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00:00We are going to review now TechLead manipulating and gaslighting CoffeeZilla. Let's start.
00:05Start. I went to him. He says nobody goes to him. Nobody hears his...
00:08Basically, CoffeeZilla reaches out to him and says that he wants to make a video about his scam.
00:14So he presents the data and asks for his feedback. And now look how TechLead replies.
00:19...to the story. People just make videos without going to him. The video we're all talking about,
00:22the million token stuff, I went to him. Hey, I'm making a video about million token. You know,
00:25you said you put a million dollars of your own money. I can't see that. And also he's
00:27running ads on it. His response to me is... Hey man, long time no chat. Your channel's
00:34been fire lately. I've been enjoying the content and your 10 million studio. What kind of game is
00:40he playing? He's trying to pass it as if the two are friends and friendly. You do not usually
00:45attack your friend. You tend to stand by their side. So he's trying to frame the two of them
00:51as chummy and good friends. Also notice when he says 10 million studio, this is some kind
00:56of an insider joke because CoffeeZilla often joked about his 10 million studio, which is not
01:02a 10 million studio. It's a simple studio like this one I have here. So the joke suggests that
01:08TechLead is following CoffeeZilla, which again is one way of ingratiating CoffeeZilla. One,
01:15it suggests I'm following you. I'm a fan. Two, it also makes CoffeeZilla feel closer to him.
01:20This is all manipulation. However, it's very easy to spot. It's very easy because CoffeeZilla
01:26obviously is bringing some troubles to him. So all this game comes across as very, very cheap,
01:32very slimy, very low level, and what on Deepower Moves we will call Turkey behavior. Let's keep
01:39going. I'm not asking for sympathy, but it's exactly what he's gonna do. Again, this is super
01:46slimy because it is so obvious. This is how an autistic person will manipulate. Needless to say,
01:53I despise this kind of behavior. I look down on it, and I think you should as well. You cannot
02:00have a relationship with this type of person. If you're a honorable person or want to be a
02:05honorable man, a person like this, you need to cut out from your life and be as far away as
02:10you possibly can. Lately, I lost my three-year-old son. Remember? Because he got divorced. Again,
02:15trying to pass it as if they were closer than they actually are. He says, remember? As if,
02:20you know, we've been in touch. You know what's going on in my life, etc. etc. And it's a huge
02:25pity play. Sets us up as if he's not asking for sympathy, but it's exactly what he's doing.
02:31So the game here is, look at me. Poor me. I am suffering. So please do not add to my woes
02:41or you're a bad person. That's the game. Classic pity play. Life's rough. Still is. I don't get
02:47to see him. Parental alienation. It's depressing. By the way, I want to make a quick note here.
02:50Parental alienation, this guy tries to frame his ex-wife as a mean person who takes his child away.
02:58However, that woman is doing exactly what a smart woman should be doing. A guy like this,
03:04you do not want to have as a father to your child. Remember, a boy or even a girl is better off with
03:10a father. However, it's better not to have a father than to have a toxic one. And to me,
03:16this type of manipulator is a toxic person. What is he going to teach to your son? This woman is
03:22doing the smartest thing possible. Take that child as far away from this guy as possible. To this guy,
03:29I would say, you're a bitch. Of course, your wife does not want you in her life. Let's keep going
03:34anyway. I hope your family's been well. Also, please notice the question. I hope your family's
03:41been well, man. Super slimy, super manipulative. You have to think like these people think. And
03:47they are always thinking about emotionally manipulating you. So what does that serve in
03:52his mind? That serve to set up the difference between him, who is supposedly in such a terrible
03:59mental state and anguish, versus Coffizilla, who is likely much better off. So that makes Coffizilla
04:07feel even worse in case he wanted to keep attacking him. Because then the frame becomes
04:13I'm doing okay or well and this guy is below here. How can I attack him without being a total
04:20asshole? Another tactical move to try to gain an edge on him. Very manipulative. But again,
04:26it's super sneaky and weak. Let's keep going. I actually don't have anything to say negatively
04:33about him as a father. I have no idea. Well, okay, he's right. I haven't done the same.
04:38I was very judgmental, but I truly believe in it. Why would you want your child to learn
04:44this type of behavior? You don't want to. Then take him away. I'm sure he's fine. I feel bad.
04:50I don't think it's fine. It's not the question I asked. It's like a total deflection. He's like,
04:55hey, I have a I have problems in my life. You can't criticize me. Remember,
04:59exactly, exactly. He got it. That was the game. Smart guy, as I said, guy who's saying we don't
05:04reach out. I say, hey, that's nice of you to say. But setting all that aside, I've got questions
05:09about million. Good, good, good. Fantastic technique. First, you say, hey, thank you.
05:13Thank you. And then you move it aside very quick. Go back to your main point. Well done.
05:17The ones above notwithstanding, it seems like you've been basically making millions of dollars
05:20with Ponzi Nomics and basically pitching a get rich quick scheme to people, which is true. If
05:23you look at a million token, this million token right here, peaked at two hundred and one.
05:26By the way, the people who bought this token, man, you need to learn a little bit of basics
05:31about manipulation, about games people play, about marketers, about how to recognize an
05:37asshole. Basically, you cannot go through life and buy this crap and believe this kind of person,
05:42because, again, this is how an autistic person will manipulate. This is the easiest to recognize.
05:49If you cannot recognize this type of toxic character, then imagine what you will do
05:55with the far better manipulator that exists in the world. And by the way, if you want to learn
06:00manipulation and advanced manipulation dynamics, Power University in the link in the description
06:06is the perfect opportunity for you. Our students learn to recognize toxic people, manipulator,
06:13takers and all the people you want to avoid and the ones you want to have in your life.
06:17And by the way, it will also teach you how you should behave, because the best way to attract
06:22the best people is to become a honorable man. Let's keep going. It's now worth a dollar,
06:2720 cents. OK, people, that's even too much for that crap. I'm destroyed on this token.
06:34Then technically, this is so ridiculous that it's comical. This is the story on child abduction in
06:41Japan. This is how some gaslighter do. They will try to confuse you with random topics that have
06:47nothing to do with what you're talking about. This is the story of child abduction in Japan.
06:51So what? We're talking about a completely different thing.
06:55Fonsis, he says, oh, I wish people would come to me. I'd give them my side of the story.
06:58He starts talking about child abduction in Japan. Maybe you can do a story about that.
07:02So now he's trying to spin like he's giving him advice on what would be interesting for him to
07:07cover. So one, he tries to divert his attention and two, he frames it as he's giving some value.
07:14Of course, Coffizilla is a smart guy and he doesn't fall for it.
07:17Help me get my son back. No, help keep that boy as far away from this guy. He's only going to grow
07:25better off. Completely ignore it. You've made 3.3 million in USD and you also have another million
07:31in USDC on Uniswap. Everything about million is online. I'm not sure. Yeah, sure. Blah, blah,
07:35blah. Anyway, you get the point. This is also how gaslighter operate. They will try to open
07:39different topic, make friends with you. They will try any possible opportunity to sidetrack you,
07:45to move you away and to confuse you. Do not fall for this crap and subscribe to The Power Moves.
07:50Cheers, guys. Ciao, ciao.