90 Day Fiance S10 E10
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
00:00:03Baby.
00:00:05I've told Citra about my drug past.
00:00:08She's still looked past all that.
00:00:14But she's from a very strict Muslim background
00:00:17and there's gonna be no wedding if I don't convert.
00:00:20We'll figure all that stuff out.
00:00:22Just hurry up and get here, okay?
00:00:24I don't know how the hell I'm gonna pull this off.
00:00:28Annalie's been here for about a month
00:00:31and we still haven't had sex.
00:00:33Cheeky, cheeky.
00:00:35Hi.
00:00:36Being sexually frustrated is uncomfortable.
00:00:39I think tonight is going to be what gets the romance flowing.
00:00:43Get a scarf, I'll get us roses.
00:00:45Okay.
00:00:49I'm so sad.
00:00:51As soon as we cross this bridge, we're in Arkansas.
00:00:54Yeah.
00:00:56I'm not sure if I will be very welcomed.
00:01:00This is a statue of a Confederate soldier.
00:01:04Was fighting for having a slave.
00:01:07Right.
00:01:08Okay.
00:01:09If I hate it so much, I have to think about the plan B.
00:01:16You all right?
00:01:18I have an anxiety attack.
00:01:20Anxiety about what?
00:01:22If there's something he didn't know about me,
00:01:24it could be, like, the final thing that breaks us.
00:01:28There's no need to be angry at me.
00:01:31I'm Bi.
00:01:34I don't even know what to say to that.
00:01:39I would love to know what you did the day before I arrive.
00:01:45We went to a strip club.
00:01:48You lie to me, Dino, all the time.
00:01:53Hey.
00:01:54Okay, all right.
00:01:55Thanks.
00:01:56Hey, that's...
00:01:57I don't want it.
00:01:58Give it to someone else.
00:02:00I don't want to be here.
00:02:05Has there been any girls that you're...around with?
00:02:08Just friendship.
00:02:09Frankly, sex.
00:02:10Really?
00:02:11While we've been together?
00:02:12Of course.
00:02:13Really?
00:02:14Many times.
00:02:15I'm...done.
00:02:18I'm out of here.
00:02:23♪♪
00:02:32Come on, Coco.
00:02:34That's a good Coco.
00:02:36♪♪
00:02:47Yeah, that's a good boy.
00:02:50Coco, come on.
00:02:52Come here, Coco.
00:02:55What are you doing?
00:02:58I'm cooking.
00:02:59Don't you see?
00:03:04There is a lot of tension between Dino and I
00:03:07after our argument about his bachelor party
00:03:10and he going to a strip club.
00:03:12And since we live in the same place now,
00:03:14we are just ignoring each other.
00:03:17He is not getting why I am so hurt.
00:03:22If he keeps just lying, hiding things,
00:03:26how am I supposed to build some trust on him?
00:03:30Where were you?
00:03:32Where was I?
00:03:33Yeah.
00:03:34I was with my cousin, Dana.
00:03:39We were talking and having a chat.
00:03:42And?
00:03:43And he brought up some good points.
00:03:45She had a bachelorette party in Panama.
00:03:48Why is it such a big deal?
00:03:50Yeah.
00:03:51You understand it's not about the bachelor party, though.
00:03:54From her point of view,
00:03:56she would have loved just for you to be honest with her.
00:04:01Yeah, I probably should have been more upfront with her.
00:04:03But she terrifies me.
00:04:05I'll tell you what.
00:04:10I should have been upfront with you about
00:04:12I should have been upfront with you about
00:04:15the bachelor party and told you about it.
00:04:19You know, and I'm sorry about that.
00:04:24Why did you have the need to go and see naked,
00:04:27half naked or naked woman dancing?
00:04:30It makes me feel like trash, to be honest.
00:04:33Like, the man that I love...
00:04:35It's normal for people...
00:04:36No, it's not normal.
00:04:37...in my country to go to bachelor parties.
00:04:40Yes, it's normal.
00:04:43So explain to me, since it is part of the tradition,
00:04:46what else is part of the tradition?
00:04:49To sleep with the stripper, to touch the stripper,
00:04:51to let the stripper do a... job on you?
00:04:54What is part of the tradition?
00:04:55No, that's not what happens.
00:05:00I don't want to believe that you're a cheater.
00:05:02I want to believe that you're someone that I can trust on,
00:05:06that you're honest, that you love me and you respect me.
00:05:10But the thing is that all this evidence
00:05:13is making me believe the opposite, you know?
00:05:16Like...
00:05:17What evidence?
00:05:18What evidence?
00:05:19You know, the lip gloss.
00:05:21All the things that I have found in the house.
00:05:27My biggest fear is to get hurt again
00:05:30because in my past relationships I've been cheated on, too.
00:05:35I've been lied to a lot.
00:05:36I've been betrayed.
00:05:37So I know how much it hurts.
00:05:39And I don't want to go through that pain ever again.
00:05:45I'm sorry you were finding things about my past in the house.
00:05:51I'm sorry you're seeing this stuff.
00:05:53Just wish you could let that go
00:05:57and focus, like, on us and our future.
00:06:01Let's put your energy into us.
00:06:03I'm trying, you know.
00:06:04I have put us before anybody else in this world.
00:06:10I'm far from home,
00:06:12and I really want to welcome Michigan, your house,
00:06:16like, my new home and my new life with you.
00:06:20I'm trying my best, you know,
00:06:22but these things, like, are very overwhelming.
00:06:34You know, I really love you very much,
00:06:37and I would never cheat on you, and I never have.
00:06:41I don't want you to feel hurt.
00:06:43I don't want you to be sad.
00:06:46I want you to be happy
00:06:48and excited about this relationship
00:06:51and that we're going to get married.
00:07:00I love you, too.
00:07:03A lot.
00:07:05More than you think.
00:07:20I love you, too.
00:07:25I'm going to give Gino the opportunity
00:07:28to prove to me from now on with action,
00:07:32not just words,
00:07:33that he is the right man for me,
00:07:37and he is a person I can trust on
00:07:41and become my husband.
00:07:44But that doesn't necessarily mean
00:07:46that everything is forgiven, it's in the past.
00:07:49You know, I'm going to keep an eye on him.
00:07:58¶¶ ¶¶
00:08:29I've just come out to Rob,
00:08:31and he's literally not even saying anything,
00:08:33and I'm literally just here suffering,
00:08:35waiting to think, like, is he OK with it?
00:08:37Does he still want to be with me?
00:08:39Like, I really hope that this just hasn't changed
00:08:41the way that he feels about me.
00:08:51I feel like this is something
00:08:52you probably should have told me before.
00:08:55A long time ago, probably 2 1⁄2 years ago.
00:08:59Well, I wasn't fully accepting of it 2 1⁄2 years ago,
00:09:04which is why I've only told you now,
00:09:07because I've accepted it now.
00:09:13Her being bisexual isn't a bad thing.
00:09:16It definitely raises a bunch of new questions,
00:09:19and the fact that she's only now realizing
00:09:21that she's bisexual, it's kind of like,
00:09:23what does that mean for our relationship?
00:09:25I don't know.
00:09:27You ever even been with a woman?
00:09:30Mm, I haven't dated any women.
00:09:34But you know that you would what?
00:09:36You'd be physically attracted to a woman.
00:09:38Yeah.
00:09:40Most girls are physically attracted to women.
00:09:42They find women attractive.
00:09:44I think women can appreciate a woman's beauty
00:09:47Right, but they don't want to have sex with her.
00:09:49All right, so I'm asking you then,
00:09:51do you want to have sex with a woman?
00:09:54I would have sex with a woman, yes.
00:09:56Do I want to have sex with a woman now?
00:09:58I'm getting married to you, no.
00:10:00I don't want to have sex with anyone else but you.
00:10:02So at this point, we're going to get married,
00:10:04and you're going to be married to a man,
00:10:06and you know you're bi,
00:10:08you know you physically would love to f*** a woman,
00:10:11and you're accepting,
00:10:14You're just cool with never doing it?
00:10:16I'm cool with marrying you.
00:10:24She's telling me and acting like
00:10:26it's not going to ever play into our relationship,
00:10:28but why are you crying then?
00:10:30Why are you so upset to tell me
00:10:32like it's something that I should plug into our relationship?
00:10:35She only got one life to live, right?
00:10:37And if she's interested in women,
00:10:39but she's never hooked up with women,
00:10:41is she just going to be sitting there
00:10:43really, really wishing she knew what it was like?
00:10:45And is that going to turn into some resentment towards me
00:10:47because she decided to be with me?
00:10:49It's just very...
