:16:01You know, we kind of moved backwards.
01:16:07Okay.
01:16:08So you're going to blend your oils together.
01:16:10It's a combination of the oils, whatever ratios you want, so smell as you go.
01:16:14Okay.
01:16:15All right.
01:16:16And when we're done, we just call you back over?
01:16:17Yeah, yeah.
01:16:18Shout if you start smelling and you're not loving it, I'm here to help.
01:16:20Shout if you need me.
01:16:21Okay.
01:16:22Perfect.
01:16:23I'm glad that you explained it so well.
01:16:25All right.
01:16:26He said, if it's bad, I don't understand anything.
01:16:28So I think he's saying thank you.
01:16:38I'm going to start with wild currant.
01:16:40I'm going to start with this goji berry.
01:16:41Okay.
01:16:45So what else have you guys done so far for wedding planning?
01:16:49We are super close to a final head count.
01:16:52It's looking like it's going to be closer to 30.
01:16:54And we ordered his suit.
01:16:56That's coming on Tuesday.
01:16:58We're getting it going.
01:17:00I'm excited.
01:17:01I'm really excited.
01:17:04He doesn't like it.
01:17:05He doesn't like anything.
01:17:06I like it.
01:17:07I was like, everything you do, he's like, no.
01:17:13I was going to say, what have you been doing to make sure that he is nice and comfortable here?
01:17:17We've been cooking a lot.
01:17:18I mean, I think, let him tell it.
01:17:20And he would say he's doing more of the cooking.
01:17:22Because he kind of is doing more of the cooking.
01:17:23I think what I mean to say is that I'm providing the food.
01:17:26Because, you know, I eat like a bird.
01:17:28So there's a lot more food in my house these days.
01:17:30Right?
01:17:31So last time we hung out, we were talking about like, he wanted like $250 or something to send.
01:17:38We sent some money to his family, yeah.
01:17:40How are you feeling about all of it?
01:17:48Sending money back home to Ecuador has been a source of tension for us.
01:17:52I think it's a cultural thing.
01:17:54I don't really know what that's like to have to take care of a parent financially,
01:17:59or a child, or a sister, or anybody financially.
01:18:03He does.
01:18:04And so it is a point of tension because I don't fully understand it.
01:18:08And I also wasn't given much time to understand it either.
01:18:12This is something he has done without me for 30 years.
01:18:15So the only thing he wants is to be able to help them.
01:18:19I knew Manuel was not just going to leave his family high and dry.
01:18:24But I didn't know how much they depended on him.
01:18:33Like, how do you feel about that coming out of her pocket?
01:18:37It's my money helping your family.
01:18:39He wants to know how you feel about that.
01:18:41Yeah.
01:18:43He said a part of him feels bad.
01:18:46Because it's work from her and it's her money.
01:18:53He said, if she can help me now with time, I can help her.
01:18:57Essentially he's saying, I hope I can pay you back.
01:19:01I hope to marry this person and this person has children.
01:19:05So that's number one, you know.
01:19:07So I got that coming in.
01:19:09But I didn't realize how deep it was.
01:19:12The baby's mother isn't really around like she needs to be.
01:19:17So the financial care leans quite heavily on Manuel.
01:19:25I knew this was going to be like a monthly bill.
01:19:29But I didn't know how much.
01:19:30I know, I saw your eyes.
01:19:31It's going to be a monthly bill.
01:19:33It's a monthly, yeah.
01:19:34It's going to be a monthly bill.
01:19:36Yeah.
01:19:50I have a question.
01:20:06Yeah.
01:20:24So I was like, OK, so do you expect me to send money down there every month?
01:20:29And he was like, well, yeah.
01:20:30And I was like, how much?
01:20:31And he's like, you want numbers?
01:20:32And I was like, yeah.
01:20:33And he was like, like $300.
01:20:35$300?
01:20:36A month.
01:20:49So he's saying, OK, tranquilo, tranquilo, tranquilo.
01:20:52He said, I pay what I need to pay.
01:20:55He goes, there's money for me, there's money for them.
01:20:57If they need more money, then they're going to get more money.
01:20:59Whatever it is they need.
01:21:02I definitely see the pressure that he's under.
01:21:04I definitely see what he's going through.
01:21:07However, I don't think it should fall on Ashley's shoulders.
01:21:09I feel like this should have been established before he got here.
01:21:12Yes.
01:21:15Since you've been here, it seems like you're making your family more of a priority than Ashley.
01:21:20So why are you here?
01:21:31Why are you here?
01:21:49Did she know that?
01:21:52It's not the same.
01:21:54It's not the same?
01:21:55No.
01:21:57It's the same thing.
01:21:59He said the dog and the cat cost more.
01:22:11But you're talking about your mom, your stepdad, your brother, your sister, your auntie.
01:22:16Everybody needs Ashley's money, not you.
01:22:19OK, where are you going?
01:22:28I don't think it's easy.
01:22:29I think you're putting a lot of pressure on her.
01:22:36He's like, I would prefer to pay the vet $300.
01:22:39Where's he going?
01:22:42Wow.
01:22:48I aggressively underestimated how intense this process is.
01:22:54In Ecuador, when we get into an argument, we can hang up the phone.
01:22:57He can go dick her out and do whatever the f*** he wants and choose not to answer or whatever.
01:23:01But I think it's a different beast when you're in it.
01:23:04He's a baby.
01:23:05I'll go see about Manuel.
01:23:07I am incredibly sad and emotional and frustrated and f***ing tired.
01:23:15I don't know where we go from here.
01:23:17He's going to have to acclimate.
01:23:18It's going to be hard.
01:23:19It's going to be difficult.
01:23:20It's going to be difficult.
01:23:21But if your goal here is to make a family and to do this, then we got to get used to it.
01:23:29That's crazy.
01:23:33Next time on My Today Fiancé.
01:23:37Baby.
01:23:38Hi, baby.
01:23:39I told my fiancé Citra about my drug past.
01:23:43She still would pass all that.
01:23:45My dad would come a few days after me.
01:23:49We need to get married within two weeks.
01:23:53Citra's dad, Herman, he's a police officer.
01:23:56And it's just a little nerve wracking because I've been keeping kind of the secret from Citra.
01:24:01So I'm worried that when I tell her and she tells her dad that he's going to forbid her from marrying me.
01:24:10Manuel.
01:24:12I'm not shocked that he walked out.
01:24:14Manuel.
01:24:19I think Manuel has a tendency to be unreasonable.
01:24:21I think Manuel is very used to getting his way.
01:24:28Manuel.
01:24:33What do South Korean people think of Americans?
01:24:37Ah, crazy food and being fat.
01:24:41Oh, mom.
01:24:43No wonder you're a piggy.
01:24:45Are you serious?
01:24:46Look at this.
01:24:48Him calling her piggy, I wish he wouldn't do that.
01:24:53Today I'm about to tell Rob that I'm bisexual.
01:24:57I'm not really looking forward to it.
01:24:59I have to tell you something, but you have to give me a second.
01:25:02Sorry.
01:25:04I have an anxiety attack.
01:25:06It's like these rash of feelings come through.
01:25:11Sophie.
01:25:13Are you crying?
01:25:20Has there been any girls that you f*****g around with?
01:25:23When I gave you this ring, Dan, from this moment, I'm clear, okay?
01:25:29So before that, you were f*****g other girls.
01:25:32I f*****g knew it.
01:25:33Bitch vibes is coming.
01:25:34You are not being f*****g faithful.
01:25:37This is the best.
01:25:40I'm out of here.
01:25:43I'm out of here.
01:25:44I'm out of here.