00:10:51It's hard to understand what exactly
00:10:53Sophie's really trying to tell me.
00:10:57It sounds like in five, ten years,
00:10:59you're going to pop up and be like...
00:11:01and just go f*** some woman
00:11:03because you're just...
00:11:05I would never cheat on you.
00:11:07I would never cheat on you.
00:11:09If anything, if in ten years' time,
00:11:11I do feel that need to do that,
00:11:13I would come to you,
00:11:15and we would respectfully maybe figure things out,
00:11:17but I would never do it behind your back.
00:11:19I would never do anything behind your back.
00:11:25All right, well, I'm going to tell you right now,
00:11:27if you ever come up with the idea
00:11:29that now you want to meet a girl,
00:11:31or you want to f*** a girl, we f*** a girl.
00:11:33You don't get to just have a side relationship
00:11:35or a side thing.
00:11:37My reasoning would be figuring out sexuality.
00:11:39Yours would just be f***ing another woman.
00:11:41No, mine would be,
00:11:43if my girl gets to f*** somebody else,
00:11:45then I get to f*** somebody else.
00:11:47You will never get to f*** someone else.
00:11:49In my whole life, I will never be okay with that.
00:11:51Even you saying it is disgusting.
00:11:53I will never be okay with that.
00:11:55I want you to just still love me,
00:11:57still support me,
00:11:59and just appreciate that I've told you this.
00:12:01I don't want to argue with you.
00:12:03I appreciate you telling me.
00:12:05I appreciate you telling me
00:12:07something that wasn't easy to tell me.
00:12:15My plan today was to buy rings,
00:12:17so do you still want to do that?
00:12:25Give me a minute.
00:12:27I'm going outside.
00:12:31Sophie's such a jealous person,
00:12:33and so, like,
00:12:35no other women will ever be around you
00:12:37as long as I'm with you.
00:12:39For her to then turn around and now tell me
00:12:41that she likes women,
00:12:43as if that's some possibility in her life
00:12:45for women to be around her,
00:12:47that just trips me out.
00:12:51Then at the same time,
00:12:53there's a lot of things about Sophie
00:12:55that make her special to me,
00:12:57so it's like I really can't just throw this all away.
00:12:59I don't really know.
00:13:01I wish we had more time.
00:13:03I wish it wasn't a month from now
00:13:05that me and her are getting married
00:13:07so I could understand
00:13:09what this is going to mean
00:13:11and what this is going to turn into.
00:13:19If I get probation for, like, a year or two,
00:13:21God knows how Citra
00:13:23or her dad's going to handle that.
00:13:25Citra knows about my addiction,
00:13:27but she doesn't know
00:13:29that I could be facing jail time.
00:13:31Are you afraid of losing her?
00:13:33Yeah.
00:13:35She's like the one girl I can't live without.
00:13:51People like me don't have many options.
00:13:53I want to go home.
00:13:55No, baby.
00:13:57I'm not doing this engagement.
00:13:59I'm broken.
00:14:01I don't know how I'm going to get through this.
00:14:17Got everything?
00:14:19Can you grab anything else?
00:14:21I think we got it all.
00:14:25What's up, dude?
00:14:29How are you?
00:14:31Busy, busy man.
00:14:33My brother Luke
00:14:35is hosting a barbecue tonight
00:14:37for my parents.
00:14:39My family, for the most part,
00:14:41they've been supportive of my relationship,
00:14:43but also they all kind of
00:14:45just make fun of it.
00:14:47My dad, for the longest time,
00:14:49he thought, like, it's not real.
00:14:51Like, she's never going to end up coming
00:14:53because unless you're
00:14:55actually going through it,
00:14:57it's just not real to a person.
00:14:59Beer?
00:15:01Is Citra excited about coming here?
00:15:03Yes.
00:15:05But her dad's work leave
00:15:07actually got approved,
00:15:09so I'm pretty sure Citra's dad
00:15:11and both sisters
00:15:13are coming, like, shortly after her.
00:15:15Both sisters?
00:15:17Yeah.
00:15:19Are you nervous about having the whole family
00:15:21more so than just Citra?
00:15:23Her dad's a cop.
00:15:25He's a cop?
00:15:27Is he really? I didn't know that.
00:15:29Wow.
00:15:31So, yeah.
00:15:33I better mind my P's and Q's.
00:15:35Yeah, you better.
00:15:37Not be a pervert.
00:15:39Um...
00:15:41When her dad gets here,
00:15:43me and him
00:15:45are going to be going to a mosque
00:15:47for me to convert.
00:15:49What are you talking about?
00:15:51Do you feel
00:15:53you should have to convert
00:15:55to someone else's religion
00:15:57just to marry him?
00:15:59Well, it's not like
00:16:01she's forcing me.
00:16:03I'm not going to lie.
00:16:05It is hard on me
00:16:07that he's going to convert to Muslim.
00:16:09My faith
00:16:11and our faith is,
00:16:13you know, we love everybody
00:16:15and we're pretty much raised
00:16:17in a Christian home.
00:16:19I just think that
00:16:21you shouldn't have to marry
00:16:23somebody else's religion
00:16:25just to marry that person.
00:16:27Do they celebrate Christmas?
00:16:35Come on, Samuel.
00:16:37No, I don't think they do.
00:16:39I think there's another holiday.
00:16:41I want to say Yom Kippur,
00:16:43but I'm kind of making that up.
00:16:45Call it something else.
00:16:47I've been trying to get her out here,
00:16:49so sorry, I've been a little busy.
00:17:13Thank you, ma'am.
00:17:15I'm going to America
00:17:17in about one week,
00:17:19and I'm going to miss
00:17:21Indonesian food,
00:17:23so I'm going to get a spicy food
00:17:25with my dad and my sister.
00:17:27The food in the U.S.,
00:17:29there is no, like, taste.
00:17:31It's nothing like in Indonesia.
00:17:45Oh.
00:18:15Oh.
00:18:45How do you feel yourself?
00:18:47I definitely can't mess up
00:18:49with Citrus' dad,
00:18:51otherwise it's not going to be good.
00:18:53What do you mean you can't mess up?
00:18:55Like, in which way are you saying?
00:18:57Like, I just got to be on best behavior
00:18:59and make sure he has a good time,
00:19:01he's comfortable and all that,
00:19:03because, you know, with everything that happened,
00:19:05the whole trouble,
00:19:07getting arrested, whatever.
00:19:09I haven't even, like,
00:19:11fully told her
00:19:13about, like,
00:19:15I might not get diversion,
00:19:17so God knows how
00:19:19Citra or her dad
00:19:21is going to handle that.
00:19:23Around 22,
00:19:25I started seeing a
00:19:27Suboxone doctor.
00:19:29Suboxone,
00:19:31it's still kind of like an opiate.
00:19:33It keeps you from getting sick,
00:19:35going through withdrawals.
00:19:37And recently, I was on a business trip
00:19:39with a co-worker,
00:19:41and the cops pulled us over.
00:19:43They, uh, found
00:19:45my Suboxone,
00:19:47and because it wasn't in a prescription bottle,
00:19:49they arrested me.
00:19:51The judge offered me a diversion program.
00:19:53It's a program you could
00:19:55do for one to
00:19:57several years.
00:19:59Like, you take tests to show you're not
00:20:01on drugs, and take drug classes,
00:20:03and you avoid jail
00:20:05time, as long as, like,
00:20:07you do everything properly.
00:20:09But because I missed
00:20:11the deadline to file the application,
00:20:13I could be
00:20:15facing jail time.
00:20:17So Citra knows about my addiction and the arrest,
00:20:19but she doesn't know
00:20:21that me missing my deadline
00:20:23for the diversion
00:20:25could mean jail time.
00:20:27Are you afraid of losing her?
00:20:29Yeah.
00:20:31She's like the one girl
00:20:33I can't live without,
00:20:35and
00:20:37I can't get her out of my head if I wanted to.
00:20:39I want
00:20:41to wait till Citra gets here
00:20:43to tell her about me
00:20:45missing the deadline, because
00:20:47I'm worried that if I tell her before,
00:20:49she might not even come.
00:20:51I guess
00:20:53we'll see how it goes. I mean,
00:20:57I don't know.
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00:21:27Before I
00:21:29get engaged with Nikki,
00:21:31I had some of, like,
00:21:33sex friends.
00:21:36This is, like, physically
00:21:38needed stuff simple,
00:21:40and this is normal.
00:21:44Nikki's getting
00:21:46very mad, but
00:21:48I don't think Nikki and I
00:21:50ever had a conversation,
00:21:52but when we beginning...
00:21:58Get off me.
00:22:00Get off me.
00:22:02Don't...
00:22:05Why you get off me?
00:22:07I'm...
00:22:09What's wrong?
00:22:11What's wrong with you?
00:22:13It wasn't the best.
00:22:15What's wrong with you?
00:22:17What's wrong with you?
00:22:19I knew you were...
00:22:21Baby.
00:22:23We were already together.
00:22:25We were already going on
00:22:27vacations together.
00:22:29It doesn't matter.
00:22:31It doesn't matter.
00:22:33All the...
00:22:35Like, everything.
00:22:37I'm just done.
00:22:39For me, it's matter everything.
00:22:49I want to go home.
00:22:51No, baby.
00:22:53I'm not doing this...
00:22:55engagement.
00:22:59This, for me,
00:23:01means nothing.
00:23:03For me, means if you are here.
00:23:05Just like me.
00:23:07You are here.
00:23:09I mean nothing.
00:23:11No, you are here physically.
00:23:13I mean nothing to you.
00:23:15I mean nothing to you.
00:23:19Your past, my past,
00:23:21it's mean nothing.
00:23:23Let's create our future.
00:23:25I don't know if there's a future, hon.
00:23:27People like me,
00:23:29you know,
00:23:31with a past like mine,
00:23:33don't have many options.
00:23:35And especially with a good-looking person.
00:23:37And as open-minded
00:23:39as Justin's been with me.
00:23:41So,
00:23:43where does that leave me if we break up
00:23:45or end our engagement?
00:23:47Like, I'm broken.
00:23:49And I don't know.
00:23:51I don't know.
00:23:53I don't know.
00:23:55I don't know.
00:23:57I don't know how I'm gonna get through this.
00:24:03I'm here.
00:24:05I'm here with you.
00:24:07Don't cry.
00:24:21Now we can fix that.
00:24:25Don't cry.
00:24:41Baby, I hope you're hungry.
00:24:43People use bowling
00:24:45as an excuse
00:24:47to go there and eat fast food.
00:24:49Look at all this beautiful food.
00:24:51I'm not gonna
00:24:53clean the toilet after the disaster.
00:24:55You're gonna make...
00:24:57I know.
00:24:59That's okay. I'll do it at the bowling alley.
00:25:05You call my daughter Devin piggy.
00:25:07You're laughing,
00:25:09but I think this is a serious conversation.
00:25:21Let's go bowling.
00:25:31Oh, my gosh.
00:25:33So f***ing cold.
00:25:37Is this your first time?
00:25:39Bowling?
00:25:41Yeah.
00:25:43I have just seen it.
00:25:45I haven't actually participated.
00:25:51This is bowling, baby.
00:25:53You're gonna love it.
00:25:57How are you guys doing?
00:25:59Welcome to Super Bowl.
00:26:01Hi.
00:26:03Tonight I'm taking Jasmine bowling.
00:26:05We made up
00:26:07and got over our fight
00:26:09about the bachelor party,
00:26:11and I'm feeling happy,
00:26:13and I want to take her somewhere fun
00:26:15so we can relax, have a good time.
00:26:17So I'm taking Jasmine bowling.
00:26:19So we can relax, have a good time.
00:26:21What shoe size can I get you guys?
00:26:23A number eight.
00:26:25Here you go.
00:26:27All right.
00:26:29And the size for you, sir?
00:26:31The eight and a half or nine.
00:26:33As I walk into the bowling alley,
00:26:35the first thing that I notice
00:26:37is the smell.
00:26:39It smells very bad in here.
00:26:41It's gross.
00:26:43Must be the shoes.
00:26:45Yes. It smells like shoes.
00:26:47You know, like farts, like sweat.
00:26:49It's like this smelling here
00:26:51is like, wow, I could...
00:26:53It hit me.
00:26:55Do you mind if I order some food?
00:26:57I mean...
00:26:59Yeah. We do have a couple
00:27:01of pizzas down here, platter.
00:27:03We do have our drinks down here,
00:27:05sandwiches and wraps, whatever you want.
00:27:07I think I'll just take
00:27:09fries, pretzels,
00:27:11beer,
00:27:13nachos.
00:27:15I do believe
00:27:17that people
00:27:19use bowling as an
00:27:21excuse to go there
00:27:23and eat fast food.
00:27:25Baby,
00:27:27I hope you're hungry.
00:27:29I mean, really hungry.
00:27:31I'm not
00:27:33gonna freaking clean
00:27:35the toilet after the disaster
00:27:37you're gonna make because
00:27:39I know. I know.
00:27:41And you know.
00:27:43I'm gonna do it at the bowling alley.
00:27:49How do you wanna be called?
00:27:51Jenna the Beast.
00:27:53Okay, that's it.
00:27:55I think I'm gonna have to find another bowling.
00:27:57I don't see one that fits.
00:28:01Wow, that's a good shot.
00:28:05Nice.
00:28:07All right, so you wanna get
00:28:09in between the very front
00:28:11and the second or third pin on both sides
00:28:13of it. Get right in between it.
00:28:15Jasmine, wait.
00:28:17Fifth row.
00:28:19Excellent.
00:28:21Yay!
00:28:27Awesome. That's so good.
00:28:29Nothing against bowling,
00:28:31but I like to be more
00:28:33physical, like soccer,
00:28:35running, or beach
00:28:37volleyball, but even though
00:28:39I don't like it,
00:28:41I can't avoid being good at it.
00:28:43I'm good at it. This is Panama
00:28:45versus the United States.
00:28:47Oh my God, man.
00:28:49My turn, baby.
00:28:51I don't know how to do this.
00:28:57Oh.
00:28:59Yeah.
00:29:01Yeah.
00:29:07Okay, one,
00:29:09two, three. Go for it. Go!
00:29:15Baby, you are like my animal.
00:29:17I love you. I love you, baby.
00:29:19So I've been thinking, you know,
00:29:21things have been pretty crazy between us
00:29:23lately, and
00:29:25I think a vacation would do us
00:29:27really good.
00:29:29We've only seen Michigan.
00:29:31I want to take you somewhere fun and exciting.
00:29:33Where is a fun, exciting
00:29:35place in the United States?
00:29:37Hawaii?
00:29:41We have a wedding going on pretty soon, right?
00:29:43Oh, Dios mío.
00:29:45We're kind of on a budget and stuff, you know?
00:29:47I think Hawaii we could do in the future.
00:29:53Maybe something like Miami.
00:29:55It's warm,
00:29:57it's hot, sunny by the ocean,
00:29:59and you're going to feel like home.
00:30:01Will you take me there?
00:30:03Yeah!
00:30:05Baby, I love you.
00:30:07This is what I refer when I
00:30:09talk about love language.
00:30:11This is my love language.
00:30:13Vacation, traveling.
00:30:15Money. Money is your love language.
00:30:17And vacation.
00:30:19Mmm.
00:30:23Miami it is!
00:30:25After all the stress
00:30:27he has put me through, I do believe
00:30:29that he owns me a present.
00:30:31I deserve a trip like this.
00:30:33So, I'm excited,
00:30:35but I really need time in order
00:30:37to fully trust him again.
00:30:39Okay, I'm sorry to tell you,
00:30:41but I won
00:30:4341 versus 34.
00:30:45This Latina beat your ass.
00:30:49Yeah.
00:30:57Nick, can you come help me with something?
00:30:59Yeah, what is it?
00:31:01Help me clean the boat up.
00:31:03Oh, you have a boat?
00:31:05Yeah.
00:31:11All right, let's go.
00:31:13Oh, this is the one?
00:31:15Yeah.
00:31:17Perfect.
00:31:19Since Nick has been here
00:31:21with Devin, there's things that concern me.
00:31:23So, this is a
00:31:25perfect opportunity to just have
00:31:27a man-to-man conversation
00:31:29and discuss these things.
00:31:33What is your garbage bag?
00:31:35I'm fulfilling
00:31:37more of a supervisory role today.
00:31:39Yeah? Yeah.
00:31:41I like getting my hands dirty. It's good.
00:31:43I mean, I'm okay with that.
00:31:45It also gives me an opportunity to ask you
00:31:47some questions.
00:31:49You know, the first time I met you,
00:31:51you were already engaged to my daughter
00:31:53and moving into my house.
00:31:55So, it is important for me to try
00:31:57to get to know you as much as I can
00:31:59in this short period of time before
00:32:01y'all get married so that I do know
00:32:03that, you know, she'll be treated
00:32:05with respect and be treated right.
00:32:09What's your thoughts about living
00:32:11in America?
00:32:13At the fish fry,
00:32:15you had some strong
00:32:17opinions on American people.
00:32:19What do you mean?
00:32:21Well, you mentioned that Koreans
00:32:23see Americans as overweight.
00:32:25I mean, there's
00:32:27more people are fat people
00:32:29than Koreans. That's what I'm saying.
00:32:31The level of fatness
00:32:33is quite, you know,
00:32:35it's bigger size, bigger than
00:32:37Korea. That's what I'm saying.
00:32:39You
00:32:41call my daughter Devin
00:32:43Piggy.
00:32:45Devin's dad is
00:32:47nice, but he can be
00:32:49scary. I feel like I
00:32:51made a bad impression
00:32:53calling Devin Piggy.
00:32:55It's just meant to be a joke.
00:32:57Have you and Devin talked about
00:32:59the nickname? Do you know if it bothers
00:33:01her?
00:33:03She
00:33:05bothers at first,
00:33:07but I think
00:33:09she's used to it now.
00:33:13Because
00:33:15I kept saying it and then she
00:33:17just like let him
00:33:19let me say it.
00:33:25So do you think that builds a strong
00:33:27relationship that she has to get used
00:33:29to it?
00:33:31You're laughing, but I think this is a
00:33:33serious conversation.
00:33:35Nick's laughing during this conversation.
00:33:37I want to take it as
00:33:39that he's nervous and that's
00:33:41just a reaction.
00:33:43But if it's not, that could be
00:33:45a really big flag for me.
00:33:47It may all be
00:33:49fun, but in the future,
00:33:51in the long run of your marriage,
00:33:53that may become a grain
00:33:55of sand that starts rubbing a sore.
00:33:57And I'm afraid Devin may not
00:33:59talk to you about that and just
00:34:01instead let it keep on bothering her until
00:34:03one day she's had enough
00:34:05of that.
00:34:19I still have doubts.
00:34:21He's fixing to be married to my daughter
00:34:23for life. He's going to be a father to
00:34:25my grandkids. And in
00:34:27this situation, I would hope
00:34:29that he's going into
00:34:31marriage with my daughter and taking
00:34:33it very serious.
00:34:39Here we go.
00:34:41I don't know if I could describe the feeling
00:34:43of waiting, like, this long
00:34:45to see her.
00:34:47Can't be much longer, right?
00:34:49I'm just, like, really worried
00:34:51if I'm the same guy she remembers
00:34:53or, like, if anything's changed and we're
00:34:55not going to have that same connection.
00:35:01I'm going to America
00:35:03today, and I feel
00:35:05nervous and overwhelmed.
00:35:17There's a lot of
00:35:19stuff going on in my head
00:35:21and also sad.
00:35:31Leaving my cat, especially,
00:35:33like, my sister, they're not going to miss me,
00:35:35I think. But my
00:35:37dad's going to miss me.
00:35:53I'm at the airport, and it's my first
00:35:55time flying to America.
00:35:57I just
00:35:59want to be in Sam's house
00:36:01already and
00:36:03sleep in our new bed.
00:36:23Yeah,
00:36:25getting everything ready
00:36:27for the lady.
00:36:29She's, like, a germphobe, clean
00:36:31freak, and I am not,
00:36:33so at
00:36:35least got to fake it till you make it.
00:36:37Today, Citra
00:36:39arrives to the United States.
00:36:41It's been almost
00:36:43two years since I've seen her, and
00:36:45it's almost like meeting again for
00:36:47the first time. Like, I'm
00:36:49worried it's going to be a little bit weird seeing each
00:36:51other, but, like, I'm still so
00:36:53excited, and, like, that's going to be my wife.
00:36:57Yeah, you don't realize how messy you are until
00:36:59you are cleaning up for a woman,
00:37:01I swear. Citra
00:37:03sent me a batik shirt
00:37:05a while ago. It's, like,
00:37:07kind of dressing out to a fancy
00:37:09date out there. I want to look my
00:37:11best for her and show, like, I really love
00:37:13the gift she sent,
00:37:15and here we go. Hopefully it works for me.
00:37:17This
00:37:19is a prayer mat.
00:37:21Tried to get a nice one,
00:37:23so hopefully she's impressed
00:37:25when she gets here.
00:37:27Citra being Muslim
00:37:29has affected our relationship.
00:37:31Like, you can't have sex till marriage, like,
00:37:33that's just uh-uh.
00:37:35I thought that was crazy
00:37:37because, like, being in love is physical
00:37:39and emotional. Like,
00:37:41sex is a part of a relationship.
00:37:43She's going to be sleeping in comfort.
00:37:45Brand new, fresh
00:37:47pillows. They are going to see a lot
00:37:49of use.
00:37:51Lots of little white Indonesian
00:37:53babies in my future.
00:37:55Time to head
00:37:57to the airport and pick
00:37:59her up.
00:38:01When Citra gets here, we're going to have
00:38:03at least a couple days just
00:38:05to ourselves before her dad
00:38:07gets here and we get married.
00:38:09Just cuddling, that's going to be
00:38:11so hard to not, like,
00:38:13something happen.
00:38:15It's not going to be easy.
00:38:17Like, I know I'm a horny
00:38:19little s***.
00:38:23This is my last flight
00:38:25that I'm going to Kansas City
00:38:27and I'm so excited that I look
00:38:29pretty, that I'm going to meet
00:38:31Sam.
00:38:35Here we go.
00:38:39I don't know if I
00:38:41could describe it, the feeling of
00:38:43waiting, like, this long
00:38:45to see her.
00:38:49Can't be much
00:38:51longer, right? It's like riding
00:38:53a roller coaster is the only way I could say it.
00:38:55Like, when you're going down
00:38:57and you're just screaming for your life.
00:39:01I'm in Kansas City and I just
00:39:03landed here and I'm about to meet
00:39:05Sam. Like, I feel so nervous.
00:39:07My hands are shaking.
00:39:09Like, I feel like I want to poop.
00:39:11I'm just, like,
00:39:13really worried if I'm the same
00:39:15guy she remembers or, like, if
00:39:17anything's changed and we're not going to have that
00:39:19same connection that we did
00:39:21when I was out there.
00:39:25I thought I'm just ready to freak out
00:39:27as soon as I hear that cute little accent
00:39:29of hers.
00:39:41Baby!
00:39:51Oh, my God.
00:39:53I missed you so f***ing much.
00:39:55You got a spin?
00:39:57No, I'm happy.
00:40:01I was trying, I was trying.
00:40:03You make it really good.
00:40:05You make it really good.
00:40:13Since last time I
00:40:15saw her, I forgot how tiny she is.
00:40:17Oh, yeah.
00:40:19Pretty as ever, though, and
00:40:21she looks good.
00:40:23I'm crying right now.
00:40:27Oh, it's been too long.
00:40:29I know.
00:40:31Look at your face.
00:40:33Was you expecting?
00:40:39It's been so hard without you.
00:40:41I know.
00:40:43It still feels like a dream,
00:40:45like she is pinching me
00:40:47just to make sure it is real
00:40:49and nothing's better than this.
00:40:51I miss that make-my-own-face
00:40:53small face for sure.
00:40:57You know how many people, like,
00:40:59they said, oh, I love the shirt.
00:41:01It's like...
00:41:03Some people in Cameron,
00:41:05but remember when you said
00:41:07never doubt you, you're always right?
00:41:09You are.
00:41:21And get married in two weeks.
00:41:31It's all a lot coming at us
00:41:33so quickly, and
00:41:35like, we still have to, like,
00:41:37it's first time kind of really being
00:41:39around each other all the time, so
00:41:41to do all that, it's just so much
00:41:43to take in, but I love her,
00:41:45so I'm ready for it.
00:41:47You're so pretty, babe.
00:41:53Whoa.
00:41:55Stop trying to steal it from me.
00:41:57I'm being attacked by goats.
00:41:59The goats attacking me
00:42:01is the most action
00:42:03I've had since you got here.
00:42:07Ah! You hit my nuts, man.
00:42:09Come on.
00:42:15Do you want to be like a ranchero?
00:42:17Yeah, no.
00:42:19I just wanted to remind you of your country.
00:42:21When you think of Peru,
00:42:23it's something you think about.
00:42:25The flames,
00:42:27and the cows.
00:42:29Yes.
00:42:41Oh, hello.
00:42:43Hi, welcome.
00:42:45Come on in.
00:42:47All right, make sure
00:42:49I don't have any stray chickens
00:42:51walk up for you.
00:42:53So I heard that you are
00:42:55from Peru,
00:42:57and a little homesick
00:42:59for all of the things
00:43:01that come with that,
00:43:03and so it's not quite the mountains of Peru,
00:43:05but we have some llamas we'd like you to meet
00:43:07and some other awesome farm animals,
00:43:09so we're excited to show you around.
00:43:25Oh.
00:43:35Come on through the gate.
00:43:37So this is Iggy Pop.
00:43:39Iggy Pop.
00:43:41If you'd like to feed him a carrot,
00:43:43just hold it nice and high
00:43:45so the goats know that it's not for them.
00:43:47Up nice and high.
00:43:49Good boy.
00:43:51So we have a very special thing
00:43:53that we do with our llamas here.
00:43:55Because they're so gentle,
00:43:57we'll do what we call a llama kiss.
00:44:03Nice little kiss.
00:44:09Ow, you hit my nuts, man.
00:44:11Come on.
00:44:13Hold on.
00:44:15Holy s***, where'd you come from?
00:44:17Holy s***, where'd you come from?
00:44:29Ah!
00:44:31Yes.
00:44:33I know, Clayton.
00:44:35Bah! Bah!
00:44:41I know.
00:44:43Mas, mas, mas.
00:44:47Bye.
00:44:49I think the llama scored me big points.
00:44:51Now I want to seal the deal
00:44:53as the best fiancé ever
00:44:55and give Annalie a taste of home.
00:44:57It might even get me lucky tonight.
00:45:05This is a Latin family restaurant.
00:45:17Por fin vas a comer nuevamente comida.
00:45:23Desde que llegué a Estados Unidos,
00:45:25mi dieta ha cambiado muchísimo.
00:45:29Su dieta de Clayton
00:45:31es muy distinta a la mía.
00:45:33Si Clayton tuviera la opción
00:45:35de comer hamburguesas todo el día,
00:45:37lo haría.
00:45:41¿Tú crees esto?
00:45:43Sí.
00:45:45Yeah.
00:45:47Oh, thank you, man.
00:46:07Clayton.
00:46:15Oh.
00:46:45Bueno.
00:47:15Básicamente,
00:47:17casi todos mis amigos
00:47:19están en línea
00:47:21porque estoy en línea
00:47:23jugando durante los años.
00:47:29¿Quieres decir
00:47:31que todos tus amigos son virtuales,
00:47:33que no los conoces?
00:47:35No, virtuales como robot.
00:47:37No, son personas reales.
00:47:39Exacto, pero a distancia,
00:47:41como que solo por...
00:47:43Computador, no físicamente.
00:47:45Sí, pero para mí,
00:47:47eso no importa.
00:47:49Mi mejor amigo
00:47:51desde hace 10 años
00:47:53o algo así
00:47:55es alguien que no conocí
00:47:57en persona.
00:47:59¿Hasta ahora?
00:48:01No, todavía.
00:48:05Para mí, una amistad funciona
00:48:07cuando están cerca y se conocen
00:48:09porque sabes más de esa persona
00:48:11y como que también sabes de su familia
00:48:13y eso, ¿no? Algo virtual.
00:48:15No puedo llamar
00:48:17mejor amigo a alguien que solo conocí
00:48:19en línea.
00:48:21OK, quizás no estamos de acuerdo.
00:48:25No sé por qué Clayton
00:48:27no tiene amistades en la vida real,
00:48:29pero es algo que me pone muy nerviosa.
00:48:31Pensé que al llegar
00:48:33a los Estados Unidos, Clayton me iba a presentar
00:48:35a sus amigos, íbamos a conocer
00:48:37y íbamos a poder relacionarnos un poco más.
00:48:39Tenemos una relación a distancia
00:48:41durante más de dos años,
00:48:43casi tres años.
00:48:45Pero nos vimos. Eso.
00:48:47Porque si no, nunca funcionaría.
00:48:49OK, no sé qué decir.
00:48:53Pero llego aquí literalmente
00:48:55solo Clayton y su mamá.
00:48:57Esto realmente me hace
00:48:59reflexionar y
00:49:01cuestionarme si
00:49:03realmente estoy tomando la decisión
00:49:05correcta de llegar hasta
00:49:07los Estados Unidos.
00:49:09¿Cómo puedo vivir así?
00:49:15I feel awful
00:49:17with my arms out.
00:49:19Well, you're not going to have your arms out.
00:49:21The wedding's in less than two weeks
00:49:23and I definitely feel like we're in a mini
00:49:25disaster right now.
00:49:27Devin, what's going on?
00:49:29No. Can I come in?
00:49:37I think this is
00:49:39the wedding dress. Oh, yeah.
00:49:41You can't see the dress until the wedding day.
00:49:43OK.
00:49:53Let's unpackage it in the bedroom instead of the kitchen
00:49:55so we don't get anything on it.
00:49:57My dress arrived today.
00:49:59I ordered a
00:50:01custom hanbok, which
00:50:03is the traditional dress they wear
00:50:05in Korea. It's pretty important
00:50:07to Nick because there's not really a lot
00:50:09incorporated in our wedding
00:50:11to represent Nick's culture
00:50:13and he's also wearing
00:50:15the traditional clothes and he
00:50:17doesn't want to be the only one.
00:50:19I'll let you get it
00:50:21pulled out of there. Let's see what you got.
00:50:29It's gorgeous.
00:50:31What do you think of the top?
00:50:33It'd be fine
00:50:35if it was not gold.
00:50:39I hate gold.
00:50:45I thought it was just all white.
00:50:47I don't think gold looks good on me.
00:50:49I think you need to try it on
00:50:51so that we at least know if it fits or not
00:50:53and then we'll figure out what to do.
00:50:55The wedding's in less than two weeks
00:50:57and I definitely feel like we're in a mini
00:50:59disaster right now.
00:51:01I know her personality since the day she was
00:51:03born and I know that she will not walk
00:51:05down the aisle in anything other
00:51:07than what she feels beautiful in
00:51:09and what makes her happy.
00:51:26I love it.
00:51:28Does it fit good?
00:51:30It fits.
00:51:32It fits, but
00:51:34the gold's a no-go.
00:51:36I'll make some
00:51:38calls and see if somebody can redo the top.
00:51:40Alright?
00:51:42Okay.
00:51:44Devin never really
00:51:46appears as upset as what she really
00:51:48is because she's such an introvert
00:51:50with her emotions, but I know
00:51:52her body language. She is
00:51:54in distress over the situation
00:51:56so hopefully we'll be able to
00:51:58make some adjustments to that dress,
00:52:00but I don't know how much time it will
00:52:02take a seamstress to make the
00:52:04changes that Devin would like to see made.
00:52:14We're getting close.
00:52:16Are you gonna
00:52:18cooperate?
00:52:20I'm here.
00:52:22Given the time crunch, I'm not
00:52:24confident that she's gonna be able to wear that
00:52:26Korean dress of choice down the aisle.
00:52:28She needs to have a
00:52:30backup dress,
00:52:32but it's gonna be hard
00:52:34for us to even get her to consider an alternative
00:52:36because she had her heart set on what she
00:52:38wanted.
00:52:40Come on, you know you're a little excited.
00:52:42Hi, how are
00:52:44you guys? What are you shopping
00:52:46for today? We're looking
00:52:48for some wedding dresses for her to try on.
00:52:50Alrighty, what size? Probably
00:52:52six to eight. Okay, let me show you real quick.
00:52:58Anything you wanna try
00:53:00on so far? Nope.
00:53:02What draws your eye?
00:53:04Nothing has drawn my eye yet.
00:53:06I already
00:53:08hate dress shopping in general, so
00:53:10having to dress shop for a
00:53:12dress that I don't even want is
00:53:14kind of torture.
00:53:16Is there at least one or two here you like
00:53:18that you could at least try on?
00:53:20I'm not a big fan of any of them.
00:53:22Here, why don't you grab that
00:53:24one and grab this one and let's try those on.
00:53:26I've never had a root canal,
00:53:28but I think it would compare
00:53:30to having to try on all these dresses
00:53:32right now.
00:53:42I love it.
00:53:48She doesn't love it.
00:53:52I mean, thoughts?
00:53:54I feel awful with my
00:53:56arms out. Well, you're not
00:53:58gonna have your arms out.
00:54:02Do you wanna go try on another one?
00:54:04Yeah.
00:54:06It does look like her dress.
00:54:08I know she's optimistic that that
00:54:10dress is gonna be fixed, but you know,
00:54:12as well as I do, on that wedding day,
00:54:14if that dress is not ready or doesn't work out,
00:54:16well,
00:54:18we'll all be paying.
00:54:22I can understand when you have your heart set on something.
00:54:24I know Devin's personality.
00:54:26She's always been pretty particular,
00:54:28but at this point,
00:54:30Devin does not have a dress
00:54:32that is wearable, and so
00:54:34I think it's reasonable to have a
00:54:36backup plan.
00:54:38That's pretty.
00:54:40Okay. That's nice.
00:54:42What do you think?
00:54:46I don't want
00:54:48the backup dress.
00:54:52So, what are you gonna get
00:54:54married in if the other one falls apart?
00:54:56Is there even one of them that you kinda, sorta
00:54:58like?
00:55:02Devin.
00:55:04Answer.
00:55:06No. Okay, I'm done.
00:55:08Just go. Go.
00:55:10My mom was
00:55:12always trying to give us advice or
00:55:14what we should do.
00:55:16There are definitely certain situations
00:55:18where, yeah, it's too much. It's just
00:55:20straight up nagging.
00:55:22Let me unzip you real quick.
00:55:26I know she's difficult, but I honestly thought
00:55:28that she would at least
00:55:30be like, okay, I kinda like this one.
00:55:36So, I think
00:55:38she's a little upset. She's kinda crying.
00:55:40You can come back through here.
00:55:42She's over here.
00:55:44She's on the last one
00:55:46to the right.
00:55:52No.
00:55:54Can I come in?
00:55:56Devin, what's going on?
00:55:58No.
00:56:00Open the f***ing curtain.
00:56:02From this point on, the dress situation's
00:56:04out of my hands. I'll be there to support her,
00:56:06answer any questions, help her.
00:56:08But, I just hope
00:56:10that when her wedding day comes, that
00:56:12the right thing happens, it comes together,
00:56:14she walks down that aisle, and I'll be there
00:56:16to support her.
00:56:18I'll be there to support her.
00:56:20I'll be there to support her.
00:56:22I'll be there to support her.
00:56:24I'll be there to support her.
00:56:26As it comes together, she walks down that aisle
00:56:28a happy bride, and that Devin and Nick
00:56:30can start their marriage off on a good note.
00:56:32Tonight certainly wasn't the happy bride
00:56:34that I wanted to see.
00:56:36Why are you upset?
00:56:56Always.
00:57:08Looking for wedding bands. Preferably
00:57:10none of these crazy-looking priced ones.
00:57:12This is extremely embarrassing
00:57:14and, like, awkward for me right now.
00:57:16White gold? Yellow gold? Cheap gold.
00:57:18This is actually meant to be a really
00:57:20special moment, but I just don't even
00:57:22want to be here.
00:57:24Ain't no way. Too expensive.
00:57:54Dos perros, dos culles y todo esto.
00:58:00Clayton, siempre hay
00:58:02cosas aquí, por todos lados.
00:58:06Pienso que este apartamento
00:58:08es solo para una persona.
00:58:10Pero
00:58:12somos tres
00:58:14con cuatro mascotas.
00:58:18Todo sería
00:58:20distinto en nuestra relación con Clayton
00:58:22si su mamá tuviera
00:58:24su propio espacio, su propio hogar.
00:58:26Es que ya no hay
00:58:28más aquí.
00:58:30This kitchen's kind of getting, like, cluttered
00:58:32up again, and it's frustrating
00:58:34that there's so much stuff in here.
00:58:36Well, it's Annalise's mess.
00:58:38I was going to wait to see if she cleaned it up first.
00:58:52Hi.
00:58:54Hi.
00:59:06Always.
00:59:22No.
00:59:46Of course.
00:59:52Yes.
00:59:54Yes.
01:00:24Es buena idea, supongo.
01:00:28It's exciting to go to San Diego,
01:00:30but it's also super weird
01:00:32because I'm not the best
01:00:34in social situations.
01:00:36It's just going to be strange meeting someone
01:00:38that I've virtually met
01:00:40a decade and a half ago.
01:00:54Estamos aquí, me siento un poco
01:00:56abrumada,
01:00:58como que estoy solo en este lugar
01:01:00y no vamos a más lugares.
01:01:02Quizás, no sé,
01:01:04¿podemos ir a verlo?
01:01:06No.
01:01:08Sí, panda.
01:01:12Este primer mes en Estados Unidos
01:01:14me abierto
01:01:16los ojos y me da un poco
01:01:18de miedo.
01:01:20Antes de que nos casemos,
01:01:22quiero ver que Clayton
01:01:24tenga un amigo real para ver que
01:01:26tenga este tipo de relación.
01:01:28La vida no solo
01:01:30puede ser Violet,
01:01:32Clayton, sus mascotas.
01:01:34Tiene que haber un círculo más grande.
01:01:36Tiene que conocer
01:01:38a más gente.
01:01:40Porque si es así,
01:01:42no sé si nuestra relación
01:01:44va a perdurar.
01:01:52♪
01:01:54♪
01:01:56♪
01:01:58♪
01:02:00♪
01:02:02♪
01:02:04♪
01:02:06♪
01:02:08♪
01:02:10♪
01:02:12♪
01:02:14So, do you really feel confident
01:02:16that you're going to be happy with just me
01:02:18for the rest of your life?
01:02:20Yeah.
01:02:22Knowing that you have this big question mark
01:02:24in your head
01:02:26about what it would be like to be with a woman.
01:02:28There hasn't been a woman I've met
01:02:30that I've caught feelings for and did anything.
01:02:32Like, there was nothing like that.
01:02:34I mean, that's very convenient
01:02:36for you to sit here and tell me
01:02:38that no woman who walked by caught your attention.
01:02:40This isn't a part. That's not how you figured it out.
01:02:42I don't believe that.
01:02:44I just find it interesting that you spend so much time
01:02:46being so concerned about me
01:02:48thinking anything other than you is attractive,
01:02:50and yet you've literally, in secret,
01:02:52been looking at women.
01:02:54When do you see me
01:02:56eyeing women down in the street?
01:02:58What the are you talking about?
01:03:00I haven't been trying to be with anyone else but you.
01:03:02I need you to work out.
01:03:04I've sacrificed so much for you,
01:03:06and you can't even take one thing I've said to you
01:03:08as a attack, but it's my personal...
01:03:10It's nothing to do with you.
01:03:12We're supposed to buy rings?
01:03:14I don't... I have nothing to say to you at the minute.
01:03:16Maybe I have time to think about it,
01:03:18but right now, let's focus on getting rings
01:03:20if you still want to get them.
01:03:22Sophie just dropped a bombshell on my lap
01:03:24telling me she's bisexual,
01:03:26but we have only two months
01:03:28left to get married,
01:03:30and I really don't have the luxury of time
01:03:32to figure out what that means for her,
01:03:34for us.
01:03:36Let's go.
01:03:38But, yeah,
01:03:40let's go look at rings.
01:03:42Did you just lock me in?
01:03:44No.
01:03:46I'm not trying to do that.
01:03:48But you locked me in.
01:03:58How can I help you today?
01:04:00Uh, looking for wedding bands.
01:04:02Wedding bands, okay.
01:04:04Preferably none of these crazy-looking people
01:04:06that you see on the street.
01:04:08Uh, I don't know.
01:04:10Preferably none of these crazy-looking
01:04:12priced ones.
01:04:14I'll show you guys over here.
01:04:16White gold, yellow gold?
01:04:18Cheap gold.
01:04:20I don't got cheap gold. Everything's good.
01:04:2214, 18, I'll show you some good ideas.
01:04:24Well, I need you to show me your cheapest rings
01:04:26because these look expensive.
01:04:28This is extremely
01:04:30embarrassing and, like, awkward for me
01:04:32right now. He's just taking
01:04:34his mood out on the ring guy.
01:04:36Like, I feel like, you know, we have personal issues
01:04:38and you don't need to bring the ring guy into it.
01:04:40Like, I just feel like this is actually meant to be
01:04:42a really special moment of, you know,
01:04:44getting wedding rings.
01:04:46And it's just a really weird, awkward,
01:04:48uncomfortable, like...
01:04:50I just don't even want to be here.
01:04:54No, I've got some nice ones like this.
01:04:56Something like this. You got to do a thousand.
01:04:58Nah. Ain't no way.
01:05:00Too expensive. Too expensive?
01:05:02Too expensive by about $800.
01:05:04She's here from another country,
01:05:06and we have a deadline
01:05:08to get married. We're doing a K-1 visa.
01:05:10Oh, nice. So, basically, once she gets here,
01:05:12we have 90 days to get married.
01:05:14How's the 90 days been going?
01:05:16It's definitely been some
01:05:18new problems, some old
01:05:20problems.
01:05:22Everything's got to come out. All the information comes
01:05:24out, and that s**t sometimes catches you off guard
01:05:26and you might not
01:05:28be ready for it.
01:05:30She told me some s**t earlier today I didn't know
01:05:32about her, and it's like, man, I'm still
01:05:34learning about her and still trying
01:05:36to figure out, you know, what that means.
01:05:38Right?
01:05:40I'm not talking about it right now.
01:05:42It's alright.
01:05:44The first thing I told Rob,
01:05:46you know, after I told him was,
01:05:48can you please not tell anyone? That was something about me that's
01:05:50personal. And now, it sounds
01:05:52like I've done something awful. I just feel
01:05:54like that's unnecessary. Like, we're supposed to be getting rings,
01:05:56we're supposed to be, you know, a cute moment, and he's kind of
01:05:58making it a bit like, oh, well, I have to watch out
01:06:00for her. She's telling me all this stuff.
01:06:02I just feel like that was a bit of a dick move.
01:06:06Do you have two rings
01:06:08that together will be under $500?
01:06:10Yes. I'll take care of it. I got you something like these.
01:06:12If you want to do tungsten, I could get you something
01:06:14like this. Both of these, I could do $250.
01:06:16Something like that. I have more options.
01:06:18You have another option for her that's a little
01:06:20girlier. Yep. Something like this.
01:06:24I think it also, you know, matches to what you have.
01:06:26I like the guy one.
01:06:28But do you think the girl one's cute or no?
01:06:30Because the only reason I like it is because it matches.
01:06:32This doesn't match.
01:06:34I like it. It's in our price range
01:06:36and it goes well with your ring.
01:06:38Yeah. I mean, it's nice. I like it.
01:06:40And you guys agreed to it. Right, which is great.
01:06:42That's the best part. We agreed? Exactly.
01:06:44We agreed. It's like a team effort here.
01:06:46That's definitely the best part.
01:06:48Finally agreeing on something. Right.
01:06:50It's crazy seeing you with these rings on.
01:06:52Man, I ain't... This is it right here.
01:06:54It goes on the left? Yeah, the left side.
01:06:56I ain't never had a ring on my left finger.
01:06:58My left ring finger.
01:07:00That's good.
01:07:02And you appreciate how that looks next to your ring?
01:07:04I think that looks good.
01:07:06I mean, as long as you have one on your finger,
01:07:08then I guess it's not too much.
01:07:10And one day,
01:07:12maybe I'll come back and get you that mug right there.
01:07:14It just keeps catching my eye.
01:07:16That one's ugly. I wouldn't get that one.
01:07:18Never mind. Just being honest.
01:07:20So today's been a bit of a weird day.
01:07:22But, you know, I love Sophie
01:07:24and I really hope that things work out
01:07:26and that she does choose me
01:07:28and that when we are up there
01:07:30saying I do, that she does say I do
01:07:32and, you know, things will be all right.
01:07:34That's yours.
01:07:36Oh, cute. Look.
01:07:38It looks so cute.
01:07:40It looks so cute.
01:07:42Sophie got the ring and I got the prize.
01:07:44Wait, I got the prize?
01:07:46You got the prize.
01:07:48The prize. That's me.
01:07:50Exactly. I said I got...
01:07:52You said I got the prize.
01:07:54Okay.
01:07:56You're the prize. Yes. Thank you.
01:08:00Cheers, baby.
01:08:02Nice, guys. Congratulations.
01:08:04Appreciate you, man.
01:08:08David, does it feel like Panama?
01:08:10Oh, my gosh.
01:08:12What are you doing?
01:08:14You're burying it all.
01:08:16Goodness gracious.
01:08:18I have to collect as much sun energy
01:08:20as I possibly can because
01:08:22I'm so happy.
01:08:24Miami, here we come.
01:08:36Again, going through the list.
01:08:38How many times?
01:08:40Do you have your passport?
01:08:42The last time I saw
01:08:44my passport was when I was
01:08:46coming from Panama.
01:08:48Oh, wait.
01:08:50I have your passport.
01:08:52I'm sorry. I got it.
01:08:54I took it. Sorry.
01:09:00Um...
01:09:02What else do you need?
01:09:04Do you have your sunglasses?
01:09:06Baby, I'm not going through that list again.
01:09:08I just packed
01:09:10whatever I found
01:09:12and I thought that I might need.
01:09:14If we miss something,
01:09:16it's not that we are going to...
01:09:18If we miss something, we're going to be screwed.
01:09:20That's why I made a list.
01:09:22No, it's Miami.
01:09:24We go shopping.
01:09:26I don't want to forget anything.
01:09:28I'm very organized.
01:09:30You're a planner and I'm useless,
01:09:32so it's a perfect combination.
01:09:34Let's go.
01:09:36We've been fighting
01:09:38Unstoppable for so long
01:09:40and it has to stop.
01:09:42And I do believe that maybe
01:09:44going to Miami,
01:09:46a new environment, you know,
01:09:48it's going to set up the mood
01:09:50for a romantic getaway.
01:09:52I hope so.
01:09:54What?
01:10:02I can't wait to be there
01:10:04and forget about wearing these
01:10:06huge amounts of clothes all the time, right?
01:10:10So it's weird because airports
01:10:12in the past have, you know,
01:10:14kind of been depressing for us
01:10:16because I used to have to say goodbye
01:10:18to Jasmine in Panama and that was very difficult.
01:10:20But not this time
01:10:22because we are traveling together.
01:10:24Bye, Michigan.
01:10:28Woo!
01:10:30Bye, crappy weather.
01:10:42Oh.
01:10:44Baby, does it feel like Panama?
01:10:46Oh, my gosh.
01:10:48I want to take this off.
01:10:50I'm so happy.
01:10:54What are you doing?
01:10:56You're burying it all.
01:10:58Goodness gracious.
01:11:00It feels so good.
01:11:02Wow, look at you, woman.
01:11:04Right now, I'm like a cactus.
01:11:06I have to collect
01:11:08as much sun energy as I can
01:11:10because when I'm back in Michigan,
01:11:12it's over.
01:11:14This is so me.
01:11:16I'm crying, baby,
01:11:18but this is happiness.
01:11:20Tears of happiness.
01:11:22Woo!
01:11:24Miami, here we come.
01:11:26God bless America.
01:11:36Wow, look at you.
01:11:38Oh, my God.
01:11:40Let me take a picture.
01:11:46Look at the cruise ships over here.
01:11:48You see the cruise ships?
01:11:50There's a harbor right over here
01:11:52and this is like our skyline.
01:11:54Do you speak Spanish?
01:11:56I do.
01:12:08Oh, you don't speak much English.
01:12:10No, I do.
01:12:12I do, but a lot of people here,
01:12:14like, it's not a necessity.
01:12:16I feel like Miami is the place
01:12:18where I belong here
01:12:20in the United States.
01:12:22I could easily fit in.
01:12:24It feels amazing.
01:12:26It's like living the American dream
01:12:28in a Latin American way.
01:12:30It's like living the American dream
01:12:32in a Latin American way.
01:12:34It's like living the American dream
01:12:36in a Latin American way.
01:12:38I can't believe it.
01:12:40This is like my country.
01:12:46Wow.
01:12:48This is nice.
01:12:50What do you think, Jasmine?
01:12:52I love this place.
01:12:54You love it, right?
01:12:56Ooh!
01:12:58Go ahead.
01:13:00You can go first.
01:13:02I'm tired of dragging this bag everywhere.
01:13:04Aw, this is a cute room.
01:13:06I know.
01:13:08Wow, look at this.
01:13:10Cookies!
01:13:12It's got a balcony and everything.
01:13:14Air conditioning.
01:13:16Wow, this is a comfortable bed.
01:13:18Wow, this is a comfortable bed.
01:13:20It is awesome out here.
01:13:22It is awesome out here.
01:13:24Oh, my gosh.
01:13:26All these palm trees.
01:13:28We only have, like, a month
01:13:30before we get married.
01:13:32This is like our pre-honeymoon.
01:13:36I mean, you know, I hope so.
01:13:38I want to go and check the pool.
01:13:40I'm interested to see it.
01:13:42It's a beautiful room, though.
01:13:44I love it.
01:13:48Wow.
01:13:50Oh, wow.
01:13:54I love it.
01:13:56Warm water.
01:13:58Look at this little cabana.
01:14:02What do you think?
01:14:04Like, I am so happy
01:14:06to be here, but at the same time,
01:14:08it just constantly reminds me
01:14:10of how much I miss
01:14:12Panama
01:14:14and my family and everything back there.
01:14:16Yeah, I bet.
01:14:18It's like bittersweet, kind of, you know?
01:14:20I told Juan,
01:14:22said, you know, Mommy and Papa Gino,
01:14:24we are going to Miami,
01:14:26and he immediately started to look
01:14:28for maps and all that,
01:14:30telling me that, oh, Mommy,
01:14:32you're going to be closer to me now.
01:14:34Oh, man, that
01:14:36touched my heart when he said that.
01:14:38Yeah, yeah.
01:14:40Because I know that he's struggling
01:14:42because he wrote a letter.
01:14:44He wrote in the letter, like,
01:14:46how much he missed me.
01:14:48Oh, really?
01:14:50Yeah, and that really worries me
01:14:52because he literally wrote in the letter,
01:14:54I'm sad.
01:14:56Oh, wow.
01:14:58I don't want my mom to be causing,
01:15:00like, a trauma on him
01:15:02because he's very, very
01:15:04attached to me.
01:15:06Once we
01:15:08were married, please promise
01:15:10that it's going to be a priority
01:15:12to bring my kids.
01:15:14Yeah, the plan
01:15:16has always been to bring your
01:15:18children here as soon as we possibly could.
01:15:20We should start looking into it
01:15:22now. I mean, look,
01:15:24we made progress. We got you into the United States.
01:15:26That's a huge first step.
01:15:28That's the hardest part, to be honest.
01:15:30It's very
01:15:32hard for me to explain
01:15:34how it feels to have my family
01:15:36so far away from me.
01:15:38My happiness
01:15:40will never be complete unless
01:15:42we are all together.
01:15:44Let's make a video for Juanse
01:15:46so he can see how beautiful Miami is.
01:15:48Yeah.
01:15:50Hello, Juanse!
01:15:52Woo!
01:15:54Miami!
01:15:58Say hi, baby.
01:16:00Hi, Juanse! Hola!
01:16:02How are you doing?
01:16:04Speak to him in Spanish.
01:16:18Yes!
01:16:20We love you, Juanse!
01:16:22Te queremos!
01:16:24You're gonna be here
01:16:26with us soon, baby.
01:16:28Yeah, don't put your phone over the rail.
01:16:30Okay, baby.
01:16:36Baby, let me explain it.
01:16:38Mierda.
01:16:40What?
01:16:42You.
01:16:44Maybe that's why
01:16:46you just want to make love to me
01:16:48and there's someone else.
01:17:18Now I know why you don't want to make love to me.
01:17:20Why?
01:17:22You're version?
01:17:24Honey, it's fine.
01:17:26What version?
01:17:28I want to hear.
01:17:30It's fine.
01:17:32What version?
01:17:34I want to hear.
01:17:36It's fine.
01:17:38It's fine.
01:17:40It's fine.
01:17:42It's fine.
01:17:44It's fine.
01:17:46It's fine.
01:17:48What version?
01:17:50Because what?
01:17:52Because what?
01:17:56You can think about that when I'm gone.
01:17:58What?
01:18:00You can think about that when I'm gone.
01:18:06I don't even know what to think.
01:18:08I'm hurt.
01:18:10I feel betrayed.
01:18:12I feel used.
01:18:14It's different if you make an agreement
01:18:16ahead of time.
01:18:18We have an open relationship
01:18:20while we're doing this whole process.
01:18:22You could do you.
01:18:24I do me.
01:18:26No, that was never discussed.
01:18:28I helped Justin
01:18:30when he really truly needed
01:18:32the most help
01:18:34in his life.
01:18:36Helping him financially,
01:18:38whatever he needed,
01:18:40I was there for him.
01:18:42That is, to me,
01:18:44a relationship.
01:19:12You are.
01:19:14You literally
01:19:16think it was, like, okay,
01:19:18to f*** other girls,
01:19:20like it wasn't real to you?
01:19:22Me sending you money whenever you needed help,
01:19:24it wasn't real to you?
01:19:26No, it's starting then.
01:19:28First, we're searching
01:19:30how to communicate with each other
01:19:32and see if that
01:19:34works.
01:19:36Then I change everything.
01:19:38To give you a ring, this is
01:19:40perfect.
01:19:42But don't forget,
01:19:44I love you.
01:19:48Even though
01:19:50Nikki's very mad,
01:19:52I don't feel bad
01:19:54because I told some truth.
01:19:56And I'm
01:19:58opening for everybody.
01:20:00I tell my friends
01:20:02and my parents, Nikki's chance.
01:20:04This is most
01:20:06important than I said
01:20:08you with some girl.
01:20:10I'm normal, of course, I like girls.
01:20:12This is normal stuff.
01:20:18Baby, let me explain you.
01:20:20This is not gonna happen again.
01:20:22We have, like, black-white
01:20:24position.
01:20:26You f***ed up. That's it.
01:20:28You f***ed up.
01:20:30What?
01:20:32You knew we were serious, right?
01:20:34I don't feel like that.
01:20:36Well, you should.
01:20:38Because you knew we were already serious.
01:20:40Mexico.
01:20:42You don't think that applying for
01:20:44a K1 visa, hiring an
01:20:46immigration attorney for us,
01:20:48that's not serious stuff?
01:20:50You thought that was a f***ing joke?
01:20:52Look, this period...
01:20:54And you're still f***ing bitches.
01:20:58Can we...
01:21:00this situation drop
01:21:02in the garbage?
01:21:04This situation is from nowhere.
01:21:06If I drop the situation in the garbage,
01:21:08you're going along with it.
01:21:10Because this situation is from nowhere.
01:21:12Okay?
01:21:16You know what?
01:21:18Like, I'm so
01:21:20emotionally drained right now.
01:21:22I'm just ready to go back to your apartment
01:21:24and
01:21:26do a lot of thinking.
01:21:28Okay, baby.
01:21:30Let's go.
01:21:34Okay.
01:21:42I knew it.
01:21:48That's the worst part,
01:21:50is knowing
01:21:52the entire time,
01:21:54knowing something was off.
01:21:56Like, why even be
01:21:58with me?
01:22:00For what?
01:22:04I was already
01:22:06investing so much in my relationship
01:22:08with him,
01:22:10and then for him to not say it was, like,
01:22:12serious enough
01:22:14for him.
01:22:16It makes me question everything
01:22:18at this point.
01:22:24And maybe, like, I'm just, like,
01:22:26questioning everything, and maybe that's why
01:22:28you just want to make love to me.
01:22:30There's someone else.
01:22:32There's someone else.
01:22:40Like, and if I knew this, I would've
01:22:42stopped the K-1 visa.
01:23:02Next time on 90 Day Fiance...
01:23:04Show me that fat ass.
01:23:06You bang.
01:23:08No!
01:23:10The only thing that makes him that excited
01:23:12is American football.
01:23:14For the wedding, this is what I dream.
01:23:16The only problem is my family wouldn't be there.
01:23:18Even if we get
01:23:20married in Michigan, I still
01:23:22don't feel comfortable with the idea of your
01:23:24family going to our wedding.
01:23:26What are we doing today?
01:23:28Today's a big day.
01:23:30We're getting married.
01:23:32I'm nervous.
01:23:34Where's your dress?
01:23:36It's coming. It might already be there, though.
01:23:38I didn't get to see it finished.
01:23:40I'm just hoping that it looks
01:23:42how I envisioned.
01:23:44Let me do it.
01:23:46I'll reveal it for you.
01:23:52Nuestra prima
01:23:54Nuestra primera cita
01:23:56doble.
01:23:58I've known Cameron
01:24:00for what feels like half my life.
01:24:02I'm just hoping the conversations
01:24:04flow well.
01:24:06Virgin, because
01:24:08I'm effectively living as a virgin
01:24:10because we haven't been having sex recently.
01:24:12I just figured I would share that.
01:24:24Oh!
01:24:26Oh!
01:24:30She really wants this.
01:24:32I just worry. He runs off.
01:24:34Where does he go? He just doesn't get his way
01:24:36and he runs off? He's just going through
01:24:38a hard time. He doesn't know anybody here.
01:24:40I just feel like that's a cop-out answer.
01:24:42I'm sorry.
01:24:46There's something I kind of need to tell you.
01:24:48I'm probably not going to be able to get
01:24:50the virgin, babe.
01:24:52What is affect to us?
01:24:54Now I have to go to court and
01:24:56hear what the prosecutor, if he offers
01:24:58probation, jail time.
01:25:00What?
01:25:02I don't know what to do. I just want
01:25:04to go back to Indonesia.
01:25:08I didn't say I was trying to have sex with anyone.
01:25:10You're not even married yet and you're thinking about
01:25:12other people. Have you seen
01:25:14videos of women in my phone? Have you seen
01:25:16anything? Why can't I talk?
01:25:18You're just disrespecting me. That's my point.
01:25:20That's my point.
01:25:22It just sounds crazy to me that I disrespected you.
01:25:24I just want to know my man only wants me
01:25:26and I can get the trust back with you.